Q&A - relationship status, post-grad life, & living situation

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  • Опубліковано 28 вер 2024
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 903

  • @amiborillo5165
    @amiborillo5165 3 роки тому +7399

    i still can't believe that you guys aren't together anymore, but seeing you happy, makes me happy

    • @jeweljoya
      @jeweljoya 3 роки тому +122

      wait whyd they break up

    • @monicac6157
      @monicac6157 3 роки тому +562

      Thought they were endgame

    • @HH-rz7lk
      @HH-rz7lk 3 роки тому +157

      Maybe because they lived together? And they’re both growing up? These things happen haha

    • @gkk8910
      @gkk8910 3 роки тому +768

      @@HH-rz7lk if u listen to her podcast, she said they didn’t end on good terms bc something happened. Bc of the something she also didn’t wanna stay friend with Charles

    • @mysweetpianos
      @mysweetpianos 3 роки тому +9

      @@gkk8910 can u tell me the podcast

  • @bigjbird4427
    @bigjbird4427 3 роки тому +2294

    Ashley ur literally my age and I feel like we’re growing up together. Life is so confusing and mucky and I love that everyone is figuring it out

    • @share.theworld
      @share.theworld 2 роки тому +7

      I love that we were born in the same year, ashley inspire me to do the things I want and be successful ❤️

  • @Cheerleaderfan6
    @Cheerleaderfan6 3 роки тому +2881

    i noticed that you’ve been hanging out with a lot of new people and that was something you never did in your relationship. so happy to see your growth and your path to figuring yourself out

    • @백지원-m2q
      @백지원-m2q 2 роки тому +44

      yes especially with her roommates!! i love everyone's dynamic and seeing different sides to her through everyone's vides!

  • @vickyy7263
    @vickyy7263 3 роки тому +640

    honestly it's literally so inspiring that ashley posted yt vids full time while doing university like girl boss vibes???? yesssss

  • @erincecilgarcia3400
    @erincecilgarcia3400 3 роки тому +417

    She’s so mature in answering the questions, handling post breakup thing, and I’m learning so much from her, been watching her for years now, I’m turning 21 in december and it feels like I’m not alone in adulting 💜

  • @narcisscysticacne1199
    @narcisscysticacne1199 3 роки тому +62

    When I saw the thumbnail with the question "are u single" I immediately knew something was up. I loved you two together but maybe he was just a chapter in your life and you deserve the world, honestly. Love you Ashley! Hope you're doing amazing! I'm so proud of you 🤍

  • @emmas.sweatshirt.pocket
    @emmas.sweatshirt.pocket 3 роки тому +948

    I had to write an essay for a scholarship about who my female role models are so I wrote about you and amber and I got the scholarship! so thank you for inspiring me every day and helping me pay for college lol. this video made me really happy after a long week and I feel really grateful and inspired now :) ily! 💖

    • @jazz2313
      @jazz2313 2 роки тому +3

      @@osina7974 sameeee

    • @zein9557
      @zein9557 2 роки тому +4

      this is so cool!!! congrats on your scholarship

    • @user-ov9vr1wc2j
      @user-ov9vr1wc2j 2 роки тому +1

      Congrats omg !

    • @amaniibrahim5599
      @amaniibrahim5599 2 роки тому +1

      Congrats I hope you enjoy college you seem like an amazing person congratulations

  • @___griiss
    @___griiss 3 роки тому +105

    I almost didn't even realize or find out that ur/her relationship had ended, because Ive been seeing u/her on IG super happy and hanging out with friends that I didn't even realize about the disappearance of that person.
    Im glad to see u happy with yourself and wish u all the luck with ur goals Ashley

  • @ms.soapii
    @ms.soapii 3 роки тому +162

    her whole setup is so cute 🥺

  • @지나-f4g
    @지나-f4g 3 роки тому +58

    Girl, this is one of the first videos I have watched from you since spring. Me and my boyfriend of 12 years loved to watch you’re videos while having breakfast on Sundays in bed or on the couch before we were going to sleep. We broke up now and I couldn’t stand to see you’re videos in my feed because it reminded me of him and us. But now I am feeling relax and encouraged by your video. Thank you so much for being here for us ✨

  • @kyatcha8171
    @kyatcha8171 3 роки тому +43

    can we just all agree that ashley is SO pretty:’)

