@@Ceez542 of course as an old person (which I'm not) would like alot of grandchildren because it's a dream from raising a child, asides from seeing their child grow up to become a better person. See it from this perspective : You raise a child, then your child will have children . Isn't cute and satisfying for a parent?
@@lujorom9172 it should be, but nowadays it still isn't sadly, and there are way too many situations in which this does not happen. so the fact that the lady can reassure her it will never be an issue feels much bigger than the bare minimum
@@lujorom9172 the concept of bare minimum has died. For many the bare minimum is not being assaulted or cheated on whereas for many the bare minimum is to be treated better than the duchess of brunei or something. Add to that the fact people never even live upto these standards in the first place.
I’m so crying. As a Chicana that is attracted to “white” people, meeting the parents was the scariest part because I didn’t want them to immediately write me off based of my skin tone or family up bringing. I am hopeful though and know when your SO and their family, accept you as family…great and healthy relationship even if the romantic part doesn’t last.
When she started crying because his mother accepted her skin color i started crying thats exactly how I want my future in law children to feel nothing but love and accepted.
It is really sad that people care so much about race,religion,or sex, when it cones to who your children love I just want my babies to be with a goodhearted moral person that loves them as much as i do idc what that person might look like or where they come from. I want my children to find their soulmates and have the kind of love we all wish and hope for.
Jedi Master Joe Even still it’s hard. It’s something that’s a huge factor in most people’s lives and sometimes families don’t always approve of you because of your race. So it’s something that is always kinda there
Brian has won in life, to have the two most important people in his life not only get along but love each other is a fit most men never achieved; treasure it man, you are blessed.
Ok. This lady is an absolute angel. I love her. If you're adopting, I'm 28 and married and I have a job and my husband has a job and I really just want you to claim me as your daughter. Lol
I'm 28 and have the best Filipino (mind you smarter than me with a masters degree) Paramore. I was adopted 3 days after birth because it was planned. My mom is my mom , my birth mother was my birth mother, and I've introduced her (GF) to both. Just, shoutout for adoption, you don't have to birth the child to give them an amazing family who they too are apart of, that will one day say "Hey son, hey daughter, I love you and you're making the right call. Your heart is right & we love you."
This video literally destroys racism.... Like literally shatters it... A black gf, accepted by a white in law and loved by her Asian boyfriend ... So beautiful
I don’t know. A part of me felt like the boyfriend was almost fetishizing her. With the mom saying, “He likes black people.” and then her little “That almost makes you more interesting.”. Didn’t sit right with me.
@@Abraham-gf1oi I feel like she was just trying to make her feel better in the way that that generation does. My mum is the same, she's around 60 and says awkward things but says them with good intentions. She is white and I'm mixed btw so she isn't racist.
@@umbra014 yeah man I think I have been a really good loving person and some people have treat me pretty bad So I think he is lucky to have a kind people on his side.
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It usually goes that way, when you grow up in a loving environment you usually look for the same patterns. Sadly, the same goes for not so good upbringings.
@@sevendaysaweek2622 unfortunately it is an issue to some people. Sadly. I have a friend who was disowned by her father for dating outside of her race. And there are other cultures as well who don’t want their family going outside of what they are. It’s getting better but it’s still out there
I literally burst into tears the moment the girlfriend started to cry when the question came up whether the color of her skin was an issue for the mother and her sons future. Literally cried to her relief of the mom's response but also the sadness of the girls past relationships
"You are an adult couple, and you dont have to change that for us" 😱 that's amazing. She totally respects her son and gf for who they are and expects nothing else, thats beautiful man
Brian is confirmation that men are attracted to women who share similar characteristics of their moms. Janet and Kayla are both kind, sweet, humble, and yet spicy enough to make life more pleasant. The fact that this was their first interaction together and they gelled so quickly is a blessing!
Broke my heart when she was explaining she was nervous about how his mom would respond to her being black. Completely baffles me that we live in a world where that is still an issue. I loved this video, I love the love shown 💕
Casey Linker It is from all sides as well. As a white dude from rural Iowa, I never expected "racism" to necessarily manifest anywhere around me. Rural Iowa is quiet...we leave each other alone, and don't pay much attention to someone's race...we just live and let live as long as no one is being hurt. So, I never expected it around me...let alone HAPPENING to me. My wife is from Mexico and her parents are very traditional...all of my wife's siblings (there are 8 of them) are in relationships with other Mexicans...and the vast majority are even from the same area in Mexico. When we broke the news to them that we were going to get married (they speak very little English, so my wife did the talking) I could immediately tell they were upset. My wife wouldn't tell me what they said for a few days...but she finally told me that they expressed they did NOT want grandchildren that were half white. That was about 5 years ago...it has been hard, but they finally see that I treat their daughter properly, and have accepted that we are together. We have no children yet...but their comment about "not wanting" mixed grandchildren is still in my mind.
Ikr! It made me sad she had to worry about it but the mother's response was so pure and heartfelt and kind that it made me happy. At least she's finally had that acceptance.
I related to that so hard bc i dated this guy who’s family didn’t like interracial dating and they wouldn’t allow me to see him and that broke us apart but now I’m happy with my boyfriend of 2 years and his family treats me as there own (I’m black and my boyfriend’s Mexican)
Omg when Kayla started crying bc she was so worried about what his mom would think I literally started crying. Like to imagine what she was feeling when she met her ex’s parents who weren’t as accepting is so devastating and especially to know it’s bc she’s black. Awful. Glad that Janet is so kind and loving ❤️
I know! I have personally never expierenced that worry but seeing her body languague shift as she spoke about what worried her broke me. I am so glad she met this loving thoughtful mother. Just amazing.
Yeah I've been there especially being in the South just a lot of white friends talk about how their parents would disown them for dating outside their race. Not all but it's definitely been a good bit.
