How Do Parents Let Their Kids Get This Bad (Junk Food Kids)
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i’m a single mom of two toddlers and sure they have treats every now and then i’m not super strict about only healthy food or zero sugar but i have suffered with eating disorders since i was twelve and never want my kids to have to have an unhealthy relationship with food. i could never ever do this to my kids. it’s pure laziness like she even said “it was easier for me to give her juice than sit up with her at night” like ??? parenting is all about sacrifice dude the amount of times i’ve gone with zero sleep bc i’m trying to get them on a good sleep schedule or whatever like come on dude
If you’re not prepared to sacrifice some of your time for your kid(s), don’t have any. This might sound different coming from someone who doesn’t want any, but there’s a reason I don’t want any.
Yup. Bloody ridiculous 🙄 I was just up with my 6 month old until 3am last night. I don't understand how you can't put in the effort for your child. You have to be willing to be a damn parent if you're going to have a kid.
Yeah, that was really awful. Ah, she’ll have a lifetime of illness and lose her teeth, but I get to get some sleep. 😬😬😬
Exactly. I let my daughter have a couple pieces of chocolate or some cookies everyday and that’s when I can eat them. I can’t just eat chocolate all day and expect my daughter to eat healthy. So if I want a big bowl of ice cream and my daughter has already had a good bit of sweets I’ll just wait until I put her to sleep at night
Word I hear that shit because when I say it's easier for me that's usually because I might make them some chicken nuggets along with their fruits and vegetables or I might go to a fast food restaurant every so often but that's the only time I ever say that there is no excuse for what people do when it comes to shit like this 100% back that
Sugary drinks before bed, and she wonders why her daughter has tooth decay? Letting those sugars sit on the gums/teeth without wiping or brushing them before putting them down for a nap or bed can cause so many dental issues. At least videos like these make me feel like I'd be a far better mother...
*coming back after watching a little more*
"She's four and can't brush her teeth." Good lord, 2-year-olds can brush their teeth! This woman is setting her daughter up for failure, and the poor kid is the one who will be living with the consequences of having an irresponsible mother.
yeah my 2 & 3 year old have been brushing their teeth since they started growing them like jfc and the fact the little girl said all her teeth actually _hurt_ her and the moms just like lol whoops how was i supposed to know sugary drinks cause tooth decay
@@ashegrey3042 it really does make you wonder how any adult can sit there, watch their own child go through this, and say they don't know what's happening or why.
Common sense is really not all that common anymore.
@@zamp_gaming it’s really truly sad
I remember my mom watching us brush our teeth to make sure we did it right. If we ever tried to rush it, refused, whatever, my mom would grab the brush and be like "okay, I'll do it" and she'd do the whole five minute individual tooth scrub 🤣
So it wasn't heart wrenching for her to see her child get fat but it was heart wrenching when someone pointed it out...ok.
Pointing it out shames her more than it does her daughter. That's the only reason why she feels bad about it.
@@zamp_gaming facts
Well duh, how DARE someone point out her mother's completely at fault for😂😂😂 the nerve lol
@@cmagee14 how dare any mother take accountability for thier actions🤣
@@Iz_1107 absolutely absurd lol
I think the parents know that if they correct their kids' diets, they have to correct their own, which is clearly out of the question.
It's a case of chronic selfishness.
You are exactly correct.
I was in this situation, and my siblings and I couldn't get her to change. I remember when I use to ask for healthy options, and I was always denied, just because SHE didn't want it. She only bought food that she liked. No amount of persuasion could convince her into buying anything healthy. I swear, she would always come back from the grocery store with a dozen doughnuts and Pepsi was her version of water.
I watched this documentary a while back and that Gentleman in this video, Professor Monty Duggal, said that you can't tell the parents that they are the reason their kids are obese and have dental decay because people nowadays refuse to take any sort of responsibility. That wasn't a direct quote but it along the lines of what he said. And he's right. Tallulah's mom got upset over people pointing out her daughter is overweight because that means she is a bad parent and is to blame.
Tragic but... hilarious. Seriously though, as in 'in all seriousness'; This should be a crime, like maybe... child abuse. I don't know. I'm all for freedom and government staying out of my life but I'm also all for protecting kids from dumbass adults. Not really sure how to mitigate this mess. Guess it's best to stay out of it and just be willing to find the funny.
