I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective. BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication. BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week. You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid. You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
Christopher I’m very proud to follow you! I love watching your videos you are doing great work! Narc’s are the real virus! Sending love and immense gratitude and respect from a Retired nurse from Newcastle living in Wales! 🏴 The Best is yet to come! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏🌎
You are so 100% correct on all of this. I know because I lived with one for 50 years. Yes really . Terrible life . Treated so badly but really had no alternative . Cursed..pushed around ..lied on...so much more. Acted like a great guy to others but to me a terrible demon. So sad. Hope he finds Miss Karma!!
I empathize with your experience. I was married to one for 18 yrs. and finally asked him to leave. I understand your pain and trust you are doing very well. God bless!
50 years. I think victims of narcs automatically just get to go to heaven and have a beautiful eternity while they go to hell for wrecking lives. I hope your having a good day.
I agree so much! A huge blessing in disguise!! Finally free from all that mental and physical abuse. Finally I have found ME again. Can't believe you are so spot on. Such a helpful video for me. Thank you!
I remember one night I had gone over to the narcissist appartment and him smiling real big and saying all happily, I am on social media now.. I was starting to see the narcissist monster mask slipping off and had realized that he was bragging like they do. Also realizing by him telling me that , he probably was trying to let me know , so I could see what supply had gotten his attention. I never looked and don't no longer care about the narcissist. His mask fell off and I definitely do not ever want to see or hear from this toxic individual again. I had been watching your program and others and that definitely helped me escape this hell I survived. God knows what would have happened to myself if you and others didn't share their experiences. I am very grateful to you and others for getting this message out there. These people are so toxic and cause such uproar in our lives. Thank you for sharing your message. I honestly can say you are one of the people who saved my life AND THANK YOU 🙏💞
😂our supply dwindles because they are DRAINING US OF OUR ENERGY...4 REAL. BBYE NOW, better things to do with MY energy! Thank you for your videos dear Sir, I really appreciate YOU❤
He said in the beginning that i am a dum dum but as time passed, he said he has my heart but as it turned outt he does not have a heart. So no, goodbye.
Thank you so much helping bring a voice to others who are going through this and who hv gone through this terrible abuse. These monsters are just that monsters
That's it, what you have to give is never a enough-FACTS. Yes, rejection is a blessing-FACTS. The devil sent the narcissist to you to block and steal everything you have good coming towards you-FACTS.
Appreciate everything from your healing channel. I especially need to be lifted up and told who I really am and how valuable I am. I am slowly learning to protect myself for the first time in my life. No other channel has helped me in this way❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You Christopher! Wonderful video! My life is beginning to take an upward turn! I am so glad I listened to your videos! You have helped me so much! Thank you again Christopher! I appreciate you so much for all of your help!❣️f
Keep on talking bro! Your knowledge is a life saver... 🕉☯☮ I realised one thing yesterday. It came to me when you said on the begging "Helo my youtube family". I was like this in my head - really? if this random people who comes and go to you by internet from all over the world are your family? Yeah really? If they gonna help you if you will be old sick and in a hospital seeking help? and then this enlightenment came to my head - yes! you can rely on those people! yes it is a real family! why? because I'm 100% sure if you would end up in a hospital with no help, all what you would have to do to get that help, is ask for it here in your channel, I'm sure that lots and lots of people would come to help you to bring you money and food to hospital and try to support you best as they can! And then I was like "wow, this is the real family, this is the real unity, real cooperation between human beings. Not just making clans from centuries and just care about your clan- family- your surname. (continued in next comment)
Recovering from his disorder would be the very hardest punishment ever for my Ex. Because then he would have to face and except all the evil things he has done - not only to me.
Wow you nailed it perfectly. These people never change, you’re 100% correct. 👍 everything you said is so painfully true and so sad. But it must be said. Thank you. Your videos are priceless🙏❤️
Dearest NS. I just rcvd a notice from UA-cam that I had filed a complaint on your videos. I NEVER DID. I am very upset. I had filed a complaint on Facebook about their AI and fb is selling illegally on FB. I filed a complaint on quite explicit content of theirs. I totally closed my FB account that I had for years because of it. And now I am receiving msgs from UA-cam. Beware of AI folks. I love ns videos. And would never file a complaint.
That's bc you hv a narcissist spying on you. Factory reset your phone and make a secure password amd find what apps hv microphone access. Your narc ex is posing or one of their flying monkeys
It’s been six weeks. I met someone else and I’m very happy my covert narcissist ex-girlfriend called me last Friday night at 10 PM. Her new supply must not be working out chris just as you said I met somebody new she’s an empath. She’s fantastic and she’s better in bed than the narcissist.
