I'm Not Like Other Girls... - REACTION
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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some girls that think they are NOT like other girls. Enjoy :)
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I crack a joke or two. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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When I was 19, I was “not like other girls.” I was flying for the first time, and the girl next to me was all dolled up, long straight hair, fur coat, fake lashes, full makeup, nails, the works. I thought “oh, another fake bitch, I’m not like her.” As we began going down for landing, my ears started popping like crazy and hurting. I was so scared, it was my first time flying, I didn’t know what to do. The “fake” girl called the flight attendant, got me a cup of water, and gave me an orbit to chew on so the pressure in my ears would go away. She talked to me to calm me down. I feel like a fucking piece of shit for thinking her appearance somehow reflected her personality, and that not having fake lashes is somehow more important than not being a little shit. I’ll always remember her.
i love this
Beautiful lesson. Thank you for sharing it with us!😊
That’s a really sweet story. I too learned a lesson due to the kindness and generosity of another. In fact this lesson changed my heart in a life altering way. I moved a hundred miles from everyone I knew and it would be a few days until I got paid. I spent every penny I had on a moving truck and deposits for utilities. I was outside a gas station trying to find change in a bmw I got as a gift. It looked as if I was rich. I was on the phone with a friend and was telling her that I’m a dollar away from being able to buy myself something to eat. A very dirty homeless man overheard me and walked up with an unopened bag of chips. With a strong southern accent he said, my darling I overheard you were hungry. All my previous encounters with the homeless took place when our family would volunteer at a soup kitchen and all those I interacted with were really rude or under the influence. I stupidly had a bunch of assumptions. The man who gave me his chips became a close friend and he eventually got cancer. The last time I saw him was when I took him to the emergency room because of complications from his cancer. Now I absolutely love cooking food for all the homeless people in my neighborhood when I can afford to. One thanksgiving I was too sick to visit family and a group of my homeless neighbors came to my apartment with enough food for a feast. They cooked for me. I will forever be changed by the love shown to me by Michael Shoaf aka “Tramp”, not because he’s promiscuous but because he’s a traveler… according to him.
@@unapologeticallyamy9031 god, this nearly made me cry, that sounds like an episode story, I’m glad you made friends with him and the others, even if it was just a little, I’m pretty sure you made him happy…your story is too heart warming for me, I gotta leave 🥲
I got a taste of something like that as well when I had my worst metal look phase(had to have a black outfit and makeup but not same way as emo because emo was lame, yeah I know "facepalm" ) . I saw a very dolled up girl(long shiny boots, mini skirt, leopard jacket etc and very long blonde hair) in the metal bar I used to go to and made assumptions of her. Well she thought I was her ex bf's new interest because he for some reason happened to sit near me. So we both had this prejudice towards each other. Then we got to know each other because she happened to be the gf of my new bf's best friend and we became really close friends. I also learned to love her style, it was really good look on her. I had some best times of my life with her. Thanks for those years M if you ever read this, I miss you. It shouldn't really matter what anyone likes to wear, especially at the first moment we meet them because it might very well be the one day of the year they happen to doll up. I am a little bit different from the norm with my music taste (for real, I like a lot of black metal and such that most new people I start to talk with have not heard about, but it is not because of to brag but because I just like them. I usually try to rather find a common musical interest because my taste is very wide) and sometimes clothes maybe but a lot is the same too. I have pink days, I have gamer days, I have snob days, sporty days and days when I have some comfy old faded leggings with holes. I have days when I like to listen to classical music or talk about some "sophisticated" topics and days when I search for makeup tips and beauty care or eat like a caveman. It is all in me and it is fine. Im unique and still the same,just like everyone else :)
"Can't we just enjoy things…" I remember an Italian once saying to me "We're not more sophisticated than the English. We just enjoy things for what they are, and not what we think other people's opinion will be about us liking it."
This is such a nice saying! I love it 😍 That could help solve so many problems with insecurities.
Love this!
Its ironic cause they're the first to attack if you enjoy pasta in ANY way that's not baba grammaw italiana's prime and solely authentic recipe that only she knows. 🤣😅
It's a very interesting saying, but as someone who's been living in Italy for four years, I can say that this is really far from the truth. Italians are superficial and image-conscious. They worry so much about what other people are going to say or think about them...
I couldnt disagree more sadly 😂😂 as an italian i can say all we think about is how other people perceive us lol
but my theory is that warmer countries just enjoy life more bc why wouldnt you do it when you have THE SUN?!? Eheh
I was like this in middle school, mostly because I was bullied mercilessly by most of the girls to the point I decided "I don't trust girls, girls are mean, guy friends are way better". Things turned around when I actually met decent people in high school. Then I went to college in a male dominant environment and learned guys can be every bit as dramatic and gossipy 😅
Yeah guys can be awful. And girls can be wonderful.
Me too.. i literally thought girls are worse than boys but let me tell you boys could be worst as hell too.. my perspective changed when i went to high school. Boys had shown me literal hell
When I was in middle school neither guy or girl friends seemed cool to me but I hung out with girls more, when I was highschool both guys and girls were less awful and in general more cool.
Now I'm in college, I now realize that be it guy or girl everyone is different but the majority of both genders are combinations of brain dead, bat shit crazy, annoying, quite cool, interesting and knowledgeable
You guys had better experience. Both guys are and girls were completely awful in highschool and I'm not having any more luck as an adult.
Girls can be difficult if they’re surface level and filter info through their feelings while other ones enjoy more abstract concepts/theories and filter info through logic and reason. Most females fit the former, and tend to exclude/ostracize the latter.
As a girl who doesn't wear makeup, I think it's super cool the literal works of art some people are able to do with makeup every day, and then just... wash off at the end of the day 😂😂😂
Okay I will admit, as somebody who loves makeup but doesn’t wear it everyday, sometimes the removal is sad. When I’ve created something that I really think is beautiful(maybe a look with a bright colour I hadn’t used before etc), I hate taking it off. I know I have to so I will have one last long look at my hard work, and then the cleansing balm goes on. That’s part of the fun though, the fact that each time I can do a totally different look and have fun with it and even if it’s not my best look it’s just for one day anyway.
It takes technical skills and I can't even get my eyeliner straight 😂
@@cosmicrae After I poked myself in the eye, I decided to stick to no makeup, mascara only, or full makeup on Halloween.
Same here 😂 I’m a ‘tomboy’ but I LOVE to watch makeup channels and it makes me buy all this makeup I have no skill to apply 😅 just watching these videos makes me think I can magically be good at makeup but I’m trying and that all that counts, just buying it and having pretty things makes me happy so who cares if it never goes on my face 😩🤣 haha
Same as the eldest of 3 girls, I am kinda obssessed with make-up but can't wear it because of sensitive skin. The make-up that would work is just too costly to be worth it since I work from home. I use lipsticks when I can, and live vicariously through my sisters and the make-up youtube lmao.
I'm not like other girls because all girls are uniquely different and are not the same! We are all different and that's beautiful.
See my comment! That’s exactly what I’ve taught my teenage daughters to respond with!!! 👏👏👏♥️
well ...
