LOVE AND MARRIAGE! I love you Shay
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
- I am not an expert on love and marriage but these are the things I've learned in my own 9 year marriage! It has been a challenging yet beautiful journey and the most wonderful time of my life! I love you Shay! Thanks for making every day of our life together amazing, I love you!!!
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thankyou Colette for being one of my biggest role models in my life, I love you so much x
I whished I lived with you and your family members thanks you for making me happy ☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺☺
i got in a fight with my fiancee tonight, and this video really helped me realize what i should and shouldnt do. its hard to take a step back and think about what you did wrong, especially when you think you believe you're right. thanks for always being there mommytard. you give incredible advice and you're really an inspiring and beautiful soul. i'm going to be working on myself from now on. (:
The tip about pride is the top one for me. I can be so stubborn & always want to be able to prove my point & "win" the argument. But nobody really wins when you each have different points of view & it just continually adds tension, being able to just say, look, I love you I don't want to argue about this anymore & trying to see their side & letting go of having to be "right" all the time has been one of the biggest lessons I'm still learning in my 9 years with my hubby too. TX for sharing!
Katilette, I can't begin to tell you how inspirational you and your family are to me. I've been watching for a couple of years and you have brought me laughter, hope and reassurance that there are wonderful people in the world! My dad was never there for me and to this day I don't really know him. Other members of my family don't get on either and I started to think that this was what life was! Watching you has changed my opinion and made me strive for happiness, and for that I THANK YOU!
That was the best advice for marriage that I've EVER heard. It almost brought me to tears because I just wanted to yell out YES!!! I will definitely work on all those things and I know I'll watch this video later when my hubby and I have a falling out. Luv you Colette!
These videos are so much help, not just for those who are in a relationship but for those of us who have been on one and they have fallen apart. They tend to show us how in some places everything went wrong.
You are SO amazing, and inspiring. Not many young couples these days get married, and actually STAY married. You guys are all incredible!
I think you guys are such an inspiration :) I also really love that you can express your faith, but show that you are completely real people! In my experience, most of the young people I know think anyone who is religious is super judgmental and just awful. Love!
my fiance and i have realized most of what you've mentioned in your video.. but through the hard way of course. I'm just glad to see how you and shay have made your marriage work so well on the same principles. I'm looking forward to a married life with happiness and love. I just pray we both are strong enough to keep working at it!
thanks for the awesome vid katilette!
Colette, you are one of the wisest and most wonderful persons I know! You are a real inspiration and I'm so happy that you are willing to give your time and knowledge to us like this!
Love from Sweden
YOU MAKE ME A BETTER PERSON!! I watched this yesterday.. today I feel like am already a happier wife!! so here I am watching it again!! I love you so much!!
You're absolutely right; a relationship is a journey, and a growth period for both people. Honesty and communication are the single most important things for keeping a relationship healthy.
If I can be half the person you are when I get married and have children, i'll be happy. You're such a great inspiration Colette and even though i'm only 18, I can apply your advice to every part of my own life. Thank you! Your children and Shay are so extremely lucky to have you in their lives!
The lighting and audio were REALLY Great in this video Colette! You look extra beautiful.... Good job Makers!!!
I got engaged 5 months ago and he knows I watch you guys & he doesnt really understand why but when I tell him that I see our future in your family he respects that. I can't wait to have what u have.
you have such a positive outlook on life! idk how you do it, but however you do, it somehow rubs off on me whenever i watch your videos. thank you for making these katilette :)
Don't know where you got all your wisdom but you are spot on in everything you mention in this video. You and Shay have a LOT of self-awareness and that will go a long way. You should be very proud of your wisdom...and this is coming from a 48 year old man who has been married 25 years!
