The usa and the world can use all the gospel encouragement it can get. As we wait for the rapture. Lots of unsaved people in the world, and lots are getting more interested in Christ these days
Too many people have chosen to lead a Godless life and feel they need ridicule those who love the Lord. They need our prayers too, what an empty life without Christ in it.
Beautiful post, thank you. I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and will write this in my journal. Im writing things that will give my loved ones hope. My biggest hope and prayer is that they come to know Jesus.
Yes He sure does The HOLY SPIRIT really filled that void in my heart. Yes it took me awhile to move on. But knowing held me in the palm of his hand just made it a little easier. And my church family was always there for us..And that was 30yrs ago.....And you dear sister have a Blessed ministry. The people you will reach with the love of our Saviour..love you in Christ
Becky, you are such an amazing thoughtful lady. I think you just may have to add some organizing tips to your content. I am so impressed how well you are doing it all. Acknowledging all your gifts and letters, continuing your show, and your “To Do” list. Lots of love and hugs and you talk about your Bret as much as you need, we are all here for you. ❤️
My heart goes out to you. I lost my husband 16 years ago after a very brief battle with cancer. I was a wreck, but I know he was a Christian and when his heart beat the very last time (I felt it, as my head was on his chest) his eyes opened and I KNOW that he was seeing God's face!!! That is what kept me going!
Love is costly isn't it? It's very hard to be separated from our lovelies. Our oldest daughter was killed six years ago. She was 25. We miss her so much but we shall see her again. God has and still is using it in so many ways. God bless you.
My husband changed his address 13 years ago, he had cancer. Diagnosed December gone from here Feb 1, day before his birthday and I know he's with the Lord. My prayer was to be able to help others that travel the same road..and Father has. I was 49 then..and my testimony Suddenly Single is on Beacon of Light Modesto UA-cam channel. God bless anyone who can help others in this situation, God bless you.
My grandmother used to say "Life goes on and we go with it". She became a widow at 60 and lived to be 104. She was very active and had a lot of friends and family.
I feel a kindred spirit with you. I have had a lot of loss in my life but I have not lost my spouse. However my spouse has had early memory loss for the past 8 years. I'm praying for your deep pain and loss. I'm thankful you have a good support system. I'm personally very lonely but know our sweet Lord has a plan for us that will bring glory to Him. Amen Kate
My husband has been in the hospital since the end of August, diagnosed with dementia. We’ve been married for 46 years, met in high school. Hopefully he’s coming home tomorrow. My husband is definitely not the same, but I will be ever grateful for him to be home with me. God bless you abd your family.
My hubby was diagnosed with dementia just two days before Christmas 2019. And we will celebrate 47 yrs of marriage in November. It's an interesting road the Lord is requiring some of us to travel. God bless you on your journey. May he give you all you need to get through this.
I'll pray for you & your husband.My husband was in the hospital a year ago in Sept. because of a heart attack.Thank God he's doing fine. We've been married 51 1/2 yrs. I pray your husband returns home & you'll have happy years together.
Becky, I totally enjoyed Today’s video. You don’t have a show, you have a ministry. I am so thankful you are going to keep doing it. Prayers for you, sweet lady, with love and prayers! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I lost my son by a drunk driver March 13 2021, he left behind 4 daughters. He was such a great person and has been missed by our whole family. I talked to him everyday and I still miss that time we had together. I still talk to him but it’s not the same. I just lost my dad September 22 2021. It’s has been such a terrible time. During this for some reason I have been watching your hillbilly kitchen and for those few minutes you take my mind away from my grief. I’m so sorry your going through this.
I’m praying for you Denise. Losing your Dad is bad enough, but to lose your son because of another’s horrible, selfish choice is so hard. I know this because I was maimed by a drunk driver in 2015. I went through a real serious phase of anger. I’m telling you this, because I want you to know, God understands every emotion. Tell Him if you feel angry. I did, I yelled it at Him. I screamed “Why?” He didn’t strike me dead. He stuck with me. He became so close to me, I was seeing God Winks every day.The anger eased over time...to numbness and yes even forgiveness. You will be in my prayers. ♥️
It has been exactly one week since my man friend passed away. I refused to believe he would die, never wanted to even have those negative thoughts. He was trying to prepare me while he was in the hospital via text and phone calls, my mind could not comprehend that he might not survive. I never imagined such pain and though my heart is broken, I am still praising God through this storm because I know my friend is sitting at the right hand of God. The pain I'm feeling is nothing compared to the joy that is coming (Romans 8:18) and that brings me comfort but just when I think I cannot cry any longer, the tears flow like a river. Praying for comfort and peace. 💔🙏
This was a great video. I know you are going through a lot right now. I lost my dad in 91, my mom in 98, and my daughter in 2014. It was very hard when I lost my dad, but I didnt think I would be able to get through losing my mom. Every time I tried to write thank you notes I was overwhelmed. My sister told me to put them away and send them later. Sorry to say later never came. My daughter died as a result of a wreck. She had had a lot of sickness as did both my parents. God has helped me get through all of their passings. It was a relief knowing they were no longer sick but I still missed them. You do not have to reply to my comment. I know you are overwhelmed right now. Take care of yourself and I'm glad you have family helping you through the tough times. I have enjoyed your videos. I dont cook much anymore, I'm 73, but I have a grandson that's 21 that likes to eat. So I'm planning to try some of your recipes. Again, take care of yourself and hang in there. God has got this. Shirley Huff
At a time when we seriously question how much goodness is left in our world, there is Becky. You exemplify everything that’s right in this world. God bless you and your family always! Sending much love. ❤️
I lost my Daughter at age 26. Was the hardest thing I ever went through 💔. On December 2nd 2007. Miss her so much! Thank You for the encouragement ❤️. Amen
Two words Amazing grace May God continue to strengthen you during this hard season. And I know Brett is extremely proud of you! Hugs from Florida ❤️🩹🙏
You are a year older than my mother was when she was widowed. This is a note to your children. You will get through this year and God's grace will carry you as you help your mother.
Wow. This says a lot about you. Trying to help others who have lost someone. Even though your loss is so fresh. You are a special lady. Also I love your inspiring message through the scriptures you bring to my life. Thanks
You are such a blessing . You do not realize how much. I wish there were more in this world like you. This world would be a much better pkace. Your living the life that is pleaseing to our god That is why you feel so blessed. I love the lord with all of my heart too. I love all your videos an anything you have to talk about i will listen. You are a blessing to me. And a lot of others i'm sure. Continue on. Keep up the good work an i wish you much happiness in what ever you do. Love to you a very loyal fan . your my kind of people. Peace to you an your family.
May Bret rest eternally in the loving arms of our savior Jesus Christ. May Jesus continue to comfort u and your family during this rough time. Sending u and your family hugs and prayers Becky💕🙏💕🙏
Thank you for "tuesday talks' Becky. You are a beautiful witness to what faith truly means. I am the last of my family. My only sibling, my brother 5 years younger than me, suffered through kidney failure, dialysis, amputations, and died in my arms (literally) 4 years ago. I did every thing I could to make his life easier, to help him, and after he passed, I was so numb I couldn't see in color for a very long time. I know in my heart that my brother believed in God, but when our Dad passed away at 59 years old, my brother "got mad" at God and held onto that anger for most of the rest of his life. But in my heart of hearts, I know he believed deep in his soul. So I know we'll see each other again some day. God promises ever lasting life if we but believe that Jesus is our Savior, He died for our sins and He rose again on the third day. God forgives us by his blood. Thank you for your unyielding faith and love for our Lord and may He keep you close and forever in His loving grace until you see Bret again. God bless you and your family, Becky. With love from Indianapolis, Alexandra Eads.
