Panic attacks happen in children all the time. It's okay Destiny! Calm your nerves. Coaches, y'all don't make it any better by yelling at her for the problem. Yes, she can be a liability but now you see it, let her mother know this needs to be checked out.
Panic attacks are normal but it should be tooken serious because it can lead to a heart attack .. Again THERES nothing to treat a panic attack your suppose to help the person calm down .. Relax and staying calm and breathing is the cure .. You got to stay calm tho, and don’t let your blood pressure get high
they need to have someone who’s trained in mental health psychology or something along those lines as a coach because the way Destiny has been being handled is not even remotely acceptable.
Destiny may have undiagnosed allergies. You guys practice a lot outside where there are trees, grass, weeds, pollen. She could be allergic to any one of those things. Maybe that's why she felt a tightening in her chest. She should see an allergist.
yeah its crazy how they don't take into consideration that since they don't have a practice facility amd they're outside 24/7 that this stuff could happen
@@lovelywilson2112 exactly, this my first time watching and will be my last. The unprofessional laughing and just being down right insensitive and mean is just ugly ass hell
How is it ok for grown women, to belittle a child for having anxiety attacks. Then for the coach in the grey to not comfort her but instead roll her eyes and throw her hands up. As if to say, your problems don’t matter and your over-reacting. And please don’t say that this is tough love. Because, there is a major difference between tough love and pure bullying. These coaches were antagonizing and attacking her for taking time out for herself to get her thoughts and feelings together. Parents, if your children are on this team, you either need have a conversation with these coaches and get to the bottom of things or take them off the team. Some of them are really mean and nasty towards these babies. News flash ladies it’s a way of teaching children without belittling them. It’s called patience, compassion, and encouragement.
the child is having panic and anxiety attacks two days in a row. I would not have my child there. its the environment the coaches are the stressors. causing the attacks.
exactly! telling that girl that she’s giving herself panic attacks? This is why our community needs better education about mental health bc so many of us have been taught that it’s not real like? Destiny is clearly struggling mentally and they’re just yelling at her gaslighting her about her conditions. And we all know doctors don’t do a lot for black people so just bc she does not have a pump doesn’t really mean she doesn’t have asthma. They really need to learn how to talk to these girls better.
It just makes me feel weird out by them yelling and blaming about anxiety attacks and what not. They have no idea what those are like and as a dance teacher myself, when I see one of my students not themselves acting “different” I set them aside and talk to them . I don’t yell or blame them for what they are going through because I also deal with depression and anxiety and making it worst is being yelled at and getting in trouble smh
I agree!! Anxiety can take some much toll on a person! You would think they would take it much seriously. I hate how the coaches “conversations” are more like gossiping and laughing like this isn’t funny.
I can’t believe the coaches act the way they do towards the children. This is not how you coach and mentor younger kids. That baby could have an undiagnosed health issue and your response is to yell and curse at her?! At least she’s trying and not giving up. This is how anxiety/depression and other mental health issues begin because we ignore it and demean them for it. I hope the coaches read the comments and understand where we’re all coming from.
One thing that they seem to be forgetting " WE ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF A PANDEMIC " EVERYONE LIFE HAS CHANGED. It's difficult for everyone. We do NOT know what these children are dealing with AT HOME OR AT SCHOOL. YOU HAVE ASTHMA BUT YOUR ARE NOT A DOCTOR. EVERYONE'S SYMPTOMS ARE DIFFERENT. I hope this young lady does not have a serious health issue. Ohhhh weee. We have to do better. Maybe she does not know how to control her breathing 🤔. This young lady could have any type of underlying conditions that have not been detected/diagnosed.
@@TumbleTyme757 I was thinking the same thing but didn’t want to say it. I still remember that video where one of the girls collapsed and fainted. Most likely from being overheated. Then the next video after that you have the coaches gossiping about how the kid fainted and acted all nonchalant about the issue. People mentioned how that behavior was unacceptable then.
Anxiety is real! The way that the coaches are laughing in their faces and talking towards them with no respect could literally set one of them off the edge. I honestly feel that there are better methods than what jus cheer is using. Xclusive cheer and charlotte ultimate cheer doesn’t use any of these tactics and they are both pretty good teams.
@@lindsthomas9590 same, their channel used to be something I looked forward to coming to watch every single day. But these videos just make me sick now
Yessss, Y since the other coaches join they do this, all the other seasons those girls were never done this way .. BUT I COULD BE WRONG!! POOR YOUNG LADIES😣
All illnesses DO NOT look alike within every person. The “coaches” need to be held accountable for their behaviors Y’all get off on trying to intimidate them The number of so called “coaches” increased but coaching and professionalism went out the door I hope a lot of these girls find a different team that treats their girls with respect
Agreed! I was in shocked about their behavior. Yelling at her because she’s having anxiety or panic attack. Even if it’s not, she could have bronchitis and they just insensitive af
@@lovelywilson2112 like these jobs.wonder why people quitting, nor applying. Same with them,if the whole team or just half of then quit,and ratings drop I guarantee they will change they tone
When I first started watching these cheers! I love the way they were training them and understood why they pushed them but lately these children have been cursed at, laughed at, mocked for having anxiety attacks in which I suffer with sometimes and preached too more than I preach. It’s supposed to be fun not boot camp. I’m thankful the coach being more merciful and trying to help the girls. Where are their mother’s?? Why are they allowing their children to be treated like this! 😭 😭
@@Womanofmanythings I broke down in tears watching those babies crying Especially the anxiety and then she threatened her and asked her did she want her to call her mother. Cause apparently the mom curses at her too. I’m gonna stop watching also
These videos are back logged, this video was recorded two months ago so parents are only seeing it now. A couple have left since this was recorded but honestly it’s unacceptable
Instead of yelling at these ladies about having anxiety or panic attacks and blaming them, you could take some time during practice (even just 5 minutes) and have them lay down, turn on meditation music and allow them to take slow deep breaths. They don’t know what it is due to the fact that they are young and probably just learning what stress is. I suffered bad from anxiety attacks on the daily and just now started truly meditating and I’m 26. Stop being so harsh and “tough” and maybe listen and help them or look for outside help to step in.
@@Abby-rp1yn actually love I have, cheered many years, danced many years and helped coach so your comment is invalid and unnecessary. Have a blessed day 😌
as someone who has diagnosed anxiety and do suffer with anxiety attacks the way the coach was yelling at destiny and telling her that she is causing it on her own is not okay and made me quite upset. like let’s do better and be better. we only get a glimpse of the practices, but that was hard for me to swallow let alone how destiny felt 😭😭 #blackmentalhealthmatters
Having an panic or anxiety attack isn't treated unless you actively one when there's a spike in your blood pressure so it will be shown on your physical... and most person doesn't know when they are having one
It’s wrong that the coaches laugh at the girls when they get something wrong. Like y’all never mess up. Don’t y’all think that makes the girls feel bad and lowers their confidence? It’s not funny
Right! Like I get it, it’s frustrating seeing them messing up over and over but laughing and mocking isn’t cool. I’m a dance teacher and I would never laugh at my students no matter how bad they did. I’ll get mad yes, I might yell yes but making them feel down doesn’t matter the age these kids are looking up to them and if they go home to their parents saying my coach laughed at me bc I wasn’t getting the steps right or whatever like smh
Addressing someone’s mental problems like anxiety and panic attacks is not babying anyone. This mentality disgusts me. The same thing was said to my close friend and he killed himself not even a week after. Addressing someone’s mental health in no way is going out of our you way. Being a complete jerk is not building that “sisterhood” that you wanna build period.
I REALLY HOPE THE COACHES SEE THESE COMMENTS! If you want a good team the attitudes from the adults have to change. If y’all feel like they aren’t listening or improving then move on, they’re going to continue cheering with or without you!
I was a Fan of this squad but after seeing how these coaches handle these girls I was APPALLED. She had no right to curse at that girl.. she might not have asthma but don't minimize her personal feeling. How do you think placing a kid in a corner is a teaching moment? You are instilling fear and the impression that failure is not an option in those girls. I REALLY wanted to HEAR ALL the sideline coaches ( the MOTHER REALLY RUNS THE SHOW) recite the poem WORD for WORD. #SPIRITLESS #NOSIGNOFSISTERHOOD
yessss because ive been having asthma and anxiety attacks all the time recently but am not diagnosed and it’s not a good feeling when no one believes you and it really makes things worse
As someone who has anxiety and is black, the reaction from the coaches makes me uncomfortable and brings back trauma from my parents... Mental illness in children and specifically black children often goes untreated because their old heads say “you’re causing this” “you’re making yourself crazy” and then the coaches are laughing at them and yelling at them, like you do realize that “tough love” is not working? If it worked they would’ve done better..