  • @Sofia-hh5hb
    @Sofia-hh5hb 3 роки тому +55

    I love the fact that Ashley has been growing so much as a person, I literally feel that she's like my old sister. lysm

  • @rendinoarventi19
    @rendinoarventi19 3 роки тому +36

    i’m sooo happy seeing ashley doing very well, GO GET YOUR HAPPINESS GIRL

  • @myouimiese9694
    @myouimiese9694 3 роки тому +53

    i absolutely love the vibe of ashleys apartment, green matches her so much 💚💚💚💚

  • @dianeabigailasio4800
    @dianeabigailasio4800 3 роки тому +5

    Hi Ashley, I'm currently going through a break-up right now, and I just wanted to share how amazing and powerful it is to watch you be strong and be willing to continue to grow and move on. Thanks for being such an inspiration. I appreciate you!

  • @staceyestrella02
    @staceyestrella02 3 роки тому +10

    my girl Ashley totally deserves the best love, im glad you're able to grow into the person you are today and now trusting to love yourself again. I am very happy and proud of you sis. Sending you airhugs!!!

  • @Fifi-pm8kb
    @Fifi-pm8kb 3 роки тому +20

    Wishing you all the best Ashley! you deserve the world

  • @michaelaalcordo1614
    @michaelaalcordo1614 3 роки тому +71

    Hey Ashley! I hope you’re giving yourself time to relax and taking things easy. I’m wishing you all the best for you and the new adventures you’ll be having for the future! ♥️ I’ve also never really been one to listen to podcasts but when it comes to your podcast, I really enjoy it ✨

  • @kayladasena
    @kayladasena 2 роки тому +8

    tbh im happy about their break up. I have never liked him or see him as someone who loved her truly. I’m sorry ashley it might hurt so much losing someone after all those long years. But trust me, you’ll get someone better one day, because kind people always gets the best things.

  • @aquakitty00
    @aquakitty00 3 роки тому +29

    awww you’re glowing Ashley ☺️ you genuinely look so settled and happy it makes me feel good too

  • @oiiiie457
    @oiiiie457 3 роки тому +26

    AHAHA you've become such a plant mom 🥺 and silky is still the most elegant cat I've seennnnn and I'd love to watch you vlog at 90 as an 85 year old HAHAHA

  • @tamago8916
    @tamago8916 3 роки тому +20

    youre literally my inspiration :(

  • @tswangp
    @tswangp 2 роки тому +9

    who would have Thought, Ashley would move to NY and meet the best roomies and ofcourse KELLY!!!

  • @aplealmazan9730
    @aplealmazan9730 3 роки тому +54

    Silky at da back for Extra Dynamic 💕✨

  • @nataliepham1082
    @nataliepham1082 3 роки тому +16

    hope you're okay! go at your own speed, we'll be here

  • @mirrorballgirlie
    @mirrorballgirlie 3 роки тому +1

    Ashley thank you for opening up, talking to us and confiding in us in a way. Not gonna lie I wasn’t expecting this video but I just wanted to say that you are such a beautiful human being inside and out. 🥺❤️

  • @morchiable
    @morchiable 3 роки тому +10

    I’m glad you’re doing well! I hope you continue to be happy, healthy, and safe 💗💗💗

  • @토끼언니-e9l
    @토끼언니-e9l 3 роки тому +2

    Hi Ashley, I hope you're taking care of yourself mentally, physically, and emotionally. Don't be afraid to reach for help or support, we're here to give you a hug or to give you sunshine that can brighten your day. Sometimes we need the darkness so that the hidden stars can shine brighter. We love you Ashley :))

  • @rebeccaalanis6594
    @rebeccaalanis6594 3 роки тому +7

    I never comment on UA-cam, but I really feel like telling you that you come off as a really kind spirited person and I hope the best for your future :)

  • @friedfishh
    @friedfishh 2 роки тому +2

    I gasped when you said your birthday cos it's today!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY ASHLEY AND THANKIE FOR EXISTING COS YOU'RE LIKE MY FAVOURITE UA-camR EVER AND JUST WATCHING YOUR VIDS HONESTLY MAKES ME FEEL REALLY HAPPY AND SO HOPE YOU HAVE A GOOD DAYYY

  • @luzsoto2961
    @luzsoto2961 3 роки тому +1

    So glad that happiness is a priority in your life, the kitten is so cute and black cats are awesome.