The tears were flowinggg. I've been there. One of my exs, his mother spoke Spanish and would talk so much shit about me while I was around. My ex never told me why he didn't like to be around her until we broke up and years later. Someone I dated in college once told me that his parents probably wouldn't like me based on my skin color, and that made me so upset too. It's a lot to deal with.
Oh hunny when she cries when the mom says she's happy she is black my heart breaks for her. The pain she must carry, the pain black people must carry just waiting to be rejected or discriminated against. That this has to be a question is heartbreaking in itself.
I cried when she brought up that she has had past issues with parents due to her race. That is such a horrible feeling and I would never wish that upon anyone. She seems to have such a beautiful soul that this hurts me to see her reaction.
CupcakeKhali I had issues with my girlfriend’s dad because I’m mixed but my girlfriend reassured me that it didn’t matter what he thought but I always had in the back of my head that It does matter.
omgg i started crying when she cried bc she was scared about not being accepted bc of her skin color,,, it just makes me sad that poc even have to consider if they're not going to be welcomed because of their skin.
Not invalidating POC but i can relate. Surely not as deeply as they can. Clearly they face much more hardship... But im together with an indian and white... Lets just say his father isnot talking to me at all... Which is fine... His mom and sister like me so im fine... But this discrimination happens to any race. But again. Making clear. Caucasian usually do haveit easier. Not invalidating the hardship poc have to go through
@Ndinku N'Jadaka over 2 years now... We are living together actually. If he does not come around ill be fine but its always a little awkward when im at my boyfriends place. 😅
@Ndinku N'Jadaka i hope it doesnt have to come to that to be honest... I want him to love his grandkids for simply existing and not because of any feature like skin colour... It just sucks. I really feel for the POC community and any other who gets discriminated on bases of looks... Theres only hope to work for a better future and more understanding i guess 😊 thanks for chatting felt really nice just getting it out!
This one had me bawling my eyes out. When she said she thought she wouldn't be accepted for her skin it broke my heart because you could see how badly she has been hurt by that in the past. This mom is a treasure and I pray they get married and get them 5 babies 💞
I felt that part, when she said she was prepared for his parents not to like her because she black. That's exactly how I felt before I met my in laws, only to find out they love me just like i've been apart of their family for a lifetime.
Thankfully you’re starting to perhaps realise that no one actually cares about what race you are and you need to get this whole racism thing out of your head.
@@webb555 and please before u decide to come for me this comment came from a very positive place in my heart, you can keep your negativity with you and your own thoughts. Have a blessed day!
I cried and recognized with her when she started crying because I truly means a lot to us black women who like to date men outside our race when the parents of significant other whole heartedly accepts us for who we are. It's heartbreaking when you love someone and the family doesn't accept you for something that you can't change.
Bebe Enderson I strive to be this mom. I want my sons to be confident with any women they bring home. Or any man! It makes no difference as long as they are truly happy. I wish my parents would have been that way towards me.
I am a white Russian girl dating a muslim indian guy from South Africa. I am so blessed with our families fully accepting our relationships. Can't even imagine how it would be possible to last for so long and being as smooth otherwise.
@@VixitTanya I am a white US girl who dated a Muslim Sudanese guy for a year and a half and never got introduced to the family and they didn't even know we were in a relationship. I am happy for you that that is not the case for you!
Just the way her face softens when Kayla is like 'I want to him to be my future and give him five babies.' She just wants HER baby to be loved and she sees it!
Wow. I'm tearing up. When I first started dating my boyfriend I'd kind of have to sneak in and out (while we we're 20/23, at that) because he found out his step dad is low key racist and didn't want me around. It's been 7 years, but I still feel like his family doesn't like me. The fact that this mom is just happy that her son is happy really touches me
I’m so sorry you had/have to go through this. You’re beautiful and if they don’t like you FUCK EM! (Excuse my language lol) I like you and I don’t even know you ⭐️ ❤️, you’re better off being at a distant. They don’t deserve to experience all the Black Girl Magic you have. Be blessed Queen!
What!? 7 yrs, Na. I would leave my family for love over racism. I’m white & I married a black man. No one, not once blinked. But I was raised around all ethnicities gay straight whatever. My parents let in be known early if you love another woman or another ethnicity.. no matter. Just love righteously. I can’t even imagine a life where my family limited my love. It’s hard for me to even fathom this shit exists. Anyway, you are beautiful. Hold your head up queen.
When she started crying because the mom said she was ok with her being black...bruh y’all have me crying in the club. As a POC who dates a lot of non-POC guys, I have definitely been worried about what the parents will think of my race. It’s a sad reality.
It really is since so many older folks are still living that generation of being super conservative/traditional Brought someone of a different culture into my parent’s house and a racial slur was the first thing that came out
I’m so happy that his mother was so sweet. I can’t lie, I was scared seeing that she was white and the girlfriend was black because of my own fear of not being liked by a white mother in law. I cried watching this, it was so sweet and wholesome.
I cried to. My ex fiance was Arab and muslim and I am a white, religiously non comforming woman. It didnt matter that I truely believed in a lot of what Islam teaches, or that I didn't eat pork etc. I was a white Canadian and it was therfore not acceptable to date me. Never mind we were truely in love. It tore us apart. This was something I had to go through one time, yes it was traumatic in ways I can't even explain. However, this is the daily reality of yourself and people of other races on a regular basis. So I can only begin to imagine what kind of pain it must be to worry before meeting new people, will they judge you based on the colour of your skin. It's heart breaking and it makes me angry because I had a glimpse of what that feels like, and it broke me in ways a lot of (white) people just can't begin to understand. That moment between the mom and this women made me cry happy tears. Her having the strength to share that hurt and the mother whole heartedly showing that she is truely accepted 😭😍
@@natashap4162 Yeah I mean the worst I've ever experienced is people saying I'm not "black" enough but I don't know hardly any black people and I'm just who I am and I've been followed like twice in a store.
