i loved how much i could feel you self-reflecting in this video! so many bits were really relatable about being introverted, wanting to expand your circle, and feeling proud of yourself for successfully making a move towards doing so :) rooting for you!
so proud of you for taking the leap and trying going on your very first date! i'm 24 and never dated anyone, which used to bother me a lot but now i'm just vibing really. i'm also quite introverted and very much like being at home, so kudos to you for going outside your comfort zone for a bit! too bad mr. aloe was acting odd and things went as they did but thankfully you have the experience and you are safe ^^
Girl, I was 27 when I started dating! It's not weird at all! I focused on myself first and decided to date when I'm ready to do so haha I felt more ready to date when I was a bit older because I kinda knew what I wanted and didn't want in a partner. I agree with you to go in your dates with low expectations. One thing that someone told me was go in the mindest of meeting a new potential friend. That helped me alot to not be so anxious of meeting a new person. Anyways, have fun with dating and be safe!!
Loved this! I actually met my now husband on Bumble 🤭 obviously this probably won't be the case for you right now LOL but as an introvert, never thought I would meet any decent people on dating apps cuz I also hated going out and don't like people much haha. But in the end I'm happy I gave it a shot cuz we now have 2 beautiful kiddos. I'm glad you gave it a go! Hoping future experinces will be positive for you ❤
When I started grad school, I'm 25 now so when I was 23, I pushed myself to go on my first date so I could say I did it. I knew from the 2nd date that it was a no but in an effort to not make such "quick judgements" about people I dated him for 6 months. He wasn't a bad guy or anything but I was in a constant state of saying "hmmm" after everything he said lol. I don't really have a desire to start dating right now but I did knock that off my bucketlist. When you said he wanted to go camping for a 2nd date I thought that was a little weird since you don't know him but I know some people do things like that so maybe its just me. Sorry to hear he got so weird afterwards! I don't think its your fault, you gave it a chance and he was acting off before you even turned him down.
when he was asking to reschedule a lot I was already hating him, then you said he behaved politely and you were excited for a second date and I was like nice this is great!! 🎉BUT THEN read the description and.... nvm😭 a rollercoaster indeed but at least you enjoyed a bit of this even a bit💌 love your vibes and wish you best luck next time !!🍀🤍🤍
When you said he wanted to take you camping on the second date, I immediately got weird vibes. I just read the description and wow. 😳😳 Yeah, definitely a red flag.
i just binged watched all your japan videos and i just wanna say i love them so much, they’re so calming and chill :) also maybe don’t go camping for a second date…i’d say that’s at least a 4th date just in case😭 man you barely know in a secluded area in the woods…might not end well hahah 😭💓
Same!!! Like not saying that he’s bad but camping as a second date is a no for me 👀 like that’s such a secluded area and you don’t know what he might do with you.
Hiii! I'm glad your first date went well, especially considering the language barrier😊 I must say, when you said that your second date is to be camping...I was surprised. Now that I've read the movie description, I'm glad you were assertive.
Hii girl, i typically don’t really comment on videos, but I just discovered your channel today and I am obsessed to say the least. I loooove how you were spilling the tea to the camera and I felt like we were real besties for a moment LOL. I was a little disappointed when I found out what a 🚩he was, but im glad the date itself was a positive and new experience for you!! Sorry if I’m overly absorbed (😂), but I look forward to your next video!! ❤️
What does it mean that when you told him you weren't a match, your phone blew up? It's like he started texting a lot in a bad way? (English isn't my first language, and I haven't heard this expression before, thank you 🤍) Love the video by the way. It's like being listening to a friend. GOssips are always welcome! hahah
I’m now 28, never been on a date before. Was excited about going on one with a girl from work. She flaked on me twice, the second time she never rescheduled. At least your guy rescheduled.
Please no camping date. Wait until after 3 dates before even considering date. You need to know more about him. And you’re fresh to dating akways be cautious.
I think guys usually pay… he did pay for dinner and I paid for boba but he apologized for letting me pay but I felt more comfortable paying since he got dinner lol
i'have 1 question (its not hate i lov u outfit and i love the style) but, why always asian girl use pants + dress??? i always see in drama girls using pants + dress
i’ve never had a boyfriend either even though before Jesus i used to boy crazy He protected me from so much and i am so grateful for it 😊❤ i’d rather wait for things to happen naturally in His Perfect Timing with the man i’m going to marry 😊❤
I totally feel you when you say you never had the opportunity! People keep asking me why i never had a boyfriend and... It just never happened
Same. I wfh plus did uni online so I barely go out
i loved how much i could feel you self-reflecting in this video! so many bits were really relatable about being introverted, wanting to expand your circle, and feeling proud of yourself for successfully making a move towards doing so :) rooting for you!
Tyy!!🫶🏻
I'm 20 and have never been on a date. This video was so exciting and refreshing. Thank you for sharing your experience lol. ❤️
so proud of you for taking the leap and trying going on your very first date! i'm 24 and never dated anyone, which used to bother me a lot but now i'm just vibing really. i'm also quite introverted and very much like being at home, so kudos to you for going outside your comfort zone for a bit! too bad mr. aloe was acting odd and things went as they did but thankfully you have the experience and you are safe ^^
Tyy🥹
You got a grown man excited, kicking my feet
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Baby sister is growing up 🥹 first date checked off!!! So proud of you for trying new things~ love this for you😊
Girl, I was 27 when I started dating! It's not weird at all! I focused on myself first and decided to date when I'm ready to do so haha I felt more ready to date when I was a bit older because I kinda knew what I wanted and didn't want in a partner. I agree with you to go in your dates with low expectations. One thing that someone told me was go in the mindest of meeting a new potential friend. That helped me alot to not be so anxious of meeting a new person. Anyways, have fun with dating and be safe!!