When I meet the love of my life and get engaged, I'm gonna go back and watch all of these videos. You give such great advice, and your family is so beautiful :) I want to be as successful as you
I just love you & Shay! I have been married to my sweetheart for 5 years & I'll be honest he is the go with the flow type & I can be the I need a plan,structure type but over these last few years watching you together I have learned to let things go. You guys seem so fun & so in love & when you talked about putting your relationship first even before your kids that got us talking & we totally agree. I just can't thank you enough for the example you set not only for your viewers but for your kids
Thank you Colette...my husband and I are going through a rough patch right now...you always give such amazing advice and make me feel better after a long day.
Love you Katilette!!!!!! U and Shay inspire me to keep positive and lead a life that 50 years from now Ill be proud to say I stayed positive and kept ppl smiling :)
Colette... you are so inspiring. I love my parents to death, and they love eachother, but i've always felt that they don't have a very healthy relationship. they boss each other around, and take sides with the kids, and they dont "fight" but they dont always get along, and they let things bother them and let things bottle up inside, and i've always feared that i'll be unhappy after 20-something years of marriage too, but thank you for giving me hope and perspective. you are a GREAT role model.
I have been married 48 years and I'm 65. I agree with you on every point. You are correct. Marriage is selfless. I've learned to say ..."I think I'm right, but I could be wrong"..Our children all left us and have their own lives, but we will always be one...as it should be ..unto death do us part.
I think it is really interesting you mentioned putting your relationship above all else. I grew up with the mindset that when you are married, the kids come first no matter what. I can see your perspective and I think it would work out better in the long run. Thanks for the great video!
i know it sounds cheesy, but some of the videos you make are just so simple and everybody should already know about these basic rules about living life together with other people happy and peacefully, but sometimes you just got to be reminded. thank you so much for reminding me
One thing I also think is important is, you have to get married for love. Not because you got a girl pregnant or because its what you think is the next step. In my case, I felt it in my heart and could see myself with my spouse and nobody else for the rest of my life. And we've been married for 10 1/2 years. No it isnt easy, but struggles really do make us stronger as a couple. Thanks for the vid and may you guys continue to share that strong love -3
Aww I love how much you and Shay love each other! It really gives me hope x
Katilette, I absolutely loved this episode. I love your points of view on marriage and relationships and I hope to carry some of that over into my own relationships. Im glad that you were honest with us and mentioned keeping a relationship active physically, I think this is something a lot of people take for granted (even if i may not have the most experience with it
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thank you for this video colette, for sharing your experiences with us. this was so inspiring, and make me think about lots of things that happened in my last relationship. i think, if we both were totally honest with each other, we would still together. you are an great example of woman, wife and mom. :)
Loved all your points! As Christians, my husband and I try to do our best at this as well. We actually have a weekly tradition: We both write on a post-it note what we would like from the other for that week. Could be anything from "I want you to get up earlier than the kids to have coffee together" or "Can you please not put your dirty socks on the floor" We put it on our bathroom mirror so we can both see it. It has been amazing to see the transformation in our marriage! :)
You and Shay are so inspirational! Keep making videos and sharing your advice we love you guys!!!
This is such helpful advice! Thank you, Collette, for being such an inspiration and an epitome of hope.
I just love you! I'm happy to be able to watch/ listen to such positive and real advice from you! I admire yours and shays marriage. Your attitude and outlook is motivation for my marriage. Most of all it's such a Christian approach to marriage and family without having religious opinions pushed on me. It is your actions/ behavior that make it known you have strong faith without having to say it or convince people of what you believe in : )
I love watching your videos on marriage and kids!! thanks for being an inspiration, Katilette!! :]
I do think it's incredibly important to love your spouse with all your heart, as you should, but I don't agree with loving them more than your children. One day, when the children are grown, it will be just you and your spouse, as you said, but at least when your children are still young and still need you, they need to know they mean as much to you. As a child who only ever grew up with a mom, it would have killed me if she found someone that she loved more than me. I know every family is different and so different things work for others, but for me, having my mom always tell me and prove to me that I was the most important one in her life gave me the security to grow up happy and feeling safe.