Becky, My heart goes out to you and your family. You are lucky to have some good support to help you get through this. A large family certainly helps. My prayers have been including you since I read about losing Brett. I lost my beautiful wife of 46 years on Nov 3, 2107. It's been 4 years and I'm still seriously grieving her loss. We retired to a 20 acre farm way out in the country to a place where we knew no one. My daughter and grandsons (9 &11) are 30 miles away so I don't see them often. I have no other family or friends for support and sitting here alone hasn't helped me. I still have many issues with life and getting through the day. Nothing much seems important any longer. I don't sleep well and eating isn't much of a priority. Nothing is fun or of interest anymore. I'm sorry to be a downer for you but I had to release this and you were so heavy on my mind I can't help myself.
Roger Huber. Are you trying a transference of guilt? Do something constructive and you will feel better about life. Help a neighbor out or take a kid fishing or teach them how to camp on all this acreage you own. Do Gods work and you will have a better life.
You best read Word of God on what type woman it should be if you marry again. Some women act Christian til they get married then they start on that women's right junk and become devilish
You’re an amazing Sister in Christ to everyone that is a part of this community. May the Lord continue to grant you that peace that surpasses all understanding, I can see He has granted this same request from an earlier comment. Stay strong. ❤️🇺🇸🙏✝️
Great topic for the first conversation because so many don’t talk about death. Seems off because it’s part of living. It’s the final chapter and nobody knows how to deal with the loneliness. So many want you to not show your emptiness and tears to shove them under the carpet so they’re comfortable around you. Why are we uncomfortable with tears, crying, sadness with the loss of those leaving a huge hole in your world. Doesn’t matter who it is in your life. We’re all different and had different childhoods affecting us throughout our lives that make those in our present life’s passing, unbearable. I could say so much about the need to keep them exposed into the presence of others around you because it’s not normal to bear pain in silence. No one is meant to go alone. I had so much healing every time I spoke of my brother, then my sister in the same year. Neither was sick until immediately diagnosed. God bless us in our pain and give us strength to suffer the pain in letting them go on into God’s goodness. I love you and wish you lived close to me. I’m sorry for your horrific loss of your sweetheart husband. Thank you for your brave approach in your loss. Good bless us everyone. Good night
Becky, I always talk to the LORD about you and ask HIM to give you strength. I lost my only daughter 3 years ago and sometimes, just sometimes I still grieve for her. Give yourself all the time you need. Prayers 🙏
I lost 2 husbands and my only daughter I still grieve for them all. I understand what you are going through. I praise God that I have a good church family I am blessed that I know Jesus as my savior. My prayers are with you. When my first husband died I was 60 and haven't had to go to work since.
As I was reading the comments I stopped here. My youngest daughter (she was 22) was killed in a car wreck in 2014. Without going into all of that, grief is always there to some degree. Whether it’s just missing their smile, voice, laugh or hugs, or a full on melt down, crying episode. The melt downs are far and few between now, but you never stop missing them and looking forward to seeing them greet you on the other side. In so many ways I can’t get wait to get there, so I can see Jesus and my daughter and other loved ones we have lost. God be with you.
This was beautiful 😍. I lost my mother at 88 years in August 26th. She had Alzheimer's Disease. Earlier, my Aunt and 2 Uncles also passed away in June and July. 😢 It has been a sad year for our family. I was a Caregiver to my Mom for over 17 years. We lived together in my home. I miss her so much, it hurts. Now my brother is in the hospital with kidney disease and pneumonia, please pray for him, everyone. Don't think our family can take another death. God, please pray over the family, we need healing and prayer.
I’m so sorry for your loss Becky! I can’t imagine your pain! I pray that the Lords peace will penetrate you completely!! I’m in Vermont and I am praying for you and your family!♥️
I lost my husband 2 years ago and my hardest thing is still going to bed at night and waking up in the mornings because he's not there. But one day at a time, some days one hour at a time. You have my sympathy and prayers.
I lost my wife just over 4 years ago. I watched your Brett video and it brought me to tears. So much of everything you said were just like echos in my own head. I will pray for you because I know how much you need them right now especially. Thank you for the videos and the inspirations. Keep doing what you are doing and may God bless you.
This Tuesday talk has helped me feel better. My husband has Dementia, he's in Stage 5. I'm trying to help myself prepare for his passing. But to tell you the truth how can anyone really prepare for a spouses death. I'm 61 years, old & my husband is 63. I don't have any children, or family. I'm all alone. This is the hardest thing I've ever went through. But I do know God is with me.
@@tammymcc-n7652 aw, that's so sweet of you, thank you so very much for the comforting words, & for praying for me. Your words bought comfort to me. God bless you.
Sweetie, losing someone in your life especially your loved one, is so hard. In life God tests us, we are only given what we can handle to make us stronger. I am truly sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
I'm so sorry for your loss!!! I lost my husband in April 2020. He had congestive heart failure. It was the beginning of covid, and because they wouldn't let me go to the hospital with him he refused to go. My prayers are with you.
Wow, Violet. Sorry for your loss, as well. Sounds like a special man you had in your life to prefer to be with you in his time of trouble. Beautiful love story. ❤️ May our Heavenly Father comfort you all of your days.
I’m watching a woman that has Jesus as a answer to all things it gives me comfort as we all struggle with hardships in life my God continue to bless you thanks for your Chanel 🙏🙏❤️❤️
I enjoyed this- it is like going over to a friend's house and sitting in the kitchen with them and having a talk- prayers for you Becky, I know God will take care of you
I think this Tuesday Talk will bring healing to you, becky. Don't concern yourself if it should be weekly or not right now. We will wait on you and pray you through this. God is with you and we are too. There's a lot of things we can talk about and I look forward to the next time!
Hey Melissa, I noticed your last name which is interesting because my maiden name is Hullett, we spelled it with 2 "L"s and the 2 "T"s. If I may ask where are you from?
From Maine - Still very painful at times for me in dealing with the fact that on 04MAY2020 after 25 years of marriage my beloved spouse went to be with the Lord - This comforts me as Thomas is in the Lord’s Presence - However, it is the gap from him that is so troubling at times - Little by little we are overcomers through life’s difficulties as we learn to lean on the Lord through them !! Yes, the Lord is the Way, the Truth, the Life for our hereafter - However, the Lord opened my eyes this week about that verse - The Lord is also the Way, the Truth, the Life in all we walk as we sojourn this present life - As we recognize that the Lord is the Way in the circumstances we are facing, He also imparts His Truth in those circumstances, and as we lay hold of that Truth we then experience life in the very circumstances that seem like death to us, as His Life is in His Word !! Thus we are thankful for what the Lord has done and is doing with praise to Him !! Becky is a beautiful, overcomer in the Lord ! Thank you, Lord for ministering to Becky and her family which is so evident !!
You may not realize this but you are such a comfort to me. I lost my son and the hurt still remains each day . A friend of mine lost her daughter last January and still is waiting on her stone for the cemetery! I guess we just have to pray for patience for all these delays!! God be with us!
I have always been a person who suffers in silence I never realized how important that now I am older that I need people in my life Thank you for sharing that with me God bless you I will pray for you Lots of Love to you from Missouri 💙💛💚
Hey Becky I feel your pain I just lost my daughter on the sixteenth last month I'm still having a hard time accepting it I started watching your channel to learn how to cook my grandma's cooking . I'm praying for you.
I’m so sorry for your loss.. a mother and daughter’s relationship is so endearing and a special bond that cannot be replaced.. I pray God will hold you close .. hugs
You make us feel like we are sitting in the kitchen with you just talking and reminiscing. Thank you for sharing your heart, your family and your faith. Continuing to pray for all of you.
MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. I LOST MY HUSBAND IN 2009. AND I MISS HIM MORE TODAY THAN THE DAY I LOST HIM. IT WILL GET EASIER BUT YOU WILL NEVER FORGET. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Tonight was the first time I've watched you, I saw the poormans cake first, then I saw the one about Brets life, and now Tuesdays talks ! I loved all of them and I too are praying for you and your family ! God brought me here for a reason so I will be watching every chance I get. Love and prayers to you ! In Christs Love, Sherry
I have been a widow for 15 years. My heart goes out to you. The first year was the hardest. I will continue to pray for you as your heart heals. I believe your sharing with us on this channel will help your healing as well as help your subscribers see God in action in your life even through grief and transition. I am so glad that you went to the festivals and Gatlinburg! This is so important that you keep making happy memories with your family.
I'm extremely sorry that you've been separated from Brett. There is no death but even Jesus cried because he knew the depth of grief people feel by the separation. You're a sweet spirit and my sister so I feel and pray for you. I know it's not the same but your husband is still with you in your daughters and grandchildren. Stay strong in the faith and know that you're loved by your many viewers!
My deepest condolences to you and your family! May the Lord continue strengthening you and providing all your needs according to his riches in glory. One day we will see Bret again! Amen!
The grieving process is on-going so just do what comes naturally to you in your Tuesday talks or any videos. Don't feel you need to end it because of any of us. There are many of us out here probably like me, it's been 6 and 1/2 years since my husband went to Heaven and, at times, it just seems like yesterday. Just follow your heart and continue to be open as you always have been. Thank you for continuing to provide content and letting us share in your life experiences. May God Bless you always.
May God continue to hold you close in his loving arms, God bless you all, trust that the Lord reached out to Brett's hand and he lead him to the promise land, a friend of ours little girl lost her grandmother Sunday from brain cancer and she told me Jesus took her grandma's hand and took her to the river that flows with milk and honey. Brett's in a good place there's no weight of the world, you stand strong and courageous, Jesus will get you through this trust in him, keep spreading the gospel to the people this is so desperately needed in today's world. Peace be with you all. I am home bound do to a accident I miss church and the gathering together as Christ said we should do. But I trust in him his plan is greater than I can imagine,.
You have been in my thoughts daily since Brett passed. When I found out Brett had passed, it was shocking. He passed on my birthday, so I won'tever forget. I cried for you as hard as I cried when my husband died over 11 years ago. I am so very sorry you had to experience this pain. You aren't alone. He's still with you. He always will be. God bless you.
This was beautiful. You are a strong woman with a huge heart, sharing your painful feelings for others. It's okay to be feel bad and sad and angry while being blessed.
bless you Becky, my heart goes out to you. I live in Ontario Canada. I have been watching your channel for quite a while. We need God in our lives every day.
I appreciate you addressing these issues, of our lives after the death of our loved one. I lost my spouse August 16th. I’m mostly alone, with little contact with people other than Sunday at church. God has given me so much peace, and comfort. I don’t really feel alone, I deeply feel the presence of the Lord. I do feel like I’m missing a part of myself, and sometimes it’s so hard to concentrate. Someone gave me words of wisdom, give yourself grace. May God bless you as you as you also travel this journey.
Sorry for your loss, sister. ❤️ So glad you’ve been soaking in our Lord’s presence. May you continue to have peace and I pray your focus is restored in time... but always remember grace 🙏🤗
Hello Deborah, It has been almost 3 years since my husband passed away…The first year is the hardest….but as long as you have faith in Jesus, He will get you through every day, especially the hardest ones. I truly understand the feeling of being alone, but not having the feeling of ‘aloneness’ with the Lord in our lives. We have the knowledge that we will be reunited when we pass away & that belief has kept me going so many times. If you feel like texting me, I would happily respond to your messages. Remember that poem ‘Footsteps’….I think it will speak to your heart. Another of your sisters in Christ, Kristina.
Becky your Tuesday Talk is amazing, I feel so blessed to have you in my life. You keep me uplifted in spirit and faith. I am going through a very difficult and stressful time, my husband has Dementia which is progressing quickly. I am his 24/7 caretaker. My husband Jim and I developed Covid and pneumonia in August putting him in the hospital for 10 days, I took care of myself at home. I would truly appreciate prayers from the Hillbilly Kitchen Group. I need to get myself healed from Covid, I am very sick and have not been able to keep food down since August, I have lost 28 lbs and am a small person to begin with for my size. My husband needs me to care for him and I need to get better to do this for him. I am a Christian but am struggling with my faith right now. I love Jesus with all my heart. I also want to pray for others in this group, we all need support from each other. Thank You 🙏❤️🙏❤️
@@hollytaylor6858 Holly,I will keep you in my prayers as well. The difficulty you are going through must be horrendous for you. I pray that you have help from family and friends. God will get us through these difficult times. My husband Jim, is now in a nursing facility and is in the final stages of dementia. He still knows who I am but doesn’t remember he has children. Everyday is a gift from God. If you ever want to talk,I am here for you. God Bless 🙏💕
Becky, you have been on my mind and in my heart. I think of you so often, knowing you lost Bret when you were 53. I was the same age at 20 year's ago when I lost my husband, unexpectedly. You are so strong and so brave. Thinking back to my loss, I was nowhere near to acceptance as you are today. I'm so happy to know you have your family who apparently is nudging you forward proving their love for you. Your first devotional touched my heart and helped me. I'm still praying for you and all of your family. Much love is sent your way. Until later, God Bless You Becky. Linda from Texas.
During a fierce battle General Stonewall Jackson was atop his horse watching the progress of his troops. His adjutant ran up to him and said "sir, get off your horse and seek cover, the Yankees are advancing and we are under heavy fire!" Stonewall said "Young man, God has appointed the hour and manner of my death, why I'm as safe here on my horse as I would be at home in bed."
@@PreciousLoveMusic ...I enjoy your comments. Our country needs the message of Christ more than ever. So sad for her husband passing but her faith is stronger than ever.
Oh Becky, THANK YOU, This Tuesday talk is going to be WONDERFUL!! We all love you, and your channel is a big part of our lives, so many of us feel like we're together in your kitchen with you cooking, baking or just talking. May our Wonderful Lord Keep his guiding hand on you and your family during these rough times. ((Hugs))✝️🙏💞
I knew a lady who had lost her husband and when she was close to dieing looked up and saw her husband and named others she was related to that she saw and she was so happy and her face glowed. They do know what's going on in your life so in a sense they are still with you. They are even more alive than they were before they crossed over. They constantly feel such great strong love from God and Jesus. They are happier than you can ever imagine. I died when I was a young child and got to be held by a grandmother who died when my mom was sixteen years old. I treasure that experience tremendously and look forward to seeing her again as well was all the other family and friends who have crossed over. I have no fear of death.
I'm so sorry about your loss. Sending you love and strength. I lost my son to suicide a year and a half ago. I still have dark moments where I don't feel like being here, I miss him so much. All smiles and happy for everyone and then I cry and feel empty at night. I keep trying everyday. God Bless you 💚
I am happy that's the Hillbilly Kitchen is still going to be on and I believe the Tuesdays talks will be a blessing too. I am praying for you and your family 👪
My Mom was 74 when my Dad passed on, so she was alone for 22 years. It’s never easy but as time goes on God gives us comfort and even though my Mom never drove, she adjusted well. We live in a small town and she had many church friends. My mom passed away at the age of 97, in December 2017, a little less than 3 months short of her 98th birthday. God Bless You🙏🏼
Thank you, Becky for your transparency during this most difficult time in your life. I know the Lord is using you to help and encourage so many others. I pray God will continue to hold and comfort you in the coming days, months and years. God bless you and your family.
Oh Becky! We feel like we know you, and knew Bret. We need hope, our only hope to be reunited with our loved ones is in Jesus. Thank you for all you do! You are such a huge blessing!
