Exactly, they should start loving themselves a bit more before expecting someone else to do it. Also, too many women are looking just the same. Same face, same body, same everything. They lose the uniqueness in them by getting all those surgeries.
THIS!!! I’ve had 2 c-sections, and although I would enjoy the benefits of a boob lift/ tummy tuck- it’s just not worth it. I’m terrified to have surgery again.
As a black woman. My butt is / was as flat as pancake. It’s a real ‘ insecurity’. I finally got my butt to a trainer/ a gym and made it want i wanted it to be. Surgery is scary and the only way I was able to risk my life was in childbirth or for absolute necessity. I pray these young women learn to love themselves. I work for an ‘ after care company.. our patient recently have all been young women 21-30 with BBL’s and breast augmentations. 😢 haven’t earned a degree, but will spend thousands on adjustments when they are already perfect.
A BBL is a decision that people have to make. It’s not the surgeon fault at all. People need to take full responsibility for putting their life in danger. It’s called research all the possibilities and outcomes before altering our bodies. I know a few women that went overseas after being told a mommy lift would put them at risk. Women still get on a plane any fly out the country and go against all odds for a BBL etc.
@@Amazing.Grace37 I'm a bw but slim thick I think ppl should only be doing surgery if it's life r death I don't even think u should risk ur life 2 have anyone kids either
Lovely no this is a choice that unfortunately many females are not making smart/independent/educated decisions. No one/no group should have this much control over how you live. Doc
3 years ago 3 days before Christmas my old boss (daycare that my son still attended) sent a mass text. Her 30 year old daughter passed on the operating table while getting a bbl her body just couldn’t take it, she left behind her husband and 9 year old daughter. Any thoughts I had of any surgery instantly went away. It’s different when it’s that close to you ❤ praying for your sister!
Go to the gym. Cut your calories for 12 weeks & lift heavy. Then, increase your calories for the following 12 weeks, while lifting heavy. You’ll get a nice but without all the risks.
I’m just saying the only surgery that should be “elective” is a boob job - literally EVERYTHING ELSE can be worked on IN THE GYM! The ironic part is if you still get surgery, you STILL have to workout before and after! Make it make sense people and stop being lazy. 🤦🏾♀️
@@justmedrea4361Jackie made me cry and I was so shocked she went for surgery after her new baby because she looked goodt! I was wishing I had her body after my twins
I also had a friend pass from this surgery. It was heart breaking . Ladies seek God, only his acceptance matters. “As you come to him, the living Stone-rejected by humans but chosen by God and precious to him- you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.” 1 Peter 2:4-5 NIV
Cancelled mine the DAY OF surgery after flying 11 hours to Turkey after remembering that it’s the most dangerous of all surgeries!! I was terrified but had the courage to change my mind! Didn’t lose any money.
Yeah but they’ll still risk it while making every excuse even saying everyone is different or my doctor is a great Doctor , I can’t n ain’t doing it nerp no n nah 💯
@@ryanamari2233it was for a more recent surgery. Like a mommy makeover after her new baby. She had a great figure and I wish her husband convinced her not to bother
Fawk that! I love my square box troll, speed bump rear end! I'm super afraid of butt injections with silicone, fat transfer surgery, etc..... TAKE ME AS I AM OR HAVE NOTHING AT ALL!" 💯💯💯💯💯💯
God looks good on you boo❤ (I know yall see B.Simone transforming right in front of our eyes and I love it! Spread that light cause it’s gone always outshine the darkness 😇)
It always has been sadly. From the dramatically cinched waists, to the binding of feet, to skin bleaching, to injecting the face to the point of paralysis, to BBLs. History is littered with women doing awful things to themselves in the name of vanity and fitting in.
@@lydiaking322the difference is regular everyday women didn’t do these things in the past examples you gave. Today a girl working at Walmart may have a BBL and fake eye lashes
Insecurity will make one do all types of foolish things. God said, we are fearfully and wonderfully made. It’s high time to remind ourselves of that. Ingrain that fact into our children.
My friend her nieces mom passed away from a BBL….🥺. Ladies, y’all are beautiful just the way you are. Every imperfection is beautiful regardless of how you feel! You are wonderfully and beautifully made. God doesn’t make mistakes because he made us in his image! ❤
Hey everybody, look… everyone has insecurities: rich, poor, attractive,unattractive, man, female, adults, kids (1-expiration)!! We all are insecure and no one is exempt from insecurities! Be easy on yourselves and I will 2!