Chris brother, always good hearing your talks! Yes you've made a difference in many of our lives!! It's inspirational to see how much you've achieved in a short amount of time! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I hate to say this but my narcissist started a smear campaign in the hotel room that I shared with the narcissist monster. He proceeded to say how he spent thousands of dollars on me😢well he did not mention the fact that he was a master manipulator either. 😢💔
They do to themselves and yes you are right you save so many lives. God bless you I am your biggest supporter and you are doing a great job God is using you 🥰🙏❤️😘
The Narcissist doesn't want to accept the truth of who they are but they don't mind projecting their self hate on you! They would rather live a lie of what they are not because they know the truth is against them. What is done in the dark shall come to light and Forgiveness isn't needed in order to recover! I have been honest.
You have saved my life ❤❤ I did lay on the narcissist floor contemplating suicide. What saved my life was my grandbabies and my children 😢I wanted to commit suicide but I believed in myself and my family and definitely you helped me survive this hell😢😭
My narcissistic ex still rumiantes over her last two relationships, the last one was a better deal but it did fall apart 11 years later after finding out the man was married. She still thinks about contacting the first guy prior to that. Yep.
I was discarded coz I didn't fall for her manipulation as easy as she hoped for and even called her out on it continuously. She discarded me coz in between the arguments, I gave that good love and attention and validation she craved. But she hated being exposed and vulnerable when I caught her out. She desperately tried to keep me down until she was able to find a new supply. I told her, our relationship wont end coz she wont let me go. She found new ways to find me when I was trying to get away, for my sake. Something she also tried to turn around on me, when I corrected her on how I operate. Flight first, fight second, and since she took away my flight, I fought back (mentally). The narcissism you see on shows an TVs didnt help me a single bit in identifying what she was. Though I could see what she was doing, I still had no idea what I was up against. I also learned I am a Sigma Empath. We were both going to go down in flames.
I do not stand also people who point fingers to others making themselves as perfect person. I am very flaud but i am not emotional abuser or use others.
Pause, all I was trying to do is get with them because they came on to me first-facts. Next thing I know, they changed their mine and now they want to be with someone else, while they had someone else at home to (a 4 party circus). I just left the situation and moved on; and now they mad at me. Now Make That Make Sense???
Chris, we sorta talked about how we ( narcissist) gaslight ourselves during our collaboration last January, to be honest, this has been haunting me ever since, as I heal and make progress, it is really scary to think I could start gaslighting myself all over again, then sliding back to my old toxic behaviors. Yikes, I always hope my life gets better, don't we all?
My previous comment continued - In this world we as a people, as a human beings we are totally divided. It works like this - okay this is my family my wife/husband and my kids. Other families? other people? other kids? them are not mine...they don't belong to me... I don't care about them...I care only about my people, my clan, my family. What is more, I'm able to kill someone to feed my kids. I'm able to kill parents of some another kids to feed my kids... I'm able to still , cheat, lie, use a sneaky ways to earn money, I'm able to lie and use tricks to make other families and parents poor to feed my HAPPY family, MY family, MY!...MY!!!..." This world and we humans we will never find peace, global harmony until it's gonna work like this. God... in the end we are all brothers and sisters, in the end we are ALL one big family. It's not just a hippie talk. It's a fact. Random guy wherever you are on this planet is one of millions of your distant cousin , the random women on the street is your very far sister etc. etc. For real, we are just one. This is for real, it is a fact, the same blood flows in us. All the differences, background, nationality, religion, ethnics are just very small not really important differences. I'm trying to say that best as I can with my not the best level of English language. I just wanna say that real unity which we need to survive to do not destroy our civilisation ones again, to maintain harmony and peace on this planet is just necessary. It's very simple. We will never achieve harmony if this will keeps working like that, without global unity of all. I don't know why is like that in this times, why we are so divided , have no idea why. But for sure I know it won't work. I don't know why is like that, if somebody or something trying to stop us to get united? It seems like our suffering, global suffering may be a source of energy for someone or something. It seems like "them" or "it" trying to stop us to get united. They/it don't want a free world. They/ it trying to make it harder for us in a millions ways. Sometimes I have a feeling like they want to keep us oppressed because they exactly know if they will let "us" grow then they will be destroyed, they will don't have source any more...it seems like narcissistic beings are at a higher altitude than only relations between us humans. It seems like we can translate all of this narcissistic relations between single people to the global/universe/spiritual dimension . Exactly the same as in relationship with a narcissist. They don't what you to get better, to get healed , to move on, because then they loose their source...or maybe it's just my thoughts , maybe I'm just making it in my mind, but...I have a feeling like is true , I see this form many years in my visions and dreams. What you think? last of my sentence- I'm not religious person, I don't follow any of system of believes - I will use this word now - demon, devil just to illustrate this what people see behind this word... so... The devil is a biggest narcissist, the king of narcissists... while I'm writing it this song came up to my head - ua-cam.com/video/_Dtc4Y4Xyjo/v-deo.html
I have used BetterHelp myself and I have found it to be very effective.
