8:31 Mmm… More like most INFJs need to learn to be in present or here & now. Our dominant function Ni is more future oriented & more based on the subconscious/unconscious. The here & now is more dealing with the inferior function Se, which is what most INFJs need to learn to anchor & link the Ni world with, to ground their Ni future or subconscious vision into present Se reality.
You know, when I've watched myself, my INFJ friend, read other comments and listened to you, I see us as very complicated, integrated multiple personalities or archetype displayer and what you're describing sounds like transitions between archetypes and whether they are the light or dark version. We are materialistic some time, but we know that it's fleeting and could be broken, lost or taken at any point. So we are materialistic for seconds and appreciative for the rest of our lives. If we don't get the item, then its fate. We don't hate people but love people, we hate their actions. We condemn them and forgive them quickly, realising we are made of the same stuff but are less prone to the stuck or rigid mind mentality they are. We are definitely different in the use of the mind to most people. That's just my idea, I'm probably wrong but it seems right from my perspective. I heard something the other day, we are a balance of Paranoia and Pronoia and it did make me laugh.
I love finding reasons to write I Inspire myself constantly but I get greater joy from the inspiration I get from others some people watch fish some listen to the waves I find peacefulness in writing
I shall giggle about each encounter ...each time ...when I speak with you ...am I awakening a sleeping dragon... or is it the stealthy wolf that sees me ...i will not put away my shield....❤
My main INFJ paradox is I want to connect and know every facet of the people I meet, but at the same time I want them to leave me alone. You are the only person I've ever heard use the phrase "hoogie boogie". You use it to mean spooky or outworldly. My imagined scenarios of you picking this phrase up is you've somehow seen a cut musical number from the nightmare before Christmas where Oogie boogie sings the hoogie boogie 🤭 Where did you pick up or coin this phrase?
@@ericb2871 How's that paradox working out for you? 😂 Actually I know what you mean with that. I'm kinda the same. One foot in one foot out. I know all your stuff but don't expect to hang out with me, yes? 🫣 As for the hoojie boojie....I haven't seen that movie actually. And I have no idea where I picked it up from! But I have been saying it for years so....it's mine now!!!🤣🤣
@INFJCHECKMATE Terribly. Everyone always wants something. Lol You have never seen The Nightmare before Christmas... Its the musical embodiment of spooky whimsy. Its a claymation kids film, but still a classic nonetheless. I grieve for you... On the topic of "Hoojie Boojie" and more so in the same vain, synchronicities, any examples recently in your life? Particular Dreams recently? I get those.
@@ericb2871 I see...what do they want from you? You think it's because you have good energy? They just want to be around you? Or they have tasks to help with? I guess I should be sad for myself that I haven't seen that movie. 😁 Maybe I'll try watching it this year. So....the synchronicity stuff...dreams, I have quite detailed dreams but I haven't had any freaky ones lately. (That I can remember) What about you? Trippy dreams? I find dreams fascinating. Every night I can't wait to sleep so that I can experience something different in my dreams.
@@INFJCHECKMATE They enjoy my energy and want to be around or talk to me. Therapist mode. You know. With dreams I'll dream of meeting with someone and sitting and talking. Like the last time was I dreamed I was invited to a podcast by a particular person. When I woke I got this feeling they were coming and they were at the door within the hour. But many times I've dreamed about meeting someone and sitting and talking and waking with a feeling they were on the way and they arrive shortly unannounced. You know now that I think about it, I have some rude people in my life. 🤣 But it's like I pick up on their intention to visit or something. The wierdest time was with a high school friend who i hadn't seen or talked to in forever. .
😂 I am full blown infj. wtf. 100% accurate. Hallo family.
@@safethamzagic7226 😁 ah, welcome to the land of infj's.....and thanks!
8:31 Mmm… More like most INFJs need to learn to be in present or here & now. Our dominant function Ni is more future oriented & more based on the subconscious/unconscious. The here & now is more dealing with the inferior function Se, which is what most INFJs need to learn to anchor & link the Ni world with, to ground their Ni future or subconscious vision into present Se reality.