I just want my son to be happy. White, black, boy, girl. I want him to have a happy, full, life. That's what all mothers should want for their children.
@@jomangeee Nope nope nope. It's always the mother freaking sons mom that's a total B and super protective 😅😅 Lol. I'd know. And I agree, I wish everyones mother in law was this awesome! Everyone deserves an awesome mother in law :))
@@jomangeee I guess! But damn, I swear mothers are more obsessive and over protective over their sons. My mom treats my husband awesomely. His mom puts me down and is jealous that I have his attention 🙄 Shes getting better tho, so I guess it's ok 😅
@@jomangeee I totally agree! And I do encourage him to do those things. We visit every other day, in my perspective it's her problem 😅 But it's getting better like I said. Good luck to you
@@jomangeee women are almost always way more protective of their son then of a daughter. To a mother when her son starts dating or gets married in her eyes that girl is going to replace her her daughter getting a boyfriend is not replacing her as a mother that's why more men are protective of their daughters than of their son because they feel like they are being replaced when their daughter starts dating a man.. and of course that's not what a relationship is supposed to be you're not supposed to become your significant other is parent put in a parent's eyes it's kind of like that where you're going to take over taking care of them emotionally.
I felt her tears! It's so hard being a black women we just always have a guard up because no one accepts us fully. I'm so happy his mom is so angelic . This is beautiful and I'm not going to cry 😭
i’m actually sobbing right now. as a black girl, if by chance i do end up getting with a person of a different race, i can only hope to have an angel like this women in my life 😭
Well, many do appear to be like that at the beginning or when they have to (like in a 5min video). My ex used to act just like her and she turned out to be a notoriously lying, manipulative, egocentric gold digger :( so sometimes you can't really tell, some people can be very sneaky and it takes some experiences, conflicts etc to truly unfold their real personality.
I didn't know that this was a thing in America. I'm aware that this "race" stuff matters a lot more in America (in germany we wouldn't even use that word for quite obvious reasons) but it's always surprising to me how much you separate the people based on their "race". I mean, were all immigrants at some point. The ancestors of most so called Americans came from England. Same with Australia. So to me, it doesn't make any sense to divide people based on their looks and "where they come from".
When Kayla started talking and crying about being in that type of situation where the parents didn't respond well, I felt that pain. Love these two, so much compassion and heart
Follow the sweet couple on IG: @kayla.steen + @brianchinn_
Why does this have no comments but this one
she reminds me of my mother lol
we want to follow the mom, chief
How can we follow the mom?
She is so pretty!!
She really hit the jackpot with the perfect mother-in-law
And vice versa
Right!
Shaden Shama yessss
She’s was definitely a hippie back in the day
His mother is soo sweet that girls a lucky women super sweet..
When Janet asks to speak to the manager, it's to compliment the food, the service, life, the universe, and everything
absolutely fucking correct
Hahahahaha so trueeee!
she would be like “i loved the food, and the service, and the aura of this restaurant is just... is just.. really making me.. tear up a little”
yesssssssss
the anti-karen
when the girl said "I would love to give him like 5 babies" the mother in law was like BING BING BING WE GOT A WINNER
What's the big deal of having a lot of kids? Genuinely curious?
@@Ceez542 of course as an old person (which I'm not) would like alot of grandchildren because it's a dream from raising a child, asides from seeing their child grow up to become a better person.
See it from this perspective :
You raise a child, then your child will have children . Isn't cute and satisfying for a parent?
Cesar 2 old people loves babies
@@notgbby Yeah old people love babies lol. I think babies are cute and it is like a cycle of life thing too. It's a legacy.
5 babies? I see a lot of sleep deprivation in his future...
Oh, and empty pockets...
when his mom reassured her that her race is not an obstacle rather something to cherish and learn from i actually cried. what a wonderful bond
That’s like the bare minimum tho
@@lujorom9172 it should be, but nowadays it still isn't sadly, and there are way too many situations in which this does not happen. so the fact that the lady can reassure her it will never be an issue feels much bigger than the bare minimum
Glad I wasn't the only one
@@lujorom9172 the concept of bare minimum has died. For many the bare minimum is not being assaulted or cheated on whereas for many the bare minimum is to be treated better than the duchess of brunei or something. Add to that the fact people never even live upto these standards in the first place.
I’m so crying. As a Chicana that is attracted to “white” people, meeting the parents was the scariest part because I didn’t want them to immediately write me off based of my skin tone or family up bringing.
I am hopeful though and know when your SO and their family, accept you as family…great and healthy relationship even if the romantic part doesn’t last.
When she started crying because his mother accepted her skin color i started crying thats exactly how I want my future in law children to feel nothing but love and accepted.
aww that's really nice
‼️🥺
Yup
I almost cried as well
It is really sad that people care so much about race,religion,or sex, when it cones to who your children love I just want my babies to be with a goodhearted moral person that loves them as much as i do idc what that person might look like or where they come from. I want my children to find their soulmates and have the kind of love we all wish and hope for.
omg when the mom said "i even thought : does it bother you that i'm white?" jeezzzzz she's the purest
And when she said "you are so BEAUTIFUL" MY HEART💞💞💞
Love her haha
Yeah she's so awesome
The mom looks like the type of person who makes really good cookies
I was thinking brownies
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣
😂😂😂
You know she does!
She’s the type of mom where if you were having a really bad day, she’d hug you and everything would be okay
So true
this is so real. i need her to hug me fr
Brian has two beautiful women in his life, lucky guy.
