Lets Swap Gender Roles Ft. Deborah (Blue Therapy) | The 90s Room
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Deborah is the perfect guest for Slander Women Month 🤣🤣🤣 the timing is perfect...Big up Deborah tho.
I’ve been watching this thing from the beginning and all I see is your comment 😭
You are a true subscriber 🤝😎
😂😂😂😂kicking it off rightt
The poster child for this theme 😂
I am 9 minutes in and "mispronpounciate" has me in tears LOOOL even as im typing now, the whole word is underlined in red haha temi why?
This episode was so funny 😂! You guys had your foot on Deborah’s neck but regardless she held her own!
She tried to but she got found out
Deborah still has alot of growing up and life to experience.
Her opinion on things will change. Life experience gives you hindsight
But I’m a lot younger than her and my mindset is nowhere near hers it must be her upbringing unless it’s a character she’s portraying for the show
@@cameron5320 that's good to know❤
@@cameron5320 I don’t think is has to do with age many ppl just have different views about things like that
@@estherx5859 but you can’t lie her thinking is quite naive
@@cameron5320 yea I definitely agree
Love VP coming through with a Nella rose quote “I’m a woman of standardddd”🤣🤣🤣
Temi’s face in this is hilarious he was disgusted for 1 hour😂😂😂
HILARIOUS 😂 & as he should be! Not gonna generalise but boy oh boy majority of women are DONE OUT HERE with this kinda mentality.
Find you a real one better hold on to her like money when you’re on the way to deposit 🤑 in the bank 💯
One thing I'm seeing more of is people going to couple's therapy with a professional or their pastor more often before marriage or after a year. A lot of people resolve issues before they become major this way and set the groundwork for how they resolve issues beforehand. So I kind of agree with her on that point.
Temi said MISPRONOUNCIATEEEEEEE
Fred has NO FILTER which is perfect for episodes like this😂😂
The reality is, there are men that can cater to Deborahs needs. Likewise there are women to happily do domestic work, so long as their bills are paid 🤷🏾♀️ each to their own abi
Statistically speaking the amount of men that can cater to Deborahs needs is relatively small…. Roughly just 10% of people earn 70k… just 70k is top 10% and then the age of people earning that is the over 45s so unless she wants a man 2 decades older she needs to chill
@@civildiscourse7626 but not every woman has her standards. 10% of the UK’s population is still there toughly 7 million people that’s almost the population of London
@@dexxteer_1238 but even still think about it’s only 70k (honestly when you think too 10% you’d assume is more than that but it’s the reality of capitalism)- good money but not enough to COMFORTABLY provide the LIFESTYLE she demands- she said she wants a man who can save, get the house and still buy her luxury at EASE… that’s more like 120-150k and that then becomes near the top 1% according to your math is 700k people of which;
how many are men? Straight men? Men that are within her social circles? Men that are her desired age range? Men that aren’t already taken? Men that have non racial bias? Men that would want her?… lol.
you sAy not every woman has her standard true but there are far more women who want these men than the number of men available which gives these men the option- and can she say with her chest she’s the top 1-10% desirable women? It’s a lot to consider
“mispronounciate” yea Temi was moving mad, man said Google it aswell 😂
with chest even lol
This was hilarious. I may not agree with all her views but I love Deborah 😂
Nah it’s the way VP was explaining his reasons for being calm with people meeting his mum from early and I said “yeahh cause she’s a human being” literally at the *exact* same time as him 😭 I hear VP on that fully, it’s ntd imo - friend, boyfriend, whatever, my mum will be happy to meet them
Liking the new intro 😄👍🏾
That's the problem though.
The meeting parents thing is subjective and it messes up the market.
Just because you meet someone's parents it doesn't automatically mean you are being taken seriously.
binged watched the channel all day and you can literally see the energy switch in this video, they could've been more respectful or treated her like other guests. Disagreeing with the way a woman wants to live her life doesn't mean she should be spoken down to like this? so weird to see the show like this, playground bully vibes
It's not that deep 🙃
Maybe because it's slander women month?
agree!!
