Asian and Western Dinner Etiquette - Differences

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  • Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
  • Jack is having a meal with his Japanese girlfriend. What problems is he having? And how many mistakes does he make?

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  • @StuUngar
    @StuUngar 2 роки тому +15

    I worked with a Vietnamese guy that would slurp, smack, and talk with food in his mouth.
    He made one of the girls in the office throw up and she had to move offices further down the hall

    • @tubulartopher
      @tubulartopher 8 місяців тому

      😂

    • @yumisam1258
      @yumisam1258 2 місяці тому

      I'm Vietnamese but was taught to use dinner etiquette in Western style since my mom and dad used to live in the EU. So I find people making sounds while eating really disgusting. Of course, it's not the sound when you eat something crunchy. Just don't talk while your mouth is full of food and smack

  • @chuckery5177
    @chuckery5177 2 роки тому +16

    Slurping doesn’t mean “thank you”
    It means the food is SOOOO good that you can’t wait for it to cool so you’re forced to slurp to avoid burns. This reflects the quality of the dish and the noise let’s chefs know that they did great!

  • @ryanrodrigues6127
    @ryanrodrigues6127 6 років тому +23

    When two different cultures meet.

  • @moofls4592
    @moofls4592 5 років тому +5

    Watched this at QHHS and it was very educational
    10/10 would watch again

  • @desakputurakaparamita954
    @desakputurakaparamita954 7 років тому +46

    Every asian has a different table manner. For south east asian you could eating using your hands on local restaurant, of course after washing your hand and we never use chopstick as our main eating tool.

    • @jellybean7955
      @jellybean7955 2 роки тому +1

      There are a lots of country in south east Asia.....

    • @h0978
      @h0978 2 роки тому +2

      What ???, bro wdym, im from vietnam, it's located in Southeast asian, and we dont use our hand to eat foods, we use CHOPSTICKS as main eating tool

    • @hado1916
      @hado1916 2 роки тому +2

      @@h0978 correct that chopsticks and spoons are the main cutleries in Vietnam. But eating with hands is acceptable and common particularly for sticky rice and some kinds of rice cake.

    • @ririimorales8897
      @ririimorales8897 Рік тому

      @@hado1916 i think he meant Philippines. Main eating tools are Fork and Spoon, eat with hands sometimes.

    • @hado1916
      @hado1916 Рік тому

      @@ririimorales8897 he meant Southeast Asia!

  • @timothyedward6147
    @timothyedward6147 5 років тому +9

    Sounds like someone “puffing” their nose 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @tsukasa1608
    @tsukasa1608 9 років тому +9

    East Asian, mainly Chinese, Japanese, Korean and Vietnamese.

  • @ssoh04190915
    @ssoh04190915 10 років тому +42

    Uh...that asian etiquette doesnt go for Korea. Japanese purposefully make all those sounds to express the idea that the food is delicious. To them, thats the polite manner, and I think its perfectly understandable. Meanwhile, in Korea, if you bring your bowl to your mouth or make those slurping sounds, or even talk too much, you are considered a rude lowclass idiot, which is also understandable. Anyway, please dont think Japanese etiquette is a representation of all Asian manners,

    • @CarlH08
      @CarlH08 8 років тому +2

      i think every culture has thier own differences,and every country has thier own etiquette,we just have to learn to accept and respect each others differences specialy when we are traveling in to thier country.

    • @unitedstatesofanime222
      @unitedstatesofanime222 7 років тому

      JAPAN and USA

    • @arsys68
      @arsys68 7 років тому +2

      +shreker
      Your understanding is quite right, but there are also some misunderstandings.
      The Japanese does not aim to make this sound. We do not feel uncomfortable because it is a sound that comes out naturally in the process of eating noodles most deliciously. It is also a proof that the person is doing the right way of eating, so we may feel that sound is stylish.
      This scene of movie emphasizes the sound a lot, so it is felt a bit annoying even by Japanese people. Well, I think that this is a very interesting scene that expresses straightforwardly the difference in food culture.

    • @aminewaffleuwu15
      @aminewaffleuwu15 4 роки тому +4

      but i mostly see koreans slurping their noodles lol

    • @Yarnooee
      @Yarnooee 3 роки тому

      ua-cam.com/video/ZizyPzC2Aj4/v-deo.html
      so why every korean ramen commercial make slurp sounds?
      and why every mukbang youtubers make slurp sounds too?