@@NativeNYerChicHK yes love that. I think this was towards girls who says this a lot and I'm like, is this what you mean?
@@FoodB12 We have got to band together in order to get people to treat us right. This line attempts (and sadly still too often succeeds) in pitting women against each other and that’s just so ugly. So yeah, I am BOTH just like every other girl AND not like any other girl on the planet - because we’re all individually unique and equally worthy of love, adoration and attention. So love me for who I AM, not for who I’m not. Don’t try to control how I behave and present myself under the threat that you’ll compare me to someone else. In that case? Boy, bye! Women are stronger and more confident when we lift each other up! ♥️
Exactly a guy once said that commit in a negative tone I wasn't familiar found him and idiot of accusing something that's a good thing no 2 people are identical of course all the ladies he meets a going to respond with that when they come at you with of all you girls the same no I me they all are all individual and I have nothing to do with whatever girl hurt him neither dose the whole female population
"Not like other girls" is basically internalized misogyny. I used to be a nlog person, however it was mostly because I was being shamed for liking "feminine" 0things. Now, I am unapolagetically feminine and I loooooove all things "feminine".
SAME! Recently expanded to 'I loooooove all things feminin, masculin, utopian & and all just what I love.
yas queen (did i say that right? i'm actually very old)
This, absolutely.
No it's not. It mostly came from girls who weren't considered "feminine" because they didn't fit in with the stereotype of what a woman has to be. Bottom line, women come in all shapes, sizes, interests, etc. We need to embrace every aspect of women without putting each other down and labeling one another.
@@Steph-yz4tn you're right, but it is still internalized misogyny - that's the part where we weren't embracing woman of all kinds
I'll never forget something one of my crushes said to me back when I was a wee teen. I remember I was confessing how I secretly liked makeup and fashion and "feminine" things, ashamed and thinking he'd think less of me for it. And he said "so? Why would you think those are bad?" It was the simplest thing, but it absolutely blew my mind. Nowadays I can barely remember what he looked like, but that simple, liberating realization will always be a part of me.
Totally had a "i'm not like other girls phase" and i still sometimes think "ugh i don't like that it's way too girly" and then i need to remind myself there's nothing wrong with "girly" things. Whatever!😊
It's also ok to not like "girly" things.
There's nothing wrong with having your own preferences, as long as you don't judge others for theirs.
I mean if you dont like feminen things it's totally okay that doesn't make you a I'm not like other girls
@@nansiipii9018 I think it's more like if we had a nlog phase we still have that voice in our head going "that's basic" or "that's too girly." when you grow up with a negative connotation of femininity, sometimes you have to remind yourself that there's nothing wrong with being feminine
@@Steph-yz4tn i think the point is that her instinct was to not like it because it was girly. Not just not liking girly stuff because is not her style.
Charlotte singing some System of a Down was a thing I didn’t knew I needed today 🤣 Thanks gurl 🥲
that was indeed rather surprising. Charlotte being metal as heck
same! that was not what i expected!
Right!! Love it when she gets her music groove going. 😄
I was very excited to sing with her
Right?! I loved that so much!
I remember my rebellion against pink, purples and florals and anything too “girly,” and then one day I just thought to myself “wtf is wrong with being a girl??” And in rebellion to the anti-girl sentiment I started wearing all the pink.
I think part of my own rebellion was based on my mother trying to force me into those kinds of clothes because "CUTE!" I mean, yes, cute, but I didn't choose the cute for myself at that time so I was gung-ho about never wearing frills, pink, cute, dresses and skirts. I look back and despair because I would have liked to have gotten more into the cute girly stuff at that age, just... having it forced on you at an age when you're trying to find yourself kinda makes a rebel of ya. XDDD
I did that too. I claimed I hated pink. I didn’t love it but I also didn’t hate it 😂 I just wanted to be different 😂.
I too eventually got over my derision for "girly" shades and accessories, but also never went all in on them. partially because a lot of that stuff that I can afford isn't made decent quality and won't hold up over time, and partially for sensory reasons (sticking mostly to men's shorts because I dislike the feeling of thigh rub, for example). I think ultimately what I'm against is the idea that we HAVE to wear certain things / adhere to certain arbitrary appearance standards in order to be seen as attractive or valuable. And that can apply to all genders.
I was also the same way too. But now I'm older I just do not care anymore what people think or if I don't fit in anymore with the "cool" kids. I've completely embraced pinks, purples, and floral and I look fantastic in them
So Ladies its like the "Circle of life" & alternating current.
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I worked on indie radio from 2007-2012 and I used to make up band names and ask my coworkers what they thought of them. I would make sure they weren’t actually bands and they would fall for it EVERY time
I always used to do this too to the pretentious music snob type lol they would always get SO mad.
One of my brothers told me I run like a girl and my response was duh! I am a girl. We really need to all support other people different interests and personalities are normal. Hating or dissing something because it’s a stereotype or common is really just silly.
once I realized that being feminine is not embarrassing - like I was taught - I became a much happier, more confident, and more accepting person. I started to enjoy life more and figure out who I am without misogyny getting in the way. peace and love and stop hating on teenage girls all the time its creepy and annoying
no thanks
Hell no it's not embarrassing. It's beautiful. I am very feminine myself and my guy friends approved of how much more feminine I am in comparison of females they know. And that it is something beautiful. I do feel good in my own body and energy. Don't let yourself tell you otherwise. Not even Beautystandards. You make your own Queen ✨👌
It's has nothing to do with misogyny..... it's literally women telling women that being feminine is bad.
It's just new wave feminists bringing women down.
@@squizzyicetea Actually it is misogyny. Part of misogyny is rejection or humilitation of everything, that is feminine. The philosophy of feminism says, that men and women are equal even if they are different. If some "feminist" is saying that being feminine is bad, it's just sign of internal misogyny.
Yes, I agree with you! Even tomboy girls or women are feminine, too. I get it a lot when someone told me I sound feminine than I text. It's nothing wrong to be feminine.
I love when these "Not Like Other Girls" posts get turned wholesome. It's such a refreshing change to twist the toxicity into wholesomeness and watch the og creators flounder.
1:30 this cartoon was so surprisingly wholesome it made my night a little bit sweeter, no lie.
True. That was cute
I also wholeheartedly agree with that last statement! I hated the stereotype that girls were just pink loving doll playing scared of getting hurt irrational airheads 🤦🏾♀️ So I tried to remove myself from that as much as possible. I’m so glad that I eventually realized the value of being a woman and embraced just being myself instead of being soooo afraid of playing into the “stereotypes.”
The one line I heard on youtube and that will forever stuck with me is when Emily Fox (books reviewer) did a review of a book in which the main guy said to his love interest: "You're not like other girls". And Emily said something along the lines: "WTF? Other girls are AWESOME. I want to be like other girls." And my mind was blown because yeah.. other girls ARE awesome.. and whether they like pink or black or makeup or hockey or both - it doesn't matter.
I love Emily too! Her drunk reviews are lit! Which video is this one from?
