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Not the point. You can't demonize anybody for having kids at a certain age because at a certain age alot of people have kids especially if you're over 30. So that means be single until your kids are 18? What if the baby father is dead. Yall have no real point
@@jeromemock26 we are not obligated to raise another mans child, no matter how one looks at it, imagine a man was 600 pounds, unemployed , and lives with his mother and said he deserved a model , the world would laugh at him, man or woman , both sound delusional .
That's exactly what that means , I know honorable single mothers that will not date until the kids are adults because she understands she has an obligation to her kids and not to confuse those innocent children by bringing one man home after another @@jeromemock26
If the biological father passed away that’s the ONLY reason another man should step in. Another man should not step in for a woman’s mistake or negligence of the relationship with the father of the child. Most women either choose wrong or feel once the child is born they have a license to abandon their wifely duties.
@RicardoCray I'm not even sure death is the exception anymore. It's up to that woman's male relatives to step up. That's what family is really for, right? Bringing in a step dad is just double trauma on the child, dead father, and now new stranger.
@@RicardoCray#Exactly I agree with that . The problem is these chicks really think they have options when in reality they really don’t. These simps be gaslighting and lying to these chicks as well which is also detrimental.
The men that disagree with this have their simp chip activated. You've got no obligation to come in and take care of another man's child and the fact these dummies don't even entertain the idea that there are other women that DONT have kids, as options shows how bad the simping is. You don't have to put yourself in that situation but you choose to because you're a simp
Those dudes like those bottom of the barrel type women cause their easy lol once a woman has a child and the father isn’t around single mothers become desperate and start dating men who they wouldn’t date if they didn’t have kids because they know their no longer the apple of the eye for men they desire so they go find those weak men who will pick up the slack and once they get him emotionally involved then they treat them like a nobody and let their kid disrespect him 😂I’ve seen this happen on numerous occasions with friends, family members, and colleagues😂sad part is those men will stay and live through all that bs getting nothing out of the deal
@antwaink9389 yep.. most of the time it's an average to ugly dark dude dating the beauty he couldn't pull in HS. it's a sickness for us dark men. It took me till my early 40's to finally completely shake off even entertaining the notion. What's sad is, and excuse me for reverting back to past simp mindset - consistent pussy from a 7.5 that used to be a 9.5 will be the hottest sex they can get from a stand point of banging something with looks.
I remember back in 2003, i recently graduated highschool. My female cousin claimed my highschool friend was the father of her child. When the kid turned 3 she put him on child support. The state put him in county jail for 2 weeks for failure to pay child support. After paternity test was given turns out the kid wasn't his. My cousin never gave him an apology nor gave him the money back he had to for back child support. Of course the state never held my female cousin accountable for patternity fraud.
The biological father will always think he has rights to the box because they have a child together. If she cheats on the stepfather with him, the stepfather can't get but so mad.
My brother Anton, I commend you. You can't save these fools. Simps have ruined the world, they are as bad or worse than the hoes they deal with. These suckers are fighting to sign up to take care of another man's child. Make it make sense. I too was a simp for years, but when you learn better, do better. I simped because I was raised by a single mom who blew up our household by divorcing my father. It wasn't until I got much older that I learned to see through her lies and see that she f'd up our family. That is when I learned better and began to see this world as it really is. Don't be a step dad!!! Make her live with the terrible decisions she has made in the past. Accountability is women's kryptonite.
Mandatory DNA testing will never happen for the same reason that family court laws will never change: women vote. Politicians who want to be elected or re-elected will never create laws that advocate for men in those situations. That's not the hill they wanna die on.
I know exactly what Anton is saying. I want my own kids. I'm not trying volunteering to raise another man's child when I can work harder to meet a good woman without kid's.
LEAVE THESE USED UP BABY MAMAS ALONE! My son will know better than to bring a baby mama home. If he does, he is getting written out of wills and inheritances. My husband works too hard for his wealth to go to someone else’s bloodline. Not happening
As a woman I did not date men with kids,I knew once I got serious with him they came as a package deal,I saw the package but not the deal,people who have small kids need to make more of an effort to stay together
I had a girl tell me "the reason why women prefer dudes with kids is because they don't have to go through the labor". Do other women share that same thought process?
An thts cool but yall need to stop put us men in the same category as sm we not the same fathers don’t go around expecting women to take on their kids women do.
Anton, continue your commendable efforts, my brother. There's a significant amount of mental clutter we need to clear from the minds of our community. Our people have been so psychologically burdened that they genuinely think their lives are incapable of improvement. The battleground we must focus on is the mind-it's both the initial and final frontier. By uplifting the mindset of our women to prioritize marriage before motherhood, we can address this issue within a single generation.