Two of my close friends have become widows the past couple of years. One was expected because her hubby was diabetic and ended up with kidney failure. The other was totally out of the blue. Thankfully these two women know each other and can talk to each other and support each other. My hubby was diagnosed with dementia just days before Christmas 2019. He is changing before my very eyes. I cared for my mama before she passed with Alzheimer's so I am somewhat prepared for the journey that the Lord has me on. Life is uncertain, we never know what will happen day to day. I am so thankful to have faith in the Lord and the assurance that when we do lose someone we will see them again. Our blessed hope. God bless you for sharing your experience.
I think its wonderful how open and willing you are to share your personal loss. God is close to the broken hearted and he has a plan. God is working through you and your great loss to bring others to his saving grace. Prayers. I love all your recipes.
Becky, I have been listening to you on your Tuesday talks. I lost my mom a year ago and you have helped reinforced my belief that this life on earth is not permanent. May God give you comfort and peace. THIS separation is hard but not forever, what is forever will be in Heaven. You will have eternity together. We will all be young and alive and with Jesus. It Doesn't get better than that. We have the hope and knowledge of the Kingdom of Heaven. May God Bless you and your family during this painful time. We Love You!!! Nick and Melody Ann Coholic and Francisco the Cat
I have watched Hillbilly Kitchen for sometime and this is the first I've seen of Tuesday Talks. I hope this is still going on. The simplicity of Jesus in the midst of EVERYTHING is what makes your channel divine. Thank you for what I learn when I watch your shows.
We lost a good friend of ours he was like family from the coronavirus pneumonia and we also lost our dog that we had for 15 and a half years on the same day which was October 4th 2021. It just doesn't seem real I've been trying to stay busy but every time I think of them both my heart just hurts
Becky, I just found your channel just a few weeks before Brett’s passing🥺🥺. You have touched my heart and I think of you and your family every day🙏🏻🙏🏻. I have to admit that I have never been touched by a family I follow on UA-cam as I do yours. You are soooo down to earth and you are strong in your faith 🙏🏻🙏🏻 I hope each day helps you heal a little more. I cannot imagine losing a partner and I hope I never have to😞 I have been binge watching your videos so I hope that helps a little with views$$😃 Please take care and know that you are cared for by so many of us who love your channel❤️
BECKY, thanks for sharing your life and advice to help others. I was widowed at 40 several years ago and my husband was 48. I think that you are very brave and trusting the Lord to get you through. I wish I could sit with you and share our hearts. You have that tender heart and kindness that makes a person want to be your friend. God bless, you are in my prayers. Much love
Truly, God's community is real and larger than life. Always ALWAYS remember that the Holy spirit within you and me can reach out and touch one another. Praise God. As for the comments just add a heart to the message and we will know that you saw it.
You are in grief. So am I after 20 years. It hurts, its physically painful. You must share as we all do going through the same. The only way to get a little better physically is by sharing. PLEASE CONTINUE TUESDAY TALK
I’m here for Tuesday Talk. I’m here to help you if I can. I lost my husband in 1993. I was 33 our daughter was 10. The most important thing you already have. Faith. Your Love for The Lord. Your children and grandchildren will give you peace and this UA-cam channel will keep you busy. And you have the prayers of so many. 🙏🙏🙏
I'm very sorry for your loss. I've enjoyed the Tuesday Talk and hope you continue it. I think it's so important for widows to get involved in something, keep in touch with people. My brother passed away in February, his widow was not near any family or friends and didn't get out much even before his passing. She was found dead in her home a few days ago. It is so sad.
Great talk sis! I'm alone, no kids no grandkids, never had children. I enjoy your recipes and now I can sit down and enjoy your conversations! Thank you, God's blessings and comfort. Here from Texas!
Becky I'm sorry for your lost. You and your channel have been a blessing in my life. After i retired i grew tired of the winters in Boston, Massachusetts and now live in San Juan, Puerto Rico so you have become a long distance sister in Christ. God bless you for opening your heart to the needy, i enjoyed your sharing of your life and hope that there be many more "tuesday talks." Stay strong in the Lord.
I lost my husband shortly after you lost Bret and like you I have my lists!! My husband also left me well taken care of and I will be always thankful of that. I have wonderful neighbors and a couple of close friends that I have daily conversations with so I blessed. I am very Thankful that I found your site here before we lost our husbands b/c this has helped me emencely Thank you so much..May God Always Bless You
I LOVE this. We need Christian content like this. It enhances hope and promotes faith.
Amen!!!!
The usa and the world can use all the gospel encouragement it can get. As we wait for the rapture. Lots of unsaved people in the world, and lots are getting more interested in Christ these days
My phone is how see this an it limits what I can do but know praying for you an yours thank you
Amen
Absolutely agree! God has been taken out of so much and it is WONDERFUL to tune in to hear down home basics. I can almost smell Sunday dinner. 😊
The dislikes remind us there is still true evil in the world. This woman just lost her husband and is still keeping her faith strong.
Fit Fogey - its not people - its yt algorithm
@@fullofhope2222 It is Russian bots, probably.
They Need To meet Jesus!
Too many people have chosen to lead a Godless life and feel they need ridicule those who love the Lord. They need our prayers too, what an empty life without Christ in it.
@@carblarson8868 no...folks deal in different ways. I ..my granddaughter..year ago. It is hard. We deal differently. Don't judge please.
This gives me great comfort. For a Christian believer, our loved ones are not in our past, they are in our future in Heaven. 💜
Amen!
Beautiful post, thank you. I have been diagnosed with terminal cancer, and will write this in my journal. Im writing things that will give my loved ones hope. My biggest hope and prayer is that they come to know Jesus.
@@mickeykyker4837 Amen
@@mickeykyker4837 💜🙏 peace and joy with Christ Jesus…Heaven is real.
Amen! 🙏❤
I’m only five minutes in and I vote for Tuesday Talks to keep coming.
Amen!!
My husband died 2 days ago and my daughter sent this to me. Your message has been very encouraging.
My sincere condolences for your loss to you and your family, Linda.
Oh my, bless your heart. I'm praying for you as we speak. I've been widowed twice but it's been 10 yrs for me. 🙏😇🙏
So sorry for your loss. Remember to pray for togetherness with those who are going thru this also.
The Lord makes our lives purposeful. He is the only one who can fill the emptiness in our hearts. May the Lord bless this Hillbilly Community!
Yes He sure does The HOLY SPIRIT really filled that void in my heart. Yes it took me awhile to move on. But knowing held me in the palm of his hand just made it a little easier. And my church family was always there for us..And that was 30yrs ago.....And you dear sister have a Blessed ministry. The people you will reach with the love of our Saviour..love you in Christ
Really enjoyed this “Tuesday Talk.” A perfect blend of wisdom and gratitude and humor. You are a light in a dark world. What a blessing you are!
I wholeheartedly agree!
Amen, praise God
I agree 🙏🏽❤❤❤❤
Becky, you are such an amazing thoughtful lady. I think you just may have to add some organizing tips to your content.
I am so impressed how well you are doing it all. Acknowledging all your gifts and letters, continuing your show, and your “To Do” list.
Lots of love and hugs and you talk about your Bret as much as you need, we are all here for you. ❤️
I'm sorry for loss you all are a blessed family
My heart goes out to you. I lost my husband 16 years ago after a very brief battle with cancer. I was a wreck, but I know he was a Christian and when his heart beat the very last time (I felt it, as my head was on his chest) his eyes opened and I KNOW that he was seeing God's face!!! That is what kept me going!
Yes
@@billycarter1911 It takes a long time to go from we back to just me
Love is costly isn't it? It's very hard to be separated from our lovelies. Our oldest daughter was killed six years ago. She was 25. We miss her so much but we shall see her again. God has and still is using it in so many ways. God bless you.
That is beautiful, God Bless you
My husband changed his address 13 years ago, he had cancer. Diagnosed December gone from here Feb 1, day before his birthday and I know he's with the Lord. My prayer was to be able to help others that travel the same road..and Father has. I was 49 then..and my testimony Suddenly Single is on Beacon of Light Modesto UA-cam channel. God bless anyone who can help others in this situation, God bless you.
