As much as she sounds calm in the hospital and claims she doesn't disrespect her elders, i think i would rather see the video or live evidence of what happened that day because some women don't know how to control their mouth. Its hard to believe the man just did all that because she politely asked the man to pay for her bumper. Again the man or anyone don't have the right to beat anyone especially the weaker sex, but some women don't know how to read their environment
Hi Chudy, If you want his own testimony/ evidence, Pls visit the state criminal investigation department Benin city where he is currently detained or attend court proceedings which will begin soon.💕
let's say she was truly upset that Nosa hit down her bumper without remorse and she did run her mouth, does it warrant her getting almost killed? any sane human raised in a home and not in the streets will see the "wrongness" in this ENTIRELY without an atom of justification. its a big pity that men like you exist.
No matter how badly she spoke to him. He should not have beaten her up. He could have still refused to repair the car without beating her up. Nothing justifies the beating. We need to learn to control ourselves and respect one another. Yes, perhaps the lady was disrespectful, but the answer is never violence. If it were a fellow man, would he have tried beating up the man? Pls lets never excuse violence.
Even if she ran her mouth, is that an excuse for this type of behaviour? If she was a man, I bet he would have controlled himself. He's weak, he doesn't know self control snd he is also a coward.
When I was in the university, I met a guy who ‘ticked all my boxes’. We had only started to date for a few months when I witnessed him beat his sister (a 16yr old) with a belt in public because she had been seen by a friend of his in a nightclub. The rage I saw in his eyes that day sent me on my feet and I ran without looking back. The signs are always there, we just choose to ignore them. Beautiful story telling as usual Neze❤
If you're a corp member and something related to this happen to you, don't report to the police. Instead report to the army barracks in that state. They will deal with that man in such a way that he won't dream of trying it again. Corp members are paramilitary
@@patukpetenan5309 military will not report to anybody before dealing with that man. It's army officers that handle the case of corp members, not the police.
Aside getting justice for this lady, all the police that were on duty who demanded for money should be identified, remanded and fired to serve as a deterrent. That was exactly what was done when Imole petitioned the police about certain people harassing him. The perpetrators should have been dismissed by now. Anyway, the money goes down to those on top who should clean the system.😢
Thank you soo much Barrister. This story is very relatable to me. My brother whose wedding was few months to 2023 had a phone argument with me,he came all the way from his house to beat me up, broke 2 of my fingers and all I got was “ you know he is hot tempered,just let it go for the sake of family name. The wife to be then noticed I wasn’t participating in the wedding preparations and asked me,I told her everything and she said “but I thought he said you are his favorite sibling “ I told her that his action too has left me in shock because I haven’t done anything thing to warrant such treatment. She apologized to me and asked that I attend the wedding for the sake of what her family will say if I don’t come,i told her to ask her fiancé to apologize to me,she told him and his response was that he can’t apologize to his younger ones. Since then we don’t communicate,when we meet at our moms house we act like we don’t know each other. His wife sees how he talks to my mother and feels sorry for her. I know she has a lot of things to say to me since one year she got married to my brother but she doesn’t have the gut to complain. Although my brother has never beaten her but she is not getting the right treatment. Hear my mum tell her that she should not try arguing or talking back at him if she wants to enjoy peace in her marriage. She tries to manipulate me by telling me to forgive my brother so that God will hear my prayers and so that he will stand as a father any day i am to get married. The truth is a lot of families are enable these bad behaviors we see in our society. I pray Deborah gets justice.
Hmmmmmmm...Nigerian society enables these beasts😭. I'm sorry you went through this. In a sane society, your brother would have been prosecuted. Nigerian women have to always be begging to survive 😢
So sorry to hear your story. Uhmmm, my oldest brother learn quickly not to touch me after i dealt with him. I took all his clothes a put them in gutter and dance on it in potopoto. We became best friends till he passed.
Very correct. If he is outside Nigeria, he can find himself in even bigger trouble as this can be a case of attempted murder. He could have easily killed this girl.
Hi barrister I admire and appreciate the good work you are doing to educate people on your platform not only educating but also fighting for justice for the vulnerable, how I wish many of our legal minds will emulate your quest for justice and fairness in the case of this lady
Nigeria is not a country, but a jungle where only the strong ( money and influence ) survive. the weak and vulnerable will continue to be victims to these predators. No politician or leadership can rid us of this decayness in our society. Nosa is one of the many predators in these country. Karma will catch up with him someday.
Until someone eyes are open ,they will not see. Just like a lot of us in abusive relationships, yet find excuses for the other person. Keep doing this good work Nezeville. One day our eyes shall open. May God grant us wisdom and help our women in their financial adventure to be able to stand. I love your work
This man is a beast😢. Is very important to observe how your partner treats others👍🏽. I wouldn't have gone along with that marriage. So sad, that most Nigerian men love their mum but disrespect women🥺
Good morning Barr. I'm so happy you brought this kind of video. I don't understand why women behave like this. How could a woman in her senses end up marrying that kind of man. I wish we could talk on the phone, because I have a lot to say. I wish that lady will get justice.
Thank you Barrister Neze. Great story telling and lessons learned from this case in the area of marriage. I would be too scared to go on with the marriage.
Neze I am an African woman in Botswana and no man in my country can do this to a woman. I have listened to harrowing stories of abuse by Nigerian men towards their fellow Nigerian sisters/ women and I wonder why these men are like this
Because the men are entitled and are protected by the law in Nigeria. A woman’s dignity is not respected nor protected. Sad but that’s the reality women in Nigeria face.
@@GracefulKnotsMaybe not all but too many are, they have zero respect for the female gender and that's how they are raised. God forbid if you don't gift them with a son, there's total hell to pay.
This too is Africa. Can you imagine being almost beaten to death and police telling you to pay for them to do their job?!!! I pray she gets justice. In this modern day and age, people should not get away with this!
