What to do when somebody cheats you in a Relationship? (in Hindi with Eng. Subtitles) | BK Shreya
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- दर्दभरें मानवीय अनुभवोमें से एक है विश्वास-घात। जब पता चलता की जिस पर हमने विश्वास किया, उसने हमारी प्यार भरी भावना के खिलाफ व्यवहार किया, तो ये बात हमें भीतर से तोड सकती है। आईए सीखते है, कैसे ज्ञान की ओर आगे बढ़ते हुए, हम इस संकट की घड़ी में खुद के घाव को भर सकते है। जब विश्वास टूटता है तो उसमें से बाहर आना आसान नहीं होता, पर स्व-परिवर्तन का एक सुंदर प्रयास हो सकता है।
Betrayal is one of the most painful human experiences. To discover that the one we trusted, acted against the very spirit of love can be deeply shattering. Learn how you can slowly move towards wisdom and self- healing in the face of this adversity. Bouncing back when trust is broken is never easy, but the process can be a beautiful one of self transformation.
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स्वार्थी दुनिया है जिसको जितनी ज्यादा इज्जत देंगे वह आपको उतना ही गिरा हुआ समझता है माँ-बाप को छोड़कर इस दुनिया मे सब स्वार्थी है कड़वा है मगर सत्य है
Baap bhi kamina hota hai meri baat meri gf se hoti thi vo recording mere phone se search karke sun raha tha Mera baap joki meri sadi Tay ho gyi usi ke sath fir bhi ab ap btao kya kahoge iske bare men
Patni bhi
Omerey bahiji maabaap ki category alag hoyti hai isliey tualna naapna yesab cheezey bandkaroji
@@purnimapatley3868 middle class parents swarthi hote h
@@purnimapatley3868mere chenl par mera what's app number h
बहुत स्वार्थी मतलबी दुनिया है, करीब वाले दोस्त,रिश्तेदार ही घात कर देते है।
Bhai mere dost ne meri jindgi barbad kr di
Ek ldki jisko m jaan se bhi jyda chahta tha, duniya manta tha ,shadi usse hi krta m 100%..
M govt job ka wait kr ra tha bs ...taki usko shadi krke apne ghr ki ijjat bnau..
Ye sb jaane k baad uske us ldki pr try kiya mujhe pta tk nhi lgne diya ...or kuch mont m set kr lia dost khud sadi suda tha ..uske baad usne ye sb kiya mere saath..
Jb meri job lgi mne ldki se baat ki 2.5 yr m saath m raha ek dusre ko samjhne ke lie tym lia..
Phir mujhe doubt hua ki iska past shi. Nhi raha mne 2.5 yr tk pucha.. jb gangajal lekr gya m mandir m tb vo such boli bahut jyda 2.5 saal tk force krne ke baad ... 2 ldko se sex kiya... 4 baar . M to shadi krne ja ra tha usse December m hi...
Ab kya kru m nhi kr pa ra shadi
Dost neech insaan nikla sb pta tha use ki ye duniya manta h usko uske baad uske lga vo .
Or ye bhi pta tha dost ko ki shadi kr ra h ye December m.. tb vo bs hasta tha aaj tk nhi btaya usne...
Neech nikla vo dost... Kese kr lete h yr ye ldke .. is neech ki bahn kisi ke saath bhag gyi .. thi pahle uske baad ye dard nhi smjha uske baad ye neech harkt krta phirta tha vo..
Koi itna ke se gir skta h
Mne aaj tk touch nhi kiya kisi bhi ldki ko mere saath kyo hua..
Uske bina jee bhi nhi skta m duniya thi vo meri..
Or ab apna bhi nhi pa ra m usko..
Vo bhi 1 mont se bs ro ri h ki past tha vo sb
Jbse tumhre saath hu dil se hu..nhi jee skti tumhre bina .
Vo suru m hi bta deti kas... Mere bina puche to syad m uske past ko maaf krke usko accept kr leta...
Pr ab nhi kr pa ra m..
जो दोहरे चरित्र वाले होते है, जिनमें संस्कार नहीं होते वही धोखा देते है।
Don't think negative 🙏🏻
Sahi baat h
Right
Hanji
Ryt
Cheating in relationship is very much hurting to the heart... If you love yourself you will heal your self.. Self love means forgiveness, acceptance and respect.. This situation happens with every body to teach a lesson.. how we leititot toti your wisdom, priority..
