Max....Max. oh Max I'm giving you a little tip about marriage and kids. Please don't take it like I'm lecturing you, but I think you are missing the joy of having kids. Yes kids, by the way as Noelia gets older she will have more problems having a child. So if you wanna have children please consider her age. Don't wait too long. By the way, you two are ment for each other please proceed to the next step. Comprender??
@@davepsk7334 me and my wife had our first born when we were 39 now she’s just turned 4 years and our last born he’s turning 1 end of this month. So there’s no hurry to rush to have kids.
Hello, I really liked the interview, it shows unknown aspects of this couple ... very interesting points were touched. Greetings from Mexico. From now a new subscriber
I think the moment you feel the other is the person you can stay with for your whole life, it's time to get married. If you are not sure about that, maybe waiting to see is the best choice. Getting married is not a matter of time but your faith in each other is.
Visa from any country definitely contribute a lot on marriage rate. I know so many people wouldn't have got married or at least not yet but got married because of visa application.
Dating for at least 2 years, so that you know your partner better, is much better than just dating for 6 months with too much expectation of hoping him/her becoming a better person after getting married. But 6 years is a little long. However, if you are young at 20s, no rush to get married at all. I suggest the couple in your video don't rush to marriage, you guys are too young. lol
Hello Teacher Mike, did you ever feel pressured whether explicitly or implicitly to get married? Chinese (Asisn) people in general, especially (Chinese) women tend to be more anxious and pressured about getting married, which is understandable due to pressures from society, peers, parents and fear of aging eggs & infertility. Till Death Do Us Part is a very serious commitment and should never be taken lightly. When you march into marriage, you should be mentally/physically/financially prepared to take on another person's happiness/misery/debts/death/disabilities/families and many more if the unfortunate happens. Without that mental determination, you should re-consider signing that sacred legal contract (i.e. getting married).
In Chinese tradition, "to get married" means one would be ready to take up different kinds of responsibilities as "a mature adult", including financial support of a family , taking care of children and looking after partner's family besides own family. Also, "to hold a traditional Chinese wedding ceremony" is quite exhausting, wastes time and money, though a lot of well-wishers （involves relatives and friends）can participate in it.Therefore, why Chinese always expect "to get married only 1 time for life", because of strenuous efforts in preparation and maintaining a successful and satisfactory marriage.
If a couple is not planning to have kids, there’s no reason to get married, might as well just have fun and be each other’s company, I don’t see any necessity for marriage nowadays unless you are planning to have kids.
Pretty interesting that by statistics Chinese get married in a quite young ago. probebly the statistics generalized the difference between remote villages and mega cites. Actually, it is hard for Chinese to get an ideal parterner, if you know that dating park in Shanghai,lol. surely 麦克老师 knows the 剩男剩女 Stuffs, Cheers!
大家感觉最理想结婚的年纪是什么？还是不用结婚？
别忘记看我们在墨西哥老外的平台合拍的视频！ua-cam.com/video/Mc025NQDbWU/v-deo.html
年紀看是個很合理的不結婚藉口，重點是值不值得冒這個險。
假如一個女生長得柔順體貼，不用說美麗，還有很有謀生很有積蓄，又可幫忙事業包括居留權等很多利益的話，那個男生不想結婚？
年纪不是硬指标，有的人变老了但是没变成熟。
我认为既然约会了，也彼此相爱，就应该结婚，结婚那张纸虽然很薄，但是，却是两个人对婚姻，对彼此委身的承诺，而且，只有在婚姻里面的性关系才是被上帝祝福的，我是基督徒，我是相信只有婚姻以内的性关系是被上帝祝福的，呵呵....
