1. Do what you say you’re going to do 2. Journal once a day 3. Never lie 4. Always make time for your closest friends 5. Practice your craft 6. Be physically active 7. Surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become 8. Read 9. Track goals 10. Never eat alone 11. Dress for success 12. Meditate and reflect 13. Teach others 14. Play 15. Eat Healthy 16. Check in with people of different ages 17. See art 18. Wake up when you say you’re going to wake up 19. Read your chief aim aloud
Stop planning and go to action is the most important one and also where most people stop... If you do that, you are already more successful than the majority of people.
Both of you are right... Planning is needed before starting but stuck in planning and not starting the action is also not a good idea.... Moreover, we cannot really get what kind of things we are going to face... Or what kind of things can happen if we don't start the process... So... Planning is necessary but we can't plan each and everything of what and how we are going to do it...
Maybe there simply needs to be balance. Life is a learning process, so if every single item isn't ticked off the box, that is okay. The key thing is follow-through. Keep your word. Let the results speak for you. How? First, set a goal with A DEADLINE. Involve other people (why do everything by yourself?). Second, break down your goal into small steps, then simply FOLLOW-THROUGH on what you said and wrote you would accomplish. In a week's time, a month's time ANYTHING could happen. But once you accomplish your goal, the surge of confidence to do greater things will feel incredible and propel you forward into becoming the person you were meant to be. That to me is success. Keeping you
Most of people develop tunnel vision by focusing solely on action. They start with an intention in mind and lose their vision in the process. "Failing to plan is planning to fail."
For me (depending on the project), planning for 2 days (possibly 3) is enough to where I’m still motivated to start working on the project. If I hit a bump in the road, then I may need to go back and plan a little more, or re-plan some things. But if I stay too long in the planning phase, I’ll get stuck, and never get finished with the project, because I’ll be less motivated, and will find many nit picks that I don’t need to worry about, but do end up worrying about. Basically, balance the planning phase and the actual working phase, but usually do the planning phase shorter than the working phase to stay motivated, and not get nit picky
All great habits IMO but I don’t think there is anything wrong with eating alone. I think it can be peaceful and relaxing. It is also a good trait to be able to enjoy ones own company and be happy just being.
I agree. I think there's a big difference between making an active choice to nurture yourself by eating alone in quiet contemplation or reflection, or mindfully - and not taking up the chance to get to know other people who could be really interesting or amusing or educate you, perhaps because you're too shy to speak to them, which is more like a passive choice to be alone. Active choices are going to yield better results, I always think. :-) I also agree with you about it being important to be comfortable with being alone, just being in your own skin.
I love eating alone. It gives me time to decompress and relax. I’ll often listen to a book and it’s Me Time. I also enjoy eating with people, but eating alone isn’t a bad habit.
Do what u say urbgoing to day Daily journal Dont lie Make time for your closest friends Practice your craft Exercise Surround yourself with ppl who represent where you want to become Read Dont just set goals, track them Never eat alone - share conversations Dress to impress Reflect and meditate Teach others even before you feel like you're an expert Play - explore your inner child Eat healthily Check in with ppl of different ages See art- museums, galleries Wake up on time Read your chief aim out loud every day
Great video! One piece of advice I think is consistent and essential with this vid is to focus on your systems, not your goals. Many people begin the process of changing their habits by focusing on WHAT they want to achieve. This leads to outcome based habits. The alternative (and real "goal" to habit change) is to build identity-based habits. With this approach we start to focus on WHO we wish to become.
