Precisely ..and that's why I'm still single cos I got rid off shallow time wasters draining my energy ..I am happy to receive the relationship I deserve ..we all deserve ..❤
I lost family because there's no reciprocating. I was people's ATM and when I am broke no one is available for me. I gave my time to God and I am happy. God will never forsake nor leave me.
Unfortunately I begged for attention and affection from others for years and I only got regret and sadness. Now I know my worth and value and I've learned to make my happiness by my own hands
I came to this type of conclusion with spending years by chasing my own dreams and happiness and I cut bunch of crap out of my life. I used to be a people pleaser due to my grandmother’s upbringing and recognizing all kinds of family toxic patterns. Breaking out of generational chains! I invest in my self and treat people accordingly. I must say I am in a position in my life where I can walk away so easy from things that don’t serve my highest good. I am very loving and nurturing person but I have to guard it.❤
I am at a crossroads, newly independent and just recently decided to stop chasing a guy I have been in an one sided friendship with for 4 months. After a text I sent asking to speak with him, he said he would call later, no call after 6 days, I called him and he gave all the excuses of why he didn’t call, I said to him “ I know, I am not important enough, I get it”, he went silent, at that moment I knew I had to let go and move on.
That is so sad. I can imagine the agony it put u thru for those 6 days. I am going thru the same kind of. A beautiful connection lost to him pulling back and me doing whatever i can to keep hold of him. Its awful
@@shannonace3463 yes, I am not heartbroken ( we were just reconnecting after 35 years apart) but confused because I know he cares about me, he is holding back not because of me but something or someone else. When I said “…not important enough…I was not referring to how I felt about myself in the situation….it was after all his excuses and it just sounded like BS and it was then that I realized that I was not important enough to him to call me. I am not a needy person but I do like clarity and he is choosing not to provide it so I am moving on. I don’t want someone that chooses not to communicate, plus it is his loss not mine. It is better to cut your losses and move on.
No coincidence I came across this message. She was talking to me. Every word she said pertains to the SHIP I was in. It's hard to walk away but I know my worth and value. No one will have me feeling empty or disrespect me again. I will not chase or pursue a man who is chasing a MARRIED WOMAN...
Very well said. Never fall in those honey traps ever, understand your self worth and move on in life with more self-respect and dignity. Just ignore them if they ignore you.
It’s amazing feedback when people show you this.. you just need to love yourself more, value yourself more and give yourself the worth you deserve… thank them for showing you this🥰💜🙏
Listening to this podcast has revealed a lot of truth about what has been happening in my life for ages😢. I'm truly blessed and more aware of my value and the need to seek for validation from within me and not anyone else. Thank you so much Ms. Oprah for sharing these insights ❤
Oh my soul, this message is timely and powerful. I needed to hear this today, I thank God. I am listening to this the whole day so that the message sinks in👏👏❤️
Oh my goodness, I really need this message right now. Short story After two years, my husband passed away, I started seeing a new guy. At first, everything was smooth, but after two years, things changed. He gets so stressed and depressed every time he hears that his ex-wife isn't happy. This has affected our relationship because when she's having a bad day, he focuses more on her and his family than on me. I’ve tried to understand him since I know he has a long history with his family, but I feel like I constantly have to adjust and even beg for his time when I need to talk about something important. It feels unfair to me. Sometimes I consider letting him go because I don’t want to grow old in this kind of relationship.
I'm so glad to hear this message from a powerful person. I was in a relationship with a person who was going through a divorce, and I was able to help him with my paralegal knowledge. I began to feel that was the only reason he was communicating with me. I really felt the pain when he stopped talking to me after I helped him financially. He later came back and explained what had happened. Only to find out that he was planning to move out of state and prior to him moving out of state, he was homeless, and I gave him a place to stay with boundaries. He left again, knowing I had lost a family member, and the last time I spoke to him was by text. I texted him to say have a safe trip, and i would talk to him later. He replied, "Okay, that sounds good." That was September, and I haven't heard from him since, and I'm focusing on me, and I'm flourishing more being without him. I thank GOD for showing me light in that dark tunnel. 😢 I pray 🙏 for him.