周围越来越多的年轻人不想结婚。
20。。。可惜家里不同意。。。都是泪
我觉得有了一些恋爱和同居的经历之后，再考虑结婚是挺正确的做法。我身边很多人，尤其是女性，在30岁之前从未跟异性交往过（我指的是那种很正式的交往，一起生活过一段时间的那种），然后到了30岁左右就处于传统的压力，凭感觉给自己设置一个择偶标准，然后在一年内按照这个标准选择一个对象然后交往，迅速的结婚。这样的婚姻在我看来就跟买彩票一样。
80后表示，我和老婆都是初恋，拍拖7年结婚，至今没有外遇，爱情早就变成亲情，生活本来就是平淡如水，如果你觉得人就应该激情一辈子，那你永远留不住你的爱人，换完一个又一个是你最好的归宿。生活就是柴米油盐，孩子就是价值观极大的碰撞，不经历风雨，哪里有彩虹。那些理想主义者，我建议你们丁克，我认识的，几乎每一个家庭，都会因为孩子而产生矛盾，所以离婚和出轨高发是怀孕期和读书前，特别是第一胎，人生变化太大不适应感极强。如果你问我爱情，我可以非常肯定的回答你，已经没有，爱情是短暂的，亲情，是永远的。和我同龄的大多数朋友，相处也就10个年头左右，而我，已经接近20年，会不会离婚我不会非常肯定，因为50来岁才来离婚的人也有，反正人生，凑合凑合，就一辈子，较真的话你的人生会更精彩，是否值得因人而异，我比较懒，不爱折腾自己。婚姻对于我来说有种思想上的枷锁和责任存在，不结婚虽然不见得我会出轨，但结婚后我明显更加更加拉开和异性相处的距离，每个人不一样，反正我是这么觉得。
真理！
虽然我没结婚，但觉得你说的蛮实在的
就算非理想主義者，經濟能力一般還是盡量丁克。否則自己累不說，小孩也被你雞娃雞得很累。
我是70后，我和老公也是初恋，拍拖17年结婚，本来觉得没有必要结婚，所以就一直这样平淡拍拖，一直到35岁时觉得该要个孩子了，不然就该老了，所以就结婚了。36岁生了大宝，现在结婚十年，一家四口
Thank you for sharing the experience of this couple, good interview, congratulations!
真的感到那个人一直都是和自己在同一个频道上。是无论过了多少年以后仍然待你如初的那个人。再考虑结婚吧。
看完以后月亮跟我说要是我们不结婚的话我很快就会变成个单身狗😂😂
“能不能 not sing, por favor?”
“氵衮。”
@@JPfrenchinese 哈哈你也看过那个视频👍
月亮这个名字好适合她，漂亮又不张扬的女孩
哈哈哈哈
那我们结婚吧😂😂😂
hahahaha We still haven't talked about the kids!! Somebody talk to Noelia, she won't budge! Cheers Mike, that was a lot of fun!!
Max....Max. oh Max I'm giving you a little tip about marriage and kids. Please don't take it like I'm lecturing you, but I think you are missing the joy of having kids. Yes kids, by the way as Noelia gets older she will have more problems having a child. So if you wanna have children please consider her age. Don't wait too long.
By the way, you two are ment for each other please proceed to the next step.
Comprender??
@@davepsk7334 me and my wife had our first born when we were 39 now she’s just turned 4 years and our last born he’s turning 1 end of this month. So there’s no hurry to rush to have kids.
@@davepsk7334 I want kids! Noelia doesn't 😢
@@maxynoelia1 why?
@@maxynoelia1 No Max, children at the moment No ... suggestion
Hello, I really liked the interview, it shows unknown aspects of this couple ... very interesting points were touched. Greetings from Mexico. From now a new subscriber
I think the moment you feel the other is the person you can stay with for your whole life, it's time to get married. If you are not sure about that, maybe waiting to see is the best choice. Getting married is not a matter of time but your faith in each other is.