  • @lestari9618
    @lestari9618 2 роки тому +1

    omg, wishing you all the happiness for sure! stay safe and sane ashley!

  • @akankshasoren9030
    @akankshasoren9030 3 роки тому +4

    The way I noticed that Charles deactivated or like deleted ( one of the two) his account. Like this actually hit me so hard realising that this is happening FOR REAL. At the end of the day you're not there to like please everybody. You have your own needs and your own definition of affection. So why settle for less am I right?!?
    Don't worry Ashley we were by your side then and we'll be by your side in the future. 🥺😌☺️

  • @raycherryhillt.gumapit5876
    @raycherryhillt.gumapit5876 3 роки тому +2

    I just checked in to watch your videos again because I've missed you, then I noticed the loneliness in your eyes from your recent video I don't know exactly why and I don't wanna ask because I respect your privacy, but you will get better soon Ashley 🥰 I am currently experiencing changes in my life too like losing people, moving to a new place and having a new job I felt so anxious being an adult probably scared of the future too but we are still growing. Acceptance is also a key in life. I am still learning the process of it too.

  • @catastrophe3205
    @catastrophe3205 3 роки тому +5

    Ashley... Just know that WE GOT YOUR BACK OKAY!!! Anyways I hope you're fine and your family too!! You guys deserve the bestest

  • @hamstershimei144
    @hamstershimei144 3 роки тому +1

    Ashley is definitely one of my favorite youtubers sincelast year

  • @붕어빵빵-w1t
    @붕어빵빵-w1t 3 роки тому

    ashely’s videos are always so healing

  • @hannaharevalo3279
    @hannaharevalo3279 3 роки тому +3

    your videos definitely make my day! youre definitely one of my biggest role models 💓 i hope youre always taking care!!

  • @mooskan2313
    @mooskan2313 3 роки тому

    I’ve literally discovered ur videos last year and I’ve been addicted since. Ur personality is so refreshing and I’ve loved to see ur growth throughout the past year! I hope you keep growing and stay happy and safeeee xxx

  • @abby4643
    @abby4643 2 роки тому

    Ashley this encouraged me to just make changes now and deal with the consequences later, tysm 😭

  • @hyuckleeenthusiast295
    @hyuckleeenthusiast295 3 роки тому

    ashley, i hope you're doing well. you inspire me so much ♡ you're so strong and brave ♡

  • @sleepylev
    @sleepylev 3 роки тому

    thanks for da catch-up!! hehe

  • @elenam8482
    @elenam8482 3 роки тому

    When she said she still wants to be posting videos when she’s 90 🙌 girl I’ll still be here at 90 years old watching

  • @camillequichocho
    @camillequichocho 3 роки тому +1

    i love how your apt is coming together it makes me wanna get my own place so i can decoraaaatteee

  • @katherinenj
    @katherinenj 3 роки тому +2

    literally obsessed with the background

  • @damayanteemajumdar9786
    @damayanteemajumdar9786 3 роки тому

    Seeing you post makes my stressful life a lot easy🥺

  • @lanaslogs
    @lanaslogs 3 роки тому

    love youuu and you are glowing!!!!✨ so happy you’re happy with your life right now☺️

  • @joury.a6750
    @joury.a6750 3 роки тому +1

    I love sm Ashley and i’m so proud of you🥺🥺💞

  • @samanthasavage4087
    @samanthasavage4087 3 роки тому +1

    It was soooo nice catching up with you bestie! Glad ur doing well! You inspire me sm!

  • @malakmostafaaboulela9051
    @malakmostafaaboulela9051 3 роки тому

    i didn’t expect u and charles to break up y’all seemed so happy together but wishing you both all the best🥺❤️

  • @coupjun
    @coupjun 3 роки тому +1

    ashley and charles is one of my favorite couples in this world but sadly things happened. i respect your decisions and I'll support you both separately all throughout. ily ashley

  • @nicoka484
    @nicoka484 2 роки тому +1

    Okay I'm a whole month late but Ashley asked for our updates and my main one is I'm applying to university and it's so nerve wracking especially bc they've all responded apart from one!