This is very powerful and motivating. I'm glad I slowly stoped chasing for someone's love . The more you explain yourself and trying to draw their attention so they can vallue your presence is the more you get tired and drained while you waiting.
Thanks for the reminder of seeing things how they really are verses how I would like them to be! Moving on making room for the right one who has the capacity to love me the way I deserve
Mee too I have to think off my son who chooses not to see me I message him every few weeks He told me That’s oke but that he doesn’t want to message me , he will only respond my messages shortly
A lesson l learnt be strong know what you know is right. Nor wrong and stand tall if anything you got power so believe in yourself and keep thinking your aim good luck cos one day your life will go and no one gives an shit so you believe within yourself
Unfortunately I begged for love and affection from my loved ones and return I got only regrets and sadness. But now I stopped loving others and even my self. In this selfish world don't expect true love from anyone. Don't waste your time for loving someone unconditionally without knowing the person personally, sometimes they gift you forever pain for your mind, heart and soul. Also sometimes you have to live your life all alone forever because of it. So think well before you fall in love with someone unconditionally.
Thank you so much, the story of my life 😢 sadly I had that relationship with my sister I was always there for her my all life 💔 😢I putted my energy to love her no matter what.. I realise that our relationship only one side was when I realised that one side relationship on that moment. I cute her out my life now I'm so happy that I made that decision! ❤
It starts in childhood with siblings & with peers on the playground…when self-identity is being molded. Unfortunately, bigger stronger extroverts overpower introverts and kids learn to chase, beg, & please… just for attention. Takes parents and teachers who see that a child’s self-worth is weak & fragile. And if they don’t, these kids become adults to beg, chase, & please. Sad but true. And adults find it very hard to break conditioned responses & build self-respect. Takes work. May your message reach parents who are raising children. ❤
Whuuu, this is amazing. I learnt to believe in myself. Ok, I have a book I want you to bring to bring to your podcast. How can I leverage on this through your connection ma'am
Extraordinary ! !!!❤ Thanks so much to Miss Ophrah that s so true. Sometimes it s hard to opening eyes but the must important that all you expect here. Thanks again 👍🏼
I have a friends who although was nice and giving sometimes, I had to let go her go because she wanted my time too much time, talked too much and mistreated me. She wasn't there when I needed her and. I'd wait on her and accepted that but she pushed me away if I wasn't enough.
The people who treat you the best, see those people as your beacon. Know those people are in the right and those who don't treat you o.k. are at the wrong!
If women would apply your precious advice men would not have sooo easy and don't make any effort, because lake is full of fish. ..women don't value the elves, so less and less good men to find because their hunting muscle is weaker and weaker, so in the end the" muscle" stays dormant.. .women don't need to become manly, optically too, to be equal to men.We, don't need to be "equal" to measure THE MAN Women, can stay feminine but can stay strong and NIOT TAKEN FIR GRANTED. THANK YOU for your exposee I wish many women would listen to it❤
I really needed to hear these authentic and profound words. They spoke directly to my heart. Reminded me of my own value and not chasing somebody to define me. I´m worthy of love too. I will still create and share my love and remember to have the strength to include myself. Thank you beautiful soul for making a difference. Thank you for being You ❤
That’s why I won’t call my sisters. They never treated me nice all these years. Now one of them is in an old age home and I don’t visit her either. Done. 😊
I enjoyed this..and see what I was doing wrong with my ex. Chased him out of fear of Abandonment (early childhood trauma). Unfortunately..I live in a city where I don't have friends or family. I just feel lonely and invisible. I have to spend the Holidays alone. When we were together we cooked together and had nice conversations. So..now I just watch the world go by. Trying to figure out what to do all day. I am on disability. It sucks knowing I have nothing.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16 NIV. Jesús loves you! He is the best friend that you will ever have!
