I cried when I learned I had a plutonic connection with my past person. I have a lot of my pluto aspect on his personal planets plus my pluto in scorpio oppose his ascendant in taurus. I can't control myself to not be obsessed with him. I decided to break away because I was overwhelmed with the power struggles between us. The moment I noticed he is no longer the happy person he used to be, I know I have to let him go. He don't want me to leave but it's not working out at all. Additionally, the cycle repeats but just with different person. I need to address something within me (being codependent and too controlling) so I can start healing. It is painful to move on but I don't want to stay and let each other die in the process. I remembered during the 1st month of getting to know each other, he felt like he meet me from past life. However, in my end, I only treated him as a friend but I was drawn to him no matter what. Thank you for the information. I'm a novice trying to understand our synastry and composite charts. ❤
I seem to have Pluto "magnets" in me, on me, around me. 3 in a row in the past 12 years. God, I'm done with Plutonian contacts only because I know precisely (and intimately) how they work, how they come to be, and how they end.
Not all Plutonians are bad. You just need to find those that are functioning maturely. I have Pluto conjunct Ascendant. My mere energy signature puts people off, even if I'm happy and enjoying myself. But I am also very kind and giving. I care about people. The problem with that is people often think that it means I'm weak, which activates my Pluto because they begin to try and dominate me. That doesn't end well though.
This is brilliant and so informative! We should all be taught about our charts in Elementary School. I am sure this knowledge would transform so many relationships on so many levels. It is our psyche our unconscious energetic drives and shows a whole other level of explaining mental illnesses. You have taken Astrology to a level that can really heal and help by making accessible the energies of the Planets the dark and the light. The pieces of what creates an ego and a personality are right in our birth charts. There is so much information just as much as DNA. Blessings and kudos to you MJ you truly are a gifted teacher. Thank You!
Definitely ppl confuse soul mate, karmic, and twin flame relationships too much! Twin flame connections are RARE extremely RARE most of us will never meet our twin flame in this lifetime Most of our relationships are karmic
It is unbearable, but that doesn't seem to matter. I have thought of her everyday for 6 years now. I am HIGHLY PLUTONIC and she is not, but her Pluto conjuncts my Asc. I have had visions, signs, dreams that confirm this connection. If it was not for these strange signs, I could walk away. I am used to being in control of everything. I control nothing when it comes to her. Fortunately, I have set up boundaries to protect myself. She is my destruction that I crave more than anything. It is terrible!
And what is worst is that all this information only helps to understand the nature of the predicament, but it doesn’t take away the pain, cravings, anxiety, you name it…here I am the quintessential on and off through out 14 years, staying strong with the no contact, yet think about him every day to no end. I can relate to every single word you expressed. God bless
My false twin and I had pluto square sun close orb synastry! I'm the pluto person and was the married one, so it makes sense! But after a year or so and not seeing each other, I realized that I misses him and was madly in love! He was in my dreams every night and I was heartbroken. Because of that, I awakened Spirituality and that was how my ascension started. Because he was my false twin, it faded after 7 years and we didn't have the need to contact each other anymore and I don't feel anything for him.
You’re amazingly great at interpreting, explaining and understanding the aspects and connections. Thank you for this video. This was life changing! Only, if you’re ready to comprehend what you’re saying though. The only video I’ve ever had to slow the speed on. I’m like “whoa slow down I’m not ready to hear this.” Yet you enlightened me on how Pluto can actually be positive even in a negative way if that even makes sense. This whole video is full of information for someone who isn’t/hasn’t been able to make sense of certain things if they’re ready to hear it. So excited to watch the twin flame stuff! Thank you, again!
Oh MJ, I hope those in this situation see this. This was my marriage. Wow, looking back from the first moment we met in person, I didn't want to be separated from him. It was the last 3 years of marriage that our relationship became toxic. When I walked away, he had no cares for me. I was heartbroken. A few years on, my ascension was expedited. I'm back on my path and learning lots. Thank you for shining your light. 🧡✨️🌹🌈
I was listening to this and looking at my aspects in a couple different synastry charts..... Totally almost grabbed the mayonnaise instead of the butter to put on my toast when you mentioned Mars and Pluto
It’s interesting, because in evolutionariy astrology Jeffrey Wolfe Green sees Pluto as the most important planet, and the first planet, to look at when evaluating a chart. The person that I believe is my twin and I have quite a few Pluto aspects, and both of us are Plutonian. With Pluto squaring, both of our Mercury’s, our conversations are incredible. I recently. had Pluto transit over my sun and though it was intense I am so much more than before it. I know that, since this person came into my life, my journey with astrology became fast track in a way I don’t think I could’ve ever imagined. I’ve been watching the entire relationship unfold through astrology and there’s so much more than a platonic thing going on here. From our first meeting, to our last contact every single moment destined by the astrology. Our composite charge is incredibl we have the vertex conjunct the defendant , Eros and pysche conjunct in synastry. We have a tone of sacred geometry in our composure like a Solomon seal,, a mystical rectangle , Two kites, and moon in the 8th house. There’s so much more, I could go on it is absolutely fascinating. I would love to discuss.
