Imo, the problem here wasn’t his dad being his coach. He probably wouldn’t mind that and would love his dad to teach him. Its more of how he is alone in the field, while his parents are tendering to the two other children, almost leaving him out. His dad could’ve done coaching one on one with his son, not use whats supposed to be family time to coach and be so harsh on his son
That's exactly the problem he is with his family but it feels like a reunion with only four family members and Taeha as an adopted child or relative...
His parents aren't very good parents. There, I said it. His mom talked about leaving Taeha in Seoul like 2 times in front of him. He does so much around the house and for his siblings and he barely gets hugged and gets brushed aside. His dad's not around and he feels responsible. ALSO THE PARENTS ACT LIKE KIDS. Looking at like Park Joohoo's family, this one is fucked up. There you have a dad who pays attention to kids, is gentle and observant. And Anna is amazing. Here... it's meh
@@proche6381 One of it was when the dad got home in Seoul. That was around 3 months ago. Another one was when the family visited the dad in Jeju. It was the first clip from when they were in Jeju. They were all in bed, talking.
When his dad is around he's strict and causes him anxiety, when the dad isn't around he has to take care of his siblings and his mother. This poor child 😭 They're really messing him up mentally. They're having a family moment on the side, eating snacks all cuddled up while he's practicing drills. Mark my words, these are the moments he's gonna remember when he looks back on his family. This makes me sad and angry
Exactly, plus they think the older brother is mature and good because he helps his mom a lot but I think he’s doing those things because he wanted to be recognized and he doesn’t want to be neglected so he’s trying his best to make them feel like he’s there
@@somebodythatyouusedtoknow3646 By the time you read this you may have already seen the video where he goes to a child therapist, I kinda ranted there too 😅 I don't think he helps his mom and takes care of his siblings because he wants recognition but because he feels like he has to because his dad is not there and he feels like his mom has a hard time. He seems to have a very empathetic nature and is constantly considering other peoples emotions and analyzing them and bending himself as to not emotionally hurt them. His and his sisters personalities seem very different from the parents so I think it's very important they continue therapy or they will grow up with a bitterness and possibly functional depression. They aren't bad parents..... but they need help to figure out what they're doing. BTW I used to work with troubled kids so things like this make me rant
I agree. I dislike it when the mom is too focus on her husband. I mean it’s good that their loving the moment but they must consider their eldest’s feelings. It’s like the mom relies too much on her son 😞
Tae Ha is always alone. He´s loving and caring to his siblings, does a lot of house chores to support his mother. And now he got scolded because he isn´t a perfect soccer player. He´s only 11 (Korean 12) years old. He´s a kid. He needs to be loved and supported by his parents. But they only have time for the younger kids and or theirselfs. Tae Ha is sitting there crying and his dad is still scolding him. Damn, he´s his dad and not his coach. Go and make your son proud. Tell him he´s a great guy, a wonderful son and an amazing brother and give him a hug and a kiss. That´s what dads are doing!
🥹🥹🙏🏾💖🫶🏾 you are 100% right! So many people wish this of their father and he especially needs it because time with his dad is scarce and his father needs to make the most of it! They might not need to focus on Filipino and focus on family counseling
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason??
I used to think the sister is too much, but after watching this, I take back my words. She was the only one who bothered to physically walk to her brother when he was eating all alone to check on him even tho she is so young. Cmon why would yall leave him to eat alone after scolding him for no good reason
The father and the son could have a light practice. Like bonding time, he was practicing all alone and here is his strict dad that wanted him to be the very best straight away. It takes long years to be good at one thing, but still you're with the family. Enjoy what's there and don't make it suddenly a training ground, what the younger kids sees to their environment will adopt to their behaviour.
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason????
I feel like his mom is making excuses for her husbands behaviour, the son is always alone so when he is doing something that he and his father likes his father should show him his full attention because this is his time for himself where he is not helping his mom or taking care of his siblings... This just my take on the situation
Yeah the mom really does not help the situation at all. She's always taking the father's side. In the end he's going to hate soccer and resent his father. The father's attitude really irks me.
@@mihlalihaseni2355 so true and this can make him also resent and be jealous of his siblings because his parents are only paying attention to them. Putting the burden on a child to raise another child that they did not birth is just wrong.
@염갓 평소에는 화도 안내고 부드러워야죠 집에 거의 오지를 않는데ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 오랜만에 만나서 놀러간 상황에서 애 혼자만 이미 매일하고 있는 훈련을 또 하게 하는게 납득이 되지는 않네요.. 물론 의도하신바는 아니겠지만 좀 더 육아에 대해서 공부를 더 하셨으면 어떨까하는 아쉬움이ㅜㅜ
6:54 okay but scolding him like that won’t make anything better? maybe if you said nice things and supported him, he would’ve played better. taeha must’ve felt a lot of pressure when you started saying things as “it’s not hard. it’s the basics”. please remind yourself that he’s just a 12yr old kid compared to you. you can’t expect him to be that good since he’s still practicing.
Yes.. And seeing how he is hardly at home the least he could do is try to mend the bond between his children and try to fill in the gaps for the times he have missed..
I'm not here to judge but seeing how they treated the eldest son is so heart-breaking. A boy with 12 years old sometimes need encouragement, appreciation will boost up him, but the parents seems to taking more care of two younger sibling neglecting the eldest one
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason??????????
The little sister seems to have the same empath nature as him. In the video she seemed to be the only actually concerned, whereas his mother seemed to be deescalating the father rather than coming to her sons defense. Subtle, but different. Not everyone is a great parent, regardless of how much they love their child. My assumption would be that when they are older, the two siblings (can't say for the baby lol) will be closer to each other than they will be to their parents.
I still think the little girl demands and receives too much love and time from her dad than the other two receive, she must learn to share with her siblings, I may not have seen the time when she has been considerate but they need to know from an early start to share everything from toys food and most of the love and care from their parents Taeha is a lovely child and I'm sure his parents love and adore him but from the outside it doesn't always look like that, if they don't make change now he could grow up to resent them.......
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason?????
@@ericyoon956 ... 🤔 Can you tell me which part of my comment was rude or hostile? Coming off so defensive for no reason can definitely elicit a rude and hostile response in counter defense.
@@sylviamawson6239 It may be hard to understand her but she's a pretty typical middle child. The youngest and the eldest have their roles "secured", for lack of a better word, and kids in the middle often feel like they run the risk of being looked over entirely. It's a , "The eldest is relied upon but often overworked, the youngest is coddled, so where do I fit in?..." kind of thing.
the dad being a soccer coach shouldn't excuse treating him like that when they were there for a "family reunion" like if anything he should played casually not made him practice while the mom and dad were feeding the other two kids; no wonder he ended up crying 😫😫sometimes the dad just irritates me
It’s hard to raise your children, however his dad is taking away the fun of what the boy likes. It’s so sad because dad loves his kid but doesn’t realize how his hurting him.
Maybe he can be a father who is supportive and encouraging to his son while they are on the field together. He’s technically not his coach so be a father and support him. Words of encouragement can do wonders for a child.