Can't find the guy on any social media..he needs to be exposed! Where was he going to flee to? This story is so infuriating..thank you for sharing Nezeville!
Thank you for bringing this story to the public and social media, to the wife that went ahead and married that man and not standing up for that Lady she should remember what goes around comes around, she will get hers, this is a sad story, in most African countries there is no such thing as calling 911 or emergency roadside service, most times after an accident both parties have to discuss repairs which is paid by the person that caused the accident, in country like Nigeria men treats women like second class citizens, it’s so sad that some women feel they must be married to feel whole and be respected in society, from what I see that wife might end up dead one day, because if he can treat a woman that he wrongfully hit her car God help that wife, and he lied that the lady had 4 others in her car, and that so called wife did not debunk his lies, they will get what is coming to them, to add insult to injury she had the nerve to go to the hospital to see the lady to tell her they are getting married?? She is a big part of the problem.
Thank you so much, Nezevilla. What you are doing teaching and uplifting us as women . Keep doing helping us to open eyes. You are the best. Stay blessed.
14:49 this is true oh. My mom felt a certain way before a trip from Port Harcourt to a community in Bayelsa. There were other setbacks and she actually decided not to go but for some reason she went. Thankfully it was a missionary outreach, so I guess God had mercy. The car they entered somersaulted, fortunately nobody died but my mom has a pain in her neck/collar till today. When she came back and told me the story, I was so shocked, knowing that I could have easily been motherless. I've also had similar experiences and I know that there are times things happen that seem to be blocking you from something, I believe we should just sleep like Jesus did in the storm: don't make any sudden moves, just pause. It may be a setback and temptation or it could be a sign that the thing is bad or not meant to be. Ten minutes of waiting and observation could be the eye opener you need.
If I were the woman who got married to that beast, I will not only refuse to marry him I will help Deborah seek justice as I am a witness to the incident.
Hmmmmm easier said than done, why not tell the the world what you can actually do than social media talk because I haven’t seen any Nigerian woman that can do what you just said.
And people will be asking why is everyone “japaing?” With this kind of atrocious behavior without any accountability, what is the fate of the voiceless? Tufiakwa!!! I hope she gets justice soon. @Nezeville this is indeed your calling, you sure know how to pass the message across. Kudos!!
No need bringing in unrelated topic. there are asian girls where i live experiencing this in the hands of men from this race u so praise who retired to asia, married them and took them to their country...shine ur eyes..same God created all. if u jam a man with a h goat mentality...skin colour doesnt stop them. know this and know peace. Infact, that place u are japaing to..they dont stress... they just use pstol...which is quicker and faster..and reduces ya chance of seeing the sun again
If anyone has information about his location or whereabout, update me here and I will have him picked up by the authorities straight away. This is called GBH and this man should not be left to roam the streets of nigeria freely.
Brekete Family Human Rights & Television would love to take this man in their courtroom and give her justice. I pray she receives justice to the fullest on this animal like person who had no regard for her life.
Society puts too much pressure on women to be wives, making criminals like him and others husbands regardless of knowing their history of abuse. Can you please share the statistics on domestic violence in Nigeria for your global viewers? Many thanks for sharing you are one of the few worthy podcasters.
Apart from the fact that that man is evil, His mental health need to be examined. The bride is even a bigger evil person, cos marrying a man who can do this to a fellow human much more a woman, obviously shows she doesn’t even love herself to start with. Iron they say sharpen iron, if she could put up with this, tells a lot about her. As for Nosa , he shouldn’t be allowed to leave the country. This is probably not his first assault.
That was a message from God to the wife to back off from the wedding. When God is asnswering a prayers and u denied to see it. My prayers to the victim for a quick recovering ❤️
You’re a wonderful story teller. When someone show you who they are either through you or anyone else believe them. Nosa or Nonsense what ever his name is , is an Animal and for the woman to go a head with the wedding she will surely receive what that woman received in due time or worse.
Nezeee oooh,kenyan girls are dying so badly..please cover that story because its tooo much...much love from kenya neze,,we as kenyan ladies are sad,very sad.
@@Jaay2022, long story short/will try to be as brief as am able to. There’s a scope of young men who go prey on ladies on the social media platforms, ask them out on dates that for some reason they end up in Airbnb and that’s where they are brutally murdered. Sadly in the 2 cases trending in the country so far, the victims are not well known to these men.
May Nigeria's structural and societal madness and injustice not happen to you or anyone you love 🙏🏽. This is heartbreaking! I feel sorry for his new wife cos' this is forewarning of the small taster of what he will do to her 😔. I am heartbroken that his wife knowing what he did STILL went ahead to marry this beast! Value your life o! Value your life!
Oh my God!!! This lady is really in pain 💔. Where there no men around when he was beaten her? This can only happen in Nigeria, I weep for my Country. I pray 🙏 she gets justice and I wish her speedy recovery. She should try and help so that the trauma will not affect her.
Neze,thank you so much for this story,if I'm the wife I wouldn't have stopped the wedding.I'll use him to travel abroad get my stay,and I'll make sure I don't get pregnant for him.But when I get abroad I'll deal with him.Am in America where they put children and women 1st. I'll make sure I deal with. In his next world he'll be running from women.He's really a beast.
Thank you so much Nezeville for a well Analysed story. You are the best. It is no longer a secret that the Nigerian police serve justice only when citizens start to cry “foul play”. The police force is so rotten and the pain is worse than cancer. The woman who got married to him is 100% not actually about love. She is just a gold digger who has been promised life abroad after wedding. Even if she had met the girl dead on bed in hospital, she would have still continued with the wedding because of her own selfish reasons. I am convinced that she would regret her decision to marry him in future. The man is a complete beast who has no regard for women whatsoever.
