I have this. Really good points. In my early twenties I felt completely overlooked whilst my friends were always with someone. My talents were not acknowledged. Money was tight. I wear clothes that are too big. My first serious relationship ended badly. I was clueless as to how to be with him. I look way younger than my age. Prickly relationship with my father. Married when I was 36. Had to learn to show affection and I still need my space. My Venus is in Pisces which apparently mitigates this.
dang crazy how relatable this all is! i'm glad i'm not alone haha! also, i think all of what you said could be true while also having venus in pisces energy could be true. I'm sure beneath all the heartbreak and loneliness, you have a very big heart and a drive to find and give unconditional love. That energy has just been thwarted and not allowed to show up as easily as it might with someone who has an unafflicted venus in pisces. the nature is still in you though!
I have venus opposite saturn but this might as well be me. My great grandmother had this aspect and my grandmother has the conjunction, the cycle definitely passed down
In regards to creative works or personal aspirations I’ve truly found that momentum is key. If I show up everyday it’s easier to get results. If I take too much time off I’ll get into a perfectionist mode rather than flow state.
Omg…I have Venus square Saturn at 0 degrees and I already know all about the abysmal love life but the clothes thing ….so accurate it’s mind blowing!!!!!
My life story right here. I have serious issues about my looks and yes, i wore baggy clothes right up to my Saturn return! Approaching my 50s now, never looked or felt better! It takes awhile to heal, a lot of forgiveness needed with regard to an oppressive father figure.
I think this can apply to arts too. Interesting example of this aspect is Linda Perhacs - an psychedelic folk singer, who released album in 1970, the album was mostly ignored, so she returned to her daily job. Then the album was rediscovered and highly praised after 2000 and coming years and her music career started to flourish in her older age! So yeah, saturnian influence can let you wait, haha. Beside that, awesome video, really informative and fun. I like how you mix the book-smart and street-smart approach in your content. I would love to see some content on Mars - Saturn hard aspects too!
omg that is such a good example!! the whole "timing" thing with this aspect is real. I have a Mars-Saturn aspect myself, what do you have and i'll put it on my request list to do!
Oh, you do, now I want to see the video even more! I have natal Mars in Aries square Saturn, not fun. But at least now I definitely know how to be patient and work through setbacks.
Venus square Saturn is just the left end of a line for me. My aspect is too complex and unique for astrologers to talk about non-individually. 6th house Capricorn Saturn square 8th house pisces Venus then venue conjunct Mercury , then Mercury conjunct 8th house pisces Mars, them Mars trine Capricorn Jupiter. 35 year Very difficult but love filled marriage ending in my wife’s death.
I can relate to a lot in your personal story, and I speaking for my self, I like hearing people talk about themselves. It makes me think there's some type of friendship between the creator and viewers, even if all I am is just some text on a screen with an image that I think looks cool. Also I learned a bit more about birth charts, (thanks for the recommendations Shaina, and Jei Cynth) manly what the planets and houses represent so far, and I have an odd question for you, Shaina, if in the future humanity does find a way to live on Mars, and someone is born there, would that affect their chart?
I agree! I can't help but get personal in videos lol. As far as the Mars situation-that is a common question. Of course the planet you are located on affects your birth chart- just as the country/city/state does on Earth. Everyone wonders what our "earth" sign is but that literally is your sun and moon. If we were on mars- we would have to account for the changing location of the sun in accordance to mars, and since there are 2 moons on mars we would have to account for that too. We wouldn't have a Mars sign anymore cus that would be the sun/moons so it would probably be a very argumentative and battle-heavy lifestyle lol. And everyone would have an Earth sign instead. Obviously I'm not the end-all be-all on astrology but as far as my understanding goes at this moment-that's how it would work.
@@shainaemily interesting, and since you shared something about yourself, I'll share something about myself. I already said I was autistic too, my main special interest is character information, and I have a book of movie, tv, book, and video game characters, for example, I'll write down all Biological, Physical Description, Personal/Relationships, and Character Role, for Darth Vader from Star Wars. I'd print out 2 pages, 1 with the character info, and a photo (of Darth Vader), then put them in a sheet protector and place other in a bidder I have for Star Wars characters.