  • @yoonkook842
    @yoonkook842 3 роки тому

    i haven’t been able to catch up on you on podcast, didnt know about charles, thats sad. but seeing you do well makes me happy

  • @rakhityagi2001
    @rakhityagi2001 3 роки тому

    Okay OMG you're soooo prettyyy. I can watch your videos all day long only because of how aesthetic eveything isss 😩💖

  • @sww24
    @sww24 3 роки тому +2

    80 yrs old Ashley doing Nantucket vlog, yes please🥺 p.s Boba would be a cute name for ur cat 💖

  • @izelgayeestipano9761
    @izelgayeestipano9761 3 роки тому

    Love u, Ashley! You are a very strong person!! I really needed this motivation 🥺❤️

  • @pieceofpeace2553
    @pieceofpeace2553 3 роки тому

    YAY thank you for posting this frequentlyyyyy

  • @horibuns2258
    @horibuns2258 3 роки тому +1

    love you ashley, hope you're doing well and stay safeee :)

  • @katherreraa
    @katherreraa 3 роки тому

    I really do love your videos you feel like a breath of fresh air in my life and it’s just so nice

  • @kdark6309
    @kdark6309 3 роки тому

    U seem to be more like yourself after the breakup like more radiant,open 💚😊 at the end of the day u know ur self worth and wouldn't endure anything less than what u deserve, that's self love 💕

  • @moniqsj1072
    @moniqsj1072 3 роки тому

    ILY ashley i hope you are happy ❤️❤️

  • @Natallz
    @Natallz 3 роки тому +1

    If you come to cali, come to the bay! It’s usually in the 70s (if you don’t live in the city) lows get to 50 but that’s not even that bad maybe 40s in the city. Lots of culture in the city, definitely smaller than NYC but still so fun to visit. I recommend living in a surrounding city near Sf and not in sf unless you want a city living situation. Idk if your work would allow opportunities in sf but the bay has such a strong culture itself it’s super fun 🤩

  • @demixiez
    @demixiez 3 роки тому

    thank you sm for posting babyyyy ily💖

  • @mingyufloofy157
    @mingyufloofy157 3 роки тому

    You're so courageous for giving us this life update! Rooting for you in your healing phase and your growth~

  • @jessefranklin9902
    @jessefranklin9902 3 роки тому +15

    Kitty's name could be Silky Tofu. Friends with Tofu With Da Hair haha

  • @xuannnzz
    @xuannnzz 3 роки тому

    you take conversations to another level

  • @jazminjade1278
    @jazminjade1278 3 роки тому

    your cat is sooo adorable!! I really like your Q&A I hope you'll do more in the future ♡

  • @louisem6248
    @louisem6248 3 роки тому

    ur voice really relaxes me

  • @jessie6835
    @jessie6835 3 роки тому +11

    UA-cam into your 90s, Wow!
    The 'Ur Granny Ashley' channel in 50 yrs...
    But I think by then Granny Ashley will need to trade out the 'like' & 'literally' crutch words for something else_

  • @kpopfrog9917
    @kpopfrog9917 3 роки тому +2

    Autumn would be a cute name for the cat, Ashley, Amber and Andrew 😭

  • @sarai7389
    @sarai7389 3 роки тому

    ashley ily smmm

  • @Junefalemaka
    @Junefalemaka 3 роки тому

    Hi Ashely hope everything is going good please know that I have always been a huge fan of you. You have always made me happy and made me smile 😊 or so not even that the whole family made me smile such as Amber, and Andrew and you’re beautiful parents. Again hope you still mental health and physical health is going amazing and dynamic.

  • @Gio_lopez369
    @Gio_lopez369 3 роки тому +4

    It’s not the same without Charles he also took his insta down man this sucks

  • @yuina5832
    @yuina5832 2 роки тому +3

    coming back here bc i didnt know my fav couple broke up 😭😭 sobbing rn

  • @nicolelota7535
    @nicolelota7535 3 роки тому

    seeing your kitty interact with the plants makes me anxious, im hoping the plants are all kitty proof !! fake plants are cool

    • @urmomashley
      @urmomashley  3 роки тому +2

      They're all kitty proof!! she loves to play with them LOLLLL

  • @JenniferYang
    @JenniferYang 3 роки тому

    hiii Ashley!! I too am the same age as you and have graduated from college this year as well! also, isn't it crazy how we have like reversed majors/minors; I'm a psych major and have a business minor?! but instead I feel more lost & unsatisfied with my life :/, anyways I love this "catching up" with you in this vid :)! it really feels like we're just friends!! glad to see u doing better & taking care of yourself!