My grandmother used to say "Life goes on and we go with it". She became a widow at 60 and lived to be 104. She was very active and had a lot of friends and family.
@@osakarose5612 I'm sorry for your loss.
I feel a kindred spirit with you. I have had a lot of loss in my life but I have not lost my spouse. However my spouse has had early memory loss for the past 8 years.
I'm praying for your deep pain and loss. I'm thankful you have a good support system. I'm personally very lonely but know our sweet Lord has a plan for us that will bring glory to Him. Amen
Kate
Praise God there are no people left like your grandma
@@mollylamberth5148 help me understand why you made this comment about my grandmother.
Thank you for this "Tuesday Talk". Praying for the comfort only Jesus can give.
Amen!
My husband has been in the hospital since the end of August, diagnosed with dementia. We’ve been married for 46 years, met in high school. Hopefully he’s coming home tomorrow. My husband is definitely not the same, but I will be ever grateful for him to be home with me. God bless you abd your family.
Green Thumb- I pray he will be able to come home with you and that you can still have many happy moments together❤️🙏
My hubby was diagnosed with dementia just two days before Christmas 2019. And we will celebrate 47 yrs of marriage in November. It's an interesting road the Lord is requiring some of us to travel. God bless you on your journey. May he give you all you need to get through this.
Prayers for both of you. My parents both suffered from dementia. He’s so lucky to have you. 🙏❤️🙏
I'll pray for you & your husband.My husband was in the hospital a year ago in Sept. because of a heart attack.Thank God he's doing fine. We've been married 51 1/2 yrs. I pray your husband returns home & you'll have happy years together.
Bless your heart
Becky, I totally enjoyed Today’s video. You don’t have a show, you have a ministry. I am so thankful you are going to keep doing it. Prayers for you, sweet lady, with love and prayers! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I lost my son by a drunk driver March 13 2021, he left behind 4 daughters. He was such a great person and has been missed by our whole family. I talked to him everyday and I still miss that time we had together. I still talk to him but it’s not the same. I just lost my dad September 22 2021. It’s has been such a terrible time. During this for some reason I have been watching your hillbilly kitchen and for those few minutes you take my mind away from my grief. I’m so sorry your going through this.
So sorry for your loss.
I’m praying for you Denise. Losing your Dad is bad enough, but to lose your son because of another’s horrible, selfish choice is so hard. I know this because I was maimed by a drunk driver in 2015.
I went through a real serious phase of anger. I’m telling you this, because I want you to know, God understands every emotion. Tell Him if you feel angry. I did, I yelled it at Him. I screamed “Why?” He didn’t strike me dead. He stuck with me. He became so close to me, I was seeing God Winks every day.The anger eased over time...to numbness and yes even forgiveness. You will be in my prayers. ♥️
I'm so sorry for both of your losses Denise, I think there's a reason you were brought to this channel, Welcome! 🌞💗
It has been exactly one week since my man friend passed away. I refused to believe he would die, never wanted to even have those negative thoughts. He was trying to prepare me while he was in the hospital via text and phone calls, my mind could not comprehend that he might not survive. I never imagined such pain and though my heart is broken, I am still praising God through this storm because I know my friend is sitting at the right hand of God. The pain I'm feeling is nothing compared to the joy that is coming (Romans 8:18) and that brings me comfort but just when I think I cannot cry any longer, the tears flow like a river. Praying for comfort and peace. 💔🙏
I’m so sorry Melodie. Yes he is with God just as my husband is. We will see them again. God bless and comfort you today and always. 🙏
Praying for ALL OF YOU WIDOWS JUST LIKE MYSELF, 12 YEARS NOW, NO CHILDREN! TITUS 2:13!!!
The LORD puts our tears in a bottle.😄
This was a great video. I know you are going through a lot right now. I lost my dad in 91, my mom in 98, and my daughter in 2014. It was very hard when I lost my dad, but I didnt think I would be able to get through losing my mom. Every time I tried to write thank you notes I was overwhelmed. My sister told me to put them away and send them later. Sorry to say later never came. My daughter died as a result of a wreck. She had had a lot of sickness as did both my parents. God has helped me get through all of their passings. It was a relief knowing they were no longer sick but I still missed them. You do not have to reply to my comment. I know you are overwhelmed right now. Take care of yourself and I'm glad you have family helping you through the tough times. I have enjoyed your videos. I dont cook much anymore, I'm 73, but I have a grandson that's 21 that likes to eat. So I'm planning to try some of your recipes. Again, take care of yourself and hang in there. God has got this. Shirley Huff
Some of us are called to speak. You have a channel God prompts us to do His will. God Bless you
At a time when we seriously question how much goodness is left in our world, there is Becky. You exemplify everything that’s right in this world. God bless you and your family always! Sending much love. ❤️
Amen, TR
So happy you decided to do this! Believers in Christ need each other, especially at the loss of a loved one.
I lost my Daughter at age 26. Was the hardest thing I ever went through 💔. On December 2nd 2007. Miss her so much! Thank You for the encouragement ❤️. Amen
Two words
Amazing grace
May God continue to strengthen you during this hard season.
And I know Brett is extremely proud of you!
Hugs from Florida ❤️🩹🙏
You are a year older than my mother was when she was widowed. This is a note to your children. You will get through this year and God's grace will carry you as you help your mother.
Wow. This says a lot about you. Trying to help others who have lost someone. Even though your loss is so fresh. You are a special lady.
Also I love your inspiring message through the scriptures you bring to my life. Thanks
This is a great idea
You are such a blessing .
You do not realize how much.
I wish there were more in this world like you. This world would be a much better pkace. Your living the life
that is pleaseing to our god
That is why you feel so blessed. I love the lord with all of my heart too. I love all your videos an anything you have to talk about i will listen.
You are a blessing to me.
And a lot of others i'm sure.
Continue on. Keep up the good work an i wish you much happiness in what ever you do. Love to you a very loyal fan . your my kind of people. Peace to you an your family.
May Bret rest eternally in the loving arms of our savior Jesus Christ. May Jesus continue to comfort u and your family during this rough time. Sending u and your family hugs and prayers Becky💕🙏💕🙏
Thank you for "tuesday talks' Becky. You are a beautiful witness to what faith truly means. I am the last of my family. My only sibling, my brother 5 years younger than me, suffered through kidney failure, dialysis, amputations, and died in my arms (literally) 4 years ago. I did every thing I could to make his life easier, to help him, and after he passed, I was so numb I couldn't see in color for a very long time. I know in my heart that my brother believed in God, but when our Dad passed away at 59 years old, my brother "got mad" at God and held onto that anger for most of the rest of his life. But in my heart of hearts, I know he believed deep in his soul. So I know we'll see each other again some day. God promises ever lasting life if we but believe that Jesus is our Savior, He died for our sins and He rose again on the third day. God forgives us by his blood. Thank you for your unyielding faith and love for our Lord and may He keep you close and forever in His loving grace until you see Bret again. God bless you and your family, Becky. With love from Indianapolis, Alexandra Eads.
Becky, My heart goes out to you and your family. You are lucky to have some good support to help you get through this. A large family certainly helps. My prayers have been including you since I read about losing Brett. I lost my beautiful wife of 46 years on Nov 3, 2107. It's been 4 years and I'm still seriously grieving her loss. We retired to a 20 acre farm way out in the country to a place where we knew no one. My daughter and grandsons (9 &11) are 30 miles away so I don't see them often. I have no other family or friends for support and sitting here alone hasn't helped me. I still have many issues with life and getting through the day. Nothing much seems important any longer. I don't sleep well and eating isn't much of a priority. Nothing is fun or of interest anymore. I'm sorry to be a downer for you but I had to release this and you were so heavy on my mind I can't help myself.