Hello Oprah, thank you for these powerful words. I am the mom of a two years old and his dad and I are separated since the baby was 10 month old. Since then, I have been chasing his dad to look after his child more since what he offered was very little in my eyes, compared to what a dad is to me. We've been having high & lows since then, with me having to beg for help when I am exhausted and he behaving sometimes with arrogance and appealing to the law. What would you suggest in these circumstances?
When I write I'm not over explaining. I'm journaling and sorting out my feelings. And if they're not gonna talk to me anyway, it feels good to send it to them. I get Closure from that. I got to express what I wanted to. If they find it 1 day and agree to end things peacefully by being a real grown up and agreeing to disagree, then even better. And maybe I've won back a valued friend, Even if we are not a good love match.
This stance gets iffy with adult children with your grandchildren. In theory this is all correct. Without compromising you may very well never be able to see your own children and grandchildren. Yes it’s emotional blackmail, but ending relationships with your own kids who are the gatekeepers to your grandchildren, if you don’t compromise and give more than you get, it can result in isolation and distancing forever. 😢
The problem with clear boundaries and expecting the same back is that in spirituality many say this is a bargain, not love. Real love should not demand anything but give. But the problem is, with weak boundaries and only giving you can end up easily in toxic relationships where others exploit you. Some say, when you really love you will be happily exploited. But I know that pain. How can you combine these twoe important things - clear boundaries and real love?
I’m waiting for my son to contact me . He doesn’t love or cares for me . 3 weeks with no contact . I’m hurting . My heart is broken . I want to go & be with my husband in heaven. My life isn’t worth living. I’m 76 years old and I don’t know how much longer I have . I can’t take anymore . I just can’t some contact . Not everyday just maybe once a week I would feel better . He is stubborn & won’t come back anytime soon. I know him & he won’t back down . He did me wrong but he won’t see it . I pray he will see sense & contact me . Thank you for your help . ❤️
It is well with you ma. I understand how it hurt. Remember those that don't have children are surviving. Don't allow his bad attitudes,lead you to continuous thinking. Why think of death because of that. Be calm,keep praying for him and yourself and live live to fullest. God be with you ma.
I know it’s very difficult for you to especially when you remember how you wanted him to be your close friend ,sacrificed all you had for him,did everything to make him who he is today and in the end he decides to abandon you,it’s very painful What I can tell you is that make God you’re friend ,you’re everything ,try to forget you’re son as much as you can as thou.he never existed and put you’re life fast,that way you will have peace May God see you through. Don’t forget to pray always
«For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.» John 3:16 NIV. Jesus loves you! You can always count on His love for you!
What if we fell in love with a person who has already suffered a lot and doesn't want to communicate. He/she is scared of making new bonds. Anxiety and depression. They want to be invisible. What should we do when there is this kind of situation?
I'm so much heart broken now, for the whole year I have been very optimistic that we would meet soon, for three weeks now he's not calling, not reading and replying my texts. He is still stuck in my mind😢
The best things I am learning is how to just shut up. Stop explaining. Stop asking questions. Stop waiting. Stop giving undeserved chances.
👍
Easier said than done..sigh..
Perfectly said and I am doing that and it makes a lot of difference-
Correct, I’m a firm believer of never chasing, Especially Romantically. Something that is meant for you always comes easily and effortlessly.
Will,they come back?
How do you distand yourself from such
So, if you have all the answers, why are you on here?
@@elianad2083 reaffirming all my knowledge, intelligence and experience. Happy?????
Precisely ..and that's why I'm still single cos I got rid off shallow time wasters draining my energy ..I am happy to receive the relationship I deserve ..we all deserve ..❤
Let your silence be a statement
I lost family because there's no reciprocating. I was people's ATM and when I am broke no one is available for me. I gave my time to God and I am happy. God will never forsake nor leave me.
