He Knew She Was His Wife at 12 | Fairytale Love Story | Dear Future Wifey S.5, E503

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  • @deehughes626
    @deehughes626 2 роки тому +216

    MY wife and I moved from a 2 br apartment to a 4 br 3 full bath brand new home in 2001 and had to rent it out due to job loss in 2003 and I felt like a failure and my wife responded with excitement. I was floored I asked your not upset we just got the home and we are moving back into an apartment ? Her response was I like the weather there better. It motivated me more than anything to get her back into a home as I felt she deserved the world afterwards. We have been married for 30 years come Jan 2023 and another woman would ever be able to catch my eye as she has me as long as she will have me.

    • @20PinkPearls
      @20PinkPearls 2 роки тому +5

      *Beautiful ...*

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 2 роки тому +6

      Amen! This is an awesome testimony. I will continue to pray for you both and the LORD continues to keep you both in love and covering one another in prayer. Blessings to you both.

    • @carolyoung3646
      @carolyoung3646 2 роки тому +1

      I appreciate you loving my sister

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul 2 роки тому +5

      Men are really into their stuff but when a woman loves her MAN, not their LIFESTYLE, how much they have doesn't matter as long as their needs are met. Even if things are tight, when there is love and respect between a man and his wife, a good woman will stand the test of time. Furthermore, a 2br apartment is MUCH easier to clean than a big ole' 4br house! Glad for y'all. Hope you make it till death do you part. 💕

    • @Nichole4Hope
      @Nichole4Hope 2 роки тому +3

      This is beautiful 🙏🙏🙏

  • @janicevance6981
    @janicevance6981 2 роки тому +46

    Awesome interview! I knew at 13 that my husband today would be my husband. Married at 18 and been married for 43 years. God is good!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

    • @Simply.Shonta
      @Simply.Shonta Рік тому

      Do you think God shows favoritism ?

    • @QuesaDia05
      @QuesaDia05 11 місяців тому

      ​@Simply.Shonta Acts 10:34-35
      New King James Version
      Preaching to Cornelius’ Household
      34 Then Peter opened his mouth and said: “In truth I perceive that God shows no partiality. 35 But in every nation whoever fears Him and works righteousness is accepted by Him.

  • @SyvilleJosephine
    @SyvilleJosephine Рік тому +32

    This man is so engaged. I love how he is leading the conversation, most times it's women giving most of the details. I love how men on this podcast have so much to contribute to the conversation. Healthy men communicate well. 😇🥰

  • @Ladi1198
    @Ladi1198 2 роки тому +80

    This is so beautiful!! He is so in love with his wife! It’s so visible!❤️My parents been married for 51 years and in my lifetime I can only recall them having one argument. A argument that I woke up too as a child. And this is not to say that they didn’t argue but they made it a point not to argue in front of their children. They fought to stay together! Rising 8 children, underlined health conditions, and now my mom has dementia but there still together! I’m encouraged! Marriage is honorable in all and the bed is undefiled!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @HIWWPI_2024
    @HIWWPI_2024 Рік тому +24

    The fact he remembered their first date (month,day,year)and the movie they went to go see is so beautiful. ❤😊

  • @ashannaarthur5444
    @ashannaarthur5444 2 роки тому +50

    I like when he said "we have been together 47 years and there are still things we can`t say to each other". That level of honesty is soooo helpful.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      True, grace and time. I pray we learn how to enjoy the ride. Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @KellieAlston
    @KellieAlston 2 роки тому +212

    Awww....my granddaddy was 12 when he told my grandmother he was going to marry her. She was 9 years old. They were married for 60 years. Got married when she was 18 and he was 21. He succumbed to cancer 3 months after their 60th anniversary. They were so in love. He would grab her booty in front of us as soon as he came in the house and call her his "Brown Sugar." We would be like, "Uggghhh!!!" when we were kids.🤭

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +25

      I absolutely love that! You were blessed to witness true love up close and personal

    • @faithwalk.
      @faithwalk. 2 роки тому +2

      ❤❤❤❤❤😊

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +16

      Im grown and this pop up story made me say eeewww too lolol🤭🤭🤭 WHY DO WE DO THAT?!!!
      Its something bout the name Sugar.. mine called My Granny Sugar Bear.. but if she didnt answer he'd take the bass out his voice and whisper Darling (we would fall out laughing cause he was a LOUD talker and we'd be like why he always whispering at Granny) and wrap his arms around her waist from behind and slow dance and she'd ALWAYS blushed rosey cheeks EVERY SINGLE TIME and turn to kiss him then say WHAT DO YOU WANT.. and smile.. and we'd be like gooosshh... and they both would laugh at us..
      Kellie, we are truly blessed to have witnessed, what we really didnt understand as children, what black love truly looks like. That was our grandfathers' love languages...before love language was a thing💞💞💞🙌🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @KellieAlston
      @KellieAlston 2 роки тому +12