It is actually child neglect. She’s neglecting to keep her child healthy and out of pain by eating healthier and brushing their teeth every day. And she’s not teaching her that if she continues to eat like that she’ll cause long term health issues. Same with the teeth. The little girl has to learn by making the mistakes herself and some day having to see the consequences. Her mom definitely doesn’t care about years from now when it starts to cause heart disease and permanent health complications. Poor kid.
@@benny_boop I don't disagree. Nonetheless, where I struggle is identifying that line between involvement and indifference. It's weird, I mean... I've had the same discussion regarding substance abuse and sex work. People have the right to self destruct and what makes it sad is who their destruction effects (kids, friends, family and such). To me what makes this unique is the gut reflect I have to protect those who categorically cannot care for themselves. I'm honestly not sure the correct approach in this regard. Ideally any external involvement would begin and end at giving this kid a fighting chance... so they can fuck up their own life if they want. I don't know... not much keeps me up at night but kids needlessly suffering and people being trafficked makes me feel... feelings. If there was a face I could punch to prevent this my hands would be broken.
@@ubermalice9589 I absolutely get what you're saying and where you're coming from. I prefer freedom and less government interference as well, but when it comes to kids... it's a different matter.
People causing harm to *themselves* is one thing.
People causing harm to *children* who have little to no idea what's going on (or say on the matter, in some cases), is another.
I'm not sure where the line should be drawn, but I'd say as soon as medical professionals (such as the daughter's doctor and dentist) mention something about the kid's health and welfare, it probably should be looked at. Even something as simple as mandatory child nutrition and health courses for the parent(s) would do some good--so long as the parent(s) actually listen and learn something from it, of course.
@@zamp_gaming You are not wrong.
I'd be a little weird to implement as a law. Is overweight illegal? Obese? How obese is illegal? How do you judge intent? If it's a non-parent relative or person responsible is it the parent's fault, his fault or no one's?
Child Abuse in a different way, but it is still Child Abuse. The poor girl is in pain due to her mother's parenting skills and her priorities for her daughter which are all messed up.
My dad was really strict on the concept of cleaning your plate. If you sat down at the table, he expected you to clear every morsel of it and if you didn't you'd either sit there until you did or he'd force feed you. Which is not a good idea when its a child being served the same portion as a six foot tall man. My mom, thankfully, fought tooth and nail over years in order for us to eat only what we needed to in order to not be hungry. Theres a surprising amount of ways food control can be used as a form of abuse. I think what this woman is doing counts at least as negligence, if not worse
This is the reason I have such an awful relationship with food as an adult. When I have the kids, I never make them clear their plates. It can go in the fridge for later, or the birdies get to eat it. They know when they’ve had enough
As kids, we were always encouraged to finsish our plates. If we didnt, it meant we were full and didn't get pudding/dessert. Our portion sizes were always age-appropriate, but we grew up frugal, so didn't want to waste any food. My cousin, on the other hand, never had to finish her plate and whenever she came round she always left one or two mouthfuls of food (usually the vegetables) and then two hours later would be hungry and get a slice of toast. She would say she was full, but that was because she'd been snacking a couple hours before dinner too. So I think both methods can have their flaws, but as long as youre giving the right portion sizes, encouraging (not forcing, but incentivising) children to finish their meals is a great way to not waste food, not cause unhealthy snacking, and also show respect towards the person who's spent time making your meal.
Just today I was the substitute for the gym teacher at one of our local elementary schools. The first graders started filing into the gym and I watched as this one boy waddled in behind the rest and I was horrified.
This kid was in FIRST grade, so what, seven or eight years old, and had to have been closing in on 200 pounds. At one point, the music teacher, who was teaching the kids some Xmas songs for a holiday program, had the boys sit on the floor for a minute and this boy was so big he had to squat. He couldn't actually get on the ground. That was when I noticed that his pants were almost completely down below his butt. You could literally see his entire butt. When he stood up, I expected him to pull his pants up. Instead, he pulled his shirt down really hard, trying to cover himself. That was when it hit me, that even his stretchy sweat pants were so tight that the wouldn't go up over his upper thighs.
That shit broke my heart and infuriated me. To see a kid who hasn't even reached a double digit age yet who is so morbidly obese that he can't participate in even SITTING with his friends, can't even be "decent" in public because his clothes are so tight that doing anything other than standing straight up results in his entire butt sticking out. His parents should be more than ashamed of themselves.
Can teachers not talk to his parents about his weight? Teachers can decide your kids a Transformer and chemically castrate them without telling the parents. There must be something they can do.