Hmm, my dear we don't always like nuance. The truth is that some people for some reason decide to do things that most people will choose death over. I'm sure you have heard of Dubai girls and all the nonsense they experience. Nigerian girls are even late in the business. Girls from around the globe go to the middle east for instance and get all manner of unspeakable things done to them: including beastiality, faeces etc. All these for money, one girl said there's not enough hot water to wash how filthy she feels 😮😮
The man is a beast. The woman who got married to him will regret the marriage later when the time comes. She saw the sign but failed to do the right thing. Tomorrow she will call God to come and help her. As for the Nigerian police, hmmmmm. It's a shame and embarrassment to Nigeria as a country.
The fact that she is a youth corps member is enough for the government to take over this case. I hope she gets justice. Rotten Nigeria Police. As for that woman, God has shown her all she needs to know to run for her dear life, but no, she must answer Mrs. Good luck to her.
@@queentv7565I agree with you. But no be Naija men dey control society? They are the ones who set up systems that look down on single women. Some landlords won’t rent property to a single woman. Some see single women as people you can disrespect. Single women are taunted for their singlehood. Families pressure women to get married. And it’s a form of verbal abuse to tell a girl she will never get a husband. So, while I don’t support the desperation to get married, we can see why some Nigerian women are desperate enough to marry known monsters like this. At least, then it will be one monster they are dealing with who may occasionally be placated, rather than the many monsters in society whose taunting and disadvantaging never stop.
If this brute man resides in the USA, Canada, or UK, please share his name and picture and the whole incident that way it can reach someone that he make work with so they can alert the employer and make them aware of his brutal beating of a woman which is a Crime. DOES ANYONE KNOW THIS MAN?????
Yes, because he will be required to submit to a police check from his country covering the last 5 years in order to get a job. Even if he perverts justice in his home country or is self-employed abroad, if this news gets to the international public, no one will want to employ or do business with him. Sharing his details isn’t a mere act of vengeance. It could be preventing him from being able to do this again.
One thing Neze i always thank God for is no matter how much i love someone,i have quick feet and i don't look back again,i do not know why am like that but after some time i realize how i dodged a bullets,but sadly some people will even bid there natural instincts in Jesus's name, only until the bullet is in the middle of their hearts will they realise and begin to wish; when they could have simply avoided,it's sad but future is pregnant 😮.
Barrister Naz you are indeed a blessed woman, for always standing by the truth. Your mummy must be a deken in a chuch! WALLAHI TALLAHIL'AZIMUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My problems in a case like this is that, what are people around there doing, are they animals or what. This guy is not mentally sick, when karma comes & he dies suddenly they will say it is his step-mum. I pray for u my dear, d Lord Almighty fight for u & he will openly b judged in Jesus name Amen 🙏 Nigerian police don collect money that will kill them
That is why I see Nigerian run from my young age,l new that country can never get better.l have been watching your since when you were in 🇳🇬,happy to see that you and your family are now in Canada 🇨🇦 remain strong and blessed.Love you bisous 😘
@nezeville I never comment on videos but please find out what country he lives in. If it's in the US or any other country where laws work, find out where he works and he'll pay for this domestic violence. There's a zero tolerance policy when it comes to DV and you'll just need to make sure social media picks it up in whatever country he lives in. He'll most definitely lose his job and if there's need for him to be returned to Nigeria, an extradition request can be made. In fact if he's convicted of a crime, that's a ground to use in making sure he loses his citizenship or residency in most countries. It's high time people start learning how to act. It's not okay to do this to any human being
Well learn story , I applaud you, that m an is a beast,she should of call off the wedding her time soon come, this is an educated story,much love from the Caribbean.
He's not only a beast, he even looks like one. When wickedness shows on the face, run run run. As for Nigerian police...... I reserve my comment. May God deliver Nigeria.
As always, you nailed this Nezze 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…As the late Maya Angelou said “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”! This kind of violence is deep rooted and unfortunately will carry on if not nipped!
Thanks Neze. The educative part in your story telling is what I look forward to. Very interesting and informative. If I were to be Nosa’s gf, there is no way I will still go ahead with the marriage. God only played a picture of his true self to her but most ladies will ignore warning signs. No respect for women at all. He is a demon.
I can't believe a woman went ahead to marry Nosa after seeing what he did to a fellow woman which is an evidence that he's unable to control his emotions. She get mind o, it's true people marry for different reasons and the reality of "a lifetime commitment" called marriage will soon dawn on her.
Abeg the man is a beast, and he lives abroad. What was the said wife to be doing when nosa was beating Debbie the said woman will soon be a victim. Or rip. Hope she get ready emotionally and spiritually.
Hmm....De-Law, I am speechless. This is so sad and you have spoken well. I pray this lady gets justice. Some African men shaaaaa...this Nosa guy is a beast. That wife has been receiving hers too cos this kind of incident is what shd make a lady go between her husband and the victim to stop him. Nah wahhhh....I'm just speechless and you Barrister Neze have spoken my heart. Thank you for this exposé.
The law moves and changes depending on the needs of society. If we want things to change in Nigeria regarding abuses such as this - Nigerians need to speak up and take action. I love your voice- you’re very educated and intelligent.
STILL CAN'T GET OVER THIS. NOBODY MOVING AROUND COULD INTERVENE? NIGERIAN ROADS ARE ALWAYS CROWDED. WHAT THE...? WHO ARE THESE HUMANS? ARE Y'ALL HUMANS IN THAT SOCIETY? WHAT THE...?
She knows who he actually is. Going on with the wedding is a sad one because most of these marriages don't last A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
I'm a Sierra Leonean living in Freetown, u are the best in storytelling 🎉❤. I pray Debbie gets the justice she deserves 🙏. It was an attempted murder! I thought my country police were the most corrupt; but since I started following up on Nigerian stories, I'm not impressed. 😮
Nosa or whatever the beast is called should be put away for a long time. Some of the law enforcement should be imprisoned for corruption. May you get well soon by God's grace. The Inspector General of Police should speak out ASAP.