BetterHelp is an online portal that provides direct-to-consumer access to behavioral health services. The online counseling and therapy services are provided through web-based interaction as well as phone and text communication.
BetterHelp costs £140 a month - which gives you 4 live sessions a month and unlimited messaging in between sessions, as well as access to the group therapy webinars that get updated each week.
You can also apply for financial aid while signing up, which can reduce the cost of the service by up to 40%. When you go through the signup process, you will be presented with the payment page and can elect not to pay. You will then be asked if the price was too much and will be given the option of financial aid.
You can sign up for the BetterHelp Online Counselling service here - betterhelp.com/narcsurvivor
By using this link you will be supporting the Narc Survivor community.
I don't believe any person is replaceable
Christopher I’m very proud to follow you!
I love watching your videos you are doing great work!
Narc’s are the real virus!
Sending love and immense gratitude and respect from a Retired nurse from Newcastle living in Wales! 🏴
The Best is yet to come! ❤️💜❤️🕊️🙏🌎
You are so 100% correct on all of this. I know because I lived with one for 50 years. Yes really . Terrible life . Treated so badly but really had no alternative . Cursed..pushed around ..lied on...so much more. Acted like a great guy to others but to me a terrible demon. So sad. Hope he finds Miss Karma!!
I empathize with your experience. I was married to one for 18 yrs. and finally asked him to leave. I understand your pain and trust you are doing very well. God bless!
50 years. I think victims of narcs automatically just get to go to heaven and have a beautiful eternity while they go to hell for wrecking lives. I hope your having a good day.
@@Yarn_368Agree
Karma will find him
Yes, this channel is created by person who is a good person.
No weapons formed against me will prosper 🙏
I agree so much! A huge blessing in disguise!! Finally free from all that mental and physical abuse. Finally I have found ME again. Can't believe you are so spot on. Such a helpful video for me. Thank you!
🙂
I remember one night I had gone over to the narcissist appartment and him smiling real big and saying all happily, I am on social media now.. I was starting to see the narcissist monster mask slipping off and had realized that he was bragging like they do. Also realizing by him telling me that , he probably was trying to let me know , so I could see what supply had gotten his attention. I never looked and don't no longer care about the narcissist. His mask fell off and I definitely do not ever want to see or hear from this toxic individual again. I had been watching your program and others and that definitely helped me escape this hell I survived. God knows what would have happened to myself if you and others didn't share their experiences. I am very grateful to you and others for getting this message out there. These people are so toxic and cause such uproar in our lives. Thank you for sharing your message. I honestly can say you are one of the people who saved my life AND THANK YOU 🙏💞
😂our supply dwindles because they are DRAINING US OF OUR ENERGY...4 REAL. BBYE NOW, better things to do with MY energy!
Thank you for your videos dear Sir, I really appreciate YOU❤
🙂🙂A great comment.
He said in the beginning that i am a dum dum but as time passed, he said he has my heart but as it turned outt he does not have a heart. So no, goodbye.
You ARE saving lives Chris and im so glad you are able to be so effective in helping us survivors❤
Thank you so much helping bring a voice to others who are going through this and who hv gone through this terrible abuse. These monsters are just that monsters
And that would be Diddy!!! He has it all and being horrible to the women...😈😈😈
Grass is greener when you water it !
That's it, what you have to give is never a enough-FACTS. Yes, rejection is a blessing-FACTS. The devil sent the narcissist to you to block and steal everything you have good coming towards you-FACTS.
Thank you. I needed to hear everything you said to move forward and heal. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
Glad it was helpful! If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
I hope he gets right what he's looking for
❤Thank you very much.