Hey Colette! So I know this was the goal from a few weeks ago, but it still carries over. When you said to talk to someone new every day (especially high school students) I decided I would try. In french class we had to do a project. My best friend and I sit together so we decided we would work together. We then say a girl (who is new and doesn't know many people) and realized she didn't have a group. We invited her into our group and had a GREAT time with her! I know that she appreciates us in
Colette, you are a beautiful person inside and out! I love these Katilette videos!! You're the best role model!!
This is very good advice. Not just for marriages, but also couples too.
AAHHH PERFECT Message here for so many!
ALOT of good wisdom! Thankyou Katilette!
I am just rockin' out! DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO DOO KATILETTE
My parents got divorced a couple of years ago. Watching your video makes me see why their marriage didn't work out, and it makes me sad. But, I hope they will see this video, and help them with their future relationships. Thanks Katilette.
Love to you and Shay from Belgium! It is so refreshing to have such wonderful people giving out advice :)
Katilette, I am seriously arguing with my husband right now and you help me relize some of the things I was doing was not right. Thanks girl I really needed that!
love you guys! love your relationship. Im not gonna say i was a viewer since the beginning, because i wasnt, I found youtube about a year ago. And since then, when i think of my future, when i picture myself and my husband, I picture what you and shay have. My parents divorced and it was really hard and i thought marriage was a sham, but now, I have faith and I believe that it really can work. So, THANK YOU for giving me hope in what could be in spite of how bad my situation was. XOXO
I know that as viewers, we only get to see a portion of your and shay's life, but I hope that one day I can be half the wife and mother that you are. You really are a true role model :)
I LOVE YOU! Your honestly my inspiration :)
Im a 14 year old girl and i cant wait to find 'my shay' and live my own 'shaytards' life :D
I LOVE you're videos.They are so insipiring.Your advices are the best that anyone could give.Keep doing that.Love,a person from a country that anyone barely heard about(Romania).
I hope that when I marry my best friend of 5 and a half years, we'll continue to have a great relationship and it'll grow stronger and stronger like I've seen you and Shay's relationship grow on here.
The best gift a father can give his children is to love their mother!
i love you katilette! i'm 14 and youre my role model. i hope someday when im older i can have a successful career and awesome, amazing, loving family as you do:) thank you so much
"If you're humble and patient and loving, you are going to get the things that you need."
My Interpersonal class would say that depends on the person you're with... But yes, that's how it probably ought to be.
this video was great thank you :) really sweet! you must be an amazing wife, you and shay are so lucky!!!
I so wish there were more couples like you guys out there..god, the world would be much better!!!
Katilette & shay, you guy's along with your family are very inspiring keep up the awsome advise you choose to share with the rest of us, thank you so much:)
this was one of my favorite videos. it felt like i was listening to an older friend/mentor. :)
I have been watching the shaytards from the very start and i have learnt so much about lots of different things and marriage and relationships is a big one. I never disagree with any of yours and shays opinions because I always think they are so wise and clever and I want to thankyou for teaching me so much
you're a really well spoken intelligent woman,if you truly live by your words and i know u do, then i would have no alternative but to say that you are an ideal example of how people in a relationship should be
Communication is the master KEY in a relationship!!
Colette you're awesome and /everyone/ loves you lol x
u have such a special family and can definitely see why ^_^! great advice! I'm new to your channel and to your family's….u guys are so funny and loving! Wish u many blessings !
this is actually the first vid that i have evr watched on ur channel. gotta say respect it was a rly nice video. could be very helpful for some people. could even help me but still too young to think about marriage. :)
5:03 "If you know what I mean" 9gag has my soul, lol.
My husband and I have date night at least once a week. We go to dinner and we just talk without any distractions. Its my favorite day of the week, just to have that alone time to ourselves.
this quote reminded me of what you are saying..."10% of fights are started because of difference in opinions, 90% are started because of wrong tone of voice"
Colette, I think you're a great role model:) You obviously don't love your children LESS than Shay, you simply put Shay and your marriage first, which is for the best interest of the kids. They see mom and dad united and respect that. I think that's beautiful:)
I loved the music and the advice on this weeks episode! Favorited and sent to my bf :)
Best advice I have ever heard on marriage from any source.