  • @pierretaichou
    @pierretaichou 8 років тому +21

    Anyway, which movie is this from?

  • @Maimimika
    @Maimimika 8 років тому +46

    this was so uncomfortable for me and im not even from Japan lmao

    • @LpsBlueDiamond
      @LpsBlueDiamond 5 років тому +7

      ShadowDragonsHeart I think everyone thinks the same way

    • @lilingli7813
      @lilingli7813 4 роки тому

      What do you mean? The elder's reactions or Jake's action?

    • @oliverjames8580
      @oliverjames8580 3 роки тому +1

      @@lilingli7813 The slurping sound. Not every Asians does that on table. I'm a Vietnamese, and I will get kicked in the ass if I slurping noodles like that

    • @themacrofolks863
      @themacrofolks863 Рік тому

      @@lilingli7813 Jake’s for me. Elders are slurping in short bursts with a bowl right beneath, while Jake ‘s noodle is above his pants. And Jake doesn’t slurp, he sucks in the noodles at 45 degree angle from the bowl.

  • @johnlee4277
    @johnlee4277 9 років тому +13

    in East Asia except Korea,it's good to slurp noodles becuase it cools the noodles down and its express that you enjoy your meal

    • @anhduynguyen396
      @anhduynguyen396 6 років тому +7

      In Vietnam, you use a spoon to cut noodles short and put it on the same spoon with broth to eat without being noisy. Many people feel uncomfortable or even angry when they're near loud eaters

    • @user-vf8jc4cf6s
      @user-vf8jc4cf6s 5 років тому +2

      Korea does as well.

    • @buukute
      @buukute Рік тому +1

      Yeah, Vietnamese don't slurping like that. Sorry.

  • @hotrodmercury3941
    @hotrodmercury3941 2 роки тому +9

    I laughed so hard I dropped my cup noodle

  • @ryanrodrigues6127
    @ryanrodrigues6127 6 років тому +6

    I agree with this video, for one what is normal for others it can be bad behavior or bad luck.

    • @lais9671
      @lais9671 4 роки тому +1

      But the western man didn't know that, he wasn't taught at all.

  • @animekpopmangaislife5864
    @animekpopmangaislife5864 6 років тому +4

    lol the best way to shut them😂

  • @muhammadkurniawan245
    @muhammadkurniawan245 10 років тому +5

    Not all asian

  • @EmperorMingg
    @EmperorMingg 3 роки тому +1

    Never seen an Asian family meal so quiet.

  • @Rengoku-ge5wy
    @Rengoku-ge5wy 10 років тому +18

    I'm a Vietnamese and i think it's no need to be harsh on other's manners like that.
    Everybody should sympathize for each other.

    • @StopFear
      @StopFear 9 років тому +1

      I agree. I also like that in Vietnam you guys actually use both the chopsticks and forks with spoons.

  • @thomasharrisjr.3250
    @thomasharrisjr.3250 4 роки тому +2

    95% of visitors from US and Europe can use Japanese chop stick. Sometime better than even Japanese. That is realty now.

    • @TN-ju4ro
      @TN-ju4ro 3 роки тому

      I mean its not like you have to be asian to use chopsticks, you just need patience

  • @julianamartinvlog
    @julianamartinvlog 8 місяців тому +1

    Oh my😅😂😊❤

  • @taylordguitar
    @taylordguitar 5 років тому +6

    Holt fuck this is hilarious. I live with Asians for the first time and I still can not stand there slurpig noises fucking vile

  • @flitsertheo
    @flitsertheo 11 місяців тому

    They do not only slurp when they are eating *food* . I leave it to your imagination.

  • @Khether0001
    @Khether0001 10 років тому +12

    DUDE! I'm GOING TO PUKE...

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      I know right? And it gets much worse than this!

  • @1217mikegrs
    @1217mikegrs 4 роки тому

    Mr. Baseball 1992 film is where this is from

  • @thaotran-sd4by
    @thaotran-sd4by 10 років тому +3

    What is the name of film, everybody?

  • @jonathanmcculley3728
    @jonathanmcculley3728 10 років тому +1

    He made all the mistakes possible. I was thinking 馬鹿 the whole time.

  • @kafu20
    @kafu20 8 років тому +6

    Do you know what the old man say? I'm curious!!!

