Sometimes I feel scared I might not manifest even if I affirm . And there's this thing that I keep thinking "if it's meant to be it will come back" But I wanna be sure that my SP is mine no matter what
The only way you won't manifest (what you want - because you're manifesting your entire life 24/7) is if your dominant focus is on the unwanted circumstances. Your SP is yours no matter what if YOU decide this and feel this to be more and more true for you. There is no outside force deciding what is meant for you and what isn't. That decision is always yours and yours alone.
Just watched 4 minute video and pause it to comment...Very mature and lovely explanation... Where you were till now? Watched so many videos on this topic even from big coaches...but loved your perspective on this...subscribing you right now..Also can make video whole on Bridge of Events..? Eager to watch from your side... I am manifesting just like what Neville had manifested his marriage..i have the same exact story just like his divorce and marriage.. So feeling like I am Neville...😃😃
Thank you so much for the kind words! Glad the videos are helping you and welcome to the channel! Yes, I will make a video at some point about the bridge of events. Remember that everything is a part of the bridge of events - in fact you are, right now, on the bridge of events bringing you closer to your desire as they unfold :)
@@empoweredcreatorGood morning, Christina. Thank you one more time for another great video. I definitely believe it takes time to learn to not be triggered by circumstances. In my case, my ex who’s my SP, personally told me that she was seeing someone, but we weren’t together for over 6 months. I have to honestly say that she didn’t cheat even though I felt extremely triggered when she told me that. However, she knows how much I love her and her son that I consider like my own. Sometimes I still get triggered, but as time progresses, it becomes less, but not completely gone. The way I would like things to unfold is for her to apologize and to tell me she wants to take our relationship to the next level. Your thoughts, thanks ❤
@@ronaldclaude1892 You can manifest whatever you want. I don't personally believe in manifesting apologies because others are our mirrors, so once our inner perceptions and energy shift, others automatically shift also and show up differently. But if that's what you want, go for it.
Thank you and welcome to the channel! Thanks for the suggestion - I took note of it and will make a video about birds before land. Essentially they are other people that aren't your SP mirroring your consciousness back to you.
Hello Christina. I had a gym crush that went nowhere as she was involved. However there was something there. Anyway we fell apart and recently saw each other again about a month ago after 3 months of no contact. I approached her said hello and left. The next time I saw her I called her over to which she said no and kept walking away. The most recent time I just ignored her(silly I know). I guess what I’m asking is, is this still reversible? I just want to get on good terms. I have gotten to the point where I don’t need her, but I want her..
Yes, anything can be reversed. It all originates in you though. Sounds like you're living in the 3D too much and you haven't mentioned anything about your inner states which is what really matters and what manifests.
@empoweredcreator I've been working on myself. Too be honest I'm what you'd consider a broken man, but I have come a long way. I was working nights for 10 years with only 4 hours of sleep a night,so my mental health took a toll. I quit nights and am now healing and feeling better day by day.
@@MusicLvr81281 When I talk about inner states, I mean it in the Neville Goddard way and definition. Νοt in terms of mental health, although a stable mental health no doubt is important in conscious manifesting. Glad your mental health is better.
After 8 years and marriage planned out my SP left for a drug addicted rebound. The deepest cut wasnt her saying she was in love with this loser but her saying “ I’m not attracted to you” that one hurt the most. But I keep being told circumstances don’t matter, so the fight goes on. Thank You Christina.
Peter, circumstances don't matter because they can be changed. All realities exist simultaneously in the quantum field/4D and are equally true, but they exist as mere probabilities. What we put our attention and energy on the most determines what shows up in our 3D, hence an unwanted circumstance can always be changed if we put our focus on the right things. Also, people are always mirroring back to us our own beliefs/assumptions/dominant energies. My guess is that your SP's 'I'm not attracted to you' comment, as well as her whole leaving for someone else, was her mirroring back to you (without consciously realizing) your own dominant thoughts/energy/fears about yourself and/or your relationship with her. I made a video on 3rd parties today that should air probably the week after next and I touch some on why we manifest such circumstances. I should probably also make a video on the entire concept of 'everyone is you pushed out' because it's very important for all of us conscious manifestors.