Loved this! I actually met my now husband on Bumble 🤭 obviously this probably won't be the case for you right now LOL but as an introvert, never thought I would meet any decent people on dating apps cuz I also hated going out and don't like people much haha. But in the end I'm happy I gave it a shot cuz we now have 2 beautiful kiddos. I'm glad you gave it a go! Hoping future experinces will be positive for you ❤
Awww so happy for you guys !! Yes proud I gave it a go can check off my 2024 list 🤣
i lovedd this video, so cozzy !!! thanks for sharing you experience!! i am a fellow introverted person too so i can totally relate
Thank you! Introvert club ✌🏻
When I started grad school, I'm 25 now so when I was 23, I pushed myself to go on my first date so I could say I did it. I knew from the 2nd date that it was a no but in an effort to not make such "quick judgements" about people I dated him for 6 months. He wasn't a bad guy or anything but I was in a constant state of saying "hmmm" after everything he said lol. I don't really have a desire to start dating right now but I did knock that off my bucketlist.
When you said he wanted to go camping for a 2nd date I thought that was a little weird since you don't know him but I know some people do things like that so maybe its just me. Sorry to hear he got so weird afterwards! I don't think its your fault, you gave it a chance and he was acting off before you even turned him down.
Ty I feel validated lol🤣🤣
This gives me some encouragment! Thank you Jenny! 💓
when he was asking to reschedule a lot I was already hating him, then you said he behaved politely and you were excited for a second date and I was like nice this is great!! 🎉BUT THEN read the description and.... nvm😭 a rollercoaster indeed but at least you enjoyed a bit of this even a bit💌 love your vibes and wish you best luck next time !!🍀🤍🤍
When you said he wanted to take you camping on the second date, I immediately got weird vibes. I just read the description and wow. 😳😳 Yeah, definitely a red flag.
i just binged watched all your japan videos and i just wanna say i love them so much, they’re so calming and chill :)
also maybe don’t go camping for a second date…i’d say that’s at least a 4th date just in case😭 man you barely know in a secluded area in the woods…might not end well hahah
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Aww Ty!! Yea 2nd date camping took me by surprise to my friends also said no 🤣
Loved this video. If you decide to go on 2nd date please don’t go camping be safe find a public location instead get to know him better .
Camping on a second date is sus, i wouldnt go for safety but thats my opinion. Never been on a date and im 26 so this is relief
Same!!! Like not saying that he’s bad but camping as a second date is a no for me 👀 like that’s such a secluded area and you don’t know what he might do with you.
Hiii! I'm glad your first date went well, especially considering the language barrier😊 I must say, when you said that your second date is to be camping...I was surprised. Now that I've read the movie description, I'm glad you were assertive.
Hii girl, i typically don’t really comment on videos, but I just discovered your channel today and I am obsessed to say the least. I loooove how you were spilling the tea to the camera and I felt like we were real besties for a moment LOL. I was a little disappointed when I found out what a 🚩he was, but im glad the date itself was a positive and new experience for you!! Sorry if I’m overly absorbed (😂), but I look forward to your next video!! ❤️
Aww ty so much 🥹
Omg. This is such a cute video. It’s like I’m talking to my friend about her first date. Congratulations on your new experience!!! 🎉
Thank you!!! Hope your friend had a good experience 🤣
What does it mean that when you told him you weren't a match, your phone blew up? It's like he started texting a lot in a bad way? (English isn't my first language, and I haven't heard this expression before, thank you 🤍) Love the video by the way. It's like being listening to a friend. GOssips are always welcome! hahah
Yes! That basically means in a negative way😆
I’m now 28, never been on a date before. Was excited about going on one with a girl from work. She flaked on me twice, the second time she never rescheduled. At least your guy rescheduled.
I really enjoyed this video!
Who goes on a camping for the second date??? 👀👀👀 Nope. That's a huge NO. Stay safe! Don't be too naive.
my first date was at 25 too!!
Twins 🤪
This is so real
Cute outfit! Watching you inspires me to make videos too❤
so lovely 💗✨
Please no camping date. Wait until after 3 dates before even considering date. You need to know more about him. And you’re fresh to dating akways be cautious.
Hii, can I ask who usually pays for the first date in Japan and what was your experience ?😊
I think guys usually pay… he did pay for dinner and I paid for boba but he apologized for letting me pay but I felt more comfortable paying since he got dinner lol
@@jenini_chenahhh okay thx!
@@jenini_chenahhh okay thx!
Girl, don't think he's that interested. Hope it was at least a good learning experience.
9:13 Guessing there are some French students in your class or school.
If you continue seeing this guy, chances are your japanese level will improve.
You look so good damn
Hmmm camping as a second date 🤔
Rtt 🤣😅
i'have 1 question (its not hate i lov u outfit and i love the style) but, why always asian girl use pants + dress??? i always see in drama girls using pants + dress
I thought he would text Tuesday to postpone.
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i’ve never had a boyfriend either even though before Jesus i used to boy crazy He protected me from so much and i am so grateful for it 😊❤ i’d rather wait for things to happen naturally in His Perfect Timing with the man i’m going to marry 😊❤
Guys are weird😢