The HARSH TRUTH Of Why Men Are Walking Away From Dating
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Would You consider dating outside the west?
I have. I was in the American Army for 8 years. Dated a German, a Thai, a Japanese, married 2x to Latino women all disasters. Maybe it was me 😂
Stopped dating western women in 1997. Began looking in other countries. Married my traditional Russian wife in 2000. Almost 24 years happily married now.
Yes. HOWEVER, I have already tried with 2 different ladies. 1 did not want to leave her country. And the 2nd woman wanted me to stay in her country and live with their family. Neither young lady was "worth" staying in their country for. Both South America. So... I guess back to the drawing board.
At this point, it's the only option
Wouldn’t date a western woman seriously ever again., passport seems more my speed
As a 2x divorced man. I can say being alone and happy is very easy for a man. We're programmed to be alone, having a partner is a bonus, not a necessity.
Your dang right
I'm starting to relate to all these t!k toks about loving animals and excessively σbsϵssing with animals 😭😭😭
I can live like this forever. My birds, my foxes, my dogs, my cats, my reptiles and fish, and I want more!!
I can live like this forever. My birds, my foxes, my dogs, my cats, my reptiles and fish, and I want more.
Enough to fill a sɑnctυɑʀʏy once I get it set up. Money well spent 🥰🥰🥹
Twice divorced here as well. Glad to see the male species is seeing the light and won’t make the mistakes this old guy did.
No woman can replace the feeling of freedom when i put up the sail on my boat and sail away from the dock and humans
Ive always wanted to sail. Im not gjay but can I be your 1st mate ? 🤔
Amen brotha!
Sail around Antarctica for us! Livestream!
@@dbblues.9168 in my experience you don't become a first mate without experience lol.
They will also financially destroy you with endless shopping on silly junk and then turn around and blame you for not earning enough. Once you go your own way, you find yourself out of debt, able to afford your dreams, having financial security and stress free! They are not worth the cost. It is cheaper to rent and return the milk machine.
Got lower-middle class females out here, with a Body Count higher than the average American's Credit Score, genuinely angry because you won't buy them a Louis Vuitton handbag while working your 9-5 at Safeway 💀
No shorties
No fatties
No uglies
No dusties
No baggage kids
No druggies
No alcoholics
No arguments
No brokies
No bad attitudes
No clowns
No stretched out holes
No tattoos
No brokies
No high body counts
No feminist
Hey big guy you forgot to include "no biological males" 😘
Sounds much like the list I had:
Fit and active
Attractive (At least to me)
Good personality
Good sense of humor (Preferably a vulgar sense of humor to match my own)
My age, or up to 6 or 7 years younger (I was 25-26 at the time).
Self sufficient
Confident
No vices
No 304s
No kids from other guys
Wanted kids (Though this I would have bent on)
I'm a long time metal-head, so didn't really care about tattoos/piercings...within reason, of course.
That leaves about less than 1%.
Honestly at this point I just want someone who:
Doesn't cheat.
Has no kids.
Is nice to me.
Has similar hobbies and interests to me.
I'm about a 5 looks wise.
I'll take a 3 with a positive attitude who meets the above, very small criteria.
Who wants a 7-10 who is a psycho narcissist and a 304?
Wo-man, Woe-man, Whoooooaaaa, man!
These women aren’t worth the trouble, video games, cooking, working out and eating out by yourself is a better option than dealing with a nagging narcissist with too much baggage and brings up too much drama
When all you have to offer is that warm spot, and people are selling that nowadays. Why would we risk our shit???
Keep all of your money and sanity fellas. STAY SINGLE!
That Lamborghini skit, if real, it is the biggest red pill.
That is 100 percent how it works with modern woman…😅
Or lie their ass off about being abused. And the judge buys it hook line and sinker.
I broke up after 4 years of relation 3 months ago, it was rough, but when i look back, i was spending all my energy and money to make her feel good, she was covered with affection and support, but i hadnt even 10% of what she got from me in return.
Your channel helps me to think about myself first, time and energy spent on yourselves, brothers, will never be a waste ! wish you the best, be ambitious, be happy with yourselves
You're so much better without that brother.
I've been through similar and still friends with my ex.
Everytime I think maybe she's changing, she says something that reminds me I will never be valued by her in a relationship.
I would just exist to help pay bills and make her not feel lonely.
That isn't love
Women are in competition with each other. As men, we are in competition with ourselves. We are not the same.
A trend I'm seeing in modern women is that they get easily bored with men, but are actually boring people themselves.
When you try to converse with most of them, they put in so little effort, expecting all the topics, conversation starters, anecdotes and stories to come from you, and the second you go quiet and hope that they'll add something, you're met with either petulant silence, a rant about themselves or negative bitching about people.
Nothing of value.
Being alone is better.
Just Imagine that.. The Girl who got ghosted.. She met a guy who left his ex because she was soo terrible. To meet her, tand ended up running back to his terrible ex. Speaks VOLUMES about her. And Ironically, she's too dumb to understand that, Or she wouldn't have put such an embarrassing and revealing thing about herself online for the world to see.
she is my girl he said... nah she is everyones girl, mostly for 1 night tho.