@@honvcritic3978 I believe this can be done with establishing a strong reading based habit. Read one page of the bible each day. If that's too much to stay consistent, read half of a page. But just make sure you're opening that book every single day. Make those tiny changes each day and stick to them and you'll be well on your way to understanding more than you've ever imagined
Excellent points. Take what what you can, the other points will come in time. Reflect on each point; valued friends, are they really important to you or are they dragging you down
I'd say it depends on your environment, honestly, if you know(!) there is just nobody you can have a decent conversation with, don't bother, you don't want to hear what bs they saw on TV, or let them talk to you about everyone who isn't present, etc. pp.. If there are people who give you the impression they might have depth, and happen to be open for your company, do catch hold of them, cost what it may!! ...And do not retreat behind a newspaper, assuming, that's fine with them too. :D
These are all big ideas in the self development world. Big ones for me are keeping a journal and never lying. If we want to become better people we can’t lie, and we should track ourselves and our progress in self development throughout our life.
Thanks to long form content i have found through learning, and pursuing personal growth, i feel like i'm regaining my attention span :) Thanks for the help!!
Happily for me I'm doing more of those than not, but #10 simply doesn't work. I'm not going to pay at a restaurant every time I eat, or cook for others, so I almost always eat alone and I like it that way. Even in an office environment, lunch provides much needed "alone time" for a certain kind of person. I'll just have to figure out how to get huge results with the other 18 habits.
Excellent video !!! to my humble opinion when U are "spending" time for your friends make sure that they are really "GOOD" friends so they will respect you and your time and most important they will respect your goals and motivation and will not discourage you !!!
Agree about the eating alone thing. I love eating with others. I also love eating alone. If i'm always eating with others i'm never reflecting, never truly having my own thoughts without the influence of others. I never have quiet time in my mind.
Changing the mindset also helps; we're privileged enough to have the opportunity to practice these habits. Most people think I HAVE to do this. No, we GET to do this. Now let's go change the world
Many good suggestions. The only thing I take issue with is the statement to never eat alone. This does not take into account introverts, who may need that break in the middle of the day to pull back from social interaction in order to refuel. We are not all the same, and should know and respect our individual needs. Still, the video provides lots of ways to examine our own lives for ways to improve and reach our goals.
1:22 But what if you lose friends/relationships because you live in a culture that values apathy and mediocrity and people ditch you when you have ambition and start to be on the path to success? I come from a former communist country where to this day it's common to hate on whoever rises above the average. It happened to me more than once and one person literally told me I give her inferiority complexes because I actually do something with my life. I don't get it, I always thought that the more I follow my dreams/goals and the happier I am, it'll inspire others to do the same for themselves. I never pushed my small successes down people's throats or told them how to live their own lives but of course I bring up my passions in conversations. It pains me to lose very old friendships and see people unhappy with their lives but unwilling to do anything about it. Don't get me wrong, it's totally ok for someone to not have big goals and ambition IF that's what makes them happy, but it's clearly not making them happy if an old friend who does makes them uncomfortable to the point of ending the friendship. Don't say "you need better friends", I tend to agree but 1, it's not that easy to build super close friendships as an adult and 2, I genuinely liked the old ones as people, regardless of how much or how little they achieve in life.
The way to the top is a lonely road. You have to learn to let people go. If you want to be successful, people who want to be below mediocre should not be your friend. Make the decision, however hard, to say good bye. You won't regret it. In business you'll have to make hard decisions constantly, practice by letting go of unprofitable people.
Losing people that you care about is really hard, Andreea. However, in the LONG RUN, it will not help your spirit or emotional/mental well-being to be around toxic people who don't wish the best for you. You don't necessarily have to cast off every single person every time you set to accomplish a new goal or make small changes in your life. I think a way to interpret the video's advice is that for select areas where you want to make changes or achieve things, find someone who can help you by mentoring you or simply encouraging you. If you wanted to get better at marketing or accounting for a small business, who would you go to for advice: your cousin who has no knowledge about the subject and is focused in a completely different job field or an actual accountant or marketing exec? You'll find your soul tribe one day. But evaluate people on a case-by-case basis. You can love from a distance and that's ok!!
I know what you mean. Sometimes I think I understand where they're coming from. Your actions show people their own fears and they respond by making you into the "bad guy". People don't appreciate being shown they're not living up to their own perceived potential. You can't control other people's reactions - what you can do, however, is recognise that these events are just another form of resistance to you living your own life as you see fit.