I don’t know how to feel about this video the coaches were very disrespectful when Jeffry messed up the coaches started laughing n she started crying she probably felt like y’all was laughing at her this video was just not it at all if u gone laugh n whisper do it in private cause y’all probably hurt all them girls feelings and yea I don’t know much cause I’m not there but I only see what y’all put up here n that was y’all bullying them girls n it’s not tough love what coach t was doin pushin them girls to know it n helpin them calms down when they cried is tough love not laughing n cussin n yellin at them cause they had a panic attack I always loved watching y’all but this right here was not it
I never rlly watch the sideline sometimes the competitive team but this is by far the most sickening thing I’ve viewed on the channel coaches laughing it defeats the girls I wouldn’t think twice about leaving😭 humiliation at it’s finest
Then she tells them to recite a poem called Don’t Quit trying to manipulate them in not quitting!! If I was their momma, I would take them off that team and give them a “ speech” Mistreating someone else’s child is not cool! Then have the nerves to pray sometimes! Nahhh. Jesus ain’t in that!
I am hard on my girls…like really hard but this is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!! Destiny you deserve better. I can’t believe someone over a group of girls would act like this.
sitting here yelling at her when she’s trying to catch a breath is extremely too much. it’s not even about babying somebody, look at the way y’all are talking to half of them then try to talk to them calmly like it’s ok…
Exactly they are trying to be "hard" and it's not working because the cheerleading isn't getting better and they are causing stress on the poor girl so what exactly is the tough coaching doing
The coaches look like mean girls, they’re always standing in the corner snickering and whispering about the young ladies… We rarely see much coaching now.
exactly like what is their problem? cussing at destiny for having a panic attack & having problems breathing really pissed me off. and the snickering and laughing at the girls that’s so belittling and disrespectful.
The coaches are trash this season. They need to take some courses on how to coach. Their coaching style isn’t effective at all, more so counterproductive. They are not going to see results with what they are doing now.
I used to hate the way they yelled at dasia but she kept coming back so I thought, maybe we just don’t see everything and it was tough love. Now I see they are really some bullies this season. If you don’t have the patience to work with kids…don’t work with kids. I understand instilling discipline and leadership, but this method is not the way. If that’s how you learned, good for you but I feel like this is a generational curse that needs to be broken. This is almost like some slave and overseer type of stuff.
Right I remember coach t was like everybody hush somebody has stinky breath like girl them nasty nails you probably have stains all in your panties can barely wipe and you have the nerve to talk about hygiene
Wow…. the coaches response to the young lady not knowing if she has asthma or suffer from anxiety is sickening. I cheered for years and wasn’t diagnosed with asthma till I was 13 I feel bad for her.
Super proud of harmony ! She’s getting comfortable with the moves and her personality is coming out . We just need Phebe to get it together. SN: coaches , don’t laugh at them when the head coach is drilling them , it’s a lack of maturity 🤷🏽♀️and it’s discouraging to them as a whole
Let's humiliate the children by putting them in the corner for not knowing an entire poem THAT YOU HAD TO LOOK AT YOUR PHONE TO KNOW....YOU ARE THE COACH AND DON'T KNOW IT!!!! THE. HYPOCRISY. LORD.
Yes, I was thinking the same thing. They are getting mad at the kids for not knowing but she did not know it fully herself. They should all have print outs and bring them to practice and practice together
@@itssyanni03014 really? Cuz if you read through the comments, mostly everyone else agrees with me. So you can go somewhere , you clearly have no class (and apparently cannot read 🤷♀️).
This video is a prime example of why people who are working with children need proper training. The way y’all talk to these kids is so sad I’m so disappointed in the way y’all are treating them this season.
Having coaches laugh at you while you are trying to improve would make anyone insecure. If the goal is to build up these girls then that needs to stop😕
I dont know if i enjoyed this video or not. I had mixed emotions through out. I am with everybody else, coaches should not be giggling, smirking or making comments at these girls. I had a strict coach who made us work hard, but she did not smirk or laugh at us. Some of these ladies are actually trying and practicing. Phebe is making progress slowly but I see it in the moves and cheers. She just need to work on not being stiff and voice the cheers loud. Harmoney is showing progress in her cheers too.
How our y’all going to yell at that girl about breathing things can happen over time it doesn’t have to happen when she about ti get checked out at the doctor… if one day she passes out what is y’all gone do …
@@brooklynqueen4767 yep! And then blame the kid for not coming to the coaches about her health. The mind games they play on these children is starting to get ridiculous.
Awe this one made me actually shed tears. Especially with the baby with the missing tooth & braids she looks so scared of ya'll. Scared to do or say something wrong. At this point I feel certain people are being picked on by the coaches. If this is what the coaches do at Diva school no wonder she is talking suicide. I can't imagine having to worry about kids picking at you but your coaches too whew. I've had Diva come & tell me the coach is picking and although we addressed it, I thought she may be over telling the story. But after watching a couple of cheer channels I feel sad for not believing her. Smh. These are kids/ young ladies. They're not getting ready for the army. I understand being hard but there is a level and I feel the level is being over stepped & becoming bullying. It's sad... Not to bring in race but Diva had a white coach last yr and absolutely was obsessed with cheer always has been. Now she has a black coach and she comes home looking beat down and ready to quit. Like we pay for this, We aren't paying to have our kids broken goodness. Ya'll lasts seasons I watched Ya'll were tough, but had more compassion. I'm not seeing it this season. Don't let the thought of trophies etc bring yall to doing this...
Definitely wasn't bullying. They're not there to baby or coddle them. They're not going to keep telling them 5,6,7,8 times to do something they know their suppose to do. You get tired of repeating yourself when they know what's expected of them. They're there to learn and execute. This is their job! They're told to go home and practice. The ones who want it, do just that.
I’m sorry y’all wild as hell and owe her an apology. Y’all yelling at her for having a panic attack, anxiety! Are you serious? If she’s saying her chest tighting, she’s clearly probably having ANXIETY! Y’all so wrong for the behavior y’all exhibited
"if you ain't got no pump you ain't got asthma" that was absolutely ridiculous. threatening to call her mama so she can cuss her out, one of these days they gonna cuss yall out. ain't nobody gotta play these abusive mind games having their child be ridiculed and scorned for the world to see in the middle of a potential mental/physical health crisis.
I said something similar to what you said, and the talking about certain girls is ridiculous. Make you wonder the true reason she was fired from her old cheer job
when she said that, that absolutely floored me. i have asthma, but it’s not too bad to the point where i need a pump. you can tell that it’s just nonsense that they’re trying to scare these girls with at this point
How anyone can support this verbal abuse of a child is beyond me. I won't be watching anymore. All they do is stand around and make fun of these children. You should be building them up, not destroying their self esteem.
@YooitsJess I love watching the competition squad! Their coaches are such a breath of fresh air from these ones, and they actually know how to mentor, coach, and build their girls up and make them better! I looooove watching the progress they make!
Out of ALL the other cheer teams on this channels this by FAR is the WORST one for encouragement and motivation these coaches are immature, and clearly use there power of being coaches to their advantage to treat these young beautiful black girls like how they were probably treated as kids. To belittle a young women for a situation she’s going through is disgusting and these coaches really need to reevaluate the way they coaching AND treating these kids because it’s disgusting and heartbreaking to watch
The power tripping coaches at it again. In what right, sound mind do any of these girls parents watch these videos and say, "This is is great for my daughter and a good opportunity!". This is just insane at this point. The emotional abuse that is going on in this teams videos is shocking. At first I thought it was just cultural differences, I am on the west coast and have been involved in many cheer programs for many years, but at this point I see that it is not anything cultural or geographical. Are these coaches proud of themselves at the end of the day? Being that most seem like full of narcissism I am sure they are but they shouldn't be. They belittle babies, teens that will become the future of our world and think it's fun to break them not build them. I have been in hard cheer practices where we have been told off and made to work but it looked nothing like this constant berating they do to these children. YOU ARE NOT BUILDING STRONG ATHLETES, YOU ARE BUILDING SCARED GIRLS AFRAID TO STAND UP TO SCREAMING ADULTS! This makes me so sad. I just keep hoping it will get better but it just gets worse, these coaches will not be happy because they are obviously not happy within themselves. Girls go find a team that will do you better, they exist!