一定要結婚其實是個迷思
我覺得老師是能夠教大家學習好多不同的日常英文會話丶好多不同的日常英文句子丶好多不同的日常英文生字，好多不同的日常英文拼音丶好多不同的日常英文文法，我覺得都非常好重要的。我覺得都非常好有幫助的。繼續努力加油加油加油去學習英文。我覺得都非常好有興趣學習英文。我覺得都非常好喜歡學習英文。多謝分享一下。我都值得欣賞和讚賞的。
儅生活失去探索，熱情，而只剩下柴米油鹽和親情時， 這種生活會把我折磨瘋掉的啦，拜托，麥克老師👏👏我和你朋友比較相似偶，可能我性格比較偏向于歐美人吧， 開放，自信，熱愛大自然，勇於探索和體驗新鮮事物所帶來的腎上腺素激增，享受生活，派對，音樂節帶來的狂歡
这个取决于什么时间遇到对的人 真的遇到那个人的时候你是有强烈的感觉的
麦克老师，想小麦了，小麦什么时候出镜？
Visa from any country definitely contribute a lot on marriage rate. I know so many people wouldn't have got married or at least not yet but got married because of visa application.
Ha, Mike, very funny episode this one!
这真是个敏感的话题，同事之间聊起来会很尴尬，也就好朋友之间还可能稍微开个玩笑
我的想法跟这对墨西哥情侣一样，因为结婚后事情会变很多很麻烦，没有那张证反而会自由一些，在一起也很开心呀。
我儿子在大一的时候就和他女同学好上了。现在也6年了，快7年之痒了。
中国有句俗话：不以结婚为目的的恋爱就是耍流氓！😂
长期在一起和结婚没什么两样，结婚不过是个手续，以前的婚姻还都没手续呢，拜个天地说结婚了就算结婚了。
其实最大的区别是欧美国家和中国的人们对离婚一事的态度，尤其是对离异女性的态度。在国内，离异过的人找下一任会变得困难，身边人看待离婚人士也会带着有色眼镜，尤其是对女性。所以国内的人一旦结婚都是尽量忍，尽量不离婚，也就有了结婚可以使两人关系更稳定的说法。而国外的话，离过婚更少受到judge，所以结婚并不一定能使关系稳固（当然由于有财产分割问题，也会使离婚变得麻烦）。所以国外有很多长期男女朋友而不结婚，因为结婚并不难更好保障以后不离婚，反而有可能因为想离婚但离婚手续或官司要搞大几个月甚至几年不如不结婚分手来的方便
Dating for at least 2 years, so that you know your partner better, is much better than just dating for 6 months with too much expectation of hoping him/her becoming a better person after getting married. But 6 years is a little long. However, if you are young at 20s, no rush to get married at all. I suggest the couple in your video don't rush to marriage, you guys are too young. lol
不想结婚就是还不想承担责任，不想被束缚。没有玩够。
The face when Mike heard about traveling trough Thailand. Golden!
懂的都懂，女的肯定被绿过，女的记忆是六年，男的是四年就说明问题了
如果给我重新选择的机会，我绝对不会结婚，婚姻和恋爱完全是两回事情，恋爱很美好，婚姻很糟糕
不用后悔的 人生无常，佛早已看透了一切
lovely video,as a chinese woman,i think the best age to get marriage for girls is before 30years old if you are plan to have children
个人感觉 不以结婚为目标的俩性关系都是不够有责任心的，所谓的等待到关系稳定的说辞也是不可靠的想法，人性怎么可能像物理化学这样有个绝对的稳定不变的情感？婚姻和家庭不就是是在不确定的元素下的互相博弈和退让中走完一生吗？当然这个话题太大了也在今天的社会里变得太复杂了，这只是我一家之言 。
那你認為, 你定義的不結婚就代表沒有責任心 具體原因是甚麼?
在國外很多人交往了二十年三十年, 一起有房子有小孩, 但是都沒有去登記結婚
許多先進國家的法律, 同居伴侶與夫妻享有的法律跟社會福利是一模一樣的
如果要靠一張紙來維持人性的忠誠度, 那結婚只是牽制對方的手段而已
換言之就是, "要不是因為法律約制我, 我早就劈腿了"
大家靠結婚滿足社會期待, 那又有多少人曾經問過自己"我的婚姻過得快樂嗎?"