      @@DearFutureWifey Yes, and I am so grateful. My grandma passed in 2020 from Covid and she wore a pendant with my grandfather's picture around her neck every single day. She lived 14 years after he passed and always talked about how blessed she was to have a loving, godly husband who took care of his family and spent time with them. They had 12 children.

    • @KellieAlston
      @KellieAlston 2 роки тому +4

      @@kingdomkrafted6200 I love this!!! Yes, we were so blessed. My grandparents were very respectful and kind to each other. They would disagree on things but never yelled or called each other out of their names. My mama even said the same thing about them. And you know what? My granddaddy let us grandkids know that we better not raise a hair on my grandmother's head or we would have him to deal with.☺️ We would be over there after school or on teacher's workdays. So, he let us know, "This ain't what you want, Grandchirrren!"😂😂😂 So, we gave my grandma no problems.🤭

  • @iamconnie2303
    @iamconnie2303 2 роки тому +107

    "If hard hearts cause divorce, then healed hearts must be those other marriages"

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +7

      It was THAT PART!!!🙌🙌🙌👏🏼👏🏼🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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    • @thatkatia
      @thatkatia 2 роки тому +1

      ♥️

    • @kdavis3672
      @kdavis3672 2 роки тому +1

      My Lord 🙌🏾🙏🏾

    • @ameliac504
      @ameliac504 Рік тому

      Wow

  • @oyanamoorer7877
    @oyanamoorer7877 2 роки тому +64

    Not only is this podcast a miracle that ignites hope, you King are the miracle that gives us women hope to believe that real men of God do exist. Thank you for another beautiful episode.

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +7

      To God be the glory

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      I am grateful the Lord has ignited your hope a little more

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @eutropiarhodes1666
    @eutropiarhodes1666 2 роки тому +70

    BEAUTIFUL 🥰
    I have ALWAYS believed when a man meets his wife ...he just knows.
    It was the same thing with my dad. He knew my mom was the one at 11 or 12. My parents were together until my dad went on to be with the Lord.
    I want that kind of love....
    always have....still do. Amen.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +4

      I pray the Lord will give you the desires of your heart

    • @riverwells5151
      @riverwells5151 2 роки тому +4

      You were simply a joy to hear recently. Your a beautiful black woman with ageless beauty. God truly is preserving you and I hope you will one day share your love story with us. Be encouraged. I love & admire your spirit ❤️!!!

    • @ameliac504
      @ameliac504 Рік тому

      I really hope those kind of men are still out there… seems a bit slim

  • @Iamlonndanicole
    @Iamlonndanicole 2 роки тому +42

    I tried to tell my boyfriend how we as women know which woman would try something with him.. I really hope men listen to this podcast. It’s not rebuke, it’s correction and warning from a loving place

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @emjayramosaea5150
    @emjayramosaea5150 2 роки тому +34

    This statement hits me differently " I love sitting at the feet of wisdom" already this sets the tone for the rest of the session. Loved it.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @djuanmansfield
    @djuanmansfield 2 роки тому +38

    As a 30 year old waiting for my husband, this definitely blessed me and planted a seed of hope, that things will work out if you put your faith and trust and God to see you through life’s storms. And some days you’ll want to walk away, but If you hold on to Jesus, He’ll make things new. ❤

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      It is always a blessing here when someone’s hope he’s renewed … how long can last forever… After all podcast

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 2 роки тому +52

    This is the SWEETEST episode in DFW history! I loooovvvvveeeee this conversation. The fact that he wouldn't "defile" her AND gave her wardrobe triggers/boundaries 🥺

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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    • @ingridphillip5367
      @ingridphillip5367 Рік тому

      You need to watch the viral couple that is married for 51 💕💕💕

    • @ameliac504
      @ameliac504 Рік тому

      Yessss

  • @LuvMiwrite
    @LuvMiwrite 2 роки тому +18

    I love how you have grown with your interviewing skills/ability to create a safe space for authentic conversation 🌸

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @eutropiarhodes1666
    @eutropiarhodes1666 2 роки тому +136

    When my dad told my mom he was going to marry her...she was 8 or 9... she ran from him for years 😂. I'm glad he caught her.
    Her mom died when she was 15 and my dad was away in the U.S. Air Force.
    When he came back home... they ran into each other at the store. He took his mom and auntie, and my mom's little sister kept bugging her to take her to the store that day. Long story short ..that was their reconnection.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      Love it

    • @missnurseeri
      @missnurseeri 2 роки тому +9

      "I'm glad he caught her." 😂 That's too adorable.