Hello hell yea I had the craziest experience of my life at MIA Aesthetics in Miami, thought I was going to get a mommy make over. When I got to the facility, they had money counters like it was a whole operation, like getting nails done. I seen this chick with a fanny pack full of her insides swigging through a straw, one chick was bleeding out everywhere. I said no I’m not doing it, they said we don’t give refunds. Girl bye that’s why I put it on credit card. They made us lock our phones in lockers. This was during Covid too . One girl did die, I nursed the girl I shared room with until my flight left. I was sent for her I know that now. I did long research and settled on just breast augmentation, no cutting my stomach, backside, I’m totally happy. God told me I would not have made it out if I did that. Oh goodness that’s a nightmare didn’t expect to relive right now. Lord I’m so thankful so grateful that you kept me
Amen Just keep obeying Him and your life will be simple because He that ask you to do something has already given you He’s grace to do that but He will never force. Grace makes things so easy for us, we have to be sensitive just like you were sensitive and obeyed Him.
I was talking to a flight attendant on my way home from the DR and she told me a lot of those flights back to the US have dead bodies on them from ppl who didn’t make it.
I'm not one bit surprised. I have a family member who was 2 seconds from her demise. The doctors were ignoring her complaints because 1. She's Black 2. She was willing to perish for a nicer butt so they didn't take her seriously
The amount of bbl regret stories I've heard consistently is so disturbing but I think it's important to remember that society has been groomed for this. So once the trend becomes introduced, all the other work has been done.
I’ve been bullied as a JAmerican woman by my people from both countries for not having a “black girl bootie”. I’m now 40 years blessed and am grateful that I didn’t let my own people shame me into risking my life to fit a preconceived standard of a beauty.
I used to think about getting a nose job, but 1) pain is not a friend of mine 😂 2) it’s scary to think of a botched nose job 3) I’ve grown to love everything about myself Love yourselves everyone.
She's actually the exact opposite. She MIRRORS, not to be confused with empathy. She has narcissistic personality disorder. She has very limited if any capacity to emphasize.
I foundout today my sister friend had it done the day she went home she opened her front door she died right in the door way 😢sad prayers to her in i wish people would just love the skin they in.
Before getting a BBL...heal your childhood trauma! Getting a BBL is just one of the MANY actions taken to heal the symptom of trauma which can show up as needing validation. Once healed the need for validation will no longer exist. You cant heal inside pain by changing something on the outside. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ❤
Gastric bypasses and gastric sleeves are also risky surgeries. I know of a few fatalities and some near death lifestyles that involve needing feeding tubes and needing organ transplants.
I had an appendectomy Aug 2022 and Tympanoplasty just last month. You can’t pay me to get a BBL. I don’t understand why someone would look at themselves and think they need a bigger but or need to fix themselves. Beauty comes from the innermost self (mind, soul, spirit).
I made the mistake of helping a female I know with women who were scheduled to have a BBL in Miami and needed a place to recover before they can fly back to there homes. I could say, hands-down is the worst experience I’ve ever seen with women who all regretted having the surgery immediately afterwards, not to mention how the clinics charged more than they initially told them. It was a emotional mess… She got made with me because i prayed with them and complement the ladies and tried to talk them out of it because not one of them needed that surgery but of course she was focused on making money off them. I was so ready to go home and I have not spoken to her since. No regrets there at all. Eat right and workout ladies for your results.. Self love 💕
Having hysterectomy I couldn't take that pain, I would never try to get a BBL for validation or sociality for no one, But God, I luv my body the way God gave it to me in Jesus Name Amen🙏PERIODT!!!!
Wow. I'm glad I saw this. I thought about getting a bbl once. I changed my mind because I'm afraid of going under the needle. Side note: I didn't know their was a major artery in the butt.
Fr she was beyond beautiful there was nothing physically wrong with her appearance her bd should have constantly reassured her that's what you do with the people you TRULY love
@@salhuds9739he can’t constantly reassure her…it takes one’s self to get to the point of loving who you are - inside and out. Self Validation and self love over anybody else’s opinions of you. RIH Jackie Oh 🫶🏾🕊️
@@salhuds9739you don’t know what her BD did. Maybe despite what he did, she was hell bent on getting the surgery anyway because she was an adult, hell she was older than him by a year or two. Also, her surgery was sponsored by the doctor that did it. You cannot place accountability on the person that didn’t sign up for the surgery.