I appreciate the point of this video, but as a Scorpio rising, Moon, Neptune conjunct in Scorpio, and Pluto in Virgo, I find Scorpio has a positive side, too. I know the video is about the detriment of the Pluto/Mars connections, and maybe my life of self-improvement has changed my view, but, thankfully, I have a Buddhist practice that thrives on self-responsibility, and so does my Scorpio partner. Just representing the Scorpio point of view. :) Learning, thank you.
Welp this makes a lot of sense. My last relationship had two separate Pluto aspects in our synastry charts… and I had both the personal planets on my end… so I felt it most. And it just makes a whole lot of sense. Right now I am in therapy and on this healing journey. It did strip a part of my light away, but I am finding it again
It’s sucks bc I truly love him, but the power struggle between us… were just sooo incredibly toxic. I don’t think I can ever get back with him.. it’s hard to move on from someone you truly love to your core, but it be too toxic to come back to. I don’t think it’s just synastry, I think it’s just being a human, and finding someone you really love. Yes it plays apart. BUT it also has to do with how you were raised, and who you are as an individual. Thank you for your video tho, you’re amazing!!!
Watching this today after being psychologically, physically, mentally, financially Ab^sed! My family and everyone who ever knew me watched me nearly die and they blamed me for apparently being the aggressor when they all know I’m far from that.. Heartbreaking experience for anyone in a relationship with EVERYTHING you spoke about!! 5yrs today since I married this Demonic man. 2 years since divorce and took me 2 years to heal! One year I locked myself in the house and Divine forcing me to unknowingly. I always say “I wish I knew astrology before this life threatning marriage” but it was for my highest good. THANK YOU 🙏 new subscriber ❤
I am very Plutonic. Scorpio Stellium + 8H Stellium and have these contacts (Sun Square Pluto at 3 degree and Venus Square Pluto at 2 degree with someone). I am clearly the Pluto person. Yes. It is extremely challenging to end. That is fact. If it ever ends to be honest. But we do not have any negative obsessions (besides being very into one another, loving one another passionately, very close relationship). But it’s not dangerous (no stalking, violence, etc). It’s not as negative as it sounds. I will agree it depends on the individuals at play. Both people will definitely change over time with each other and many times for the better. Don’t let plutonic relationships scare you- they are some of the most transformative relationships you’ll ever experience. ❤️
this was soo helpful my last relationship who I thought was my Twin Flame we have a saturn square pluto aspect and that relationship was soo toxic and very controlling, I do also have saturn square pluto in my own chart as well! I would love more videos like this, thank you soo much!
Great video honestly. I should mention to everyone that please take what resonates with you. Also, your Ascendant represents the point in which your soul met your body. Your Ascendant maps out your entire birth chart and is the most personal to you. The way to remember this is to think about what it takes to calculate your Ascendant versus your Sun. Your Sun’s window is a month or about 30 days versus your Ascendants window which is only around a couple hours in a day. Or other words, the couple hours block of time that you entered this world.
Very interesting video-I am a Plutonian and am drawn to other Plutonians, sometimes unfortunately. Boundaries are incredibly important. Love your couch-wondering where you bought it?
I appreciate this and want to point out composite charts - combining both natal charts to determine the function of the relationship itself. There are also Pluto aspects that are healthy. My TF and I both have sun square Pluto in natal and synastry. It’s not negative, but it certainly aludes to the unspoken changes we both bring to each other just by our ego expression. It all depends on the awareness of both partners. There are other aspects (Saturn or Mars on the North Node) that would indicate a negative karmic bond, the asteroid Karma negatively aspected, etc. Overall I think you nailed it and I appreciate you veering into astrology. I value your insight and work. ❤️
Im an aquarius sun, moon and virgo ascendant dating a scorpio sun, pisces moon, taurus ascendant. The synastry chart has my pluto conjunct his sun, my pluto trine his moon and If Im not mistaken his venus conjunct my pluto...I honestly feel I cant breathe sometimes. My pluto is in scorpio. He needs to know EVERYTHING Im feeling/ thinking - it feels like being psychoanalyzed instead of wooed. My whole day goes into this relationship- I love drawing, sewing, embroidery and I feel that all the things I enjoy are being taken away. I feel like Im being consummed and consumming him which is just not healthy.The sex? HORRIBLE. I feel sexually attracted to him but it feels unbalanced. I sense he uses this as a weapon. Im starting to resent him and I want to hurt him emotionally at this point. Ive tried to get out of the relationship twice but he goes ballistic. Im not happy- I dont feel like myself - I just want my mental peace back. I dont feel anything good can get out of this
Omg I been in this for 2 years to date 🥺 he is the platonic tower pisces.. its been a struggle 😪 your making me cry I dont know what to do I walk away and it finds Me again ... I am an aquarius 😭😭
Wow what a time to run across this...i recently found out EVERY man i have been with has a scorpio moon..which is usually conj my pluto in Scorpio in the 4h. Usually within a few degrees..the last one also had his pluto there because were were only a couple years apart in age from one another..ive had many abusive relationships, but also lovely healing ones..my pluto has a favorable aspect to my Venus in pisces 8h and mercury in 10h. The one with a sun in pisces was healing..and my kids father of 11yrs together. The rest..short lived..dangerously flipping the tables.. appreciate this insight
Yessss! I had to be the one to tell him this relationship may not be a good idea 😐 He wanted to try over and over and over again. His planets in Taurus, mine in pluto
What’s crazy is my current relationship… we have Pluto to moon , sun and ascendant in our synastry , and I do feel like my light has completely burnt out… tried ending the relationship and everything but it’s like I’m stuck.