Well said:)
Yezz
she's the typa ex the family still invites to holidays
lxvelykat those are the worst
😭😭
lxvelykat she seems awesome to hang out with
i love your profil pic a lot🥺🐣
lxvelykat fr though
This dude is getting married way sooner than he thinks
No Madge for reaaaaalll
Yessssss! he knows it now 😂
way sooner than they both think. The mommy is gonna arrange their marriage
NO CAP 😂
He better...hotness
Everyone is talking about mom , but girl is a keeper
ikr she’s so sweet
999 likes I will be the 1k
She's nice
Oh yah she's a 10 overall like wtf😳
20+ bodies, that ain't no keeper pal.
You can see how Brian scored a girl like Kayla with a mum like Janet
Underrated comment sir.
This comment. This comment wins
THIS
My parents are awesome and I dont score at all, help
WORD!
Now he has to marry her because the mom and girlfriend are perfect for each other 😂😂😂
Yet2b4Sakn i was thinking this 🤣🤣
Yeeees. Haha
If your girlfriend gets along with your Mum that well and feels she can be that honest with her without backlash, you should marry the chick.
Fuck mariage
Right lol
Bro when she started crying bc she was afraid she wasn’t going to be accepted for her race 🥺
Her sons asian tho
I teared up
Jedi Master Joe yeah but she’s so used to being disliked and disapproved of because of her race that she still had that fear
Jedi Master Joe if you date outside of your race its in the back of your mind regardless.
Jedi Master Joe Even still it’s hard. It’s something that’s a huge factor in most people’s lives and sometimes families don’t always approve of you because of your race. So it’s something that is always kinda there
Brian has won in life, to have the two most important people in his life not only get along but love each other is a fit most men never achieved; treasure it man, you are blessed.
No Brian is officially screwed ,Mum has made her choice hes done lol
Officially the purest episode of truth or drink
Yea but its cut so they still have to throw several sex questions
Agreed. I teared up.
@@labriguci There is nothing impure about sex, Is there?
Yes, it just seems so emotionally healthy compared to most.
I agree
She is going to be an amazing grandma (whenever they have babies)
She Is An Extrovert, He Is An Introvert "Their" Mom, Is Awesome!!!
3 top comments, well done.
why the fuck are the 3 top comments all yours?!?! what is that spell u used
Omgsh, this was a really good one....I got ALL the feels🤗🤗
The Life Of The Cassells She Will be That one grandma who brings a fuck ton of presents at christmas
Ok. This lady is an absolute angel. I love her. If you're adopting, I'm 28 and married and I have a job and my husband has a job and I really just want you to claim me as your daughter. Lol
I support you
@@an3813 we all support that claim
She seems like she probably would.
I'm 28 and have the best Filipino (mind you smarter than me with a masters degree) Paramore. I was adopted 3 days after birth because it was planned. My mom is my mom , my birth mother was my birth mother, and I've introduced her (GF) to both. Just, shoutout for adoption, you don't have to birth the child to give them an amazing family who they too are apart of, that will one day say "Hey son, hey daughter, I love you and you're making the right call. Your heart is right & we love you."
Me too
The part where she was scared about her not being liked because she was black literally made my heart ache........... :(
Me too, man. It's heartbreaking that that's still a thing even after all these years.
This video literally destroys racism.... Like literally shatters it... A black gf, accepted by a white in law and loved by her Asian boyfriend ... So beautiful
IKR 🥺🥺😭
I don’t know. A part of me felt like the boyfriend was almost fetishizing her. With the mom saying, “He likes black people.” and then her little “That almost makes you more interesting.”. Didn’t sit right with me.
And also an old European type of opera music in the background .
@@Abraham-gf1oi I feel like she was just trying to make her feel better in the way that that generation does. My mum is the same, she's around 60 and says awkward things but says them with good intentions. She is white and I'm mixed btw so she isn't racist.
자스민 you can have mixed kids but still be racist. people fetishize
That guy has a bomb mom and girlfriend. He's one lucky guy.
Bayonetta yes
@@umbra014 sadly true. People seems to be insane these days.
@@umbra014 yeah man
I think I have been a really good loving person and some people have treat me pretty bad
So I think he is lucky to have a kind people on his side.
It usually goes that way, when you grow up in a loving environment you usually look for the same patterns. Sadly, the same goes for not so good upbringings.
Yesss
The girl looks like a black version of Camila Cabello, but omg she's sooooo freaking cute!
Oml ur so right
Oh shit
I WAS SEARCHING FOR THIS COMMENT I WAS THINKING THE SAME
Ikr
its the hair, outfit ++ personality
that women asking her if she was alright with them being white- okay, i love her to the death of me. that is upmost respect.
what kind of question is that😂 “ is alright with you that I’m black”
@@sevendaysaweek2622 it's called "racism"
😂😂😂😂😂
@@sevendaysaweek2622 unfortunately it is an issue to some people. Sadly. I have a friend who was disowned by her father for dating outside of her race. And there are other cultures as well who don’t want their family going outside of what they are. It’s getting better but it’s still out there
@@sevendaysaweek2622if you dont have to deal with it, it seems like a ridiculous question
They were both sent down from heaven they are so pure
@lea hall shut up
@lea hall lmao you got hurt. Try r/iamverysmart, its for people who look beyond videos to find the truth.
lea hall r u okay dude
@lea hall you are one smart guy
lea hall bro why are you so mad 🤣🤣🤣
I literally burst into tears the moment the girlfriend started to cry when the question came up whether the color of her skin was an issue for the mother and her sons future. Literally cried to her relief of the mom's response but also the sadness of the girls past relationships
Amj1994 SAMEEEEEE
I swear😭😭
Yeah. That hit me hard, then I started bawling my eyes out. This episode was pure goodness.
Oh my God I cried.
Same. It got me hard as it felt like they were asking me that question.