Great video, but you left out one extremely important mindset habit: Learn, Learn & Learn. Figure out, analyze and understand why things work or behave the way they do, Always keep your mind open to new ideas & concepts, even if you don't agree with them or wish to pursue them for yourself - you always need to understand the other person's point of view as well as champion your own. In this way you can formulate your own successful strategies in life thru interacting with others. I'd like to submit the above paragraph as success principle #20, which evens the list out as a nice even number. 😄👍
I think that's what the time for journaling and reflecting are for. It wasn't explicitly stated, but having that time to write what you did and why, or why something didn't happen the way you planned is a great way to learn from your experience.
1. Do what you say you’re going to do 2. Journal once a day 3. Never lie 4. Always make time for your closest friends 5. Practice your craft 6. Be physically active 7. Surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become 8. Read 9. Track goals 10. Never eat alone 11. Dress for success 12. Meditate and reflect 13. Teach others 14. Play 15. Eat Healthy 16. Check in with people of different ages 17. See art 18. Wake up when you say you’re going to wake up 19. Read your chief aim aloud
As always, your UA-cam channel is the absolute best! I just got news last Thursday that I can start walking after 9 months of surgeries and recovery on my foot. I seriously follow this guidance and there's three things I need to work on and do. Waking up on time, exercise will happen when I get a physical therapist and start walking, and the third thing is that I'm going to start journaling. I highly recommend using Trello to plan out the tiny leaps and goals. Thanks again for your smashing video 👍🏼
1. Research fastest most effective ways to make money 2. Train yourself to get that money or get hired into that 3. Perfect food intake and exercise to time ratio 4. Don't waste time on shit that doesn't help you get money or improve your health or self protection from hostiles and Darwin awards
Never eat alone? Who in the hell has the time to arrange meals with others when you live alone? And are living on struggling entrepreneurs budget? Not me. I love people but I often eat alone.
I think you might’ve misinterpreted a little. It doesn’t need to be planned and expensive. It’s like how back in school people would bring pre-made lunches, and sit together - there’s a wonderful relationship aspect of eating together.
I have 2 alarms. Yorktown (11am) is to wake up quickly, so 1-2 max snoozes. Roundabout (12pm) is usually a suggestion, where I can wake up then if I want, or snooze up to 24 times. I don't expect to wake up without pressing snooze, so when I press snooze I'm meeting my expectations.
Thank you again!! For me the one habit I realised could me benefit me big time was 9, track your goals. This really was an eyeopener even though it seems so logical and simple. Thank you!!
Good tips. But I never really understood the idea of "surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become." I mean, I think it's a good idea if it were possible, but I don't see how successful people would want to spend time with random unsuccessful people. I don't personally know anyone I want to be like. If I sent a message to someone successful and said, "Hey, can I buy you lunch?" they would probably think I'm a stalker or trying to beg for money or something. I know if someone asked to hang out with me, I'd wonder what sort of scam they're running.
Right and a lot of times it is about who you know so a better piece of advice would be to explain how does one get into the circle of those" they want to become".
Habits are not a finish line to be crossed, they are a lifestyle to be lived - James Clear. "The Art of improvement" - great collection of tiny habits👌
You can still "surround" yourself with them, I guess, say you want to be an (professional) athlete - go watch their practise sessions (there always somewhere, and the internet sure knows where and when), be an educated geek - go sit in their cafés (ideally overhear their (bs) conversations), etc. pp.. You don't have to become arrogant, just don't let yourself slump to an exclusive perceived lower level of close social contacts if you really do not want to.
I am wondering about this also... there are financial advisors for retirement but what about all the rest of life. Thinking about studying art myself. And learning to fly a small plane.
I strongly agree with all the points. But, "Never eat alone"? Covid aside, the planning required and the costs related to meeting someone three times a day just so I can eat with them, even though I prefer to eat by myself, are amazingly unnecessary.