That’s our God, He never leaves nor forsakes us.
❤I CAN RELATE...
Amen ❤
Amen 🙏
Amen
Unfortunately I begged for attention and affection from others for years and I only got regret and sadness. Now I know my worth and value and I've learned to make my happiness by my own hands
You're right
Which also makes you a “ more attractive person “
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Ditto
I came to this type of conclusion with spending years by chasing my own dreams and happiness and I cut bunch of crap out of my life. I used to be a people pleaser due to my grandmother’s upbringing and recognizing all kinds of family toxic patterns. Breaking out of generational chains! I invest in my self and treat people accordingly. I must say I am in a position in my life where I can walk away so easy from things that don’t serve my highest good. I am very loving and nurturing person but I have to guard it.❤
Powerfull! You don’t have to explain your value. Save your energi❤
If a man loves you he will do everything to be with you no but and if.
Do you know where I can find this type of man?
😂😂😂
nowhere😂
I am at a crossroads, newly independent and just recently decided to stop chasing a guy I have been in an one sided friendship with for 4 months. After a text I sent asking to speak with him, he said he would call later, no call after 6 days, I called him and he gave all the excuses of why he didn’t call, I said to him “ I know, I am not important enough, I get it”, he went silent, at that moment I knew I had to let go and move on.
It's a process.
That is so sad. I can imagine the agony it put u thru for those 6 days. I am going thru the same kind of. A beautiful connection lost to him pulling back and me doing whatever i can to keep hold of him. Its awful
@@shannonace3463 yes, I am not heartbroken ( we were just reconnecting after 35 years apart) but confused because I know he cares about me, he is holding back not because of me but something or someone else. When I said “…not important enough…I was not referring to how I felt about myself in the situation….it was after all his excuses and it just sounded like BS and it was then that I realized that I was not important enough to him to call me. I am not a needy person but I do like clarity and he is choosing not to provide it so I am moving on. I don’t want someone that chooses not to communicate, plus it is his loss not mine. It is better to cut your losses and move on.
I know he has zero interest in me but I keep on chasing him. No more chasing!! Let him go.
It's not easy 😢😢😢😢.
No coincidence I came across this message. She was talking to me. Every word she said pertains to the SHIP I was in. It's hard to walk away but I know my worth and value. No one will have me feeling empty or disrespect me again. I will not chase or pursue a man who is chasing a MARRIED WOMAN...
Very well said. Never fall in those honey traps ever, understand your self worth and move on in life with more self-respect and dignity. Just ignore them if they ignore you.
It’s amazing feedback when people show you this.. you just need to love yourself more, value yourself more and give yourself the worth you deserve… thank them for showing you this🥰💜🙏
Listening to this podcast has revealed a lot of truth about what has been happening in my life for ages😢. I'm truly blessed and more aware of my value and the need to seek for validation from within me and not anyone else. Thank you so much Ms. Oprah for sharing these insights ❤
I thank GOD for this message 🙏 😢 because im a caring, loving ❤️ person, and i have started to focus more on myself with gratitude and peace.
Oh my soul, this message is timely and powerful. I needed to hear this today, I thank God. I am listening to this the whole day so that the message sinks in👏👏❤️
Reciprocation is everything!
I am just crying 😭 right now, I bless this day, I have been a big fool, God bless you ma, a big hug 🤗
Oh my goodness, I really need this message right now. Short story After two years, my husband passed away, I started seeing a new guy. At first, everything was smooth, but after two years, things changed. He gets so stressed and depressed every time he hears that his ex-wife isn't happy. This has affected our relationship because when she's having a bad day, he focuses more on her and his family than on me.
I’ve tried to understand him since I know he has a long history with his family, but I feel like I constantly have to adjust and even beg for his time when I need to talk about something important. It feels unfair to me. Sometimes I consider letting him go because I don’t want to grow old in this kind of relationship.