I need whatever lotion or cream that Fred is using for his legs please 😂 Just shininggggg
instagram.com/lanna.shea/
@@90sBabyShow thank you!
Good grilling by the boys but debrah really held her own, she didn’t fold atall. Overall great conversation....
What is ‘anonymized’. Temi just makes up
Words because he’s an adult😂😂😂😂😂. Queen Lizzy tins
anonymized
adjective
(especially of medical test results) having had identifying particulars or details removed.
"anonymized testing of routine blood samples"
@@wintersummer1633 so it’s a word just used in the wrong context?
@@AkuaYeboaa yeah anonymous would have been more appropriate in that context
VAR MOMENT😂😂😂
Anonymised data is actually the correct term used within big data. When dealing with sensitive information any identifying information needs to be removed before the data is worked on or shared.
lmfaoo the way the story of VP talking over his girl to another girl progressed had me in stitches
Fred asking what we want to hear from the off! 😅
fred comes back every episode and reminds me why he’s my favourite >>>>>
Fred was on fire with the questions and we like it 😂😂😂😂
VP quoting Nella😭😭 32:33
Fred I’m not gonna lie, you actually need to be on blue therapy cause if Fred’s on I will believe that it’s not acting, he keeps it 💯
VAR for Fred on link up when he said he doesn’t wear Nike and Adidas together, he wore it in the Miami vlog 🤷🏿♂️
THERE IS NO WAY THIS GUY JUST SAID MISPRONOUNCIATE?!!!!!!!! I’m screaminggggggg😂😂😂😂
Thanks for the heads up about the nhs
Mispronounciate is an absolute mazzin 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭
I’m only 9 minutes in and this episode is killing me!🤣🤣
This goes back to the song "Two can play that game" by Bobby Brown loool just back and fourth
Jamel was taking bare long to confess that he did Deborah dirty moving like one Nollywood production! All that was missing was the Nollywood background music and the to To God Be The Glory before the credits roll!🤣😂😹🙄😒
People need to get used to Boujee Black women. If Deborah was a white women I don't think her requirements would be made a big deal... 😓
lol we are talking gender you are bringing race, lol my friend focus on one thing, let them discuss their own
@@90sBabyShow loooooooooool who said this please? I heard it in all 3 voices 🤣 ffs
@@90sBabyShow It's called intersectionality my brother, respectfully
Absolute nonsense men would still make it a big deal
Doesn't matter the race. Deborah would still be considered problematic in any race.
They are discussing character not race.
Men.... They always think they can tell women how to think, act and behave.
Deborah should’ve had a female there to back her. They keep trying to make her seem crazy for desiring a certain lifestyle. A lifestyle she can maintain herself. Are they forgetting that Jameel showed her that he could provide the luxury lifestyle in the beginning of the relationship? If it was a deception it’s not her fault for believing him and wanting those luxurious things to be maintained throughout the relationship. He didn’t have to fake it but he did. Nobody forced him. These men are there talking about “I feel bad for men because of the pressures to provide” what?!?!
These 2021 men have lost it. Offering nothing to the table and complaining about being expected to provide when they set up that role for themselves throughout centuries. They Claim that things should be different because it’s a new generation yet still expect women to cook, clean, take after the kids and on top of that pay for everything 50/50. They’ve lost it.
If she ain't paying 50/50 though is she, she best do the usual 🤔
thank you, i thought I was the only one. If Jamel cannot keep up he should have said that from the beginning
Women always think they can tell us how to spend. But have nothing to spend themselves. Lol it’s slander women month. We ain’t having it anymore. The suns out we want to smile in peace. A man said he wants roof over he’s head 2021 girls are saying fuck that I want bag lol we will get the house ourselves. Sleep with your dad if you like 😂😂😂
@@90sBabyShow no ones telling men how to spend? She stated what she wants, if he couldn’t keep up with that why did he pick her?