    • @kayejones300
      @kayejones300 2 роки тому +8

      He knew what the bible meant by "marry the woman of your youth" when he seen her at the store he was like let me lock this love in!

    • @eutropiarhodes1666
      @eutropiarhodes1666 2 роки тому +3

      @@kayejones300 yeah...that was my dad

    • @VeronicaInspires
      @VeronicaInspires 2 роки тому +1

      This is beautiful 🥰

  • @DC73092
    @DC73092 2 роки тому +26

    Been waiting for this 1! 2 annointed brothers, one with hopes for future love, one presently in love💪🏾 God Bless all 3 of you for doing this episode and living out God's will for your life❣️

  • @faith2faith1983
    @faith2faith1983 2 роки тому +10

    OMG at work in tears this is so good. I have listened to 2 podcast and they have been healing for my heart so far. To hear this Pastor speak is like listening to the dad I have been looking for in my life. Thank you for sharing.

  • @jodi-annheaven2677
    @jodi-annheaven2677 2 роки тому +22

    Pastor Calvin needs to publish about about this because it is very encouraging and its helping alot of us it gives me hope

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +4

      Pray for me as I am seeking to write a book in the near future

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for subscribing at our UA-cam channel PastorCalcope and our website at pastorcalcope.com

  • @VonnieVon86
    @VonnieVon86 Рік тому +5

    She's so meek and humble in demeanor. Learned tons just through her disposition ❤❤

  • @kingdomkrafted6200
    @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +82

    My grand father saw my granny when she was 14 and he was 24 (in the early 1930s) while he was home for a visit from the Navy.. He said he saw her and she took his breath away... he had traveled all over the world and never saw something so beautiful.. he paid his friend's one week salary to let him delivery milk to my Granny's house.. she wouldn't pay him no mind so he paid dude for a month cause he meant he was gone marry her..he thougt he was the best and only deserved the best and when he looked at her and listened to her speak she represented the best of himself that he had yet to see...And he NEEDED to see his greatest self..because he was his ONLY competition but he knew there was more...they married when she was 18 and he was 28 and they were together for over 65 years... til death did them part... and he was the first black A LOT of things in our town and he'd say it was because of God and the gift he gave him in her.

    • @Taytimethursday
      @Taytimethursday 2 роки тому +6

      14?!!! He was 24 😮

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +19

      @@Taytimethursday that was the culture back then... he didnt marry her until she was 18... there werent any laws surrounding age...all he needed was my Great grandfather's permission.. he didnt sleep with her until years after they married.. he said as much as he thought of himself, he didnt feel worthy of her angelic presence and he never wanted to leave her..so he waited til he was done in the Navy so he could be fully present for her... he didnt just take my granny, he took her father and her 2 little sisters into his home as well..Her mother had been raped and murdered by a white mob..along with my Granny's other 2 younger sisters (at different times)...My Granny was the oldest and the only mother they knew so my grandfather took all of them cause he didnt want to separate her from her family. He told her dad that they all could leave and cleave to him.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🙌 my grandfather was SOMETHING ELSE chyyy

    • @faithwalk.
      @faithwalk. 2 роки тому +3

      wow!❤❤❤❤

    • @rrnn6472
      @rrnn6472 2 роки тому +7

      @@kingdomkrafted6200 This so has the potential to be a great book / movie! Please tell your family's story.

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +2

      @@rrnn6472 thanks for that encouragement. I never thought about that. I will do that..
      It will be my hope that their story will bring inspiration, awaken our forgotten identity, and help facilitate the rebuilding of a collective integrity back to our community so that we can show up well as a people to increase the value of diversity in this nation.. spilling over into the world...with the understanding that restoration for our nation first starts with an ON PURPOSE segregation which will allow us an opportunity to shine the light on our areas of opportunities/challenges, work together to collectively find solutions and begin the HEALING we so desperately need.🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
      Their story was not a "fictual fairytale", it was the lost structual dynamics of family, faith, community, and love.
      Thanks for thar amazing suggestion..