Thank you for making this video 😭 This aspect is so tough For me it’s Venus in Virgo square Saturn in Gemini I had 2 Saturn ruled profection years (21-22) and omg I felt pretty terrible about myself Went through rebirth basically Looking back at them now at 23 in a jupiter ruled profection year I feel more level headed. I used to feel this big heaviness in my chest from emotional pain. I knew I wasn’t ugly but felt ugly but didn’t kinda thing. Overall insecure. Learning self love has been *the* lesson for sure.
Felt this DEEP in my soul lmao. You're always so detailed and accurate in your astrological interpretations and I appreciate it so much! Thanks for the great vid
You nailed it! I’m 33, Saturn Cap Square Venus in Aries.. partile.. if it was not for my Jupiter / Moon Cancer which are conjunct, everything in this would of been 💯 I lucked out with support from family.. but!! That loneliness in a big family applies. I’m a Gem Sun / Sag rising so the curiosity and quest I have for truth keeps me afloat as I pursue my Audio Engineering career. Great video. Thanks for the content.
@@ashantiroots8945 it’s been rough, lol! 33 and never really had a significant other, that’s the square right there! Venus in 12th, Saturn 3rd so communication issues is a lot to do with it, as well as bad choices (hidden enemies/past life karma) which feeds my insecurity from the mars-moon opposition 8th/2nd Biggest thing is to accept my mistakes, move on and trust the Divine How about you, from the emoji seems like you know 😢🤗
Wow I hadn't made the connection between Saturn sqr Venus and being unable to dress myself well or do anything with my long straggly hair. I'm now in my 50s and it is only with the help of my grown daughters and years of maturing that I have learned to have more style and get smart. Hilarious really. Also I may well be on the 'spectrums' which I am now wondering what the markers for it are - astrologically speaking. All of the traits I have that seem autistic can also be explained through my chart (which I have always used to interpret myself, though interoception issues caused a startling blindness- Moon in Scorpio opp. Saturn sqr Venus, joining in.) Anyway. I love astrology it is my number one interest. Glad I found you :) fellow Sat sqr Ven. :D
Uranus conjunct Neptune! I feel like there isn’t much info on outer planet conjunctions. I have these two planets conjunct my sun and they all oppose my midheaven. Also I’m libra rising so all my houses are opposing each other 🙃
i could definitely talk about this aspect! the main reason outer planet aspects aren't spoken about much is because they are generational influences many late millenials/early gen-z have this aspect. But I too have this aspect and could definitely make a video on how this has influenced the generation and how it influences the individual!
This isn’t really a staple thing in the astrological community however but it would just be the aspect with the tightest orb. However, if that is an aspect between two generational planets- look to the one with the next tightest orb involving at least one inner/social planet. For example, I guess my strongest aspect would be my Mars in Libra conjunct my North Node in Libra as they are both at exactly 1 degree 41 minutes so it’s an exact conjunction with a 0 degree 0 minutes orb. Or my mars opposite Saturn which is at an orb of 0 degrees 05 minutes if you don’t count the NN. Hope this helps!
I have this. Really good points. In my early twenties I felt completely overlooked whilst my friends were always with someone. My talents were not acknowledged. Money was tight. I wear clothes that are too big. My first serious relationship ended badly. I was clueless as to how to be with him. I look way younger than my age. Prickly relationship with my father. Married when I was 36. Had to learn to show affection and I still need my space. My Venus is in Pisces which apparently mitigates this.
dang crazy how relatable this all is! i'm glad i'm not alone haha!
also, i think all of what you said could be true while also having venus in pisces energy could be true. I'm sure beneath all the heartbreak and loneliness, you have a very big heart and a drive to find and give unconditional love. That energy has just been thwarted and not allowed to show up as easily as it might with someone who has an unafflicted venus in pisces. the nature is still in you though!
My venus is in Libra, you just described my life story?! Wow!
It was very hard when i was young .after 30 became much better but still dificult
I have venus opposite saturn but this might as well be me. My great grandmother had this aspect and my grandmother has the conjunction, the cycle definitely passed down
In regards to creative works or personal aspirations I’ve truly found that momentum is key.
If I show up everyday it’s easier to get results. If I take too much time off I’ll get into a perfectionist mode rather than flow state.
um AGREE!!!!