That is heartbreaking. Poor kid
@@byrontownsel7274 what the entire fuck do you mean “teachers can decide the kids a transformer and chemically castrate them without parents knowing” huh????
That poor child! The very least the parents could do is give him clothes that fit him. Sounds like neglect as well to me
@@byrontownsel7274 the world really is going backwards
Has no one told her that you’re supposed to majorly water down juice for toddlers and younger kids? I do have a lot of junk in my house but it’s about teaching them the junk food isn’t going to help them feel happy and healthy. Junk food is a treat for after dinner in appropriate portions. I live in America too. The home of the fat.
Not ok behavior, a kid needs chocolate and pop at least every hour, full plates with cake after dinner
@@tmo_117 That is DISGUSTING! what is wrong with you?! The full chocolate cake is for Pre Dinner, you sicko! And Soda for a kid?! We only give them Mountain Dew as a chaser for the Red Bulls we give them. Then, after 13 we move them on to Budweiser. Get your facts straight, Buddy.
My parents used to water down my juice when I was a kid. To this day, as an adult, I water down my juice, I can't stand how sweet it is without being watered down, I'm weird.
i don’t think toddlers should be given fruit drinks. it’s pure sugar no fruit. only real fruit juices like apple, orange, grape much lower sugar content especially when organic
Been to the UK as an American and you REALLY have to go out of your way to get large portions, sugary food and not manage to walk everywhere. They're speedrunning a heart attack.
This mom doesn't want to admit that she can control her daughter's food intake because she doesn't want to control her own. She's using her daughter to justify her own eating problems
She doesn't want to admit that her child being obese is entirely her fault.
💯
actually shocked me when she blamed it on thyroid issues. i grew up with a hypothyroid, it is completely nonfunctional. i am now 18 and have always been in the correct weight range. like what the hell
No one wants to be held accountable for their actions. It's easier to blame something/someone else instead of looking in the mirror and owning up to your own choices. Unfortunately, this poor kid has her own mother to blame for what will undoubtedly be years of medical issues.
She uses it as an excuse
The thing about obese people that I tend to notice is that, they will blame everyone and everything else for their excessive body fat. They have zero accountability and, are always on the lookout for someone new to pin the blame on. Just look at the HAES movement for example. They honestly believe that they were born that way.
She didnt just blame it on her thyroid. Shes smug and relieved that her daughter might have a medical condition because it means its not HER fault.
What a truly vile woman.
She could've gave her water or sugar free drinks in the bottle too!
And tell her it is her regular juices to give a placebo effect
In the USA this video was sponsored by Kraft and Dominoes, thanks YT!
bruh hahaha
Damn it now I want pizza! 😆
And Mountain Dew
And I want Macaroni.
This reminds me of a kid at a boarding school I went to. He was huge and always hungry. The staff had to put locks on the fridge etc to stop him from eating everything. When his mom came to visit him, she scolded the staff for "starving her baby" and went to the store and bought him lots of snacks. She refused to listen. This kid could eat a whole container of butter raw, just to eat something. The staff only tried to help the kid but the mom kept buying the boy snacks and food. It was crazy.
Some parents refuse to think something is wrong with the childs diet and eating habits.
That kinda sounds like prader-willi syndrome where theyre insatiably hungry and they dont ever feel full. I saw a vid where the girl ate cat food
@@coyotepalace9682 You're probably right. Looked it up and it sounds like him.
I, as mom of 2, one adult and teenager, I didn't raise my kids like this. It is very sad. The mother needs to take classes on parenting. This is neglect and doesn't need to be ignored.
I'm a firm believer that all parents should take a child nutrition/health and development class when they learn they're expecting. If I had to take it as part of a certificate in childcare (and as part of my degree in child education), so should people expecting a baby.
I feed my son the same things I eat. Or I try, because he’s 2 and you know how picky toddlers are. We don’t eat excessively unhealthy, I cook primarily vegetarian recipes with added meat to keep it balanced. He’s healthy and his doctor commends me every time she sees him.
My sister has two girls 8 and 3, but they’re both big. My sister doesn’t limit their diet, and her denial truly hurts
If she told Talulah the reason her teeth hurt so much is because of the juice and food I feel like she’d be more willing to give them up. Idk how a mother can know her child’s in pain and being damaged by what she’s giving her and not do anything about it the moment she realised
I have 2 fillings at 29. I had my first at 23 and my second at 26. A 4 year old having tooth decay is insane to me.