Seeing this interaction from an outsider perspective, I think we can all agree that the reason why Taeha cried was because he probably felt left out and not because his dad scolded him. His mom and dad were both tending to his younger siblings while he was just alone getting criticized by his dad. However, being in that situation his parents probably didn't see it that way, and I hope that they look back and realized the problem was never the scolding. Since Taeha is training professionally in soccer, I do think his coach has probably said worse things to him. The dad is a professional football player so I feel like he's gonna be strict towards his son who is also following the footsteps to become a professional player, but I do think they need to separate the time. This was family time so he should've had fun and play with his family, if the dad went out and took him for some dad-son time so that they could practice football then yeah I can see why he would be strict with his son😢 My heart goes out for Tae Ha, he seems so alone even though he has a lot of family members.
They are reasing him so bad . I know exactly how he feels and how mush it hurts to see the parent not trying to be close to you but to keep pushing you harder and harder without knowing. That is so sad , hope he change the way of rising taeha cuz in a near future even if he now is tryingbhis best as a dad he may create a big gap between them .
Honestly that's the most demotivating way to train a kid to play football. He won't really have a strong mental ability and probably is introverted which isn't what you want a future football player to be. I noticed I did this to my brothers as well but I realised it's so boring and mentally straining. Why do we play football? it's because it's fun. This is not fun. The dad should've played a game with him. It's a really old fashioned style of coaching. Even top football academies these days just play small sided games so the kids have fun. Then when they get to 13, 14, 15 or 16 years old they can start doing drills "themselves" since they'll have the determination. A football player needs to be strong-minded and be able to lead the team. I couldn't do that which is why I quit, but I knew how to play and how to improve. Football is a lot of negativity. Soon he'll quit football because it won't be fun but more like doing chores.
아이가 많이 외로울거 같다.. 아이의 시선에서는 가족여행에서 부모님이랑 동생들은 함께있고 혼자 동 떨어져있는 그림인데.. 부모로써 아이가 잘되길 바라는 마음으로 혹독하게 훈련시키는건 이해가 되지만 왜 이렇게 하는지 아이의 시선으로 바라보고 솔직하게 설명해주고 얘기해주는게 필요할거 같긴하다..ㅠㅠ
3:43 is the real reason why he’s upset. If y’all watched his psychology test the son explained how he feels like the villain and he exists to raise his siblings. So when his parent are attending his siblings he’s left alone with no support. It’s suppose to be a family day but he’s got his dad coach there and it turned into a training session. 5:10 he’s literally battling his emotions. It doesn’t help when his parents are disagreeing whether to let him rest or continue to training. Don’t get me wrong I understand that the dad has good intentions he wants his child to be the best and not go through the hardships he went though. BUT he should remember if he’s away most of the time due to work Taeha probably just wants to spend time with DAD and enjoy their shared passion for soccer. It’s so sad to watch seriously. I wish them the best especially Taeha 💚
Here's one thing I wish my parent knew when I was growing up. Ofcourse they have their own ideas on how a child should be raised and have good intentions, but they must remember that each person is different. Kids respond differently so firstly, they must get to know their children well and go from there. There's still time for Taeha so I hope his parents can make up for it and give him more good memories before he becomes an adult. It is those good childhood memories that will give you strength when things get tough later.
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason?????????
I know a path to success is never easy and there are times you have to press through your limits. But as far as I’ve watched this show, Taeha has always been responsible for his younger siblings, never really have the opportunity to be embraced like his younger siblings. I really wish society stops on believing a notion that eldest should always be understanding cause his/her younger siblings are just kids. The eldest is also a kid, and he should have the free will to kid around, joke around. Taeha has always make a path for his younger siblings to be swaddled by the parents. I don’t think he is ever really open about his feelings. I feel sad watching him eat alone when the other members finished eating together. They should come together and brace the time to talk things through and eat with him from the start. How leftout he must have felt. You never really not want to be embraced by your parents even when you are an adult. Even the parents are only regretting after. Take every possible moment to hold your child and console, complimenting them is not being soft. You can console, embrace and compliment them without ruining or baby-ing them
This kid is going to be amazing, he will definitely be better than what he is today. The dad needs a little bit of patience and actually teach the son on things that he can improve on and what stills is required where. The way that the other player teaches the son what he needs to do before he kicks is a great example. When the dad scolds him and says he needs to know the basics well, him being a soccer player, also needs to teach with patience and lead by example. Just because he is a soccer player doesn't excuse bad behavior. Felt bad for the son; however, towards the end of the video, he calms down and is having fun.
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason????????
@@walkerpublications4418lol right, like what’s wrong with this weirdo going around copying and pasting the same comment over and over again for no reason 💀
I understand why his dad is so strict but i think Taeha still young to be scolded like that,Taeha always take care of his youngers brothers without saying a word and at the same time have to deal with school and football…It’s not easy to deal with all this things when he is only 11 or 12,i really cheer to he stay strong and do whatever he wants.He will be a great player if he keep with playing and training :)
I disagree that he's too young to be scolded like that, he's old enough imo. Son Heung Min's father put him through a strict training regime as well and it's 100% payed off. However I do think it's the wrong place and time for Taeha's dad to be doing this if this is a training session then the family shouldn't be there and I feel like dad should be training with Taeha instead
@@bri12345ification yep, its not the right place to practice like real practice. Like he could've have said that show me some skills you've got since they don't see each other well because he is coaching soccer too. He could have played lightly with the eldest then do some passing with the younger ones. Like enjoy the moment while you're there because he will be leaving sooner
I want to hug that kid so bad! You will be successful in the future in your own right Taeha! Enjoy being a kid and may you always stay as loving and kindest human being you are ❣
I understand Taeha's pain... My soccer coach was used to training professionals and all he had to do was give plans and info about the other team but when he volunteered to coach our soccer team when his son(our coach)'s wife was pregnant, he was irritated and said stuff like "dribble properly, you guys aren't kids in the park. You guys are 9-11 years old" (I was 9 during that time) and said some hurtful things and it didn't help at home either. Ever since I entered hs I was used to seeing rewards on the wall, I'm lucky my family accepted me for who I am but I keep getting mad at myself when not taking home the medals from school telling myself "it's my job"... No one should experience those hurtful words so young in their life
Him making him do it without even complimenting him, frustrates me. Its not that the kid doesn't want to do it. But it's their family day, at least make him happy for days like it. There's a time for him to be a player. But there's also a time for him to be a kid.
하나의 스탠스만 취했으면 좋겠음 그 길이 얼마나 힘든지 누구보다 잘 알 사람이지만 아빠가 자식 잘됐으면 하는 마음 누구보다 잘 알겠지만 코치라면 코치로 둘의 사이가 조금 소원해질 각오하고 아빠라면 격려를 아끼지 않았으면 채찍질도 필요하다면 지시가 아닌 조언으로 끝내야 할 일 지시와 조언을 구분해서 받아들일 나이가 아니기에 트래핑하고있는 태하의 마음이 공감가서 가슴이 아프네요.