I remember when I dated this single mom and met her 5yr old daughter for the first time, the kid told me “come live here so you can give me and my mom all your money” lol that was all I needed to hear 🏃🏽♂️💨🚘
And just to clarify sir, what you’re doing is commendable. The problem with our community is we’ve gotten so use to it that it seems like it’s the norm now. It’s one thing if we had a low single mother rate, but it’s high and most black men don’t even have kids.
Not enough true step dad's R speaking up. Step dad's were only ment for widows not ex-304's. I am not calling or saying your wife is an ex-304. I'm just say it was a culture safety net taken out of context & abused by the 304 women
Thank you becuase a lot of stepparents aren’t being real with how this ‘ish really goes! I tell everyone about what this journey is REALLY like. Knowledge is power.
@@missjoy6685 Step dad's were really only for widowed women not for ex 304's. During chattel slavery it became a thing because of the conditions. BW have been taken advantage of the system. It's 🕒 men 🛑 step daddying
@@antoniesseals8892 exactly. I didn’t have kids when I became one. I was totally against dating a woman with kids but it’s so normal in my environment to date women with kids, I was painted as the outlier. Once you’re in the step parent role the whole family dynamic is unnatural & weird.
Women know women. They know women can be trifling, mean and vindictive. There's no way in good conscience that they would advocate for women to be stepmothers. Just wouldn't happen.
IF you are a stepdad or signing up to be a stepdad just know that you are NOT her first choice and you are walking into a mine field. It's better simply avoid these ladies all together. It's not worth it gents. Create your OWN legacy. I agree with Anton, the culture needs a HARD reset. It's beyond out of control.
this was one of Anton's best takes. he owned the whole panel and the other men there are trolling or they're part of the problem no standards destroying communities. this take was fire
Yea but keep it a buck. 9 times out of 10 in 2023 and beyond, a 30+ year old isnt going to find a virgin mate or a mate without kids. Every female aint getting buss down like anton is describing. Some are, some these hoes out here with kids are reckless!!! But not all of em. Anton talks sht about him being with one woman and not being a step dad. But look at his wife....definitely not the baddest. Im sure if he left her, wifey is taking half. Anton aint stupid, he just good at painting pictures.
It does not matter if she treats you well or not. You will never be her first priority. You will never be respected the same as a father who has a child and marries the mother. You are putting yourself at a disadvantage. It's that simple.
Facts Anton. Childless men shouldn’t have to settle with single mothers that treat them like second or last choice. Step fathers will never be treated like a prize
The thing is that most of these women would have probably never have given the guy who wants to play stepdad, a chance, if she didn't have children and hadn't been ranned through. Most of these women , when they were in shape , with no children, wouldn't have given these dudes who want to play stepdad,a chance to be with them in times past.Now since they have children, could be overweight, have emotional baggage and emotional trauma, and they can't get the Man they really wanted, they settle for a guy and let him play stedad, and provider for her and the family.And the worst part is, is that most of the time they still want their baby daddy or some guy they really wanted , but the guy didn't want them.This is why she disrespect the stepdad, make him jump through hurdles to be with her,act like she is doing him a favor for being with him,etc. Now there are some women who don't act in this manner.But most of them in this state do.
It’s hilarious the silence from the women on the panel. When Anton said that you all choose to have babies with the same men. 😂😂😂 Refusing to be accountable lol
A woman with kids will never see a stepdad as the prize, they never do. In fact they double down on both their own behavior and enable the childs behavior as step daddy is just here for resources.
Why do people fight so hard to save women from their mistakes. The kid not even going to respect you because they know you shouldn't be there either. That's natural for a kid your the one going against nature no where else in the animal kingdom do you see this behavior.
Well done, Anton. I noticed a few weak men shaking their heads on what Anton realistically said and they didn’t grasp that. These dudes are willing gonna tolerate a bad b***h behaviour, knowing damn well the same women will never respect them anymore. 🎯🤦🏾♂️💯
Wow, this dude AR blew my mind to smithereens when he answered to Anton, saying that he doesn't see anything wrong with taking care of another man's kids. Wowzers! @7:20
@@odog76543so was I. Never again. There's no upside to it. AR24's problem is that he, like most black people in this country, is so used to living in dysfunction that he's become desensitized to it. He doesn't realize that there's a better way.
I'm telling my sons to not date single moms. It's too difficult to try and find one that ain't caught up on the baby daddy. Ask yourself would she choose you if she didn't have kids?
Young men....be very careful. It is also very dangerous road to take sleeping with women with kids. Not just because of conflicts from babys father....but you may end up with kids from her and compound a very complex difficult problem.
The most important point is if women didn’t have the safety net of the government and simp stepdaddy’s, then they would have to be wiser in the choices they make in men that they have children with. Giving them the safety nets perpetuates the true problem in the black community.