人生有很多選擇, 因為相愛而結婚是值得祝福的
相愛但沒有結婚也不應該被社會貼標籤
人渣結婚了還會偷腥，正常人不結婚也不會出軌。認識的一個老人处了二三十年的男女朋友，依然沒有分手也沒出軌什麼的，而年輕時匆匆走入的婚姻卻沒維持太久。
我想说现在好羡慕单身狗的日子！
围着桌子坐会更舒服、放松一点
As I know, more and more well-educated women in China don't want to lose their career for a marriage.
Interesting topic
Just get married. I would be waiting to see livestream of the marriage ceremony of this lovely couple. ❣️🥳❣️
對我來説比較在乎對事業的追求，希望達到某一個目標再結婚組織家庭，希望先再拼個幾年
加油！很棒的想法
很不好意思的說，中國這樣的也越來越多，特別大城市
结婚完全是个人选择吧，跟哪国有影响，但是影响不大。还有外国女性等待被求婚是很被动的，中国的话如果觉得想结婚就会商量一下什么时候去领证，中国女性更有主动权，我喜欢这点，而且结婚后不改姓，我最喜欢这点！行不更名坐不改姓😄。我们家是新西兰人和中国人。对了他们关注了我的inst，但是我也不认识他们😄
麦克老师的视频挺有趣
Hello Teacher Mike, did you ever feel pressured whether explicitly or implicitly to get married? Chinese (Asisn) people in general, especially (Chinese) women tend to be more anxious and pressured about getting married, which is understandable due to pressures from society, peers, parents and fear of aging eggs & infertility. Till Death Do Us Part is a very serious commitment and should never be taken lightly. When you march into marriage, you should be mentally/physically/financially prepared to take on another person's happiness/misery/debts/death/disabilities/families and many more if the unfortunate happens. Without that mental determination, you should re-consider signing that sacred legal contract (i.e. getting married).
My mom often gave me passive pressure like always asking me if I had a girlfriend yet. My dad was the opposite and told me not to hurry haha.
In Chinese tradition, "to get married" means one would be ready to take up different kinds of responsibilities as "a mature adult", including financial support of a family , taking care of children and looking after partner's family besides own family. Also, "to hold a traditional Chinese wedding ceremony" is quite exhausting, wastes time and money, though a lot of well-wishers （involves relatives and friends）can participate in it.Therefore, why Chinese always expect "to get married only 1 time for life", because of strenuous efforts in preparation and maintaining a successful and satisfactory marriage.
麦克老师您好！
只要是遇上对的人，结婚的迟早或结不结婚都应该不是问题。是否真爱，能否永远相爱，反而更值得考虑。
愿天下有情人终成眷属，开枝散叶！
世界上有三种人，与大多数人都能相处得很愉快，与某一类人相处得很愉快，与任何人相处得都不愉快。这个世界，可能根本没有对的人。与其等待遇上对的人，还不如把自己变成对的人，至少让自己变得与某一类人相处时很愉快。
Dating for 6 years and not getting married would be considered a long time in China, but it's not unacceptable.
Great works
告诉他俩 明天去民政局领证
结婚就是要受法律约束, 承担责任， 得到的不过是一张纸， 实在没有必要， 若相爱结不结婚有什么差别吗？ 难道结婚领证就保险了吗?
If a couple is not planning to have kids, there’s no reason to get married, might as well just have fun and be each other’s company, I don’t see any necessity for marriage nowadays unless you are planning to have kids.
关键还是看你有没有找对人。The key is whether you found the right person or not.
I'm the kind of mom : " No pressure!" Hahahaaaaaa
很好的话题
麦克老师 看热闹不嫌事大呀
Pretty interesting that by statistics Chinese get married in a quite young ago. probebly the statistics generalized the difference between remote villages and mega cites. Actually, it is hard for Chinese to get an ideal parterner, if you know that dating park in Shanghai,lol. surely 麦克老师 knows the 剩男剩女 Stuffs, Cheers!