And I think every girl, no matter how "normal" or "stereotypical" they are, have many interesting/unique facets to their being. While other girls certainly have those characteristics, too, it's the combination and love for those characteristics that makes us all unique in our own way. I am a metal/goth lover(Ghost, Ozzy, Type O Negative), I love AEW wrestling, and I am super crafty(I sew much of my own clothing and make soap, looking to start a soap business this year). But there are SO many "other girl" traits, too. I like Pumpkin Spice Lattes. I like Adele(hell, even a Taylor Swift song or two). I even enjoyed the UGG craze, they kept my feet and shitty ankle joints warm! We all have stereotypical traits, and unique traits. And that's a good thing! lol....sorry, got a little philosophical...
@@lizthedisjointedzebra692 Don't forget fluffy jumpers and socks.
When I was younger I WANTED to be like other girls and felt like I completely failed at that and never fit in. Now I accept that it's harder to make and keep good friends but they are out there and not fitting in can be lonely. Just try your best and keep going.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I am a guy in my 30s and I can conclusively say after years of abusing my liver, fruity drinks are delish!
If your personality is tied to a drink, chances are there isn't much personality, no matter what your gender is haha
Hahaha best comment, agreed 🤣
Reminds me of the guy from Friends that was only fun when he was drunk. So sad.
It's actually a pretty fascinating phenomenon that girls tend to feel the need to differentiate themselves and be 'not like other girls', while men typically try to blend in with eachother and be 'one of the boys'
Women try to blend in too maybe more on a subconscious level but i think society tends to pit women against eachother by constantly comparing us and critiquing us. It's interesting we were raised with alot of male dominated movies and often only either superhuman or hypersexualized token female sidekick/love interest lol-not a whole lot of female empowerment going on til very recent years so it makes sense why there are so many gender identity issues...
Not like other girls was a thing made up by shy awkward girls that badly wanted-to fit it but couldn’t.
Omg I was such a “not like every girl” girl as a teen 😭 I was so confused about how I wanted to express myself because I had gotten bullied whenever I tried, but I still dressed strangely and acted out. I was a bit more of a tomboy and I was really mean and loud 😅 nowadays I’m self-aware and happy to like what I like and not be scared about liking it. I will say, it took until I hit 25 years old for me to finally get rid of my teenage mindset and figure it out :)
Wow, I went through a similar experience and I'm really happy for you
I almost did a spit take once when a guy at a bar told me “you’re not like other girls” while I was in the middle of ignoring him and checking out the female bartender.
Thanks for the laugh, that was funny.
"I'm not like other girls? Bruh i LIKE other girls!"
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Don't you just love it when guys assume your playing hard to get, couldn't possibly be just not attracted to them 🤣 (same for some ladies too)
Ba ha ha haaaa! 👍🏻😂
I can tell you exactly how my depression has effected my taste in music. I don’t listen to it. At all. Music can be incredibly emotional. When you are suffering from severe depression, in my case complex PTSD, getting emotionally blindsided is something you try to avoid. I mean, I watched the movie Free Guy a few months ago and it made me cry, like ugly cry. WTF. It’s not fun, let me tell you.
Also find it funny how this person thinks ppl who are depressed don’t listen to upbeat music to help with their condition. Some of my worst episodes where when I tried to consume everything I thought would make me happy so I actively avoided music that focused on depressing topics and chose to listen to pop and vocaloid where I could either A. Try to feel happy from upbeat music or B. Just vibe with the beat because I don’t speak Japanese 😂
I do the exact opposite
I have severe depression/anxiety issues and CPTSD just like you and I need my music to unwind. My music and books are literally what keeps me sane.
I'm so glad you pointed this out. Agree %100.
I resonate with this so much. Music can be painful when I’m in a really bad depression. Other peoples music can be intrusive and get me anxious, especially if it gives me flashbacks or feelings that I associate with trauma. Then there is the thing with being able to focus or rather inability to do so. It’s horrible and really lets me know when I’m doing better.
I think no one has terrible music taste, we all have different opinions on music and it doesn't matter what someone listens to or is into, everyone's taste in music is great. I agree with you Charlotte, everyone should just let people enjoy things.
I am sorry, that is probably a wholesome thought, but i think it is really wrong. Yes everyone should do what they enjoy, but also try new things and be aware of what is going on in the industry. Bo Burnham sang about it ua-cam.com/video/y7im5LT09a0/v-deo.html
"I'm not like other girls because I like Queen", as if Queen hasn't had an album in the UK Top Album charts for *1000 weeks!* Everyone loves Queen, and for good reason! Embrace it!
That last statement rings very true. As a teen I also thought I was "not like other girls". The one dimensional portrayal in combination with some major main-character-syndrome and a good seasoning of ADHD really did make me think I was oh so special xD Now, as a sociologist, I couldn't laugh harder about it.
girl, same (literally, to the tea 🤣 -substitute the main-character syndrome with extreme paranoia- same results)
excuse me ma'am, are you me?
am i you?
@@lvthn_ We're all ants 🐜 💖
@@courtneysailor it be like that xD
Girl, I’m a sociologist too (or well, almost) and i totally agree, lmaooo
Just going to leave this wonderful poem by Nikita Gill:
How dare you tell me ‘I am not like most girls’,
when those 'girls’ you refer to
are my sisters and mothers, my friends,
the very solace and the kindness I have sought
when the worst things in my life have happened?
How dare you assume
I should take that as a compliment,
and beam at you like it is praise
when you are alienating me
from the very core
of my proudly female being?
There are a thousand ways
to tell me you love me,
and making my sisters small
to make me big
isn’t one of them.
Tell me you love me, but not because I am different.
Tell me you love me, just because you do.
- ‘You Aren’t like Most Girls’ | Nikita Gill
Thanks an awesome poem! Thanks for sharing it.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
🥰 thanks for sharing that 🙌🏻
There is also this song by Hailee Steinfeld - most girls
It goes like this:
Some girls like to keep their physique real private
Some girls wear jeans so tight 'cause it feels so right, yeah
Some girls, every day searching, keep the page turning
Sleeping in late 'cause they just celebrating life
Most girls are smart and strong and beautiful
Most girls work hard, go far, we are unstoppable
"Most girls": Our fight to make every day, no two are the same
I wanna be like, I wanna be like most girls
Very nice.
I grew up as a mega tomboy and had a majority of male friends since 1st grade. But I never had a problem with being friends with girls or doing things with them that I might not have liked that were "girly". Nowadays I obviously realize none of that mattered lmao because I quite a bit of people were like that, and I'm pretty sure a lot of it had to do with me being gay, and/or my father showing me rock music and monster movies 💀💀
5:50 wow.....never sees this type before😳 ARMY's always be a fun people to hang out with.
True tbh I was expecting them to make fun of bts lol
I'm glad not
Speaking from a male perspective, my school years, like everyone else's, were really strange. I never knew what to say to my classmates, so I just listened. I said a few things that seemed to fit the conversation but I was clueless. I was always the one in the corner of the party not knowing what to do with myself. I dated a bit and listened... And listened... And listened. I finally met a girl who listened as much as I did, and we've been talking and listening ever since. I think the only difference between me and other guys is the fact I never knew what to say and let whoever just talk. Now, I'm retired... And TALK all over the place here in the comments section!