I have 2 at 16. But like its also genetics for example my sis had problems since she was little. She didnt even like sweets, always gave them to me.
I would agree that the kid needs to be checked for hypothyroidism and the autoimmune condition Hashimoto's disease, particularly if the kid is always hungry and/or has pika. My mom was blamed for my weight all my life, but we didn't really eat junk food. I got candy 4 times a year. We were too broke for fast food. We drank kool-ade without sugar. I love fruit and actually like most vegetables. I was always running around outside. Yet, I kept gaining weight that I couldn't lose. I was also always hungry. My immune system was attacking my thyroid gland, and every doctor missed it until I was 42. The right meds, and 120 lbs is gone (though I'm still hella fat for now!). I didn't realize that I was constantly hungry until I got on the right thyroid meds. It was a trip when that constant physical sensation went away. But that's what might be going on with that baby. Combine that with a mother who is over-indulgent and clueless about nutrition, and this poor kid is going to have a mess on her hands as an adult. I feel for this poor kid. 🙁
i just get so dissappointed when I see super obese parents with their super obese children at the shops.. disgusting what theyre doing to their children, generational obesity from continuous poor dietary choices that gets passed on to the children, whether thats massive postions or shitty food. This should could as child abuse/neglect
I used to be a hygienist for little kids like this, and the bullshit I had to hear from the parents..... If your child's teeth are just rotting out of their head, its simply abuse and neglect. Some people really shouldnt be allowed to reproduce
With the information we have today about diet and hygiene, this is ridiculous.
I’m a former dental nurse. Unfortunately parents like this are far too common. Near enough every child I saw when I worked with the hygienist were for fillings, tooth removals or having their teeth professionally cleaned and it kills me every time seeing these kids in pain and their parents are ready to comfort them with a sugary drink.
Oh, do you mind saying why former and some stories from your experience?
@@naturazpolski9213 sure. Basically the children I saw were either in a very low income family and could only afford the cheapest food, or they had negligent parents.
@@anniesauras_rex "the cheapest food" isnt even an excuse. It is not hard to find vegetables and other healthy foods for significantly less money than most other options. People just tend to seek out the most convenient way that requires the least work because most people are intrinsically lazy. THey dont want to face the fact that they are the cause and therefore dont want to own up to it by creating a positive change. They also dont want to admit that their diets are total shit and that they are unhealthy. These are the same people who buy mcdonalds 3+ nights a week and say it's because it's "cheaper." If you went to Walmart and bought a 3 lb package of ground beef for 11.78$, 8 buns for 1.54$, an entire head of lettuce for 1.98$, 2 tomatoes for 54 cents, and a 1lb loaf of cheddar cheese for 3.75$, and an onion for 80 cents, they could make eight "Big Macs" for only 20.39. and STILL have enough left over to make multiple salads.... While 8 big macs costs you 42.80$. But they wouldn't know that because they do not care to even try. Disgusting, abhorrent, unacceptable behavior.
I got into a argument on Instagram over a REALLY overweight little girl. They were trying to say that it's normal for a kid in kindergarten to way more than a 21yr male
What the fuck
MORE THAN A 21-YEAR OLD?! THE PARENTS SHOULD BE IN JAIL.
Hey mom, did you know your kid can brush her teeth while she watches her program? A novel concept I know!
My bro used to pile on weight and then grow but that was just the way he grew, he's now 6'1 and a beanpole! These children are unhealthy though and they won't grow through it with the way the parents treat them. It breaks my heart that they are being held back by ignorant parents. Surely overfeeding should be child abuse?
If you have a thyroid condition, wouldn't that give you more reason to watch what you eat in order to stay healthy? It's not some iron clad excuse to eat whatever you want. It makes you look even more lazy because you have a legit reason to be concerned about what you eat and are flat out ignoring it
I genuinely don’t know how u can be shopping for your 4 year old but have to buy 8-9 years old cloths and think that’s fine
How has no one called child protection services on this woman
Bold of you to assume that CPS would actually care enough to do their job.
@@gothica3605 unfortunately, you are not wrong. Cps has allowed so many tragedies to occur, and even have directly caused the death of hundreds if not thousands of kids every year by not removing them from their situations and basically saying "It's fine" and fucking off forever
This is one of the occasions where a child would be beter off without her mom . I have a 1y/o and it does not matter how tired I am or how much she cry's its my job to so what's in her best interest
I'm sure if it were the mother's teeth hurting she'd have been up on time for a bus to the dentist🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Parents who let their bad eating habits effect their children is abusive in my opinion 😒, and using bad food and drinks to "calm your kid" is downright lazy and she shouldn't have never had kids
feel like a much better dad since watching this xD
Same
every child deserves a parent but not ever parents deserves a child.
it's just sad, isn't it? When I was little, I grew up with no phone, watching tv once a week, playing in the garden, once a day a piece of chocolate. Sad.