The one that hurts the most is someone telling you that they love you more than anyone they've ever known but then you have to watch them walk away with an abusive partner knowing you can't make them stay and that may be the last time you see them because they married the wrong person but want to stay true to their vows. Even finding a way to smile these days at anything is a strength i don't have, I also suffer depression and complex PTSD so love is very painful
@@BullDogAUHow familiar are you with Neville and the concept of 'everyone is you pushed out'? You are telling a story that is the complete opposite of what you are manifesting/want, and this is why what you want is not manifesting - because your dominant story is still all about what you don't want. I hope you are getting treatment for depression and PTSD as it can be challenging to manifest while dealing with mental health issues. You need a baseline relatively stable mental state to be able to control your thoughts and train your mind. We all have off days, but untreated mental health issues can definitely make the process harder.
Hi Christina, Thank you so much for making this video! I work together with my SP. How do I stay motivated and trust that my manifestation will eventually come true if I keep seeing him everyday and his behaviour is totally opposite from what I’m trying to manifest? It just feels so illogical and absurd sometimes to the point that I get discouraged and feel like I’m crazy and living in my own head. Thank you once again!
Hello. Circumstances don't matter if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled. So make sure you make that your dominant state, then what you see in the 3D will no longer be an issue. I have a long playlist called 'Specific Person' where I have talked about all sorts of challenges when manifesting an SP in various videos. I suggest you watch as many as you can.
Affirmations need to feel natural to you. That's why I always teach to do what feels natural vs. insisting on one specific technique over others, because everyone resonates with different things. If affirmations are 'your thing', take some time to figure out exactly what you want and become very clear on it. Then create affirmations based on that, as if it's already true in the 3D. Best to keep each affirmation short and to the point for easier acceptance by the subconscious.
Hi Cristina, congratulations for your channel, you're very good. I wanted to know how to focus attention and energy on our desire to create it in 3D. With affirmations? I didn't understand how to do it.
@@michelle4687 You can hit the "Playlists" tab and search through my playlists for videos that are relevant to your questions. With close to 400 posted videos, it's impossible for me to remember each and every video off the top of my head. You are responsible for seeking the information you need for yourself.
There is no special circumstance for which the Law doesn't work. You may find the video I posted today on revision helpful: ua-cam.com/video/l0nlD8AuHIo/v-deo.html
I'm not personally against taking action. With SP specifically, the issue is that more often than not, any action comes from neediness, insecurity, need for confirmation, validation, grasping to change the 3D etc. which all comes from a state of lack. Whenever action is taken from that state, best case it changes nothing in the 3D, worst case it backfires and makes things even worse. If action is taken from a good mental/emotional state of knowing that your SP is yours no matter what (and even in the face of seemingly opposing 3D evidence) then there's nothing wrong with taking action and can often prove to be 'inspired action'. So when/if you have an urge to take action with regards to SP, check with yourself what state it is coming from and use your judgment to decide.
Of course. But if you have a timeline, you need to stop all the wavering and telling the old story. You need to choose your story and stick to it no matter what. Even if it doesn't manifest in 2 months, you can still persist in the assumption that the marriage gets annulled even if the wedding takes place. I posted a video today on 3rd parties. You may find it useful: ua-cam.com/video/B9NaCDOZYrY/v-deo.html Also my video on revision: ua-cam.com/video/l0nlD8AuHIo/v-deo.html
Yes, by regularly practicing how you would feel, think, assume, carry yourself if your desire was true right now (aka the state of the wish fulfilled/end state) it tends to feel more and more real to you, it starts to feel more natural that they do want you back and you start desiring it less (in the sense of longing for it, pining over them, obsessing over them) and expecting it more from a more relaxed, more neutral state. And just like that, it starts feeling more and more real until it manifests in the 3D as well.
@@vanessagandarillas4076 You're welcome! I'm actually Greek born and raised, though I live in the US now (and have been for a long time). But I do know some Spanish, though not comfortable enough to speak it - let's say I understand better than I can speak 😃
I recently recorded a video on 3rd parties - it should air on UA-cam the week after next. Essentially though, a 3rd party is no different than any other circumstance that we focus on - you keep giving it importance and weight and seeing it as a big issue in your manifestation, and that's why it keeps showing up as a problem in your life. To change that, you need to work on your self concept to embody a new state where you know and act like the person who knows they are worthy and deserve whatever they want. I go into more detail on that in the video. Then you focus on you and your SP and the relationship you're manifesting between you two and you remain as indifferent as possible to the presence of a 3P. The less attention we pay something unwanted, the less of an issue it ends up being in our story.
@@aminatabetderraz7056 I don't know if you realize that you continue to give power to the circumstances. The Law works 100% of the time and in the same way for all things: where attention goes, energy flows. In other words, where you dominantly put your attention, that's what your 3D is going to reflect back to you. If you took your attention away from the 3P, kids etc. and stopped looking at them as obstacles and instead focused your attention on you and your SP in a happy, loving relationship, and sustained that, sooner or later your 3D would reflect that. There's no special circumstance which makes the Law not work or that is above the Law. The solution is always the same - focus on what you want. The problem with most people is that they keep focusing on everything they don't want - hence the Law still works perfectly, but it ends up working against them.
