Preachhhhhh 👏🏾 No matter how many apps I download, the connections I meet in person are stronger. Leave it to nature! We must become comfortable being single sometimes.
I quit dating apps over a year ago now and am never going back. I was so sick of getting awful, lazy replies from women I wouldn’t even look at twice in real life. And that’s not to mention the catfishing. Speak to women in real life. You can’t get catfished by someone standing right in front of you, and it’s way more fun.
Personally I can’t bring myself to get on dating apps, time is too valuable and talking to someone before I meet them in person is just a huge waste of time to me. I’ve wasted hours texting people just to meet them in person and within 5 mins know it won’t be going anywhere. The point of dating is to not date anymore!!! Seems like people treat the dating game like an endless carnival ride and are addicted to the dopamine hit of dating.
I would think these dating apps have the technology to stop users from using filtered or altered photos. Almost every girl I know that uses those doesn’t look anything like the photos they have in there. No doubt there are men that abuse the same things but women are out of control with their filtered photos. Maybe we need to make these dating apps more like LinkedIn
I don't believe people would join the sites if they couldn't filter their photos. People do not want to be seen in the raw... The reason why many profiles on LinkedIn do not have photos.
Dating apps work for some people and not so much for others. My observation is that no matter which one you use, there are many emotionally unavailable (avoidant?) people supposedly looking for relationships on them. Welcome to 'crash and burn' dating of the 21st Century. My question: How do we un-fuck the dating culture? Thoughts?
We're all busy with career & hobbies, *AND* distracted with the illusion of boundless options. As such, we--single folks--tend to get in or own damn way and then blame the apps 😂 However... An app is like a dollar: it's merely there to help us. To that point, money doesn't suck; apps don't suck; people's attitudes (regarding money & apps) suck 💯🤷♂️
I gave up on dating apps over a year ago now and will never go near them again, from fake accounts to married men to pushy men and just not having the opportunity to meet a normal man. It is definitely not worth the money - far too expensive. I realised I can spend my money better.
Bruh he was very quick to knock down the 6ft thing lol 😆 he doesn't want that bad publicity for men to think no shot. He steered it left quick. I'm not in the app, but I hear guys complain about the height thing all the time in the apps.
At 6’5 I’ve had women say “you know heights just a number right” when I wasn’t even standing or speaking… women just love to be spiteful these days. If you fit their standards they will always demean you and ask for more. It’s worse than the porn effect on men.
Modern dateing apps sound like playing a game of Russian roulette. You dont what your gonna get untill you pull that trigger. Finding love is like taking a leap into the unknown untill you take that risk your never find someone to like you or love you its all about trusting someone at the end of the day
The fatal flaw of all dating apps is that one gender is given all of the options and the other is given none. Women feel they can afford to be extremely picky so they shoot for the stars over and over again producing the same result. But they never consider a man on their own level who may be a great person and the ideal match for them.
dating used to be easy and works out when dating app/phone don't exist, and modern world have more options which makes it more complicated. People fake everything trying to be liked by many but they dont live in their present moment, they dont have much patience for one person, mostly are so quick to switch/leave their partner
This is all BS, really. Online dating was nice when the dating sites (not apps at the time) were NOT "OPINIONATED" and just let people connect. It's not the business of the app to find you the "good date", it's up to the user. These guys are just out to make money, not find you a date.
Two and a half minutes and I've lost track of how many times he has said "like"... guests that do that make it extremely hard to watch the episode. There was another gentleman very recently did the same thing and I had to turn it off, perhaps some pre-taping coaching.
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The answer is meet people face to face as we used to, it’s not complicated. These dating sites are out to exploit you and take your money
Preachhhhhh 👏🏾 No matter how many apps I download, the connections I meet in person are stronger. Leave it to nature! We must become comfortable being single sometimes.
You get a lot of a person from how they move and their body in real life you notice a persons face less
Yes just not easy to meet people
dating app CEO says he wants to „help people“ but the trick here is that dating apps are the problem in the first place
I quit dating apps over a year ago now and am never going back.
I was so sick of getting awful, lazy replies from women I wouldn’t even look at twice in real life. And that’s not to mention the catfishing.
Speak to women in real life. You can’t get catfished by someone standing right in front of you, and it’s way more fun.
Hinge sucks just as much as all the other apps
Without the proper look, dating apps are useless.
It's because the majority of people are undateable. Not really the apps fault.
Personally I can’t bring myself to get on dating apps, time is too valuable and talking to someone before I meet them in person is just a huge waste of time to me. I’ve wasted hours texting people just to meet them in person and within 5 mins know it won’t be going anywhere. The point of dating is to not date anymore!!! Seems like people treat the dating game like an endless carnival ride and are addicted to the dopamine hit of dating.