I have never seen him with his son.. he is a baby himself he needs affection and love more than anything he himself is a child but have to act strong and mature and they both do accept this from him
무슨 마음인지 조금이지만 알 것 같아서 눈물이 나네요...ㅎㅎㅎ 아빠 마음도 알겠고 태하 마음도 알겠고.... 아빠는 힘든 길을 걸어와서 더 그러는 건데 태하는 좀 서운했을수도.. 아빠는 태하가 앞으로 더 힘들어질까봐 그러는거같아. 태하야 널 응원하는 이모들 삼촌들도 많아 꼭 축구가 아니어도 괜찮아! 그냥 잘 모르던 너인데.. 우연히 tv통해서 알게 된 너인데..너무 멋지고 사랑스러워서 응원하고 싶더라 너한테도 나에게도 하고 싶은 말은 화이팅!!!
how i wish he be a father not a coach... leave coaching to others... since get together moments are limited to then.. just play happily.. the only thing that he can spend limited time with the father without younger siblings in the way..
when the dad was talking to taeha he said the wrong words. i’ve personally been going through a situation like this and taeha cried from the pressure and how he was working so hard without being recognized. the poor boy just wanted to have his own decisions. but no, the dad talks to him abt how he’s the son of a famous soccer player. that’s not right. u can also notice how taeha is constantly looking at the floor when his dad was talking to him. i do this a lot too to avoid eye contact because of fear
I have been watching their vids for awhile and every time my heart breaks for this sweet angel, he’s so mature and caring and sweet for a 12 year old, he does everything alone all the time and the parents do nothing to make him feel loved :(
I amn't trying to compare it but while watching this I remebered lee donggook family(tros), he is also a soccor player( retired I guess 1 or 2 years ago) he has 5 kids (2 set of twins daughter and a son(maknae)) but I feel like donggook was also busy not home for a long period of time but when he was home, he gave love and care to all 5 children equally. He was always there for them. I think this father should do the same.💜
To simply put: The fathers not wrong but family time means family and just imagine how bad he would feel as his parents take care and show love towards his siblings but he’s made to train and work hard. Like for him I always worry about Taeha would build hatred for the dad with the dad always being far from too, kinda like blame the dad for leaving the mom alone cause we all can see how much he loves his mom.
보면서 눈물났다 다 같이 여행왔는데 혼자서만 훈련받으니..그것도 계속 못한다고 지적?만 하니 얼마나 섭섭했을까 아무리 축구가 꿈이어도 그렇지 아직 애긴데 무슨 선수단캠프온거도 아니고..저럴거면 왜 같이 여행간거야 이집은 큰애가 젤 불쌍함ㄹㅇ 지금은 말 잘듣고 철이 빨리 들었지만 나중에 태하가 어른되서 부모랑 연끊는다 해도 할말 없다
Hate how the mother is so casual about how they treat taeha! I had stopped watching this family after 3-4 episodes wherein i felt bad for taeha in each episode. Saw this new episode and nothing has changed. Poor Taeha
I think that Taeha wants to be like his daddy because he loves his dad and looks up to him so much. I don’t think Taeha minds working hard but I think he feels alone. I understand that being a professional athlete requires a lot of sacrifice but I feel that at this important stage in a child’s development they need positive affirmation and not always a lecture. I think that it might be helpful for him to get a coach other than his dad and that way there is separation between dad and coach. Some kids can take it but it seems that Taeha can’t.
Me siento tan mal por Taeha porque lo entiendo tanto, mi padre también era estricto y a veces lo que me apasionaba realmente se volvía una molestia al no hacerlo bien del todo o no lograrlo, por favor cuiden mucho a Taeha, él todavía es joven no hagan que pierda la cercanía con sus padre por ser estrictos con él
I understand taeha soo much because I had a similar childhood as him. I have a lot of sibling and as the older one I “had to” mature at a early stage. It’s like taeha everything I do is alone. When he was doing those soccer kicking it’s actually the worst if the sibling plus the mom to talk because it’s soo annoying and when you can’t held strong you really break down and cry and it’s not a good feeling. You can’t blame the mom and dad because they did nothing wrong it’s just how life will go if you are born into this kind of family
Смотря видео с этой семьёй я буквально каждый раз очень много плачу. Я даже не представляю, что чувствует Тэха в его возрасте. Мне просто очень хочется его обнять
a coach is a coach, a dad is a dad. whilst he needs guiding and pushing to be the best he can, he also needs love and encouragement from his dad. let his coach be the harsh one who’s stricks. be his dad, not a coach
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보면서 느껴지는 게 축구를 못해서 눈물 나는 것보다 4명이서는 가족여행 온 느낌인데 혼자 훈련 온 느낌 나니까 더 하기 싫어보이고 외로워서 눈물남
이거지
회사일끝나고 휴가왔는데 혼자 일하고 있는기분이지
@@vsvn7252 더군나 늘 지겹게 하는 축구를 나들이와서도 하는거
맞아요 ㅠㅠㅠ
이분 청춘FC 나왔던분 아닌가..?..
여기 외국넘들 댓글만 해도 그래 외국넘들은 항상 저렇게 한국을 무쉬하고 무레한 댓글만 다는데 왜 한국인들은 단 한번도 찍소리 한마디 반박도 못하고 맨날 시달리기만 하는거냐? 외국인이 니들 주인이라도 되냐? 자국민은 우습냐? 외국인 사4대주의에 쩔은 NO예민죡아.
Imo, the problem here wasn’t his dad being his coach. He probably wouldn’t mind that and would love his dad to teach him. Its more of how he is alone in the field, while his parents are tendering to the two other children, almost leaving him out. His dad could’ve done coaching one on one with his son, not use whats supposed to be family time to coach and be so harsh on his son
That's exactly the problem he is with his family but it feels like a reunion with only four family members and Taeha as an adopted child or relative...
His parents aren't very good parents. There, I said it. His mom talked about leaving Taeha in Seoul like 2 times in front of him. He does so much around the house and for his siblings and he barely gets hugged and gets brushed aside. His dad's not around and he feels responsible. ALSO THE PARENTS ACT LIKE KIDS. Looking at like Park Joohoo's family, this one is fucked up. There you have a dad who pays attention to kids, is gentle and observant. And Anna is amazing. Here... it's meh
@@user-jh7dl4zw6n may i know which clip when his mom talked about leaving taeha?
@@proche6381 One of it was when the dad got home in Seoul. That was around 3 months ago. Another one was when the family visited the dad in Jeju. It was the first clip from when they were in Jeju. They were all in bed, talking.
@@user-jh7dl4zw6n ah yes, already watch it . i hope taeha doesn't feel as a burden for his mom:")
태하 앞에서 바리바리 싸온간식 꺼내서 먹고싶을까..
태하는 덩그러니 혼자 훈련하고..
태하가 너무 안쓰럽다..
그러게요. 최소한 먹을때는 기다렸다 같이 먹어야지 아빠가 같이 들어가서 훈련을 시키던가 혼자 덩그러니 떨어져서 보는 사람이 다 민망하네요.