हा मां सही कहा अपने,,,
मे अभी खुदको बदल ना चहता हूं,,
में आपकी मार्ग pe चलूंगा,,,thank u maa
True mam. I did the same. Today we all are happy in our family. When i started to do it in 2020, it seemed the toughest. Today I am totally painfree. I trust him. I love him. I respect him. No pain. No complaints. But deep inside that pain lurks although healed. Sometimes a movie or a song triggers that pain ... I accept it ...face it.....very soon this pain vanishes. And i feel good again. Forgiveness heals everybody. Thanks a lot for confirmation that what i did was right, not a weakness. All this saved my children from suffering due to a broken family. Om Shanti.
What about when I loved him and was happy, excited for our baby girl, and he left us in the hospital after her birth to spend $500 on a prostitute, came back and took a shower… then went back again but my intuition went off and I asked for his location immediately and he had to cancel claiming he was at a drs appt but I knew he wasn’t there- he came home mad bc he lost out on his$ and also denied this all till I gathered proof? To which still he was so mean and awful about the whole thing… admitted only to the evidence I had, claimed he didn’t go through the night he left us - How do I heal fully from this?
Ek lady hi ye sab kar sakti hai kyunki aurat ka dil bhot bada hota hai aur aurat mein bhot himmat bhi hoti hai...lekin husband maaf nhi karte agar biwi se aisi kuch galti hojaye toh 🥺
सामने वाली को एक सबक जरूर सिखाओ ताकि उसे याद रहे के इंसान खिलौना नही होता।। बस।।
Sahi kha
बिल्कुल 🙏
Agr vo long distance me ho to 😭
Kaise
Kya karu
Itna perfect Explain Kiya apne, mujhe kafi himmat mili hai .
Jiwan mien apna samman ke saath jab bhi compromise karoge, to Koi bhi rishta ho , apka niradar hona sambhav hai.Self Respect is most important
Best thing is to separate from such people...ek haat se taali nahi bajthi...without repentance there can't be forgiveness and one person need not take all the responsibility...those who deeply suffer under such narcissistic relationships understand better...peace should be the aim where there can't be reconciliation..
What happened
True
ABSOLUTELY. YOU ARE MORE INTELLIGENT THAN WHOLE BRAHMAKUMARIS /SISTER SHIVANI & COMANY OR SO CALLED BOTING CUM YAWN SPIRITUAL MISSIONS MUSHROOMING ALL OVER D WORLD GIVING BAKWAS GYAN
@@civilstep6862 that's what she's saying too. She means to say that if your spouse has cheated on you purposefully and remorselessly, you can't make that relationship up again alone. And you should stop pursuing the person.
Duniya me aise log hote hai, jinko samjhane se chup rehena accha... Taali ek nahi bajti, sahi kahavat hai... Par taali ka hath kiska hai uski baat nahi chal rahi, ab baji na, to agar achi nahi lagi, to use acche mann se fix karo... Ye kehe rahi hai Guru Maa ..
I was suffering from these problems because someone is cheating me. Now i feel free from tensions now after listening your valuable speech
Assalamualaikum firdous
Same to me
How you do this?? Same thing happening with me... Two years ho gye hai but still I am in suffering. Please help me ...
धोखा संबंधों को मिल सकता है प्रेम को नहीं , प्रेम तो फैलता है संकुचित नहीं होता है ❤️🙏
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तो हमें क्या , कबीर ने क्यों कहा , न तो हम कबीर हैं और न ही कोई गोपी । और न ही परखने वाला जौहरी ❤️
Par log pyar ko bhi nhi samjhte bas she galat se un ko matlab hota h wo ham Mai glthi dhundte hai
Sahi hai hum prem krte pr log galti dundte hai n hum Kabir na he gopi n he parkhnewala jauhar
Thinking❤
कितना भी गहरा किसी से relation हो, लेकिन self respect किसी को नहीं खोना चाहिए। उन relation का क्या मतलब जब self respect ही hurt होता हो। हमेंशा ध्यान रख़ो आपकी खुशियों की चाबी आपके पास है, उस पर किसी का control नहीं होना चाहिए ।
Bahot sukun mila yeh sunke. Teen saal se apne aap ko pain de raha tha ki samne wala itna galat kaise kr skta hai. Apki har ek baat relate kr skta hu. Heal krna hoga khud ko ab! Thank you Mam ❤
Sem Yahi words main bhi Kahana chahti hun😢😢😢 mujhe samajh Nahin a raha hai main Kis Se is topic per Baat karun
Thanks
Mother and father always true for us.