Roger Huber. Are you trying a transference of guilt? Do something constructive and you will feel better about life. Help a neighbor out or take a kid fishing or teach them how to camp on all this acreage you own. Do Gods work and you will have a better life.
You best read Word of God on what type woman it should be if you marry again. Some women act Christian til they get married then they start on that women's right junk and become devilish
You’re an amazing Sister in Christ to everyone that is a part of this community. May the Lord continue to grant you that peace that surpasses all understanding, I can see He has granted this same request from an earlier comment. Stay strong. ❤️🇺🇸🙏✝️
Amen... thankful for our sister and this community. Thank you brother ❤️ Peace and grace to you. 🙏
@@spreadthetruthinlove2540 To you as well. ✝️
@@unclenoah2914 Thank you so much
Great topic for the first conversation because so many don’t talk about death. Seems off because it’s part of living. It’s the final chapter and nobody knows how to deal with the loneliness. So many want you to not show your emptiness and tears to shove them under the carpet so they’re comfortable around you. Why are we uncomfortable with tears, crying, sadness with the loss of those leaving a huge hole in your world. Doesn’t matter who it is in your life. We’re all different and had different childhoods affecting us throughout our lives that make those in our present life’s passing, unbearable. I could say so much about the need to keep them exposed into the presence of others around you because it’s not normal to bear pain in silence. No one is meant to go alone. I had so much healing every time I spoke of my brother, then my sister in the same year. Neither was sick until immediately diagnosed. God bless us in our pain and give us strength to suffer the pain in letting them go on into God’s goodness. I love you and wish you lived close to me. I’m sorry for your horrific loss of your sweetheart husband. Thank you for your brave approach in your loss. Good bless us everyone. Good night
AMEN WE need the tools. ❤
Bless you, Becky🙂
Becky, I always talk to the LORD about you and ask HIM to give you strength. I lost my only daughter 3 years ago and sometimes, just sometimes I still grieve for her. Give yourself all the time you need. Prayers 🙏
I lost 2 husbands and my only daughter I still grieve for them all. I understand what you are going through. I praise God that I have a good church family I am blessed that I know Jesus as my savior. My prayers are with you. When my first husband died I was 60 and haven't had to go to work since.
Grief is an lndividual Process and Journey
@@aliciamangar1513 you are so right it is individual to the person and further to the specific relationship.
As I was reading the comments I stopped here. My youngest daughter (she was 22) was killed in a car wreck in 2014. Without going into all of that, grief is always there to some degree. Whether it’s just missing their smile, voice, laugh or hugs, or a full on melt down, crying episode. The melt downs are far and few between now, but you never stop missing them and looking forward to seeing them greet you on the other side. In so many ways I can’t get wait to get there, so I can see Jesus and my daughter and other loved ones we have lost. God be with you.
@@valorica3210 God bless you 🙏🏼❤
This was beautiful 😍. I lost my mother at 88 years in August 26th. She had Alzheimer's Disease. Earlier, my Aunt and 2 Uncles also passed away in June and July. 😢 It has been a sad year for our family. I was a Caregiver to my Mom for over 17 years. We lived together in my home. I miss her so much, it hurts. Now my brother is in the hospital with kidney disease and pneumonia, please pray for him, everyone. Don't think our family can take another death. God, please pray over the family, we need healing and prayer.
I’m so sorry for your loss Becky! I can’t imagine your pain! I pray that the Lords peace will penetrate you completely!! I’m in Vermont and I am praying for you and your family!♥️
I know Bret is holding hands with the Lord Jesus getting the grand tour of heaven. God bless you and your family Becky 🙏❤️
This was a blessing. Love the sidecar story! Don't stop talking about your healing journey. You're helping us. Love you.
I lost my husband 2 years ago and my hardest thing is still going to bed at night and waking up in the mornings because he's not there. But one day at a time, some days one hour at a time. You have my sympathy and prayers.
I lost my wife just over 4 years ago. I watched your Brett video and it brought me to tears. So much of everything you said were just like echos in my own head. I will pray for you because I know how much you need them right now especially. Thank you for the videos and the inspirations. Keep doing what you are doing and may God bless you.
I"m sure you'll get lots of support. Your love and courage is so desperately needed. People need hope. We all love you, Becky.
May the love of Jesus and the comfort of the Holy Spirit continue to be very real to you and your entire family. Thank you for your testimony.
May God bless you! You are a shining example of a Godly woman... thank you for sharing your life with us🙏
This Tuesday talk has helped me feel better. My husband has Dementia, he's in Stage 5. I'm trying to help myself prepare for his passing. But to tell you the truth how can anyone really prepare for a spouses death. I'm 61 years, old & my husband is 63. I don't have any children, or family. I'm all alone. This is the hardest thing I've ever went through. But I do know God is with me.
This is a very lonely time for you. Prayers for you and as you said God is with you-he is. 🙏🙏🙏🙏💕
God bless you. I pray for you as you go through this hard time. You are never alone with Jesus by your and your husband’s side. 💐
You’re really not alone. Jesus is with you, and we’re praying for you.
@@tammymcc-n7652 aw, that's so sweet of you, thank you so very much for the comforting words, & for praying for me. Your words bought comfort to me. God bless you.
@@anastasie_0214 thank you so very much for your prayers for my husband & me. God bless you.🙏
Sweetie, losing someone in your life especially your loved one, is so hard. In life God tests us, we are only given what we can handle to make us stronger. I am truly sorry for your loss. You’re in my thoughts and prayers.
I loved this. I was widowed almost 20years ago at 45 and understand the complex set of emotions you are talking about.
I'm so sorry for your loss!!! I lost my husband in April 2020. He had congestive heart failure. It was the beginning of covid, and because they wouldn't let me go to the hospital with him he refused to go. My prayers are with you.
Wow, Violet. Sorry for your loss, as well. Sounds like a special man you had in your life to prefer to be with you in his time of trouble. Beautiful love story. ❤️ May our Heavenly Father comfort you all of your days.
@@spreadthetruthinlove2540 thank you!!!
Please don’t stop talking about Bret.I wish I could have met him.I’ll continue to pray for you and your family.
I’m watching a woman that has Jesus as a answer to all things it gives me comfort as we all struggle with hardships in life my God continue to bless you thanks for your Chanel 🙏🙏❤️❤️
AMEN 🙏🙏🙏
I enjoyed this- it is like going over to a friend's house and sitting in the kitchen with them and having a talk- prayers for you Becky, I know God will take care of you
Thank you, Becky. You have truly Blessed many people. Your transparency is a Gift to us.🙏🤗💕
Isn’t it wonderful to know that God is with you and Bret is with God.
I think this Tuesday Talk will bring healing to you, becky. Don't concern yourself if it should be weekly or not right now. We will wait on you and pray you through this. God is with you and we are too. There's a lot of things we can talk about and I look forward to the next time!
Well said.
Hey Melissa, I noticed your last name which is interesting because my maiden name is Hullett, we spelled it with 2 "L"s and the 2 "T"s. If I may ask where are you from?
@@conniehayes2150 hey,Hulett is my married name. My husband's family is from south georgia:).
You lead us. We will follow & learn 🙏
Yes my prayers are with you and your family. You have been a great blessing to all of us who watch and make your recipes
God bless you for your transparent heart as you take this journey with Jesus and your family ❤️
From Maine - Still very painful at times for me in dealing with the fact that on 04MAY2020 after 25 years of marriage my beloved spouse went to be with the Lord - This comforts me as Thomas is in the Lord’s Presence - However, it is the gap from him that is so troubling at times - Little by little we are overcomers through life’s difficulties as we learn to lean on the Lord through them !! Yes, the Lord is the Way, the Truth, the Life for our hereafter - However, the Lord opened my eyes this week about that verse - The Lord is also the Way, the Truth, the Life in all we walk as we sojourn this present life - As we recognize that the Lord is the Way in the circumstances we are facing, He also imparts His Truth in those circumstances, and as we lay hold of that Truth we then experience life in the very circumstances that seem like death to us, as His Life is in His Word !! Thus we are thankful for what the Lord has done and is doing with praise to Him !! Becky is a beautiful, overcomer in the Lord ! Thank you, Lord for ministering to Becky and her family which is so evident !!