I shudder to understand what’s sort of a country is Nigeria seriously. This barbaric behaviour cannot happen in my poor Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 that animal would be rotting in prison.
The fact that anyone will want to associate with him in anyway, shape or form baffles me 💔💔 it is just a beast in male form. He only did this becos he knew he would get away with it and loose nothing and was relying on the failed system and delusional society and their misplaced priority 🤦🏾♀️ my question is didn't anyone see him on the road assaulting someone? and then the fiancee then didn't run to join force to fight that monster or call for help?🤯 Just when I thought I have seen it all🤦🏾♀️
That why i love watching your videos because you do take out time to educate and explain just for us to understand and get the point out of it most times when something happens and you did not make a video of it i do not like watching from others pages because i always get what i what to hear from your page this is very bad and touching those things are the reason why am feeling difficult in coming back to Nigeria if something happened in abroad 5 minutes is too the police will come and settle things in calm way no one will be cheated no injustice but Nigeria doesn’t care about their citizens at all and is very bad it scares us that has been away from awhile , this happens to me about four years ago I visited my state went to buy mama put (road side food) that how got beating by so many people just because I ask the woman that i have been standing here for awhile and she has been ignoring me and selling to other un till now I did not know why was being beating someone give me an injury with a car key and I did not even see anybody when i came back with police since then I have not travelled 4years now
She’s not sorry for herself! She personally witnessed his brutality to another woman, in public. She watched him beat a woman to this point, till he stripped her naked! Please save your sympathy for a more deserving person!
Queen 👑 Neze just as I said in the case of the man that called off his wedding on the wedding ground, I will not marry that man if I were a woman. Simple!
You are educating many women hopefully many will hear and learn. The man lives abroad and no matter what that lady will marry him. Thanks for the excellent reporting
If he can do this to a stranger he’s meeting for the first time in a public place because of an argument, then you can imagine what he’s like at home when he’s angry, this is supposed to be an eye opener for the wife 😮
If this victim knows the country where this man resides she should report him through their official site such as the embassy of his country of residence. This is sad and shameful. 😢😢
As much as she sounds calm in the hospital and claims she doesn't disrespect her elders, i think i would rather see the video or live evidence of what happened that day because some women don't know how to control their mouth. Its hard to believe the man just did all that because she politely asked the man to pay for her bumper. Again the man or anyone don't have the right to beat anyone especially the weaker sex, but some women don't know how to read their environment
Hi Chudy,
If you want his own testimony/ evidence, Pls visit the state criminal investigation department Benin city where he is currently detained or attend court proceedings which will begin soon.💕
let's say she was truly upset that Nosa hit down her bumper without remorse and she did run her mouth, does it warrant her getting almost killed?
any sane human raised in a home and not in the streets will see the "wrongness" in this ENTIRELY without an atom of justification.
its a big pity that men like you exist.
Blaming the victim much?
No matter how badly she spoke to him. He should not have beaten her up. He could have still refused to repair the car without beating her up. Nothing justifies the beating. We need to learn to control ourselves and respect one another. Yes, perhaps the lady was disrespectful, but the answer is never violence. If it were a fellow man, would he have tried beating up the man? Pls lets never excuse violence.
Even if she ran her mouth, is that an excuse for this type of behaviour? If she was a man, I bet he would have controlled himself. He's weak, he doesn't know self control snd he is also a coward.
When I was in the university, I met a guy who ‘ticked all my boxes’. We had only started to date for a few months when I witnessed him beat his sister (a 16yr old) with a belt in public because she had been seen by a friend of his in a nightclub. The rage I saw in his eyes that day sent me on my feet and I ran without looking back. The signs are always there, we just choose to ignore them.
Beautiful story telling as usual Neze❤
exactly, you made the right decision
What i don't understand is that a lady is about to marry this kind of man? I forbid it!
The wife just signed her death warrant. She is insane to go ahead with such a man.
Neze you simply wonderful
✊✊✊✊ you say it all.
If you're a corp member and something related to this happen to you, don't report to the police. Instead report to the army barracks in that state. They will deal with that man in such a way that he won't dream of trying it again. Corp members are paramilitary
That said, why did they not pursue it,
The military will still refer the case to the police through that the police will act fast.
@@patukpetenan5309 military will not report to anybody before dealing with that man. It's army officers that handle the case of corp members, not the police.
I agree with you a big lesson for other coppers
Report to the Army
There's no way his wife to be hasn't seen this side of him. So she knows what she is going into.
Yes I said the same thing. She has probably already tasted beatings like this.
@@whoyouveanoynomoueif it was the first time there's a high chance she would have opted out
Exactly. Shame wouldn't even let her go see this lady is she's not used to the devilish character.
Abroad? This one would be a yahoo boy oh, maybe living in one African country. He can't keep a job abroad with his temperament
Exactly,this was the sign for the newly bride. Unfortunately she failed to see the sign😮 Sad
Aside getting justice for this lady, all the police that were on duty who demanded for money should be identified, remanded and fired to serve as a deterrent. That was exactly what was done when Imole petitioned the police about certain people harassing him. The perpetrators should have been dismissed by now. Anyway, the money goes down to those on top who should clean the system.😢
Very correct
NYSC has a responsibility to take up this case too
Wait oo, all these recommendations for naija. my dear wake up
Where will this happen? In Nigeria? joke of a century. Nigeria is a Zoo oooh
Some HUMAN RIGHTS LAWYERS should take over this case and give justice to this girl
Thank you soo much Barrister. This story is very relatable to me. My brother whose wedding was few months to 2023 had a phone argument with me,he came all the way from his house to beat me up, broke 2 of my fingers and all I got was “ you know he is hot tempered,just let it go for the sake of family name. The wife to be then noticed I wasn’t participating in the wedding preparations and asked me,I told her everything and she said “but I thought he said you are his favorite sibling “ I told her that his action too has left me in shock because I haven’t done anything thing to warrant such treatment. She apologized to me and asked that I attend the wedding for the sake of what her family will say if I don’t come,i told her to ask her fiancé to apologize to me,she told him and his response was that he can’t apologize to his younger ones. Since then we don’t communicate,when we meet at our moms house we act like we don’t know each other. His wife sees how he talks to my mother and feels sorry for her. I know she has a lot of things to say to me since one year she got married to my brother but she doesn’t have the gut to complain. Although my brother has never beaten her but she is not getting the right treatment. Hear my mum tell her that she should not try arguing or talking back at him if she wants to enjoy peace in her marriage. She tries to manipulate me by telling me to forgive my brother so that God will hear my prayers and so that he will stand as a father any day i am to get married. The truth is a lot of families are enable these bad behaviors we see in our society. I pray Deborah gets justice.