You hit the nail on the head. If I saw these posts and my daughter was on this team, she’s be yanked out immediately and SOMEBODY is getting cussed out 😌
Usually I’m all for Jus Cheer but this episode made me sad. Regardless of if you believe she has a condition or not, she believes it and I’m sure it’s scary for her without having someone that she trusts make her feel like she’s tripping. Embarrassing her on camera is not the move. Her health shouldn’t have been discussed where everybody could hear it.
Destiny may have something more going on. Because I have a server breathing problem, and now I'm 29 can't even talk without giving out of breathing. Maybe something more going on with her. Her mom needs to take her back to the doctor and explain what's going
Then for her to say let me call your mom cause I know she would cuss you out. Then you wonder why black girls don’t have their mothers to look up to and be supportive in them #break the curse in belittling our children and think it’s ok #mentalhealthblackcommunity
Why is she yelling at her about her not knowing if she has asthma or not … wtf is her problem , also asthma can come after so whatever she got going on she need to check it because there is no reason you should be yelling at someone for not knowing if they have something …
Aww Destiny *sends virtual hug* anxiety attacks are no fun. I know anxiety isn’t something that just goes away, I hope you’re doing better managing it.🤗
the coaches really make me mad and i used to love watching the girls but unfortunately the coaches make it so hard for me to watch especially this new coach 😒
i wish someone would tell me that "I'm causing this" if I had anxiety or panic attacks. if she does have anxiety attacks girl I would've gone off on that coach cuz thts plain disrespect for someone who deals with anxiety. even if u take medication, it doesn't make anxiety attacks go away completely, it helps it occur less often so that means u would still get anxiety attacks. i know dis cuz I have anxiety disorder myself
Educate yourself 🤔 What are the DSM-5 criteria for diagnosis of panic disorder? Palpitations, pounding heart, or accelerated heart rate. Sweating. Trembling or shaking. Shortness of breath or feeling of smothering. Feelings of choking. Chest pain or discomfort. Nausea or abdominal distress. Feeling dizzy, unsteady, lightheaded, or faint.
They really should be ashamed of dismissing what the child was going through. Cussing her out and saying it is her fault for what she is going through is very inhumane. Having health problems and not understand why it’s happening is very scary. Especially for a you g child who is still depending on adults for every day living. Terrible on the coaches with this one. Show some compassion. Just because YOU have Asthma doesn’t mean the next does and your symptoms of the condition might not be the same for everyone. Do better .
why they rude? She's probably just have anxiety 😕.. I got anxiety and with black parents it doesn't exist, or depression you can't be depressed you cant be sad... what does age gotta do with controlling your breathing
i used to cheer in middle school & now i dance for my high school. i had a panic attack once and you CANNOT cause a panic attacks. panic attacks can be caused by stress and other things . that was ignorant .
The coach daughter just made me mad she is a big fat bully, all she do is pick on people health problems. Y’all need to do better. It’s honestly a mess.
If she is having a anxiety attacks she needs to see a specialist to help get it under control. I don’t think the coaches she be so hard on her for that. Being hard on the girls is one thing but this was not necessary.
This Coach is rude you don’t have to curse at the child they need to get rid of her she has no respect she could have allergies y’all got them practicing outside it’s hot trees blowing pollen dirt and they all breathing this stuff in
As someone with panic attacks and it taken over my life it’s hard to manage these attacks sometimes it takes years and years to be able to know how to control it. People like y’all who just be like it’s you, it’s your mind, just stop. Panic attacks come at any time we can’t control it what we can do is try to overcome it. I’m 23 I can say after years and years my panic attacks are getting better but it’s not 100% better. Overall I’m just saying it’s not something easy when you are literally battling with yourself.
@@qveenora3 it’s hard sometimes especially when you have people yelling at you saying it’s your fault that you cause your panic attacks, many people don’t know how to manage it but eventually you’ll be able to manage it on your own, if it’s a support dog, stress ball, etc. it takes time and patience is key.
they need to have someone who’s trained in mental health psychology or something along those lines as a coach because the way everything has unfolded this season so far is not acceptable
I think instead of making them stand in the corner give them the poem on paper and have them read it over and over again... Seeing the words is better with memorizing the words and poem...
How immature do you have to be to laugh in their faces when you see them mess up. Cursing and yelling at someone have an anxiety attack is also not gonna fix anything. Like do better…
NAH!! The DISRESPECT. Coaches, do better. She's obviously having a panic attack and y'all yelling at her doesn't do anything but make her cry. Pisses me off frfr!!!
I had a tough coach like this when I started cheering . I remember we would get yelled at and run more than we practiced some days. I’ve been watching for a while and I think this may be a bit more overboard than I experienced. If these girls cannot come and talk to y’all about their issues they may be having, they won’t feel like they can talk to you at all. They get nervous, y’all yell. They feel sick or struggle, y’all give them sass and cover it with a bit of “encouragement” . But you expect these young ladies to perform 110% each practice. I understand y’all want them to do well, but this isn’t the military. There needs to be a balance of fun, discipline and structure. There needs to be time for them to wind down and know y’all are truly there for them. I could go on and on but y’all need to do better. Especially if you want to continue having girls come and try out. Atp if they don’t fit what ur looking for, choose different girls. Don’t make these girls uncomfortable or scared of y’all for the sake of winning. Cause that’s what it looks like from the outside.
It hurts me to see her yelled at for having anxiety and undiagnosed breathing problems bc I UNDERSTAND! It’s so upsetting to see this. I just feel bad. I was treated like this and it creates mental issues🤦🏽♀️
just like you can develop many other medical issues later on in life , you can also develop asthma and anxiety. it is not uncommon. but yes she does need to see a doctor before something bad happen
The fact that the coaches not all but most are laughing at them upsets me that will discourage them young woman to see the ones they look up to laughing at them
Don’t none of y’all need to be coaches for young girls. Y’all are mean and nasty for no reason. Coaching is calling out when things are wrong and offering solutions, yall stop at calling out the problems but offer no solutions to the problems. It’s infuriating to watch.
@YooitsJess agreed. Coach Trina has always been more sensible and sensitive to the girl’s needs. I may not have agreed with her stating that Destiny doesn’t have asthma because her symptoms are different than hers but at least she tried to calm her down and got her to control her breathing before the problem got worse.
The coaches sit down, eat in front of them, and then yell at these girls bc of how they feel/health (whether that being mental, physical or emotional) and “diagnose” them when they’re not professionally trained in the medical field… like what?
Will probably be my last time watching until change starts to happen, I can’t continue supporting these videos when the girls are being verbally and emotionally abused
There’s tough love, having high expectations, and pushing the girls and then there’s verbal and emotional abuse. What I’ve been seeing in some of these videos, especially with the young lady with anxiety or asthma, and the threats is certainly abusive in nature. Do better Coaches because you have beautiful black young ladies under your care and direction that deserve better. There is enough wrong-doing in the world that they’ll have to face without facing it in an extracurricular activity that is supposed to be fun, yes hard work, but also fun.
Ma’am one video you’re yelling “I want y’all to come back limping and hurting” and the next you’re praising a cheerleader for walking “normal”. I’m confused lol
This isn’t the first time they have contradicted themselves. They did this when the girls were cheering on Harmony during conditioning. The girls were genuinely rooting for her and cheering her on even after they finished their conditioning first. The Coaches got on to them about that and told them to worry about what they needed to do. Then in a later video they’re being screamed at and told they aren’t team players because they weren’t helping out their struggling teammates learn the cheers. Makes no sense.
The emotional abuse being shown in the latest videos is honestly starting to get sad. No way the adults should be shaming these younger kids, I’m honestly starting to think that they get satisfaction out of making the girls cry and have panic attacks, like why are you laughing at them in their faces? Not even a bit of professional
Whew! Coach Tya once again “Not Here For Weak Individuals”…… Meanwhile, for any sports aren’t they supposed to have a pe exam following their health report to the coaches?!?! Laila response is awesome 👏
cadenceeee u got this princess , frustration is needed to get better CRY IT OUT you know these words , just slow down if u have to so you won't continue to stumble . LAILA NEEEEDS TO BE A LEADER ASAP!!
@@kadejamccutchin5627 ma'am im not about to argue with you , i said what i said... i personally think Laila should be a leader , you rolling your eyes for what?
Boyyyyyy this episode was triggering. While these “coaches” think they understand about anxiety/panic/ asthma whatever. YOU TREAT EVERY CASE AS ITS SERIOUS !!!!! Don’t you dare minimize that girl whether she’s “faking” it or not. This shit is ridiculous
why are the coaches sitting there laughing at them? .. that could makes the girls feel so embarrassed and humiliated because y’all sitting there laugh at them for making a mistake and plus they’re on camera too. HELP them not laugh at them, that’s so disrespectful and makes y’all look so childish.