आपने सम्भन्धो के बारेमे बहुत ही सरलता से बताया. आपका मनसे धन्यवाद 🙏🙏🌹🌹
Many cheaters are having high infidelity issues for no reason watching videos can make you heal for some time but void if 4 ever dear girls don't let your life to be bad game be a smart player...❤️❤️ I wish everyone heals from every break that they have
Hare krishna 🙏
Apki video dekh Kar Sach mein Dil se wajan sa uter giya 🙏🙏
Omg 😳😳 Maan gye inhone wo baatein boldi jo haal hi me mene apne aap ko smjhayi thi aur aaj same inse sunn rha hu .. 🙏🏻
Very idealistic indeed!.... the wearer know where the shoe bites.... Om Shanti🙏❤
Mutual love & respect is the basics of any relationship...we have to give space to each other 💗💗
Wow क्या बात कही अपने मैं इस पर अमल जरूर करूंगा।
Mene bahot sare video dekhe but aapke video se mujhe inspiration mili or mene decision liya in a positive way thank you so much mam meri life ko happy bnane k liye🙏🙏god bless you mam🙏
It was so healing❤
Tons and tons of respect.
thank uou ,deepest gratitude Didi, it was so healing, i kept crying . void turns us towards addictions and affairs and to love and care for myself is difficult , but listening to you one feels inspired.
Om shanti di...
Ek dam sahi kaha aapne....
Agr rishta thik krna h toh positive rehna hoga
Yes very true .I forgive all cheated upon me.may they leave a long and blissful life but I don't want to trust them again.bcz it threatened my life .jgd I forgive all with all my heart 💖💓 and want to live rest of my life in remembrance of God.
Hi😢😮😅
apni mentality esi bnao ki vo insaan kbhi bhi badal sakta hai , or hme uske liye prepare rehna chahiye , hme uske chhodne pr dukh nhi hona chahiye
Mam kuch logo k habbit hoti h cheat karne k koi reason nai hota bahut jaga par
You are correct
kalyug hai yr. me ajj aisy suchation mai hu. sucide ke ilava koi rashta ni yar. bhut kosish kr raha hu usko move on hone ki. pr ho nhi pa raha mujsy. please help me
@@tajindersinghtm7167 time heals all the pain.. Give time.. Focus on urself... Do what you like... Start doing some exercise Also see the videos of B. K. Shivani didi. You feel positivity.
Right jispe gujarti h bas wohi janta h
majburi itni hai. ke mar bhi nhi skta. heart atack hi aa jye muje. yhi dua krta hu. mera pain koi fell nhi kr skta
Thankyou soo much mam this topic is must needed in this time where so many people's cheating on someone and the right person affected badly .
Hi😮😮
Bhut achha explain kiya aapne...m bhut preshan tha kafi time se...aaj ye dekhke thoda sukoon mila h....seekhne ko bhi mila h bhut.....bhut bhut dhanyavaad....
Jab koi dhokha deta hai ekdum se uski galti samne ajati hai to insan ander se toot jata hai.ek insan par biswas or bharose jab toot jata hai to khudko sambhalne k liye waqt lagta hai.biswas or bharosa todne wale k liye gussa aana jayaz hai.
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Right meenakhsi ji insan ander se toot hi nahi jata balki kisi or pe bhi vishwas karne ka man bhi nhi bana pata hai
Kya karna chahiye ye batao pls 🙏
@@सिद्धांतप्रजापति क्या हुआ? सब ठीक?
कुछ भी ठीक नहीं है
Human being is not a machine that don't feel hurt.
Absolutely true it seems like you are telling my story thank u didi so much I tried so much but could not be happy could not ignore things could not accept his lies
Same i got bed experience.good video
Hi😮😅
Thanks for good advice,Om shanti Didi ji.