Can you honestly, hand in heart, say that you've been living in the state of knowing that your SP is yours for the past 1.5 years and nothing has happened yet? How much have you wavered, gone back and forth, lost yourself in doubt etc.? You may find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/18dlAloncck/v-deo.html Essentially it's not how long you've been wanting something but how long since you shifted internally and sustained that shift until you see it materialize in the 3D.
Yes. The Law doesn't only work in some cases, it works all of the time. That would be something in your self concept or assumptions about them, their feelings for you, the relationship between you, or a combination of the above that got reflected back to you by them choosing to spend Valentine's with another person. You can revise or give it a different meaning (e.g. they are just friends) and if you still want that SP, persist in your knowing that they want you and want to be together with you.
Hmm...really? With a 40% divorce rate in the US (and similar rates at least in all developed countries), do you really think it's impossible your SP and their spouse could get a divorce? I'd think again 😉 I think what you're truly assuming deep down is that you're not good enough or worthy enough to be chosen by your SP, which is very common among people dealing with 3rd party situations. I have a video on 3rd parties coming up the week after next and I cover all these things in it.
@@empoweredcreator love this 😏 and you are right, 3p situations pattern indicate not feeling good enough and chosen. Once I realized it, I decided my sp and me will be happy together, and it will all be resolved do that all people involved will be better off.
I disagree with video title In 4 weeks the mother of my child is moving 5 hours away and when I see her the last time in 4 weeks it will be hard to look her in the eye and pretend I'm happy, I feel like I'm going to throw up at the thought I met my sp 22 years ago we were on love and 3 months into dating she fell pregnant unfortunately outside interference caused us to seperate, we were young and we left on good terms, she called it off because she was lied to about me which she learnt later was the reason we parted ways We lost contact until 3 years ago when we both realised were living in the same town which was different to the one when we dated two decades ago We spoke and she told me she'd been married 14 years and now the husband has become emotionally,mentally and spiritually unavailable, she's left him 3 times and kicked herself everytime she's gone back, We fell in love again she left her husband and dated for a few months until husband found out she left him for me and threatened to take their kids off her if she didn't leave me It's been 15-16 months since our split and I went into no contact right from the start full on no contact as I was told by videos by people like here that that's the best thing to do to prevent neediness Last week after no contact for 15-16 months she contacted me to ask if she could see me so we went for lunch, she informed me that since our breakup she's been depressed and is in a marriage she doesn't want and that she couldn't leave because she's been told"if you make your bed lie in it" i told her that's not true and you have to choose to be happy and work out what makes you happy and go with it. After lunch we said our goodbyes and we hugged and she kissed me on the neck and told me that I've always been there for her when she's needed someone even after all this time I thought finally my manifestations and everything I have done for all this time has been working she was saying al the things i manifested for so last day or two I was at the place of finally realising my power .. then today she messaged me to tell me her and her husband have bought a house 5 hours from here where we live and she said she was set to move but now she's closer to me she has mixed emotions and 10 minutes ago I got this from her From my SP 😞I have so many mixed emotions, I don't know what to think. I'm stuck and it's fucked. I'm not sure what's going to happen with him. I need to continue on this road as I have chosen it. Yes I still have feelings for you but I do love him too, he's not as bad as you think he is. Yes we have problems and we work them out and yes I'm stressed as all fuck but I need to see where this ends up before I completely shut it down. --------------------- I need to know if I'm crazy persisting as she is moving 5 hours away in 4 weeks so I'm running out of time , Do i persist people or do I let it go and move on??? This woman is the mother of my child and all I have ever wanted and she knows this, I need advice please 😢
Hello. Ultimately the decision on whether to persist on manifesting her or move on lies with you and where you see yourself and your life in the near and more distant future. While it may not be obvious to you, she's still your mirror and mirroring your beliefs and assumptions about her and your relationship. It sounds like you've built a story of 'she loves me, but keeps going and back and forth between me and her husband' and that's what she keeps mirroring back to you. My guess is that there's a lot of back and forth in your mental diet about her, which is why this whole thing keeps happening. I suggest (if you choose to keep manifesting her) that you build a new story where she's choosing you without the back and forth, she is sure of her decision and you feel worthy of her love and being chosen by her. You also need to choose yourself by living your best life and pursuing all your goals to fulfill your potential, and that will automatically help you adopt a better mental diet about this relationship - in general, the more content we are with how our life is going, the easier it is to expect good things from life and others. If you haven't watched these videos, you may want to, you may find them helpful: ua-cam.com/video/5hDl6XenonQ/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/-R8LXr1Ujwk/v-deo.html ua-cam.com/video/m_v5KBmSAMY/v-deo.html