是不是墨西哥人和西班牙人更容易学英语？很明显这一对情侣英语要比一般的中国学过英语的人要好得多。
墨西哥和美国接壤，美国人特别多，相比中国本地人和外族人的比例高太多了，很多墨西哥人口语雅思9分，还来读语言班，因为写作5分哈哈哈哈
@@h.t.9779 墨西哥人大多说西班牙语，据说西班牙语和英语有很多共同地方，所以学英语比中国人有优势。
你学广东话四川话也比欧美人容易很多
Noelia‘s name is quite hard to pronounce.
可悲的是，早结婚会国家发展有利，对个人却不一定。
See you next time.
麦克老师，我和先生Bill 常常看您的视频，请问现在去中国做英文老师机会多吗？我是帮我的先生问的，他今年底会满57岁，他是大学本科毕业，也在去年拿到了教英文的证书，之前山东有一所大学要请他去当老师，结果新冠病毒爆发的原因，就没有去成，感觉我的先生还是有愿望去中国教英文，也不知道上帝是否会为他开门呢？
本科就可以去大学当老师了，中国对洋人门槛真的低！还是这个年龄，中国年轻人都没这个机会
@@laylaambel4856 不是教学术的老师哦，只是教学生英文而已。
@@laylaambel4856 額
@@laylaambel4856教中国人英文足够了。别的科目不一定。
@@laylaambel4856 97年前的香港高中毕业生的英文都比俞敏洪强。12岁之前学第二门语言就没有口音。
30岁比较合适。各方面都稳定一点。
做一个怎么在中国找工作的節目？
6years too long. You risk to loss her though. Get married now before she changes mind. 😆 ❤️
哈哈哈哈哈！这个有意思！我就是跟老公交往七年才结婚的，早点晚点好像也没什么大不了，全家人看我们俩很稳定，也就没有催婚，现在在一起一共11年了，自己日子过好就好👌🏻
猜想，中西方家长最大的区别就是，区分婚姻是两个人的事！中国家长就会觉得这是两家人和所有亲戚朋友都要干预的事，而西方家长就觉得你结不结婚关我什么事？哈哈哈哈哈哈纯粹胡猜的啊！
墨西哥属于西方国家吗？
慢热的爱情会更长久吧
Yeah I agree that these days getting married is more for a practical reason, nothing about love or responsibility.
再次單身了，感覺是十分幸福
主要是不够爱吧，并不怕对方有一天就这么走了
这个男生好帅。
我在加州bay area，mike你造这里找对象多难嘛，大家伙赶快结婚吧，找到喜欢的人也喜欢你，多不容易
结不结婚是个人选择 自己的生活自己做主比较好 中国大多因为家庭压力社会压力
不想结婚的人是不愿承担家庭责任，只想有个伴侣陪自己打发无聊时间，处不好可以拍拍屁股就走，或不够爱对方。好多恋爱了很多年才结婚的，最后还是离婚了
那你觉得前者跟后者哪个更负责任
我支持将来我的孩子不结婚不生子 不要活的那么辛苦
我在托哥的视频里好像见过这对。
中美摩擦那么多、看看麦克和郭杰瑞的视频找回点对相互还能正常交流的信心
这视频刚开始就笑死我了😂
I married after 6 years dating too...
大陆也快这样了！
想结婚就结没固定什么年纪吧🌝
沒錯，年紀看是個很合理的藉口，重點是值不值得冒這個險。
假如一個女生長得柔順體貼，不用說美麗，還有很有謀生或積蓄很多的話，那個男生不想結婚？
@@WholesomeTaiwaneseMonkeygod 想借婚姻来沾光可以理解，婚后的路长，万一没光可沾就离婚?
抚养孩子 贷款买房 国外不结婚可能可以 国内没结婚证就很难了
I know two couples who dated for 10 + years and got married.
