oops I took a break... where I've been + let's chat about burnout

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 112

  • @rflaherty9410
    @rflaherty9410 3 місяці тому +120

    Glad you had a break - everyone needs them. But seriously. NEVER STOP MAKING THESE VLOGS WE LOVE THEM lol

  • @makeup_onhermind
    @makeup_onhermind 3 місяці тому +75

    Noo I'm not at all bored or annoyed with seeing your food! I also love preparing and eating it and think it's just a joyful part of life. Keep doing what you're doing with the vlogs, we love them!

  • @kitkatwozny
    @kitkatwozny 3 місяці тому +37

    I love that Monica got engaged, I saw on Insta!! So exciting! You must be excited to be a Maid of Honor! 🎉❤

  • @exploringfindeverything
    @exploringfindeverything 3 місяці тому +13

    Shelby, I truly enjoyed your blog today. I think you nailed it on the head about you having low iron and this is why you weren't at your normal self. I bet soon your iron will increase and you'll be so much more motivated! I could watch this vlog for twice as long as how good it was today You are an inspiration!

  • @NamLe1975
    @NamLe1975 3 місяці тому +20

    Finally something I wanna watch on UA-cam.

  • @sarasarabobara
    @sarasarabobara 3 місяці тому +3

    I love the Sam and Shelby content! You two are so cute together.

  • @joycarroll7545
    @joycarroll7545 3 місяці тому +10

    We love you and appreciate your vlogs! Feel better soon and know that you are amazing!! Congratulations Monica & Jason as well!

  • @AB-tb7bt
    @AB-tb7bt 3 місяці тому +12

    I think it’s like that with anything. Even us that do what we love for a living (I’m a game developer), sometimes we can burn out and work can feel like a chore. I think it’s a myth that people are always ultra motivated even if they love or are passionate about what they do.

    • @jj-if6it
      @jj-if6it 3 місяці тому

      what a cool job!

  • @Jsthappytobehere
    @Jsthappytobehere 3 місяці тому +9

    Sam with the “context!!!😅😂” loved that. Love the vlogs as always! 💗💗

  • @Carla-hv3xw
    @Carla-hv3xw 3 місяці тому +4

    I love seeing your food… it’s motivating and interesting to me! Thanks for sharing your life! 🩷

  • @paolamartinez4295
    @paolamartinez4295 3 місяці тому +2

    You showing your food is not annoying! I like it haha

  • @alesha9011
    @alesha9011 3 місяці тому +12

    It's NOT annoying at all to see your food on your video. It gives me ideas sometimes. Thanks for the video.

  • @catherinegouge3164
    @catherinegouge3164 3 місяці тому +1

    Love your vlogs, Shelby! I don't find them boring at all.

  • @btk1243
    @btk1243 3 місяці тому +6

    Hi Shelby. It looks like your tennis swing has improved, along with your pre-shot footwork. Have others at your club (and you) noticed the improvement?

  • @gingin1050
    @gingin1050 3 місяці тому +2

    Hi shel I love to see what you are eating, trader Joe's haul, ect. I get great ideas from you. You have a healthy lifestyle. And love when you give opinions about issues.
    Love the new bag too🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡🧡

  • @TexasGirl1633
    @TexasGirl1633 3 місяці тому +2

    Good for you!! So excited for Monica❤️
    I am never bored with any of your content.

  • @sandy949
    @sandy949 3 місяці тому +6

    You deserved a break!!! Have a wonderful holiday weekend!

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 місяці тому +1

    Everyone needs a break sometimes! But nice to see you back

  • @omradiant
    @omradiant 3 місяці тому +5

    Hi Shelby! Filming the building of Joshua Tree will be a lot of fun to film!