@@empoweredcreator Thankyou I think you may be onto something because when we talk and she's telling me how much she loves me and misses me I tell myself it's because she loves me and why wouldn't she, I have always been there for her and she knows she can rely on me, and for me when I think about her I think of how happy I feel and how she just radiates such joy from people it's as if I've won the lotto and I just realised I'd win the lotto, but then when I'm tired or stressed or not feeling my best my brain tells me that she's with him not me and I know that contradicts all that work I have done, I know I deserve her love but at times I feel as though he's better than me because he gets to be married to her even though he treats her like a dog. I'm about to watch all these videos now. If i could switch off the thoughts when I'm tired that contradict my good work because I have manifested her from being blocked to now seeing me again, thankyou 🙏
@@BullDogAU This is actually very common. When we are tired, feeling low energy, stressed out etc. it's harder to control the mind and its thoughts. The more you persist in your new story mentally and emotionally, the stronger mental fortitude you will build and the easier it will become to tell your mind to leave you alone in such moments - actually, not even believing the thoughts or identifying with them. You're training your mind to think in new ways just like you're training a muscle. There are always moments of wavering and doubt, but persisting in your new story in your head and not identifying with these opposing thoughts will help you overcome them much faster - they will also come less often.
Yes, the financial autonomy, the debtfreelife, the creative enterprise that fits my true interests , my desired loverelationship and how it was intended since the moment it formed and how I an my love should have evolved into is here, the unwanted realities are now wiped away including all people and negative memories attached to those, the emotional and physical health for me and especially my love as I want to feel him, see him in is here, only good healthy friends surrounding us , a super fun healthy lufestyle where my live and I spend together , amazing consistent and permanent stability that only get even better each moment...creating a common life where our individual strengths, skills and talents ad to an amazing lufeexperience is here. I want it, i intended for it, I love seeing it , being in it. Yes , I know the laws! Yes I know how to get everything now, safety, security, relief, joy..happiness, companionship, money without struggle, no dramas, no problems, no arguing about things that do not exist! I can do this, I know what to do , I just needed to remind myself and let it click...It is done! Life is perfect for me and my loveperson and he loves to love me.. this is it. Many thanks.
Every time I feel like giving up one of your video pops up. Thank You you your encouragement and Why this Will work even during no contact
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Sometimes I feel scared I might not manifest even if I affirm . And there's this thing that I keep thinking "if it's meant to be it will come back"
But I wanna be sure that my SP is mine no matter what
The only way you won't manifest (what you want - because you're manifesting your entire life 24/7) is if your dominant focus is on the unwanted circumstances. Your SP is yours no matter what if YOU decide this and feel this to be more and more true for you. There is no outside force deciding what is meant for you and what isn't. That decision is always yours and yours alone.
Love how you simplify your topics I am so happy to find your channel because you don’t complicate things 💜🤩keep posting more videos. GoodLuck 🌟😊
Thank you so much! Yes, my main goal is to explain things in simple terms. Too much confusion out there about these concepts 😀
Believe me your doing good job 👍
Just watched 4 minute video and pause it to comment...Very mature and lovely explanation...
Where you were till now? Watched so many videos on this topic even from big coaches...but loved your perspective on this...subscribing you right now..Also can make video whole on Bridge of Events..? Eager to watch from your side...
I am manifesting just like what Neville had manifested his marriage..i have the same exact story just like his divorce and marriage.. So feeling like I am Neville...😃😃
Thank you so much for the kind words! Glad the videos are helping you and welcome to the channel! Yes, I will make a video at some point about the bridge of events. Remember that everything is a part of the bridge of events - in fact you are, right now, on the bridge of events bringing you closer to your desire as they unfold :)
@@empoweredcreatorGood morning, Christina. Thank you one more time for another great video. I definitely believe it takes time to learn to not be triggered by circumstances. In my case, my ex who’s my SP, personally told me that she was seeing someone, but we weren’t together for over 6 months. I have to honestly say that she didn’t cheat even though I felt extremely triggered when she told me that. However, she knows how much I love her and her son that I consider like my own. Sometimes I still get triggered, but as time progresses, it becomes less, but not completely gone. The way I would like things to unfold is for her to apologize and to tell me she wants to take our relationship to the next level. Your thoughts, thanks ❤
@@ronaldclaude1892 You can manifest whatever you want. I don't personally believe in manifesting apologies because others are our mirrors, so once our inner perceptions and energy shift, others automatically shift also and show up differently. But if that's what you want, go for it.