Given the hostile and competitive nature of modern independent women, I think that Sigmund Freud had a great observation regarding eggplant envy.
I notice a lot of feminists will stereotype men as being obsessed with their penis size. However, the only ones I ever hear obsessing over penis size are women.
modern vvom3n:
"I lie, cheat and use! but I hate being lied to, cheated on or used!"
Double standards or none at all.
I'm so glad I'll never have to worry about dating again. What seemed a curse or punishment is in retrospect a blessing.
Don't waste money dating. If the other person is worth anything, it will not cost a cent to be with them.
3:20
Can't take rejection.
Labia Lampreys
I have 2 Euros for a cheese sammich or a bint widget .... Cheese sammich for the win. that is ALL the money that I am looking to invest. not a farthing more.
women like posting their own Ls
Any attention is still attention.
Totally agree intimidation is not a factor turn off is the biggest factor men are turned off by masculine women
In response to the thumbnail..We aren't scared..we're terrified of being labeled something we aren't
And/or being sent to the clink based on their lies.
5 generations. Not 2, 5.
The silent generation, The Boomers, Gen X, Millennials and Gen Z.
My Grand mother was Silent Generation and she, and all her friends were f ennists.
Almost every silent gen I've ever seen any where is or was an F ennist.
He let that first girl down very nicely, and she can't stand it. Would she rather him ghost her?!!!
She ain't awesome
Just 2 generations?!!!! More like working on at least the 4th generation.
Oh I'm not afraid, I've been rejected thousands of times. Now that's it's become painfully clear that I'm not attractive enough I don't bother anymore
I've for the most part have given up on dating in this country. When a guy can have a woman walk up to them and call them a creep for no ryhme or reason. I've even had a super obese woman with three chins turn her nose up at me and react like I'm below her after it's pretty much like peace out I'm done. Yet I can talk to foreign women and they all say I'm handsome and good looking, it's no wonder men have said peace out we're going where we are appreciated.
easy test...
if you ask how many IG followers she has and the answer is anything other that "i don't know" or "i don't care" > that's the last date
Respect for recording despite feeling under the weather! 💪🏼
It's an AI voice - feed it a script and it reads FOR you. You can adjust AIs tone, cadence, even make it "stumble" over words to sound more realistic.
It sounded nasal-y, which makes me worry! I figured it was AI, but this video made me doubt that.@theelder4797
Mtgow is the safest path
@3:19 Hey she asked for it, and the universe provided, And she's still complaining. Modern Women! 😭🤣🤣
I simply accepted it.
I don’t have good attributes so (with ntr/cheating sh-t) I learned that even if I got in a relationship or married I’ll get cheated on or cucked either way… also me being dumb, I have high standards because I am stupid and delusional, funny thing is that I am ugly asf, so it’s even dumber.
Imma just focus on my family, friends, studies and hobbies.
I guess my destiny is staying single and virgin.
Never give up guys👍👍
Fug that. Become the man they want but will never have.
Ouch, body count equaling body weight ouch, ouch ouch
We're not afraid to approach women. We're too smart to approach women. You wanted to be let alone, didn't you?
outside is only option
Only Jesus saves from hell. All have sinned (Romans 3:23 KJV). The Lord Jesus Christ died for our sins, was buried and rose again the third day (1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV). Jesus shed His blood for our sins (Ephesians 1:7 KJV). Water baptism DOESN'T save us (1 Corinthians 1:17 KJV). We are saved by grace through faith, not our works (Ephesians 2:8-9 KJV).
Jesus is the biggest lie of all
@@luisvargas1176 True that.
You Christians take the word sin out of context so many times, do y'all even know the definition.😂
Yaaay just what we need more old lame human ideology!
God Bless.
OSAS is the gospel '
Lordshipsalvation is a lie.
Why meet trouble half way.
4:30 she does a reaction video as if she hasn't done this and worse.
Why are you angry ladies ? Men and women are equal so you can make the first step to approch men and pay the bill fo date , buy him some gifts, beleive me he will not refuse free services as you do always.
Wtf
7:02
Looks Fake
If it is the "boyfriend" is a decent actor. Most likely fake but not far from reality.
Guys really, so many complaining about women who take all their money. With, maybe some RARE exceptions, gone are the days where women are content sitting at home, in an apron being a maid with "benefits". So much resistance to career women and I don't understand why. What's so bad about a woman who makes her own money and brings it to the relationship...as long as she actually brings it to the relationship and helps with bills and expenses and whatnot?
It seems like a lot of guys "want" a traditional woman, until they get in to that situation where they ARE paying for everything, and realize, well, "this kind of sucks". Part of it is keeping her happy and entertained while you're at work, and that's going to come at a cost. It seems that many women who think they want that traditional lifestyle get in to it and realize, "wholly sh!t, this is boring", especially if her husband has to work long hours to support her. Boredom breeds unhappiness, and we all know where unhappiness leads to.
"Toxic" feminism teaches that masculinity is toxic and evil, but you ask MOST woman, even feminist women, not the man-hating kind, and they will tell you they want their men to be strong and masculine.
