Agree. Funny as hell. That’s the only reason why I watch the episodes cause I sincerely don’t care about all of the drama. People talking about other people that once they cared about as if they lost not only those feelings but also the human side of them. Some of them are too harsh to watch but the judge makes up for the bad parts
Being a stay at home mom sounds cool until you end up like this lady, divorced, no job, no money, & 100% dependent on someone else’s checks. She’s the CEO of denpendas.
It doesn’t sound cool frfr, and I don’t think any modern woman ever said it did. That was one of the politics of Feminism. It highlighted that being a stay-at-home mother is actually under-compensated work. He pays for everything but she puts out the fires the father doesn’t think about. I understand her feelings. But I also think the judgement was fair for the stimulus from a tax standpoint. $600 wasn’t gone repay her role as a stay at home mother in the past or even that 60% custody tho. So... she might’ve well just let that go.
He deserved all the children’s money to spend on his own? No some of that money should’ve went to her to help with the kids that’s what it’s for. He wanted to leave he got to leave but he can’t just leave her with hella responsibility and think he not gone pay for it.
@@lanasiakishana2863 But he was also paying all the bills since she’s not working. The divorce decree even had to tell her to make a job making $20,000 which tells us he was financially responsible for and still is supporting them.
@@lanasiakishana2863 I think since he has to pay all of the bills she shouldn't demand the split of money, he's already responsible for 100 percent of the whole family's financials
Why she thought she should get the money is beyond me! Being a stay at home mom and having all these kids, with no backup plan is a NO NO! Your well ran dry, girlfriend. Take your butt to work honey!
We as woman seem to hardest on one another women...WHY. Her job isn't easy nor cost free; They had an agreement(contract) called marriage. I'm not indicating that she doesn't need a job now but that was not the agreement. Let's all take a step back and show compassion for both of them; afterall the husband did leave. (No matter his reason) Some people can rebound and others become depressed, however, we won't know this whole story so listen and learn from others hardships but please show compassion.
That comment is exactly why men think it’s ok to make babies but not be responsible for the family. Greedy? She earned it, I bet he not helping with homework, soothing cuts, or putting the kids to bed at night. Gtfoh
Judge Mathis: "Yall wanna get back together yall are both smiling yall are getting back together yes you are yes you are!!" 🤭😭😂 You gotta love Judge Mathis man!!
Time to get a job....😒😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️. Very wise of his legal team to add the "at least 20k income" statement in the divorce decree. Bc she looks like the type that would try to live off him forever.
@La Vie En Pâquerette they could be all small kids. If you're only working to pay childcare that doesn't make sense. You don't know their full family dynamic so calling her lazy is not fair
She needs to get over it and be glad he’s actually paying and keeping up With everything. With 4 children she needs to get a job what if something happens to him wtf is she going to do. I’m married with 2 kids and I worked from home all through covid with my kids home with me, even though I didn’t have to there’s no excuse.
If someone drives a wedge between you and your family that’s a huge red flag that person is not the one for you. I am speaking for experience I learned the hard way thank goodness I woke up before we got married and saved my relationship with my family
She lives in the home hes still paying on, took all the debt, and want to take all his money ? Get a job ya bum,hope good things for that man he deserves it starting with this win🙌
That was a rough judgement, but it was correct. Sadly when divorce decrees mention taxes and refunds, no one was anticipating this stimulus money coming up.
😂😂😂 that’s what she get...that’s why I will never be a stay at home mom just because of stuff like this...it’s not hard to get a job & make 20,000 a year sis 🙄
And the fact that unless your husband is rich how is your financial stability with only one income. You got four kids? How many college funds do you have? What’s your saving last account look like with one income. Just not smart in 2021
She’s a mess.. Loss a good man... that tried to save his marriage. 🤦🏽♀️ SO SAD 😞 He has to be heal and he will be a great husband to someone grateful and deserving. She didn’t say anything bad about him. Took high school sweetheart for granted.
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Even if you're a stay-at-home parent, Have a side hustle..Baby sitting, doing hair, cleaning homes, etc. Save that $ for storms. And if a storm never hits, you have $ for your children.
People are saying that she doesn’t “want” to work as if being a stay at home mom isn’t a job. It’s a privilege to come home to a cooked meal, clean house and all chores done. Also they have 4 kids so she’s saving them daycare expenses which can be gigantic for 4 kids. We need to acknowledge the hard work/ unpaid job which is being a stay at home mom. Many women dedicate themselves to their husband and kids only to be left struggling financially once they divorce because they have no work history or education.