I m Fortunate for getting this awarness ..how peacful and stable i am now after knowing this truth ..
Same hear
For you this positive vibes ua-cam.com/video/rp9D5iRACJU/v-deo.html 💐❤️
Thnku mam I am also possess with negative thinking and now I am thinking positive for her for my future career
I will practice from today only,
शुभश्य शिघ्रम्। and I am sure I will be successful. I Thank you, Thank you, Thank you 🙏💐
ताई तुम्ही खूप छान सांगितलं यामुळे मला खूप फायदा होईल ताई तुमचे आभारी
Mam very good advice.i will obey in daily life.
Om shanti I have no word about diii ap to jindgi hi bdl deti hai jine k rasta dikha dete hai
But most of time insan hi characterless player energy wala hota hai.. Evil soch. Cruel soch liar manipulative... We should never trust n forgive cheaters players who hurt n stab us.... Izzat hi nahi rehti aise logo k lie
Don't think about them
Just heal yourself
Love yourself
Try to not think about all that negative things.
Bilkul sahi
Same experience
Yes
Bahut sahi kaha
Thnx❤❤, apka ye video kai pariwar ko bachayega or khaskar jo bal bache wale h❤❤
Bar bar trust kro orr maf kro but jinki jo habit h wo kabhi ni sudharta.... That's true
Yes
Be positive all is well 😊
Lovely video, u nicely explained power of forgiveness 👏
Wow ma'am..beautiful abi abi poison hi pi rha tha thought basis pr apki video randomly mily mere new feeds pr antidote ban k kam kia apke words😍🙏😍thank u
यह आपका अपना विचार है सब जगह लागू नहीं होता ।
मै अपना अहं छोड़, सामने वालों के प्रति जितनी बार भी सिर झुकाता (adjustment )हूं!
वह अपना अहंकार से पोषित, मुझे उतने ही बार जूते मारता है।
ऐसे मे क्यों ना हमेशा के लिए दूरी बना ली जाए
❓❓❓❓
Yr suggestion is best not to doubt but careful. And my relations will become good . Give us blessing
Bahut hi amazing and useful. Thank you BK Shreya. So good.
Om shanti...apka videos dekh kr aaj mai thoda positive feel kr rha hu🙏..apka vides hmare liye jivandan hai
मैम जन्म और मृत्यु दोनों ही सत्य है और जिसने धोखा दिया मर्यादा तोड़ी उसका तो हिसाब परमात्मा करेंगे ही क्योंकि ईश्वर को धोखा नही दिया जा सकता।
कैसे कोई अपने आप को दूसरे को सौंप देता है ये जानते हुए भी कोई है जो सिर्फ उसका है क्या उसे घिन नही आती या वो सिर्फ दिखावा के संबंध में है कैसे ये प्यार है जो चंद शब्दों या आकर्षण में अपने को बेच देता है।
मर जाऊंगा पर उस वैश्या को अब नही अपनाऊंगा ॐ शांति।
💯 Right 😢
Right
Acha.. usko bina Jane
My husband done the same
मत अपना कोई जनम में भगवान तुमको माफ नही करेंगे धोखेबाज संन्यासी
बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद हृदय से आभार ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks so much for sharing this mam.
It helped alot 🙏🙏🙏
What a unique thought process🥰
Thank you Ma’am🙏for guiding me and really it worked .You have saved our family ,parents,in laws and team surrounding me In this situation it is very difficult to take afforts but just we have to keep ego aside and it has happened you cant reverse but you can avoid future consequences and improve your health,wealth and mental health 🙏🙏🙏
Shiv baba ki kripa se hmara bhi rishta thik ho jaye...
Om shanti didi ji
Thanku didi ji
Aapki problem solve ho gai ?
Maam with this video you saved my life.
Once a cheater is always a cheater ......
Ha sister shai baat hai ...rishata ke liye bhaut mehant karni padti hai achi bat hai... Positive rahana chahiye sister...
You are very Right mam. Love you lots. Your every word is true 🙏
Hii
Ek dum barobar hai didi nice aap god gifted person ho om shanti didi
Jis Insaan ki fitrat hi dhokha dena ho, tab kya karein ji😭
Dur ho jao usse
Thanks mam om shanti bahut jub samjhaya ji. I prepare myself as your advise.