"You are an adult couple, and you dont have to change that for us" 😱 that's amazing. She totally respects her son and gf for who they are and expects nothing else, thats beautiful man
L W Translation: y’all wanna fuck in the crib, koo.
Brian is confirmation that men are attracted to women who share similar characteristics of their moms. Janet and Kayla are both kind, sweet, humble, and yet spicy enough to make life more pleasant. The fact that this was their first interaction together and they gelled so quickly is a blessing!
At the same time, kinda creepy tho
@@kevinroyfr LMFAOOOOO
Mom was a psycho bitch, then I married one… (for a while). holds true in this case at least
HE BETTER NOT MESS THIS UP!!! she is perfect, and perfect for him. His mother is amazing and they are so cute together.
do u know them?xd
@@antoniocoimbra5832 lol no. Only what I saw in the video.
Austin King it’s not even that serious fuck off
rozalina20009 he’s a male, he will.
@Austin King Chill out.. No need to be rude
Both women are ridiculously beautiful. That man is blessed.
Why did no one comment lol.
Those women are blessed to have him.
Meagan Bianca absolutely
yesssss
Her: **starts sobbing**
Mom: "you are sooo beautiful."
MY HEART, OMG
Bruh Lano omgsh me too
We all need a Janet to talk to sometimes. Im crying.
I am literally crying rn, it's so stupid
Broke my heart when she was explaining she was nervous about how his mom would respond to her being black. Completely baffles me that we live in a world where that is still an issue. I loved this video, I love the love shown 💕
Casey Linker right ... so sad .. I’m happy for them
Casey Linker It is from all sides as well. As a white dude from rural Iowa, I never expected "racism" to necessarily manifest anywhere around me. Rural Iowa is quiet...we leave each other alone, and don't pay much attention to someone's race...we just live and let live as long as no one is being hurt.
So, I never expected it around me...let alone HAPPENING to me.
My wife is from Mexico and her parents are very traditional...all of my wife's siblings (there are 8 of them) are in relationships with other Mexicans...and the vast majority are even from the same area in Mexico. When we broke the news to them that we were going to get married (they speak very little English, so my wife did the talking) I could immediately tell they were upset. My wife wouldn't tell me what they said for a few days...but she finally told me that they expressed they did NOT want grandchildren that were half white. That was about 5 years ago...it has been hard, but they finally see that I treat their daughter properly, and have accepted that we are together. We have no children yet...but their comment about "not wanting" mixed grandchildren is still in my mind.
Ikr! It made me sad she had to worry about it but the mother's response was so pure and heartfelt and kind that it made me happy.
At least she's finally had that acceptance.
I related to that so hard bc i dated this guy who’s family didn’t like interracial dating and they wouldn’t allow me to see him and that broke us apart but now I’m happy with my boyfriend of 2 years and his family treats me as there own (I’m black and my boyfriend’s Mexican)
I'm so scared to meet my bf parents as well. I am black French and he is White Lithuanian/Russian. T^T
A Janet is officially the opposite of a Karen.
i'm on board with this
can confirm, my partners mum is janet and she is lovely :)
Come on lets make this a meme
Yes
The Good Place Janet!
Protect Janet at all cost, she is the sweetest lady :')
As bayrakları as
@@wesnedday7021 belli etmesek olmaz hdjd
5 YEARS later and they are still together. AHHHHH!!!!
What are their social medias?
@@kayzzzzzzzzz pinned comment you two
Where are the babiiiies?
Omg this is the comment i was looking for 😊
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Omg when Kayla started crying bc she was so worried about what his mom would think I literally started crying. Like to imagine what she was feeling when she met her ex’s parents who weren’t as accepting is so devastating and especially to know it’s bc she’s black. Awful. Glad that Janet is so kind and loving ❤️
I know! I have personally never expierenced that worry but seeing her body languague shift as she spoke about what worried her broke me. I am so glad she met this loving thoughtful mother. Just amazing.
I started crying too omg
Yeah I've been there especially being in the South just a lot of white friends talk about how their parents would disown them for dating outside their race. Not all but it's definitely been a good bit.
I also cried. :(
The tears were flowinggg. I've been there. One of my exs, his mother spoke Spanish and would talk so much shit about me while I was around. My ex never told me why he didn't like to be around her until we broke up and years later. Someone I dated in college once told me that his parents probably wouldn't like me based on my skin color, and that made me so upset too. It's a lot to deal with.
Janet is a freaking role model. Kind, loving and empathetic. Humanity has hope, we need more Janet's xx
Lol ok
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@@sunny-xo4qj oh wow. Well, didn’t expect that 😉
out of context this sort of sounds like a reference to the good place
@@henloworld514 does it? Too bad I have never seen it - must definitely check it out
I feel like if they'd break up, Janet and Kayla would be closer than Brian and his mom.
Chiiill
They definitely have that connection
WarlandWriter
I agree
CHILL WIT IT
Oh hunny when she cries when the mom says she's happy she is black my heart breaks for her. The pain she must carry, the pain black people must carry just waiting to be rejected or discriminated against. That this has to be a question is heartbreaking in itself.
Yes....We anticipate it in every instance.
Ya me too because I am white. Most people of color no longer accept me. Pretty sad seeing that only changed when Obama took office.
best mom in the world
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Period! And HIIIIIIII TYYYYMMMEEEEEE !!!! Love your channel sis 💕💕💕
Facts
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I love how his mom is protective of the his girlfriend. That's the kind of mother in law we all want to have.
I cried when she brought up that she has had past issues with parents due to her race. That is such a horrible feeling and I would never wish that upon anyone. She seems to have such a beautiful soul that this hurts me to see her reaction.
I cried too!!
I had the same with being trans. Not cool at all and make you feel very vulnerable for the rest of your life..
omg! I teared up too!