You're welcome 😊 If you need more support, you can book a session with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
Your information literally saved my life from 2018 - Today
Appreciate everything from your healing channel. I especially need to be lifted up and told who I really am and how valuable I am. I am slowly learning to protect myself for the first time in my life. No other channel has helped me in this way❤❤❤❤❤
Thank You Christopher! Wonderful video! My life is beginning to take an upward turn! I am so glad I listened to your videos! You have helped me so much! Thank you again Christopher! I appreciate you so much for all of your help!❣️f
You are so welcome. If you need more support, you can book a session with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
Keep on talking bro! Your knowledge is a life saver... 🕉☯☮ I realised one thing yesterday. It came to me when you said on the begging "Helo my youtube family". I was like this in my head - really? if this random people who comes and go to you by internet from all over the world are your family? Yeah really? If they gonna help you if you will be old sick and in a hospital seeking help? and then this enlightenment came to my head - yes! you can rely on those people! yes it is a real family! why? because I'm 100% sure if you would end up in a hospital with no help, all what you would have to do to get that help, is ask for it here in your channel, I'm sure that lots and lots of people would come to help you to bring you money and food to hospital and try to support you best as they can! And then I was like "wow, this is the real family, this is the real unity, real cooperation between human beings. Not just making clans from centuries and just care about your clan- family- your surname. (continued in next comment)
Thank you for this. I can't believe I'm still hurting at times. Its been almost 2 years now...I just need to heal.
Have u been dating?
Same here, but I do not want him back. It’s just crazy! I hope one day that I’ll feel like dating again. 🙏
You will heal it takes time. Learn about who you are, find who your inner child is. Have no contact. Good luck
Recovering from his disorder would be the very hardest punishment ever for my Ex. Because then he would have to face and except all the evil things he has done - not only to me.
Wow you nailed it perfectly. These people never change, you’re 100% correct. 👍 everything you said is so painfully true and so sad. But it must be said. Thank you. Your videos are priceless🙏❤️
Dearest NS. I just rcvd a notice from UA-cam that I had filed a complaint on your videos. I NEVER DID. I am very upset. I had filed a complaint on Facebook about their AI and fb is selling illegally on FB. I filed a complaint on quite explicit content of theirs. I totally closed my FB account that I had for years because of it. And now I am receiving msgs from UA-cam. Beware of AI folks.
I love ns videos. And would never file a complaint.
That's bc you hv a narcissist spying on you. Factory reset your phone and make a secure password amd find what apps hv microphone access. Your narc ex is posing or one of their flying monkeys
Also, your narcissist ex is probably jealous of Chris simply bc you're watching his videos. This is unfortunately typical narc behavior
❤I love you talking style. Clear, understandable to audience, humble, true info, personal experiences, peaceful, normal, great.
I'm always blown away by how correct you are! ❤
You are a huge blessing to me and my kids 🙏
You saved my life, and I want to thank you for it.
It’s been six weeks. I met someone else and I’m very happy my covert narcissist ex-girlfriend called me last Friday night at 10 PM. Her new supply must not be working out chris just as you said I met somebody new she’s an empath. She’s fantastic and she’s better in bed than the narcissist.
This is the best situation...I love it here
Chris brother, always good hearing your talks! Yes you've made a difference in many of our lives!! It's inspirational to see how much you've achieved in a short amount of time! ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Of course they do.... because they're complete and utter nuggets!...🥂
Very eye opening I understand now since watching your videos it's amazing to know that I'm not alone in this
We love you, you are a good person.
Prayers 🙏 for them to see that needs God. 🙏
❤My value went down, i would have been stable otherwise. I can not forget it. To abusers, i might forgive, maybe, but not forget.
I hate to say this but my narcissist started a smear campaign in the hotel room that I shared with the narcissist monster. He proceeded to say how he spent thousands of dollars on me😢well he did not mention the fact that he was a master manipulator either. 😢💔
They do to themselves and yes you are right you save so many lives. God bless you I am your biggest supporter and you are doing a great job God is using you 🥰🙏❤️😘
The Narcissist doesn't want to accept the truth of who they are but they don't mind projecting their self hate on you! They would rather live a lie of what they are not because they know the truth is against them. What is done in the dark shall come to light and Forgiveness isn't needed in order to recover! I have been honest.
At the end of our relationship my Ex tried hardly to force ME to commit suicide.
You have saved my life ❤❤ I did lay on the narcissist floor contemplating suicide. What saved my life was my grandbabies and my children 😢I wanted to commit suicide but I believed in myself and my family and definitely you helped me survive this hell😢😭
My narcissistic ex still rumiantes over her last two relationships, the last one was a better deal but it did fall apart 11 years later after finding out the man was married. She still thinks about contacting the first guy prior to that.
Yep.