Ironic how astrologist have different opinions on aspects. I was just listening to someone who said the pluto square venus was the soul mate aspect. She said she had it with her husband and they were married within 2 months of meeting. I have 11 pluto aspects in synastry with a man. It's off the charts! We have: Pluto-Venus DW Pluto - Sun DW Pluto-Nodes DW Plus some! We're going to happen, no matter what the attraction is off the charts!
🤔 I already have my Pluto in 8 different aspects in my own chart ... and my TF and I have our Pluto's at 1.1° conjunct ... so, yeah, we have multiples aspects between his Pluto and my planets ... but since it's already part of my chart. I think, feel, he's just activating a lot of those aspects in me, I see it for my benefit. As for him, he has 3 aspects of his planets with Pluto ... Joy, joy, joy!!! 😶🤦♀️ I'll just say, his Pluto, opposed my Mars in Pisces! 😳💥💥💥 Thanks! 🙏☮️❤️
We Have Venus Square Pluto But Also The Conjunction Both 0 Degree Orbs. But We Also Have All The Other Aspects That Sorta Mend This. Like Moon and Venus, Moon and Mercury, North Node Conjunct Vertex In 7th House, Moon Conjunct Neptune, Sun Square and Conjunct Pluto - Lots Of Double Whammys
I tend to attract Plutonian relationships. Currently in a relationship with someone and we have quite a few Pluto aspects in our synastry I am the Pluto person and I’m trying so hard to heal my wounds. My ex husband was a narcissist and he left me scarred so my poor boyfriend is experiencing the disaster that I am. I’ve noticed I really hurt him sometime but I love him so much and I’m trying so hard to be more emotionally mature. We have Pluto square Venus, Pluto in 3rd house,and Pluto in 5th house.
My TF/soulmate’s Pluto is in Scorpio and my Moon is in Scorpio. My Pluto is in Virgo and she has 4 placements in Virgo (Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars). Unbelievable synchronicities, we talked for more than 20 hrs when we first connected but shortly thereafter things changed on a dime and it became toxic and codependent. Her energy - remotely, we were thousands of miles away - then literally catalyzed my spiritual awakening (long and unbelievable story). We’re in separation now but can’t get her out of my mind, and I wonder if the same is true for her
No, not even after years of no contact lol. It isn’t b/c of what happened between us in 3D really but more the mind blowing syncs. A powerful intuitive event between us occurred the same day as a solar eclipse even. And my middle name is Moon (can’t make this up.) Any interesting syncs or aspects in your connection?
I'm the pluto person I think, I insanely attract Scorpio people, relationships and friendships. I wish someone who knows this stuff would take a look at my chart.
I have to say, that, to crush someone, or to love them, is a CHOICE; and THAT, astrology can never see into what we choose depedning on our level of consciousness... thousands are born the same day and have billion different temperaments and lifes ....Human beings are also full of light, and great dreams...and PLuto is always and has always , and probably, will still, be there.......and not all is negativity about it: Pluto is basically mutation, and thta s soemting we dont like and judge negative
My husband’s Pluto is within 0 degrees of my Mercury and Mars and within 5 degrees of my Venus, he was the one who was more attached and more “obsessed” and I’m the one left hurt when I saw him die right in front of me and our daughter.
Can you please explain how to live with an apex moon opposite my north node (in scorpio) and then when someone's sun is on top of my north node conjunct Pluto
I have Pluto in my 7th house Libra, so not easy, such growth, I'm still single with, had never a real relationship, some wired Men, but I always stopped, I'm a Pisces uffff, 😢 a lot of sadness and anger. I'm learning about this. I can be also controlling....
With some of the darker nature of this topic up front, I find it apropos the transcript spells it "sinistry" chart bcuz some of it can be downright sinister!🤣😂🤣😂🤣
In synastry we have Pluto(male) opposite Sun (female) exact. Pluto retrograde in Libra conjunct descendant /7th house in composite chart. We also have Venus conjunct Saturn at 1° Aries in composite 12th. I deeply believe this person is my TF. Tons of 12th, 11th house 8, 4th and 7th synastry and composite. Our moons are conjunct in Leo, and we have Neptune luminary connections. Still studying it. I appreciate your lecture!
Thank you for all the teachings they help a lot🙂. Can you explain Juno and Jupiter in Aries I heard from another astrologer that there is going to be new union opening for soulmates/twinflames. Thank you. We are leaving difficult times. I am Aqua in 0 degree 😒 and has been rough...