At first I agreed with what the judge said about the tax filer being the one who is supposed to get the money but as we all seen they weren't going solely on whom filed a tax return. My mother hasn't worked in about 4 to 5 years and hasn't filed and got a stimulants I know people in jail whom receive the stimulants (hadn't worked in years
Wow. She wants it all. All of the benefits of being married, but doesn't want to be married. Even after the divorce he's still carrying or at least responsible for the entire house!!! They should just get remarried at least until the kids are of age.
Not to be funny it's like she's the oldest sister that looks after the other kids...she has some kind of chip on her shoulder thinking she don't want him but he can't reap the benefits of his work...nahh
I know all the women will instantly be on her side. I believe him. What we’ve heard tells it all. She said the divorce caught her off guard. But he was telling you he was unhappy and seeking counseling??!! I think she didn’t care didn’t think he would leave. I think now she just trying to stick it to him. Hell he paying all of your bills woman!!! Why would you care about stimulus money. GO GET A JOB!!!!!!
I get her point yet I get his. It would've been nice for him to give a little something yet this man paid for everything whilst she choose to be a stay at home mother. Girl that's a job in itself but the reward is your kids. Being a home maker comes with price honey. Next time stash something away for a rainy day, have a little business on the side, & never solely depend on a soul that won't possibly be in your life forever especially when you have kids💡
At this point she need to get up off her butt get her a job so she can find her own taxes then she can claim two of them kids and he can claim to it and kids but I think it's unfair that he got all the money from them kids all that stim check money the right thing to do with benefited down the middle give her half the money and give him half the money but no he figures she's a stay-at-home mom she don't need no money he going to take all the money too ida divorce his damn ass too
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I say 50 50 should be awarded bc somebody had to be at home with the children or if mom worked the kids would have to be in a daycare. As a married couple, obviously they agreed that she'd be a stay at home mom and he would work. Dang!
@@Depressionmillennial I would say I'd agree if it want for the children. I mean, raising children isn't easy. Maybe people should start switching roles for a change and they'd see it's not easy either way!
You are stuck with all of those bills, 4 kids, an ex-wife plus your own bills and you still find a way to go buy a motorcycle? You must be selling drugs or you are going to be penniless pretty soon.
People criticize SAHM, not realizing that the cost of daycare, commuting, car maintenance, cleaners, etc usually makes working outside the home not worth it, especially if there at 2 non school age kids. Hence most wealthy people are likely to be SAHM . People, ESPECIALLY Black people will shame the mother for being a SAHM, because they think the +$1k profit a year for the household from her working all day ,then coming home and doing the majority of the household and child rearing, while going 50/50 on bills with a Dusty makes sense. No wonder we continue to keep the wealth gap between Blacks and non Blacks so open. Their men understand that unless the mother is making a great salary, their kids are better off and the household finances are better.
@@queenushiriyah5924 Right it takes two. I feel like if people dont want to get married then dont have kids either because your always gonna be tied to that person regardless.
He asked for a divorce she gave him what he wanted but he can’t just UP and leave on things that were being jointly taken care of… that’s his fault. Some of that stimmy for the kids definitely should’ve went to her ESPECIALLY since she has them more than he does. She just couldn’t prove her case fully.
He pays all the bills in the home and doesn't live in the home anymore. She don't work so how is any of that stimulus hers? Even judge Mathis thought that made no sense so he judged the case accordingly. She better got get a job...haha
I thought I heard her say that he gave her $1200 for herself (from the stimulus) but kept the monies for the kids. If the first payment was based on the 2019 taxes of which they were still married they should have split the stimulus for the kids. She shouldn't be allowed to have the entire stimulus for the kids because of 60/40 agreement. He is working and still paying for the house they live in. They could have worked this out among themselves. The decree sounds like he didn't even have to give her the money he already gave her.. Any received based on the date after they divorce he is entitled to. She gone find her a part time job quick & fast hunni.