  • @alevtinaberezhnaya1785
    @alevtinaberezhnaya1785 2 роки тому +9

    Ladies, you know what I find amazing. The woman on his side, does sat anything. She just sits and listens. Amazing! How many of us have that kind of discipline? Watch and learn, ladies.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your affirmations join the “Forever Love Family” to hear more stories
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  • @DajaLatte
    @DajaLatte 2 роки тому +8

    Your transparency and unapologetic authentic way you give it to us is EVERYTHING!!! Pastor Cal and Aliss are such a BLESSING.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @wiriwministries4684
    @wiriwministries4684 2 роки тому +5

    This was an amazing episode. Being married 34 years and today I learned more of how we can still be better!

  • @missnurseeri
    @missnurseeri 2 роки тому +7

    Revelation, wow. Intentionally dying to self, and releasing my wants... to have my hands free to bandage, massage, apply healing balm to HIS wounded places. In service to God.
    Not using your two hands to try to mold a man into the image you want, or who you told yourself he was when you met. But in true servitude and obedience to the Father. Who called you to do so in the 1st place. That requires an actual relationship with the Father, a willingness to serve, and a intimate knowledge of the Father's voice and Word. Wow.
    And while I knew that in a way, something about how it was presented hit different.
    Charis and Shalom ❤️

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @jlynn974
    @jlynn974 2 роки тому +22

    This is absolutely needed! We need to hear from wisdom more often.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Grateful this episode was a blessing and thanks for subscribing
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  • @yesworks6993
    @yesworks6993 Рік тому +2

    Laterras this man is sooo humble and LIT. He brought me to tears in his delivery. I totally enjoyed this episode. Continue doing good by these podcast.
    Jamaica 67 yrs.

  • @jessicamusila5526
    @jessicamusila5526 2 роки тому +19

    Off the charts! Marital relationships are God's tools for us to heal each other in our hurt places. Selah!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @nosiphopakamile8972
    @nosiphopakamile8972 2 роки тому +6

    The way she nodded while he confessed the weakness of his flesh, looking straight at him as to say 'it's OK' ... did it for me. ❤
    And how he loved her enough to let her keep her purity... selfless act❤. Cause she gave in because she loved him. *beautiful* hearts🙌🏾
    Wow! The miracle part is so spot on! We now believe that's it's possible. Not just love, but faith! There's honest people who love the Lord and their chosen spouses. We've been brought back to life if ever we were doubting! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💯 Praise God!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @jamesejordan573
    @jamesejordan573 2 роки тому +18

    I love this! She is an absolutely sweet and graceful lady! Thank you Mr Calvin and Mrs Alise for sharing your story with us.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Grateful this episode was a blessing and thanks for subscribing
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  • @aishamills5629
    @aishamills5629 2 роки тому +21

    Another awesome episode, it takes another level of submission to see things falling apart around you and look to your husband and say help me to see. Beautiful 😍

    • @kelechisanders1844
      @kelechisanders1844 2 роки тому +4

      She could ask with confidence knowing he was under authority 🙏

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      All I can say Thank You Lord!

  • @Anna_Marshae
    @Anna_Marshae 2 роки тому +28

    This was a master class, cleaning/clearing the heart from your hurt, transparency in your relationship, and we in this together makes hard time easier when we know we are as one are a few things I take away from this. Forever can be a fairytale if you believe, trust, and keeping trying through a relationship with God and the genuine relationship with each other.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      I pray that all of your dreams become reality with the word of God leading the way

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Grateful this episode was a blessing and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @SashaS924
    @SashaS924 2 роки тому +6

    The HONESTY that he gave her AND RESPECT that this man has for his WIFE… 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Still healing thank God “Forever Love Family” to hear more stories
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  • @sharoncisneros8637
    @sharoncisneros8637 2 роки тому +22

    I loved when he actually offered a tissue because it brought him to tears as he recounted the story of her unbuttoning her pink blouse and her saying, she thought it would happen different than this! And how he stopped his fleshly gratification until the time was comfortable for him and his Bride.
    He tearedd up like it happened yesterday!
    But if it had, it might of caused a rift in their Union today if she felt defiled in any way.
    The most powerful moment coming from her when she stayed the course through bankruptcy was when she said, "Help me to see!" Wow!!!
    It takes two people loving Him because He never promised a life of comfort or convenience. And recognizing the gift of the other as a gift from God so that u not only choose each other but prefer one another because you can lose it at any time, even by death, let alone divorce or separation.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Great insights on the interview… end it really did feel like it was yesterday