그리고 놀러갔으면 편하게 쉬듯이 훈련하지 그게 더 힐링되고 좋을꺼같은데
정조국이 가정적이긴하지만 아이들과 붙어있는시간이 많지않다보니 세심함이 떨어지는것같애요 ㅠㅠ
@@우루-m7t 정조국이 가정적이래ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@우루-m7t 가정적인 남자들은 저렇게 하지 않아요. 가족과 떨어져서 지내다보니 세심함이 부족할뿐이겠죠~ 저건 가정적이라고 하기엔... 🤔🤔🤔
아기가 어릴때는 정해진 간식 타임에 간식 먹이고 이유식 타임에 이유식 먹여야 한답니다. 약올리는게 아니에요.
When his dad is around he's strict and causes him anxiety, when the dad isn't around he has to take care of his siblings and his mother. This poor child 😭 They're really messing him up mentally. They're having a family moment on the side, eating snacks all cuddled up while he's practicing drills. Mark my words, these are the moments he's gonna remember when he looks back on his family. This makes me sad and angry
Exactly what I was thinking :(
Exactly, plus they think the older brother is mature and good because he helps his mom a lot but I think he’s doing those things because he wanted to be recognized and he doesn’t want to be neglected so he’s trying his best to make them feel like he’s there
@@somebodythatyouusedtoknow3646 By the time you read this you may have already seen the video where he goes to a child therapist, I kinda ranted there too 😅 I don't think he helps his mom and takes care of his siblings because he wants recognition but because he feels like he has to because his dad is not there and he feels like his mom has a hard time. He seems to have a very empathetic nature and is constantly considering other peoples emotions and analyzing them and bending himself as to not emotionally hurt them. His and his sisters personalities seem very different from the parents so I think it's very important they continue therapy or they will grow up with a bitterness and possibly functional depression. They aren't bad parents..... but they need help to figure out what they're doing. BTW I used to work with troubled kids so things like this make me rant
I agree. I dislike it when the mom is too focus on her husband. I mean it’s good that their loving the moment but they must consider their eldest’s feelings. It’s like the mom relies too much on her son 😞
yeah , poor kid, their parents forgot he's still 12
Tae Ha is always alone. He´s loving and caring to his siblings, does a lot of house chores to support his mother.
And now he got scolded because he isn´t a perfect soccer player. He´s only 11 (Korean 12) years old. He´s a kid. He needs to be loved and supported by his parents. But they only have time for the younger kids and or theirselfs.
Tae Ha is sitting there crying and his dad is still scolding him. Damn, he´s his dad and not his coach. Go and make your son proud. Tell him he´s a great guy, a wonderful son and an amazing brother and give him a hug and a kiss.
That´s what dads are doing!
🥹🥹🙏🏾💖🫶🏾 you are 100% right! So many people wish this of their father and he especially needs it because time with his dad is scarce and his father needs to make the most of it! They might not need to focus on Filipino and focus on family counseling
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason??
@@ericyoon956 bro who hurt you
가족이 다같이 갔는데 가서 가족들은 과자먹고 음료마시는데 혼자서 리프팅 하는 그 상황이 속상에서 눈물나는듯...ㅠㅠㅠ 혼자 가족 아닌느낌ㅠㅠㅠ 같이 축구를 나와서 봐주는것도 아니고 같이 하는것도 아닌데ㅠㅠ
손웅정이 대단한거지 뭐
저쪽세계는 본인이 축구에 미쳐서 가족들 노는 데 본인이 자발적으로 리프팅 미친듯이 하는애들도 성공하기 힘든 세계임 .... 천재소리 듣던 유소년들이 수없이 묻히는게 축구 아빠는 그걸 누구보다 아니까.. 저러는 거
I used to think the sister is too much, but after watching this, I take back my words. She was the only one who bothered to physically walk to her brother when he was eating all alone to check on him even tho she is so young. Cmon why would yall leave him to eat alone after scolding him for no good reason
that's exactly what i thought too.The fact that she could see it but his parents couldn't is shocking and annoying
The father and the son could have a light practice. Like bonding time, he was practicing all alone and here is his strict dad that wanted him to be the very best straight away. It takes long years to be good at one thing, but still you're with the family. Enjoy what's there and don't make it suddenly a training ground, what the younger kids sees to their environment will adopt to their behaviour.
THANK YOU!
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason????
The mother kept telling him to come but the father didn't allow it as I understood right
I feel like his mom is making excuses for her husbands behaviour, the son is always alone so when he is doing something that he and his father likes his father should show him his full attention because this is his time for himself where he is not helping his mom or taking care of his siblings... This just my take on the situation
Yeah the mom really does not help the situation at all. She's always taking the father's side. In the end he's going to hate soccer and resent his father. The father's attitude really irks me.
@@mihlalihaseni2355 so true and this can make him also resent and be jealous of his siblings because his parents are only paying attention to them. Putting the burden on a child to raise another child that they did not birth is just wrong.
I absolutely agree. She makes excuses for her husband and makes Taeha control and conceal his emotions, which only makes things worse.
True and that is really annoying me... They're taking him for granted.. They should learn how to be a good parent.
Yeah, anyone knows their instagram? I kinda wanna rant for these fukking stupid lovebirds
무서운게 아니라 외롭고 서운한거
@염갓 평소에는 화도 안내고 부드러워야죠 집에 거의 오지를 않는데ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 오랜만에 만나서 놀러간 상황에서 애 혼자만 이미 매일하고 있는 훈련을 또 하게 하는게 납득이 되지는 않네요.. 물론 의도하신바는 아니겠지만 좀 더 육아에 대해서 공부를 더 하셨으면 어떨까하는 아쉬움이ㅜㅜ
저쪽세계는 본인이 축구에 미쳐서 가족들 노는 데 본인이 자발적으로 리프팅 미친듯이 하는애들도 성공하기 힘든 세계임 .... 천재소리 듣던 유소년들이 수없이 묻히는게 축구 아빠는 그걸 누구보다 아니까.. 저러는 거
나중에 얼마나 힘들지 알아서 더 빡시게 시키는거임
6:54 okay but scolding him like that won’t make anything better? maybe if you said nice things and supported him, he would’ve played better. taeha must’ve felt a lot of pressure when you started saying things as “it’s not hard. it’s the basics”. please remind yourself that he’s just a 12yr old kid compared to you. you can’t expect him to be that good since he’s still practicing.
I agree.
Yes.. And seeing how he is hardly at home the least he could do is try to mend the bond between his children and try to fill in the gaps for the times he have missed..
연습을 시킬거면 다른 가족들이 밖에서 놀고있지를 말고 안에서 같이 있어주기라도 하던가 아빠가 같이 공을 튀겨주기라도 했으면 속상하진않았을듯
저도 동감입니다.
연습과 놀이를 구분해 줘야줘
아예 흥민이처럼 놀이도 다끊고 독하게 키우던가.서장훈도 나중에 애키우면 지금처럼 저렇게 쉽게 말 못하죠.
무서워서 우는게 아니에요..울일도 없는상황이죠..
우는 이유는 오늘도 아빠한테 인정못받았다는것이 그동안의 훈련이 허무하고 아빠한테 인정받고싶은 담이 높아보이니..안쓰럽네요 인정해주세요! 아버님!! 당근을 좀더 주세요 그러면 더 강해집니다!
맞는 말씀... 어릴땐 우선 칭찬을 해주고 그 귀에 충고를 해줘야 귀에 들어옴.