They are doing way too much, what do they need to know a poem for…? Just dumb stuff, spending time and energy on a poem…there’s more important things to remember! LIKE THE CHANTS OR CHOREO. That coach cussing at her I would’ve called my momma to cuss the coach out. That’s is not her job.
@@destoxtra4645 exactly 😂 talking about they fix this yesterday how would they remember when they spent the whole practice sayin a poem and running 100 laps
Watching this made me cry a lot it’s just sad to see coaches laughing , giggling, and yelling and calling out the members. Some of these coaches need to be ashamed of themselves for how they treat the girls I just hate how the last little girl who was saying the stanza was so scared and how they where laughing at that. And how she treated destiny is beyond disgusting and disrespectful. And as for the mom I feel like she is a great coach she is very much encouraging and caring for these girls I love when she was hugging the girl who was scared of getting the stanza wrong it was heart breaking for how many girls cried. I really hope the best for the coaches and team members.😢❤
What really pisses me off is the fact that Coach T is getting pissed off because of destiny, u can’t treat children that way because that causes depression anxiety attacks etc. Yes i understand the fact that her having asthma wasn’t on her physical but that isn’t her fault, You shouldn’t blame her for something that isn’t exactly her fault.
*Tya but I agree I most likely won't be watching anymore , and with coach t how can you tell these girls not to get emotional? If they don't show their emotions they gone start taking it out on their team mates and others
I see Laila and need for her to be a leader because the rest can't lead the way that she is. I am not going to say anything about the video because I dislike the disrespect in this. All I can say to the ladies is practice makes perfect just keep trying we see you ladies.
@@lovelywilson2112 I laugh because of your comment, see when a person speaks facts onto other ans say real things some people feel that person shouldn't do this or that. I believe she is the right person for it because the other not really meaning up to their duties. When a real person speaks on the truth other don't like. Her ego has nothing to do it at all she just real period.
@@stacynewton34 Again I said what is real and you guys don't like it so as an older coach would say she is being real and you guys just have a problem with her speaking facts on things
She couldn’t be a leader imo I haven’t seen her help anyone else on the team not once…ofc I wasn’t there so I couldn’t tell but it’d be great footage that’d be hard to leave out if it did happen
Jce I love y’all but this video is a prime example of why health mentally and physically is ignored in children. Panic attacks aren’t curable and yelling at her about how she’s causing it is unacceptable and embarrassing. I love y’all but do better.
@@tmslovee exactly it happens so much and they act so shocked when something happens like they didn’t see the signs in the beginning🤦🏾♀️it’s disappointing
As a coach as I work in the medical field when a child have a panic attack you have to take it serious there a various of complications that can take part
im sorry , @ first i did agree with the coaches on being blunt but everything doesn't need to be said & isn't appropriate to say, especially to a child . it's obvious destiny was dealing with something , just because you dont understand it , dont mean you belittle it 💯 . it be "coaches" like this thaat make athletes lose their passion for a sport . i love this team but the coaches need work .
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What’s the point of the poem
Fire the B in the gray she does not need to be a coach she needs to deal with her own issues before coaching these kids…🙄🙄🙄
Definitely need new coaches, my goodness the abuse these ladies are enduring
@@mandygrace3688 I feel like it's to bring them together. Show them to have each other's backs. Also it's an important lesson not to quit
Panic attacks happen in children all the time. It's okay Destiny! Calm your nerves. Coaches, y'all don't make it any better by yelling at her for the problem. Yes, she can be a liability but now you see it, let her mother know this needs to be checked out.
Panic attacks are normal but it should be tooken serious because it can lead to a heart attack .. Again THERES nothing to treat a panic attack your suppose to help the person calm down .. Relax and staying calm and breathing is the cure .. You got to stay calm tho, and don’t let your blood pressure get high
@@qveenora3 I agree and the only coach that helped her was Coach Trina.
they need to have someone who’s trained in mental health psychology or something along those lines as a coach because the way Destiny has been being handled is not even remotely acceptable.
@@luckystrikes4 I most certainly agree! It was not acceptable at all.
Right, the coaches yelling at her didn’t sit right with me
Destiny may have undiagnosed allergies. You guys practice a lot outside where there are trees, grass, weeds, pollen. She could be allergic to any one of those things. Maybe that's why she felt a tightening in her chest. She should see an allergist.
Exactly instead of bashing her smfh so insensitive towards these girls
yeah its crazy how they don't take into consideration that since they don't have a practice facility amd they're outside 24/7 that this stuff could happen
@@berg2544 my brother n law is allergic to so many things he even had to stop
Playing football because he’s allergic to the grass
@@lovelywilson2112 same thing happened to me, I also have asthma. I was hospitalized both years I played.
@@lovelywilson2112 exactly, this my first time watching and will be my last. The unprofessional laughing and just being down right insensitive and mean is just ugly ass hell
How is it ok for grown women, to belittle a child for having anxiety attacks. Then for the coach in the grey to not comfort her but instead roll her eyes and throw her hands up. As if to say, your problems don’t matter and your over-reacting. And please don’t say that this is tough love. Because, there is a major difference between tough love and pure bullying. These coaches were antagonizing and attacking her for taking time out for herself to get her thoughts and feelings together. Parents, if your children are on this team, you either need have a conversation with these coaches and get to the bottom of things or take them off the team. Some of them are really mean and nasty towards these babies. News flash ladies it’s a way of teaching children without belittling them. It’s called patience, compassion, and encouragement.
It’s bullying at this point
@@saniyahphillips1210 def bulling that’s f all the way up
the child is having panic and anxiety attacks two days in a row. I would not have my child there. its the environment the coaches are the stressors. causing the attacks.
Exactly some of us need something different then yelling at them for us to “learn” most of them get enough of it that at home
And you wonder why they quit 🤦🏾♀️
The way they talk to people about their conditions is horrible 😑
exactly! telling that girl that she’s giving herself panic attacks? This is why our community needs better education about mental health bc so many of us have been taught that it’s not real like? Destiny is clearly struggling mentally and they’re just yelling at her gaslighting her about her conditions. And we all know doctors don’t do a lot for black people so just bc she does not have a pump doesn’t really mean she doesn’t have asthma. They really need to learn how to talk to these girls better.
@@kylajanelle7343 you can say that AGAIN
The way they talk period is horrible
Yeah, it’s that culture. And it sucks .
It’s like hurt people hurt people.
It just makes me feel weird out by them yelling and blaming about anxiety attacks and what not. They have no idea what those are like and as a dance teacher myself, when I see one of my students not themselves acting “different” I set them aside and talk to them . I don’t yell or blame them for what they are going through because I also deal with depression and anxiety and making it worst is being yelled at and getting in trouble smh
Anxiety and panick attacks are no joke man I’ve been dealing with them for years and had to get on medicine smh
@@lovelywilson2112 no yeah totally! I get them all the time and it makes me nervous because sometimes I can’t control them
Unacceptable
@@keepingupwitlexx right! Smh
I agree!! Anxiety can take some much toll on a person! You would think they would take it much seriously. I hate how the coaches “conversations” are more like gossiping and laughing like this isn’t funny.
I can’t believe the coaches act the way they do towards the children. This is not how you coach and mentor younger kids. That baby could have an undiagnosed health issue and your response is to yell and curse at her?! At least she’s trying and not giving up. This is how anxiety/depression and other mental health issues begin because we ignore it and demean them for it. I hope the coaches read the comments and understand where we’re all coming from.
One thing that they seem to be forgetting " WE ARE IN THE MIDDLE OF A PANDEMIC " EVERYONE LIFE HAS CHANGED. It's difficult for everyone. We do NOT know what these children are dealing with AT HOME OR AT SCHOOL. YOU HAVE ASTHMA BUT YOUR ARE NOT A DOCTOR. EVERYONE'S SYMPTOMS ARE DIFFERENT. I hope this young lady does not have a serious health issue. Ohhhh weee. We have to do better. Maybe she does not know how to control her breathing 🤔. This young lady could have any type of underlying conditions that have not been detected/diagnosed.
It’s a breeding ground for a potential lawsuit God forbid one of the children have an actua emergency.
Just blew me!