  • @motherlessflower3081
    @motherlessflower3081 2 роки тому +11

    💜This is by far my favorite episode ! Beautiful, just beautiful. I got goosebumps lol

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @JibbySky
    @JibbySky 2 роки тому +14

    This podcast is so enlightening, I don't even remember how I stumbled upon it, I've been abstaining from sexual relations for 11 years and been saved and in church for 10, the level of wisdom that comes from Dear Future Wifey podcast is helping me , change my thinking, and grow ,we don't get this in some churches , it's needed and it's Refreshing, WOW, KEEP GOING KING PRESS ON

    • @beesknees213
      @beesknees213 2 роки тому +1

      Stand fast sis. Having done all STAND.......

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @beechannel27
    @beechannel27 8 місяців тому +1

    This was such a wholesome episode. I love the transparency and simplicity of the story. 😊❤

  • @angeladarby6365
    @angeladarby6365 2 роки тому +4

    This episode just changed my life in such a good way. Thank you for this series!!!❤

  • @janicetaylor1272
    @janicetaylor1272 2 роки тому +17

    I am learning so much about what i want in a marriage. The honeymoon never ends and it's not all about sex. Helping each other heal is a never ending honeymoon. 🙏🙏🙏

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      We really can have it all … just keep each other first

  • @akuafayettegoosesense
    @akuafayettegoosesense 2 роки тому +4

    Love this segment Spirit, Body & Soul ...THIS IS REAL .

  • @shemmollyne7790
    @shemmollyne7790 2 роки тому +6

    'How can last forever? Is you make sure you understand that it can be taken from you at any moment' Is my takeaway and this has been like therapy. Beautiful love

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @tikerachisley6028
    @tikerachisley6028 2 роки тому +9

    Love sitting at the feet of wisdom and experience. Thanks for the change in tempo. But I can’t wait until you bring Ms. Eutropia on!

  • @AndreaSylve
    @AndreaSylve 2 роки тому +12

    The confirmation keeps coming. I have the one. I backed away from him for a month early in the dating stage because I felt it was too easy. God is still amazing me and proving his word. Can't wait to take this adventure with the one IN CHRIST. God bless you and keep you.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @yolandabacon3662
    @yolandabacon3662 2 роки тому +11

    I miss this kind of love. I remember when you knew someone was sincerely interested in you. I knew we would miss it one day. I miss the kind of heart this man has for his wife (from men). When things are plentiful and easy to access it is not appreciated as much.

  • @rosemarydavis2806
    @rosemarydavis2806 2 роки тому +3

    THIS IS SO HELPFUL, SO ENLIGHTEN BY THIS CONVERSATION, I'M 67 NEVER KNEW THAT TYPE OF DYNAMICS OF MARRIAGE. WHEN YOU HELP HEAL THE OTHER PERSON. THANK YOU FOR YOUR PODCAST, GREATFUL FOR THE COUPLE

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @mitchella5954
    @mitchella5954 2 роки тому +3

    I loved this couple! So much wisdom packed in this one. I'll have to watch it a couple more times in the future.

  • @adlysahollis5447
    @adlysahollis5447 2 роки тому +2

    Thank Pastor Calvin and Lady Aliss for the wisdom. This was so rich.

  • @nomvulamqebisa2313
    @nomvulamqebisa2313 2 роки тому +3

    Your podcast is bringing healing in my heart, my life n my faith. Thank u so much all the way from South Africa

  • @brandigranderson393
    @brandigranderson393 2 роки тому +8

    Gosh … man every single time I need a word… Mr. Whitfield your videos come through
    I want to thank god for your continued ministry

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +1

      Screaming HEYYY BRANDI Are we kin folk? My last name is Granderson too...AND YOU KNOW it aint that many of us😁👋🏼👋🏼👋🏼 Hey Girl Heeyyy

    • @brandigranderson393
      @brandigranderson393 2 роки тому

      @@kingdomkrafted6200 oh wow we might be! Especially if from Mississippi or Chicago! Although I did find a Granderson in LA but I’m sketchy on Relation though although I do have cousins in California… neither of them were familiar with the Granderson I found

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому

      @@brandigranderson393 I'm from VA and we have some in Pennsylvania... but if I'm honest, Although my last name is Granderson and so was that of my Father, it was revealed when my Dad was almost 60 that We arent biologically Granderson's...LONG STORY 🤦🏽‍♀️ #familysecrets.. but I'm always excited to see another Granderson though💞