Chinese
还是差点东西吧，我之前看一个电影，男主第一眼看见就想娶她。有的就是喜欢，喜欢在一起，但是一想到结婚永远在一起可能他就没那么想，觉得不一定非要结婚。可是遇到那个人他马上就想结婚了。不过也分人，每个人不一样吧
打鐵趁熱😉
7+ yrs already and still not married yet
👍👍👍
中国人称结婚为终身大事。儒家思想认为齐家是治国平天下的根本。尤其读书人志在天下，要想替国家做事，必须先把家庭治理好。由于这个原因，中国人不仅把婚姻看成一男一女的结合，还把它当作社会的基础。
办婚礼 领证 生子 一直相爱是四件不同的事 中国传统意义上的结婚基本包括了这全部 还要遵循一定的顺序 很多欧美国家就随意很多 四个娃的父母没结婚也没啥 主要还是看个人(包括被逼)选择 没有啥对错
Marriage is too luxury at this moment...
去泰国旅游….umm….
发达国家结婚年龄相对都晚，最少30岁以上
啊。。。😂
結婚要有經濟壓力吧！還有種種的約束的及因素吧？不過青春咻咻咻的溜走了...説白了青春歲月不等人的
哪里来那么多理由的呀。其实就是各怀鬼胎 分手后各自好找另外一半吧了
左右两位长得好像呵
27 is a proper age to get married. That's my age when I got married. 😉
从没尝试过，所以没有体会👀
29岁与25岁，不算年纪很大。
子供を2人以上作らないと国がなくなりますよね。
在中国若恋爱同居超过七年都没结婚，说明这男的就是不想跟你结婚了。你可能只能算是他的性伴侣。
那要是因为这个压力跟女生结了婚，再之后再离婚这个事情会更好吗 你怎么看
結婚不結婚其實沒多大區別，只是一張紙罷了
结不结婚无所谓，反正迟早都是会后悔的
不论哪种选择，都会后悔。
到了法国之后才知道：法国人大部分只同居不领结婚证，他们太自由了，我的女私人医生 Stéphanie她已经有两个小孩（5岁男孩1岁女孩，爱人是工程师），我问她了，她说：“法国人都正常这样”。租房、超市购物、旅游、餐馆及交税等等永远是AA制，中国大陆的女孩及父母还太天真的以为处个老外对象结果是嫁女儿出国（做梦吧），法国情侣之间在餐馆任何情况下都是AA制。我问我的法国女同事valerie 为何无条件与男孩同居？她说：“她需要性爱生活”。法国人即使5%的登记领证，最后几乎99%离婚结局。结婚及同居的男女出家门之外，每个人都随时有性伙伴，每月最多的有23个性伙伴。而且欧洲男人找xiaojie 很普遍的。中西方文化区别。你今天给法国人送礼物，明天在走廊上他们不与你说话，即使昨晚你们偷偷做爱了，第二天也许与你说话也许不。他们的礼物非常轻，法国人也没见过世面（这么说中国大陆一定不相信），国内人如果在中国请一个外国人吃一碗面🍜，他们内心深处乐开花了，感觉今天中大奖了。他们生日得到一块巧克力及一支花就不错了，外国商场没有24K金子，都是18、14k的，普通人一辈子95%带不起金子。都是假的首饰。到法国之后才理解中学课文里一个佣人偷拿了主人的项链参加婚礼之后丢了，之后拼命挣钱想还。后来主人告诉：是假的（因为：欧洲各国人平时85%的人带的都是假的。他们找工作非常难。所以：来到中国的外国人是：中大奖了，诺贝尔奖
谁信谁shabi
别回了 真丢国人脸 什么素质 ，写些啥玩意，一个月换23个伴侣除了鸡我想不到什么正常人能认识那么多“伴侣”，编故事都不会，就上帝模式 法国那么多人让你一段话就总结完了？
@@lowkey6669 三季人☕️
@@pekinmarque4415 孔子？哈哈哈哈哈
40 for men
Do not marry Max, you are very young and handsome. The visa can be obtained in another way.
That boy doesn't seem Mexican, he seems European, good interview!
这一对看起来好般配。。。快点结婚吧 不然6年快要考验分手了😷
结婚的时机像烧菜一般，有最佳火候的，烧太短是生的，烧太长烧焦了，都不好吃。