계속 지적만 받으면 움추려들고 제 실력도 안나옴.
이 말도 맞다고 생각드는데 아빠라는 벽을 뛰어 넘어야 된다고도 생각됨 그렇게 했을 때 경기장에서 더 여유롭고 자연스런 플레이가 나올듯
칭찬만이 다조은건아니죠 무슨 축구를 취미로하는것도 아닌데 프로가무슨 쉽게되는줄 아십니까?
아니 놀러갔으면 놀아야지 왜 놀러갔다가 훈련시키고 다른가족끼리는 앉아서 뭐먹고 놀고있는거임? 그럼 훈련을 따로 가던지 아님 아빠랑만와서 아빠도 같이 훈련을 계속하던지 해야지 저런상황은 성인이라도 ㅈ같은 기분들지
@@속사포랩퍼-n4h 옳은 말씀
I'm not here to judge but seeing how they treated the eldest son is so heart-breaking.
A boy with 12 years old sometimes need encouragement, appreciation will boost up him, but the parents seems to taking more care of two younger sibling neglecting the eldest one
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason??????????
The little sister seems to have the same empath nature as him. In the video she seemed to be the only actually concerned, whereas his mother seemed to be deescalating the father rather than coming to her sons defense. Subtle, but different. Not everyone is a great parent, regardless of how much they love their child. My assumption would be that when they are older, the two siblings (can't say for the baby lol) will be closer to each other than they will be to their parents.
awwwww this ep making my heart ache wahhh
I still think the little girl demands and receives too much love and time from her dad than the other two receive, she must learn to share with her siblings, I may not have seen the time when she has been considerate but they need to know from an early start to share everything from toys food and most of the love and care from their parents Taeha is a lovely child and I'm sure his parents love and adore him but from the outside it doesn't always look like that, if they don't make change now he could grow up to resent them.......
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason?????
@@ericyoon956 ... 🤔 Can you tell me which part of my comment was rude or hostile? Coming off so defensive for no reason can definitely elicit a rude and hostile response in counter defense.
@@sylviamawson6239 It may be hard to understand her but she's a pretty typical middle child. The youngest and the eldest have their roles "secured", for lack of a better word, and kids in the middle often feel like they run the risk of being looked over entirely. It's a , "The eldest is relied upon but often overworked, the youngest is coddled, so where do I fit in?..." kind of thing.
지금의 태하가 편하기를 바라자니 미래의 태하가 너무 힘들어할걸 알기에 싫지만 참고 엄격하게 하는 듯 ㅠㅠ 어느것을 선택해도 본인의 마음이 아플거면 태하가 미래에 후회하지 않도록 지금 쓴 열매를 주는 수 밖엔없겠죠ㅠㅠ
이게 맞죠
I think he feels pressured because his dad is such a famous soccer player and when they play soccer he doesn't treat him the same way he usually does.
I bet Sian feels same too. He is Lee Donggook’s son
@@dukeriver2375 Unlike this mister, Dongkook is more playful with Sian and has share a lot of moments with him.
the dad being a soccer coach shouldn't excuse treating him like that when they were there for a "family reunion" like if anything he should played casually not made him practice while the mom and dad were feeding the other two kids; no wonder he ended up crying 😫😫sometimes the dad just irritates me
It’s hard to raise your children, however his dad is taking away the fun of what the boy likes. It’s so sad because dad loves his kid but doesn’t realize how his hurting him.
태하가 엄청 외로워 보인다...
그러니까요 ㅠㅠ 가족분들은 다 과자 먹고 있는데 태하만 혼자 연습하는 게 안타까워요
Maybe he can be a father who is supportive and encouraging to his son while they are on the field together. He’s technically not his coach so be a father and support him. Words of encouragement can do wonders for a child.
Seeing this interaction from an outsider perspective, I think we can all agree that the reason why Taeha cried was because he probably felt left out and not because his dad scolded him. His mom and dad were both tending to his younger siblings while he was just alone getting criticized by his dad. However, being in that situation his parents probably didn't see it that way, and I hope that they look back and realized the problem was never the scolding. Since Taeha is training professionally in soccer, I do think his coach has probably said worse things to him. The dad is a professional football player so I feel like he's gonna be strict towards his son who is also following the footsteps to become a professional player, but I do think they need to separate the time. This was family time so he should've had fun and play with his family, if the dad went out and took him for some dad-son time so that they could practice football then yeah I can see why he would be strict with his son😢 My heart goes out for Tae Ha, he seems so alone even though he has a lot of family members.
4:53 애기 말하는거 너무이쁘네
손흥민이 특이 케이스고 자식은 왠만하면 안가르치는게 맞는듯. 축구건 공부건.
웬만하면 그게 맞지 아버지한테 유도 배우다가 때려칠까 많이 고민했음
손흥민 아버지는 엄해도 같이 with 운동했어요
@@arg319 222손수 다 같이함 그래서 나이도 있는데 몸도 짱짱했었음
아빠는 아니까 프로가 되는길이 얼마나 어려운지 힘든길인지 강하게 멘탈키워야하니까..정조국 아들 꼬리표가 어딜가나 따라붙을껀데..꼭 성공하세요~~
오늘의 피땀 눈물이 헛되지 않을껍니다
본인이 걸어온 길을 아니까 저렇게해서 포기하던지 게속하게 만들던지 둘중하나임 손흥민도 아부지랑 같이하긴해도 자식아닌줄 알았다는 소리들을정도로 혹독하게 했음 리프팅으로 축구장돌다가 떨구면 처음부터 다시 돌고했을정도임
i want to give that kid a big hug and tell him he’s doing good
They are reasing him so bad . I know exactly how he feels and how mush it hurts to see the parent not trying to be close to you but to keep pushing you harder and harder without knowing. That is so sad , hope he change the way of rising taeha cuz in a near future even if he now is tryingbhis best as a dad he may create a big gap between them .
welp your kids gonna be a snow flake
Honestly that's the most demotivating way to train a kid to play football. He won't really have a strong mental ability and probably is introverted which isn't what you want a future football player to be. I noticed I did this to my brothers as well but I realised it's so boring and mentally straining. Why do we play football? it's because it's fun. This is not fun. The dad should've played a game with him. It's a really old fashioned style of coaching. Even top football academies these days just play small sided games so the kids have fun. Then when they get to 13, 14, 15 or 16 years old they can start doing drills "themselves" since they'll have the determination. A football player needs to be strong-minded and be able to lead the team. I couldn't do that which is why I quit, but I knew how to play and how to improve. Football is a lot of negativity. Soon he'll quit football because it won't be fun but more like doing chores.
아이가 많이 외로울거 같다.. 아이의 시선에서는 가족여행에서 부모님이랑 동생들은 함께있고 혼자 동 떨어져있는 그림인데..