How to manifest significant improvement today as a chronically ill, skin diseased, unemployed, disabled, pained, failed, disadvantaged, isolated, cursed, abused, troubled, unproductive, angry, ethnic minority, 20 something, imprisoned, fatigued, tragic female in England? My own efforts have not paid off despite many techniques and much discipline. Nobody else helped me either. Thanks in advance.
Just follow rule one and you will succeed, but therein lies the problem. We know what we need to do to succeed but within days run out of drive and inspiration. How does one make a fundamental, permanent change of habits and thinking?
No.1 is not really a habit. A habit is a precise behaviour that follows a queue, doing what you say you're going to do is more of a mantra or maxim for living. How do you make this into a habit using the rules of habit formation?
Number seven is not possible for me, personally; I'm unaware of anybody currently alive who represents somebody who I want to become. I partially disagree with number ten. Sometimes, while eating alone I can best recharge both body and mind for what remains to accomplish. Lastly, number fifteen; it should be "Eat healthily."
1. Do what you say you’re going to do
2. Journal once a day
3. Never lie
4. Always make time for your closest friends
5. Practice your craft
6. Be physically active
7. Surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become
8. Read
9. Track goals
10. Never eat alone
11. Dress for success
12. Meditate and reflect
13. Teach others
14. Play
15. Eat Healthy
16. Check in with people of different ages
17. See art
18. Wake up when you say you’re going to wake up
19. Read your chief aim aloud
We don’t deserve people like u !
Kathy H. I love to cook and eat alone. I cook gourmet food and enjoy my own company!
@@marinarep8986 FACTS!
Thank you!
NHMO OYTIS I usually eat alone as well. It’s good to be able to enjoy your own company
Stop planning and go to action is the most important one and also where most people stop... If you do that, you are already more successful than the majority of people.
Both of you are right... Planning is needed before starting but stuck in planning and not starting the action is also not a good idea.... Moreover, we cannot really get what kind of things we are going to face... Or what kind of things can happen if we don't start the process... So... Planning is necessary but we can't plan each and everything of what and how we are going to do it...
Maybe there simply needs to be balance. Life is a learning process, so if every single item isn't ticked off the box, that is okay. The key thing is follow-through. Keep your word. Let the results speak for you. How?
First, set a goal with A DEADLINE. Involve other people (why do everything by yourself?).
Second, break down your goal into small steps, then simply FOLLOW-THROUGH on what you said and wrote you would accomplish.
In a week's time, a month's time ANYTHING could happen. But once you accomplish your goal, the surge of confidence to do greater things will feel incredible and propel you forward into becoming the person you were meant to be. That to me is success. Keeping you
FACTS
Most of people develop tunnel vision by focusing solely on action. They start with an intention in mind and lose their vision in the process. "Failing to plan is planning to fail."
For me (depending on the project), planning for 2 days (possibly 3) is enough to where I’m still motivated to start working on the project. If I hit a bump in the road, then I may need to go back and plan a little more, or re-plan some things. But if I stay too long in the planning phase, I’ll get stuck, and never get finished with the project, because I’ll be less motivated, and will find many nit picks that I don’t need to worry about, but do end up worrying about.
Basically, balance the planning phase and the actual working phase, but usually do the planning phase shorter than the working phase to stay motivated, and not get nit picky
All great habits IMO but I don’t think there is anything wrong with eating alone. I think it can be peaceful and relaxing. It is also a good trait to be able to enjoy ones own company and be happy just being.
You can meditate while at it ;)
Opinions don't always count as facts. You can always look for answers in our physiology. There you will find the importance of not eating alone.
I have always enjoyed eating alone, especially at a restaurant.
Now that I have four kids, its even more of a treat because it almost never happens
I came here to comment that. Also I NEVER eat my whole lunch if I'm busy talking with someone and then I end up hungry later on. Lunch is me time.