@@empoweredcreatorThank you so much, Christina. You’re the best, always ❤❤❤
Stay focused on your vision for your health and business goals 💯
Can you do a video on birds before land? Just found your channel and i appreciate your content. Thank you
Thank you and welcome to the channel! Thanks for the suggestion - I took note of it and will make a video about birds before land. Essentially they are other people that aren't your SP mirroring your consciousness back to you.
@@empoweredcreator what does SP mean?
@@marialondon1411 SP=specific person
Christina, sorry but I can't comment under your answer for me, I write here: thank you very much for your valuable advice!! 🙏❤️
amazing video, you explain it so well, thank you so much for the effort putting in your videos to help us understand and feel more optimistic
Thank you so much ❤❤
After watching dozens of videos, yours is very clear and concise.
Thank you so much! This is a great compliment! ❤
Subscribed!
Thank you, and welcome to the channel! ❤❤
Litterally u r one of my fav youtubers ever . All love 💖
Wow, thank you!! ❤❤
...also, how can I change a circumstance that existed before me? If sp was married before I met him, what do I do?
It doesn't make a difference that he was married before you met him. It's a circumstance like any other, so the same principles apply.
Nobody but you have explained It so well .....thank you very much❤
Wow, so wonderful you feel this way! Thank you ❤❤
This found me today! I so needed to hear this❤
Love this!! ❤
Hello Christina. I had a gym crush that went nowhere as she was involved. However there was something there. Anyway we fell apart and recently saw each other again about a month ago after 3 months of no contact. I approached her said hello and left. The next time I saw her I called her over to which she said no and kept walking away. The most recent time I just ignored her(silly I know). I guess what I’m asking is, is this still reversible? I just want to get on good terms. I have gotten to the point where I don’t need her, but I want her..
Yes, anything can be reversed. It all originates in you though. Sounds like you're living in the 3D too much and you haven't mentioned anything about your inner states which is what really matters and what manifests.
@empoweredcreator I've been working on myself. Too be honest I'm what you'd consider a broken man, but I have come a long way. I was working nights for 10 years with only 4 hours of sleep a night,so my mental health took a toll. I quit nights and am now healing and feeling better day by day.
@@MusicLvr81281 When I talk about inner states, I mean it in the Neville Goddard way and definition. Νοt in terms of mental health, although a stable mental health no doubt is important in conscious manifesting. Glad your mental health is better.
beautiful christina thank you so much
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After 8 years and marriage planned out my SP left for a drug addicted rebound. The deepest cut wasnt her saying she was in love with this loser but her saying “ I’m not attracted to you” that one hurt the most.
But I keep being told circumstances don’t matter, so the fight goes on. Thank
You Christina.
Peter, circumstances don't matter because they can be changed. All realities exist simultaneously in the quantum field/4D and are equally true, but they exist as mere probabilities. What we put our attention and energy on the most determines what shows up in our 3D, hence an unwanted circumstance can always be changed if we put our focus on the right things. Also, people are always mirroring back to us our own beliefs/assumptions/dominant energies. My guess is that your SP's 'I'm not attracted to you' comment, as well as her whole leaving for someone else, was her mirroring back to you (without consciously realizing) your own dominant thoughts/energy/fears about yourself and/or your relationship with her. I made a video on 3rd parties today that should air probably the week after next and I touch some on why we manifest such circumstances. I should probably also make a video on the entire concept of 'everyone is you pushed out' because it's very important for all of us conscious manifestors.
Good luck Peter it will work for u
@@empoweredcreator thank you Christina. You’re truly the best! ✌🏼n❤️
The one that hurts the most is someone telling you that they love you more than anyone they've ever known but then you have to watch them walk away with an abusive partner knowing you can't make them stay and that may be the last time you see them because they married the wrong person but want to stay true to their vows. Even finding a way to smile these days at anything is a strength i don't have, I also suffer depression and complex PTSD so love is very painful
@@BullDogAUHow familiar are you with Neville and the concept of 'everyone is you pushed out'? You are telling a story that is the complete opposite of what you are manifesting/want, and this is why what you want is not manifesting - because your dominant story is still all about what you don't want. I hope you are getting treatment for depression and PTSD as it can be challenging to manifest while dealing with mental health issues. You need a baseline relatively stable mental state to be able to control your thoughts and train your mind. We all have off days, but untreated mental health issues can definitely make the process harder.