CupcakeKhali I had issues with my girlfriend’s dad because I’m mixed but my girlfriend reassured me that it didn’t matter what he thought but I always had in the back of my head that It does matter.
That happened to me and I couldn’t go to any events because I wasn’t accepted and didn’t feel like I fit in(dating a white girl)
This woman is the definition for: KINDHEARTED..she’s so impressive..we need more of these pure hearts
The mom is so kind, accepting and understanding. I wish there were more people like her in the world.
Me as a mother one day
Right here. But I'm not a mom
The girlfriend's laugh is hilarious. Keep her
warning_fragile_ babydoll ..... it’s a real , laughter.....
@@paulwagner454 .....i......know......
omgg i started crying when she cried bc she was scared about not being accepted bc of her skin color,,, it just makes me sad that poc even have to consider if they're not going to be welcomed because of their skin.
gay armys it's goes all ways
boi you wouldn't believe, I relate so hard so I literally started bawling when she teared up
Not invalidating POC but i can relate. Surely not as deeply as they can. Clearly they face much more hardship... But im together with an indian and white... Lets just say his father isnot talking to me at all... Which is fine... His mom and sister like me so im fine... But this discrimination happens to any race. But again. Making clear. Caucasian usually do haveit easier. Not invalidating the hardship poc have to go through
@Ndinku N'Jadaka over 2 years now... We are living together actually. If he does not come around ill be fine but its always a little awkward when im at my boyfriends place. 😅
@Ndinku N'Jadaka i hope it doesnt have to come to that to be honest... I want him to love his grandkids for simply existing and not because of any feature like skin colour... It just sucks. I really feel for the POC community and any other who gets discriminated on bases of looks... Theres only hope to work for a better future and more understanding i guess 😊 thanks for chatting felt really nice just getting it out!
This one had me bawling my eyes out. When she said she thought she wouldn't be accepted for her skin it broke my heart because you could see how badly she has been hurt by that in the past.
This mom is a treasure and I pray they get married and get them 5 babies 💞
She is so lucky to have that woman as her mother in law!!! Omg I love her
Yes, she is. I wish everybody will be able to have a mother in law as she is🙏. So nice, so-so cute.
She’s so sweet
Mine reminds me of the movie monster in law do hes she so lucky 😩
I felt that part, when she said she was prepared for his parents not to like her because she black. That's exactly how I felt before I met my in laws, only to find out they love me just like i've been apart of their family for a lifetime.
this is a legitimate fear of mine. I love my boyfriend so much but I'll terrified that his family won't like me because I'm black.
I literally cried at that part. No one should ever feel that way. You are all beautiful no matter what colour you are ❤
Thankfully you’re starting to perhaps realise that no one actually cares about what race you are and you need to get this whole racism thing out of your head.
@@webb555 and please before u decide to come for me this comment came from a very positive place in my heart, you can keep your negativity with you and your own thoughts. Have a blessed day!
@@webb555 some do sadly.
The mom is seriously an angel! So sweet, caring, nurturing and understanding.
Update:- it’s 2022 and they’re still so together🥺
I had a mini heart attack when I misread so to no
Oh my God. Bless them
@@MinhVu-yz5rr same ngl
they’re together right?
How do you know?
when she held her hands and said “you are so beautiful” oh I’m sobbing 😭😭😭
Same
Me too 😭
Me too 😥
I’m crying too omg 😭😭 But I don’t like the way Brian said “yea” to the question of “do you want to get married one day?” It seemed inauthentic. 😕
Wow I just broke down..
When the mum said if anything she appreciated/ found her more interesting because she was black I couldn't stop crying, such a genuine heart 😭
I LOST IT!! Such a powerful moment.
That "interesting" part was kinda cringy but yeah beautiful moment overall
That MOTHER is amazing, and her soul is beautiful
It is wild seeing how motherly and caring this woman is. I can just feel the love coming from her
I cried and recognized with her when she started crying because I truly means a lot to us black women who like to date men outside our race when the parents of significant other whole heartedly accepts us for who we are. It's heartbreaking when you love someone and the family doesn't accept you for something that you can't change.
Bebe Enderson I strive to be this mom. I want my sons to be confident with any women they bring home. Or any man! It makes no difference as long as they are truly happy. I wish my parents would have been that way towards me.
What your said was very inspiring. So thank you! Also what's your type of guys
I am a white Russian girl dating a muslim indian guy from South Africa. I am so blessed with our families fully accepting our relationships. Can't even imagine how it would be possible to last for so long and being as smooth otherwise.
KKK im just hanging man
@@VixitTanya I am a white US girl who dated a Muslim Sudanese guy for a year and a half and never got introduced to the family and they didn't even know we were in a relationship. I am happy for you that that is not the case for you!
I’m just so happy Kayla found Janet, with or without Brian 😭
Marquis Ray why with or without? Did they break up?
@@Lechuga360 no
You are sooo right!! It’s amazing how people just click!
I love how she's a white woman with an Asian son who's dating a black woman, but they're still the perfect family
yess theyre so cute
University brochure teams are shaking
yall fucked up 😂
their babies would be so cute-
@@livinlavidalocha 😂😂😭😭💀
STOP WHEN THE MOM COMFORTED HER I WAS ABOUTTA CRY
THIS MOM IS 10/10 WHOLESOME AND ADORABLE
She is 11/10 😌✌️
6:15 “ you are so beautiful.” I wish everyone was like this...
I saw already like,1000 comments that you wrote
I was commenting while watching the video ❤️
Jay Pürz ...but she is beautiful though
This part had me.
I was honestly trying not to cry when she said that
I would kill to have this woman as a mother in law.
Ororo Monroe me too!!!!
PowerHouse C she is wayyyy too sweet. Her energy is EVERYTHING.
Elisabeth Marie she’s my favorite hero of all time as well.