In the synastry chart-when it lists “Pluto square whatever”-if I ran the chart am I the “Pluto” cuz listed first and if Venus square Pluto for example they r the Pluto cuz listed second??
I have in composite a moon and venus square pluto 😢😢😢. Moon and venus are opposite....sun Mercury jupiter conjunct in 9th house capricorne and venus in 9th house aquarius....no stability
What about if there is a double whammy? My Pluto Conjunct his sun (in Scorpio) and his Pluto squire my sun ( in Leo) also my mars sextile his Pluto. All very tight orb. Can’t stop thinking about him. Is there an other positive aspects in Sinatra to make up for this?
Hi just to find out what does it mean if you have pluto opp Venus and he also has the same thing as in pluto opposite Venus in his chart ... Is this a good or bad thing..
Well, this ia so true! The ascendant person realise much later what is goeing on. My case. I study astrology for over a year, trying to decodeing myself. And i had pluto s transit thru my 7 in the last 20 yo. My marriage for 28 yo and my bussines disolved. I realised last year about pluto s specifics, manipulation, power struggles, but this video, just added the complete flavour of gaslight and people around me seeing me different than i am, and in the same time, i was the bad person and he was the good one. And i was eating stones in this time. I also have a daughter with him and i start to see the picture with 3 or 4 y before divorce. I also have mars is aries, and my response to gaslight was verbally agressive many times. I use to yell a lot, becouse i wasn t heard. I didn t know how to deal with things different back then. Well, i m ok now, i worked hard with chiron, saturn, pluto and neptune. And now i m in a place where i m in peace with everything. Even with him. I understand the lessons. We change a lot. But guess what? I m also a leo rising and i have pluto transiting my 7 aqua for 18 y AGAIN! And i can see the flavour! I m obsessed in the last four y about a man who live in the other part of the world, we never talk, but i know i was with him in other lives. I recognised him, i ve been with him in astral, we look almost the same, even different races, different age. Yes, twins. This 4 y i had the most insane and beautiful growing in all my life! And this transit again. I guess, i came here to have some fun in this life time, god help me 🙂🤟 at least, i m different from the first time. So, ty for this video 🤍💙
Asc 30:06
Sun 21:48
Moon 26:30
Mercury 41:42
Venus 45:00
Mars 36:00
Jupiter 53:25
Saturn 48:00
Thank you so much!
Why she only talks about square? What about conjunction? Sexitle and all others? Which has different meaning
I cried when I learned I had a plutonic connection with my past person. I have a lot of my pluto aspect on his personal planets plus my pluto in scorpio oppose his ascendant in taurus. I can't control myself to not be obsessed with him. I decided to break away because I was overwhelmed with the power struggles between us. The moment I noticed he is no longer the happy person he used to be, I know I have to let him go. He don't want me to leave but it's not working out at all. Additionally, the cycle repeats but just with different person. I need to address something within me (being codependent and too controlling) so I can start healing. It is painful to move on but I don't want to stay and let each other die in the process.
I remembered during the 1st month of getting to know each other, he felt like he meet me from past life. However, in my end, I only treated him as a friend but I was drawn to him no matter what.
Thank you for the information. I'm a novice trying to understand our synastry and composite charts. ❤
I seem to have Pluto "magnets" in me, on me, around me. 3 in a row in the past 12 years. God, I'm done with Plutonian contacts only because I know precisely (and intimately) how they work, how they come to be, and how they end.
Lol heard
I have 12th house magnets it’s gut wrenching 😢
Not all Plutonians are bad. You just need to find those that are functioning maturely. I have Pluto conjunct Ascendant. My mere energy signature puts people off, even if I'm happy and enjoying myself. But I am also very kind and giving. I care about people. The problem with that is people often think that it means I'm weak, which activates my Pluto because they begin to try and dominate me. That doesn't end well though.
This is brilliant and so informative! We should all be taught about our charts in Elementary School. I am sure this knowledge would transform so many relationships on so many levels. It is our psyche our unconscious energetic drives and shows a whole other level of explaining mental illnesses. You have taken Astrology to a level that can really heal and help by making accessible the energies of the Planets the dark and the light. The pieces of what creates an ego and a personality are right in our birth charts. There is so much information just as much as DNA. Blessings and kudos to you MJ you truly are a gifted teacher. Thank You!
Definitely ppl confuse soul mate, karmic, and twin flame relationships too much! Twin flame connections are RARE extremely RARE most of us will never meet our twin flame in this lifetime
Most of our relationships are karmic
It is unbearable, but that doesn't seem to matter. I have thought of her everyday for 6 years now. I am HIGHLY PLUTONIC and she is not, but her Pluto conjuncts my Asc. I have had visions, signs, dreams that confirm this connection. If it was not for these strange signs, I could walk away. I am used to being in control of everything. I control nothing when it comes to her. Fortunately, I have set up boundaries to protect myself. She is my destruction that I crave more than anything. It is terrible!