@@TumbleTyme757 I was thinking the same thing but didn’t want to say it. I still remember that video where one of the girls collapsed and fainted. Most likely from being overheated. Then the next video after that you have the coaches gossiping about how the kid fainted and acted all nonchalant about the issue. People mentioned how that behavior was unacceptable then.
I really hope coach T see's all of these comments and says something to her daughter and the coaches because this is her program she started
It’s giving “I wasn’t successful in my cheer career and I’m on a power trip as the coach” energy.
And is
please. I would quit too if coaches are being immature, being toxic, negative speaking and making me feel insecure too.
this right here
Everyone should
Anxiety is real! The way that the coaches are laughing in their faces and talking towards them with no respect could literally set one of them off the edge. I honestly feel that there are better methods than what jus cheer is using. Xclusive cheer and charlotte ultimate cheer doesn’t use any of these tactics and they are both pretty good teams.
I 100% agree with you
I agree
I’m sorry but they don’t always do this you are some what right they shouldn’t be laughing in they face but they tired of her doing it every day
@@You.know.the.vibes.215 it was only 3 days she was going to stop doing it but 3 days is not long enough
@@You.know.the.vibes.215 anxiety and panic attacks are real and she not a fucking doctor how she gonna tell her she don’t got asthma
Coach should be ASHAMED of herself for belittling a child. Does it make her feel big to make A CHILD feel small?! Disgusting.
Go back to season 1,they just got worse over the seasons
Agreed!
Especially since they aren’t doctors or nurses. 😪
@@stacynewton34 that makes me so sad. I've really loved watching this channel but lately, I just cannot.
@@lindsthomas9590 same, their channel used to be something I looked forward to coming to watch every single day. But these videos just make me sick now
i hate the way the coaches laughing that just brings them down
I hope they keep the same energy when all these girls get tired and just quit
They are bullies
Yessss, Y since the other coaches join they do this, all the other seasons those girls were never done this way .. BUT I COULD BE WRONG!! POOR YOUNG LADIES😣
I think she is trying to be another coach D
@@TalentedJayy that’s dance but cheer 😂 she don’t need to try to be here
All illnesses DO NOT look alike within every person.
The “coaches” need to be held accountable for their behaviors
Y’all get off on trying to intimidate them
The number of so called “coaches” increased but coaching and professionalism went out the door
I hope a lot of these girls find a different team that treats their girls with respect
Agreed! I was in shocked about their behavior. Yelling at her because she’s having anxiety or panic attack. Even if it’s not, she could have bronchitis and they just insensitive af
These coaches laughed through this whole video. They need to grow up
Exactly without these girls they won’t have a damn thing they need to realize that
@@lovelywilson2112 like these jobs.wonder why people quitting, nor applying.
Same with them,if the whole team or just half of then quit,and ratings drop I guarantee they will change they tone
They raggedy and ratchet. Nails & ratchet
When I first started watching these cheers! I love the way they were training them and understood why they pushed them but lately these children have been cursed at, laughed at, mocked for having anxiety attacks in which I suffer with sometimes and preached too more than I preach.
It’s supposed to be fun not boot camp.
I’m thankful the coach being more merciful and trying to help the girls.
Where are their mother’s??
Why are they allowing their children to be treated like this!
😭 😭
I agree! I get it that you have to be tough on the girls for them to be great but this is a bit much to where I just may not watch too much anymore.
@@Womanofmanythings I broke down in tears watching those babies crying
Especially the anxiety and then she threatened her and asked her did she want her to call her mother.
Cause apparently the mom curses at her too. I’m gonna stop watching also
These videos are back logged, this video was recorded two months ago so parents are only seeing it now. A couple have left since this was recorded but honestly it’s unacceptable
@@Womanofmanythings i already stop watching like that,I can't take it. Seen this coming since season 1
@@stacynewton34 I don't watch as much because this gets on my nerves.
Instead of yelling at these ladies about having anxiety or panic attacks and blaming them, you could take some time during practice (even just 5 minutes) and have them lay down, turn on meditation music and allow them to take slow deep breaths. They don’t know what it is due to the fact that they are young and probably just learning what stress is. I suffered bad from anxiety attacks on the daily and just now started truly meditating and I’m 26. Stop being so harsh and “tough” and maybe listen and help them or look for outside help to step in.
Obviously you’ve never been in a cheer gyn
@@Abby-rp1yn it still doesn't mean bully them like that I'm a majorette dancer they scream at us all day by never do that so shut the hell up pls
@@Abby-rp1yn what gym you cheer for,so I know not go. This behavior is unacceptable on all levels
@@Abby-rp1yn actually love I have, cheered many years, danced many years and helped coach so your comment is invalid and unnecessary. Have a blessed day 😌
@@korinanic all star cheer or sideline
as someone who has diagnosed anxiety and do suffer with anxiety attacks the way the coach was yelling at destiny and telling her that she is causing it on her own is not okay and made me quite upset. like let’s do better and be better. we only get a glimpse of the practices, but that was hard for me to swallow let alone how destiny felt 😭😭
#blackmentalhealthmatters
Having an panic or anxiety attack isn't treated unless you actively one when there's a spike in your blood pressure so it will be shown on your physical... and most person doesn't know when they are having one
Right
My mom actually suffers from both really bad. She really needs to see a doctor
They were talking about asthma being shown on her physical not anxiety
It’s wrong that the coaches laugh at the girls when they get something wrong. Like y’all never mess up. Don’t y’all think that makes the girls feel bad and lowers their confidence? It’s not funny
Right! Like I get it, it’s frustrating seeing them messing up over and over but laughing and mocking isn’t cool. I’m a dance teacher and I would never laugh at my students no matter how bad they did. I’ll get mad yes, I might yell yes but making them feel down doesn’t matter the age these kids are looking up to them and if they go home to their parents saying my coach laughed at me bc I wasn’t getting the steps right or whatever like smh
Addressing someone’s mental problems like anxiety and panic attacks is not babying anyone. This mentality disgusts me. The same thing was said to my close friend and he killed himself not even a week after. Addressing someone’s mental health in no way is going out of our you way. Being a complete jerk is not building that “sisterhood” that you wanna build period.
I REALLY HOPE THE COACHES SEE THESE COMMENTS! If you want a good team the attitudes from the adults have to change. If y’all feel like they aren’t listening or improving then move on, they’re going to continue cheering with or without you!
I was a Fan of this squad but after seeing how these coaches handle these girls I was APPALLED. She had no right to curse at that girl.. she might not have asthma but don't minimize her personal feeling. How do you think placing a kid in a corner is a teaching moment? You are instilling fear and the impression that failure is not an option in those girls. I REALLY wanted to HEAR ALL the sideline coaches ( the MOTHER REALLY RUNS THE SHOW) recite the poem WORD for WORD. #SPIRITLESS #NOSIGNOFSISTERHOOD
yessss because ive been having asthma and anxiety attacks all the time recently but am not diagnosed and it’s not a good feeling when no one believes you and it really makes things worse
As someone who has anxiety and is black, the reaction from the coaches makes me uncomfortable and brings back trauma from my parents... Mental illness in children and specifically black children often goes untreated because their old heads say “you’re causing this” “you’re making yourself crazy” and then the coaches are laughing at them and yelling at them, like you do realize that “tough love” is not working? If it worked they would’ve done better..
I don’t know how to feel about this video the coaches were very disrespectful when Jeffry messed up the coaches started laughing n she started crying she probably felt like y’all was laughing at her this video was just not it at all if u gone laugh n whisper do it in private cause y’all probably hurt all them girls feelings and yea I don’t know much cause I’m not there but I only see what y’all put up here n that was y’all bullying them girls n it’s not tough love what coach t was doin pushin them girls to know it n helpin them calms down when they cried is tough love not laughing n cussin n yellin at them cause they had a panic attack I always loved watching y’all but this right here was not it
Yes, then tell the girls to stop crying.
I never rlly watch the sideline sometimes the competitive team but this is by far the most sickening thing I’ve viewed on the channel coaches laughing it defeats the girls I wouldn’t think twice about leaving😭 humiliation at it’s finest
Then she tells them to recite a poem called Don’t Quit trying to manipulate them in not quitting!!
If I was their momma, I would take them off that team and give them a “ speech”
Mistreating someone else’s child is not cool! Then have the nerves to pray sometimes!
Nahhh. Jesus ain’t in that!