Tell me about it🙄
❤
ok but this is actually one of the most wholesome truth or drinks i've watched in a while
Aww I’m happy that his mom is so happy for them.
im happy that u are happy for the mom who is happy for them
Banishedsquirrel I’m happy that you are happy that Cassells is happy for the mom who is happy for them.
I love itttt
Just the way her face softens when Kayla is like 'I want to him to be my future and give him five babies.' She just wants HER baby to be loved and she sees it!
Me too 😭💕
Wow. I'm tearing up.
When I first started dating my boyfriend I'd kind of have to sneak in and out (while we we're 20/23, at that) because he found out his step dad is low key racist and didn't want me around.
It's been 7 years, but I still feel like his family doesn't like me.
The fact that this mom is just happy that her son is happy really touches me
Ashley Mapes be blessed
I’m so sorry you had/have to go through this. You’re beautiful and if they don’t like you FUCK EM! (Excuse my language lol) I like you and I don’t even know you ⭐️ ❤️, you’re better off being at a distant. They don’t deserve to experience all the Black Girl Magic you have. Be blessed Queen!
I'm so sorry for that
I hope you guys always feel happiness
Im currently in this situation. It's tough honestly but keep your head up sister✌🏾
What!? 7 yrs, Na.
I would leave my family for love over racism.
I’m white & I married a black man. No one, not once blinked.
But I was raised around all ethnicities gay straight whatever.
My parents let in be known early if you love another woman or another ethnicity.. no matter. Just love righteously.
I can’t even imagine a life where my family limited my love.
It’s hard for me to even fathom this shit exists.
Anyway, you are beautiful.
Hold your head up queen.
When she started crying because the mom said she was ok with her being black...bruh y’all have me crying in the club. As a POC who dates a lot of non-POC guys, I have definitely been worried about what the parents will think of my race. It’s a sad reality.
😭😭
tf is poc?@@ailiab373
@@Alexander_Winther Person of color
Oh! thx!
@@ailiab373
It really is since so many older folks are still living that generation of being super conservative/traditional
Brought someone of a different culture into my parent’s house and a racial slur was the first thing that came out
6:10 damn man i almost cried myself, you could feel the relief on the girlfriends side and the warmth from the mother.
I’m so happy that his mother was so sweet. I can’t lie, I was scared seeing that she was white and the girlfriend was black because of my own fear of not being liked by a white mother in law. I cried watching this, it was so sweet and wholesome.
I cried to. My ex fiance was Arab and muslim and I am a white, religiously non comforming woman. It didnt matter that I truely believed in a lot of what Islam teaches, or that I didn't eat pork etc. I was a white Canadian and it was therfore not acceptable to date me. Never mind we were truely in love. It tore us apart. This was something I had to go through one time, yes it was traumatic in ways I can't even explain. However, this is the daily reality of yourself and people of other races on a regular basis. So I can only begin to imagine what kind of pain it must be to worry before meeting new people, will they judge you based on the colour of your skin. It's heart breaking and it makes me angry because I had a glimpse of what that feels like, and it broke me in ways a lot of (white) people just can't begin to understand. That moment between the mom and this women made me cry happy tears. Her having the strength to share that hurt and the mother whole heartedly showing that she is truely accepted 😭😍
I wonder what that's like I'm mixed and all my exes are white no one has ever had a problem with my race from all the parents I met.
@@Jloofaz I'm glad you've never had that happen. It really really sucks and no one should have to go through it.
@@natashap4162 Yeah I mean the worst I've ever experienced is people saying I'm not "black" enough but I don't know hardly any black people and I'm just who I am and I've been followed like twice in a store.
I just want my son to be happy. White, black, boy, girl. I want him to have a happy, full, life. That's what all mothers should want for their children.
She has the smile of a Disney Princess, she's beautiful and sooo sweet
Which one
Kayla
"I think Brian really likes black people" LMFAO
Lol
ricardo tavares lmao 60 year olds in the comments
Shy Rose ?🙄
Most Asians act just like Black people, it's like our hearts are connected
That’s mad rude
Brian sits there like "If I ever hurt my gf, my mom will disown me.".
His family gonna be mixed as hell
Shits dope 10/10
I think he’ll is made up of the same kind of people-regardless of race
I had the exact same thought 😂😂
Reminds me of me lol I’m white/black dating a Hispanic gurl😂
FPV Finn same i’m half white half asian dating a half hispanic half black boy ahaha i’ve called is the rainbow couple bc i’m lame
same i’m black/white dating my bed👉👈
You know who’s a keeper? The mother. God I wish every women’s mother in law was as sweet and loving as this ladt
@@jomangeee Nope nope nope. It's always the mother freaking sons mom that's a total B and super protective 😅😅 Lol. I'd know. And I agree, I wish everyones mother in law was this awesome! Everyone deserves an awesome mother in law :))
@@jomangeee I guess! But damn, I swear mothers are more obsessive and over protective over their sons. My mom treats my husband awesomely. His mom puts me down and is jealous that I have his attention 🙄 Shes getting better tho, so I guess it's ok 😅
@@jomangeee I totally agree! And I do encourage him to do those things. We visit every other day, in my perspective it's her problem 😅 But it's getting better like I said. Good luck to you
YES!
@@jomangeee women are almost always way more protective of their son then of a daughter. To a mother when her son starts dating or gets married in her eyes that girl is going to replace her her daughter getting a boyfriend is not replacing her as a mother that's why more men are protective of their daughters than of their son because they feel like they are being replaced when their daughter starts dating a man.. and of course that's not what a relationship is supposed to be you're not supposed to become your significant other is parent put in a parent's eyes it's kind of like that where you're going to take over taking care of them emotionally.
THIS IS SO CUTE WOW IM SURPRISED I HAVE FEELINGS
Javi guysl
I have feelings for you now. And wow you're THICC.