New to this channel. I love it!! ❤
Welcome to the channel! 🥰🥰
Just subscribed to your channel. Nice.
Wonderful! Welcome to the channel!
Hi Christina,
Thank you so much for making this video!
I work together with my SP. How do I stay motivated and trust that my manifestation will eventually come true if I keep seeing him everyday and his behaviour is totally opposite from what I’m trying to manifest? It just feels so illogical and absurd sometimes to the point that I get discouraged and feel like I’m crazy and living in my own head.
Thank you once again!
Hello. Circumstances don't matter if you are in the state of the wish fulfilled. So make sure you make that your dominant state, then what you see in the 3D will no longer be an issue. I have a long playlist called 'Specific Person' where I have talked about all sorts of challenges when manifesting an SP in various videos. I suggest you watch as many as you can.
@@empoweredcreator Thank you ❤️
Plz make a vid abt best affirmations to manifest an sp
Affirmations need to feel natural to you. That's why I always teach to do what feels natural vs. insisting on one specific technique over others, because everyone resonates with different things. If affirmations are 'your thing', take some time to figure out exactly what you want and become very clear on it. Then create affirmations based on that, as if it's already true in the 3D. Best to keep each affirmation short and to the point for easier acceptance by the subconscious.
Hi Cristina, congratulations for your channel, you're very good. I wanted to know how to focus attention and energy on our desire to create it in 3D. With affirmations? I didn't understand how to do it.
Hello. Please check my other videos where I have answered this in detail. They are all organized in playlists for easier search.
@@empoweredcreator okay Cristina...I'm m new here and I want to learn. In which playlist?
@@michelle4687 You can hit the "Playlists" tab and search through my playlists for videos that are relevant to your questions. With close to 400 posted videos, it's impossible for me to remember each and every video off the top of my head. You are responsible for seeking the information you need for yourself.
Thank you so much... I'll do it
Very good video. Misha Calvin
Thank you so much!! ❤❤
Can you make a video on manifesting a new SP in our life ?
Hello. I made such a video a few months back. It should be on my "Specific Person" playlist.
What if you told your person things you didn't like? They told you were being confrontational?
There is no special circumstance for which the Law doesn't work. You may find the video I posted today on revision helpful:
ua-cam.com/video/l0nlD8AuHIo/v-deo.html
In a way you have to really know yourself and not care what the 3d is showing you.
So you don’t have to do anything or take any action other than affirming and knowing that your SP is yours?
I'm not personally against taking action. With SP specifically, the issue is that more often than not, any action comes from neediness, insecurity, need for confirmation, validation, grasping to change the 3D etc. which all comes from a state of lack. Whenever action is taken from that state, best case it changes nothing in the 3D, worst case it backfires and makes things even worse. If action is taken from a good mental/emotional state of knowing that your SP is yours no matter what (and even in the face of seemingly opposing 3D evidence) then there's nothing wrong with taking action and can often prove to be 'inspired action'. So when/if you have an urge to take action with regards to SP, check with yourself what state it is coming from and use your judgment to decide.
Can I still manifest my sp even if they are getting married with in 2 months?
Can still get him? And cancel the marriage?
Of course. But if you have a timeline, you need to stop all the wavering and telling the old story. You need to choose your story and stick to it no matter what. Even if it doesn't manifest in 2 months, you can still persist in the assumption that the marriage gets annulled even if the wedding takes place.
I posted a video today on 3rd parties. You may find it useful: ua-cam.com/video/B9NaCDOZYrY/v-deo.html
Also my video on revision: ua-cam.com/video/l0nlD8AuHIo/v-deo.html
How can we feel it real? That they want us back ? Or should we focus on being together already ?
Yes, by regularly practicing how you would feel, think, assume, carry yourself if your desire was true right now (aka the state of the wish fulfilled/end state) it tends to feel more and more real to you, it starts to feel more natural that they do want you back and you start desiring it less (in the sense of longing for it, pining over them, obsessing over them) and expecting it more from a more relaxed, more neutral state. And just like that, it starts feeling more and more real until it manifests in the 3D as well.
@@empoweredcreator thank you very much for replying, will let you know how it goes. BTW I might be wrong pero tu lengua madre es el español?