It's for identity. We all go through transitions for our own identity thats why we have trans kids/ppl gothic kids/ppl. People who dress like other people. People who take on other people identity. You always have great info. May God continue to bless and watch over your hands and your family in Jesus name.
Glad you ladies are speaking on this topic. A fat embolism happens when fat cells leak into the blood stream and travel to the lungs. Where they can block blood flow and cause death. To reduce the risk surgeons can use ultrasound to guide the placement of the fat to avoid injecting it into the muscle.
I had a patient who had. 360 lipo and a bbl come into the ER for pain. Girl was a mess. Had to lay on her stomach the whole time. She asked for pain meds and didn’t even give me time to go to the med room to get it. By the time I walked to the med room, pulled the morphine, I had the morphine in my hand walking back to the room she was already flipping the F out and trying to jump out of bed to go home AMA because she swore I was taking too long. Thats how excruciating the pain was. She genuinely thought I took 10 minutes when it’s was only 1 minute. Every second one was excruciating pain for her. She was throwing up and trembling from the pain
This🎯 Butts are made of muscles which can grow through exercise just like body builders do.. focus on thighs and all the glutes (maximus, medius and minimus) to get the feminine shape
@@ariesspring2161years and in most cases if doesn’t build up the same as a BBL. I’m not advocating for a BBL but a BBL can give someone what they cannot attain genetically. For example, exercising will not give your butt the projection you’re looking for, which is one reason a woman may choose to get a BBL. Exercise isn’t going to spot reduce your waist either.
The hospital do not want to go behind those procedures for caution of being at risk of them being sued. My best friend went to Mexico for a breast implants/BBL and a tummy tuck and when I say her stomach burst open and it looked like it was rotting that's an understatement. She went to the hospital and they left her in the ER for three days and no doctor would touch her. She was crying and begging to sign a firm saying she would not hold them responsible. Guess what?, after the American doctor healed her, she went back and got a round two 🤦🏽♀️. Its enough information out there for women to know that the procedure is not safe. Yes lots of people don't have complications but lots do. You're rolling the dice. GYM for me Alex (RIP), final answer
Yup I went to vixen plastic surgery and got a bbl. The doctor did my whole surgery in 45 minutes. It's a butcher shop and they don't care about you at all. It's so sad
Like my mom tells me when I tell her I want a bbl “if the lord wanted you to have big cakes you would’ve had’em. Be thankful for what you have, the world needs cupcakes too” 🤣🤣
Yes I am still traumatized from watching my sister go through that surgery after all her friends said they were all going 2 bbls together ditched her at the last minute and I am still traumatized even 3 years later.... Wats happening 2 the world
I knew we were doomed when I first started hearing women say things like, “I haven’t gotten MY BBL yet” or she hasn’t got HER BBL yet”… I was like wait what? Are we growing them naturally now? 🥺🥺 Man…that made me clutch my pearls when she said how many women were just bent over like that and they were knocking them out like burgers. 😔😔🙏🏽
I remember that video of them talking about and how she’s battling with an illness today. And then what happened to Jackie. I know watching what happened to then was hard for B. It’s just not worth it. So scary.
This is why God made us perfectly and wonderfully made in HIS image. No need to go through that to make yourself look like this or that when you are already beautiful and wonderful.
I love you B, thank you for speaking on this. Baby, I would look to loose at least 40 pounds, but I know I need to do it the right way. I feel like if you commit to something like a surgery, it’s expensive, time consuming and a major risk. You might as well hire a personal trainer, the process is longer; but better safe than sorry! To all my beautiful queens out there, we are all beautiful; a flat stomach or a big ass does not justify beauty!
And this is why I embrace my natural body and beauty exactly how god created me and I love my imperfections it’s what makes me stand out and I embrace it. And men and women need to love them selves just as they are exceptance is the first step.💯🇬🇧🙏🏾
I saw one in real life, as opposed to on line/magazines and it was just an awful mess! Lumpy bumpy overfilled diaper booty. My husband and I couldn't stop laughing.
BBL might make a person feel better but at the end everything comes at a cost and even if it's for other purposes besides the trend be natural just be yourself. The you that you are is so important and imperfectly perfect embrace it accept it and who ever can't can move ❤️💯✌️
Whoever is reading this YOU are ENOUGH!!!!