I'm so glad to hear this message from a powerful person. I was in a relationship with a person who was going through a divorce, and I was able to help him with my paralegal knowledge. I began to feel that was the only reason he was communicating with me. I really felt the pain when he stopped talking to me after I helped him financially. He later came back and explained what had happened. Only to find out that he was planning to move out of state and prior to him moving out of state, he was homeless, and I gave him a place to stay with boundaries. He left again, knowing I had lost a family member, and the last time I spoke to him was by text. I texted him to say have a safe trip, and i would talk to him later. He replied, "Okay, that sounds good." That was September, and I haven't heard from him since, and I'm focusing on me, and I'm flourishing more being without him. I thank GOD for showing me light in that dark tunnel. 😢 I pray 🙏 for him.
Thank you on for the lesson,..real Love, real Respect ,and real Connection don’t require a constant game of pursuit…
Definitely , I’m a firm believer of never chasing, Especially Romantically. Thanks lot.
I chased my crush, he told me he thought I didn't like him back. Am happy I chased him and we are happy planning our marriage.
I am in my power…so proud of of myself ❤
Can't say more. This is powerful indeed
I begged and chase him
And got tired and stop
Powerful message, valuing yourself and not explaining to everyone.
This is very powerful and motivating. I'm glad I slowly stoped chasing for someone's love . The more you explain yourself and trying to draw their attention so they can vallue your presence is the more you get tired and drained while you waiting.
This applies to both men and women.
I love you Oprah Winfrey
Watching from Kenya
I needed this soooo much!! Thank you Oprah❤️
So inspiring, comforting, and sensible.
I used to text long paragraphs to let them know how I feel, but now I just stop communicating.
Same here
I am still doing it 😢
Please don't waste your time and energy. I used to do the same@@darineththim9547
😢@@darineththim9547
That’s me too sweetheart
It’s though but the Lord is our strength
Thanks Mama O I NEEDED THIS CLARIFICATION 🇨🇦🦾
I needed this coz she is just speaking my mind and hitting the right buttons.... Thanks Oprah
Don't put your happiness in other's pocket
@@emanmahmoud9439 you’re right
Well said
This message arrived in divine timing. I just asked for it a half an hour ago. Thank you.❤
Thankyou for sharing this video..I had to learn the hard way...every word u mention is what I experienced....I learnt from going thru the experience
Because begging, chasing, or constantly reaching out to someone who isn't showing interest or commitment can diminish your self worth.
This is so powerful you know I already knew this but hearing it gives it enormous clarity . Oprah you are the best .
Lois from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤
My god is powerful i needed to hear this...
Thanks for your advoice you sound great good encouragement
This is powerful and needed 🙏🏼
Thank u❤ listening and crying… crying and listening…
This is the best do not chase clip I ever heard!!! Thank you ❤Really helped me to put my thoughts in place 😊 In doubt I will listen again 🎉 💃
Never beg for anybodies attention! Treat them with the same effort they accord you.
Thanks for the reminder of seeing things how they really are verses how I would like them to be! Moving on making room for the right one who has the capacity to love me the way I deserve
I needed this!
Thank you so much ❤
This is awesome needed to hear this today 😊
Mee too
I have to think off my son who chooses not to see me
I message him every few weeks
He told me
That’s oke but that he doesn’t want to message me , he will only respond my messages shortly
@@michellem7290 ❤️
Acknowledged and received 💖💯
Thank you for your kindness ❤
A lesson l learnt be strong know what you know is right. Nor wrong and stand tall if anything you got power so believe in yourself and keep thinking your aim good luck cos one day your life will go and no one gives an shit so you believe within yourself
I love this. And I know she don’t like to be called Auntie. But I was listening and said ok Auntie!!! Thank you for this wisdom❤
This is so powerful! Thank you ❤
This leason has really change me ❤you are indeed a God send pray that this leason make a change in so many people life today❤❤
Unfortunately I begged for love and affection from my loved ones and return I got only regrets and sadness. But now I stopped loving others and even my self. In this selfish world don't expect true love from anyone. Don't waste your time for loving someone unconditionally without knowing the person personally, sometimes they gift you forever pain for your mind, heart and soul. Also sometimes you have to live your life all alone forever because of it. So think well before you fall in love with someone unconditionally.