  • @ellanmariano
    @ellanmariano 3 роки тому

    u da best momma ashleeeey!!! keep safe

  • @MS-qt1co
    @MS-qt1co 2 роки тому

    I left for a while and I am here shook that they broke up, it does feel weird since he was part of the family 😭😢 I hope that both of them are happier now

  • @nadanova3057
    @nadanova3057 3 роки тому

    girl you are so gorgeous😳

  • @glaziemendoza6111
    @glaziemendoza6111 3 роки тому

    thank you for saving me from doing my assignments

  • @lexiegray2637
    @lexiegray2637 3 роки тому +10

    You should get another phone to keep everything separate work and friends/life

  • @ellcoa4164
    @ellcoa4164 3 роки тому

    Please do these Q&As monthly! I've been watching your channel for like 2-3 years now so I love catching up and seeing whats going on in your life : ) You and Charles breaking up makes me sad tho because I always thought your guy's relationship was similar to my boyfriend and I's. It kinda makes me feel like my bf and I will end up breaking up after 3-4 years also, but Ig I can't compare relationships oops. Anyways, glad you're happy girl!!

  • @kscott6378
    @kscott6378 3 роки тому +1

    I love to see that you are happy. I fo not know you personallyabut you seem to have it figured out all of the time.

  • @rosawisteria
    @rosawisteria 3 роки тому

    I love you Ashley thank you 🥺❤️

  • @MILANI-NANADE
    @MILANI-NANADE 3 роки тому

    Now this has made my day🙃

  • @alizja11
    @alizja11 3 роки тому

    ahh love your videos Ashley!!!

  • @bellabrieeee
    @bellabrieeee 3 роки тому

    Ashley you're a kweeeen 💖

  • @Heytheredelisandwich
    @Heytheredelisandwich 3 роки тому +1

    THEY ARENT TOGETHER ANYMORE?! Wow I never felt this way before about people I don’t know...

  • @noluthandoseluma5273
    @noluthandoseluma5273 2 роки тому +1

    Imagine this guys!!! If she her UA-cam channel goes on till she's 90 or even 100...
    It would be from: Ur Mom Ashley ~
    To: Ur Grandma Ashley
    So coool😁

  • @juliamarrote912
    @juliamarrote912 3 роки тому

    Silk is SO FREAKING CUUUTE!! i just can't hahhaha

  • @joaniieebravo
    @joaniieebravo 3 роки тому

    I think kitty is the best name for your kitty! It rolls off the tongue really well lol

  • @alishamariec.8407
    @alishamariec.8407 3 роки тому

    ashley!! how excited are you for dune? are you going to see it in theatres?

  • @sugarlove8064
    @sugarlove8064 3 роки тому

    hello ashley!!!!😁☀️🌻

  • @indigobutterflyable
    @indigobutterflyable 3 роки тому

    How did 16 min pass so fast 😭 annnnnddd only hoping for the best for you~ (and amber and andrew)

  • @moonkim5196
    @moonkim5196 3 роки тому +2

    I really love your videos! Love from Pakistan!

  • @niki.rihanna528
    @niki.rihanna528 3 роки тому

    Well I’m glad ur doing better now :))

  • @iroha1401
    @iroha1401 3 роки тому

    On t'attend en France ^^ ♥

  • @demonslayer-ds9vo
    @demonslayer-ds9vo 3 роки тому

    My birthday is October 25th. Fellow Scorpio

  • @leedeea2648
    @leedeea2648 3 роки тому +3

    I know im being nosy and stuff but what did he do? Did her cheat? Or was the stuff that he did was only an act?? Bcs in my eyes Ashley has always be the one taking care of him and not as much from him.

    • @summerain
      @summerain 3 роки тому

      no one knows and ashley said not to speculate apparently so we shouldn’t try to find out

  • @ensembledeeztars
    @ensembledeeztars 3 роки тому

    relationship or not ashleys a girlboss and deserves the world I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS ASHLEY