  • @carolschneid
    @carolschneid 3 місяці тому +1

    Just love watching your vlogs. I feel so similar to you which sounds odd but there aren’t a lot of UA-camrs like you - so it is refreshing! I’ve been thinking up business ideas as well…i know when the right one comes it will feel right! Wishing you the best of luck

  • @Michelangelo-m1o
    @Michelangelo-m1o 3 місяці тому +2

    I'm glad you're back from your break, Shelby! You deserved it. :)❤

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 місяці тому +1

    I saw on Insta that Monica got engaged, exciting! Can't wait for your vlog about it haha

  • @HowtoFaithALife
    @HowtoFaithALife 3 місяці тому +1

    The moment you landed in Greenville you were so sassy and I was rolling 😹 but also I get the same way about my channel and I take Luke one day or max one week off and then miss it! You’re totally fine

  • @jj-if6it
    @jj-if6it 3 місяці тому +1

    As a woman it's so easy to get low in iron or other vitamins and feel crap. I take some everyday and get a blood test every 6 months, otherwise you would probably have no idea what's wrong

  • @karenscott7465
    @karenscott7465 3 місяці тому +3

    Good to see you back! Recipe for the pasta salad?

  • @daniellerae1716
    @daniellerae1716 3 місяці тому +1

    You have an Aqua Orb in your video when you were eating outside at the restaurant. I have them in a few pictures that I have taken as well. I looked it up on the internet & Orbs are loved ones but one one article said they are dust reflecting the sun but my Orbs came out at nighttime in my photos. There was no flash on the video camera just 2 hall lights outside the room

  • @LilMermaid28
    @LilMermaid28 3 місяці тому +1

    Omg. I was just thinking about you. Take all the time you need. We will be here for you. 🥰🥰

  • @kory9790
    @kory9790 3 місяці тому +2

    Good to see you back Shelby!

  • @baaelos
    @baaelos 3 місяці тому

    Yes! I finally took a break from school even though everyone told me not to and my scholarships told me they would stop helping me. Finally, going back to school next week

  • @koober1
    @koober1 3 місяці тому +1

    You might need to get an iron infusion. I have to get one every 1-2 years. Get your ferritin checked. Functional medicine drs are usually better when dealing with this. The infusions really do help.

  • @motogal7944
    @motogal7944 3 місяці тому +1

    Keep the vlogs coming, PLEASE 🙏🏻 🙏🏻

  • @Lisakaylindsay256
    @Lisakaylindsay256 3 місяці тому

    So happy to see you back and I understand you definitely should give yourself some time off. Don’t believe that all those who seem happy all the time are actually happy ALL the time. They just seem that way. Some are and some aren’t. You are awesome and we really love your vlogs.

  • @alexwyler4570
    @alexwyler4570 3 місяці тому +1

    TS 14:22 i purposefuylly do not wear make up when i workout. I am afraid the makeup ( seen as dirt by the skin) will cause breakout. Anybody else? Not judging and not criticizing Shelby.

  • @appropriateinput
    @appropriateinput 3 місяці тому +1

    I always wondered how long it would take me to learn how to fully swing at and serve a tennis ball... I gotta try sometime... 🎾🙂👍

  • @mthomas1091
    @mthomas1091 3 місяці тому

    Yeay Shelby Vlog 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Love the keeping perspective on your ‘down days’ 👍👍👍

  • @i.am.heather
    @i.am.heather 3 місяці тому

    I’m so glad you enjoyed yourself on the break. You should come visit Charleston when you’re in Greenville.
    ETA: seeing you in the south is funny 😅 that “y’all” felt so forced. I think you would eventually acclimate and enjoy the charm. Y’all def need to do a day trip to Charleston - I think you’d really like it.

  • @susibassett5173
    @susibassett5173 3 місяці тому

    I love your UA-cam videos. Don’t ever stop doing these!