@@shainaemily your work is really good btw 🙂↕️
@@MXRX aww thank you!!
@@shainaemily thank you 🙂↕️
Amazing video, and so so accurate. In totality this aspect is just Saturn looking at you and saying “……but did you die???” lol thank you for this!
Omg…I have Venus square Saturn at 0 degrees and I already know all about the abysmal love life but the clothes thing ….so accurate it’s mind blowing!!!!!
i grew up my entire life trying to figure out why literally NO SIZE in clothing fits me (how is that possible)
My life story right here. I have serious issues about my looks and yes, i wore baggy clothes right up to my Saturn return! Approaching my 50s now, never looked or felt better! It takes awhile to heal, a lot of forgiveness needed with regard to an oppressive father figure.
I think this can apply to arts too. Interesting example of this aspect is Linda Perhacs - an psychedelic folk singer, who released album in 1970, the album was mostly ignored, so she returned to her daily job. Then the album was rediscovered and highly praised after 2000 and coming years and her music career started to flourish in her older age! So yeah, saturnian influence can let you wait, haha.
Beside that, awesome video, really informative and fun. I like how you mix the book-smart and street-smart approach in your content. I would love to see some content on Mars - Saturn hard aspects too!
omg that is such a good example!! the whole "timing" thing with this aspect is real. I have a Mars-Saturn aspect myself, what do you have and i'll put it on my request list to do!
Oh, you do, now I want to see the video even more! I have natal Mars in Aries square Saturn, not fun. But at least now I definitely know how to be patient and work through setbacks.
Yea. I can't sleep with a man next to me. For years.. And it's not like I have a problem with intimacy. I just can't fall asleep next to them!
Venus square Saturn is just the left end of a line for me. My aspect is too complex and unique for astrologers to talk about non-individually.
6th house Capricorn Saturn square 8th house pisces Venus then venue conjunct Mercury , then Mercury conjunct 8th house pisces Mars, them Mars trine Capricorn Jupiter.
35 year Very difficult but love filled marriage ending in my wife’s death.
I can relate to a lot in your personal story, and I speaking for my self, I like hearing people talk about themselves. It makes me think there's some type of friendship between the creator and viewers, even if all I am is just some text on a screen with an image that I think looks cool.
Also I learned a bit more about birth charts, (thanks for the recommendations Shaina, and Jei Cynth) manly what the planets and houses represent so far, and I have an odd question for you, Shaina, if in the future humanity does find a way to live on Mars, and someone is born there, would that affect their chart?
I agree! I can't help but get personal in videos lol. As far as the Mars situation-that is a common question. Of course the planet you are located on affects your birth chart- just as the country/city/state does on Earth. Everyone wonders what our "earth" sign is but that literally is your sun and moon. If we were on mars- we would have to account for the changing location of the sun in accordance to mars, and since there are 2 moons on mars we would have to account for that too. We wouldn't have a Mars sign anymore cus that would be the sun/moons so it would probably be a very argumentative and battle-heavy lifestyle lol. And everyone would have an Earth sign instead. Obviously I'm not the end-all be-all on astrology but as far as my understanding goes at this moment-that's how it would work.
@@shainaemily interesting, and since you shared something about yourself, I'll share something about myself. I already said I was autistic too, my main special interest is character information, and I have a book of movie, tv, book, and video game characters, for example, I'll write down all Biological, Physical Description, Personal/Relationships, and Character Role, for Darth Vader from Star Wars. I'd print out 2 pages, 1 with the character info, and a photo (of Darth Vader), then put them in a sheet protector and place other in a bidder I have for Star Wars characters.
Thank you for making this video 😭
This aspect is so tough
For me it’s Venus in Virgo square Saturn in Gemini
I had 2 Saturn ruled profection years (21-22) and omg I felt pretty terrible about myself
Went through rebirth basically
Looking back at them now at 23 in a jupiter ruled profection year I feel more level headed. I used to feel this big heaviness in my chest from emotional pain. I knew I wasn’t ugly but felt ugly but didn’t kinda thing. Overall insecure. Learning self love has been *the* lesson for sure.