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Lol this tickled me. I think we were all equally clueless.... Some people just looked better clueless than others 🤣
@@Jerseybaby19 couldn't agree more 😂
This
@@Jerseybaby19 haha true
The "Stop being a bitch" about your periods makes me LIVID! Ppl & esp Docs need to stop thinking this way. Making women feel like they're just being a big baby about their periods can be damaging. It makes women not seek medical treatment when it's needed, and makes some Docs not listen to nor treat those women. Don't make women ignore problems with their anatomy. This is a HUGE reason why do many women suffer, for decades, from terrible things like ENDOMETRIOSIS without any help nor treatment.
Thankfully I DID goto my doctor. Thankfully, I have an amazing doctor who listened & BELIEVED ME instead of saying it was all in my head or I'm just being dramatic. And he ran tests & did an exploratory surgery & found what was wrong. My Endometriosis & Pelvic Congestion Syndrome were found in time for treatment, before much damage was done & instead of my needing any of my parts removed. I'm in remission, for over a decade now.
This is also what helped to diagnose me pretty early with Crohn's Disease.
I agree! I have PCOS and telling people not to take pain meds and stuff is so fustrating to me. Even with meds, the first couple of days is crippling. Suffering in pain does not make your body stronger or immune to things. It’s possibly a sign that you need to seek help for.
Exactly! Ohhh how I hate the No Pain Meds BS! There's no reason why we should suffer when we have the means make it hurt less. I understand the Opioid Epidemic & addiction, but it keeps doctors from helping those who are truly in pain.
I just had surgery to remove parts of my intestines for the 3rd time. Normally I wake w the push button pain medicine machine, but not this time. Bc they're not supposed to automatically give that anymore bc of the Opioid Epidemic. I'm like YOU JUST REMOVED BODY PARTS FROM ME! I spent the 1st 5hrs screaming in pain. Luckily I didn't have a roommate but I'm sure other rooms & nurses heard it. I was also topless bc anything touching my abdomen was excruciating. I gave zero fucks who saw me.
My mom fought for me & they got me my push button pain meds for 2 days, which was the norm.
They need to NOT let us suffer so much. We aren't just pill seeking to get high! Hell, I'm in so much pain that the meds don't get me high. But all docs wanna get us off pain meds before we stop hurting. I'd happily stop taking them, if they could get me into remission (from my Crohn's atm)! The less pills I gotta take, the better.
Ok. /endRant
I've always had terrible period cramps. I'm 33 and for the past TWENTY years I've tried telling doctors that my pain is clearly not normal and they've still never listened. It's crippling in the fullest sense of the word and I haven't been able to hold a long-term job for years because of it. No one cares, no one believes me, and nothing has ever been done about it. I go to the doctor at least once or twice a year complaining about these cramps and I get the same dismissal every time.
@@natsinthebelfry please please please find another doc! For your sake. Nowadays you can probably find one who's maybe a specialist in things like Endometriosis. I can't think of the other GYN issues w similar symptoms atm, sorry. Try one who's a Gynecologist AND a Pelvic Surgeon; mine is both. I met him when I was 12yrs old & landed in the ER bc I fell on a fence spread eagle; he was the pelvic surgeon on-call & I needed stitches down there.
Anyways...a pelvic surgeon, esp a GYN one, will have done the surgery necessary to definitively DX Endometriosis. There's zero tests that can DX it. It's based on symptoms and doing a laparoscopy to find endometrial tissue growing on the INSIDE of your body instead of the Uterus, which is considered external in this case. The Uterus is only place it's supposed to grow & then it's shed every month which is why you bleed during your period. With Endometriosis, it can also grow on other internal organs, sometimes fusing organs together, esp if it's causing alotta scar tissue internally. But the other problem is that some can have ALL of the symptoms without anything to show for it inside, or some women have zero symptoms but will be covered on the inside. I know one girl who was DXed during her appendectomy bc it'd burst & they found her covered w multiple organs fused together.
It took 2 surgeries for mine to be seen. The 1st my doc found Pelvic Congestion Syndrome aka varicose veins on my Uterus; PCS used to be considered a symptom of Endo but was later classified as its own stand alone problem. I think they got that wrong bc my 2nd surgery, 1 year later, found a small bit of Endo tissue. But finding ANY is enough for an Endometriosis DX bc it should never grow inside. Even tho it's growing inside that tissue still breaks down into blood during your period but w nowhere to be expelled.
@@natsinthebelfry oh, 1 more thing. Your doc is obvious a Dinosaur who still believes things like Endo don't exist & you're just being a big baby about your period. Birth control is one of the things that can help control it or put it into remission.
Try any form of medicinal constant birth control i.e. the Depo-Provera injection, the pill where you never have a placebo week. I say medicinal bc things like a uterine implant just plugs up the tubes. It's the medicine, the hormones, which may help. Meds that make you skip having periods. This is something you can choose without a doc's DX.
"can't we just enjoy things" THANK YOU
6:19 I say this for me and the rest of ARMY, we don’t claim her 💀👍
Man this was totally me in high school, I'd be like "I would never befriend someone who didn't listen to the Beatles" and then would immediately meet someone nice who's never even heard of them. It made me realize that my opinion didn't make me cool or interesting... it made me a judgmental ass
So proud you grew out of it ;) never judge just be you
I just found out my sister doesn't like the Beatles (how I never knew this I'll never know!) and bitched her out for it...but I'm 55, she's 53 and we bitch each other out for everything...😆
😂 That’s hilarious and awesome! I’m sure I went through a similar phase. Interests are cool but the things we own and like don’t make up our ethics, values or personality ☺️ edit* or maybe more so the idea of what my future partner would dress like or be into but same point
I feel like problem who say they “the Beatles are my favorite ” have only listened to like the greatest hits cause I’m not even a Beatles fan(my brother was so I know every song and all the words from how much he listened) but every time someone says that and I respond with “I like the long and winding road and golden slumbers” they are like “I haven’t heard that.” Even though the songs are fairly popular. Like people don’t have to have heard every song they’ve done but if you say they your favorite group and make a big deal about it like everyone who doesn’t love them as much is trash. at least know more than the three most popular songs
(Sorry that wasn’t about you just a rant)
Also when my brother made fun of me for liking one direction cause they were a boy band. I said “so are the Beatles” and he was just like 0-0 “…. No they aren’t…”
Lol, fruity drinks are awesome. And as a woman that SUFFERS with endometriosis, FUCK that chick shaming those of us that cannot function without tramadol while on the flow. And I love it when bands/etc I like becomes more well-known. Been a Ghost fan for YEARS and now I am seeing them so much more, and it makes me happy. Get to see them for the third time in two weeks!
Dysmenorrhea sufferer here, and my sister had undiagnosed fibroids for 30 years.. just 24 hours of heavy bleeding, vomiting, nausea and cramps that won't let you stand.. please, God, bequeath this upon her for just 24 hours.......