Hmmmmmmm...Nigerian society enables these beasts😭. I'm sorry you went through this. In a sane society, your brother would have been prosecuted. Nigerian women have to always be begging to survive 😢
Am sorry that this happened to you dear,keep your dignity by never associating with him at all,unless he truly apologizes to you.🥰
Your brother will apologize if you put your feet down and insist on apology and afterwards he will never try it again I bet you.
I am so sorry this happened to you
So sorry to hear your story.
Uhmmm, my oldest brother learn quickly not to touch me after i dealt with him. I took all his clothes a put them in gutter and dance on it in potopoto.
We became best friends till he passed.
Men like Mr Nosa are the reason why people hire goons to deal with such people and keep it moving 🤦
And the hired goons go on to beat other women, and commit other violet crimes.
My dear, no need to near that police.Na to go rugged , using the same popo.
YES YES YES👏.
Can a letter be sent to immigrations and also the embassy of the country he lives in to prevent him from leaving the country. What an animal
Very correct. If he is outside Nigeria, he can find himself in even bigger trouble as this can be a case of attempted murder. He could have easily killed this girl.
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Hi barrister I admire and appreciate the good work you are doing to educate people on your platform not only educating but also fighting for justice for the vulnerable, how I wish many of our legal minds will emulate your quest for justice and fairness in the case of this lady
Nigeria is not a country, but a jungle where only the strong ( money and influence ) survive. the weak and vulnerable will continue to be victims to these predators. No politician or leadership can rid us of this decayness in our society. Nosa is one of the many predators in these country. Karma will catch up with him someday.
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Karma is god And god will deal with him.Hopefully sooner than later
Na truth you say😭.
No wedding with a beast like this! BIG RED FLAG!!
#Justice4Debbie
Attempted murder!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Justice for Debbie!!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Until someone eyes are open ,they will not see. Just like a lot of us in abusive relationships, yet find excuses for the other person.
Keep doing this good work Nezeville. One day our eyes shall open. May God grant us wisdom and help our women in their financial adventure to be able to stand.
I love your work
This man is a beast😢. Is very important to observe how your partner treats others👍🏽. I wouldn't have gone along with that marriage. So sad, that most Nigerian men love their mum but disrespect women🥺
Those moms are crazy too.
Their mom unable their behaviors at all time. That’s why they love them, and hate any woman who calls them on their bs.
Good morning Barr. I'm so happy you brought this kind of video. I don't understand why women behave like this. How could a woman in her senses end up marrying that kind of man. I wish we could talk on the phone, because I have a lot to say. I wish that lady will get justice.
Thank you Barrister Neze. Great story telling and lessons learned from this case in the area of marriage. I would be too scared to go on with the marriage.
Neze I am an African woman in Botswana and no man in my country can do this to a woman. I have listened to harrowing stories of abuse by Nigerian men towards their fellow Nigerian sisters/ women and I wonder why these men are like this
Maybe Nigerian women should start looking for husbands in Botswana then. Not all Nigerian men are like this though
Dear sister from. Botswana, that's a generalization.
@@bonnechance6988 I am Nigerian but I think your comment is directed at the lady who first commmented
Because the men are entitled and are protected by the law in Nigeria. A woman’s dignity is not respected nor protected. Sad but that’s the reality women in Nigeria face.
@@GracefulKnotsMaybe not all but too many are, they have zero respect for the female gender and that's how they are raised. God forbid if you don't gift them with a son, there's total hell to pay.
And somebody's daughter is getting married to this kind of person. Nawa o
This too is Africa. Can you imagine being almost beaten to death and police telling you to pay for them to do their job?!!! I pray she gets justice. In this modern day and age, people should not get away with this!
My fellow men, imagine if Debbie were your sister, what would you do?
This is heartbreaking!
Can't find the guy on any social media..he needs to be exposed! Where was he going to flee to? This story is so infuriating..thank you for sharing Nezeville!
Thank you for bringing this story to the public and social media, to the wife that went ahead and married that man and not standing up for that Lady she should remember what goes around comes around, she will get hers, this is a sad story, in most African countries there is no such thing as calling 911 or emergency roadside service, most times after an accident both parties have to discuss repairs which is paid by the person that caused the accident, in country like Nigeria men treats women like second class citizens, it’s so sad that some women feel they must be married to feel whole and be respected in society, from what I see that wife might end up dead one day, because if he can treat a woman that he wrongfully hit her car God help that wife, and he lied that the lady had 4 others in her car, and that so called wife did not debunk his lies, they will get what is coming to them, to add insult to injury she had the nerve to go to the hospital to see the lady to tell her they are getting married?? She is a big part of the problem.
The woman may even have proceeded out of fear. His bride may have a dilemma. This kind of man may hack her down for not going ahead. It's sad.