부모로써 아이가 잘되길 바라는 마음으로 혹독하게 훈련시키는건 이해가 되지만 왜 이렇게 하는지 아이의 시선으로 바라보고 솔직하게 설명해주고 얘기해주는게 필요할거 같긴하다..ㅠㅠ
운동은 장담하는데 칭찬받기 위해서 노력하고자 하면 절대로 성공할수 없습니다.. 운동은 본인의 한계를 극복해나가며 한단계씩 발전된 스스로의 모습에 스스로!! 행복해 질때 .. 결국 성공할 수 있습니다
차범근과 차두리의 느낌? 너는 정조국의 아들이니까 유소년에 들어갔겠지라는 편견을 없애주고 싶은게 정조국의 마음이겠지
대박 이 말을 하고싶었는데 딱인거같아요..
잘되길 바라니까 더 그러는듯ㅠㅠ 좋은 댓글 감사합니당
태하가 나이가 좀 들어야 이해하겠지만 지금 나이에선 엄청 서운할거 같네요 제가 그랬듯이
안그래도 가족끼리 시간 보내기 힘든데 훈련쪽으로 엄격한것도 좋지만 보는게 너무 마음아프다ㅜ그냥 태하랑 좋은곳 놀러가서 좋은시간 더 많이 가졌으면..생각보다 어릴때 기억이 많이 자리잡고있더라구요..
저쪽세계는 본인이 축구에 미쳐서 가족들 노는 데 본인이 자발적으로 리프팅 미친듯이 하는애들도 성공하기 힘든 세계임 .... 천재소리 듣던 유소년들이 수없이 묻히는게 축구 아빠는 그걸 누구보다 아니까.. 저러는 거
@@난사랭 심지어 정조국도 유소년때 주목받던 천재였음.
고기 먹으러가자 해놓고 치과나 포경수술하러가도 열받는데 놀러갔는데 훈련시키는게
잘하는 행동은 아니지.
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ
ㅋㅋㅎㅋㅎㅋㅎㅋㅎㅋㅋㅋㅋㅎㅋㅎㅋ 비유 ㄹㅈㄷ
3:43 is the real reason why he’s upset. If y’all watched his psychology test the son explained how he feels like the villain and he exists to raise his siblings. So when his parent are attending his siblings he’s left alone with no support. It’s suppose to be a family day but he’s got his dad coach there and it turned into a training session. 5:10 he’s literally battling his emotions. It doesn’t help when his parents are disagreeing whether to let him rest or continue to training. Don’t get me wrong I understand that the dad has good intentions he wants his child to be the best and not go through the hardships he went though. BUT he should remember if he’s away most of the time due to work Taeha probably just wants to spend time with DAD and enjoy their shared passion for soccer. It’s so sad to watch seriously. I wish them the best especially Taeha 💚
아오 나 저 기분 알아........ 그냥 따뜻항ㄴ 말한마디 듣고 싶은건데 아빠들은 진짜 왜 저런식으로 말을 하는지 시바...
Here's one thing I wish my parent knew when I was growing up. Ofcourse they have their own ideas on how a child should be raised and have good intentions, but they must remember that each person is different. Kids respond differently so firstly, they must get to know their children well and go from there. There's still time for Taeha so I hope his parents can make up for it and give him more good memories before he becomes an adult. It is those good childhood memories that will give you strength when things get tough later.
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason?????????
애가 더 부담이 많을텐데….. 왜 자꾸 더 부담을 주냐….ㅠㅠ 태하 진짜 잘되길 바란다…
I know a path to success is never easy and there are times you have to press through your limits. But as far as I’ve watched this show, Taeha has always been responsible for his younger siblings, never really have the opportunity to be embraced like his younger siblings. I really wish society stops on believing a notion that eldest should always be understanding cause his/her younger siblings are just kids. The eldest is also a kid, and he should have the free will to kid around, joke around. Taeha has always make a path for his younger siblings to be swaddled by the parents. I don’t think he is ever really open about his feelings.
I feel sad watching him eat alone when the other members finished eating together. They should come together and brace the time to talk things through and eat with him from the start. How leftout he must have felt.
You never really not want to be embraced by your parents even when you are an adult. Even the parents are only regretting after. Take every possible moment to hold your child and console, complimenting them is not being soft. You can console, embrace and compliment them without ruining or baby-ing them
Right
동생들 앞에서 가르치려 하지 마세요.
태하에게만 집중하고 공감해주세요.
동생들과는 너무 터울지고 또 태하는 첫아이고 그러니 태하에게 자신감을 안겨주세요.
This kid is going to be amazing, he will definitely be better than what he is today. The dad needs a little bit of patience and actually teach the son on things that he can improve on and what stills is required where. The way that the other player teaches the son what he needs to do before he kicks is a great example. When the dad scolds him and says he needs to know the basics well, him being a soccer player, also needs to teach with patience and lead by example. Just because he is a soccer player doesn't excuse bad behavior. Felt bad for the son; however, towards the end of the video, he calms down and is having fun.
I'm just wonder. Why do you foreigners always rude, hostile to us? It seems that only we are treated like this all over the world, why? Why are you doing this to us? Why do you foreigners always say such harsh things to us? I always feel great hostility from your foreigners. What's the reason? Is it because we didn't retaliate against your foreigners? Is that the reason????????
@@walkerpublications4418lol right, like what’s wrong with this weirdo going around copying and pasting the same comment over and over again for no reason 💀
팩트로 지금은 국가대표 되는게 더 힘들지..
공부하고 편하게 공무원하는게
정조국 마음일듯
정조국 아들이라는 소리도 듣고 할 텐데..
국대는 커녕 프로만 가도 엄청 성공한거임
니가 뭔데?
내 밑에 후배도 k2에서 뛴 친구 경찰하고 있음. 그런데 알아보니깐 k2에서 뛴거도 엄청난거라고 하던데
@@집공이 넌 앰생쓰
공부 공무원
안 편한데요?
Me bauling my eyes out being the eldest is always tough you are always expected to do things better.
I understand why his dad is so strict but i think Taeha still young to be scolded like that,Taeha always take care of his youngers brothers without saying a word and at the same time have to deal with school and football…It’s not easy to deal with all this things when he is only 11 or 12,i really cheer to he stay strong and do whatever he wants.He will be a great player if he keep with playing and training :)
I disagree that he's too young to be scolded like that, he's old enough imo. Son Heung Min's father put him through a strict training regime as well and it's 100% payed off. However I do think it's the wrong place and time for Taeha's dad to be doing this if this is a training session then the family shouldn't be there and I feel like dad should be training with Taeha instead
@@bri12345ification yep, its not the right place to practice like real practice. Like he could've have said that show me some skills you've got since they don't see each other well because he is coaching soccer too. He could have played lightly with the eldest then do some passing with the younger ones. Like enjoy the moment while you're there because he will be leaving sooner
@@bri12345ification fr the dad should scold him when they are doing one to one soccer sessions but not in front of family
진짜 왜 그래 태하 진짜 불쌍해 엄마가 토다겨 주면 뭐해 엄마가 아빠한테 안되는데 안쓰럽다 태하
this family makes me cry every fxckin episode 💆🏽♂️
태하 안쓰럽다 ㅠㅠ 예체능은 잔짜 신의 영역이구나
꿈을이룰수있는방법을 알기에...
쉽게 이루어질수없는 축구선수...
그걸 이룬 아빠...
얼마나 많은 축구선수꿈나무들이있는가...