Are you saying you're life is sad? Or your life was better or something?
@@HeoBaby24 Their life was good. These 200lb 9 year olds are sitting on their ass all day eating while on the computer or not moving from the TV.
@@byrontownsel7274 but that's not true maybe some 9 year olds but not most
@@HeoBaby24 Well my childhood was definetely better, at least healthier than many others. Today's kids (in my country) only stay inside, play fortnite, watch TV, stuff themselves with sweets....
@@HeoBaby24 Lol, yes we are saying our lives were better. Playing outside, no smartphone, healthy food... it's a good life. The fact that you can't quite see it shows that the world is effed up
My kids, all 4 of them, somehow managed to not have decayed teeth. Trying to blame the bottle and juice is downright neglectful. She’s never heard of a toothbrush?
I feel bad for the little girl because she doesn’t know what’s wrong with her or how to fix and her mother over here knows but yet and is letting her get worse.
She expects a four year old child to brush her teeth correctly without assistance?
My parents let us have junk food and candy and soda as kids but in moderation. You don’t need to tell a kid “you can’t ever have McDonald’s” but they don’t need to have McDonald’s every night. We ate fast food a lot when I was growing up because my parents worked a lot but we were always healthy weight. People act like ur asking them to only feed their kids broccoli and celery but that’s not true. Just feed them broccoli sometimes
I think some parents see their kids being overweight as being a positive thing, like they think that its proof they are looking after their kid, making sure they are well fed. Years ago being fat was seen as a status symbol becasue you had the financial ability to be able to indulge. I kinda wonder if thats something behind the mentality of some parents these days with overweight kids, if they equate that to them being well fed, well looked after.
A lot of them assume that giving healthier food means that they can eat more of that because its healthy even though nothing is healthy if you overdo it but yeah this is something that these parents need to nip in the bud asap, the older the kid gets the harder it will be to change it and then theres the risk of health problems too, being overweight puts a strain on your heart and eating a load of crap definitely does damage to your digestive system aside from the risk of diabetes.
This has to be a few years old now right?? I dunno cause I don't really watch tv anymore but this is the kind of thing I used to watch years ago. I wonder if the kids still overweight now or if she is healthier than she seems in the video.
There is a huge difference between being chubby/well nourished, and being morbidly obese. Past people didn't glorify morbid obesity. They glorified some chub
Any parent feeding their kids junk food is committing child abuse.
Buddy, what happened to the face cam? I miss ya beautiful mug!
When I see the little girl, I see myself. That's exactly how big I use to be at her age. My mother was around 400lb. She never bought healthy food. Her excuse was that, it was "too expensive". When in reality, she had a junk food addiction and, was too lazy to cook. She wouldn't have an issue with paying $5 for a bag of chips, but paying $5 for a pint of strawberries, would somehow put a hole in her wallet. It never made any sense to me, untill I got older. Then I realized that she was just a processed food addict and just chose not to eat healthy. Normally I don't care about how someone else eats. However, my mother's bad eating habits affected me. I didn't have access to healthy food and, my mom didn't care enough to change. Not even for her own children.
My baby has been having her teeth brushed since 11 months (she got her teeth late) and now she won't go to sleep unless she has her teeth brushed. With the invention of mobile devices Talula can watch pepper *and* brush her teeth.
I was overweight as a child from birth I tried all the diets under the sun and I could never seem to shift the weight and it just kept piling on at around 16 I ended up having to have a gastric bypass and end up losing a lot of weight through that but then unfortunately I ended up putting weight back on then I come to find out that genetic problem specifically a sim1 definiency I'm now under going treatment for it so sometimes it can be the case there is something wrong with the child and there simply not over eating but this case looks the complete opposite that the parent is letting the child over eat and something need to be done for the good of the child's health
"Somone called my kid fat and it killed me🥺😭" still feeds them only junk food and McDonald's🤔
It makes no sense that she had to give her daughter juice to get her to sleep. Surely water would've done the same thing?