I've been following Jinjer for a long time and I was pretty excited when everyone decided to torment all the music reactors on youtube with Pisces. The band is awesome and now more people listen to them.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Yeah I hate it when people say „ oh period pain isn’t that bad „ deal with it🙄
Have endometriosis too and taking prescription free pain meds literally didn’t do anything. And this girl expects them to get better with tea ??
Not quite the same, but I once wrote a letter to Advil thanking them for their gel caps. It was the only thing that got me through years and years of migraines and sciatica. Turns out once I went no contact with my narcissistic family those issues went away....
I once used this chat platform for girls aged 8-16 ish where you created an avatar. I tried to befriend this girl and she was like: uhm, I don’t think you listen to the same music as me and therefore we can’t be friends. So I asked her what she liked and she mentioned Slipknot and Bullet for My Valentine among others. When I told her, I knew those bands she stopped replying to my texts, because suddenly she realised other girls, in fact, are listening to those bands and therefore she wasn’t “”special””, lmao
This trend really affected me cos most of my girlfriends were very tomboy/butch femmes and I badly wanted to fit in...
Thankfully, they made me realize that I could like pink and reading and heels and sandals and pop music and emo bands at the same time and not feel bad about it. I love you girls☺️💖
I laughed so hard during Charlotte's attitude dance, I woke up my dogs and got glared at. 🐶
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Hah, I took that dance as a physical expression of the metaphor "doing a flex"
I really liked that last statement because its true. I had a not like other girls phase. Not proud of it but I accept it as part of me growing up and now I can like myself and other women for all the different interests we have.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I went through this phase as well ! But I really felt disconnected from girls my age when I was a teenager. It took few years before I finally met more of the alternative/underground community women. I was like those girls, just a bit lonely.
That last statement is wise, yes. I think, everyone has a phase in the teenage years, where they feel different - girls and boys. It's a normal part of growing up and reflect about what we are and what we want to be teens naturally need to test social bounderies. They often want to be different from something they feel conectd before. Sometimes they need that to find out who they are. But humans are social animals. We always define ourself in relation to other humans. We seek for role models. Role models can be positive or negative ("I'm not like..."). Negative role models also include that we don't want to be like our parents or our teachers or other boring adulds. I think it is easier for child and teenage boys to find positive role models in the media then it is for girls. So more girls then boys tend to define themself more through negative role models... and don't want to be "like other girls" until they learn how induvidual and cool other girls truly are.
I go to an all girls school and I always get comments like “oh there must be so much drama” or “isn’t it tiring in such a catty environment” like NO!! We’re all unique and intelligent girls with our own little things going on and I absolutely LOVE IT!! We can totally be ourselves and have such freedom! I can come to school with no makeup on my blotchy red face and unshaven Sasquatch legs wearing nothing but a mini skirt and bra and no one will bat an eyelid. Also the girls take up the traditionally “boy” roles so it’s just as chaotic Lmaoo (not as in drama but as in people climbing in boxes and taking turns to push each other down the stairs type thing)
Kinda scared to go to uni coz I know things will be quite different.
Obviously that’s just my experience at an all girls school I’m not speaking for everywhere
Also for the frequent “is everyone a lesbian” question, no, I mean there’s a good handful of my lgbtq+ babes but there are just as many boy-mad girlies too
I used to also have the “I am not like other girls” phase. Probably because every teacher told me I had to be more feminine, parents didn’t allow me to express clothing styles or interests because most of those were “for men” and “you are a lady”. Or that girls who were feminine my age would be the ones to bully me. When the stuff that was rewarded was wearing makeup, dresses, having long hair, and being quiet. It was hard to really view yourself as a part of the girls.
But honestly it could have also been because I realized I was trans, sooooo.
Or honestly both I am sure some or a lot of cis women experienced the same thing when it came to that femininity was rewarded and anything past that was seen as wrong.
That comic was actually super cute and exactly what we should do: befriend our fellow women instead of tearing them down to feel “unique”
For years I felt called out by "not like other girls" but I really thought I wasn't like other girls. ... Then I came out as trans and started living life as a man. I guess I wasn't like the other girls. lmao
It do be that way sometimes lol
This is honestly the only valid use for "I'm not like other girls" because you we're you were a boy and that's honestly awesome. I hope your living your best life right now :)
Plot twist!
Basically, 4:30
@@akmal94ibrahim Frick, am I getting an award? lol
I think we all have a phase of this at some point in our lives for whatever reason, usually because we just want to be ourselves and not grouped together as "typical girls." Regardless, we are all uniquely ourselves and shouldn't have to defend our interests and likes to anyone. 🥰
I used to feel more comfortable being friends with boys because I literally felt that any other girl was BETTER than me 😂 Whenever I hung out with girls, I compared myself to them, and it was never a win for me. And thought every girl realized that. But when I was around boys, I didn't have to compare myself with them, because I understood that we were different, and I could just be myself. I'm fighting this mindset to this very day
I was a Billie stan before her first studio album came out and I'm still a Billie stan. I'm so proud of her and all the success she's found. I can't imagine being mad that someone you like found success.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
your not like other fans you were there before the album
I really like the “I guess I am like other girls” because it really sums up how by always trying to be different and set ourselves apart, we’re all trying to be seen and liked for who we are , and are therefore all the same.
I’m good with that. The women I like the most, like to be around and support other women.
Do people still remember when these"I'm not like other girls" short comics where popular a few years ago, especially on reddit and 9gag?Lol I love how we went from"She is soo cewl cuz she's diff!", to "Stop being a pick me, it's embarassing"
I really liked the message at the end. We are all so much more than what other people want to paint us as.
6:32 the male spider tries to captivate the female spider with his exotic dance
Whenever we fought, my toxic ex would tell me "oh I thought you were different but you're just a bitch like the other girls".I had a I'm not like other girls phase but then I grew out of it to see the truth and I always said to him "yes I am, I'm a bitch just like them and I love it."
6:55 is an exaggeration, but it's a disturbingly real thing on Instagram: young (very young) girls dressed like they're 25.
I just have older brothers. I grew up with them as my role models and wanted to be like them. And because we were never too well off when I was young I wore a lot of hand-me-downs from my brothers. I continue to dress like that because it's how I grew up and I'm not ashamed of it. It's just the way I grew up influencing my current self. And I'm happy this way.
I was SUCH a pick me girl in high school and college, walking around thinking I was just so much Smarter Than Other Girls, and I genuinely regret it when I think of all the experiences and relationships I might have been open to if I could have just pulled my head in for one minute. I know better now and I’m a lot happier now, but I’ll never get my early 20s back. 😔
So that “stop taking medicine to deal with cramps” chick, I’d like to see her go through childbirth with this same mentality. Good luck. Imma go take some Advil for cramps though.
Hilariously my period started last night(ten days early. Yay endometreosis, you cold-hearted bitch lol) I cannot function without ibuprofen and tramadol when bleeding out hahah. Chicks like that piss me off because they obviously have extremely low pain levels. She just got lucky, and is being an ass about it.
I think it's funny she said to use herbal remedies, but modern medicine is made up of components from herbal and natural remedies. So she killed her own argument with the last statement.