I want to hug that kid so bad!
You will be successful in the future in your own right Taeha!
Enjoy being a kid and may you always stay as loving and kindest human being you are
❣
I understand Taeha's pain... My soccer coach was used to training professionals and all he had to do was give plans and info about the other team but when he volunteered to coach our soccer team when his son(our coach)'s wife was pregnant, he was irritated and said stuff like "dribble properly, you guys aren't kids in the park. You guys are 9-11 years old" (I was 9 during that time) and said some hurtful things and it didn't help at home either. Ever since I entered hs I was used to seeing rewards on the wall, I'm lucky my family accepted me for who I am but I keep getting mad at myself when not taking home the medals from school telling myself "it's my job"... No one should experience those hurtful words so young in their life
Him making him do it without even complimenting him, frustrates me. Its not that the kid doesn't want to do it. But it's their family day, at least make him happy for days like it. There's a time for him to be a player. But there's also a time for him to be a kid.
하나의 스탠스만 취했으면 좋겠음
그 길이 얼마나 힘든지 누구보다 잘 알 사람이지만 아빠가 자식 잘됐으면 하는 마음 누구보다 잘 알겠지만
코치라면 코치로 둘의 사이가 조금 소원해질 각오하고
아빠라면 격려를 아끼지 않았으면 채찍질도 필요하다면 지시가 아닌 조언으로 끝내야 할 일
지시와 조언을 구분해서 받아들일 나이가 아니기에
트래핑하고있는 태하의 마음이 공감가서 가슴이 아프네요.
축구선수를 하건 아빠가 코치를 해주건 지도 해줄거면 옆에서 지도해주면서 하든가 자기는 간식 처먹고 애 혼자 덩그러니 하라고 놔두면 백에 백은 서럽지
It's a family get-together, not a soccer training. My heart is pained seeing Taeha cried. 🥺💔
yeah
오늘 영상을 보니 정조국 선수가 젊은 날 국가대표시절 센터포워드의 막중한 포지션에서 어깨에 지워졌던 무게가 어느정도였었는지 이해가 됩니다. 그걸 어린 아들이 이해하는 것은 어차피 불가능하겠죠.
차라리 혼자 짊어졌으면 나았을텐데
정조국 전성기에는 훌륭한 공격수가 하도 많아서 국대에서는 거의 밀렸죠ㅠ
아니 놀러갔는데 왜ㅠㅠ태하한테만ㅠㅠㅠㅠ태하도 애긴데ㅠㅠㅠ
저게지금 취미로하는거냐? 프로선수될려고하는거아냐 무식한새끼야
@@속사포랩퍼-n4h 태어나서 열심히 뭔가를해서 뭘 이뤄본 적이 없으니 저렇게 ㅈㄹ들 하겠지ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
@@박수-097 쉬러?그럼 축구로취미로해야지 손흥민처럼되는게 쉬운줄아냐? 알고떠들어라
I have never seen him with his son.. he is a baby himself he needs affection and love more than anything he himself is a child but have to act strong and mature and they both do accept this from him
Didn't he say he didnt want to teach him because his personality changes
Honestly this man is breaking my heart , how he responds and threat his son
Fr
@@moooahhh6711 my dad does the same to me im use to it
무슨 마음인지 조금이지만 알 것 같아서 눈물이 나네요...ㅎㅎㅎ 아빠 마음도 알겠고 태하 마음도 알겠고....
아빠는 힘든 길을 걸어와서 더 그러는 건데 태하는 좀 서운했을수도..
아빠는 태하가 앞으로 더 힘들어질까봐 그러는거같아. 태하야 널 응원하는 이모들 삼촌들도 많아
꼭 축구가 아니어도 괜찮아!
그냥 잘 모르던 너인데.. 우연히 tv통해서 알게 된 너인데..너무 멋지고 사랑스러워서 응원하고 싶더라
너한테도 나에게도 하고 싶은 말은 화이팅!!!
여동생이 오빠걱정하는 모습 이뿌다~~~
태하 매력이 장난아냐..
how i wish he be a father not a coach... leave coaching to others... since get together moments are limited to then.. just play happily.. the only thing that he can spend limited time with the father without younger siblings in the way..
프로되는거 엄청 힘든거 알고 훈련 열심히해야하는거 맞는데.. 이미 팀에서 훈련중일꺼고 이날은 가족 단합이라며 갔는데... 혼자 훈련하고 있으니 속상하긴 할듯
Fan of Taeha already 🙋🏽♀️
Stop with the whole “he shouldn’t cry” thing. Crying should be normalized, emotions are parts of ourselves.
when the dad was talking to taeha he said the wrong words. i’ve personally been going through a situation like this and taeha cried from the pressure and how he was working so hard without being recognized. the poor boy just wanted to have his own decisions. but no, the dad talks to him abt how he’s the son of a famous soccer player. that’s not right. u can also notice how taeha is constantly looking at the floor when his dad was talking to him. i do this a lot too to avoid eye contact because of fear
I have been watching their vids for awhile and every time my heart breaks for this sweet angel, he’s so mature and caring and sweet for a 12 year old, he does everything alone all the time and the parents do nothing to make him feel loved :(
정조국선수도 마음 아프것어.. 그 힘든길을 아들이 따라갈려하니..
맨날혼나도 되니 저런아빠가 있었음좋겠다…아부지가 일찍돌아가셔서..ㅜ
태하도 애기다 제발 돌봐 줘라
I amn't trying to compare it but while watching this I remebered lee donggook family(tros), he is also a soccor player( retired I guess 1 or 2 years ago) he has 5 kids (2 set of twins daughter and a son(maknae)) but I feel like donggook was also busy not home for a long period of time but when he was home, he gave love and care to all 5 children equally. He was always there for them.
I think this father should do the same.💜
방송으로도 저렇게보이는데 카메라없으면
어떨지 참 답답하다 차라리 방송하지 마세요
아이가 정말 외롭겠다는생각이드네요
무조건 엄하게 한다고 다될까요?
부모가 둘다 연기하는듯 같아서
보기 불편하네요ㅜㅜ
To simply put: The fathers not wrong but family time means family and just imagine how bad he would feel as his parents take care and show love towards his siblings but he’s made to train and work hard.
Like for him I always worry about Taeha would build hatred for the dad with the dad always being far from too, kinda like blame the dad for leaving the mom alone cause we all can see how much he loves his mom.
가족과 함께 먹고 웃고 하다가 태하가 공차면 다같이 응원해야 ,태하가 섭섭한이유죠
지금 많이 울어야 나중에 성공해서 눈물 흘리지
화이팅
아버지를 능가한 실력을 키우지 않으면 항상의의심의대상이된다
이종범 아들 이정후 허재 허웅 허훈을 보면서 차두리또한 아버지 그늘이 벽이높을때 본인은 부담엄청컷을 듯
개인적인 생각이지만
시대마다 유명세타는 선수들이있다고봐요.
저희 세대는 차범근 잘 모르죠.
축구선수였었구나~딱 그정도로만 알고
실력도 잘 몰라요.
다만 축구감독이였고 기도하다가 짤린 그사람??