I have found that loving yourself empowers & helps set boundaries. Check out Aaron Doughty UA-cam channel.
what aspects your planet make to her planet? Your Pluto conjuct her Venus?
And what is worst is that all this information only helps to understand the nature of the predicament, but it doesn’t take away the pain, cravings, anxiety, you name it…here I am the quintessential on and off through out 14 years, staying strong with the no contact, yet think about him every day to no end. I can relate to every single word you expressed. God bless
I can relate to this sooooo well. I have a lot of Plutonian energy and he was a Scorpio with a major stellium in my 8th house.
Also we both have sun conjunct our plutos, Mars conjunct Venus in 8th house just to name a couple.
45:00 venus square pluto
I hate having this aspect with everyone
I only had it once and it was a rollercoaster ride. I felt like I was chewed up and spat out. I never want to have that experience ever again !!
My false twin and I had pluto square sun close orb synastry! I'm the pluto person and was the married one, so it makes sense! But after a year or so and not seeing each other, I realized that I misses him and was madly in love! He was in my dreams every night and I was heartbroken. Because of that, I awakened Spirituality and that was how my ascension started. Because he was my false twin, it faded after 7 years and we didn't have the need to contact each other anymore and I don't feel anything for him.
Thank you
You’re amazingly great at interpreting, explaining and understanding the aspects and connections. Thank you for this video. This was life changing! Only, if you’re ready to comprehend what you’re saying though. The only video I’ve ever had to slow the speed on. I’m like “whoa slow down I’m not ready to hear this.” Yet you enlightened me on how Pluto can actually be positive even in a negative way if that even makes sense. This whole video is full of information for someone who isn’t/hasn’t been able to make sense of certain things if they’re ready to hear it. So excited to watch the twin flame stuff! Thank you, again!
Oh MJ, I hope those in this situation see this. This was my marriage. Wow, looking back from the first moment we met in person, I didn't want to be separated from him. It was the last 3 years of marriage that our relationship became toxic.
When I walked away, he had no cares for me. I was heartbroken.
A few years on, my ascension was expedited. I'm back on my path and learning lots.
Thank you for shining your light. 🧡✨️🌹🌈
I was listening to this and looking at my aspects in a couple different synastry charts..... Totally almost grabbed the mayonnaise instead of the butter to put on my toast when you mentioned Mars and Pluto
It’s interesting, because in evolutionariy astrology Jeffrey Wolfe Green sees Pluto as the most important planet, and the first planet, to look at when evaluating a chart. The person that I believe is my twin and I have quite a few Pluto aspects, and both of us are Plutonian. With Pluto squaring, both of our Mercury’s, our conversations are incredible. I recently. had Pluto transit over my sun and though it was intense I am so much more than before it. I know that, since this person came into my life, my journey with astrology became fast track in a way I don’t think I could’ve ever imagined. I’ve been watching the entire relationship unfold through astrology and there’s so much more than a platonic thing going on here. From our first meeting, to our last contact every single moment destined by the astrology. Our composite charge is incredibl we have the vertex conjunct the defendant , Eros and pysche conjunct in synastry. We have a tone of sacred geometry in our composure like a Solomon seal,, a mystical rectangle , Two kites, and moon in the 8th house. There’s so much more, I could go on it is absolutely fascinating. I would love to discuss.
I just got done watching this on your other channel. This notification had me hopeful this was part 2 dropping.
21:51 Sun square Pluto
26:35 Pluto square moon
Faith has been tested to the enth degree!
I appreciate the point of this video, but as a Scorpio rising, Moon, Neptune conjunct in Scorpio, and Pluto in Virgo, I find Scorpio has a positive side, too. I know the video is about the detriment of the Pluto/Mars connections, and maybe my life of self-improvement has changed my view, but, thankfully, I have a Buddhist practice that thrives on self-responsibility, and so does my Scorpio partner. Just representing the Scorpio point of view. :) Learning, thank you.
Thank you for taking this on! Not many can truly tackle this and make sense. Jewel Mayberry does. Modern Astrology, too. I can't get enough of it!
Welp this makes a lot of sense. My last relationship had two separate Pluto aspects in our synastry charts… and I had both the personal planets on my end… so I felt it most. And it just makes a whole lot of sense. Right now I am in therapy and on this healing journey. It did strip a part of my light away, but I am finding it again
It’s sucks bc I truly love him, but the power struggle between us… were just sooo incredibly toxic. I don’t think I can ever get back with him.. it’s hard to move on from someone you truly love to your core, but it be too toxic to come back to. I don’t think it’s just synastry, I think it’s just being a human, and finding someone you really love. Yes it plays apart. BUT it also has to do with how you were raised, and who you are as an individual. Thank you for your video tho, you’re amazing!!!
I totally experienced this and decided to walk away very painful process ty ❤
My husband and I have Pluto square moon 2 degree orb . 😂 we have moon 🌙 conjunct moon though and other positive aspects.
I ont know ie been in situation as pluto where ive been in danger or manipulated so ....