My mom always feeds me fast food, I either eat chips, fast food, or nothing. I don't wanna starve and I now have food addiction because of my mother. I lost weight and got into a healthy weight but my mom told me I'm not healthy for losing weight (which I was 24 BMI) and all of a sudden I got more fast food than before and gained more weight than I was before. I wanted to join military when I'm older, I don't think I'm fit enough anymore ...
Do you see her smiling when she's explaining how her kid doesn't brush her teeth correctly, as if that's a "gotchya" moment. When my kids were that young I physically had to brush their teeth first, and then they can have the tooth brush and do it themselves for learning&experience. You can't just let them go without brushing 🤣😭 wtf is this lady on?!
she is on exorbitant amounts of copium
Never gave pop or juice to my kid while they were younger, literally only time she could have it was at other kids houses during sleepovers. Never put sauces on things because at the time while young she didn’t want them because she didn’t know what they were! She uses some sauces now and has the occasional once and a blue moon bubbly water (no sugar her choice) she doesn’t like pop has maybe lemonade again once a blue moon, and loves water. She literally has said “water is my favourite drink” she’s never without her water bottle lmao and sauces, she’s meh about it, can live without it, because again when they are small and innocent they will get used to the food plain with spices and herbs and shight! Even milk is more sugar than calcium in it! Don’t be lazy be a PARENT.
My kid never had a dummy either. That’s not really an excuse now is it.
I'm a father of a 2 year old and I wouldn't dream of feeding my daughter the amount/kind of shit they do.
It's a genuine joy to see my daughter happily running around singing and playing with her toys.
Seeing things like this really makes me think I'm not doing a bad job as a first time parent.
You absolutely are not doing a bad job. I respect you for being a good father. Hope the little one is doing well, sir. Keep her safe and happy, like you're already doing so well
Omg, if the little girl can’t properly brush her teeth then do it for her!!! Sure, have her brush them herself but then go in after and do a thorough job!!! Wtaf
OUR DAUGHTER IS only 2 FRESH 2 and she brushes her teeth day and night by herself. she can get the tooth paste herself and do it. like wtf this is the parents fault. You failed your child. FOR LIFE
My great grandma had a sweets drawer mostly of Tootsie pops, caramels, and redvines, a few drawers down she had her secret stash of goodies. Now growing up with that I have my own sweets drawer but it mostly has jerky and occasionally some candy. Self control needs to be as desired as candy for so many. I ate pretty normal growing up in terms of a balance between "real" food and sweets and I even at one point stopped eating the occasional fast food, still ended up with a chronic illness that effects how I eat
Ah yes... The sweets drawer! Werther's originals, Butterscotch, and peppermint patties were my grandma's go to. I think i'll go visit her tomorrow and bring her some York patties. Thank you for the idea, and the memory, stranger.
😮 makes me know my parents loved me
This is child abuse
Why no face cam recently?😳 You okay?😊
SOCIAL SERVICERS ON THE LINE PLS !!
I’m now grateful for the way my mother raise me yes junk food was in the house but always in moderation and taught me good brushing habits
It's a good day now that you posted !
Why hasn't she taken her to the dentist? There's a cheap treatment that they essentially paint the decay black but it prevents it from further decay. My child got baby bottle syndrome from falling asleep with tit in her mouth. First time mom. I had NO clue. Also didn't know that as soon as they get teeth they need to go to the dentist.
Even though it isn't pretty I chose the treatment so she wouldn't have tooth pain and further lose those teeth.
So even the natural milk they recieve can cause decay
"the cheapest food" isnt even an excuse. It is not hard to find vegetables and other healthy foods for significantly less money than most other options. People just tend to seek out the most convenient way that requires the least work because most people are intrinsically lazy. THey dont want to face the fact that they are the cause and therefore dont want to own up to it by creating a positive change. They also dont want to admit that their diets are total shit and that they are unhealthy. These are the same people who buy mcdonalds 3+ nights a week and say it's because it's "cheaper." If you went to Walmart and bought a 3 lb package of ground beef for 11.78$, 8 buns for 1.54$, an entire head of lettuce for 1.98$, 2 tomatoes for 54 cents, and a 1lb loaf of cheddar cheese for 3.75$, and an onion for 80 cents, they could make eight "Big Macs" for only 20.39. and STILL have enough left over to make multiple salads.... While 8 big macs costs you 42.80$. But they wouldn't know that because they do not care to even try. Disgusting, abhorrent, unacceptable behavior.
Great point.
I've been eating better and working out because of your videos ( somewhat ) and so i can be ultamuscalur thanks papa ablaze
Good for you m8, don’t stop the grind!!