I think its a personal choice, if she is comfortable doing it that way, fine. I personally never take pills for cramps. What I find bad here it's her trying to impose this on every women. NO
PSA: One of the best remedies for menstrual cramps (IF you are able to lie down) is a heating pad. Obviously not practical when trying to get things done, but it's soothing - so take Advil AND use some heat if you can.
Right and she kept going on about the womb? Craps are all about your uterus muscles lady lol they are mini contractions. Hecks no lol
That "Tude dance" had me laughing so hard! You just got a follower for life. Thanks hun, keep spreading the joy of petty!
I've never been particularly feminine, and as a small child I was playing with boy's toys more than girl's toys. My not like other girls phase mostly came from the fact I was never feminine to begin with and felt isolated from my peers, who also chose to bully me for not being like them :') I felt more at ease with boys in school because they happened to generally be nicer to me and I didn't feel like I needed to change who I was to fit in with them. I'm still not feminine, but I also feel no shame in what feminine hobbies I do have, and am grateful for the very genuine female bonds I've made as an adult that I couldn't as a child, though I'm still a little on edge when I meet women because I need to feel them out because I'm still worried to this day that they'll be the same as the girls I grew up with, esp since hating tomboys on the assumption they hate women has become a trend
"Hating Tom boys on the assumption they hate other women has become a trend."
Yes. Thank you for phrasing that so well.
I never understood the girls that try so hard to be not like other girls lol. The true girls who “aren’t like other girls” actually loathe this. We can’t make any love interests because guys see you as guyish, you don’t understand fashion because of this, and no matter how girly you dress, the way you communicate don’t match. And yes, you were raised without a mother and we’re home schooled lmfao. It sucks bro
@@loopymomy2532 yeah, it's really sad to me that some girls will go out if their way to try and be boyish when they're not. I couldn't do it the other way round, so I can only imagine how suffocating it must be for them. I'm just lucky that my mum was happy to let me be on that front and encouraged me to just enjoy what I enjoy. No doubt she spent some time waiting for me to tell her that I fancy girls 😂 but they end up surprised when I'm as clueless as the average bloke on anything feminine that's not about how our shared anatomy works
@@anthopanino2255 wait you're lesbian? Probably included then. Sometimes some lesbian exude masculine personality and energy. I'm straight though
@@loopymomy2532 we don't loath it, it's something u learn to embrace as u grow older. I have a mom and I wasn't homeschooled. I also don't have a problem with my romantic life bc I'm just not into that
When I was growing up I often felt slightly out of step with the girls around me… I desperately WANTED to be like everyone else lol. I relate so hard to that person who tried absorbing aspects of everyone they thought was cool. About midway through high school realized I felt the same way as most other people my age who were all just trying to figure out who we wanted to be.
Hailee Steinfeld has a great song called “Most Girls” all about this phenomenon.
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tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
Not me falling in love when Charlotte dropped upon a burning body nailing that scream 😂😍
That solid “no” at 9’10” was everythingggg lol
I went through a long phase of this myself. As a kid I was a tomboy and had zero interest in barbies and girlie stuff and was relentlessly bullied (I'm pretty old). My parents also pressured me constantly to "act more like a lady" and "dress appropriately". It took me a looooooong time to get over my hatred and bitterness toward the entire concept of femininity because of how we try to force kids into these boxes.
Having adults in a girl's life trying to force her to be feminine is a fantastic way to wind up with a 'not like the other girls' girl.
So sad that they tried to enforce those stereotypes onto you instead of acknowledging that humans are all individuals with different wants and preferences.
I Hope you were able to find yourself :)
I was a tomboy, but loved my barbies etc. because they helped me "act out" scenes from my creative writing/scripting. Lol
@@TheSarahskaninchen I mean my parents were very old school, born during WWII, raised in strict religious families with very traditional parents themselves. My parents didn't even find THEMselves until their mid 40s at which time the whole family imploded leaving me and my siblings with years of trauma, so, no, I haven't really found myself at all, but at least I've come to a place where I understand that a woman can like makeup and dresses and not be pathetic, shallow, vain, and useless for liking them, like the internalized misogyny was that bad.
similar case here actually.. i was the same exact way.. my mother really wanted me to like dolls wear dresses.. but it just never fit me.. i sometimes wish my mother just let me pick the toys i wanted because it would have made me a better person.. now i just don't feel happy being feminine and i also just don't feel safe expressing that way
When Charlotte read the text thread between the two girls where one was planning a surprise birthday party and the other girl just said she’d stay home watching Tim Burton movies and reading Edgar Allen Poe I lost it 😂 then she started doing the dance where she was wiggling her arms back-and-forth and that’s when I started laughing so hard that tears were coming out 😂
The amount of girls in my high school that would do that exact same thing including the dance is insane! I can’t breath! 😂 Charlotte you make the BEST videos
Im so glad that my generation has well written, dynamic and round girl characters to look up to and enjoy. Representation is great.
So glad to see you’re back! 😊 love your honesty and positivity
I love the I'm not like other girls stuff makes me laugh everytime 😂
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
I definitely went through a "I'm not like other girls" phase around middle school. I was a "tomboy" and hated pink and Brad Pitt because everyone liked him. I thought I didn't want to be a girl because of what Charlotte read at the end. I wanted to be more than "just a girl". I wanted to be a boss and back then, girls were not taken as seriously. As I got older, I realized it was stupid to not like pink or Brad Pitt. Dude was hot! Lol why did I have to be "not like other girls" just to be taken seriously? Today my favorite colors are pink and black, i love make up, muscle cars, and I AM the boss and my husband works for me. When our son was born, he was the stay at home parent since i made more. This doesn't make him less of a man, but a better one. My son likes rainbows and farts lol We aren't stuck in a hole anymore. We don't have to fit a mold society told us we had to. We can be feminine and masculine at the same time, or anything in between.
Love this for you ❤️!!
for me the most things i hated: Justin bieber one direction were all things most other girls had the hots for.. turns out i'm just a lesbian
@@litchtheshinigami8936 lol that's actually pretty funny!
Just gotta say… BOSS 👍
@@B.A.BsCalmingCorner thank you! I love it lol
Such a relaxed funny lady you are. Love the reactions. Pleasant on the eyes also.
"They're popular because they're good" WWOORRNNGG!!!!!!!!
I’ve taught my daughters to respond to “you’re not like the other girls” with “No, yes I am. I am exactly like the other girls, because we’re all unique individuals who are equally worthy of love, adoration and attention” Not letting these manipulative boys to pit my girls against other girls. That’s just lazy. Try harder dude.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
It's not always boys, girls bullied my little sister with "not like other girls" comments all the time. Thankfully I was there to help her be confident with herself, other girls can be just as nasty it's quite sad. I still have to push her sometimes to not be afraid to enjoy "what other girls" do.
Stealing this thank you bye
You go, woman!