Its not for 2020 it's for 2019 . He shouldn't get that money. This isn't right. He has gotten soooo much money off these kids. He shouldn't get that money. That's fucked up
What planet she live on??!??!! He pays all the bills and doesn't live in the home while she doesn't work and she gets tax/covid money!??...😆😂🤣
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You could tell she was trying to hurry up and log off the Zoom call at the end!! 😂😂🤣
😂😂 u caught that
Lol yep....She's mad as hell 😂
She was pissed! 😂🤷🏾♀️
Okay she couldn't click off fast enough
Judge Mathis has a balance of being funny, compassionate and informative. This case was a great example of this. 🙂
Agree. Funny as hell. That’s the only reason why I watch the episodes cause I sincerely don’t care about all of the drama. People talking about other people that once they cared about as if they lost not only those feelings but also the human side of them. Some of them are too harsh to watch but the judge makes up for the bad parts
Perfectly said
Wow, she really thought she could present her case with no documentation of the divorce lol
My mans was prepared a true legal eagle..
Being a stay at home mom sounds cool until you end up like this lady, divorced, no job, no money, & 100% dependent on someone else’s checks. She’s the CEO of denpendas.
It doesn’t sound cool frfr, and I don’t think any modern woman ever said it did. That was one of the politics of Feminism. It highlighted that being a stay-at-home mother is actually under-compensated work. He pays for everything but she puts out the fires the father doesn’t think about. I understand her feelings. But I also think the judgement was fair for the stimulus from a tax standpoint. $600 wasn’t gone repay her role as a stay at home mother in the past or even that 60% custody tho. So... she might’ve well just let that go.
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FYI. It also decreases her social security payout when she reaches retirement age.
My mans did deserve the stimulus...let him have something, you already didn't want him to go anywhere...
He deserved all the children’s money to spend on his own? No some of that money should’ve went to her to help with the kids that’s what it’s for. He wanted to leave he got to leave but he can’t just leave her with hella responsibility and think he not gone pay for it.
@@lanasiakishana2863 But he was also paying all the bills since she’s not working. The divorce decree even had to tell her to make a job making $20,000 which tells us he was financially responsible for and still is supporting them.
@@lanasiakishana2863 I think since he has to pay all of the bills she shouldn't demand the split of money, he's already responsible for 100 percent of the whole family's financials
@@lanasiakishana2863 if he’s been doing it he still will take care of them
@@lanasiakishana2863 sorry sis, she is well taken care of. She doesn’t work or pay the mortgage. He does 🤷🏽♀️
Why she thought she should get the money is beyond me! Being a stay at home mom and having all these kids, with no backup plan is a NO NO! Your well ran dry, girlfriend. Take your butt to work honey!
Exactly
We as woman seem to hardest on one another women...WHY. Her job isn't easy nor cost free; They had an agreement(contract) called marriage. I'm not indicating that she doesn't need a job now but that was not the agreement. Let's all take a step back and show compassion for both of them; afterall the husband did leave. (No matter his reason) Some people can rebound and others become depressed, however, we won't know this whole story so listen and learn from others hardships but please show compassion.
She wanted that stimulus, plus everything else that man has to give.
Not suing for stimulus already !
Yep...you knew it was coming 🤣
Definitely with 4 kids.
So she want some tax money after he takes care of all to most of the bills all year Smh
She greedy 🥴. Let him have that stimulus he basically taking care of you and y’all not even together tf.
That comment is exactly why men think it’s ok to make babies but not be responsible for the family. Greedy? She earned it, I bet he not helping with homework, soothing cuts, or putting the kids to bed at night. Gtfoh
@@mogetit5999 bye
I respect the ruling in this case. It was very fair & the reasoning made complete sense 😊👍🏾
Agreed.
and another example of ..
“girla what did you think was gonna happen”
Judge Mathis: "Yall wanna get back together yall are both smiling yall are getting back together yes you are yes you are!!" 🤭😭😂 You gotta love Judge Mathis man!!
Haha she mad.... leave that man alone you cant control everything anymore lol
She mad as hell. She’s going to go get a job rn
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lmao
She doesn’t have one yet.
Time to get a job....😒😂😂😂🤷🏾♀️.
Very wise of his legal team to add the "at least 20k income" statement in the divorce decree. Bc she looks like the type that would try to live off him forever.
Praying and having faith with works does work.
She sounds domineering.
I believe he didn't just "lose his job"
What do you think happened?
Did she want him to have nothing to live on? Sheesh
Yes.