@@squidfly6_editss i won't stop the grind until even my internal organs have mucles
Bro I'm 20 and I don't even eat that much, much less in one sitting
How can a parent let their kid(s) get so overweight and not care? Anyone with a brain knows juice is not at all healthy and is mainly sugar. If you do give your kids juice they to pick healthier juices and water them down so they are not getting as much sugar. If your kid does need a bottle or sippy cup at bed you should only give water. Giving anything else is a huge reason kids have cavities because when they fall asleep they may have small amounts of the juice or whatever in their mouths and that sugar is gonna eat away at their teeth. They are young kids and you can control what they eat. It's also the parents responsibility to teach their kids to eat healthy and good food habits. They need to stop blaming all sorts of health conditions when they are way overfeeding their kids. I'm sorry but it's pure laziness on the parents part. They dont want to deal with the fights and tantrums so they give in and give their kids whatever they want. Don't let these bad habits start to begin with and you wont have as hard of a time with them. Also letting kids watch peppa pig teaches you kids to throw massive fits to get their own ways. I do not let the kids I help take care of watch it at all.
Middle Eastern and Arab influenced cultures of North Africa often consider overweight women to be attractive, they often start overfeeding girls so that, in their narrow minds, become attractive from early age. Also, it is much harder to lose all that extra weight when one becomes extremely fat in early years. So, often it is done on purpose. In Mauritania for example, they even use those geese-feeders that people used to use in France to overfeed geese in order to gain fatty liver and make pate out of them. Nowadays it is considered inhumane to use that thing to overfeed geese. In those ''cultures'', it is still considered OK to use a Goddamn metal pipe-like thing to force feed little girls.
P.S. Don't you dare going all ''ACULLY'' *inhales from asthma inhaler* on me saying not all Middle Eastern cultures do so. Of course not, not every family does so. But in general, it is practiced. I know this from those that I know or knew in person, I lived in probably most multicultural areas of London for a total of 8 years. Then, in my home country, I had to deal with quite a lot of Middle Eastern refugees. I only say shit that I know, you greasy, glasses wearing weak paedophile.
My toddler hasn't had a bottle since she was 1, but at 4 Talulah will have no teeth left drinking juice in a bottle, overnight seriously? And to waste an appointment with an NHS dentist that are like gold dust winds me up. Wasting tax payers money cos she can't be arsed. I feel sorry for those kids growing up with that as a "mum"
Kids gonna have so many digestive problems and a terrible relationship with herself, food, and her mother. Smh
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The accent bro😭😭
I have been one of the up and down the scale so much, but this is crazytown for kids!
God, this is depressing. That poor kid. Her teeth are constantly hurting her because of her mother. Tap water in Britain is perfectly fine to drink, there’s no need to have her drink sugary drinks constantly.
It's always the thyroid's fault. Nope, it's not my stuffing my face with large portions of junk food and getting no exercise, it's my thyroid. Lmao.
I'm overweight, struggling with trying to lose it, but I know why I am, and I know what I do isn't healthy. I dont have thyroid issues. I bet you, if she had her daughter's thyroid checked, it would come out normal, and she'd think the test was faulty and want it done again. "Normal? There's no way my daughter's thyroid is functioning normally!"
SHE'S FOUR??? I'm 31 and she looks like she weighs the same as me
Nah fam at that point I’ll never buy junk food until they became healthy, my parents rarely buys junk food and takeouts sense we grow n make our own food and when they do we’ll gobble that up in one day cuz dopamine but yea those kids need a cut on what they consume
i got over weight as a 10 year old, because i started getting bullied to the point i was terrified of going out and playing. shut myself in and started eating out of bordom then i gained weight and got bullied more because of it
I worked with a gal who fed her kid fast food along with junk food. She would wine that he did not at veggies or healthy food
Can we take a minute to appreciate how adorable every child is. Even chonky 4 year Olds. And especially one names Tallulah?
To future Tallulah, I hope you over come your mums bad influences and when you can make your own choices, learn to make good ones and know your a valuable person. I was 300 at 18. I haven't ever gone about 160 since I lost it, and I studied nutrition in college. I was also highly fueled because I'd become a type 2 diabetic. I reversed that, and you can break your families cycle.
How my gosh ablaze how dare you have a point!!! 😡
(This is a joke)
6:59 Homemade ketchup with honey instead of sugar, how about that.