    • @kopistedik3542
      @kopistedik3542 5 років тому +2

      I need viagra 4 my small asian pipi

  • @oldschool5841
    @oldschool5841 3 роки тому

    There are a lot of differences

  • @hindjhaniesha1043
    @hindjhaniesha1043 10 років тому +6

    Indonesian don't do.that :p

    • @camasaburt
      @camasaburt 7 років тому +1

      I love Indonesia :) ,

  • @najd6613
    @najd6613 8 років тому +4

    That's Monica's ex boyfriend

  • @user-yn3up4hn5o
    @user-yn3up4hn5o 6 років тому

    noodle is sound allowed food. but only a little piece..

  • @minzxk5699
    @minzxk5699 4 роки тому +9

    slurping the noodles is considered good manners in Japan as it shows you enjoy the meal, so don't roast the Japanese guys in the video, though their slurping is a bit over the top.

    • @tainle
      @tainle 2 роки тому

      it is bad manner and sounds annoying, japanese never earn my respect with their cultures. very sexist and discriminatory country,

  • @kathryncotter4933
    @kathryncotter4933 4 роки тому

    It sounds like someone is blowing up a balloon

  • @yuukiasuna5062
    @yuukiasuna5062 4 роки тому +7

    That Westerner can be seen as a very offending person because of him unwilling to follow the way of the country that he's in

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому +5

      How is he unwilling "to follow the way of the country that he's in"? When as soon as he is told slurping your noodles is good manners that's what he starts doing.

  • @thanhthubch-luu3170
    @thanhthubch-luu3170 8 місяців тому

    where is Jack from?

  • @PsalmHymn
    @PsalmHymn 10 років тому +9

    He ought to have farted, that is quite acceptable in some places, too.

  • @TheChromeFireS
    @TheChromeFireS 5 років тому +2

    Putting sticks straight like jawsticks are very rude as they represent the X_X to the japanese,being rude

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      Why is it rude?

    • @TheChromeFireS
      @TheChromeFireS 2 роки тому +1

      @@gagebenson1791 stabbing your chopsticks represent the joss sticks used to give food to the dead. So it's extremely rude to do it in front of Chinese people

  • @martinaamato5205
    @martinaamato5205 Рік тому

    yes but what did he say??

  • @maximumviews5759
    @maximumviews5759 4 роки тому

    I do believe slurping noodles is manners to the chef, saying it is really good

  • @アルファ代表
    @アルファ代表 6 років тому +5

    Actually I don't like such a manner.
    Its sounds .

  • @Ace-ht1is
    @Ace-ht1is 5 років тому +2

    U dont slurp when ur eating pasta. U slurp when u eat ramen or other asian noodles.

  • @OsmanWarrior
    @OsmanWarrior 2 роки тому

    ok so lets be clear, if your in Asia where ppl slurp you slurp, but if you are in Europe you dont slurp. Easy

    • @charumathis5029
      @charumathis5029 2 роки тому +1

      Not that simple...in many Asian cultures (especially in the South east) and subcultures, slurping is considered rude and off-putting. On the other hand, the slurping sounds that noodle commercials make is for the benefit of the westerners and the western-influenced who enjoy their gravies...At the same time snobbish European/American families cannot stand a peep at the table, whereas in Asia it has a lot to do with where in the social hierarchy the culture stands....so not simple...thing is westerners are stereotyped as folks who could be insensitive or ignorant or even deliberately disrespectful of other cultures...which is why when they actually integrate well, they're treated with great respect. Being open is key, and works everywhere except for snobs and bullies

  • @leegeon2096
    @leegeon2096 9 років тому +3

    they bring their bowl to their mouthes 'cause they don't have the spoons

    • @Yarnooee
      @Yarnooee 3 роки тому

      they have spoon, they just don’t use it for it.

  • @sara874
    @sara874 11 років тому

    What's the name of the movie?

  • @DonnyStilleN
    @DonnyStilleN 11 років тому

    mr.baseball

  • @elvizg2120
    @elvizg2120 7 років тому +5

    God im lucky to live in the US lol.. wats the movies name ?

    • @carlosbotelho9348
      @carlosbotelho9348 6 років тому +1

      Japan is better than US

    • @DaveKing19836
      @DaveKing19836 3 роки тому

      Mr. Baseball is the name of the movie

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      @@carlosbotelho9348 It's all a matter or opinion.