I agree. I think there's a big difference between making an active choice to nurture yourself by eating alone in quiet contemplation or reflection, or mindfully - and not taking up the chance to get to know other people who could be really interesting or amusing or educate you, perhaps because you're too shy to speak to them, which is more like a passive choice to be alone. Active choices are going to yield better results, I always think. :-) I also agree with you about it being important to be comfortable with being alone, just being in your own skin.
You can’t always be in the “go go” mode, but you can wake me up before you go go
lmAO
I love eating alone. It gives me time to decompress and relax. I’ll often listen to a book and it’s Me Time. I also enjoy eating with people, but eating alone isn’t a bad habit.
Do what u say urbgoing to day
Daily journal
Dont lie
Make time for your closest friends
Practice your craft
Exercise
Surround yourself with ppl who represent where you want to become
Read
Dont just set goals, track them
Never eat alone - share conversations
Dress to impress
Reflect and meditate
Teach others even before you feel like you're an expert
Play - explore your inner child
Eat healthily
Check in with ppl of different ages
See art- museums, galleries
Wake up on time
Read your chief aim out loud every day
Great video! One piece of advice I think is consistent and essential with this vid is to focus on your systems, not your goals. Many people begin the process of changing their habits by focusing on WHAT they want to achieve. This leads to outcome based habits. The alternative (and real "goal" to habit change) is to build identity-based habits. With this approach we start to focus on WHO we wish to become.
Interesting paradigm Andrew, thanks!
I would like to become a true follower of the Christ.
@@honvcritic3978 I believe this can be done with establishing a strong reading based habit. Read one page of the bible each day. If that's too much to stay consistent, read half of a page. But just make sure you're opening that book every single day. Make those tiny changes each day and stick to them and you'll be well on your way to understanding more than you've ever imagined
@@andrewpadilla1756 Thank you for your good advice. 😄
Excellent
Excellent points. Take what what you can, the other points will come in time. Reflect on each point; valued friends, are they really important to you or are they dragging you down
I’ve watched similiar videos before but they didn’t attract me, yours did.
I would like to thank you for that.
Best regards
I eat alone a lot and don’t see the problem
I call it INTROVERSION and fully embrace it regularly :)
I am not into socializing either ... Introvert here
The problem is that you didn't invite me. 😠
About to go on a glorious lunch break by myself, really looking forward to my peaceful break
I'd say it depends on your environment, honestly, if you know(!) there is just nobody you can have a decent conversation with, don't bother, you don't want to hear what bs they saw on TV, or let them talk to you about everyone who isn't present, etc. pp.. If there are people who give you the impression they might have depth, and happen to be open for your company, do catch hold of them, cost what it may!! ...And do not retreat behind a newspaper, assuming, that's fine with them too. :D
These are all big ideas in the self development world. Big ones for me are keeping a journal and never lying. If we want to become better people we can’t lie, and we should track ourselves and our progress in self development throughout our life.
👍🏼Well said. 😌
@@honvcritic3978 Thank you!
Thanks to long form content i have found through learning, and pursuing personal growth, i feel like i'm regaining my attention span :) Thanks for the help!!
I love your work man! Your channel is a gem
I’m almost there! I do most of those things.
Happily for me I'm doing more of those than not, but #10 simply doesn't work. I'm not going to pay at a restaurant every time I eat, or cook for others, so I almost always eat alone and I like it that way. Even in an office environment, lunch provides much needed "alone time" for a certain kind of person. I'll just have to figure out how to get huge results with the other 18 habits.
Excellent video !!! to my humble opinion when U are "spending" time for your friends make sure that they are really "GOOD" friends so they will respect you and your time and most important they will respect your goals and motivation and will not discourage you !!!
Agree about the eating alone thing. I love eating with others. I also love eating alone. If i'm always eating with others i'm never reflecting, never truly having my own thoughts without the influence of others. I never have quiet time in my mind.