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for subscribing at our UA-cam channel PastorCalcope and our website at pastorcalcope.com

  • @Profalssional
    @Profalssional 11 місяців тому

    This is by far the best and most real podcast I have watched so far

  • @thyrajoseph2720
    @thyrajoseph2720 Рік тому

    To find your lifelong love at 12 years old is truly a blessing from God. To still be in love with your spouse, where you can be moved to tears when recalling a memory, is truly a blessing from God. I pray for 30 more years of this precious love for The Copeland's. ❤ Laterras, I wish I had started listening to your podcasts in 2020 but God knows why I started in 2023. I am so blessed by this podcast. It has confirmed a lot of thoughts I have, and it has transformed my mindset. To God be the glory! My faith in God has been strengthened as I see how He is moving in my life. Thank you for being obedient. Beautiful letter!❤

  • @maviswashington5794
    @maviswashington5794 2 роки тому +3

    I have always loved you two together ♥️I have watched you walk thru some hard times together. I watched you two come to the altar together for prayer. So I prayed for you two also. Love you two to life🙏 So glad this video came across my feed!!!

  • @rewritingjustice227
    @rewritingjustice227 2 роки тому +9

    God is demonstrating that he has and is still raising up WORLD CHANGERS! WOW!!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Grateful this episode was a blessing and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @cherisezieglar
    @cherisezieglar 2 роки тому +5

    I’m so glad that I clicked on this real interview! I needed every part of this. Such a beautiful couple with so much wisdom! Thank you 🙏🏾❤️

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +1

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @WhosoeverGirl
    @WhosoeverGirl 2 роки тому +9

    I fact checked the movies comment ... He was on point! Rocky 3 came out May 28, 1982! June 5th was a Saturday ...Date Night!!! I'm here for the rest of this podcast !!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for the fact check

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +1

      Love it! Lol.

    • @girlmeetskingdom
      @girlmeetskingdom 2 роки тому +1

      yessss with the fact check!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @katherinekamaria
    @katherinekamaria Рік тому +5

    This is a beautiful couple as well as their story. I’m so glad they shared it. I love the story of buttoning the blouse up and his transparency regarding the lifetime struggle with temptation. Also, it touched my heart when his wife asked him to help her see in a tough time. That is a wife. Be blessed and thank you for this episode! #Seraphim

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope Рік тому +1

      Thank YOU !!! Toon in for more relationships showing "How Love Can Last Forever ... After All" ua-cam.com/video/5X6nJLQ7EqY/v-deo.html

  • @maggieedwards3951
    @maggieedwards3951 2 роки тому +3

    Had to watch again this was wonderful grace you prayed over Pastor Copland his wife and their progress on their podcast .👍🏽

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @mrsscott0616
    @mrsscott0616 2 роки тому +11

    So often I have to ponder regarding my thoughts after listening to your podcasts. I’m just so grateful to God for you and for your assignment. This episode, this couple, these words were powerful beyond imagination. Thank all of you and God’s continued blessings ❤️

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +6

      I love how God does surgery on our hearts.

    • @mrsscott0616
      @mrsscott0616 2 роки тому

      @@DearFutureWifey me too!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @tand6250
    @tand6250 2 роки тому +3

    This episode has truly blessed me !! It brings you back & to present of relationships rarely seen !! Thank you 🙏🏽

  • @tommyd1059
    @tommyd1059 2 роки тому +3

    Soooo many nuggets dropped I this episode. I love when couples speak on the hard times and how they overcame them. To many people think marriage is just a cake walk. .

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Not a cake walk BUT Healing along the way “Forever Love Family” to hear more stories
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @sharasmiledfw
    @sharasmiledfw Рік тому +1

    This just makes me happy! Joyful really! What a beautiful relationship! 😊

  • @wmenofdestiny
    @wmenofdestiny 2 роки тому +1

    The way I hollered when he said “he listened to his flesh”!!!
    Truth-Time-Grace: that’s good! I gave the grace but not afforded time to heal nor truth.

  • @hs-qk9qf
    @hs-qk9qf 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you Laterras for guiding and keeping this conversation on track, I'll leave it at that.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @deehughes626
    @deehughes626 2 роки тому +2

    I've been married for 29years and it's so refreshing to see a loving couple. That did it correct it took me so many years for my wife and I to get our marriage to a level as we define and maturity.