Can you please make a video on the opposition!! This is an amazing video thank you. Also, what about midheaven aspects?
Watching this today after being psychologically, physically, mentally, financially Ab^sed! My family and everyone who ever knew me watched me nearly die and they blamed me for apparently being the aggressor when they all know I’m far from that.. Heartbreaking experience for anyone in a relationship with EVERYTHING you spoke about!! 5yrs today since I married this Demonic man. 2 years since divorce and took me 2 years to heal! One year I locked myself in the house and Divine forcing me to unknowingly. I always say “I wish I knew astrology before this life threatning marriage” but it was for my highest good. THANK YOU 🙏 new subscriber ❤
Just got through one. Still recovering.
Ditto. It's rough.
Finally. Source sent your energy my way. I understand - I am not alone. Gracias
I am very Plutonic. Scorpio Stellium + 8H Stellium and have these contacts (Sun Square Pluto at 3 degree and Venus Square Pluto at 2 degree with someone). I am clearly the Pluto person. Yes. It is extremely challenging to end. That is fact. If it ever ends to be honest. But we do not have any negative obsessions (besides being very into one another, loving one another passionately, very close relationship). But it’s not dangerous (no stalking, violence, etc). It’s not as negative as it sounds. I will agree it depends on the individuals at play. Both people will definitely change over time with each other and many times for the better. Don’t let plutonic relationships scare you- they are some of the most transformative relationships you’ll ever experience. ❤️
Been there done with that Thank you ❣️.
This reading is so spot-on.
Been through it twice now. We split for 16 year's & got back together lasted 3years, same old stuff.
I'm trying to find information on pluto square ascendant synastry.
this was soo helpful my last relationship who I thought was my Twin Flame we have a saturn square pluto aspect and that relationship was soo toxic and very controlling, I do also have saturn square pluto in my own chart as well! I would love more videos like this, thank you soo much!
Saturn Square Pluto in a synastry chart is a generational aspect.
Your Saturn square Pluto description is hilarious 😂
Great video honestly. I should mention to everyone that please take what resonates with you. Also, your Ascendant represents the point in which your soul met your body. Your Ascendant maps out your entire birth chart and is the most personal to you.
The way to remember this is to think about what it takes to calculate your Ascendant versus your Sun. Your Sun’s window is a month or about 30 days versus your Ascendants window which is only around a couple hours in a day. Or other words, the couple hours block of time that you entered this world.
I really need to get a synastry reading. She played massive mind games with me.
Thank you for this.
Very interesting video-I am a Plutonian and am drawn to other Plutonians, sometimes unfortunately. Boundaries are incredibly important.
Love your couch-wondering where you bought it?
I appreciate this and want to point out composite charts - combining both natal charts to determine the function of the relationship itself.
There are also Pluto aspects that are healthy. My TF and I both have sun square Pluto in natal and synastry. It’s not negative, but it certainly aludes to the unspoken changes we both bring to each other just by our ego expression. It all depends on the awareness of both partners. There are other aspects (Saturn or Mars on the North Node) that would indicate a negative karmic bond, the asteroid Karma negatively aspected, etc.
Overall I think you nailed it and I appreciate you veering into astrology.
I value your insight and work. ❤️
Thank you for this video and info…it’s given me lots to think about and giving me clarity
Im an aquarius sun, moon and virgo ascendant dating a scorpio sun, pisces moon, taurus ascendant. The synastry chart has my pluto conjunct his sun, my pluto trine his moon and If Im not mistaken his venus conjunct my pluto...I honestly feel I cant breathe sometimes. My pluto is in scorpio.
He needs to know EVERYTHING Im feeling/ thinking - it feels like being psychoanalyzed instead of wooed.
My whole day goes into this relationship- I love drawing, sewing, embroidery and I feel that all the things I enjoy are being taken away. I feel like Im being consummed and consumming him which is just not healthy.The sex? HORRIBLE. I feel sexually attracted to him but it feels unbalanced. I sense he uses this as a weapon. Im starting to resent him and I want to hurt him emotionally at this point. Ive tried to get out of the relationship twice but he goes ballistic. Im not happy- I dont feel like myself - I just want my mental peace back. I dont feel anything good can get out of this
Wow great video! Very eye opening
I have my Venus square my ex's Pluto. The pain is real 😢 It took me almost 2 years to get over him.
I love this information! Thank you so much for this as I am seriously looking within 🙏🤗
You are radiating such beauty MJ... totally think you're so in alignment with this re-launch of this channel ❤️
Omg I been in this for 2 years to date 🥺 he is the platonic tower pisces.. its been a struggle 😪 your making me cry I dont know what to do I walk away and it finds Me again ... I am an aquarius 😭😭
Great content, so glad i found you. Just what i was looking for.
Wow what a time to run across this...i recently found out EVERY man i have been with has a scorpio moon..which is usually conj my pluto in Scorpio in the 4h. Usually within a few degrees..the last one also had his pluto there because were were only a couple years apart in age from one another..ive had many abusive relationships, but also lovely healing ones..my pluto has a favorable aspect to my Venus in pisces 8h and mercury in 10h. The one with a sun in pisces was healing..and my kids father of 11yrs together. The rest..short lived..dangerously flipping the tables.. appreciate this insight
Wow, I have so much to learn and work to do!