I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m going to keep you in my prayers.
You may not realize this but you are such a comfort to me. I lost my son and the hurt still remains each day . A friend of mine lost her daughter last January and still is waiting on her stone for the cemetery! I guess we just have to pray for patience for all these delays!! God be with us!
I have always been a person who suffers in silence I never realized how important that now I am older that I need people in my life Thank you for sharing that with me God bless you I will pray for you Lots of Love to you from Missouri 💙💛💚
Praise God! Pencil me in for Tuesday talks! Let’s all walk & talk in faith!
Hey Becky I feel your pain I just lost my daughter on the sixteenth last month I'm still having a hard time accepting it I started watching your channel to learn how to cook my grandma's cooking . I'm praying for you.
I’m so sorry for your loss.. a mother and daughter’s relationship is so endearing and a special bond that cannot be replaced.. I pray God will hold you close .. hugs
We love you, Becky. Thanks for sharing your heart with us. God bless you.
You make us feel like we are sitting in the kitchen with you just talking and reminiscing. Thank you for sharing your heart, your family and your faith. Continuing to pray for all of you.
Yes, I feel warmth and a caring genuine love for her husband and other people. You can see Jesus through her. 🌹
MY PRAYERS AND THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU. I LOST MY HUSBAND IN 2009. AND I MISS HIM MORE TODAY THAN THE DAY I LOST HIM. IT WILL GET EASIER BUT YOU WILL NEVER FORGET. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Tonight was the first time I've watched you, I saw the poormans cake first, then I saw the one about Brets life, and now Tuesdays talks ! I loved all of them and I too are praying for you and your family ! God brought me here for a reason so I will be watching every chance I get. Love and prayers to you ! In Christs Love, Sherry
I have been a widow for 15 years. My heart goes out to you. The first year was the hardest. I will continue to pray for you as your heart heals.
I believe your sharing with us on this channel will help your healing as well as help your subscribers see God in action in your life even through grief and transition.
I am so glad that you went to the festivals and Gatlinburg! This is so important that you keep making happy memories with your family.
I'm extremely sorry that you've been separated from Brett. There is no death but even Jesus cried because he knew the depth of grief people feel by the separation. You're a sweet spirit and my sister so I feel and pray for you. I know it's not the same but your husband is still with you in your daughters and grandchildren. Stay strong in the faith and know that you're loved by your many viewers!
My deepest condolences to you and your family! May the Lord continue strengthening you and providing all your needs according to his riches in glory. One day we will see Bret again! Amen!
The grieving process is on-going so just do what comes naturally to you in your Tuesday talks or any videos. Don't feel you need to end it because of any of us. There are many of us out here probably like me, it's been 6 and 1/2 years since my husband went to Heaven and, at times, it just seems like yesterday. Just follow your heart and continue to be open as you always have been. Thank you for continuing to provide content and letting us share in your life experiences. May God Bless you always.
I completely agree ❤️
That's the best advice.
This is very well said. I lost my 55 year old husband of 33 years seven years ago.
Thank you for sharing this. It's a scary world that we live in so it's so soothing for you who is grieving to minister to us. God bless you 😉.
May God continue to hold you close in his loving arms, God bless you all, trust that the Lord reached out to Brett's hand and he lead him to the promise land, a friend of ours little girl lost her grandmother Sunday from brain cancer and she told me Jesus took her grandma's hand and took her to the river that flows with milk and honey. Brett's in a good place there's no weight of the world, you stand strong and courageous, Jesus will get you through this trust in him, keep spreading the gospel to the people this is so desperately needed in today's world. Peace be with you all. I am home bound do to a accident I miss church and the gathering together as Christ said we should do. But I trust in him his plan is greater than I can imagine,.
You have been in my thoughts daily since Brett passed. When I found out Brett had passed, it was shocking. He passed on my birthday, so I won'tever forget. I cried for you as hard as I cried when my husband died over 11 years ago. I am so very sorry you had to experience this pain. You aren't alone. He's still with you. He always will be. God bless you.
This was beautiful. You are a strong woman with a huge heart, sharing your painful feelings for others. It's okay to be feel bad and sad and angry while being blessed.
bless you Becky, my heart goes out to you. I live in Ontario Canada. I have been watching your channel for quite a while. We need God in our lives every day.
You are so sweet. I wish I was your neighbor and we could have coffee together. 🙏❤️🙏
Amen ,sister I feel the same,she is like an angel to me.,such a smart woman.
I appreciate you addressing these issues, of our lives after the death of our loved one. I lost my spouse August 16th. I’m mostly alone, with little contact with people other than Sunday at church. God has given me so much peace, and comfort. I don’t really feel alone, I deeply feel the presence of the Lord. I do feel like I’m missing a part of myself, and sometimes it’s so hard to concentrate. Someone gave me words of wisdom, give yourself grace. May God bless you as you as you also travel this journey.
Sorry for your loss, sister. ❤️ So glad you’ve been soaking in our Lord’s presence. May you continue to have peace and I pray your focus is restored in time... but always remember grace 🙏🤗
Hello Deborah, It has been almost 3 years since my husband passed away…The first year is the hardest….but as long as you have faith in Jesus, He will get you through every day, especially the hardest ones. I truly understand the feeling of being alone, but not having the feeling of ‘aloneness’ with the Lord in our lives. We have the knowledge that we will be reunited when we pass away & that belief has kept me going so many times. If you feel like texting me, I would happily respond to your messages. Remember that poem ‘Footsteps’….I think it will speak to your heart. Another of your sisters in Christ, Kristina.
I’m sure that there are a lot of people who will benefit from your being so open to sharing your experience. God Bless you 🙏
Becky your Tuesday Talk is amazing, I feel so blessed to have you in my life. You keep me uplifted in spirit and faith.
I am going through a very difficult and stressful time, my husband has Dementia which is progressing quickly. I am his 24/7 caretaker. My husband Jim and I developed Covid and pneumonia in August putting him in the hospital for 10 days, I took care of myself at home.
I would truly appreciate prayers from the Hillbilly Kitchen Group. I need to get myself healed from Covid, I am very sick and have not been able to keep food down since August, I have lost 28 lbs and am a small person to begin with for my size. My husband needs me to care for him and I need to get better to do this for him.
I am a Christian but am struggling with my faith right now. I love Jesus with all my heart.
I also want to pray for others in this group, we all need support from each other. Thank You 🙏❤️🙏❤️
I am a caregiver for two children, lost my husband to covid last year. I just found this channel today. I will keep you in my prayers.
@@hollytaylor6858 Holly,I will keep you in my prayers as well. The difficulty you are going through must be horrendous for you. I pray that you have help from family and friends. God will get us through these difficult times. My husband Jim, is now in a nursing facility and is in the final stages of dementia. He still knows who I am but doesn’t remember he has children. Everyday is a gift from God. If you ever want to talk,I am here for you. God Bless 🙏💕
Becky, you have been on my mind and in my heart. I think of you so often, knowing you lost Bret when you were 53. I was the same age at 20 year's ago when I lost my husband, unexpectedly. You are so strong and so brave. Thinking back to my loss, I was nowhere near to acceptance as you are today. I'm so happy to know you have your family who apparently is nudging you forward proving their love for you. Your first devotional touched my heart and helped me. I'm still praying for you and all of your family. Much love is sent your way. Until later, God Bless You Becky. Linda from Texas.