  • @jibrilrobinson1587
    @jibrilrobinson1587 3 місяці тому

    Hey I have been a fan of you for 5 years you and your twin. It’s okay to take some time for yourself and live your life off camera like everyone else “normal folks” lol I’ve noticed you get burn out right around this time of the year going into summer and we all understand you need time to regroup and get back to your creative side. We love you girl 🫶🏾🤙🏾

  • @Chutney1luv
    @Chutney1luv 3 місяці тому

    Shelby, burnout is normal. Just know that you are not alone.
    You needed the break to refresh!
    Love your food recipes and content. You could do a vlg of Palm Springs Restraunts. ⛱️😊 (Hey, it was so nice seeing Sam!!) 🤩 🎾

  • @vlogginggamingandcoding
    @vlogginggamingandcoding 3 місяці тому +1

    If someone says that they love what they do every single day it's most likely not 100% honest. It feels like people in general have been getting sick more often. Many people at work call in sick 2 - 3 times this year already. Maybe because now after covid have so many more strains of flu in the wild.

  • @leslielambert6624
    @leslielambert6624 3 місяці тому +1

    Cooking with cast iron helps increase your iron intake.

  • @ilzemalnaca931
    @ilzemalnaca931 3 місяці тому

    Buckwheat is very good for iron intake. I always eat buckwheat at least once a day for 2-3 days when im on pms/period to help with low energy

  • @ghostie7790
    @ghostie7790 3 місяці тому

    I was just thinking about you and wondering how you were! ❤❤❤ good for you. Glad you’re taking care of yourself!

  • @rosey_josh
    @rosey_josh 3 місяці тому

    Love your vlogs. They make me feel normal. ❤

  • @ckrystal141
    @ckrystal141 3 місяці тому

    Ok, can we talk about thr cute black 3 piece set you’re rocking 5-min in? Love. You look great!

  • @jeannine1991
    @jeannine1991 3 місяці тому +3

    The avocado toast. 🥑 😋💕 can’t wait for the proposal video. ❤

  • @msbgone
    @msbgone 3 місяці тому +1

    Congrats to Monica!!! Feel better soon!

    • @msbgone
      @msbgone 3 місяці тому

      @Gary-lo2zt why would you even say that....

  • @julianajb
    @julianajb 3 місяці тому +1

    Hey Shelby, don't you think that maybe when you're unmotivated to work, you're just in your Luteal phase? Since it happens for a few days every month, it could be that. I (and most women) experience the same: fatigue, low mood, unmotivation etc. So it's normal and totally unrelated to your job! You might want to check the phase you're in your cycle when you feel that way :)

  • @reginaqueens6733
    @reginaqueens6733 3 місяці тому +1

    Lol every symptom you had in this video, I had them when I found out I was pregnant😅

  • @k3qever413
    @k3qever413 3 місяці тому

    I actually love seeing food in your vlog❤

  • @DanFrederiksen
    @DanFrederiksen 3 місяці тому

    Regarding New York, there is an office building crisis ever since covid but I looked at some floor plans and it looked perfectly fine for conversion to residential and it seems others agree and that's a thing going on with office high rises. Not sure there is a massive video angle there but with a few connections you might be able to dress it up. For the prices they are selling or were it sounds like there is a business there so it might be a good business and high rise luxury angle. Iirc I looked at a relatively modern high rise with some design, midsize high rise and the price was something like 1/4 of what converted apartments could be sold for. Putting in walls, floors, bath and kitchen is not that expensive and they are typically sky high ceilings.

  • @budgetwithrenay2419
    @budgetwithrenay2419 3 місяці тому

    Congratulations to Monica! Love your new mug and purse!

  • @davisneves
    @davisneves 3 місяці тому

    ahhh I have so many business ideas but I love my day job & never want to retire... took a long time to land on it all, but so happy at work & working on side projects... just would like more money & time to do more!

  • @georgedavid9985
    @georgedavid9985 3 місяці тому

    Make citrus juice with those manual push down juicers. No electricity needed and squeezes ALL the juice out of your citrus.