Thank you so much, the story of my life 😢 sadly I had that relationship with my sister I was always there for her my all life 💔 😢I putted my energy to love her no matter what.. I realise that our relationship only one side was when I realised that one side relationship on that moment. I cute her out my life now I'm so happy that I made that decision! ❤
I have chosen my peace extended family members aren’t easy lately.
This happened with my sister she made me a people pleaser I now realize that and working on this about myself
It starts in childhood with siblings & with peers on the playground…when self-identity is being molded. Unfortunately, bigger stronger extroverts overpower introverts and kids learn to chase, beg, & please… just for attention. Takes parents and teachers who see that a child’s self-worth is weak & fragile. And if they don’t, these kids become adults to beg, chase, & please. Sad but true. And adults find it very hard to break conditioned responses & build self-respect. Takes work. May your message reach parents who are raising children. ❤
Thank you Ma for sharing
Whuuu, this is amazing.
I learnt to believe in myself.
Ok, I have a book I want you to bring to bring to your podcast.
How can I leverage on this through your connection ma'am
Extraordinary ! !!!❤ Thanks so much to Miss Ophrah that s so true. Sometimes it s hard to opening eyes but the must important that all you expect here. Thanks again 👍🏼
I love this thank you for encouraging❤
Thank you this , God bless you
I have a friends who although was nice and giving sometimes, I had to let go her go because she wanted my time too much time, talked too much and mistreated me. She wasn't there when I needed her and. I'd wait on her and accepted that but she pushed me away if I wasn't enough.
The people who treat you the best, see those people as your beacon. Know those people are in the right and those who don't treat you o.k. are at the wrong!
If women would apply your precious advice men would not have sooo easy and don't make any effort, because lake is full of fish. ..women don't value the elves, so less and less good men to find because their hunting muscle is weaker and weaker, so in the end the" muscle" stays dormant.. .women don't need to become manly, optically too, to be equal to men.We, don't need to be "equal" to measure THE MAN Women, can stay feminine but can stay strong and NIOT TAKEN FIR GRANTED.
THANK YOU for your exposee I wish many women would listen to it❤
So so so true ❤️
Powerful message.
I loved it❤
I really needed to hear these authentic and profound words. They spoke directly to my heart. Reminded me of my own value and not chasing somebody to define me. I´m worthy of love too. I will still create and share my love and remember to have the strength to include myself. Thank you beautiful soul for making a difference. Thank you for being You ❤
Oprah, Love you a lot ❤❤❤
So true❤
I LOVED IT Thanks for Sharing
That’s why I won’t call my sisters. They never treated me nice all these years. Now one of them is in an old age home and I don’t visit her either. Done. 😊
Yes indeed ❤
❤@Peace with myself & the World around ME..🙏🏾💙
Thanks opera
Thank you👍
Love it❤thank you ❤
Sure
I enjoyed this..and see what I was doing wrong with my ex. Chased him out of fear of Abandonment (early childhood trauma). Unfortunately..I live in a city where I don't have friends or family. I just feel lonely and invisible. I have to spend the Holidays alone. When we were together we cooked together and had nice conversations. So..now I just watch the world go by. Trying to figure out what to do all day. I am on disability. It sucks knowing I have nothing.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.
John 3:16 NIV. Jesús loves you! He is the best friend that you will ever have!
Thank you very much ma I love you.