I’m still praying for you, Becky!! 🙏🏼💖
During a fierce battle General Stonewall Jackson was atop his horse watching the progress of his troops. His adjutant ran up to him and said "sir, get off your horse and seek cover, the Yankees are advancing and we are under heavy fire!" Stonewall said "Young man, God has appointed the hour and manner of my death, why I'm as safe here on my horse as I would be at home in bed."
Wow. Praise God 🙌🏽
@@PreciousLoveMusic ...I enjoy your comments. Our country needs the message of Christ more than ever. So sad for her husband passing but her faith is stronger than ever.
@@randyhawthorne7730 praise God thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@Charlie McCoy I appreciate this message, I shared it twice while sharing the Word with someone just since I last commented. God bless you!!!
@@PreciousLoveMusic Thanks Dear :}
Oh Becky, THANK YOU, This Tuesday talk is going to be WONDERFUL!! We all love you, and your channel is a big part of our lives, so many of us feel like we're together in your kitchen with you cooking, baking or just talking. May our Wonderful Lord Keep his guiding hand on you and your family during these rough times. ((Hugs))✝️🙏💞
I knew a lady who had lost her husband and when she was close to dieing looked up and saw her husband and named others she was related to that she saw and she was so happy and her face glowed. They do know what's going on in your life so in a sense they are still with you. They are even more alive than they were before they crossed over. They constantly feel such great strong love from God and Jesus. They are happier than you can ever imagine. I died when I was a young child and got to be held by a grandmother who died when my mom was sixteen years old. I treasure that experience tremendously and look forward to seeing her again as well was all the other family and friends who have crossed over. I have no fear of death.
I'm so sorry about your loss. Sending you love and strength. I lost my son to suicide a year and a half ago. I still have dark moments where I don't feel like being here, I miss him so much. All smiles and happy for everyone and then I cry and feel empty at night. I keep trying everyday. God Bless you 💚
I sent this to my mom; my dad passed away and I wanted her to know she isn’t the only one who going through this. Bless you!
Knowing that if I remain faithful I will see my family again is what keeps me going.
I'm just so grateful that God is real and cares so deeply for us.
I am happy that's the Hillbilly Kitchen is still going to be on and I believe the Tuesdays talks will be a blessing too. I am praying for you and your family 👪
My Mom was 74 when my Dad passed on, so she was alone for 22 years. It’s never easy but as time goes on God gives us comfort and even though my Mom never drove, she adjusted well. We live in a small town and she had many church friends. My mom passed away at the age of 97, in December 2017, a little less than 3 months short of her 98th birthday. God Bless You🙏🏼
Thank you, Becky for your transparency during this most difficult time in your life. I know the Lord is using you to help and encourage so many others. I pray God will continue to hold and comfort you in the coming days, months and years. God bless you and your family.
Oh Becky! We feel like we know you, and knew Bret. We need hope, our only hope to be reunited with our loved ones is in Jesus. Thank you for all you do! You are such a huge blessing!
Two of my close friends have become widows the past couple of years. One was expected because her hubby was diabetic and ended up with kidney failure. The other was totally out of the blue. Thankfully these two women know each other and can talk to each other and support each other. My hubby was diagnosed with dementia just days before Christmas 2019. He is changing before my very eyes. I cared for my mama before she passed with Alzheimer's so I am somewhat prepared for the journey that the Lord has me on. Life is uncertain, we never know what will happen day to day. I am so thankful to have faith in the Lord and the assurance that when we do lose someone we will see them again. Our blessed hope. God bless you for sharing your experience.
Hugs and GOD bless you 🤗.
I think its wonderful how open and willing you are to share your personal loss. God is close to the broken hearted and he has a plan. God is working through you and your great loss to bring others to his saving grace. Prayers. I love all your recipes.
Becky, I have been listening to you on your Tuesday talks. I lost my mom a year ago and you have helped reinforced my belief that this life on earth is not permanent. May God give you comfort and peace. THIS separation is hard but not forever, what is forever will be in Heaven. You will have eternity together. We will all be young and alive and with Jesus. It Doesn't get better than that. We have the hope and knowledge of the Kingdom of Heaven. May God Bless you and your family during this painful time. We Love You!!! Nick and Melody Ann Coholic and Francisco the Cat
I have watched Hillbilly Kitchen for sometime and this is the first I've seen of Tuesday Talks. I hope this is still going on. The simplicity of Jesus in the midst of EVERYTHING is what makes your channel divine. Thank you for what I learn when I watch your shows.
Blessings. We need each other during life and death. We also need Gods strength and love within us. Love you.
We lost a good friend of ours he was like family from the coronavirus pneumonia and we also lost our dog that we had for 15 and a half years on the same day which was October 4th 2021. It just doesn't seem real I've been trying to stay busy but every time I think of them both my heart just hurts
God bless you.
Sorry for your loss 🙏
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I pray that the Lord is near you at all times. Bless your faith and strength and courage.
Becky,
I just found your channel just a few weeks before Brett’s passing🥺🥺. You have touched my heart and I think of you and your family every day🙏🏻🙏🏻. I have to admit that I have never been touched by a family I follow on UA-cam as I do yours. You are soooo down to earth and you are strong in your faith 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I hope each day helps you heal a little more. I cannot imagine losing a partner and I hope I never have to😞 I have been binge watching your videos so I hope that helps a little with views$$😃 Please take care and know that you are cared for by so many of us who love your channel❤️
BECKY, thanks for sharing your life and advice to help others. I was widowed at 40 several years ago and my husband was 48. I think that you are very brave and trusting the Lord to get you through. I wish I could sit with you and share our hearts. You have that tender heart and kindness that makes a person want to be your friend. God bless, you are in my prayers. Much love
Truly, God's community is real and larger than life. Always ALWAYS remember that the Holy spirit within you and me can reach out and touch one another. Praise God.
As for the comments just add a heart to the message and we will know that you saw it.
You are in grief. So am I after 20 years. It hurts, its physically painful.
You must share as we all do going through the same.
The only way to get a little better physically is by sharing.
PLEASE CONTINUE TUESDAY TALK
I’m here for Tuesday Talk. I’m here to help you if I can. I lost my husband in 1993. I was 33 our daughter was 10. The most important thing you already have. Faith. Your Love for The Lord. Your children and grandchildren will give you peace and this UA-cam channel will keep you busy. And you have the prayers of so many. 🙏🙏🙏
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Thank you for sharing during this time! Lost Dad May, 2019, yet some days feels like yesterday! There is no "normal" at a time like this! 💟🙏👵
I'm very sorry for your loss. I've enjoyed the Tuesday Talk and hope you continue it. I think it's so important for widows to get involved in something, keep in touch with people. My brother passed away in February, his widow was not near any family or friends and didn't get out much even before his passing. She was found dead in her home a few days ago. It is so sad.
Charlotte sounds wonderful - Buckeyes / now that’s how you make someone feel better ❤️
Oh buckeye's are the best! 😋
Great talk sis! I'm alone, no kids no grandkids, never had children. I enjoy your recipes and now I can sit down and enjoy your conversations! Thank you, God's blessings and comfort. Here from Texas!
God will keep you strong, yes you are truly blessed. Becky don't give up he has good things instore for you.
Becky I'm sorry for your lost. You and your channel have been a blessing in my life. After i retired i grew tired of the winters in Boston, Massachusetts and now live in San Juan, Puerto Rico so you have become a long distance sister in Christ. God bless you for opening your heart to the needy, i enjoyed your sharing of your life and hope that there be many more "tuesday talks." Stay strong in the Lord.
I lost my husband shortly after you lost Bret and like you I have my lists!! My husband also left me well taken care of and I will be always thankful of that. I have wonderful neighbors and a couple of close friends that I have daily conversations with so I blessed. I am very Thankful that I found your site here before we lost our husbands b/c this has helped me emencely Thank you so much..May God Always Bless You