That Package deal DON'T come with any warranties, its hard enough to raise your own children in 2023, Millions of women are realizing the Guy who wanted them back in the day ..Is not going to be available to raise pookies kids tomorrow..
I wish someone would ask these single mothers this simple math question: A single mother has 3 kids (2 boys/ 1 girl). She dates a man with no kids. They all live in a 3 bed room house with rent at $2000 month. How much of the rent should he pay: A. $2000, B. $1000 C. $400 D. $0. Remember he isn't the one that created the need to be in a 3 bedroom house and could just get a 1 bedroom apartment if he was single.
Zion Williams is a perfect example. When he got drafted he ONLY thanked his mother and didnt even mention his step father who invested so much in him to get him to the NBA. #f#@q dem kids.
Here's a simple analogy of why Men shouldn't date single mothers. "You're looking for a car. Theres a used car and new car but both are the same price. Which car are you choosing?" If you're not a car guy, I'll give you a video game analogy. Do you play another Man's saved game or do you start a new game?
@antondaniels next time you do a show on this topic, please bring me on. As a divorced man that played step daddy I have a really deep insight to this matter that can hopefully help these young guys understand why you NEVER date/marry and take care of another man's child
I agree. No one should take care of another person`s child. I am a woman and I could never be a step mum. I could never date a man with small kids. Its ok if a man had kids, but those kids should be out of the nest and living their own lives. Period! 🙂🙃
@@johnlawful2272 Those women are birds. Trust and believe, I`m a woman so I know. No woamn wants to raise or be a step mum to a child whose not her biological child. Those women who do that, are just doing that to please the man coz they want to be with the man. 🤔🤐
@@RKG5A5 I don`t hang around single fathers and frankly, I don`t care what they do, say or how they live their lives. It has absolutely nothing to do with me. 😏🙄😬
11:13 be real the majority of women get pregnant by Anton’s example. They get slutted out and have a baby by a man they know they weren’t supposed to be with long term and pick the stable option to raise their child. Coming from a guy that lived like that for 4 years I can say Anton is 100% right there is no upside to being a step father in most cases hardly ever and if a lot of men come to the realization that the “man that stepped up” is just a nice way of saying take care of me and my mistake(s) there would be less dysfunction in our community
Their eyes light up when they see a sucker and they talk with their friends 😂😂 man it's something to hear when these women talk about the sucker aka stepdad.
I love how the women get upset that Ant is not making excuses for single mother making life changing mistakes. That’s is what a leader is. His marriage is the leading example of what a husband is supposed to do. They don’t want a leader like they always claim. They want a sucker that will fix the mistake and then move the goalpost and say this what a real man that leads.
I should be on this show because they are describing my situation to the T. Now im single and haven't talked to her or her kids in over 3 yrs. Mind u we were in a relationship for 11yrs
Another man will always have the potential to have a say so in “your” household when you’re a stepdad unless the bd is no longer alive. It’s just a lot you open yourself up to when dating a woman with children
The bald head guy with the button down shirt who’s acting like he doesn’t understand what Anton is talking about is the BIGGEST SUPER SYMP!!! He must be a step baby daddy!
Let me get em, AD! Imagine living in a world where you are told you do things the right way and you will be rewarded for doing things the right way. What Anton is saying is that how is a reward for good behavior and discipline more responsibility? So my reward for not having kids and knocking up women is dating women who have kids and having new responsibilities that I didn't have before that women? Where is that a reward at? What other community really thinks that is a reward? If I have kids, that's one thing but men without kids don't owe women with kids shit. PERIOD! Women need to accept this truth. I don't owe women anything just like they don't owe me anything. The days of what our grandfathers did is over. The new era is that everybody has to take care of themselves.
These adults trying to play ignorant is fucking irritating. They pretend not to understand what Anton is saying, and know full well he stating the truth.
If you by a random woman a drink at the bar buy the kid McDonald’s if you make it rain in the club buy the kid a coat now if you just work to get buy the thought of paying for someone kid is crazy
Most men are naturally simps and desperate for female validation.. I mean look at them.. they all look desperate for women and they want to be chose by women.. can tell they don’t get a lot of puss and are looked at as goofballs and lames in the streets.. soo all they know is simping.. Anton got his own mind first and his own biz.. so his approach to life and women will Be much diff
I understand what he saying but the simp word is where I feel like he messes up his point with them. If she’s making you happy and treating you good you not a simp. But if she dogging you and you continue to stay with her then you a simp.