@@90sBabyShow She wants prada hat and he cheated yet she’s the one who needs to be slandered. LOOOOOL.
This is what you men do, you see one “flaw” in a woman and stretch it Until the end but never correct or call out your own gender. The audacity of it all. Not once in any segment was his cheating, lying and manipulation frowned upon. This is not the guy you need to be going hard for. Buy a house?! To do what shelter a broken relationship?? He needs to go eat & swallow shame with his boys in afronation. These 2021 Men are mad!!
HERE FOR THE NEW INTRO👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Fred said: did you undo your seatbelt 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I like your new intro guys!
Sick episode...Gwan Deb's tho...held herself down regardless and I gotta respect that..
Fred's match performance so fair is quality 🤣
This girl is to inexperienced and naive in life to keep up with these guys 🤦🏻♂️🤣🤣
Not "Ah long time PEHHH" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Temi gets on my nervessssss loooooooooooool. Nah Dennis you wrong for that sir lol
FRED!!!! I’m actually screaming for slander women month Deborah was a perfect target LOL
How did she not act with decorum and class?
She’s got a lot of growing up to do mennnnnn
The savagery in this video alone 😂😂😂😂😂
My type of girl.. straight to the point 😭😅
27:27 😂😂😂😂 that's an AK47 shots were fired
LOOOOL they were on his girl’s side of the car. VP really left that key detail out 😂😂😂
I do feel like males put pressure on women looks. It’s in music lyrics, you guys will repost women that look a certain way, talking about bunda’s. Stuff like that might put pressure on women
the internet has killed dating. both sexes have extremely high standards for each other now when everyone sees 'better' on social media.
They will do everything in their power to deny it to avoid looking like the bad ones and put them blame on on women to cause rifts between us for their own selfish gain. They know what they're doing.
I hear you, but like winter summer said, we have high standards for both sex, like women don't want a short, fat, broke, and small dick man, and having a small dick and being short isnt something men can change, and doesn't benefit women.
What advise would you give a man who is short, fat, broke, and have a small dick in society? how can they attract women when most women want the opposite of that?
should both men and women lower their standards?
But if thats what men like you cannot photoshop yourself in real life making all these changes from bleaching to bbl.
You cant manufacture beauty the make up still has to come off.
Date in your league thats it.
@@purpletruths6673 100% but to some people that is known as settling which is seen as a bad thing nowadays
Tbh Congolese people say Deborah like Fred says it 🤣🤣🤣 well that’s the french way of saying it
i don't like the way they're interrogating her sha, i don't feel like they're showing her the respect they show other guests. But Deborah held her own I like that
I totally feel the same way, she can have her standards. Men demand for ridiculous standards all the time
that's cah her delusion on certain topics is so flagrant that you can't even front.
@@melvyn.871 Imagine 😅🤣
@@olatoya9792 stop the cap lol why are most women on Kevin Samuels that are single? It’s cos they are most delusional and have stupid unrealistic standards
40:46 she said I'm the prize 😂😂😂
"Your the sugar in my tea" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It might be long for editing but think a great idea would be insert a replay of VAR moments
It’s true math will always bring your sport career down in high school 😂😂
VAR: 2:15 “6K came out soon”? Boyyy
Do you know how funny “Big man...Google it” is? LMAOOOO 😂😂😂😂😂😂
I don’t even know if blue therapy is fake or not at this rate 😂
Put some respekk on Deborah's name please!
I know Temi was frustrated this episode ahaha!
Very good discussion right there. Boys dropping gems on her 👌🏾
Looooooool temi maths was not mathsing 😂😂😂 100 you know🤣😂
if all of em come out and said this is fake why we still keeping to the script?