Sanyasi Jiwan hi behtar hai. Sab cheater hai, Manipulative aur cruel hi hai. Shanti ka ek matra rashta yahi lagta hai mujhe.🙏
Aap ki bat achi lagi
Let go karna sikh liya to har jivan behtar hai. 🙏🏻
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@@akatvaonlineclasses8849 ek baar mere 2-3 latest video dekh lijie, shayad aapki help ho jaye.
Shayad plan B vohi ho. 🙏🏻
Your comment is good sister
Million thanks to You🙏🙏🙏👏👏
Aaap kha se..?! +
Apne aap pr trust itna biswas hi mt kro ki koe hme dhukhi kr ske itni apni jindagi me kisi ko izzat mt do🎉
Ma'am you are amazing, you reles my pain 😭🤗😌✨
Thanku mam m bahut presan thi apki bato ko sun k muje achha fell hua h
Om Shanti behan ❤
आप की बात सुनकर मुझे बहुत अच्छा लगा,धन्यवाद आप😮😮😮😮😮
Thank u mam I just got broke up with my gf 4 years relationship I will work out as u said I was very anger and negative now I understand . I will forgive her but I can,t stay without her so will try as u said
He cheated me twice now what to do u say
Har koi kamina nhi hota
Usne cheat Kiya to tum cheat karo
Thank you so much didi aapne mujhe rasta dikhaya h.bahot bahot dhanyawad didi.kuch smjh ni aata h tb apki bate sun kr santi or raste milte h.
जो चरित्रहीन है सादी से पहले चाहे लड़का हो या लड़की ओ कभी सुधर नही सकता जिसका पाला इन लोगों से आजीवन का पड़ा समझो जीवन में नर्क मिल गया
Aapke jaisa samjhane wala aaj tk nhi mila
Aaap kha se..?! +
It's best not to take anything to bed on mind. Fix the issue at hand at that moment and began a new tomorrow. Waiting to talk tomorrow is like allowing your own mental thoughts to turn into poison.
Thank you di soo much
Thank you so much for these beautiful teaching. Difficult to follow but will surely try this method
Bahut bahut Shukriya Bahan ji
Es se muje bahut help ho Gaye hye negative se Bahar nikalane me Om Shanti 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you sister you are gift of God
Thank you very much for teaching a wonderful self-control and self-teaching therapy to come out of such betraying situations where people take you for granted and often cross yheir limits.
Thanks a lot for sharing this wonderful video
Madam aapki baat bahut sahi hai, Par ab mehnat karke bahut thak gaye hain mam Hope meri Zindagi phir se Acchi hojaaye. Om Shaanti
Thank you Ma'am for your beautiful advice 👌👌👍👍♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏
Hi😮😢
Thanku mam aapki baate sun k bhut shaanti mili.mere sath bhi kuch esaa huaa tha or me us dukh se baahr ni aa pa rhi thi .pr aapki baat sun thoda skoon mila
Hi😮😢
Thanks a lot. Very beautiful explanation to heal ourselves from this pain.
0M Shanti.🙏
Thanks sister🙏
Bahot hi helpfull h Mam apki speech
मैने ऐसा ही सहा है बहुत बहुत धन्यवाद🙏💕🙏💕
Aap ki bate hi mujhe heal feel krwa raha hai ❤
Om Shanti. Thanks so much. 💓💓💓🙏🙏
You're good gifts for me
You're Save my life
The only aim should be live with peace and respect.. You can't change someone.. Hurt v humhi ho aur jisne hurt kia usko sudharne ki koshish v hum hi kre... Ye to galat h
Hi😮😅
Thank you mam, apne shi rasta dikhaya mujhe 🙏🌺🌺
Omshanti mere pyare mithe babaji Sukriya baba barm bar Sukriya.🙏🌹🙏
Thank you maa🎉🎉
HEARTIST THANKS MAM🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Thankyou so much ma'am aapki baaton se mera man thoda halka huwa h
Thank you ma'am, thank you so much 🙏🙏
Thank you so much
Correct.... beautifully said...om shanti 🙏
Apko v dhoka mila kya
Apko v dhoka mila kya
Sooo healing thanku so much
75/ i m healing after 5 years ❤