His wife to be is probably afraid to challenge him because she must know his temperament. Steups
Thank you so much, Nezevilla. What you are doing teaching and uplifting us as women . Keep doing helping us to open eyes. You are the best. Stay blessed.
14:49 this is true oh. My mom felt a certain way before a trip from Port Harcourt to a community in Bayelsa. There were other setbacks and she actually decided not to go but for some reason she went. Thankfully it was a missionary outreach, so I guess God had mercy. The car they entered somersaulted, fortunately nobody died but my mom has a pain in her neck/collar till today. When she came back and told me the story, I was so shocked, knowing that I could have easily been motherless. I've also had similar experiences and I know that there are times things happen that seem to be blocking you from something, I believe we should just sleep like Jesus did in the storm: don't make any sudden moves, just pause. It may be a setback and temptation or it could be a sign that the thing is bad or not meant to be. Ten minutes of waiting and observation could be the eye opener you need.
You are very correct
We thank God for social media. Speedy recovery to her
If I were the woman who got married to that beast, I will not only refuse to marry him I will help Deborah seek justice as I am a witness to the incident.
He beats her too.
Hmmmmm easier said than done, why not tell the the world what you can actually do than social media talk because I haven’t seen any Nigerian woman that can do what you just said.
Not only Nigeria women please .
Easier said than done 😅
@@SylvesterNwaka The Nigerian women you know are not principled or strong women then. I know many Nigerian women who will do exactly what she said.
And people will be asking why is everyone “japaing?” With this kind of atrocious behavior without any accountability, what is the fate of the voiceless? Tufiakwa!!! I hope she gets justice soon. @Nezeville this is indeed your calling, you sure know how to pass the message across. Kudos!!
No need bringing in unrelated topic. there are asian girls where i live experiencing this in the hands of men from this race u so praise who retired to asia, married them and took them to their country...shine ur eyes..same God created all. if u jam a man with a h goat mentality...skin colour doesnt stop them. know this and know peace. Infact, that place u are japaing to..they dont stress... they just use pstol...which is quicker and faster..and reduces ya chance of seeing the sun again
The problem is men in general, even in Europe men do this to women, patriarchs is everyone, where they see women as none thing
If anyone has information about his location or whereabout, update me here and I will have him picked up by the authorities straight away. This is called GBH and this man should not be left to roam the streets of nigeria freely.
Brekete Family Human Rights & Television would love to take this man in their courtroom and give her justice. I pray she receives justice to the fullest on this animal like person who had no regard for her life.
Society puts too much pressure on women to be wives, making criminals like him and others husbands regardless of knowing their history of abuse. Can you please share the statistics on domestic violence in Nigeria for your global viewers? Many thanks for sharing you are one of the few worthy podcasters.
Really sad! And to think that lady still went ahead to marry such a beast, I’m sorry for her.
Apart from the fact that that man is evil, His mental health need to be examined.
The bride is even a bigger evil person, cos marrying a man who can do this to a fellow human much more a woman, obviously shows she doesn’t even love herself to start with. Iron they say sharpen iron, if she could put up with this, tells a lot about her.
As for Nosa , he shouldn’t be allowed to leave the country. This is probably not his first assault.
That was a message from God to the wife to back off from the wedding. When God is asnswering a prayers and u denied to see it. My prayers to the victim for a quick recovering ❤️
Let her go and report to berekete family
You’re a wonderful story teller. When someone show you who they are either through you or anyone else believe them. Nosa or Nonsense what ever his name is , is an Animal and for the woman to go a head with the wedding she will surely receive what that woman received in due time or worse.
Nezeee oooh,kenyan girls are dying so badly..please cover that story because its tooo much...much love from kenya neze,,we as kenyan ladies are sad,very sad.
Do you know the root cause please
@@Jaay2022, long story short/will try to be as brief as am able to. There’s a scope of young men who go prey on ladies on the social media platforms, ask them out on dates that for some reason they end up in Airbnb and that’s where they are brutally murdered.
Sadly in the 2 cases trending in the country so far, the victims are not well known to these men.
And the woman go still open her two eyes marry that kind of a man 😢
May Nigeria's structural and societal madness and injustice not happen to you or anyone you love 🙏🏽. This is heartbreaking! I feel sorry for his new wife cos' this is forewarning of the small taster of what he will do to her 😔. I am heartbroken that his wife knowing what he did STILL went ahead to marry this beast! Value your life o! Value your life!
Oh my God!!! This lady is really in pain 💔. Where there no men around when he was beaten her? This can only happen in Nigeria, I weep for my Country. I pray 🙏 she gets justice and I wish her speedy recovery. She should try and help so that the trauma will not affect her.
Neze,thank you so much for this story,if I'm the wife I wouldn't have stopped the wedding.I'll use him to travel abroad get my stay,and I'll make sure I don't get pregnant for him.But when I get abroad I'll deal with him.Am in America where they put children and women 1st.
I'll make sure I deal with. In his next world he'll be running from women.He's really a beast.
Thank you so much Nezeville for a well Analysed story. You are the best. It is no longer a secret that the Nigerian police serve justice only when citizens start to cry “foul play”. The police force is so rotten and the pain is worse than cancer. The woman who got married to him is 100% not actually about love. She is just a gold digger who has been promised life abroad after wedding. Even if she had met the girl dead on bed in hospital, she would have still continued with the wedding because of her own selfish reasons. I am convinced that she would regret her decision to marry him in future. The man is a complete beast who has no regard for women whatsoever.
Hmm, my dear we don't always like nuance. The truth is that some people for some reason decide to do things that most people will choose death over. I'm sure you have heard of Dubai girls and all the nonsense they experience. Nigerian girls are even late in the business. Girls from around the globe go to the middle east for instance and get all manner of unspeakable things done to them: including beastiality, faeces etc. All these for money, one girl said there's not enough hot water to wash how filthy she feels 😮😮
BEAST IN HUMAN FORM.🤔
If he tries that mess abroad, he will be serving a life sentence for attempted murder.