Me and my lady were just arguing about something stupid and we almost never fight but its been a tough week for both of us so I think we were just looking to blow off steam.
Then like magic this video is in my inbox. Thank you so much Collette.
"amen" katilette well said and so true.... everyone who's watching this what she says does work and my wife and i have been together for 18yrs just by doing the same exact thing.......
Nice hair, nice eyes, nice earring, and your personality is so precious it makes the word nice sound like I'm holding back. Ah shoot! I am holding back.
Aaahhhh thanks so much for making this video and being so open! You give such sound advice!!!
I love these Katilette! I will always remember the advice you give us and think about it during my life! :)
Colette, you are just wonderful and such an inspiration!
Great advice! My fiance and I are getting married this June and it's tough to piece through all of the bits of advice and wisdom that other couples have given us...and I think you pretty much summed it all up lol. Thanks!
Since moving out of state and away from our families and close friends I haven't trusted anyone to watch our daughter so it's been a minute since we've been on a "date" alone. However, my husband and I have been married for almost 10 years and definitely having couple time is needed but it doesn't have to be at the movie theater or at a restaurant. Some of my favorite moments with my husband is snuggled on the couch watching one of our many tv shows we like to watch.
you are such an inspiration Colette .. Thank you for giving such wonderful advice, i really do learn from you
thats what my parents did and good to remember that!! parents in love are the best example like i saw growing up.
my parents and my mom said it was them 2 before us. trust me your kids grow fast. my mom says we grew up so fast and her and my dad have time for their adventures now. all us kids are grown now, its them 2 and their love is still strong because they kept each other first
I should watch this every morning as a reminder!
I've never hear Katilette talk like that ;) love her!
I really liked this video! I recognize myself in what you said about the shirt and how some women say 'no that's fine', when it's not..
Katilette, I just wanted to tell you that you and my own mother are my biggest role models. I really look up to you. Thank you for being who you are :)
Colette, u amaze me with every vlog u appear in..... If i dint have u and ur family in my life i dont know where id be ...
I totally relate to the things you said! You are a true inspiration to me and i've become a better person by watching you with your family everyday :) I really mean it!!!! keep up collete :))
I'll be honest!! You're my favorite youtuber ever :D
Keep your love life alive. Katilette: Such Class.
Just read the kamasutra and keep everything smelling fresh. That could really ruin a marriage.
Your advice and opinions are IDENTICAL to my mother in laws. They have been married for 30 years and are over the heels madly in love :) My hubs and I are 1 year into the same journey :)
this was a great video, colette. :) Thanks for your honesty
ahh i love this video so much, im only 15 but i don't care this really was helpful and i want to remember every bit of this for when im married :)
This was great. There were so many valid & helpful points made and it was fun. :)
Awesome video! Every couple/marriage should see this
the whole honesty thing is SO true. I've been honest with the person i love, and its helped us out so much. it makes understanding one another, and considering each other's feelings much easier =P
Great video, Colette! You're such an inspiration :)
I took your advice.. I have always been very honest to my girlfriend except 1 thing.. but after I watched your videos I thought I should really be brave and tell her.. I did!!! and she gives me her best understanding! Still happily together after being complete honest :) THANKSSS!!!!! :)
how great and sweet is this video, and most of all super real
you are an inspiration for all the couples and families
i like what you said about honesty being something that builds. Gives me hope:)
Katilette, You have no idea how much I needed to hear this video about being honest with yourself and with others and standing up for yourself. Thank you! My question to you is, what is something that you do alone to relax and get away from the stress of life when you're so busy?
"put the kids to bed early and go spend some time alone, wherever...in your house.." lmao so cute!!
You don't know how much you inspire me katilette!! :D
You are such a wise, beautiful person. I love your videos. Really wish I lived closer so we could have coffee and chat. God bless!
You are so wise! I'm only 16 but I actually think you give great advice, generally about life! Hehe have a lovely day :)
You guys have made me believe in marriage!!