I was discarded coz I didn't fall for her manipulation as easy as she hoped for and even called her out on it continuously. She discarded me coz in between the arguments, I gave that good love and attention and validation she craved. But she hated being exposed and vulnerable when I caught her out. She desperately tried to keep me down until she was able to find a new supply. I told her, our relationship wont end coz she wont let me go. She found new ways to find me when I was trying to get away, for my sake. Something she also tried to turn around on me, when I corrected her on how I operate. Flight first, fight second, and since she took away my flight, I fought back (mentally). The narcissism you see on shows an TVs didnt help me a single bit in identifying what she was. Though I could see what she was doing, I still had no idea what I was up against. I also learned I am a Sigma Empath. We were both going to go down in flames.
Awesome video really hit home
Their just demons 1000%🤨
After 35 years of experience, life has not been easy.
I had to cut him off because of the abuse. After 4 months it started.
I thought it was me for wanting to be natural.
I do not stand also people who point fingers to others making themselves as perfect person. I am very flaud but i am not emotional abuser or use others.
Very good video spot on
Glad it helped. If you need more support, you can book a call with me here - www.narcsurvivor.co.uk/book-online
My narcissistic son is having a breakdown of his gf leaving him
Lord expose all of the attacks on my life from the narrsscist. In Jesus name expose
❤! Love You FAMILY, CHRIS ❤!
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Smear campaign is different from stating the facts or things narc has said or done. Not making things up, falsehoods etc.
Pause, all I was trying to do is get with them because they came on to me first-facts. Next thing I know, they changed their mine and now they want to be with someone else, while they had someone else at home to (a 4 party circus). I just left the situation and moved on; and now they mad at me. Now Make That Make Sense???
Does anyone read the story of "Erec and Enid"?
Chris, we sorta talked about how we ( narcissist) gaslight ourselves during our collaboration last January, to be honest, this has been haunting me ever since, as I heal and make progress, it is really scary to think I could start gaslighting myself all over again, then sliding back to my old toxic behaviors. Yikes, I always hope my life gets better, don't we all?
By the blood of Jesus christ 🙏
I have dated only same country people as me.
My previous comment continued - In this world we as a people, as a human beings we are totally divided. It works like this - okay this is my family my wife/husband and my kids. Other families? other people? other kids? them are not mine...they don't belong to me... I don't care about them...I care only about my people, my clan, my family. What is more, I'm able to kill someone to feed my kids. I'm able to kill parents of some another kids to feed my kids... I'm able to still , cheat, lie, use a sneaky ways to earn money, I'm able to lie and use tricks to make other families and parents poor to feed my HAPPY family, MY family, MY!...MY!!!..." This world and we humans we will never find peace, global harmony until it's gonna work like this. God... in the end we are all brothers and sisters, in the end we are ALL one big family. It's not just a hippie talk. It's a fact. Random guy wherever you are on this planet is one of millions of your distant cousin , the random women on the street is your very far sister etc. etc. For real, we are just one. This is for real, it is a fact, the same blood flows in us. All the differences, background, nationality, religion, ethnics are just very small not really important differences. I'm trying to say that best as I can with my not the best level of English language. I just wanna say that real unity which we need to survive to do not destroy our civilisation ones again, to maintain harmony and peace on this planet is just necessary. It's very simple. We will never achieve harmony if this will keeps working like that, without global unity of all. I don't know why is like that in this times, why we are so divided , have no idea why. But for sure I know it won't work. I don't know why is like that, if somebody or something trying to stop us to get united? It seems like our suffering, global suffering may be a source of energy for someone or something. It seems like "them" or "it" trying to stop us to get united. They/it don't want a free world. They/ it trying to make it harder for us in a millions ways. Sometimes I have a feeling like they want to keep us oppressed because they exactly know if they will let "us" grow then they will be destroyed, they will don't have source any more...it seems like narcissistic beings are at a higher altitude than only relations between us humans. It seems like we can translate all of this narcissistic relations between single people to the global/universe/spiritual dimension . Exactly the same as in relationship with a narcissist. They don't what you to get better, to get healed , to move on, because then they loose their source...or maybe it's just my thoughts , maybe I'm just making it in my mind, but...I have a feeling like is true , I see this form many years in my visions and dreams. What you think? last of my sentence- I'm not religious person, I don't follow any of system of believes - I will use this word now - demon, devil just to illustrate this what people see behind this word... so... The devil is a biggest narcissist, the king of narcissists... while I'm writing it this song came up to my head - ua-cam.com/video/_Dtc4Y4Xyjo/v-deo.html
☯🕉☮
this stinks