He decided to leave so he has to pay🤷🏾♀️it’s cheaper to keep her
I would’ve left her too! Go get a job
@La Vie En Pâquerette they could be all small kids. If you're only working to pay childcare that doesn't make sense. You don't know their full family dynamic so calling her lazy is not fair
She needs to get over it and be glad he’s actually paying and keeping up
With everything. With 4 children she needs to get a job what if something happens to him wtf is she going to do. I’m married with 2 kids and I worked from home all through covid with my kids home with me, even though I didn’t have to there’s no excuse.
Starting July 15th, he gonna get 250 per child depending on their age every month for the rest of the year.
she bogus as hell, sitting at home amd not working and trying to get them free checks? FOH, glad dude won, there are too many people like her.
If someone drives a wedge between you and your family that’s a huge red flag that person is not the one for you. I am speaking for experience I learned the hard way thank goodness I woke up before we got married and saved my relationship with my family
She lives in the home hes still paying on, took all the debt, and want to take all his money ? Get a job ya bum,hope good things for that man he deserves it starting with this win🙌
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My favorite judge. I need her legal team.
That was a rough judgement, but it was correct. Sadly when divorce decrees mention taxes and refunds, no one was anticipating this stimulus money coming up.
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She said, “they file taxes together”. SHE DOESN’T EVEN WORK ! Girl what taxes do you have.
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😂😂😂 that’s what she get...that’s why I will never be a stay at home mom just because of stuff like this...it’s not hard to get a job & make 20,000 a year sis 🙄
And the fact that unless your husband is rich how is your financial stability with only one income. You got four kids? How many college funds do you have? What’s your saving last account look like with one income. Just not smart in 2021
She’s a mess.. Loss a good man... that tried to save his marriage. 🤦🏽♀️ SO SAD 😞 He has to be heal and he will be a great husband to someone grateful and deserving. She didn’t say anything bad about him. Took high school sweetheart for granted.
You are absolutely right
Get rid of cable and stream🤣
Lol right.
@@brewilliams9324 🤣
The defendant shouldn't have married her in the first place because the warning signs were there early on.
And impregnated her 4 times. Don’t feel sorry for him at all 😆
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She was mad about that verdict ...had the finger on ready..set..go 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The clergy are crooks :(
Take care of your kids. Leave when they do
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When you have 4 kids with someone you need not get a divorce or whatever, child support - you can kiss all your income good-bye.
She look mad bitter 😂
Not the stimmy
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Judge Mathis you are absolutely correct about the responsibility of the clergy.
“I ain’t doing nothing” lol love it. But she is out of her mind
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Even if you're a stay-at-home parent, Have a side hustle..Baby sitting, doing hair, cleaning homes, etc. Save that $ for storms. And if a storm never hits, you have $ for your children.
Sounds like she ran off a good husband and father. Those 4 girls need him in the household...
People are saying that she doesn’t “want” to work as if being a stay at home mom isn’t a job. It’s a privilege to come home to a cooked meal, clean house and all chores done. Also they have 4 kids so she’s saving them daycare expenses which can be gigantic for 4 kids. We need to acknowledge the hard work/ unpaid job which is being a stay at home mom. Many women dedicate themselves to their husband and kids only to be left struggling financially once they divorce because they have no work history or education.
Right lol! And it’s hella women (from the photos) that don’t see it this way. I think the judgement was fair, but I can see why she feel a way.
My exact thoughts and He left her at 4 mos pregnant with his last kid sheesh. Of course she’s pissed who wouldn’t be
Pardon me Judge, but more and more looking like Mr. Potato Head with the thick rims and pressed stash🤷
Get a job woman!!!
She was pissed lol
She should've got a JOB!
At first I agreed with what the judge said about the tax filer being the one who is supposed to get the money but as we all seen they weren't going solely on whom filed a tax return. My mother hasn't worked in about 4 to 5 years and hasn't filed and got a stimulants I know people in jail whom receive the stimulants (hadn't worked in years
Looks like they are in the same house. Lol
🤔 People who didn't work received stimulus.
Yes
Yes, he got hers and his. They filed using his bank accout
She’s Rasputia and he’s Norbit👀
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Wtf leeching out despite he left her ....woow status quo wtf
Wow. She wants it all. All of the benefits of being married, but doesn't want to be married. Even after the divorce he's still carrying or at least responsible for the entire house!!! They should just get remarried at least until the kids are of age.