@@vanessagandarillas4076 You're welcome! I'm actually Greek born and raised, though I live in the US now (and have been for a long time). But I do know some Spanish, though not comfortable enough to speak it - let's say I understand better than I can speak 😃
Make the videos short, 5m. You will be more successful. Misha Calvin the rock star and your big fan
We love them just the way they are. Thank you🙏
Christina plz how to manifest a married sp what r the most efficient steps
I recently recorded a video on 3rd parties - it should air on UA-cam the week after next. Essentially though, a 3rd party is no different than any other circumstance that we focus on - you keep giving it importance and weight and seeing it as a big issue in your manifestation, and that's why it keeps showing up as a problem in your life. To change that, you need to work on your self concept to embody a new state where you know and act like the person who knows they are worthy and deserve whatever they want. I go into more detail on that in the video. Then you focus on you and your SP and the relationship you're manifesting between you two and you remain as indifferent as possible to the presence of a 3P. The less attention we pay something unwanted, the less of an issue it ends up being in our story.
@@empoweredcreator does it work if the sp has children with a third party ? Thanks
@@aminatabetderraz7056 I don't know if you realize that you continue to give power to the circumstances. The Law works 100% of the time and in the same way for all things: where attention goes, energy flows. In other words, where you dominantly put your attention, that's what your 3D is going to reflect back to you. If you took your attention away from the 3P, kids etc. and stopped looking at them as obstacles and instead focused your attention on you and your SP in a happy, loving relationship, and sustained that, sooner or later your 3D would reflect that. There's no special circumstance which makes the Law not work or that is above the Law. The solution is always the same - focus on what you want. The problem with most people is that they keep focusing on everything they don't want - hence the Law still works perfectly, but it ends up working against them.
@@empoweredcreator thanks for explaining it is great i follow ur words thanks again
And time? It's been 1,5 year since our last contact. I'm losing hope.
Can you honestly, hand in heart, say that you've been living in the state of knowing that your SP is yours for the past 1.5 years and nothing has happened yet? How much have you wavered, gone back and forth, lost yourself in doubt etc.?
You may find this video helpful: ua-cam.com/video/18dlAloncck/v-deo.html
Essentially it's not how long you've been wanting something but how long since you shifted internally and sustained that shift until you see it materialize in the 3D.
Even if they choose to spend Valentine’s Day with another person out of no where? 😅
Yes. The Law doesn't only work in some cases, it works all of the time. That would be something in your self concept or assumptions about them, their feelings for you, the relationship between you, or a combination of the above that got reflected back to you by them choosing to spend Valentine's with another person. You can revise or give it a different meaning (e.g. they are just friends) and if you still want that SP, persist in your knowing that they want you and want to be together with you.
@@empoweredcreator Thankyou so much 🙏✨ You’re truly Awesome! Love your channel. So helpful..
OK, what if your SP were married? I think that would almost be impossible
Hmm...really? With a 40% divorce rate in the US (and similar rates at least in all developed countries), do you really think it's impossible your SP and their spouse could get a divorce? I'd think again 😉
I think what you're truly assuming deep down is that you're not good enough or worthy enough to be chosen by your SP, which is very common among people dealing with 3rd party situations. I have a video on 3rd parties coming up the week after next and I cover all these things in it.
@@empoweredcreator love this 😏 and you are right, 3p situations pattern indicate not feeling good enough and chosen. Once I realized it, I decided my sp and me will be happy together, and it will all be resolved do that all people involved will be better off.
@@iwillnotcomply5945 This is great!! Exactly the way you should be thinking!
What if SP is dead?
Would you manifest a relationship with a deceased person?
@@empoweredcreator no - I was just poking fun but good point of yours 😇😃
@@Sunshineandrainbows234 A lot of people actually communicate with dead people. However manifesting one in the flesh is a different story :)
I disagree with video title
In 4 weeks the mother of my child is moving 5 hours away and when I see her the last time in 4 weeks it will be hard to look her in the eye and pretend I'm happy, I feel like I'm going to throw up at the thought
I met my sp 22 years ago we were on love and 3 months into dating she fell pregnant unfortunately outside interference caused us to seperate, we were young and we left on good terms, she called it off because she was lied to about me which she learnt later was the reason we parted ways
We lost contact until 3 years ago when we both realised were living in the same town which was different to the one when we dated two decades ago
We spoke and she told me she'd been married 14 years and now the husband has become emotionally,mentally and spiritually unavailable, she's left him 3 times and kicked herself everytime she's gone back,
We fell in love again she left her husband and dated for a few months until husband found out she left him for me and threatened to take their kids off her if she didn't leave me
It's been 15-16 months since our split and I went into no contact right from the start full on no contact as I was told by videos by people like here that that's the best thing to do to prevent neediness
Last week after no contact for 15-16 months she contacted me to ask if she could see me so we went for lunch, she informed me that since our breakup she's been depressed and is in a marriage she doesn't want and that she couldn't leave because she's been told"if you make your bed lie in it" i told her that's not true and you have to choose to be happy and work out what makes you happy and go with it.