@@nerdycurls6253 But that’s still caused by misogyny, based on centuries of misogynistic BS ingrained in our society. Unfortunately pre-teen and teenage girls generally compare themselves to others because that’s what our damaged society teaches them. Constantly pitting women against each other, and unfortunately it starts as early as elementary school. Chances are, those mean girls targeted your sister not because she was weaker, but because something about the way she carried herself made her appear stronger or more confident, or more secure than they were , even if she was just as insecure on the inside as any teenage girl, and that intimidated them. That’s the real motivation of a bully: fear of feeling less than and major insecurity in themselves. And they weren’t taught and guided to do better and hold themselves accountable for their own actions. And it’s a real shame this still occurs and is left unchecked and excused as just kids being kids. That’s not normal and it shouldn’t be acceptable that we allow this early & lasting damage to their psyches. We should instead encourage young girls to band together, lean on each other and help each other out though those difficult years, they would find they have far more in common than what separates them. Our young girls vie for attention and try to build themselves up by hurting one another, mentally and emotionally, because our society tells them that’s the way of the world. Until we find out it’s not true. When we grow up we find our people and as grown women we find that having strong women lifting us up when we’re feeling weak and when we’re feeling strong using that strength to help to lift up other women is what makes us the most confident and secure within ourselves. We have got to be the ones to change that seriously damaging early stage. I’m trying to do my part as a parent to raise girls that see themselves in others rather than see themselves as better or different than others, prevent them from feeling they have to prove themselves worthy by hurting someone else. We all have a part to play to be the change we want to see in the world. My girls have never and will never be like those mean girls, I taught them that their insecurities, which we all have had at the those unsure ages, aren’t anyone else fault nor can shitting on someone else make you feel better about yourself. It damages you in the depths of your soul to hurt other people simply because you’re hurting inside. Your feelings are yours to deal with and work through, no one else’s. It’s our job and responsibility to ourselves to learn to be comfortable alone in silence so we take the necessary time for serious self reflection in order to try to understand why we’re feeling a certain way, so we don’t take our shit out on other people, and offer ourselves & others kindness and grace though those difficult, uncertain teenage and young adult years. That can’t be more important for our own mental & emotional health longterm. Your sister is lucky she has you to help her though it ♥️
The photo of guys, pizza and the dog was the absolute best thing. 3 awesome things at once.
Definitely! And I'd be pushing through the men (or saying excuse me as I squeezed past) to go and cuddle the dog. ☺️
The music for the 'tude dance' was SO perfect I love it!
Love you Charlotte! Hope you’re feeling better. Thank you for the laughs.
I love the fact that a lot of these "I'm not like other girls" post add "because I'm not catty or petty"... Darling, that post is the cattiest/pettiest thing you could do. I think that last post was absolutely correct. As for the woman judging those of us who take pain meds when we have cramps, I just hope one day she finds herself locked in the toilet for 5 hours, in agony, puking and wretching so she knows what some of us go through - I have endometriosis and adenomyosis - forget strengthening my womb, its mutated and now its just out to get me.
I spent 5+ years menstruating with severe cramps on days one and two before realizing O couldn’t fix it. I tried everything. Hydration, magnesium, diet, exercise, etc. and I am so glad I discovered Midol. I use it on a bad day if I have to work and it makes it possible for me to work without feeling like I am about to die.
Have you looked into endometriosis and/or cysts?
can someone tell me what a womb massage is? lol how are you having period cramps that need a womb massage if you're pregnant? wouldn't it be a uterus massage? and i don't think you're supposed to put anything in your uterus so.....i just don't get it ...
I have endometriosis and fibroids and sometimes I get knocked on my ass by a cramp. Screw that person who said to not take pain meds. Some days I sit on the couch and try not to breathe too deeply or I'm in pain.
@@chelseyaustin6015 I am actually a massage therapist too haha but I don’t specialize in that type of massage. Organ massage is a thing (Visceral Massage) and does have its benefits just like other modalities, but It’s NOT gonna be a fix all.
@@spicyt0fu I haven’t, although I am currently pregnant-I guess fertility is NO concern of mine as I got pregnant the first chance it was possible lol. I do know that some conditions like that can truly affect fertility.
My sister had the same cramping as me and she was actually successful in treating it by doing something called “seed cycling” which gives you natural hormonal balance… I never tried it but will one day if its just as bad again. I do hear some women’s periods chill out after having children. Maybe I’ll be lucky. :)
I got goosebumps when you quoted SOAD, I knew your vibes were top tier 🤘 glad I subbed!
Hanging out with you on line is like being with my sister! You crack me up. Loved the belch!
I'm definitely the type of girl that would rather sleep that extra 30 minutes lmao. Not cause I wake up beautiful, but because SLEEEEEEP. I love sleep 🥰 sleep is nice.
Same sis, same
They need to bring back nap time. I can't believe I ever hated nap time 😂
But sleeps does make you beautiful, so yay beauty sleep! 👍
@@jessiejammes8038 I teach preschool and I tell my class, "you're all going to WISH you had more naptime when you get to be my age! Enjoy it now!" 😂
@@kmonti1 they may not believe it now but they will! 😂
As a trans guy I laughed so hard at the "me: male" post 😂
Same here 😂
Just yesterday in the metro train a teenage girl sat next to me and boy I had the biggest flashback of my life: oversized black hoodie way too warm for the sunny weather (we are having 25+ degrees celsius), black chipped nail polish, messy fringe in front of her face, rocking the tomboy look, her backpack was all marked up in black sharpie and she was scrolling on TikTok watching some BMTH edits. She was just like me when I was her age.
And next to her, me, now 27, sitting there in a cute pink outfit listening to Euro-dance influenced Kpop.
I love it when people are into things I like, surely common interests with people is a good thing? on top of the whole wanting success for your faves thing. The only time it pisses me off is when I was into something, tried to introduce it to people, get told it was lame etc, to then have those same people try and later introduce them to ME as a new thing when they get big
Oh my god charlottes physical embodiment of the tilde ~ 😭😂
I just love how everything that a majority of girls/women like are always considered basic and used as an insult, but things like doing or being into a sport, going to the gym or playing video games, what typically a lot of men are into, are never considered basic. I‘ve never heard someone calling a boy/man basic for enjoying video games.
I myself only came to the realization while dating and noticing similar hobbies men had but a lot of them called me basic for loving make up but also „not like other girls“ for watching anime (like a woman can’t be into more than one thing, anyway that’s a whole other issue) So i started calling them basic and they didn’t know what to say to that lol
Your on to something here!
You're right. I've noticed that too. A lot of Men are weird about women who are more on the feminine side.
yep. if something is typically enjoyed by mostly women, it is seen as stupid or embarrassing. it was so disappointing when I came to that realization
4:24 Now that was fucking ATTRACTIVE!!! 🤘
I loved the last phrase, I always felt different, until I realized we all feel that way, and that's because we all are, and that's awesome
I'm not like other girls is how "nice girls" were born. This happens because being ourselves doesn't seem to be good enough, but it is. I remember as a teenager I felt like I wasn't like the other girls, until I became an adult and met my real friends, girls with the same interests as me. On a different note, I'm not a Billie Eilish fan, but I think as an artist she puts her heart in what she's doing and her fans are kind of toxic. I grew up in the 90's and if my favorite musicians didn't become mainstream, I probably would have never heard of them, because in my country, they would only play the most popular songs on the radio. I was able to listen to the rest of their music when I finally had access to the internet.