This woman doesn't seem to have the ideological infection that FAs often have. No, no. She's not zealous enough for that to be likely. If it isn't brain worms, there must be something else going wrong.
If I had to speculate (well, I don't _have to,_ but I'm going to), I'd say this is learned helplessness.
She won't accept responsibility for the effect her choices have on her daughter because exercising any control over her daughter's food intake would involve, well, taking control of something. Maybe she doesn't want to exert that effort, but maybe she actually doesn't believe she's capable of doing so.
Either way, this is child abuse. Regardless of the reason for it, she's neglecting her child's health.
My mother was similar to this women. It wasn't due to HAES brainwashing. It's more of a, "I don't care enough to do the bare minimum of parenting because I'm lazy and depressed."
It has to due with some sort of mental health issue that, this women and my mother, refuse to acknowledge and, get help fot it.
My mother would sit by the TV all day and didn't do anything, but she would claim to be, "too tired" to make dinner. Thus forcing me to cook up a pack of ramen or she would order takeout.
Mental illness is a hard thing to deal with, but that's not an excuse to be a shit parent.
We miss your face 😔
Yeap, we do!!
come back papa!
The issue isn't her kid's health , is other ppl's comments ??? Ok.
I know thats my fault BUT im too fkn lazy to be a parent. 😡
I talked about this very thing (the weight and food discipline) with my mom today when talking about the difference between my siblings and I regarding our snacking habbits. Usually, I don't feel like snacking. Could I eat a whole bag of chips if I wanted to? Yes. Would it happen often? Not at all. In fact, eating too big a snack portion, usually sweet ones, leaves me feeling kinda unwell. I have to put stuff away after a few bites sometimes. Meanwhile, the moment you crinkle a bag, my brother perks up from behind his laptop screen like a pet dog and suddenly wants to eat. I open the fridge and suddenly he wants something too, even though he already ate. He was regular size when he was a kid and our parents could keep an eye on him, and then he started living on his own and just gained more and more weight. He will act all cutesy just to get bigger portions or snacks from me, even when I question him about it and basically go "Dude, really?"
My sister was always a little bigger, but she at least tries to keep her weight and diet stable. She still has that internal voice that says "I _could_ eat all this, but I shouldn't, and I could also save it for tomorrow." That of my brother's is obviously way more silent than that of us both, and I really don't know why. It feels like he's constantly trying to keep up with people and chasing self-gratification, like some of his little self being envious that our dad could eat more (because he was a grown damned adult) than us, and it's kind of upsetting. My sister and I genuinely don't feel comfortable getting snacks or food for ourselves when he's around because we know he'll suddenly want to eat even though he doesn't need to. We love him, and we'd love for him to be a bit more self-aware or at least receptive to criticism, because he won't live as well as he should get to if he keeps this up.
I asked my mom if there's people who just lack the sensation of knowing if they've had enough of something, and she said there are. I already knew that, but I had forgotten because I can't imagine having such a low amount of self-regulation that you need to put locks on your pantry. That sounds miserable.
More money on Pringles!🤣🤣🤣🤣
My kid never had a dummy either. That’s not really an excuse now is it.
ETA: my son has bruxism and has ground his front teeth down but other than that his teeth are ok, he drinks juice and squash but with regular cleaning his teeth aren’t decaying at all.
I’m hot on his diet (food) as my mother fed me like this mother feeds her child and I was a fat kid, I don’t want that for my son.
Her 4 year old gets more than me and she is surprised she is overweight
Children don't usually get obese by themselves. Usually it's the parents fault, and they are usually fat themselves. They don't teach their children to eat healthy cuz they don't eat healthy. Too many parents rely on fast food nowadays cuz it's quick, but it's definitely a contributing factor to the obesity that is being experienced now.
I’m huge! Unhealthy, gonna definitely have a heart attack. Hell no! I’m not gonna have any hopes of my own child being better!
Why does she even has children???
Too stupid or lazy to bother with contraception & no negative consequences for it.
This really pisses me off I couldn’t afford to get a tooth pulled which led to almost all of them rotting and getting infections and the worst pain from exposed nerves. She needs to be reported for child abuse no child should be subjected to this horrible lazy parenting
Unfortunately these days thats called shaming because we cant expect anyone to make an effort. 🙄
I’m from Mexico, what’s a hygienist?
A dentist that cleans teeth.
Not the weight loss ads on the video. Lol
This video had me in tears laughing.
honey booboo needs to be on this list
It's child abuse.