Gold-diggers aside, because NOTHING is ever enough to make them happy, there seems to be a huge disconnect these days between what is desired and what is actually wanted. If the traditional man isn't ultimately happy with the traditional woman and the traditional woman is unhappy in her role, what is the solution?
Solution is to fly to Philippines and get real wife.
Shuddap Toots
We're here to tell you, we don't care, we just don't care...
How and why did you cut the intro in half 🫤
Why even include it if it's only a few seconds
He has like 3 different versions.
With all of my paychecks going into my account, and all my bills being paid… with some excess. I am just fine. Stay within my means and just relax some.
I had a friend who got married to a crazy woman. He ignored her huge red flags. It fell apart fast. After the break up on multiple occasions he would just be sitting at home and the cops would stop by and arrest him because she would claim they had been together earlier and he had beat her. Every claim would finally be determined as false but it took 10 years for a judge to finally tell her "if you ever come back into my court with a false allegation you will be the one going to jail. "10 years of this. Turned out she was a gold digger who had done this to multiple men over 4 states. She specifically targeted business owners to get everything they owned. These guys would come to each other's defense. Seeing that made it easy to never want anything to do with a woman.
A decade for a final warning?
Nope, no privilege there.
3:20
Can't take rejection.
Amazing how it’s always the man’s issues. Never their issue.
Seems like a very nice civilize message to me.
I remember the last time I received a call like that. I said “Ok girl…have a good one” and went back to playing Unreal Tournament. Was nothing to get upset over.
This is why I think women have a more difficult time being alone than men.
Too emotional. Still needs to put personal business out in public for fake friends and approval instead of just moving on.
Am I the only one who thinks the "boyfriend" sounds AI?
The older I get, the more I understand men of the past who had absolutely no tolerance, no patience and no mercy.
Stern hand or nothing. I get it. I truly get it. I even think that they weren't harsh enough.
What do you get today from modern western women?
And The Answer is:
Toddlers in grown women bodies..
#SGE #Drizzle Drizzle 😎
Men don't want drama. Modern women are all drama. When you go your own way you do not bring drama with you.
Only consequences of you're own action's.
Solitude is a bless.
Because its when you are alone you really Free.
First 🥇😏 what up Kings 😏😎
We measure our happiness in the things we due. Not emotional dependency on others.
If a man tells a woman that she is intimidating, it is a polite way to tell her that she is not worth the time, trouble or effort.
It's another way of telling them they have a lot of unresolved childhood issues and are to much drama to waste time on.
My mum got worried I will not find a woman to marry. So she asks her friend if she knows anyone suitable. So i got a number. First question: what do you work? I tell her I do some training for my next job and I am on a 1k basis rn. She dumps me instantly. Not knowing my face, nor my traits, nothing. Changing your line of work is a crime apparently
Another red flag that will tell men alot about the person she's hiding while trying to hook you. Can she sit through an entire movie without comment til the end? Choose a long one!😊
The Godfather trilogy and the Lord Of The Rings trilogy (extended edition) are long enough for that test, lol.
@@MLJ7956 😂 I was about to say LOTR extended.
Women never watch movies. They all talk first and ask questions in the middle of exposition dumps.
Men are scarred from lots and lots of rejection.
Scars heal. Rejection is protection and will make you stronger in the long run. The good ones are out there if you can avoid those who are like that first woman!
Scared? No just fed up and disgusted.Drizzle Drizzle 😂
Women don't care about money as long as you have it or can get it. Once the find a more shiny penny they are gone.
The question in the thumbnail is easy- lack of a 304, consistently ruining our lives. 😊
One of these highest quality women I know has over 10k followers. That said, she's a conservative Podcaster and she condemns feminism.
I relocated to NY in 2012 and couldn't get a date. Now thanks to this channel I know what's wrong. I'm just 5'8", mixed, x-rey tech and translator but not rich. To make matters worse around here everybody is Caucasian and racist. Now I don't bother to even talk to these modern western women. But I've gotten along with foreigners from other areas. If I find a woman to marry among them great. If not I'm becoming a passport bro!😇
X-RAY...X-RAY
@@capncrush6729 Oops! Blooper!🤣
I have to ask, is the cover sheet for this video intentional for poetic reasons or is it a typo? "Why are men scarred..." Men are scarred. We have lots of scars now from dealing with crazy women. We are still, not scared of them.
A cruel rejection should only be for people who don't know how to take no for an answer. Nowadays, women can say no just for the sake of boosting their ego
I'm convince that modern have lost it
I'm sorry, but who leaves a voicemail that goddamn long? 😂 Geez. Yeah, I have to agree, that was pretty wild. He would have been better off just leaving her and not saying anything, since that's what most women do anyway.
He probably picked up hardcore F-ist vibes and was afraid she might throw accusations at him if he ghosted, just out of spite. She went and made a shaming video out of his VERY polite let down, imagine her ANGRY and having the law on her side. Now he has proof nothing bad was done, which doesn't offer 100% protection in these dark times, but it's better than nothing.
I love the voicemail let down. I'm yeah... I've decided that based on my experience with you I'm going back to my ex who's really not great, but she's way better than you. Lol