Gret video! Can you please do Jupiter square Saturn or Moon opposite Mercury?
omg not me realizing that I might have a venus square Saturn due to how much I related to this
Felt this DEEP in my soul lmao. You're always so detailed and accurate in your astrological interpretations and I appreciate it so much! Thanks for the great vid
Excellent read
The soup thing is so spot on I relate so hard😭😭😭
Ahaha why is it always the soup story that’s a universal experience with this aspect 😭💕
You nailed it! I’m 33, Saturn Cap Square Venus in Aries.. partile.. if it was not for my Jupiter / Moon Cancer which are conjunct, everything in this would of been 💯 I lucked out with support from family.. but!! That loneliness in a big family applies.
I’m a Gem Sun / Sag rising so the curiosity and quest I have for truth keeps me afloat as I pursue my Audio Engineering career. Great video. Thanks for the content.
Venus square Saturn plus Moon opposite Mars
Yayyyyyy
Thanks for covering both!
I have this also! How has it played out for you?? 🥺
@@ashantiroots8945 it’s been rough, lol!
33 and never really had a significant other, that’s the square right there!
Venus in 12th, Saturn 3rd so communication issues is a lot to do with it, as well as bad choices (hidden enemies/past life karma) which feeds my insecurity from the mars-moon opposition 8th/2nd
Biggest thing is to accept my mistakes, move on and trust the Divine
How about you, from the emoji seems like you know 😢🤗
Thank u ❤
I have this in Gemini, 8th house.
I’d recommend looking into y’all’s darakaraka too.
I have mine is Venus ironically.
The only reason why I’m thumbs downing is because I can keep track of the ones I don’t have lol 🤭
venus virgo square saturn in 2nd house and pluto in 8th 😩😩 it’s brutal out here lmao
Wow I hadn't made the connection between Saturn sqr Venus and being unable to dress myself well or do anything with my long straggly hair. I'm now in my 50s and it is only with the help of my grown daughters and years of maturing that I have learned to have more style and get smart. Hilarious really. Also I may well be on the 'spectrums' which I am now wondering what the markers for it are - astrologically speaking. All of the traits I have that seem autistic can also be explained through my chart (which I have always used to interpret myself, though interoception issues caused a startling blindness- Moon in Scorpio opp. Saturn sqr Venus, joining in.) Anyway. I love astrology it is my number one interest. Glad I found you :) fellow Sat sqr Ven. :D
Libra Venus and Cancer Saturn (retrograde) I def struggle with guilt and self love I do really need to change that💀
Venus square uranus & Venus opposite mars pls!
noted! put it on my list :)
I have this aspect and also Venus square pluto 😭 Venus is in Pisces and pluto is in sag, idk if that helps or not.
i have a video up about venus square pluto as well!
Its like you are talking about me but i don't have this aspect...i think it will be saturn in my 7th house? 🙂
Uranus conjunct Neptune! I feel like there isn’t much info on outer planet conjunctions. I have these two planets conjunct my sun and they all oppose my midheaven. Also I’m libra rising so all my houses are opposing each other 🙃
i could definitely talk about this aspect! the main reason outer planet aspects aren't spoken about much is because they are generational influences many late millenials/early gen-z have this aspect. But I too have this aspect and could definitely make a video on how this has influenced the generation and how it influences the individual!
Moon opposite Venus and mars square Saturn ??
This was awesome 👏 I have venus square mars but I totally related to alot of what you mentioned especially the whole peaking in my late 20s lol.
I have venus square mars as well! That's definitely one I will be doing pretty soon.
how do you find your strongest aspect?? could you give an example
This isn’t really a staple thing in the astrological community however but it would just be the aspect with the tightest orb. However, if that is an aspect between two generational planets- look to the one with the next tightest orb involving at least one inner/social planet. For example, I guess my strongest aspect would be my Mars in Libra conjunct my North Node in Libra as they are both at exactly 1 degree 41 minutes so it’s an exact conjunction with a 0 degree 0 minutes orb. Or my mars opposite Saturn which is at an orb of 0 degrees 05 minutes if you don’t count the NN. Hope this helps!
@@shainaemily ohhh ok now I get it the degree or orb closer to 0 is the strongest aspect!! Thank you so much
@@Lavenderscones yes :)