Thank you…☺️💖
Yessss! I had to be the one to tell him this relationship may not be a good idea 😐 He wanted to try over and over and over again. His planets in Taurus, mine in pluto
What's hard is when you know it's going to hurt but they won't give up. I had to get a restraining order finally
Movie example: 9 1/2 weeks looks veeery plutonic. Squarish plutonic. Oh there, you said it too! 🤣
MJ! This is information that is so needed right now. I love how in depth this is. And yes, more please 🙏🏽! Thank you 🙏🏽
Thank you so much! I can definitely relate. What if the Pluto contacts go both ways? More toxic?
Thank you MJ. Pulled my chart(s) out during this!
What’s crazy is my current relationship… we have Pluto to moon , sun and ascendant in our synastry , and I do feel like my light has completely burnt out… tried ending the relationship and everything but it’s like I’m stuck.
Ironic how astrologist have different opinions on aspects. I was just listening to someone who said the pluto square venus was the soul mate aspect. She said she had it with her husband and they were married within 2 months of meeting.
I have 11 pluto aspects in synastry with a man. It's off the charts! We have:
Pluto-Venus DW
Pluto - Sun DW
Pluto-Nodes DW
Plus some!
We're going to happen, no matter what the attraction is off the charts!
🤔 I already have my Pluto in 8 different aspects in my own chart ... and my TF and I have our Pluto's at 1.1° conjunct ... so, yeah, we have multiples aspects between his Pluto and my planets ... but since it's already part of my chart. I think, feel, he's just activating a lot of those aspects in me, I see it for my benefit.
As for him, he has 3 aspects of his planets with Pluto ...
Joy, joy, joy!!! 😶🤦♀️
I'll just say, his Pluto, opposed my Mars in Pisces! 😳💥💥💥
Thanks! 🙏☮️❤️
I got through it, took 8 months
We Have Venus Square Pluto But Also The Conjunction Both 0 Degree Orbs. But We Also Have All The Other Aspects That Sorta Mend This. Like Moon and Venus, Moon and Mercury, North Node Conjunct Vertex In 7th House, Moon Conjunct Neptune, Sun Square and Conjunct Pluto - Lots Of Double Whammys
Thank you Mary Jo ❤❤❤
I tend to attract Plutonian relationships. Currently in a relationship with someone and we have quite a few Pluto aspects in our synastry I am the Pluto person and I’m trying so hard to heal my wounds. My ex husband was a narcissist and he left me scarred so my poor boyfriend is experiencing the disaster that I am. I’ve noticed I really hurt him sometime but I love him so much and I’m trying so hard to be more emotionally mature. We have Pluto square Venus, Pluto in 3rd house,and Pluto in 5th house.
Also Pluto sextile Saturn ,Uranus,and Neptune.
My TF/soulmate’s Pluto is in Scorpio and my Moon is in Scorpio. My Pluto is in Virgo and she has 4 placements in Virgo (Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars). Unbelievable synchronicities, we talked for more than 20 hrs when we first connected but shortly thereafter things changed on a dime and it became toxic and codependent. Her energy - remotely, we were thousands of miles away - then literally catalyzed my spiritual awakening (long and unbelievable story). We’re in separation now but can’t get her out of my mind, and I wonder if the same is true for her
OMG !! A very similar experience has happened to me !! Are you able to disconnect?
No, not even after years of no contact lol. It isn’t b/c of what happened between us in 3D really but more the mind blowing syncs. A powerful intuitive event between us occurred the same day as a solar eclipse even. And my middle name is Moon (can’t make this up.) Any interesting syncs or aspects in your connection?
I'm the pluto person I think, I insanely attract Scorpio people, relationships and friendships. I wish someone who knows this stuff would take a look at my chart.
I have to say, that, to crush someone, or to love them, is a CHOICE; and THAT, astrology can never see into what we choose depedning on our level of consciousness...
thousands are born the same day and have billion different temperaments and lifes
....Human beings are also full of light, and great dreams...and PLuto is always and has always , and probably, will still, be there.......and not all is negativity about it: Pluto is basically mutation, and thta s soemting we dont like and judge negative
Great information
The generational pluto's are good too. It's like nationalism, culture in a small town, that loyalty, you know my home team energy.
I can see it now 🙏
Hello MJ. Do you have a video on different types of Twin flame relationships?
There is a video she did on “what kind of twin are yiu”
We have the same amount of Pluto towards each other and it is a lot of Pluto in the synastry. We both have Pluto square partners mars.
Can you add a visual aid? Im lost on personal planet person vs Pluto person. I understand the dynamics but not how to determine that in the chart.
Love it Love Love it Thank you soo much
I'm wondering who is the more obsessed in the Venus square Pluto? The Venus or Pluto?