Only for fans over 18 years old BEAUTIFULGIRLS.SITE 👈
tricks I do not know
Megan: "Hotter"
Hopi: "Sweeter"
Joonie: "Cooler"
Yoongi: "Butter
So with toy and his tricks, do not read it to him that he writes well mamon there are only to laugh for a while and not be sad and stressed because of the hard life that is lived today.
Köz karaş: '' Taŋ kaldım ''
Erinder: '' Sezimdüü ''
Jılmayuu: '' Tattuuraak ''
Dene: '' Muzdak ''
Jizn, kak krasivaya melodiya, tolko pesni pereputalis.
Aç köz arstan
Bul ukmuştuuday ısık kün bolçu, jana arstan abdan açka bolgon.
Uyunan çıgıp, tigi jer-jerdi izdedi. Al kiçinekey koyondu wins taba algan. Al bir az oylonboy koyondu karmadı. '' Bul koyon menin kursagımdı toyguza albayt '' dep oylodu arstan.
Arstan koyondu öltüröyün dep jatkanda, bir kiyik tigi tarapka çurkadı. Arstan aç köz bolup kaldı. Kiçine koyondu emes, çoŋ kiyikti jegen jakşı dep oylodu. # 垃圾
They are one of the best concerts, you can not go but just seeing them from the screen, I know it was surprising
💗❤️💌💘
The second comic is wholesome. I think the 'i'm not like other girls' phenomenon sometimes can be caused by hard time fitting in.
When i was in elementary school i was like that, it was just hard to get along and make friends. My interests got mocked so it's hard to try being close to other girls. Thank goodness everything started to get better once i get into junior high. I found kids who share my interests!
Also i read somewhere it can be linked to autism in girls, but i can't be sure about that
It definitely was a social thing in my experience. I hated my zealot/hypocritical mother and vain/vapid sister and liked my dad and hanging out with my all male cousins. I hated not having a choice about wearing dresses. I hated the expectation of being bathroom buddies with people that didn't share my interests just because and if I didn't conform I was targeted. I hate that female clothes is NOT designed for function. I'm still struggling with female hate but now I understand it's bs social norms that I hate not the people I don't actually know.
ya, can relate to that. In my school a lot of girls went to same kindergarten and I was not one of them so it was hard to become their friend and they did not like me, did not wanted to sit with me, so I did spend a lot of time with boys and some older kids. It did change in 5th grade of which I was really grateful. I have still same best-girlfriends as then and we share similar interests :)
Ladies, i'm just glad that we're not actually bitter or crazy. We just went through an experience lol
It's nice hearing your insights 🥂
i had this mostly in primary school.. i didn't like the things other girls liked and they thought i was wierd for that.. i was mocked for not liking dols.. now in my case i do have ADHD and Autism.. but later on it did get better because that carbon cut this is the way attitude some kids had fell off.. and became more inclusive..
Yup! That last quote says all!
Lol Charlotte that dance you did reminded me of Jennifer Anniston in that Adam Sandler movie “Just Go With It”. It was when they went to dinner with Nicole Kidman’s character in Hawaii. Love this video Charlotte. You make my day. I get some really difficult guests that I encounter at my job and I watch you while I’m not on calls and you help me get through each day!!! 💕💕💕
there's a difference between wanting to be different and naturally being different and it's annoying that people are unable to see that there are people that do stand out...when it comes to style,music taste,likes...etc...it's not always about wanting to be different...it's about feeling most comfortable
i think it's a bit different these days to when i was a teen (in the 90s), in those days there was a fairly wide divided between the "mainstream" and "alternative" but these days everyone curates their own media experiences and that's great
as a kid i’ve always read a lot of books and i saw how females were portrayed and i always thought that that wasn’t me. so i went through this phase as a result. i despised thinking taht others saw me as what the books portrayed. i hated the idea so much i was started to take on “i’m not like other girls” i find this subreddit funny but also sad because i’m sure it’s a result of stuff like that. anyway, pink is fucking cute, flowers are so cool, and princesses and ballerinas are sick.
Charlotte, that wiggle after the Edgar Allen Poe girl was everything.
I haven't even made it through this full video yet and I fucking LOST IT when you had your metal breakdown 🤣
"I drooled a little bit, that's how you know I meant it." 🤣 I'll be using this quote on my boyfriend. 😁
Ahhh lmao
My 11 year old was telling everyone she was a tomboy. I told her otherwise. She argued vehemently that she was not a girly girl (with her fake nails and makeup on) I told her she was definitely more towards that side of the spectrum. Why is that such a bad thing? Be who you are
I'm guessing there's a different aspect of the girly-girl stereotype she's railing against. Like the often implied 'bimbo' part. Maybe that's what she's hearing when she hears 'girly-girl', rather than the aesthetic bit of it.
She's 11 and she wears makeup and *fake nails* ?!!
Yeah she's definitely not a tomboy, she's even a bit too much womanly in my humble opinion
@@veruschkadahmer1805 I allow her to experiment with makeup at home. It's artistic and keeps her away from the screens for a while and she can't wear it to school.
@@deanna9808 I really hope so. It's probably something kids at school have decided is bad or embarassing or something
I'm a Tomboy and I like Pink. I don't wear make-up like your daughter, but I do my own nails saves on cost. Tomboys can care about their appearance. She'll probably come to her own conclusion later in life, but until then if she says that she's a tomboy then ok. I guess that label makes her feel better at the moment. We all went through our little phases, let her go through hers. She might laugh and do the "Hey mom remember when..." and you guys will have a good laugh about it. =-)
Thanks for mentioning this about popular things and stop loving it. I used to think I can not watch " Game of thrones" and " harry potter" because how many people loved it. Now i finally admit bow much i enjoy to listen to those viral hits over and over again. Can not count how often I have heard "what does the fox say", "gangnam style" and "the wellerman"
That girl said, " Your loss" like she got uninvited, but she was the one that said she didn't want to come to begin with?! She really isn't like other girls!😂
I'm swear I'm not losing sleep waiting for Charlotte 😂 . Adjusting to a new timezone but needs Potato Queen Energy
48 days straight here
Yes!!!!! Keep on rocking with Miss Charlotte. New time zone? Where are you now?
When Potato Queen is a major compliment lol my new go to "YASS POTATO QUEEN"
@@davidguidry657 Special circumstances demands me in a new country but can't state due to nature of my work. Hopefully we can finish soon. But it's always good to see familiar names here
@@okilroth4250 understood. Stay safe my friend and we’ll see you back here tomorrow.
Loving this video. And for the last one, it's totally true. I went when I was a teenager in the phase "not like other girls" bs cause that's what all the media we're fed made it seems like we HAD to hate other girls to feel unique. Thank Gods later I have found feminism and the great concept of being who you are while respecting everyone else too 💕 I swear, it isn't THAT complicated to understand and embrace!
Depression affects my taste in music. In the sense that I never listen to sad music or lyrics. Don’t need anymore sadness in my life lol
Lol as I dancer, I wanna take a moment to acknowledge and appreciate you passing that wave. Dope vid, Charlotte!