I am hard on my girls…like really hard but this is UNACCEPTABLE!!!!! Destiny you deserve better. I can’t believe someone over a group of girls would act like this.
sitting here yelling at her when she’s trying to catch a breath is extremely too much. it’s not even about babying somebody, look at the way y’all are talking to half of them then try to talk to them calmly like it’s ok…
Exactly they are trying to be "hard" and it's not working because the cheerleading isn't getting better and they are causing stress on the poor girl so what exactly is the tough coaching doing
@@teekablack1931 the coaches need get themselves right before they try to “help” the next person doing it
The coaches look like mean girls, they’re always standing in the corner snickering and whispering about the young ladies…
We rarely see much coaching now.
exactly like what is their problem? cussing at destiny for having a panic attack & having problems breathing really pissed me off. and the snickering and laughing at the girls that’s so belittling and disrespectful.
Exactly
@@jaysiannaa what part was taht
The coaches are trash this season. They need to take some courses on how to coach. Their coaching style isn’t effective at all, more so counterproductive. They are not going to see results with what they are doing now.
This season, they been like this
@YooitsJess I forgot about that 1 one.girl these coaches are something else and don't deserve this team
I used to hate the way they yelled at dasia but she kept coming back so I thought, maybe we just don’t see everything and it was tough love. Now I see they are really some bullies this season. If you don’t have the patience to work with kids…don’t work with kids. I understand instilling discipline and leadership, but this method is not the way. If that’s how you learned, good for you but I feel like this is a generational curse that needs to be broken. This is almost like some slave and overseer type of stuff.
The coaches put the girls down and it’s always coach T and her daughter. The daughter is just a mess. She doesn’t realize people have health problems
That is why I don't watch as much. Now I see why the other girls quit
Exactly by far the worst coaches I’ve seen
@@stacynewton34 right I would too that girl was clearly having a panic attack but once again they act like it’s nothing that’s nothing to play with
Right I remember coach t was like everybody hush somebody has stinky breath like girl them nasty nails you probably have stains all in your panties can barely wipe and you have the nerve to talk about hygiene
@@lovelywilson2112 THISSSSS!!!! Like I know them dirty nails stank
Wow…. the coaches response to the young lady not knowing if she has asthma or suffer from anxiety is sickening. I cheered for years and wasn’t diagnosed with asthma till I was 13 I feel bad for her.
omg you're gorgeous!
Super proud of harmony ! She’s getting comfortable with the moves and her personality is coming out . We just need Phebe to get it together.
SN: coaches , don’t laugh at them when the head coach is drilling them , it’s a lack of maturity 🤷🏽♀️and it’s discouraging to them as a whole
What part did they laugh?
@@aniyamiller2327 3:04 was asthma part
@@aniyamiller2327 3:47 talking about panic attacks and stuff
The mom is the only one who’s taking them serious and don’t laugh at them when they down plus don’t be yelling at them over small things
Let's humiliate the children by putting them in the corner for not knowing an entire poem THAT YOU HAD TO LOOK AT YOUR PHONE TO KNOW....YOU ARE THE COACH AND DON'T KNOW IT!!!!
THE. HYPOCRISY. LORD.
Right! She didn’t know the poem herself…
Yes, I was thinking the same thing. They are getting mad at the kids for not knowing but she did not know it fully herself. They should all have print outs and bring them to practice and practice together
Ikr
Girl go somewhere u clearly have no sense
@@itssyanni03014 really? Cuz if you read through the comments, mostly everyone else agrees with me. So you can go somewhere , you clearly have no class (and apparently cannot read 🤷♀️).
This video is a prime example of why people who are working with children need proper training. The way y’all talk to these kids is so sad I’m so disappointed in the way y’all are treating them this season.
They letting the little clout they got get to their heads at this point
@@brooklynqueen4767 that’s exactly what it is .
@@brooklynqueen4767 exactly
@@brooklynqueen4767 I just told my self that,
Nah they just need to find a new line of work.
Having coaches laugh at you while you are trying to improve would make anyone insecure. If the goal is to build up these girls then that needs to stop😕
I dont know if i enjoyed this video or not. I had mixed emotions through out. I am with everybody else, coaches should not be giggling, smirking or making comments at these girls. I had a strict coach who made us work hard, but she did not smirk or laugh at us. Some of these ladies are actually trying and practicing. Phebe is making progress slowly but I see it in the moves and cheers. She just need to work on not being stiff and voice the cheers loud. Harmoney is showing progress in her cheers too.
I agree 100%
How our y’all going to yell at that girl about breathing things can happen over time it doesn’t have to happen when she about ti get checked out at the doctor… if one day she passes out what is y’all gone do …
They’re gonna laugh at her and then talk about her and then also use sarcastic nicknames when referring to her
@@brooklynqueen4767 yep! And then blame the kid for not coming to the coaches about her health. The mind games they play on these children is starting to get ridiculous.
Awe this one made me actually shed tears. Especially with the baby with the missing tooth & braids she looks so scared of ya'll. Scared to do or say something wrong. At this point I feel certain people are being picked on by the coaches. If this is what the coaches do at Diva school no wonder she is talking suicide. I can't imagine having to worry about kids picking at you but your coaches too whew. I've had Diva come & tell me the coach is picking and although we addressed it, I thought she may be over telling the story. But after watching a couple of cheer channels I feel sad for not believing her. Smh. These are kids/ young ladies. They're not getting ready for the army. I understand being hard but there is a level and I feel the level is being over stepped & becoming bullying. It's sad... Not to bring in race but Diva had a white coach last yr and absolutely was obsessed with cheer always has been. Now she has a black coach and she comes home looking beat down and ready to quit. Like we pay for this, We aren't paying to have our kids broken goodness. Ya'll lasts seasons I watched Ya'll were tough, but had more compassion. I'm not seeing it this season. Don't let the thought of trophies etc bring yall to doing this...
Omg I used to watch your channel.. I just looked at your username.. Sending all positive vibes you guys’ way..
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yeah this is not coaching this is bullying..
Definitely wasn't bullying. They're not there to baby or coddle them. They're not going to keep telling them 5,6,7,8 times to do something they know their suppose to do. You get tired of repeating yourself when they know what's expected of them. They're there to learn and execute. This is their job! They're told to go home and practice. The ones who want it, do just that.
@@mickster2330 girl bye
I’m sorry y’all wild as hell and owe her an apology. Y’all yelling at her for having a panic attack, anxiety! Are you serious? If she’s saying her chest tighting, she’s clearly probably having ANXIETY! Y’all so wrong for the behavior y’all exhibited
Exactly
"if you ain't got no pump you ain't got asthma" that was absolutely ridiculous. threatening to call her mama so she can cuss her out, one of these days they gonna cuss yall out. ain't nobody gotta play these abusive mind games having their child be ridiculed and scorned for the world to see in the middle of a potential mental/physical health crisis.
I said something similar to what you said, and the talking about certain girls is ridiculous.
Make you wonder the true reason she was fired from her old cheer job
when she said that, that absolutely floored me. i have asthma, but it’s not too bad to the point where i need a pump. you can tell that it’s just nonsense that they’re trying to scare these girls with at this point
Yes I didn’t like that either. I also have asthma and rarely use my inhaler.All asthmatics don’t rely on an inhaler.
@@luckystrikes4 it's pathetic and horrible
Hello! Pissed me off
How anyone can support this verbal abuse of a child is beyond me. I won't be watching anymore.
All they do is stand around and make fun of these children. You should be building them up, not destroying their self esteem.
Agreed. Since season 1 I noticed little things, but now they are in the open
Agree they have lost a subscriber and follower
@YooitsJess I love watching the competition squad! Their coaches are such a breath of fresh air from these ones, and they actually know how to mentor, coach, and build their girls up and make them better! I looooove watching the progress they make!
They don’t even show competitions or anything this shit is dumb
@@saniyahphillips1210 this isn't a competition squad. At least as far as I know, but the CUC squad is, and they show nearly all of their competitions.
Out of ALL the other cheer teams on this channels this by FAR is the WORST one for encouragement and motivation these coaches are immature, and clearly use there power of being coaches to their advantage to treat these young beautiful black girls like how they were probably treated as kids. To belittle a young women for a situation she’s going through is disgusting and these coaches really need to reevaluate the way they coaching AND treating these kids because it’s disgusting and heartbreaking to watch
I love coach Trina. She is always concerned but serious. And goes out her way to help.