Stepdad equals Simp Anton is right, let’s stop promoting mediocrity in Black Culture & encourage women to make better choices with who they choose to sleep with & make babies… Teach Young Black Women To Protect their bodies & future like a Quality Man Protects his last name
I was a step baby daddy never got married but did the living together thing I can admit from my mistakes we tolerated the kids because it allows us easy reoccurring box I went in with the ideology that two teens would be easier because they teens they stay in they room ask for $20 here and there it’s easy nooope them was some of the most Jerry springer kids I ever met
So sad how us dark skin brothers are the main ones failing to uphold this standard..apologising for step daddying 0M Step dadying. 0M = no kids by the Male
Many of these step fathers are men that either don't have choices when it comes to women or they come from a single mother's home and want to save a chick that reminds them of their mom. Most of these step parents in today's society want the women not the children because if they break up most those men don't keep up relationships with their ex's children....
Don’t be a step dad I been one 7 years an I haven’t met one guy who said it worked out not one it’s hell you’ll turn into a monster cause of the built up disrespect you’ll be taking as a step dad
Being a Step Parent is a life fulfilling experience both for the child and for the parent. The issue is the Adults. They do not set ground rules for the relationship. What is expected and what the responsibilities are shared or voided.
I told my sons don’t plant your seeds in that garden unless you want your kids pawned and traded for a government check and for your kids to starve because they’re going to sell them food stamps for some weaves 🤣
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Every blk man needs to understand that he has a right to start his own family and legacy, not to inherited another’s. Period point blank
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Not the point. You can't demonize anybody for having kids at a certain age because at a certain age alot of people have kids especially if you're over 30. So that means be single until your kids are 18? What if the baby father is dead. Yall have no real point
@@jeromemock26 we are not obligated to raise another mans child, no matter how one looks at it, imagine a man was 600 pounds, unemployed , and lives with his mother and said he deserved a model , the world would laugh at him, man or woman , both sound delusional .
It's a point blank period. Wtf!
That's exactly what that means , I know honorable single mothers that will not date until the kids are adults because she understands she has an obligation to her kids and not to confuse those innocent children by bringing one man home after another @@jeromemock26
I can understand step fathers happening on occasion, and best of luck to those men, but to advocate and argue for being a stepdaddy is just nasty
If the biological father passed away that’s the ONLY reason another man should step in. Another man should not step in for a woman’s mistake or negligence of the relationship with the father of the child. Most women either choose wrong or feel once the child is born they have a license to abandon their wifely duties.
@RicardoCray I'm not even sure death is the exception anymore. It's up to that woman's male relatives to step up. That's what family is really for, right? Bringing in a step dad is just double trauma on the child, dead father, and now new stranger.
@@RicardoCray#Exactly I agree with that . The problem is these chicks really think they have options when in reality they really don’t. These simps be gaslighting and lying to these chicks as well which is also detrimental.
Keyword: NASTY !!! VERY NASTY!!
Not just nasty but also selfish
The men that disagree with this have their simp chip activated. You've got no obligation to come in and take care of another man's child and the fact these dummies don't even entertain the idea that there are other women that DONT have kids, as options shows how bad the simping is. You don't have to put yourself in that situation but you choose to because you're a simp
Those dudes like those bottom of the barrel type women cause their easy lol once a woman has a child and the father isn’t around single mothers become desperate and start dating men who they wouldn’t date if they didn’t have kids because they know their no longer the apple of the eye for men they desire so they go find those weak men who will pick up the slack and once they get him emotionally involved then they treat them like a nobody and let their kid disrespect him 😂I’ve seen this happen on numerous occasions with friends, family members, and colleagues😂sad part is those men will stay and live through all that bs getting nothing out of the deal
😂😂😂😂exactly
@antwaink9389 yep.. most of the time it's an average to ugly dark dude dating the beauty he couldn't pull in HS. it's a sickness for us dark men. It took me till my early 40's to finally completely shake off even entertaining the notion.
What's sad is, and excuse me for reverting back to past simp mindset - consistent pussy from a 7.5 that used to be a 9.5 will be the hottest sex they can get from a stand point of banging something with looks.
simping is at all time high right now.
@@CoolGobyFishyep 🥷 do it cuz they want access to a home and rides in her car 🚗
I remember back in 2003, i recently graduated highschool. My female cousin claimed my highschool friend was the father of her child. When the kid turned 3 she put him on child support. The state put him in county jail for 2 weeks for failure to pay child support. After paternity test was given turns out the kid wasn't his. My cousin never gave him an apology nor gave him the money back he had to for back child support. Of course the state never held my female cousin accountable for patternity fraud.
Typical but extremely sick
Wow. That's cold.
He can sue her if he wants
@@demond1818 he always denied the kid was his.im not sure how she put him on child support, probably lied n tried to fenness the system
I assume your family shame her for what she did right?
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Right...?!
Say NO to being a stepdad fellas!!
FACTS!
You mean HELL NO
Yes say no Hell no I'm with you
Say NO to be a stepmom. Straight drama
The ones that have kids out of wedlock need to pair up!!
I been telling people for years having children is marriage. Paperwork is nothing, a child is a lifetime.