Changing the mindset also helps; we're privileged enough to have the opportunity to practice these habits. Most people think I HAVE to do this. No, we GET to do this. Now let's go change the world
Many good suggestions. The only thing I take issue with is the statement to never eat alone. This does not take into account introverts, who may need that break in the middle of the day to pull back from social interaction in order to refuel. We are not all the same, and should know and respect our individual needs. Still, the video provides lots of ways to examine our own lives for ways to improve and reach our goals.
1:22 But what if you lose friends/relationships because you live in a culture that values apathy and mediocrity and people ditch you when you have ambition and start to be on the path to success? I come from a former communist country where to this day it's common to hate on whoever rises above the average. It happened to me more than once and one person literally told me I give her inferiority complexes because I actually do something with my life. I don't get it, I always thought that the more I follow my dreams/goals and the happier I am, it'll inspire others to do the same for themselves. I never pushed my small successes down people's throats or told them how to live their own lives but of course I bring up my passions in conversations. It pains me to lose very old friendships and see people unhappy with their lives but unwilling to do anything about it. Don't get me wrong, it's totally ok for someone to not have big goals and ambition IF that's what makes them happy, but it's clearly not making them happy if an old friend who does makes them uncomfortable to the point of ending the friendship. Don't say "you need better friends", I tend to agree but 1, it's not that easy to build super close friendships as an adult and 2, I genuinely liked the old ones as people, regardless of how much or how little they achieve in life.
The way to the top is a lonely road. You have to learn to let people go. If you want to be successful, people who want to be below mediocre should not be your friend. Make the decision, however hard, to say good bye. You won't regret it. In business you'll have to make hard decisions constantly, practice by letting go of unprofitable people.
Losing people that you care about is really hard, Andreea. However, in the LONG RUN, it will not help your spirit or emotional/mental well-being to be around toxic people who don't wish the best for you. You don't necessarily have to cast off every single person every time you set to accomplish a new goal or make small changes in your life. I think a way to interpret the video's advice is that for select areas where you want to make changes or achieve things, find someone who can help you by mentoring you or simply encouraging you. If you wanted to get better at marketing or accounting for a small business, who would you go to for advice: your cousin who has no knowledge about the subject and is focused in a completely different job field or an actual accountant or marketing exec? You'll find your soul tribe one day. But evaluate people on a case-by-case basis. You can love from a distance and that's ok!!
Listen u need nobody and nobody's opinion ...I'm so much stuck ...with zero help and my parents being my worst enemies but I keep going for
I know what you mean. Sometimes I think I understand where they're coming from. Your actions show people their own fears and they respond by making you into the "bad guy". People don't appreciate being shown they're not living up to their own perceived potential.
You can't control other people's reactions - what you can do, however, is recognise that these events are just another form of resistance to you living your own life as you see fit.
Just being curious, where are you from?
Great video !!! These tiny habits maybe seem obvious but they will make you happier healthier and wiser
Great video, but you left out one extremely important mindset habit: Learn, Learn & Learn. Figure out, analyze and understand why things work or behave the way they do, Always keep your mind open to new ideas & concepts, even if you don't agree with them or wish to pursue them for yourself - you always need to understand the other person's point of view as well as champion your own. In this way you can formulate your own successful strategies in life thru interacting with others.
I'd like to submit the above paragraph as success principle #20, which evens the list out as a nice even number. 😄👍
I think that's what the time for journaling and reflecting are for. It wasn't explicitly stated, but having that time to write what you did and why, or why something didn't happen the way you planned is a great way to learn from your experience.
Well said!
It makes real sense!
Love your significant other deeply - the way you want to be loved.
Our habits is our own foundation for success 🔥
1. Do what you say you’re going to do
2. Journal once a day
3. Never lie
4. Always make time for your closest friends
5. Practice your craft
6. Be physically active
7. Surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become
8. Read
9. Track goals
10. Never eat alone
11. Dress for success
12. Meditate and reflect
13. Teach others
14. Play
15. Eat Healthy
16. Check in with people of different ages
17. See art
18. Wake up when you say you’re going to wake up
19. Read your chief aim aloud
Good advice: Please add be compassionate with yourself when you fall short of your plan.