The power tripping coaches at it again. In what right, sound mind do any of these girls parents watch these videos and say, "This is is great for my daughter and a good opportunity!". This is just insane at this point. The emotional abuse that is going on in this teams videos is shocking. At first I thought it was just cultural differences, I am on the west coast and have been involved in many cheer programs for many years, but at this point I see that it is not anything cultural or geographical. Are these coaches proud of themselves at the end of the day? Being that most seem like full of narcissism I am sure they are but they shouldn't be. They belittle babies, teens that will become the future of our world and think it's fun to break them not build them. I have been in hard cheer practices where we have been told off and made to work but it looked nothing like this constant berating they do to these children. YOU ARE NOT BUILDING STRONG ATHLETES, YOU ARE BUILDING SCARED GIRLS AFRAID TO STAND UP TO SCREAMING ADULTS! This makes me so sad. I just keep hoping it will get better but it just gets worse, these coaches will not be happy because they are obviously not happy within themselves. Girls go find a team that will do you better, they exist!
Yea and the coaches “conversations” are like gossiping and laughing like these are children at the end of the day!
You hit the nail on the head. If I saw these posts and my daughter was on this team, she’s be yanked out immediately and SOMEBODY is getting cussed out 😌
The coaches spent the whole practice draining these poor girls over a ritual??? Omg🙄
Teaches Discipline ....this is normal for most sports teams
Usually I’m all for Jus Cheer but this episode made me sad. Regardless of if you believe she has a condition or not, she believes it and I’m sure it’s scary for her without having someone that she trusts make her feel like she’s tripping. Embarrassing her on camera is not the move. Her health shouldn’t have been discussed where everybody could hear it.
Right, so unprofessional.
Destiny may have something more going on.
Because I have a server breathing problem, and now I'm 29 can't even talk without giving out of breathing. Maybe something more going on with her.
Her mom needs to take her back to the doctor and explain what's going
She probably going through a lot right now. They need to calm down. Y’all coaches stop yelling at those girls.
@@morganluckett5792 that to could be a problem, you never know what people go through behind close doors
Then for her to say let me call your mom cause I know she would cuss you out. Then you wonder why black girls don’t have their mothers to look up to and be supportive in them #break the curse in belittling our children and think it’s ok #mentalhealthblackcommunity
@@kikin1528 Amen to that.
Her mom needs to find her a new team
Why is she yelling at her about her not knowing if she has asthma or not … wtf is her problem , also asthma can come after so whatever she got going on she need to check it because there is no reason you should be yelling at someone for not knowing if they have something …
Aww Destiny *sends virtual hug*
anxiety attacks are no fun. I know anxiety isn’t something that just goes away, I hope you’re doing better managing it.🤗
Thank you they aren’t these coaches are bitches
Yeah Tia reaction was unnecessary
Lovely Wilson Fr how are you grown bullying w child , they don’t need to be coaches
@@saniyahphillips1210right ,I hope she don't have kids acting like that
the coaches really make me mad and i used to love watching the girls but unfortunately the coaches make it so hard for me to watch especially this new coach 😒
i wish someone would tell me that "I'm causing this" if I had anxiety or panic attacks. if she does have anxiety attacks girl I would've gone off on that coach cuz thts plain disrespect for someone who deals with anxiety. even if u take medication, it doesn't make anxiety attacks go away completely, it helps it occur less often so that means u would still get anxiety attacks. i know dis cuz I have anxiety disorder myself
Educate yourself 🤔
What are the DSM-5 criteria for diagnosis of panic disorder?
Palpitations, pounding heart, or accelerated heart rate.
Sweating.
Trembling or shaking.
Shortness of breath or feeling of smothering.
Feelings of choking.
Chest pain or discomfort.
Nausea or abdominal distress.
Feeling dizzy, unsteady, lightheaded, or faint.
Yeeeeessss DSM-5! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾. My mom is a therapist 🤷🏽♀️
Social worker here yesss ma'am DSM-5👏🏾👏🏾
Trina handled destiny very well but the way tya handled her is very disgusting, yall dont know what those babies are going thru mentally
They really should be ashamed of dismissing what the child was going through. Cussing her out and saying it is her fault for what she is going through is very inhumane. Having health problems and not understand why it’s happening is very scary. Especially for a you g child who is still depending on adults for every day living. Terrible on the coaches with this one. Show some compassion. Just because YOU have Asthma doesn’t mean the next does and your symptoms of the condition might not be the same for everyone. Do better .
why they rude? She's probably just have anxiety 😕.. I got anxiety and with black parents it doesn't exist, or depression you can't be depressed you cant be sad... what does age gotta do with controlling your breathing
i used to cheer in middle school & now i dance for my high school. i had a panic attack once and you CANNOT cause a panic attacks. panic attacks can be caused by stress and other things . that was ignorant .
Exactly coaches dumb asf
The coach daughter just made me mad she is a big fat bully, all she do is pick on people health problems. Y’all need to do better. It’s honestly a mess.
She be talking about the girls to the other coaches too... laughing and stuff like it’s ridiculous honestly
@@cheybeautyxoxo since season 1
@cheybeautyxoxo right she just like my old coach
Very ignorant and unprofessional.
If she is having a anxiety attacks she needs to see a specialist to help get it under control. I don’t think the coaches she be so hard on her for that. Being hard on the girls is one thing but this was not necessary.
I don't like how she was comparing her self to destiny everyone can have different symptoms her symptoms not going to be like yours
yess that’s exactly what I said, I don’t think the coach is a licensed doctor lol…
Coach TYA , talking about the shit pissing her off , no honey U pissing us off ‼️doing the most 🙄
Right
Are you/were on the team and what happened I can tell the coaches we disrespectful but I'm kinda confused
@@xoxo_maya23 srry I was talking bout the audience or viewers , because of how she handled the situation
@@justjada100 ohh ok
This Coach is rude you don’t have to curse at the child they need to get rid of her she has no respect she could have allergies y’all got them practicing outside it’s hot trees blowing pollen dirt and they all breathing this stuff in
As someone with panic attacks and it taken over my life it’s hard to manage these attacks sometimes it takes years and years to be able to know how to control it. People like y’all who just be like it’s you, it’s your mind, just stop. Panic attacks come at any time we can’t control it what we can do is try to overcome it. I’m 23 I can say after years and years my panic attacks are getting better but it’s not 100% better. Overall I’m just saying it’s not something easy when you are literally battling with yourself.
Same you just gotta relax and try not to panic because it will make it worse
@@qveenora3 it’s hard sometimes especially when you have people yelling at you saying it’s your fault that you cause your panic attacks, many people don’t know how to manage it but eventually you’ll be able to manage it on your own, if it’s a support dog, stress ball, etc. it takes time and patience is key.
My mom suffer from this alot,we tell her to calm down to ease her mind
they need to have someone who’s trained in mental health psychology or something along those lines as a coach because the way everything has unfolded this season so far is not acceptable
@@luckystrikes4 go back to season 1 they been acting this way
I think instead of making them stand in the corner give them the poem on paper and have them read it over and over again... Seeing the words is better with memorizing the words and poem...
How immature do you have to be to laugh in their faces when you see them mess up. Cursing and yelling at someone have an anxiety attack is also not gonna fix anything. Like do better…
I would of fake fainted on the floor see who get the last laugh 😭
Nah deadass woulda payed there for ten minutes to
Fr would have held my breathe as long as i could
NAH!! The DISRESPECT. Coaches, do better. She's obviously having a panic attack and y'all yelling at her doesn't do anything but make her cry. Pisses me off frfr!!!
Exactly they all get on my nerves and they want them to improve but they can’t improve with them yelling being disrespectful
I had a tough coach like this when I started cheering . I remember we would get yelled at and run more than we practiced some days. I’ve been watching for a while and I think this may be a bit more overboard than I experienced. If these girls cannot come and talk to y’all about their issues they may be having, they won’t feel like they can talk to you at all. They get nervous, y’all yell. They feel sick or struggle, y’all give them sass and cover it with a bit of “encouragement” . But you expect these young ladies to perform 110% each practice. I understand y’all want them to do well, but this isn’t the military. There needs to be a balance of fun, discipline and structure. There needs to be time for them to wind down and know y’all are truly there for them. I could go on and on but y’all need to do better. Especially if you want to continue having girls come and try out. Atp if they don’t fit what ur looking for, choose different girls. Don’t make these girls uncomfortable or scared of y’all for the sake of winning. Cause that’s what it looks like from the outside.
It hurts me to see her yelled at for having anxiety and undiagnosed breathing problems bc I UNDERSTAND! It’s so upsetting to see this. I just feel bad. I was treated like this and it creates mental issues🤦🏽♀️
Really see how when the REAL coach came she comforted her cheerleaders and uplifted them
just like you can develop many other medical issues later on in life , you can also develop asthma and anxiety. it is not uncommon. but yes she does need to see a doctor before something bad happen
The fact that the coaches not all but most are laughing at them upsets me that will discourage them young woman to see the ones they look up to laughing at them
Don’t none of y’all need to be coaches for young girls. Y’all are mean and nasty for no reason. Coaching is calling out when things are wrong and offering solutions, yall stop at calling out the problems but offer no solutions to the problems. It’s infuriating to watch.