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The biological father will always think he has rights to the box because they have a child together. If she cheats on the stepfather with him, the stepfather can't get but so mad.
There’s always a simp and women know that!
And that's why women will never change.
@@fudgematthew33 bingo. these simps keep women unwed.
My brother Anton, I commend you. You can't save these fools. Simps have ruined the world, they are as bad or worse than the hoes they deal with. These suckers are fighting to sign up to take care of another man's child. Make it make sense. I too was a simp for years, but when you learn better, do better. I simped because I was raised by a single mom who blew up our household by divorcing my father. It wasn't until I got much older that I learned to see through her lies and see that she f'd up our family. That is when I learned better and began to see this world as it really is. Don't be a step dad!!! Make her live with the terrible decisions she has made in the past. Accountability is women's kryptonite.
I hope you will understand that people out grow others sometimes and what is supposed to happen to a child if the father dies ?
Its was never intended for men and women to have kids out of wedlock!! It creates a broken, chaotic and dysfunctional situation for society!!
Yes sir all men need a dna test
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Mandatory DNA testing will never happen for the same reason that family court laws will never change: women vote. Politicians who want to be elected or re-elected will never create laws that advocate for men in those situations. That's not the hill they wanna die on.
I know exactly what Anton is saying. I want my own kids. I'm not trying volunteering to raise another man's child when I can work harder to meet a good woman without kid's.
It’s like getting a 200,000 mile car 😅then start making payments
Facts
Amen, sir.
Facts
If a man is feeling generous, donate to a charity, college, or nonprofit. It’s never worth it going into child support slavery for any single mom.
The mic drop was him pointing out that 90% of women are participating in the problem while 10% of men are contributing; who’s really the problem??
This video shows just how common sense isn't so common.
LEAVE THESE USED UP BABY MAMAS ALONE! My son will know better than to bring a baby mama home. If he does, he is getting written out of wills and inheritances. My husband works too hard for his wealth to go to someone else’s bloodline. Not happening
FACTS!
Amen!! Protect yours!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
If you know the safety net will always catch you then you will continue walk the tightrope.
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Stealing this. 😂
exactly its always a simp out here and women know that! thats why i said if all the simping go away the problem will be solved! mostly!
As a woman I did not date men with kids,I knew once I got serious with him they came as a package deal,I saw the package but not the deal,people who have small kids need to make more of an effort to stay together
I had a girl tell me "the reason why women prefer dudes with kids is because they don't have to go through the labor". Do other women share that same thought process?
Marry before you carry, or face the consequences alone! That's what men are trying to tell you women! Anton is 💯 correct.
So what
An thts cool but yall need to stop put us men in the same category as sm we not the same fathers don’t go around expecting women to take on their kids women do.
I give a pass for widows because I'm a widower.
Anton, continue your commendable efforts, my brother. There's a significant amount of mental clutter we need to clear from the minds of our community. Our people have been so psychologically burdened that they genuinely think their lives are incapable of improvement. The battleground we must focus on is the mind-it's both the initial and final frontier. By uplifting the mindset of our women to prioritize marriage before motherhood, we can address this issue within a single generation.
I remember when I dated this single mom and met her 5yr old daughter for the first time, the kid told me “come live here so you can give me and my mom all your money” lol that was all I needed to hear 🏃🏽♂️💨🚘
😂😂😂😂right
Sick
Bruh lmao
😂😂😂
She pretty much told on her mother
I’m a step father & I wholeheartedly agree with Anton. I’m drilling it into my sons now not to ever go down this path.
And just to clarify sir, what you’re doing is commendable. The problem with our community is we’ve gotten so use to it that it seems like it’s the norm now. It’s one thing if we had a low single mother rate, but it’s high and most black men don’t even have kids.
Not enough true step dad's R speaking up. Step dad's were only ment for widows not ex-304's. I am not calling or saying your wife is an ex-304. I'm just say it was a culture safety net taken out of context & abused by the 304 women
Thank you becuase a lot of stepparents aren’t being real with how this ‘ish really goes! I tell everyone about what this journey is REALLY like. Knowledge is power.
@@missjoy6685 Step dad's were really only for widowed women not for ex 304's. During chattel slavery it became a thing because of the conditions. BW have been taken advantage of the system. It's 🕒 men 🛑 step daddying
@@antoniesseals8892 exactly. I didn’t have kids when I became one. I was totally against dating a woman with kids but it’s so normal in my environment to date women with kids, I was painted as the outlier. Once you’re in the step parent role the whole family dynamic is unnatural & weird.
Do you ever see women advocating for other women to be stepmoms 🤔
Nope. They know better.
LMAO! I've never even heard of such a thing.
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Women know women. They know women can be trifling, mean and vindictive. There's no way in good conscience that they would advocate for women to be stepmothers. Just wouldn't happen.