Not to be funny it's like she's the oldest sister that looks after the other kids...she has some kind of chip on her shoulder thinking she don't want him but he can't reap the benefits of his work...nahh
I know all the women will instantly be on her side. I believe him. What we’ve heard tells it all. She said the divorce caught her off guard. But he was telling you he was unhappy and seeking counseling??!! I think she didn’t care didn’t think he would leave. I think now she just trying to stick it to him. Hell he paying all of your bills woman!!! Why would you care about stimulus money. GO GET A JOB!!!!!!
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She needs a job
She just being greedy
She can make 20k working anywhere smh
I get her point yet I get his. It would've been nice for him to give a little something yet this man paid for everything whilst she choose to be a stay at home mother. Girl that's a job in itself but the reward is your kids. Being a home maker comes with price honey. Next time stash something away for a rainy day, have a little business on the side, & never solely depend on a soul that won't possibly be in your life forever especially when you have kids💡
Girl start selling on ebay.
Girl go get a job....
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Stop having stay at home moms if you're upset that they stay at home lol. He agreed to all of that debt and bills when he agreed to a stay at home mom
He's paying for your house botch, you are greedy
At this point she need to get up off her butt get her a job so she can find her own taxes then she can claim two of them kids and he can claim to it and kids but I think it's unfair that he got all the money from them kids all that stim check money the right thing to do with benefited down the middle give her half the money and give him half the money but no he figures she's a stay-at-home mom she don't need no money he going to take all the money too ida divorce his damn ass too
Give the mother COVID-19 stumilus
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I say 50 50 should be awarded bc somebody had to be at home with the children or if mom worked the kids would have to be in a daycare. As a married couple, obviously they agreed that she'd be a stay at home mom and he would work. Dang!
He paid all her bills regardless let him keep that
@@Depressionmillennial I would say I'd agree if it want for the children. I mean, raising children isn't easy. Maybe people should start switching roles for a change and they'd see it's not easy either way!
She needs a job with that “man take care of me” bullshit as soon as they split she should’ve went job hunting
You are stuck with all of those bills, 4 kids, an ex-wife plus your own bills and you still find a way to go buy a motorcycle? You must be selling drugs or you are going to be penniless pretty soon.
People criticize SAHM, not realizing that the cost of daycare, commuting, car maintenance, cleaners, etc usually makes working outside the home not worth it, especially if there at 2 non school age kids.
Hence most wealthy people are likely to be SAHM .
People, ESPECIALLY Black people will shame the mother for being a SAHM, because they think the +$1k profit a year for the household from her working all day ,then coming home and doing the majority of the household and child rearing, while going 50/50 on bills with a Dusty makes sense.
No wonder we continue to keep the wealth gap between Blacks and non Blacks so open. Their men understand that unless the mother is making a great salary, their kids are better off and the household finances are better.
Fellas Just don't get married. Their is nothing to gain from it at all.
If you feel that way dont have kids either🤣🤣🤣
@@brewilliams9324 Tell the woman That. 🤡
@@Raheemy1987 Yup I agree🤣
@@brewilliams9324 I agree with his first comment, he can miss me with the second one! I've never gotten pregnant by myself!
@@queenushiriyah5924 Right it takes two. I feel like if people dont want to get married then dont have kids either because your always gonna be tied to that person regardless.
He asked for a divorce she gave him what he wanted but he can’t just UP and leave on things that were being jointly taken care of… that’s his fault. Some of that stimmy for the kids definitely should’ve went to her ESPECIALLY since she has them more than he does. She just couldn’t prove her case fully.
He pays all the bills in the home and doesn't live in the home anymore. She don't work so how is any of that stimulus hers? Even judge Mathis thought that made no sense so he judged the case accordingly. She better got get a job...haha
@@jaydendavis8751 he chose to leave. It was THEIR house he could’ve stayed but he didn’t. His fault.
I thought I heard her say that he gave her $1200 for herself (from the stimulus) but kept the monies for the kids. If the first payment was based on the 2019 taxes of which they were still married they should have split the stimulus for the kids. She shouldn't be allowed to have the entire stimulus for the kids because of 60/40 agreement. He is working and still paying for the house they live in. They could have worked this out among themselves. The decree sounds like he didn't even have to give her the money he already gave her.. Any received based on the date after they divorce he is entitled to. She gone find her a part time job quick & fast hunni.
Its not for 2020 it's for 2019 . He shouldn't get that money. This isn't right. He has gotten soooo much money off these kids. He shouldn't get that money. That's fucked up
It’s about taxes though. She doesn’t work
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