  • @Blue-ke9fu
    @Blue-ke9fu 3 місяці тому

    Love love these vlogs. Can’t get enough

  • @kristinchong629
    @kristinchong629 3 місяці тому +1

    The internet frontier. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 3 місяці тому +3

    When I saw Monica's Insta story last Monday I didn't think much of it, until I realized a few moments later she was showing off her engagement ring 🥳

  • @whomikejones32
    @whomikejones32 3 місяці тому

    Honestly I enjoy seeing the food you make on the videos. Shit looks bomb af.

  • @dvanmartin9842
    @dvanmartin9842 3 місяці тому

    If you have not checked out Asheville on one of your Greenville trips, you should check if out for a couple days. Very groovy town. It is only just a little over an hour away.

  • @francienregelinkauthor
    @francienregelinkauthor 3 місяці тому

    You’ve just made my day! ❤

  • @tarapedersen8606
    @tarapedersen8606 3 місяці тому +3

    hi Shelby. good video. no I love videos where you show cooking food. Carrie Dayton on youtube says that her viewers like to see that on her channel. no worries whatsoever. it is your channel and whatever you want on it is your decision not followers. right?

  • @bellabianchi7667
    @bellabianchi7667 3 місяці тому

    Get well soon Shelby!

  • @SarahSchneider2
    @SarahSchneider2 3 місяці тому

    You deserve the break and hope you are feeling better soon

  • @Courtney-Alice-Gargani
    @Courtney-Alice-Gargani 3 місяці тому

    Burnout can be physical or emotional. I usually get some rest and bounce back.

  • @kdcounseling
    @kdcounseling 3 місяці тому +2

    Take a break. Some time. To allow things to come to you ❤

  • @TheHungryPauper
    @TheHungryPauper 3 місяці тому

    Your pasta dish looked wonderful! Sorry you got sick! Get better soon! Always looking forward to the next one! -Later

  • @unapologeticallyromel7096
    @unapologeticallyromel7096 3 місяці тому +2

    Love your channel ❤

  • @shotsix
    @shotsix 3 місяці тому

    Random question but what brand vacuum is that? Do you recommend it? Looking at buying a new one..

  • @TinaBauVideos
    @TinaBauVideos 3 місяці тому

    What vacuum is that - is it good? 😂. Love your videos and never get sick of seeing the food details!

    • @Jeroen74
      @Jeroen74 3 місяці тому

      Roborock, was promoted in her last main channel video 👍

  • @ForeignAffair822
    @ForeignAffair822 3 місяці тому +1

    Do asmr please!!! ☺ you have the perfect voice! and do more tennis content!

  • @dpoca
    @dpoca 3 місяці тому +2

    I think you should start taking vitamins and eating better, just to get over the burnout. I started doing that and really helped

  • @mallorygraf8574
    @mallorygraf8574 3 місяці тому

    Hey Shelby...next time you are Greenville and in the mood for tacos go visit my bestie's place called Asada! Soooo yummy...I think you'd like it and it's authentic. It's on Wade Hampton Road.😄 (I'm in CA but have been to Greenville several times!).

  • @Cat-qn1yw
    @Cat-qn1yw 3 місяці тому

    Shelby your vlogs are always fun! Maybe get yourself checked if you’re anemic. ♥️

  • @alexandermuir8160
    @alexandermuir8160 3 місяці тому +1

    Shelby, I called it hitting a brick wall. When I worked on a long difficult job and finished, it felt like hitting a brick wall. I would take a week to recover and did absolutely nothing until I recovered. My immune system would crash as well. It was never pleasant. Maybe, I should have gone to Palm Springs as well, or at least the Oz version, the Sunshine Coast. 🦘🦘

  • @Jeroen74
    @Jeroen74 3 місяці тому

    The company I work for is one of those typical companies that was built from the ground up to over 800 employees in several countries by a driven founder/CEO. I'm sure that over the past 30 years he has had a few off-days too 😊 so don't feel too bad about that 👍

  • @nwalters7
    @nwalters7 3 місяці тому

    I'm still waiting for you to come visit Fargo, North Dakota.