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      I know!! Thank godbqendontbhavento listen to people eat like this and think it's polite. Could you imagine what it would sound like eating in a restaurant?

  • @LpsBlueDiamond
    @LpsBlueDiamond 5 років тому

    1:50 NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!

  • @userr-tx2rs
    @userr-tx2rs 2 роки тому

    They have no table manners

  • @burakayan1429
    @burakayan1429 9 років тому +2

    ahahah Türk mü lan bu :D

  • @si75va
    @si75va 5 років тому

    rsp

  • @stevepollard2169
    @stevepollard2169 3 місяці тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @evanlowe5355
    @evanlowe5355 4 роки тому

    Lol

  • @julielovesyou321
    @julielovesyou321 6 років тому

    😂

  • @ryanadrian8498
    @ryanadrian8498 3 роки тому

    Orang tidak tau itu di ajarin dahulu harusnya di awal...
    Ini malaj di paksa ngikutin...
    Sombong jepang

  • @baolongluck
    @baolongluck 10 років тому +1

    Asian eating like that in this clip is only in Korea, but Cambodia NO....

    • @user-vf8jc4cf6s
      @user-vf8jc4cf6s 5 років тому +1

      This clup is Japanese

    • @Yarnooee
      @Yarnooee 3 роки тому

      @@user-vf8jc4cf6s but this is still the same in korea, so..

  • @Yarnooee
    @Yarnooee 3 роки тому

    i know its a comedy, but he looks so rude.

  • @GO-ts1nu
    @GO-ts1nu 5 років тому

    一発ですする高倉健はカッコいい。
    ズズ、ズズ、ってやる女優のやり方はダメ。

  • @RexiousX
    @RexiousX 6 років тому +1

    Hehehe - very stereotypical look at Japanese manners and 'manner'. I've been to Japan and I seriously doubt there are many who would react in such a harsh way to another's lack of knowledge.
    They might laugh a bit perhaps, but frown so much on the poor man - naaah!
    Great clip though

  • @dylanworthington1350
    @dylanworthington1350 2 роки тому

    This is so backward, slurping is disgusting how could it be good manners?.

  • @Wheelebarral
    @Wheelebarral 10 років тому

    Great Awkward...
    So it was then broken with bad luck :)

  • @anastasiasgaming1380
    @anastasiasgaming1380 6 років тому

    This is embarrassing.

  • @ryanrodrigues6127
    @ryanrodrigues6127 6 років тому

    Please who are in the comments do take everything as racist.

  • @sown04
    @sown04 4 роки тому

    wtf, Japanese dont eat like that

  • @anthonyjanthonycrowley7652
    @anthonyjanthonycrowley7652 4 роки тому

    This is so incorrect I-

  • @dalilad.3250
    @dalilad.3250 6 років тому +3

    It's disgusting to smack and slurp and wipe your mouth with your hand .... No napkins used ever

    • @minzxk5699
      @minzxk5699 4 роки тому

      its the culture in Japan. Next time don't judge so quickly.

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      I agree 100%

    • @gagebenson1791
      @gagebenson1791 2 роки тому

      @@minzxk5699 Yeah the video made that pretty clear. He is just stating his opinion.

  • @johnlee4277
    @johnlee4277 9 років тому +2

    That white guy doesn't know how to eat chopstick and use Asian manners properly.

    • @StopFear
      @StopFear 9 років тому +6

      He shouldn't. The Asians should show him respect as hosts and tell him to eat and sit the way which is comfortable to him.

    • @rextimothyang9702
      @rextimothyang9702 8 років тому +1

      Technically, thats false. If you are ever in another country, it is always good to learn their culture and manners.

    • @atiithe
      @atiithe 8 років тому +2

      +StopFear Whenever you visit a country, study their manners, values, and laws. Be respectful to their nature and people. Are you from the USA by any change? Don't they teach you this in ethics/religion class?

    • @kopistedik3542
      @kopistedik3542 5 років тому

      U got it

    • @lais9671
      @lais9671 4 роки тому

      @@atiithe I totally agree

  • @mmkjijhuks1841
    @mmkjijhuks1841 4 роки тому +1

    Disgusting

  • @muhammadkurniawan245
    @muhammadkurniawan245 10 років тому +3

    Not all asian