  • @pamsweat7492
    @pamsweat7492 2 роки тому +15

    I loved this episode. Wisdom! Gems! When they said you have to make each other a priority, that's powerful. Do you know the level of security (speaking as a woman) you feel when you know you are a man's priority?! POWERFUL! I'd also like to add to that "best friend." If you are your spouse's best friend and priority, that's a hedge of protection like no other. I want that Copeland Love 💕. Laterras, when you said you gave your ex-wife the letter with the names of every woman and what you did, it was the "whew Lord" for me 😂

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому

      Wow. I forgot I said that

    • @pamsweat7492
      @pamsweat7492 2 роки тому

      @@DearFutureWifey Lol.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      So grateful that so many are having their hope renewed that love really can last forever

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @pamk1967
    @pamk1967 2 роки тому +5

    Yeees Calvin, remember the date!!! This is wonderful ❤️ Great vlog Laterras, keep sharing stories of love, relationships and Hope❣️✌🏾😁

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @EricaBestpurplelover04
    @EricaBestpurplelover04 2 роки тому +2

    This one of your best interviews yet keep getting better and better. I hope you keep growing into the man you want your sons see and be.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @melodidrake9871
    @melodidrake9871 2 роки тому +2

    I love you guys. You are the real, real. Always a boost to my day...helps center me and manage expectations in my own relationship! Thank you.❤

  • @kscourt21
    @kscourt21 2 роки тому +10

    The amount of wisdom, transparency and truth in this episode 👏 🙌 👌 🎉👏 Simply Awesome! God's anointing all over The Copelands and Laterras taking it all in!! The encouragement and support of one another to be submissive and open to helping one another through the healing process..... WOW!! THIS was absolutely a Marriage Counseling Session!! Thank you all for the wisdom, understanding, and knowledge poured out!! Another Amazing Episode Laterras!! Thank you all!! 👏👏👏

    • @lasamay2025
      @lasamay2025 2 роки тому +1

      Loved it!!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @kimdean9085
    @kimdean9085 2 роки тому +1

    Beautiful Powerful story.This man has such a heart to minister to the masses...truly LIT!

  • @lerrylee8711
    @lerrylee8711 2 роки тому +6

    "Love covers a multitude of sins" - that is profound 🙏

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @ckks0nyoutube
    @ckks0nyoutube 2 роки тому +12

    ‘It never ends....’ how true, and not just sexually, all the other appetites too!
    You need to host a panel of elders, probably at the next milestone you want to celebrate; ‘one generation shall praise You to another...’

    • @kingdomkrafted6200
      @kingdomkrafted6200 2 роки тому +1

      COME PROVERBS 31 WOMAN'S HUSBAND!!!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🙌🙌🙌🙏🏽🙏🏽 that was a great suggestion.... cause thats surely what proverbs 31 woman's husband was know to be... sitting amongst the elders and known at the city gates chyy.. woooo weee that was good..

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому +4

      Stop reading my mind. Lol

    • @ckks0nyoutube
      @ckks0nyoutube 2 роки тому +1

      @@DearFutureWifey great minds think alike😉

  • @DrbridgetteTJ
    @DrbridgetteTJ 2 роки тому +3

    Heal your heart!! This was refreshing. He had something real in sight! WOW!!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      I like the song says “ain’t nothing like the real thing”

  • @herfamiller139
    @herfamiller139 2 роки тому +2

    Wow these contents keeps getting better and better. Pst C needs to put this testimony in a book and a movie. Thanks Laterras another job well executed as always.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @lynn2thecore
    @lynn2thecore 2 роки тому +3

    What a wonderful letter at the end... Wow. Powerful!

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому

      Thank you

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @beulahdukes
    @beulahdukes 2 роки тому +1

    I’m just Subscribing today and I’m glad I came across this Podcast. I dreamed about this channel and woke up to it. It’s good to be here. I enjoyed the couple this morning. Blessings.

  • @riverwells5151
    @riverwells5151 2 роки тому +4

    Great content. The wonderful thing I find with this podcast is that God will speak to the heart and reveal a word within a word. The guests maybe saying A, yet the word is discerning so I receive B, C, and/or D. I find myself shedding tears of healing, pressing pause and then immediately returning for more. Thank you LRW, your amazing ❤❤❤!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      I love it when will it when the Word comes alive for us

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @TheSureFireWomb
    @TheSureFireWomb 2 роки тому +4

    Thank you for another great episode and a new, mature-love, healing and God-centered podcast to watch. I subscribed. Married 22 years and appreciate experiences I can relate to and learn from. I pray for both you and future wife's healing. ❤💯

  • @kejuanlynette8531
    @kejuanlynette8531 2 роки тому +6

    Also, her skin is flawless 💕 He is very blessed!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Yes lord …she is fine ❣️❣️❣️ Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @Grateful4Lyfe1
    @Grateful4Lyfe1 2 роки тому +4

    First time hearing this podcast. This is so powerful thank you so much for sharing much needed

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for subscribing at our UA-cam channel PastorCalcope and our website at pastorcalcope.com

  • @humblewarrior7593
    @humblewarrior7593 2 роки тому +9

    They are a beautiful couple, rich with wisdom.