The man is a beast. The woman who got married to him will regret the marriage later when the time comes. She saw the sign but failed to do the right thing. Tomorrow she will call God to come and help her. As for the Nigerian police, hmmmmm. It's a shame and embarrassment to Nigeria as a country.
Oh Lord, You see all and You are everywhere.... Give this lady justice.
May this man/monster never have peace, unless he confess and repent.🙏🏽😢
Thanks so much Sister, for your Assistent, and your impart to Humanit,
Very good that its in Court
The fact that she is a youth corps member is enough for the government to take over this case. I hope she gets justice. Rotten Nigeria Police.
As for that woman, God has shown her all she needs to know to run for her dear life, but no, she must answer Mrs. Good luck to her.
Yes. She is what is known as army pikin. If she reported to the army they would have dealt with the man.
No mind her most Nigeria women carry marriage for them head, she want answer's miss
@@queentv7565I agree with you. But no be Naija men dey control society? They are the ones who set up systems that look down on single women. Some landlords won’t rent property to a single woman. Some see single women as people you can disrespect. Single women are taunted for their singlehood. Families pressure women to get married. And it’s a form of verbal abuse to tell a girl she will never get a husband. So, while I don’t support the desperation to get married, we can see why some Nigerian women are desperate enough to marry known monsters like this. At least, then it will be one monster they are dealing with who may occasionally be placated, rather than the many monsters in society whose taunting and disadvantaging never stop.
You are a woman of wisdom god bless you
Neze, thank you again. A wonderful analysis and true life lessons. God bless your ministry!
Benin men are always like that,even in Europe,thank God for Europe police.
Take the case to brekete family
Not all benin men, I know decent benin men who will never hit a woman. This individual is just unstable.
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If this brute man resides in the USA, Canada, or UK, please share his name and picture and the whole incident that way it can reach someone that he make work with so they can alert the employer and make them aware of his brutal beating of a woman which is a Crime.
DOES ANYONE KNOW THIS MAN?????
Yes, because he will be required to submit to a police check from his country covering the last 5 years in order to get a job. Even if he perverts justice in his home country or is self-employed abroad, if this news gets to the international public, no one will want to employ or do business with him. Sharing his details isn’t a mere act of vengeance. It could be preventing him from being able to do this again.
I second it.
I pray you really assist in this because this man is a terrible beast
I AM SOOOOOO SORRY FOR THAT WIFE TO BE SHE IS GOING TO BE MARRIED TO THE DEVIL HIMSELF👹😡😈
So heart breaking, I am Zimbabwean and they is no way a man can get away with this, what a broken system I am sorry to say.
My dear, please don't be sorry. We are in a really broken system in Nigeria
Broken indeed👌🙅
Broken indeed👌🙅
Don't ever be sorry for saying the truth!
Very broken in Nigeria indeed. I feel so bad for my fellow women there.
We thank God for life.... May God avenge those who did this to you
The self hatred in the African community is beyond comprehension.
I hope he's arrested and made to face the law.
How inhumane.
Canada seems good for you. Seeing contentment on a daily basis, Nezee. Looking good.
HE SHOULD BE JAILED PERIOD,,,NNEM NEZE U ARE BORN ANALYST BIKO,JISI IKE NNEM❤❤❤❤❤
One thing Neze i always thank God for is no matter how much i love someone,i have quick feet and i don't look back again,i do not know why am like that but after some time i realize how i dodged a bullets,but sadly some people will even bid there natural instincts in Jesus's name, only until the bullet is in the middle of their hearts will they realise and begin to wish; when they could have simply avoided,it's sad but future is pregnant 😮.
Justice for Debby. God please vindictive this lady❤🙏
Barrister Naz you are indeed a blessed woman, for always standing by the truth. Your mummy must be a deken in a chuch! WALLAHI TALLAHIL'AZIMUN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Your skin is glowing ❤
Thank you Barister. She should have known that God was showing her who that man is. I love your advice barister
My problems in a case like this is that, what are people around there doing, are they animals or what. This guy is not mentally sick, when karma comes & he dies suddenly they will say it is his step-mum. I pray for u my dear, d Lord Almighty fight for u & he will openly b judged in Jesus name Amen 🙏
Nigerian police don collect money that will kill them
That is why I see Nigerian run from my young age,l new that country can never get better.l have been watching your since when you were in 🇳🇬,happy to see that you and your family are now in Canada 🇨🇦 remain strong and blessed.Love you bisous 😘
If he can do it in public, he’s also doing it in the privacy of his home.
Imagine getting married to such kind a person in real life 🤔 may God help us and a quick recovery to you sis 🙏❤️ please stay safe out there
These are the smart and most educated Africans.😂😂😂 Obviously intelligence doesn't mean having common sense.
Yeepeeee.... Neze is back in her full glamour. Thanks for coming back to your signature presentation style and not only a voice over
@nezeville I never comment on videos but please find out what country he lives in. If it's in the US or any other country where laws work, find out where he works and he'll pay for this domestic violence. There's a zero tolerance policy when it comes to DV and you'll just need to make sure social media picks it up in whatever country he lives in. He'll most definitely lose his job and if there's need for him to be returned to Nigeria, an extradition request can be made. In fact if he's convicted of a crime, that's a ground to use in making sure he loses his citizenship or residency in most countries.
It's high time people start learning how to act. It's not okay to do this to any human being
Well learn story , I applaud you, that m an is a beast,she should of call off the wedding her time soon come, this is an educated story,much love from the Caribbean.
He's not only a beast, he even looks like one. When wickedness shows on the face, run run run. As for Nigerian police...... I reserve my comment. May God deliver Nigeria.
As always, you nailed this Nezze 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾…As the late Maya Angelou said “when someone shows you who they are, believe them”!