Wena la javi
Jaaavvviii yes girl I love you
Javi SAME
"I just want you treasure her"
I got something in my eye...
😭
If they ever broke up I would be devastated for them. They connect so well especially her and his mom.
Love that Shane photo 😂😂👏
I think things are looking pretty good lol. His mother is just another reason to be with him. Mothers-in-law like this are sooo rare!
Greasy B. If they broke up I’m getting her numba
Greasy B. That doesn’t really matter if the parents in law are close they’ll still be around after a break up because they like eachother.
If they broke up, there is no hope for me 😂
They're still together and that makes me so happy
Dharma Dutton what’s their insta?!? I need updates!
Dharma Dutton are they engaged or could you update
@@dreamsteal4773 Check pinned comment
@@kerrie790 ahh is that their account? I cant find it.
@@Samsung-gs4cn "Follow the sweet couple on IG: @kayla.steen + @brianchinn_ "
That mom looks like she makes BOMB cookies
R & A Squad and gives good hugs
Gabs yea
YES
Aiyanna Harvey stolen comment
@@smallbodybighead6 facts thats what i was thinking 😂
Update: it’s March 2021, and they are still together!
What’s their socials?
@@caitlynmatthews3569 I would love to find that out too these guys relationship is everything
Update, it's May 2022 and they are still together! 👏👏❤️🤗
@@ellieh8156 Really? I’m so happy!
@@ellieh8156YAYYY
I felt her tears! It's so hard being a black women we just always have a guard up because no one accepts us fully. I'm so happy his mom is so angelic . This is beautiful and I'm not going to cry 😭
@Dustin Spencer I’m flattered lol
Dustin Spencer I’m very flattered 😂
Dustin Spencer 🥰😍😍☺️☺️
I think she's an open minded person because it seems that she married a east Asian man because her son looks Asian.
Zelinkfreak1986 I mean... her son could be adopted. He doesn’t look half.
It was so sad when she was nervous that his mom was gonna be upset that she was black and I’m so glad that she’s not
Right, I cried a little. That was heartfelt.
You can tell from the beginning that the mom didn't care.
I started crying so fast
This woman is needed as a mother in law!!!!
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the diversity, the positivity, the tears of joy, the laughter, the love... it giving everything i'm hoping for in a relationship!
Ummmm I Love his mom. “I think Brian really likes black people.” 😂😂
Mixed Asian boyfriend, black girlfriend, white mother. Very diverse
Alpackz 2018
and that's not a bad thing
Very "Cut"
Blackanese
Or chinegro
His mother is such a sweetheart. Seems like she just see the best in all people.
Perfectly said that's it
The anti-Karen
@@AllTheWay0107 for reall
She has that love in her heart that we need much more in this world
Omg when she started to cry and mom in-law held her hands made me start to cry they’re going to definitely have a beautiful relationship and family ❤
A white Mom with an Asian looking son and his black girlfriend. That's mixed up and I like it 😂
f*ck racism
Welcome to America
all we need is a hispanic
1 ' he didn’t bash any of them nothing racist.
@@deadxne7588 He said fuck racism meaning racism can go fuck itself meaning they agree. No one was calling anyone racist.
"this version of motherhood is not available in your region"
:_(
I nearly choked 😂😂😂😂😂
Definitely not in 🇰🇪
This is really sad, but it's so funny
Pratyush Pandey she’s the best
If Brian and the girl ain’t getting married, then the girl and the mother-in-law sure are 😂😂
they're both so sweet i'd marry both of them
Welcome to India
😂😂
i’m actually sobbing right now. as a black girl, if by chance i do end up getting with a person of a different race, i can only hope to have an angel like this women in my life 😭
Wow women like the actually exist. She's not only amazing looking she seems to have a heart of gold.
Tea And one hell of a personality
the fact that I don't know which girl you're talking about because this applies to both makes me so happy (,:
Well, many do appear to be like that at the beginning or when they have to (like in a 5min video). My ex used to act just like her and she turned out to be a notoriously lying, manipulative, egocentric gold digger :( so sometimes you can't really tell, some people can be very sneaky and it takes some experiences, conflicts etc to truly unfold their real personality.
Lukas well she’s not one of them luckily.
Tea of course they do, society just makes them mean and bitter.
Source: me, a former carefree black girl
this is potentially the most wholesome truth or drink ive ever witnessed
W h o l e s o m e
I agree! This makes me so happy!
Seriously, this was the most wholesome thing Cut has ever shown
wow!
thats a TRULY integrated family.
we NEED more older folks with the attitude this mother has.
just awesome!
Janet heard kayla's first answer and was like "take him please god please gift me 5 grand-babies" these two are great.
OMG, this was my favorite episode ever!!
Haiii Molly I love your vids ^-^ and it was a great episode ^^
OMG I can’t believe you love cut too!
LOVE YOUR VIDS
Molly Burke omg I was just scrolling through the comments and am surprised you watch these vids! Love your vids too
Hey molly !
College Application: What is your race?
This Couple’s Child: Yes.
At that point, if I were the child, I’d just write “American”
I'd write "earthperson"
Yo Avatar.. I thought something was on my screen
@@MsDivinelight ew get on dark mode
I didn't know that this was a thing in America. I'm aware that this "race" stuff matters a lot more in America (in germany we wouldn't even use that word for quite obvious reasons) but it's always surprising to me how much you separate the people based on their "race". I mean, were all immigrants at some point. The ancestors of most so called Americans came from England. Same with Australia. So to me, it doesn't make any sense to divide people based on their looks and "where they come from".
When Kayla started talking and crying about being in that type of situation where the parents didn't respond well, I felt that pain. Love these two, so much compassion and heart
The thing is white parents love black muscular guys that play sports