Nope lol
Remember fellas, if she doesn't want to have your kids but she does want your wedding ring then she's telling you that she thinks you're a sucker.
Anton is correct. Our community accepts BS and it has to STOP. Have standards for yourself men.
IF you are a stepdad or signing up to be a stepdad just know that you are NOT her first choice and you are walking into a mine field. It's better simply avoid these ladies all together. It's not worth it gents. Create your OWN legacy. I agree with Anton, the culture needs a HARD reset. It's beyond out of control.
I’m single no wife/kids and make 6 figures…trust me the LAST thing I think about is taking care of another man’s child!
this was one of Anton's best takes.
he owned the whole panel
and the other men there are trolling or they're part of the problem
no standards destroying communities. this take was fire
Yea but keep it a buck. 9 times out of 10 in 2023 and beyond, a 30+ year old isnt going to find a virgin mate or a mate without kids. Every female aint getting buss down like anton is describing. Some are, some these hoes out here with kids are reckless!!! But not all of em. Anton talks sht about him being with one woman and not being a step dad. But look at his wife....definitely not the baddest. Im sure if he left her, wifey is taking half. Anton aint stupid, he just good at painting pictures.
Don't be a stepdummy. Let them raise those kids on their own.
They all disagree with Anton but no valid rebuttal against his facts
It does not matter if she treats you well or not. You will never be her first priority. You will never be respected the same as a father who has a child and marries the mother. You are putting yourself at a disadvantage. It's that simple.
Facts Anton. Childless men shouldn’t have to settle with single mothers that treat them like second or last choice. Step fathers will never be treated like a prize
The thing is that most of these women would have probably never have given the guy who wants to play stepdad, a chance, if she didn't have children and hadn't been ranned through. Most of these women , when they were in shape , with no children, wouldn't have given these dudes who want to play stepdad,a chance to be with them in times past.Now since they have children, could be overweight, have emotional baggage and emotional trauma, and they can't get the Man they really wanted, they settle for a guy and let him play stedad, and provider for her and the family.And the worst part is, is that most of the time they still want their baby daddy or some guy they really wanted , but the guy didn't want them.This is why she disrespect the stepdad, make him jump through hurdles to be with her,act like she is doing him a favor for being with him,etc. Now there are some women who don't act in this manner.But most of them in this state do.
It’s hilarious the silence from the women on the panel. When Anton said that you all choose to have babies with the same men. 😂😂😂 Refusing to be accountable lol
Anton is just telling the truth 🤷🏾♂️
A woman with kids will never see a stepdad as the prize, they never do. In fact they double down on both their own behavior and enable the childs behavior as step daddy is just here for resources.
Most single mothers and their kids will never truly respect a stepfather.
This so not true!
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Why do people fight so hard to save women from their mistakes. The kid not even going to respect you because they know you shouldn't be there either. That's natural for a kid your the one going against nature no where else in the animal kingdom do you see this behavior.
Every naturally born man is inherently a Teacher, Protector and Guide.☮️⚖️✨️
I agree 100% you are attach to someone you have a child with for the rest of your life regardless if you have a wedding ring or marriage license
exactly. that is why marriage before carry is a thing.
If the child is not of my seed, I will not claim it as my own
Well done, Anton. I noticed a few weak men shaking their heads on what Anton realistically said and they didn’t grasp that. These dudes are willing gonna tolerate a bad b***h behaviour, knowing damn well the same women will never respect them anymore. 🎯🤦🏾♂️💯
Wow, this dude AR blew my mind to smithereens when he answered to Anton, saying that he doesn't see anything wrong with taking care of another man's kids. Wowzers! @7:20
That's what happens when you're used to living in dysfunction. You don't recognize wrong for what it is when someone points it out.
AR24 is sounding pretty damn naive saying he don't see anything wrong with be a stepdad. I was a step-dad and I absolutely agree with Anton.
@@odog76543so was I. Never again. There's no upside to it. AR24's problem is that he, like most black people in this country, is so used to living in dysfunction that he's become desensitized to it. He doesn't realize that there's a better way.
31 with no kids I would never date or marry a woman with kids I'm not going downgrade myself to stepdad period
I'm telling my sons to not date single moms. It's too difficult to try and find one that ain't caught up on the baby daddy. Ask yourself would she choose you if she didn't have kids?
I'm an advocate for raising your own children. Not someone else's. I'm not running a daycare.
Young men....be very careful. It is also very dangerous road to take sleeping with women with kids. Not just because of conflicts from babys father....but you may end up with kids from her and compound a very complex difficult problem.
The most important point is if women didn’t have the safety net of the government and simp stepdaddy’s, then they would have to be wiser in the choices they make in men that they have children with. Giving them the safety nets perpetuates the true problem in the black community.