  • @dannyllerenatv8635
    @dannyllerenatv8635 3 місяці тому

    Breaks are important! Lately, burnout has been "burning out" more than usual, if that makes any sense whatsoever.

  • @elitelegends2246
    @elitelegends2246 3 місяці тому

    4:31
    Links to the vacuum?👀

  • @nwalters7
    @nwalters7 3 місяці тому

    What does avocado taste like? All the times I've watched you eat avocado toast makes me want to start eating avocado toast. lol

  • @simonjandrell5897
    @simonjandrell5897 3 місяці тому

    you should be doing a Brett Cooper cause that girl is a machine.. and banging em Vlogs out every single day 352 days of the year.. u knows it

  • @monicamcgahan
    @monicamcgahan 3 місяці тому

    Was it a surprise and why New York?

  • @MetroDetroitMaria
    @MetroDetroitMaria 3 місяці тому +1

    Keep showing the food.

  • @travissapp4961
    @travissapp4961 3 місяці тому

    So how long have you been on UA-cam???

  • @lorettarenard5645
    @lorettarenard5645 3 місяці тому

    where is monica going to live if she rents her place?

  • @jo-annfat-bricks2471
    @jo-annfat-bricks2471 3 місяці тому

    Lip Balm, easy to make, package and sell.

  • @crazycornishcrafter
    @crazycornishcrafter 3 місяці тому

    Monica is a good sister to do the tennis thing.
    Nice one one the exam.
    Not medical advice. I like the Vegancity chelated iron supplements, but you're not vegetarian nor do you have some crummy genetics (so you've other options). Please don't let your iron levels get too high/low (either way can be a nightmare).
    Here's hoping you feel better soon.

  • @strrangerthings7049
    @strrangerthings7049 3 місяці тому

    Shelboooo

  • @VideoGameRoom32
    @VideoGameRoom32 3 місяці тому

    Strawberries are the best.

  • @raph0412
    @raph0412 3 місяці тому

    What does Sam do for work out of curiosity?

    • @theyofactor
      @theyofactor 2 місяці тому

      I think he owns a video production company.

  • @doggingoddin
    @doggingoddin 3 місяці тому

    Cooking videos with recipes pls 🙏🏼

  • @gabrielortega174
    @gabrielortega174 3 місяці тому

    Maybe hiking or cooking ?

  • @davesites
    @davesites 3 місяці тому

    Have fun

  • @JessicaLaShawn
    @JessicaLaShawn 3 місяці тому

    Howdy I really think you'd be amazing at Brand Consulting from the digital perspective. You have such amazing experience with video content developing digital networking and story telling/visual implementation. This could be an easy and fulfilling business idea for you. I'll email some ideas to you. I just love your videos and your style. Ive been watching for a few years now and there are probably only a hand full of videos from both channels combined that I havent seen seen I found you on youtube. Your talent is clear! Youre a rockstar

  • @travissapp4961
    @travissapp4961 3 місяці тому

    😊 your great wonderful

  • @pattycordell569
    @pattycordell569 3 місяці тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @JohnDoe-ld8nr
    @JohnDoe-ld8nr 3 місяці тому

    Oops I did it again!

  • @jessicasievers3213
    @jessicasievers3213 3 місяці тому

    I don’t know a single person who doesn’t have days where they are just not into it……

  • @Bailey1879
    @Bailey1879 3 місяці тому

    😆😆😆 I lot of us wish we loved what we do everyday.
    Did I miss your Ozempic video?

  • @calvinliu6304
    @calvinliu6304 3 місяці тому

    Hello xx

  • @christopherdriving6425
    @christopherdriving6425 3 місяці тому

    I was wondering what happened to you. We get so used to videos that when one doesn't upload, we're like, "What happened?" Lol.