저희 세대는 오히려 차두리가 더 유명하죠.ㅎㅎ;;
@@쀼쀼뾰뾰 예..? 90년대생인데 차범근선수가 뛴 경기를 직접 보진못했지만 대단한 선수라는건 피부로와닿는데요
무럭무럭 커서 아빠를 뛰어 넘어라 내가 이기고 싶어하는 투지를 가질수 있는 상대를 가진것은 발전의 발전을 거듭할것이여 그것이 너의 아빠야
보면서 눈물났다
다 같이 여행왔는데 혼자서만 훈련받으니..그것도 계속 못한다고 지적?만 하니 얼마나 섭섭했을까
아무리 축구가 꿈이어도 그렇지 아직 애긴데
무슨 선수단캠프온거도 아니고..저럴거면 왜 같이 여행간거야 이집은 큰애가 젤 불쌍함ㄹㅇ 지금은 말 잘듣고 철이 빨리 들었지만 나중에 태하가 어른되서 부모랑 연끊는다 해도 할말 없다
아니 전환이 돼야지ㅋㅋㅋ
놀러가놓고 훈련을 시키노ㅋㅋㅋㅋ
돈까스 먹으러 가자~ 해서 갔더니 포경수술 시키는 꼴
댓글들은 '남자(선수)라면 포경수술(저 정도 훈련)은 해야지' 이러고 있다ㅋㅋㅋ
손흥민 아버지도 어릴때부터 미친듯이 훈련시켰다고 들었어요 그덕에 지금 월드 클래스가 됐다고 봅니다
그건 손흥민이니까 가능한거죠
@@돼지목살튀김 저쪽세계는 본인이 축구에 미쳐서 가족들 노는 데 본인이 자발적으로 리프팅 미친듯이 하는애들도 성공하기 힘든 세계임 .... 천재소리 듣던 유소년들이 수없이 묻히는게 축구 아빠는 그걸 누구보다 아니까.. 저러는 거
Tae ha listen very well .the team mate of his dad is good.yes he can be a coach and a good one.
그래도 관계가 우선이다. 놀러왔을땐 같이 놀아주고 훈련할때는 훈련하는것이다. 관계를 우선시하지 않았기에 나를 포함에 많은 아이들이 밖으로 나가돌게되는것이다 그 부모를 원망하며
Hate how the mother is so casual about how they treat taeha! I had stopped watching this family after 3-4 episodes wherein i felt bad for taeha in each episode. Saw this new episode and nothing has changed. Poor Taeha
일반인하고 시작부터가 클라쓰가 다르다 주변지인 삼촌이 한번씩만 만나도 일반인하고 갭차이가 크니 열심히 해야댜
I think that Taeha wants to be like his daddy because he loves his dad and looks up to him so much. I don’t think Taeha minds working hard but I think he feels alone. I understand that being a professional athlete requires a lot of sacrifice but I feel that at this important stage in a child’s development they need positive affirmation and not always a lecture. I think that it might be helpful for him to get a coach other than his dad and that way there is separation between dad and coach. Some kids can take it but it seems that Taeha can’t.
Me siento tan mal por Taeha porque lo entiendo tanto, mi padre también era estricto y a veces lo que me apasionaba realmente se volvía una molestia al no hacerlo bien del todo o no lograrlo, por favor cuiden mucho a Taeha, él todavía es joven no hagan que pierda la cercanía con sus padre por ser estrictos con él
I understand taeha soo much because I had a similar childhood as him. I have a lot of sibling and as the older one I “had to” mature at a early stage. It’s like taeha everything I do is alone. When he was doing those soccer kicking it’s actually the worst if the sibling plus the mom to talk because it’s soo annoying and when you can’t held strong you really break down and cry and it’s not a good feeling. You can’t blame the mom and dad because they did nothing wrong it’s just how life will go if you are born into this kind of family
우리가 티비로 보는 선수들만보니까 어려워안보이지 축구프로가된다는건 돈받고 축구한다는건ㅋㅋ대기업다니는거다
축구하는 사람들 1프로만 그나마 프로축구선수 된다고 보면 됩니다ᆢ힘든길ᆢ
모든 스포츠가 마찬가지임...
1%도 안되지 않을까요?
축협에서 0.5프로 이하라던데
아이들에게 못하더라도 칭찬 많이 해줘야합니다. 그래야 나중에 지적할때 아이들은 이해할려고 합니다.
웃기지마세여ㅋㅋ 프로되고 세계적인선수되려면 강하게해야되는게 맞아요 취미로하는거면 칭찬많이해도 되져
정조국 코치도 청대때부터 엘리트 코스만 밟아올 정도록 열심히 했는데도 국대는 16경기 정도 뛰었음. 진짜 축구는 실력+운 이있어야 한다고 생각함.
정조국 정도면 최정점 까지 올라간 선수
@朴城珉 더 클수있는데.아쉬운...
하고싶어도 집이 가난하고 부모님 반대도 심해서 못하는 애들도 많음 태하는 정말 축복받은 환경에서 축구 할수 있다는거에 감사해야한다 진짜 훈륭한 선수가 되기를 …
착한 태하가 우니깐
마음이 아프네..
태하 울리지 마세욤 ㅎ
행복한 가족들. #동상이몽 #화이팅 .
Смотря видео с этой семьёй я буквально каждый раз очень много плачу. Я даже не представляю, что чувствует Тэха в его возрасте. Мне просто очень хочется его обнять
애 혼자필드에 두고 뭐 먹으면서 관람?
동생들 데리고 나가서 먹던가... 다보이는 눈앞에서 굳이 훈련을 해야하는 이유가 뭔지
정신훈련인가?ㅠㅠ
세상 착하고 여린애를ㅠㅠ
내가 다 속상하고 눈물나네ㅠㅠ
다른 가족구성원이 저러면 안되는건 기본아닌가ㅠㅠ
옛날 얘 아픈것 하지 마시고 지금이 중요합니다 이집도 큰얘가 힘들겠네요 아빠 어지간히 하세용
불쌍하다 내가 눈물이 나네
울지마아쾐잖나
아버지가 되게 좋으신 분이시네.
영상 보면 태하는 항상 외로워보인다
달려가 맘껏 안기지도 못하고 엄마 아빠 챙기느라 이것저것 신경쓸게 너무 많고..
첫째들이 대부분 그렇다지만 그게 당연한건 아니다~ 태하도 좀 더 안아주고 사랑한다 표현해주면 좋겠다~
아버지의자리는 같은 직업은 더엄할수밖에 없다 제 2의 손흥민이탄생하길 정태하 큰선수 되길 기대합니다
a coach is a coach, a dad is a dad. whilst he needs guiding and pushing to be the best he can, he also needs love and encouragement from his dad. let his coach be the harsh one who’s stricks. be his dad, not a coach
태하야.. 내이름도 태하인데 나중에 잘되서 태하라는 이름을 빛내줬으면 좋겠다 화이팅!
마음 이쁘시다
감독 욕설과 폭행때문에 축구를 그만둿는데 저가 이영상 보니 정말 마음이 아프네요
가족끼리너무사랑하는게느껴지는게ㅜㅜ
생각만해도 짠한게 가족인가봐요