This kind of violence is deep rooted and unfortunately will carry on if not nipped!
Thanks Neze. The educative part in your story telling is what I look forward to. Very interesting and informative.
If I were to be Nosa’s gf, there is no way I will still go ahead with the marriage. God only played a picture of his true self to her but most ladies will ignore warning signs. No respect for women at all. He is a demon.
Neze "Stomach Infrastructure" got me rolling 😂😂😂😂😂. You are so on point here🎉❤
I can't believe a woman went ahead to marry Nosa after seeing what he did to a fellow woman which is an evidence that he's unable to control his emotions.
She get mind o, it's true people marry for different reasons and the reality of "a lifetime commitment" called marriage will soon dawn on her.
He lives abroad o. She feels she has caught a big fish. Even her mother would not let her cancel the wedding 😂
@@Avy999 I see, she better start praying the big fish doesn't end up swallowing her.
You're so intelligent Neze. I always look out gor these red flags. People ignore the signs and the traits because they wants to get married.
Abeg the man is a beast, and he lives abroad. What was the said wife to be doing when nosa was beating Debbie the said woman will soon be a victim. Or rip. Hope she get ready emotionally and spiritually.
Hmm....De-Law, I am speechless. This is so sad and you have spoken well. I pray this lady gets justice. Some African men shaaaaa...this Nosa guy is a beast. That wife has been receiving hers too cos this kind of incident is what shd make a lady go between her husband and the victim to stop him. Nah wahhhh....I'm just speechless and you Barrister Neze have spoken my heart. Thank you for this exposé.
Thank you for this eye opening information Neze
The law moves and changes depending on the needs of society. If we want things to change in Nigeria regarding abuses such as this - Nigerians need to speak up and take action. I love your voice- you’re very educated and intelligent.
STILL CAN'T GET OVER THIS. NOBODY MOVING AROUND COULD INTERVENE? NIGERIAN ROADS ARE ALWAYS CROWDED. WHAT THE...? WHO ARE THESE HUMANS? ARE Y'ALL HUMANS IN THAT SOCIETY? WHAT THE...?
She knows who he actually is.
Going on with the wedding is a sad one because most of these marriages don't last
A broken relationship is better than a broken marriage
I'm a Sierra Leonean living in Freetown, u are the best in storytelling 🎉❤. I pray Debbie gets the justice she deserves 🙏. It was an attempted murder! I thought my country police were the most corrupt; but since I started following up on Nigerian stories, I'm not impressed. 😮
Nigeria is a horrible country.
Nosa or whatever the beast is called should be put away for a long time. Some of the law enforcement should be imprisoned for corruption. May you get well soon by God's grace. The Inspector General of Police should speak out ASAP.
This is a classic situation of Nigeria happening to someone
Where are the men? Hmmmm, 99.8% of responses are from women! Where are the men? JUSTICE FOR DEBBIE! God bless you Neze.
I shudder to understand what’s sort of a country is Nigeria seriously. This barbaric behaviour cannot happen in my poor Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 that animal would be rotting in prison.
May d good God bless u Lawyers eg NEŹEVIlle for taking up dis case ,For sure ur sccount is been credited on earth n in HeavenTHANK U
The fact that anyone will want to associate with him in anyway, shape or form baffles me 💔💔 it is just a beast in male form. He only did this becos he knew he would get away with it and loose nothing and was relying on the failed system and delusional society and their misplaced priority 🤦🏾♀️ my question is didn't anyone see him on the road assaulting someone? and then the fiancee then didn't run to join force to fight that monster or call for help?🤯 Just when I thought I have seen it all🤦🏾♀️
'How they treat other people who they're not in love with'....
Best statement through out the video.
He's not a man.
That why i love watching your videos because you do take out time to educate and explain just for us to understand and get the point out of it most times when something happens and you did not make a video of it i do not like watching from others pages because i always get what i what to hear from your page this is very bad and touching those things are the reason why am feeling difficult in coming back to Nigeria if something happened in abroad 5 minutes is too the police will come and settle things in calm way no one will be cheated no injustice but Nigeria doesn’t care about their citizens at all and is very bad it scares us that has been away from awhile , this happens to me about four years ago I visited my state went to buy mama put (road side food) that how got beating by so many people just because I ask the woman that i have been standing here for awhile and she has been ignoring me and selling to other un till now I did not know why was being beating someone give me an injury with a car key and I did not even see anybody when i came back with police since then I have not travelled 4years now
The person he’s marrying is the person I feel sorry for.
This is a real red flag for the woman he is marrying.
She’s not sorry for herself! She personally witnessed his brutality to another woman, in public. She watched him beat a woman to this point, till he stripped her naked! Please save your sympathy for a more deserving person!
Queen 👑 Neze just as I said in the case of the man that called off his wedding on the wedding ground, I will not marry that man if I were a woman. Simple!
There's nothing anyone will tell me- this beast has killed before!
Exactly And he will attack any other woman or women for the rest of his life unless he is stopped
You are educating many women hopefully many will hear and learn. The man lives abroad and no matter what that lady will marry him. Thanks for the excellent reporting
If he can do this to a stranger he’s meeting for the first time in a public place because of an argument, then you can imagine what he’s like at home when he’s angry, this is supposed to be an eye opener for the wife 😮
Thank you so much and God bless you 🥰
omg that is a serious case you can't just beat up a WOMAN LIKE THAT
All the people that blessed mum zee should please help Deborah. GOD bless Nigerians.
IS NIGERIA REALLY A COUNTRY?
Well stated, Nothing to add, Thanks for sharing. He will get what’s coming to him.
If this victim knows the country where this man resides she should report him through their official site such as the embassy of his country of residence. This is sad and shameful. 😢😢
Absolutely
Queen 👑 Neze you have said it all, no more no less. I am completely flabbergasted watching this right now 😔