It was like looking at bullies in high school
This is horrible, they all need to quit
& make them run for every little thing!!!
@YooitsJess agreed. Coach Trina has always been more sensible and sensitive to the girl’s needs. I may not have agreed with her stating that Destiny doesn’t have asthma because her symptoms are different than hers but at least she tried to calm her down and got her to control her breathing before the problem got worse.
I now see why I ONLY watch CUC like the way they treat the girls is beyond me!
The coaches sit down, eat in front of them, and then yell at these girls bc of how they feel/health (whether that being mental, physical or emotional) and “diagnose” them when they’re not professionally trained in the medical field… like what?
Will probably be my last time watching until change starts to happen, I can’t continue supporting these videos when the girls are being verbally and emotionally abused
Girl I been stopped. Now I'm stopping for good
It gets worse every video. Smh. It’s sad.
@@vanessaragin4377 and you are absolutely right
@vanessaragin4377 that's what I'm saying , I don't even get excited about watching anymore ,it's unbelievable
There’s tough love, having high expectations, and pushing the girls and then there’s verbal and emotional abuse. What I’ve been seeing in some of these videos, especially with the young lady with anxiety or asthma, and the threats is certainly abusive in nature. Do better Coaches because you have beautiful black young ladies under your care and direction that deserve better. There is enough wrong-doing in the world that they’ll have to face without facing it in an extracurricular activity that is supposed to be fun, yes hard work, but also fun.
Ma’am one video you’re yelling “I want y’all to come back limping and hurting” and the next you’re praising a cheerleader for walking “normal”. I’m confused lol
This isn’t the first time they have contradicted themselves. They did this when the girls were cheering on Harmony during conditioning. The girls were genuinely rooting for her and cheering her on even after they finished their conditioning first. The Coaches got on to them about that and told them to worry about what they needed to do. Then in a later video they’re being screamed at and told they aren’t team players because they weren’t helping out their struggling teammates learn the cheers. Makes no sense.
The emotional abuse being shown in the latest videos is honestly starting to get sad. No way the adults should be shaming these younger kids, I’m honestly starting to think that they get satisfaction out of making the girls cry and have panic attacks, like why are you laughing at them in their faces? Not even a bit of professional
Honey they been this way from season 1
@@stacynewton34 no it’s gotten worse
@@zebra4145 definitely has gotten worse
Whew! Coach Tya once again “Not Here For Weak Individuals”……
Meanwhile, for any sports aren’t they supposed to have a pe exam following their health report to the coaches?!?!
Laila response is awesome 👏
Yes. To make sure you don't have any conditions or etc
@@stacynewton34 that’s what I thought, ok thx u
@@RteeAlvarez you are more then welcome
No her response wasn’t it was horrible cause she’s not that good herself
@@lovelywilson2112 it was not horrible u clearly don’t know discipline
cadenceeee u got this princess , frustration is needed to get better CRY IT OUT you know these words , just slow down if u have to so you won't continue to stumble . LAILA NEEEEDS TO BE A LEADER ASAP!!
Why Laila 🙄
@@kadejamccutchin5627 wym why laila???
@@BabiDrama like I said
@@kadejamccutchin5627 ma'am im not about to argue with you , i said what i said... i personally think Laila should be a leader , you rolling your eyes for what?
Laila would be a good leader i agree
She yelled at her Bc she was having an panic attack?🤨
They all stressing me out and got me teary-eyed for these kids and I ain’t even on the team! Keep it together girls … lean on each other. 💕
Boyyyyyy this episode was triggering. While these “coaches” think they understand about anxiety/panic/ asthma whatever. YOU TREAT EVERY CASE AS ITS SERIOUS !!!!! Don’t you dare minimize that girl whether she’s “faking” it or not. This shit is ridiculous
🙏🏾 amen it was definitely triggering all the way back to my childhood
The Coach with the long nails is the Most Chill Coach ever
why are the coaches sitting there laughing at them? .. that could makes the girls feel so embarrassed and humiliated because y’all sitting there laugh at them for making a mistake and plus they’re on camera too. HELP them not laugh at them, that’s so disrespectful and makes y’all look so childish.
They are doing way too much, what do they need to know a poem for…? Just dumb stuff, spending time and energy on a poem…there’s more important things to remember! LIKE THE CHANTS OR CHOREO. That coach cussing at her I would’ve called my momma to cuss the coach out. That’s is not her job.
Then get mad when they don’t get nun done cause y’all spending all day on stuff like this 🙄
@@destoxtra4645 exactly 😂 talking about they fix this yesterday how would they remember when they spent the whole practice sayin a poem and running 100 laps
Watching this made me cry a lot it’s just sad to see coaches laughing , giggling, and yelling and calling out the members. Some of these coaches need to be ashamed of themselves for how they treat the girls I just hate how the last little girl who was saying the stanza was so scared and how they where laughing at that. And how she treated destiny is beyond disgusting and disrespectful. And as for the mom I feel like she is a great coach she is very much encouraging and caring for these girls I love when she was hugging the girl who was scared of getting the stanza wrong it was heart breaking for how many girls cried. I really hope the best for the coaches and team members.😢❤
Laila is cracking me up this season she went from shy and quiet to no filter
You know people grow right? 😂
@@vuyokazimthethwa no crap
@@vuyokazimthethwa yes
Embarrassing how GROWN women are talking badly/BORDERLINE BULLYING these young talented hardworking girls. EMBARRASSING
What really pisses me off is the fact that Coach T is getting pissed off because of destiny, u can’t treat children that way because that causes depression anxiety attacks etc. Yes i understand the fact that her having asthma wasn’t on her physical but that isn’t her fault, You shouldn’t blame her for something that isn’t exactly her fault.
*Tya but I agree I most likely won't be watching anymore , and with coach t how can you tell these girls not to get emotional? If they don't show their emotions they gone start taking it out on their team mates and others
Genuine question, what is the point of having to remember and recite a poem?
There isn’t one, that I can see 🤷🏽♀️
That’s the same thing I said
Tya been up on that high horse lately
Honey they been like this from season 1
I see Laila and need for her to be a leader because the rest can't lead the way that she is. I am not going to say anything about the video because I dislike the disrespect in this. All I can say to the ladies is practice makes perfect just keep trying we see you ladies.
Nah she’s good not being a leader she needs to calm her ego down a lot before she can do anything
@@lovelywilson2112 I laugh because of your comment, see when a person speaks facts onto other ans say real things some people feel that person shouldn't do this or that. I believe she is the right person for it because the other not really meaning up to their duties. When a real person speaks on the truth other don't like. Her ego has nothing to do it at all she just real period.
@@kerrylarry8110 everyone can agree to disagree, her ego is way to big and that's her down fall
@@stacynewton34 Again I said what is real and you guys don't like it so as an older coach would say she is being real and you guys just have a problem with her speaking facts on things
She couldn’t be a leader imo I haven’t seen her help anyone else on the team not once…ofc I wasn’t there so I couldn’t tell but it’d be great footage that’d be hard to leave out if it did happen
I couldn't imagine having a panic/anxiety attacks and these is how I'm treated in front of my teammates
Jce I love y’all but this video is a prime example of why health mentally and physically is ignored in children. Panic attacks aren’t curable and yelling at her about how she’s causing it is unacceptable and embarrassing. I love y’all but do better.
Specifically black children. To gaslight and invalidate their feelings is disgraceful. Very disappointing.
@@tmslovee exactly it happens so much and they act so shocked when something happens like they didn’t see the signs in the beginning🤦🏾♀️it’s disappointing
As a coach as I work in the medical field when a child have a panic attack you have to take it serious there a various of complications that can take part
I’m concerned for destiny praying everything is fine with her she genuinely seems as if something is wrong
The coaches gotta do better 🤦🏾♀️
I’m so proud of harmony on this episode!! The smallest change matters :)
Yall wrong for how y'all treated dynamited panic attack. Mental health is no joke
im sorry , @ first i did agree with the coaches on being blunt but everything doesn't need to be said & isn't appropriate to say, especially to a child . it's obvious destiny was dealing with something , just because you dont understand it , dont mean you belittle it 💯 . it be "coaches" like this thaat make athletes lose their passion for a sport . i love this team but the coaches need work .