My husband’s Pluto is within 0 degrees of my Mercury and Mars and within 5 degrees of my Venus, he was the one who was more attached and more “obsessed” and I’m the one left hurt when I saw him die right in front of me and our daughter.
🙏🏽🙏🏽
How is it if their Pluto is in Scorpio and it is in close degrees with your cancer mars 🤔
My son's Pluto squares my Venus within 5 degrees. I wonder how it plays out in mother/child relationships.
Your amazing. Can you make a video on Venus square ascendant? Thanks so much 🙏🏻
Fantastic video!! Thank you!!
You had a Venus Square Pluto peeking at you through your door at 46:52👀
Powerful!!
Can you please explain how to live with an apex moon opposite my north node (in scorpio) and then when someone's sun is on top of my north node conjunct Pluto
I have Pluto in my 7th house Libra, so not easy, such growth, I'm still single with, had never a real relationship, some wired Men, but I always stopped, I'm a Pisces uffff, 😢 a lot of sadness and anger. I'm learning about this. I can be also controlling....
With some of the darker nature of this topic up front, I find it apropos the transcript spells it "sinistry" chart bcuz some of it can be downright sinister!🤣😂🤣😂🤣
This man I’ve been connected with this past year and a half his Pluto and Virgo has been in direct opposition to my Venus in Pisces!
No wonder…🤦♀️
I definitely want to learn more about this stuff!
You are so good!!! Wow 😮 Thank you! ❤
Been split up for 4 years still can’t let each other go. We have a child. Only stopped sleeping together a few months ago.
What about oppositions and positive aspects of
Excellent 🎉 Thank you 😊
In synastry we have Pluto(male) opposite Sun (female) exact. Pluto retrograde in Libra conjunct descendant /7th house in composite chart. We also have Venus conjunct Saturn at 1° Aries in composite 12th. I deeply believe this person is my TF. Tons of 12th, 11th house 8, 4th and 7th synastry and composite. Our moons are conjunct in Leo, and we have Neptune luminary connections. Still studying it. I appreciate your lecture!
His Pluto & ascendant conjuncts my Jupiter, Venus, NN, Juno, Nemesis, and Pluto in Scorpio.
Thank you for all the teachings they help a lot🙂. Can you explain Juno and Jupiter in Aries I heard from another astrologer that there is going to be new union opening for soulmates/twinflames. Thank you. We are leaving difficult times. I am Aqua in 0 degree 😒 and has been rough...
So good! Keep em’coming!!! Would love to hear if chiron impacts intimate relationships the way Pluto does
In the synastry chart-when it lists “Pluto square whatever”-if I ran the chart am I the “Pluto” cuz listed first and if Venus square Pluto for example they r the Pluto cuz listed second??
Thanks MJ 🦂🦁🙏❤️
I have in composite a moon and venus square pluto 😢😢😢. Moon and venus are opposite....sun Mercury jupiter conjunct in 9th house capricorne and venus in 9th house aquarius....no stability
In synastry only my pluto IS aspected and by trine
What if you have both twin flame aspects and pluto aspects?
What about if there is a double whammy? My Pluto Conjunct his sun (in Scorpio) and his Pluto squire my sun ( in Leo) also my mars sextile his Pluto. All very tight orb. Can’t stop thinking about him. Is there an other positive aspects in Sinatra to make up for this?
Scorpio is using intuition. They keep a good list and bad list in their brain. Then calls bs
11:11pm when I read this!
Are these just for Squares? What about conjunction and opposition?
Yes my question too
Thank you !!!
And what about pluto conjunct IC synastry ?
Hi just to find out what does it mean if you have pluto opp Venus and he also has the same thing as in pluto opposite Venus in his chart ... Is this a good or bad thing..
Well, this ia so true! The ascendant person realise much later what is goeing on. My case. I study astrology for over a year, trying to decodeing myself. And i had pluto s transit thru my 7 in the last 20 yo. My marriage for 28 yo and my bussines disolved. I realised last year about pluto s specifics, manipulation, power struggles, but this video, just added the complete flavour of gaslight and people around me seeing me different than i am, and in the same time, i was the bad person and he was the good one. And i was eating stones in this time. I also have a daughter with him and i start to see the picture with 3 or 4 y before divorce. I also have mars is aries, and my response to gaslight was verbally agressive many times. I use to yell a lot, becouse i wasn t heard. I didn t know how to deal with things different back then. Well, i m ok now, i worked hard with chiron, saturn, pluto and neptune. And now i m in a place where i m in peace with everything. Even with him. I understand the lessons. We change a lot. But guess what? I m also a leo rising and i have pluto transiting my 7 aqua for 18 y AGAIN! And i can see the flavour! I m obsessed in the last four y about a man who live in the other part of the world, we never talk, but i know i was with him in other lives. I recognised him, i ve been with him in astral, we look almost the same, even different races, different age. Yes, twins. This 4 y i had the most insane and beautiful growing in all my life! And this transit again. I guess, i came here to have some fun in this life time, god help me 🙂🤟 at least, i m different from the first time. So, ty for this video 🤍💙