You know, when I've watched myself, my INFJ friend, read other comments and listened to you, I see us as very complicated, integrated multiple personalities or archetype displayer and what you're describing sounds like transitions between archetypes and whether they are the light or dark version.
We are materialistic some time, but we know that it's fleeting and could be broken, lost or taken at any point. So we are materialistic for seconds and appreciative for the rest of our lives. If we don't get the item, then its fate.
We don't hate people but love people, we hate their actions. We condemn them and forgive them quickly, realising we are made of the same stuff but are less prone to the stuck or rigid mind mentality they are.
We are definitely different in the use of the mind to most people.
That's just my idea, I'm probably wrong but it seems right from my perspective. I heard something the other day, we are a balance of Paranoia and Pronoia and it did make me laugh.
@@nicoj84 Omg, yes!! That rings true. You explained it better than me!
@INFJCHECKMATE jeese thanks. I just hope it adds to the overall knowledge. I love your videos and the comments.
I love finding reasons to write I Inspire myself constantly but I get greater joy from the inspiration I get from others some people watch fish some listen to the waves I find peacefulness in writing
I shall giggle about each encounter ...each time ...when I speak with you ...am I awakening a sleeping dragon... or is it the stealthy wolf that sees me ...i will not put away my shield....❤
Wow, this packed a punch 👊🤪 🤭💜🫶💫
We are a paradox, indeed. :) excellent video
@@emmad4152 Thanks! 😀
100% accurate!
What's the one that I missed?
My main INFJ paradox is I want to connect and know every facet of the people I meet, but at the same time I want them to leave me alone.
You are the only person I've ever heard use the phrase "hoogie boogie". You use it to mean spooky or outworldly. My imagined scenarios of you picking this phrase up is you've somehow seen a cut musical number from the nightmare before Christmas where Oogie boogie sings the hoogie boogie 🤭 Where did you pick up or coin this phrase?
@@ericb2871 How's that paradox working out for you? 😂 Actually I know what you mean with that. I'm kinda the same. One foot in one foot out. I know all your stuff but don't expect to hang out with me, yes? 🫣
As for the hoojie boojie....I haven't seen that movie actually. And I have no idea where I picked it up from! But I have been saying it for years so....it's mine now!!!🤣🤣
@INFJCHECKMATE Terribly. Everyone always wants something. Lol
You have never seen The Nightmare before Christmas... Its the musical embodiment of spooky whimsy. Its a claymation kids film, but still a classic nonetheless. I grieve for you...
On the topic of "Hoojie Boojie" and more so in the same vain, synchronicities, any examples recently in your life? Particular Dreams recently? I get those.
@@ericb2871 I see...what do they want from you? You think it's because you have good energy? They just want to be around you? Or they have tasks to help with?
I guess I should be sad for myself that I haven't seen that movie. 😁 Maybe I'll try watching it this year.
So....the synchronicity stuff...dreams, I have quite detailed dreams but I haven't had any freaky ones lately. (That I can remember) What about you? Trippy dreams? I find dreams fascinating. Every night I can't wait to sleep so that I can experience something different in my dreams.
@@ericb2871 For the synchronicity part, I mainly see numbers. The same numbers for years!
@@INFJCHECKMATE They enjoy my energy and want to be around or talk to me. Therapist mode. You know.
With dreams I'll dream of meeting with someone and sitting and talking. Like the last time was I dreamed I was invited to a podcast by a particular person. When I woke I got this feeling they were coming and they were at the door within the hour. But many times I've dreamed about meeting someone and sitting and talking and waking with a feeling they were on the way and they arrive shortly unannounced. You know now that I think about it, I have some rude people in my life. 🤣 But it's like I pick up on their intention to visit or something. The wierdest time was with a high school friend who i hadn't seen or talked to in forever. .
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