Amazing my dear. Keep up. From Cameroon
Hello Oprah, thank you for these powerful words. I am the mom of a two years old and his dad and I are separated since the baby was 10 month old. Since then, I have been chasing his dad to look after his child more since what he offered was very little in my eyes, compared to what a dad is to me. We've been having high & lows since then, with me having to beg for help when I am exhausted and he behaving sometimes with arrogance and appealing to the law. What would you suggest in these circumstances?
Don’t settle for anything less than you are worth!
Work on yourself until you have so much self worth you won’t except less x
When I write I'm not over explaining. I'm journaling and sorting out my feelings. And if they're not gonna talk to me anyway, it feels good to send it to them. I get Closure from that. I got to express what I wanted to. If they find it 1 day and agree to end things peacefully by being a real grown up and agreeing to disagree, then even better. And maybe I've won back a valued friend, Even if we are not a good love match.
Don' t chase anybody ever !! Your own shadow will chase you, that' s more than enough ! Be nice and respectful to yourself !! ❤❤ Love to you all !!
Amazing i like it
Very inspiring
This message hit in the perfect time and answered so many questions. Thank you!
So true darling ❤️❤️😍😍
I needed to hear this ❤😊😊
Thanks
♥️Wonderful lady♥️you100%♥️right♥️
Thank you ❤❤❤ this is very true …..
This stance gets iffy with adult children with your grandchildren. In theory this is all correct. Without compromising you may very well never be able to see your own children and grandchildren. Yes it’s emotional blackmail, but ending relationships with your own kids who are the gatekeepers to your grandchildren, if you don’t compromise and give more than you get, it can result in isolation and distancing forever. 😢
This isn’t Oprah, but powerful message though! Great nuggets!!!
How do you figure it’s not her?
She has several videos of her giving motivational speeches… and if you think Oprah would allow any channel to impersonate her- you are wrong lol!!!
The problem with clear boundaries and expecting the same back is that in spirituality many say this is a bargain, not love. Real love should not demand anything but give. But the problem is, with weak boundaries and only giving you can end up easily in toxic relationships where others exploit you. Some say, when you really love you will be happily exploited. But I know that pain. How can you combine these twoe important things - clear boundaries and real love?
I’m waiting for my son to contact me . He doesn’t love or cares for me . 3 weeks with no contact . I’m hurting . My heart is broken . I want to go & be with my husband in heaven. My life isn’t worth living. I’m 76 years old and I don’t know how much longer I have . I can’t take anymore . I just can’t some contact . Not everyday just maybe once a week I would feel better . He is stubborn & won’t come back anytime soon. I know him & he won’t back down . He did me wrong but he won’t see it . I pray he will see sense & contact me . Thank you for your help . ❤️
God will listen to you,he will be back.
It is well with you ma. I understand how it hurt. Remember those that don't have children are surviving. Don't allow his bad attitudes,lead you to continuous thinking. Why think of death because of that. Be calm,keep praying for him and yourself and live live to fullest. God be with you ma.
Hope in God, not your son, raise your joy, sing spiritual songs so that your soul can be calm
I know it’s very difficult for you to especially when you remember how you wanted him to be your close friend ,sacrificed all you had for him,did everything to make him who he is today and in the end he decides to abandon you,it’s very painful
What I can tell you is that make God you’re friend ,you’re everything ,try to forget you’re son as much as you can as thou.he never existed
and put you’re life fast,that way you will have peace
May God see you through.
Don’t forget to pray always
«For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life.»
John 3:16 NIV. Jesus loves you! You can always count on His love for you!
What if we fell in love with a person who has already suffered a lot and doesn't want to communicate. He/she is scared of making new bonds. Anxiety and depression. They want to be invisible.
What should we do when there is this kind of situation?
Amen 🙏🏿
Exactly
Hmmmmm what a message so true
Thank you Oprah 💜 This is really good
I'm so much heart broken now, for the whole year I have been very optimistic that we would meet soon, for three weeks now he's not calling, not reading and replying my texts. He is still stuck in my mind😢