DNA should be mandatory at birth!
Been saying this for yrssssss and you know who looks at me crazy and condemns such thoughts and ideas almost every single time I mention it?
Amen
Talk That shit Anton🔥😂😂
Why listen to a fem*nist? Anton shows his true colors at 3:12. He thinks women are capable of making rational decisions
Special agent a simp 🤣
Anton is correct I've personally dated a single mom worse experience and time period of my life! That still never ever happen again!
😂😂😂😂😂exactly
That Package deal DON'T come with any warranties, its hard enough to raise your own children in 2023, Millions of women are realizing the Guy who wanted them back in the day ..Is not going to be available to raise pookies kids tomorrow..
Simp without a doubt. I almost did the same thing but we broke up . Saved myself a bunch of trouble.
I wish someone would ask these single mothers this simple math question: A single mother has 3 kids (2 boys/ 1 girl). She dates a man with no kids. They all live in a 3 bed room house with rent at $2000 month. How much of the rent should he pay: A. $2000, B. $1000 C. $400 D. $0. Remember he isn't the one that created the need to be in a 3 bedroom house and could just get a 1 bedroom apartment if he was single.
😂😂😂😂right
Zion Williams is a perfect example. When he got drafted he ONLY thanked his mother and didnt even mention his step father who invested so much in him to get him to the NBA. #f#@q dem kids.
Here's a simple analogy of why Men shouldn't date single mothers. "You're looking for a car. Theres a used car and new car but both are the same price. Which car are you choosing?" If you're not a car guy, I'll give you a video game analogy. Do you play another Man's saved game or do you start a new game?
I like the video game analogy 💥
Or half eaten sandwich
The video game analogy 🔥🔥
I love you Aton!!!! Keep up the good work!!! Teach the simps!!!
@antondaniels next time you do a show on this topic, please bring me on. As a divorced man that played step daddy I have a really deep insight to this matter that can hopefully help these young guys understand why you NEVER date/marry and take care of another man's child
I agree. No one should take care of another person`s child. I am a woman and I could never be a step mum. I could never date a man with small kids. Its ok if a man had kids, but those kids should be out of the nest and living their own lives. Period! 🙂🙃
Women love men with kids and most of the time those kids stay with the mom
@@johnlawful2272 Those women are birds. Trust and believe, I`m a woman so I know. No woamn wants to raise or be a step mum to a child whose not her biological child. Those women who do that, are just doing that to please the man coz they want to be with the man. 🤔🤐
@@RKG5A5 I don`t hang around single fathers and frankly, I don`t care what they do, say or how they live their lives. It has absolutely nothing to do with me. 😏🙄😬
Bro, they don't want to hear your logic...stepdads is the new Captain-Save-A-Ho.
Mic drop moment at the end 😂😂😂
11:13 be real the majority of women get pregnant by Anton’s example. They get slutted out and have a baby by a man they know they weren’t supposed to be with long term and pick the stable option to raise their child. Coming from a guy that lived like that for 4 years I can say Anton is 100% right there is no upside to being a step father in most cases hardly ever and if a lot of men come to the realization that the “man that stepped up” is just a nice way of saying take care of me and my mistake(s) there would be less dysfunction in our community
I see it daily sadly these hood females are terrible they willingly get pregnant by dudes fresh out of jail
Drops the mic and walks out 😂😂😂😂😂
Simp, simp god bless you they caught another ATM.
Their eyes light up when they see a sucker and they talk with their friends 😂😂 man it's something to hear when these women talk about the sucker aka stepdad.
I love how the women get upset that Ant is not making excuses for single mother making life changing mistakes. That’s is what a leader is. His marriage is the leading example of what a husband is supposed to do. They don’t want a leader like they always claim. They want a sucker that will fix the mistake and then move the goalpost and say this what a real man that leads.
Ar24 was doing his best Simping, refusing to not hold these women accountable 😂😂😂
Mr./brother Anton's (undefeatable).Because his sword,& shield is (truth,& logic)!👍
CHILDREN ARE HAVING CHILDREN!!!
Special Agent 24 lol🤣😂🤣
He doesn't get it
@@damienkirksey7026 Exactly! He really advocates being taken advantage of by baby mommas. It's really weird.
I should be on this show because they are describing my situation to the T. Now im single and haven't talked to her or her kids in over 3 yrs. Mind u we were in a relationship for 11yrs
How does a man with any serious purpose take on a woman with kids?
People act like they never seen Baby Boy. Jody had two baby mamas and was still fuckin around but none of the women fucked around with other men
Yvette even said “I know you still fuckin Peanut”
Another man will always have the potential to have a say so in “your” household when you’re a stepdad unless the bd is no longer alive. It’s just a lot you open yourself up to when dating a woman with children
The bald head guy with the button down shirt who’s acting like he doesn’t understand what Anton is talking about is the BIGGEST SUPER SYMP!!! He must be a step baby daddy!