As always, your UA-cam channel is the absolute best! I just got news last Thursday that I can start walking after 9 months of surgeries and recovery on my foot. I seriously follow this guidance and there's three things I need to work on and do. Waking up on time, exercise will happen when I get a physical therapist and start walking, and the third thing is that I'm going to start journaling.
I highly recommend using Trello to plan out the tiny leaps and goals. Thanks again for your smashing video 👍🏼
1. Research fastest most effective ways to make money
2. Train yourself to get that money or get hired into that
3. Perfect food intake and exercise to time ratio
4. Don't waste time on shit that doesn't help you get money or improve your health or self protection from hostiles and Darwin awards
Not knowledge....... APPLIED knowledge is the new currency.
Never eat alone? Who in the hell has the time to arrange meals with others when you live alone? And are living on struggling entrepreneurs budget? Not me. I love people but I often eat alone.
I agree. That point is the only thing I have a bit of problem with.
Same here - should maybe have an exception like "let feeding yourself be a hobby"
what it means is to never eat and only eat, use that time for reading a book, learning new things, share, love,.
Lol, yeah, that is just not realistic at all and some people like having some alone time for those 30 to 40 minutes.
I think you might’ve misinterpreted a little. It doesn’t need to be planned and expensive. It’s like how back in school people would bring pre-made lunches, and sit together - there’s a wonderful relationship aspect of eating together.
You should try going to the good old fashioned Public library.
In this day and age, they're all new-fashioned, with so many resources for everyone-- not just books. Well worth a visit.
Libraries are closed or were still closed and shut down early when covid came up, maybe they will open one day
Beautiful content. Youre providing such amazing tools to everyone to live their best lives. Be proud of your contribution
Thank you
This is great. Always works. I use building habits in my courses. All students should use these techniques
10. Never eat alone. Don’t know if I can do that, but I usually am researching while I’m eating.
1:54 - go to the gym. I resonate with this one mostly. There is nothing the gym can’t fix
This is a really helpful video, all tips combined in one. Thank you so much for doing the great work you are doing!
I need a poster of this ASAP
I have 2 alarms. Yorktown (11am) is to wake up quickly, so 1-2 max snoozes. Roundabout (12pm) is usually a suggestion, where I can wake up then if I want, or snooze up to 24 times.
I don't expect to wake up without pressing snooze, so when I press snooze I'm meeting my expectations.
I love how the first people to comment are all fellow creators.
I love that too. It shows that people are working towards becoming the best versions of themselves
"What shall it profit a man if he gain the whole world but loses his soul"?
Mark 8:36
Frances Venezia that’s good.
Whats your point?
Thank you again!! For me the one habit I realised could me benefit me big time was 9, track your goals. This really was an eyeopener even though it seems so logical and simple. Thank you!!
I love what you do and the way u do it thankyou for helping people 😘
These are 19 steps to a cool life!
Good video. Thank you. Can you please make a video on journaling?
Good tips. But I never really understood the idea of "surround yourself with people who represent what you ultimately want to become." I mean, I think it's a good idea if it were possible, but I don't see how successful people would want to spend time with random unsuccessful people. I don't personally know anyone I want to be like. If I sent a message to someone successful and said, "Hey, can I buy you lunch?" they would probably think I'm a stalker or trying to beg for money or something. I know if someone asked to hang out with me, I'd wonder what sort of scam they're running.
Right and a lot of times it is about who you know so a better piece of advice would be to explain how does one get into the circle of those" they want to become".
You helped me so much! thanks u
Habits are not a finish line to be crossed, they are a lifestyle to be lived - James Clear. "The Art of improvement" - great collection of tiny habits👌
Desire is the starting point of all achievement.