This.
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I would think these dating apps have the technology to stop users from using filtered or altered photos. Almost every girl I know that uses those doesn’t look anything like the photos they have in there.
No doubt there are men that abuse the same things but women are out of control with their filtered photos.
Maybe we need to make these dating apps more like LinkedIn
I don't believe people would join the sites if they couldn't filter their photos. People do not want to be seen in the raw... The reason why many profiles on LinkedIn do not have photos.
If you are above 40, regardless of your looks, the algorithm is done with you.
Dating apps work for some people and not so much for others. My observation is that no matter which one you use, there are many emotionally unavailable (avoidant?) people supposedly looking for relationships on them. Welcome to 'crash and burn' dating of the 21st Century. My question: How do we un-fuck the dating culture? Thoughts?
We're all busy with career & hobbies, *AND* distracted with the illusion of boundless options. As such, we--single folks--tend to get in or own damn way and then blame the apps 😂 However...
An app is like a dollar: it's merely there to help us. To that point, money doesn't suck; apps don't suck; people's attitudes (regarding money & apps) suck 💯🤷♂️
I gave up on dating apps over a year ago now and will never go near them again, from fake accounts to married men to pushy men and just not having the opportunity to meet a normal man. It is definitely not worth the money - far too expensive. I realised I can spend my money better.
I met my husband on match. He is the love of my life. 13 years and counting.
That's sad
Steven Maama
Be stubborn about your goals,
but flexible about your methods✌👌
The juice aint worth the squeeze. Learn to be happy alone, better alone and happy than alone, divorced, broke and paying alimony or you go to jail.
Bruh he was very quick to knock down the 6ft thing lol 😆 he doesn't want that bad publicity for men to think no shot. He steered it left quick. I'm not in the app, but I hear guys complain about the height thing all the time in the apps.
At 6’5 I’ve had women say “you know heights just a number right” when I wasn’t even standing or speaking… women just love to be spiteful these days. If you fit their standards they will always demean you and ask for more. It’s worse than the porn effect on men.
It's best to just fall back these days. People aren't looking for relationship's they're looking for opportunities.
A question to the Hinge CEO, does the new look Hinge cater for people in their 50’s? Thank you for your great video 🙏
I can't join an app. No way. I need to see the person.
Modern dateing apps sound like playing a game of Russian roulette.
You dont what your gonna get untill you pull that trigger.
Finding love is like taking a leap into the unknown untill you take that risk your never find someone to like you or love you its all about trusting someone at the end of the day
Get out and meet in person. People are stupid! 😂 Dating apps are so 2011.
One more potentially life changing clip. Thank you for this new info!
Would Jason Momoa be a good dating archetype?
I highly recommend the Logan Ury interview if you're in a rut with dating.
The fatal flaw of all dating apps is that one gender is given all of the options and the other is given none. Women feel they can afford to be extremely picky so they shoot for the stars over and over again producing the same result. But they never consider a man on their own level who may be a great person and the ideal match for them.
you either have a connection or your trying to force a connection, so eventually its too exhausting when youre trying to force it
dating used to be easy and works out when dating app/phone don't exist, and modern world have more options which makes it more complicated. People fake everything trying to be liked by many but they dont live in their present moment, they dont have much patience for one person, mostly are so quick to switch/leave their partner
Hi Steven!! Can you have Jude law in your podcast?? Would be great 👍
This is all BS, really. Online dating was nice when the dating sites (not apps at the time) were NOT "OPINIONATED" and just let people connect. It's not the business of the app to find you the "good date", it's up to the user. These guys are just out to make money, not find you a date.
No one asked for yet another dating app. Can't believe humanity spends so much effort on this
Let’s be honest most swipe right majority …. and then review the accepts
Two and a half minutes and I've lost track of how many times he has said "like"... guests that do that make it extremely hard to watch the episode. There was another gentleman very recently did the same thing and I had to turn it off, perhaps some pre-taping coaching.
The better our algorithms work!!! Hahaha! Save your money.
Why don't they get rid of algorithms and just let people see everyone?
@@JimmyHeightExactly! That's how the older dating sites were and at that time online dating was both more fun and achieved better results.
90% of women use filters or have younger photos....well thats about everyone.
100 dates a year wow, what's going wrong
I was unsubscribed to your channel? Just a heads up to your account
Same! Just noticed it too from your comment.
I bet he's woke from west coast.
What are you talking about? Stop crowbarring “woke” into everything-dunce.
dating apps have their role ...dont like them ? just go out then
Designed to be deleted?
Ha!
Hi Steven!! Can you have Jude law in your podcast?? Would be great 👍