Let me get em, AD!
Imagine living in a world where you are told you do things the right way and you will be rewarded for doing things the right way.
What Anton is saying is that how is a reward for good behavior and discipline more responsibility?
So my reward for not having kids and knocking up women is dating women who have kids and having new responsibilities that I didn't have before that women?
Where is that a reward at?
What other community really thinks that is a reward?
If I have kids, that's one thing but men without kids don't owe women with kids shit. PERIOD!
Women need to accept this truth. I don't owe women anything just like they don't owe me anything.
The days of what our grandfathers did is over. The new era is that everybody has to take care of themselves.
These adults trying to play ignorant is fucking irritating.
They pretend not to understand what Anton is saying, and know full well he stating the truth.
🤦🏿♂️AD really had to break this shit down to kibbles & bits and they still missing it
Anton is 100% correct!!!!!!
I don't understand what AR24's deal is. Why is he advocating so hard for men to be stepfathers?
He doesn’t think that he can do better
He’s emotionally invested so he lacks objectivity, His mom or sister have kids out of wedlock,
Shit pathetic
He grew up in a single parent household, he thinks of single mom as his own mother.
@@joshox7151 maybe so.
If you by a random woman a drink at the bar buy the kid McDonald’s if you make it rain in the club buy the kid a coat now if you just work to get buy the thought of paying for someone kid is crazy
Anton is the only sane person on these panels. It's crazy how fargone these dudes are
Most men are naturally simps and desperate for female validation.. I mean look at them.. they all look desperate for women and they want to be chose by women.. can tell they don’t get a lot of puss and are looked at as goofballs and lames in the streets.. soo all they know is simping.. Anton got his own mind first and his own biz.. so his approach to life and women will
Be much diff
I understand what he saying but the simp word is where I feel like he messes up his point with them. If she’s making you happy and treating you good you not a simp. But if she dogging you and you continue to stay with her then you a simp.
Dude ain’t lying though. Anton is telling the truth.
Stepdad equals Simp Anton is right, let’s stop promoting mediocrity in Black Culture & encourage women to make better choices with who they choose to sleep with & make babies… Teach Young Black Women To Protect their bodies & future like a Quality Man Protects his last name
They don't want the family in court laws to change because it will expose their 304 tendencies let's just keep it a buck.
If she will WITHHOLD the child from the "man of her dreams", she will certainly do it to you.
Past is indeed prologue...
That checkmate at the end! 🔥🔥🔥
Yo that phone demonstration was CRAZY🤣🤣🤣
AR24 is prime example of how the community will never improve because there is always a simp to enable them
I was a step baby daddy never got married but did the living together thing I can admit from my mistakes we tolerated the kids because it allows us easy reoccurring box I went in with the ideology that two teens would be easier because they teens they stay in they room ask for $20 here and there it’s easy nooope them was some of the most Jerry springer kids I ever met
lol
So sad how us dark skin brothers are the main ones failing to uphold this standard..apologising for step daddying 0M Step dadying. 0M = no kids by the Male
Many of these step fathers are men that either don't have choices when it comes to women or they come from a single mother's home and want to save a chick that reminds them of their mom. Most of these step parents in today's society want the women not the children because if they break up most those men don't keep up relationships with their ex's children....
It happens every day.
8:20 this is the funniest thing I’ve ever seen Anton do😂😂. They’re not catching the analogy!!! 😂😂😂
The dude didn't realize that Anton was low-key clowning him for not getting it.
@@fudgematthew33 literally ☠️😂
Don’t be a step dad I been one 7 years an I haven’t met one guy who said it worked out not one it’s hell you’ll turn into a monster cause of the built up disrespect you’ll be taking as a step dad
I begged my best friend not to wife up a chick with kids, and now he on his 2nd marriage with a woman with kids...
Anton preaching up in here man. We about to start passing the collection plate around in here
Being a Step Parent is a life fulfilling experience both for the child and for the parent. The issue is the Adults. They do not set ground rules for the relationship. What is expected and what the responsibilities are shared or voided.
The only way I see being a stepdad working well is if both parties have kids I see that working way better than being one-sided.
I told my sons don’t plant your seeds in that garden unless you want your kids pawned and traded for a government check and for your kids to starve because they’re going to sell them food stamps for some weaves 🤣
Be talking to that man crazyyyyy😅 boy ain’t no way my $$ going towards another man $$$shot and she be entitled
Man Anton you cut up ⬆️ on this one Jackson,Mississippi checking in…
Salute brotha Great show. SYSBM brothas
Single moms should be the first picks for polygamy
@@demond1818exactly 😂
@@demond1818checkmate 👏🏾
I don't want to pick them at all