After lunch we said our goodbyes and we hugged and she kissed me on the neck and told me that I've always been there for her when she's needed someone even after all this time
I thought finally my manifestations and everything I have done for all this time has been working she was saying al the things i manifested for so last day or two I was at the place of finally realising my power .. then today she messaged me to tell me her and her husband have bought a house 5 hours from here where we live and she said she was set to move but now she's closer to me she has mixed emotions and 10 minutes ago I got this from her
From my SP
😞I have so many mixed emotions, I don't know what to think. I'm stuck and it's fucked.
I'm not sure what's going to happen with him. I need to continue on this road as I have chosen it.
Yes I still have feelings for you but I do love him too, he's not as bad as you think he is.
Yes we have problems and we work them out and yes I'm stressed as all fuck but I need to see where this ends up before I completely shut it down.
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I need to know if I'm crazy persisting as she is moving 5 hours away in 4 weeks so I'm running out of time ,
Do i persist people or do I let it go and move on???
This woman is the mother of my child and all I have ever wanted and she knows this, I need advice please 😢
Hello. Ultimately the decision on whether to persist on manifesting her or move on lies with you and where you see yourself and your life in the near and more distant future.
While it may not be obvious to you, she's still your mirror and mirroring your beliefs and assumptions about her and your relationship. It sounds like you've built a story of 'she loves me, but keeps going and back and forth between me and her husband' and that's what she keeps mirroring back to you. My guess is that there's a lot of back and forth in your mental diet about her, which is why this whole thing keeps happening. I suggest (if you choose to keep manifesting her) that you build a new story where she's choosing you without the back and forth, she is sure of her decision and you feel worthy of her love and being chosen by her. You also need to choose yourself by living your best life and pursuing all your goals to fulfill your potential, and that will automatically help you adopt a better mental diet about this relationship - in general, the more content we are with how our life is going, the easier it is to expect good things from life and others.
If you haven't watched these videos, you may want to, you may find them helpful:
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ua-cam.com/video/m_v5KBmSAMY/v-deo.html
@@empoweredcreator thank you I will watch them all
@@empoweredcreator Thankyou I think you may be onto something because when we talk and she's telling me how much she loves me and misses me I tell myself it's because she loves me and why wouldn't she, I have always been there for her and she knows she can rely on me, and for me when I think about her I think of how happy I feel and how she just radiates such joy from people it's as if I've won the lotto and I just realised I'd win the lotto, but then when I'm tired or stressed or not feeling my best my brain tells me that she's with him not me and I know that contradicts all that work I have done, I know I deserve her love but at times I feel as though he's better than me because he gets to be married to her even though he treats her like a dog. I'm about to watch all these videos now. If i could switch off the thoughts when I'm tired that contradict my good work because I have manifested her from being blocked to now seeing me again, thankyou 🙏
@@BullDogAU This is actually very common. When we are tired, feeling low energy, stressed out etc. it's harder to control the mind and its thoughts. The more you persist in your new story mentally and emotionally, the stronger mental fortitude you will build and the easier it will become to tell your mind to leave you alone in such moments - actually, not even believing the thoughts or identifying with them. You're training your mind to think in new ways just like you're training a muscle. There are always moments of wavering and doubt, but persisting in your new story in your head and not identifying with these opposing thoughts will help you overcome them much faster - they will also come less often.
Yes, the financial autonomy, the debtfreelife, the creative enterprise that fits my true interests , my desired loverelationship and how it was intended since the moment it formed and how I an my love should have evolved into is here, the unwanted realities are now wiped away including all people and negative memories attached to those, the emotional and physical health for me and especially my love as I want to feel him, see him in is here, only good healthy friends surrounding us , a super fun healthy lufestyle where my live and I spend together , amazing consistent and permanent stability that only get even better each moment...creating a common life where our individual strengths, skills and talents ad to an amazing lufeexperience is here. I want it, i intended for it, I love seeing it , being in it. Yes , I know the laws! Yes I know how to get everything now, safety, security, relief, joy..happiness, companionship, money without struggle, no dramas, no problems, no arguing about things that do not exist! I can do this, I know what to do , I just needed to remind myself and let it click...It is done! Life is perfect for me and my loveperson and he loves to love me.. this is it. Many thanks.
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