  • @catherinewright1872
    @catherinewright1872 2 роки тому +6

    This is good. To realize that people live in a fairy tale world when dealing with porn and other things. When you get a taste of the real world what a blessing. Knowing that the fight to keep is also a understanding, wow.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +2

      Keep striving to stay connected to those you love and to God above

  • @blackwomanblog
    @blackwomanblog 2 роки тому +2

    Insightful, impactful, truly a educational lesson ❤️

  • @lifecoachmsstarr
    @lifecoachmsstarr 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for another powerful interview. Latteras, we going to show up because you are honest and own it. Appreciate you and blessings 🙏🏼

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for your affirmations join the “Forever Love Family” to hear more stories
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  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 роки тому +7

    This si beautiufl. "Put your shirt back on" . REAL MAN ladies attention attention listen up ladies and gents.

  • @tonia3371
    @tonia3371 2 роки тому +4

    I absolutely enjoy this podcast. This is one of my top five favorite. God bless you

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Wow top 5 Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @HIWWPI_2024
    @HIWWPI_2024 Рік тому +2

    Yes Mr.Copeland healing never ends. Facts.

  • @Rashaadthegr8
    @Rashaadthegr8 2 роки тому +8

    Then men knew at 12 I don't even know at 32. lol.

  • @shawnaw9750
    @shawnaw9750 2 роки тому +3

    Another great interview with so many gems. Thank you!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @msshawbear
    @msshawbear 2 роки тому +2

    This was so much wisdom and transparency. This has helped me in so many ways. As I continue to heal and wait. Thank God for this.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html.

  • @queenofthesouth4205
    @queenofthesouth4205 2 роки тому +2

    Powerful!!! Thank you LW, you have a very, very special platform.🙏🙏

    • @DearFutureWifey
      @DearFutureWifey  2 роки тому

      I appreciate that!

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Hope our interview was a blessing. check out more like this on “how love can last forever … after all “and thanks for subscribing
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  • @ramonaemmond8860
    @ramonaemmond8860 2 роки тому +3

    Really excellent! Love the transparency.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Grateful this episode was a blessing and thanks for subscribing
      ua-cam.com/channels/8jRv1cHH2NmxxFgWhxPYWg.html

  • @sscott504
    @sscott504 2 роки тому +7

    This is COUPLE GOALS!!!!!!!

  • @akuafayettegoosesense
    @akuafayettegoosesense 2 роки тому +3

    33 years is a marker in our marriage...I knew what my healing was...I spoke it to my husband to be...this is my trigger point...I was 18 going on 45...

  • @nakenyiasheree
    @nakenyiasheree 2 роки тому +1

    Wheeeeew this was a great episode 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 . All these gems on Dear Future wife sooo helpful .

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope 2 роки тому

      Thanks for your affirmations join the “Forever Love Family” to hear more stories
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  • @tifwins8866
    @tifwins8866 2 роки тому +2

    I remember Mr. Calvin from the live such an awesome interview..Thank you

  • @pearlhunter2440
    @pearlhunter2440 Рік тому +2

    Them "Jordache jeans"... 🤣😂🤣

  • @lesleyaddison1999
    @lesleyaddison1999 Рік тому +1

    Awesome and a Blessing to Watch. Thank You🙌🏾🌟

  • @queenb5326
    @queenb5326 Рік тому +1

    Just want to say "Thank You." Your podcast is a blessing to me.

    • @pastorcalcope
      @pastorcalcope Рік тому +1

      Toon in for more relationships showing "How Love Can Last Forever ... After All" ua-cam.com/video/5X6nJLQ7EqY/v-deo.html

  • @lynnmcmillian5137
    @lynnmcmillian5137 2 роки тому +1

    I’m so humbled to hear this , it is the mirror of a true a Godly love , and making the choice to live properly!
    I understand perfectly what he’s saying!
    May Mercy Always Prevail For All ! Thank You For Sharing 🥀