LOOOOL "Big man Google it"
Really like what you asked during the entire interview, you need to do many more like this, meaning talking about how men are pushed to do more, don’t get me wrong we can all do more and more but there is limit to every age … money comes for sure however there are sacrifices and failures and much more we don’t get to see behind a successful smile. In your 20s it is silly to expect and have all that pressure just for material and Lust Only … Luxury is sweet and taste good trust me, I find it unreal to expect so much I feel the EGO does not the SOUL, good luck to getting a 20 year old that can be rich, have a place , be mature, run a business and be faithful… kids out there need role models and you guys need to do more interview that will educate younger generations ….always a pleasure to watch ☀️👍🏽
I was fully cooking and had to stop when Temi said "mispronounCIATE". Next time, the helmets Temi's.😂😂😂
i thought she was just acting , these cant be real expectations
Bad boy intro 🔥 old skool. Temi's tekkers is new tho lool.
Temi looks so confused not even just disappointed 🤣 dw Temi im 20 majority of us dont think like this. Its just the small percentage of tapped people get airtime
15:10 VAR check: Temi says skates boards too instead of skate boards. Temi struggling this episode😂
Yeh he skates the board, stop reaching man
@@nabildad bro I beg u search up board on google. Does he skate on that. Set 8 smh
Fred dressed like he a Dragon Ball Z Character ready to replace Krillen...the swag is always on point 💪🏿👊🏿
Mis-what???!! 😂😂😂
Temi’s face at 26:56 😭😭😭
Dude, no link in description for the opt out... waiting
I love how Temi flexed the watch in the intro😂😂
Intro is way better🤝🤝🤝
Is this a joke or is SHEEEE MAAAAD !! Women of today yana !! oi mandem especially Fred 👊🏿 interrogation on 100, I love it 👊🏿
That side leg in the short, I can't look nowhere else 😫
Fred came for war frr😭😭
VP is rude u kno 🤣🤣🤣 how man say Deborah got the Rihanna 🤣🤣🤣
Deborah said she’s 24, she met her friend in college but she’s known him for 3 years? The maths
DTB
Just because they met In college doesn’t mean they were friends then .
@@Sc-st8vz is that what you believe?
College at 21? Make it make sense 😂😂😂
She's sampling different wood
I'd like to buy the 90's baby jacket (it's dope) but please add 80's for mine instead.👀👀👀
I think Jamal wants his girl to have a certain look but don't want to put the work in to get it 😂😂😂
Relax Temi I’m a medical student the Digital NHS data collection thing is a collection of data for research they can’t sell it but they charge for access they aren’t allowing for personal data like names and complete addresses to be shared as it’s illegal
I’m just saying this cos as a black man I don’t want black ppl to be excluded from data and for the community to be harmed as a result
24 speaking like a 60 year old that never left a Nigerian village. She needs to work on her mindset and grow past the my daddy said stage. It is hard but I believe she can.🥂
Life is going to hit her hard 🤦🏾♂️🤣
How can vp say “ you got the rihanna”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Deborah is buff I cant lie
Where’s the nhs opt out link
It’s there now
They tell you not to go because loads of the student's talk as they go toilet and miss vital info
21:22 They sell drog
one word - entitlement
PLEASEE GET PAUL ON THE 90s baby show ABEEEG
Fred was a bit mean to Deborah. She can demand for whatever she likes, men demand for whatever they want all the time
Lol no we don’t
90s Baby Network you don’t 😂😂😂
What do we demand off rip?
Temi was DISGUSTED!!!!😂😂😂
It's one thing to answer a call or text at 1am but to go to another man's house at 1am. Yeah that's wild. It's only acceptable if you're in serious danger and they are either nearby or you have no where else to go. Same goes if the friend is another girl.
Fred is on smoke today and i am here for it man
😂😂
I’m looking for the link about the NHS data. Please drop the link!!! 😬
Here you go
www.nhs.uk/your-nhs-data-matters/manage-your-choice/
@@nietzsches01 Thank you!
You forgot the link to opt out
its there now!
drop the opt-out link pleaseee
its there now!
Where's this link?