Napoleon Hill
BLACK BELT FINANCE and Buddha said, “Desire is the cause of all misery in this world.”
Would be good to have a PDF with all the habits and graphics. Please share if you can.
A big Thank You!
HIT HOME. THANK YOU. SIMPLE AND EFFECTIVE 🖤
Incredible video thank you
Wonderful! So helpful! Thank You!!
Great content thanks for sharing!
Last is best-ever 🎉👍 thanks
This is so simple yet...effective!
Great content. Keep it up!
Just found this channel - great advice and love the animations! I'm sure I'll find a lot of likeminded people here - cheers! 🎉🥂😎
Nice vid!
great video, thanks for sharing!!!!
I think you need to sell posters of the big pictures. They'd be nice to have on my home office wall.
Great video as always. Keep it up!
SERIOUS QUESTION: What if people who represent what I ultimately want to become don't really want to be friends or spend time with me?
You can still "surround" yourself with them, I guess, say you want to be an (professional) athlete - go watch their practise sessions (there always somewhere, and the internet sure knows where and when), be an educated geek - go sit in their cafés (ideally overhear their (bs) conversations), etc. pp.. You don't have to become arrogant, just don't let yourself slump to an exclusive perceived lower level of close social contacts if you really do not want to.
When was the last time you wrote a song on your ukulele? *As I'm playing on a ukulele*
Sjoe this is amazing... wow!!!!!! Thank you
So if I want to become a retired person I should surround myself with retired people? I'm not sure how that's going to work....
I am wondering about this also... there are financial advisors for retirement but what about all the rest of life. Thinking about studying art myself. And learning to fly a small plane.
Excellent. Great Work
and 'wear sunscreen'
I strongly agree with all the points. But, "Never eat alone"? Covid aside, the planning required and the costs related to meeting someone three times a day just so I can eat with them, even though I prefer to eat by myself, are amazingly unnecessary.
Good start
I saw this when i started making money. All the small amounts lead up to bigger results
Simple yet very powerful
How to manifest significant improvement today as a chronically ill, skin diseased, unemployed, disabled, pained, failed, disadvantaged, isolated, cursed, abused, troubled, unproductive, angry, ethnic minority, 20 something, imprisoned, fatigued, tragic female in England? My own efforts have not paid off despite many techniques and much discipline. Nobody else helped me either. Thanks in advance.
Thanks!
Pls make a podcast!!!
Great list
N 7 bugs me the most. how do you mingle with people that are so diferent from you?
Just follow rule one and you will succeed, but therein lies the problem. We know what we need to do to succeed but within days run out of drive and inspiration. How does one make a fundamental, permanent change of habits and thinking?
Who is happy with their own personal task & information management system?
No.1 is not really a habit. A habit is a precise behaviour that follows a queue, doing what you say you're going to do is more of a mantra or maxim for living. How do you make this into a habit using the rules of habit formation?
Great video
All great tips!
Just a quick little comment to help the youtube algorithm make you a bit more famous.
Very inspiring really.
Background music?
I would also like to know what the background music is
Very nice content and video to which app do you use to make such vedios
There is a link in the description
Isn't there an option for infinite likes? This made my Sunday!
Do you have tips how to track your goals? What is your goal tracker system?
Which whiteboard software do you use?
There's a link in the description
Pls prepare video on its never late to start again for people above 35.
Great tips.
This is good stuff
Thank you...
Elementary my dear Watson...Elementary.
Excellent.
Number seven is not possible for me, personally; I'm unaware of anybody currently alive who represents somebody who I want to become. I partially disagree with number ten. Sometimes, while eating alone I can best recharge both body and mind for what remains to accomplish. Lastly, number fifteen; it should be "Eat healthily."
TIL that healthily is a word. I don't think I've ever seen it written like that before, but you're right. That's how you write it. Thanks!
Like a personal Life Coach.
thank you
I'm 48 duh ..
But I do play guitar .
Meant for young uns suppose
Sounds like good advice
Helpful very