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Same way they do in abortion clinics they have to meet a quota
Amen
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😌☺️ So are YOU !! 💯💚🙏🏾
God doesn't make mistakes we do ❤
Omg..I soon love this statement
" GOD DONT MAKE MISTAKES WE DO"
wow thanks sis
Amen!!
I'm going to steal this post 😊
True
Exactly, they should start loving themselves a bit more before expecting someone else to do it. Also, too many women are looking just the same. Same face, same body, same everything. They lose the uniqueness in them by getting all those surgeries.
After a c-section and hysterectomy, I can't imagine having elective surgery for vanity.
THIS!!! I’ve had 2 c-sections, and although I would enjoy the benefits of a boob lift/ tummy tuck- it’s just not worth it. I’m terrified to have surgery again.
Hunny after 2 c-sections and a hernia repair, I can NOT & will NOT ever do an elective surgery 🫣 it’s scary af
Same here I had 2 c sections and I had my ovary removed those alone were scary for me.
I agree. I had a hysterectomy, thyroidectomy, and some other surgeries. I never for to have surgery just for a trend
Thank you 🙏 emergency surgery only. I agree
BBL surgery is a risk no woman should take. Embrace your GOD given beauty🦋
You can say that again 🫶🏾🙏🏽
Exactly
As a black woman. My butt is / was as flat as pancake. It’s a real ‘ insecurity’. I finally got my butt to a trainer/ a gym and made it want i wanted it to be. Surgery is scary and the only way I was able to risk my life was in childbirth or for absolute necessity. I pray these young women learn to love themselves. I work for an ‘ after care company.. our patient recently have all been young women 21-30 with BBL’s and breast augmentations. 😢 haven’t earned a degree, but will spend thousands on adjustments when they are already perfect.
A BBL is a decision that people have to make. It’s not the surgeon fault at all. People need to take full responsibility for putting their life in danger. It’s called research all the possibilities and outcomes before altering our bodies. I know a few women that went overseas after being told a mommy lift would put them at risk. Women still get on a plane any fly out the country and go against all odds for a BBL etc.
@@Amazing.Grace37 I'm a bw but slim thick I think ppl should only be doing surgery if it's life r death I don't even think u should risk ur life 2 have anyone kids either
Social media has DESTROYED these women’s self esteem very sad
I'm pretty sure it was men and other women including their own mothers that did
Facts!
Lovely no this is a choice that unfortunately many females are not making smart/independent/educated decisions. No one/no group should have this much control over how you live. Doc
If my ass is matching my back I wouldn’t put myself through this type of horror🥹
It was already damaged for what every reason . We make mistakes but we learn from those mistakes
❤ 💯 everyone is not meant to have a huge bottom...body diversity is what's beautiful about the human race
Exactly
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YES.
Loving my handful size 6 🍑
Say it loud for the people in the back!💯👍🏽☺️👀
"For A Trend" 👀 You said a word Sis!
That hit hard❤❤
For the culture😮
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Yeah, and then when the trend is over now they have to go back to the drawing board (literally).
No..for MEN.
3 years ago 3 days before Christmas my old boss (daycare that my son still attended) sent a mass text. Her 30 year old daughter passed on the operating table while getting a bbl her body just couldn’t take it, she left behind her husband and 9 year old daughter. Any thoughts I had of any surgery instantly went away. It’s different when it’s that close to you ❤ praying for your sister!
How sad😢
My Dad was murdered by the VA 3days before Christmas 2023...
My heart goes out, it's the first Christmas without mine...
PEOPLE PLEASE... PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF NO MATTER WHAT!!!
Go to the gym. Cut your calories for 12 weeks & lift heavy. Then, increase your calories for the following 12 weeks, while lifting heavy. You’ll get a nice but without all the risks.
Some people will say that’s too much work 🤷🏾♀️
@@meaganfloyd8161 true and some sprint running for a flat tummy and plum butt. 😊
@@meaganfloyd8161 it’s better than risking your life. That’s what happened to Jackie-O.
I’m just saying the only surgery that should be “elective” is a boob job - literally EVERYTHING ELSE can be worked on IN THE GYM! The ironic part is if you still get surgery, you STILL have to workout before and after! Make it make sense people and stop being lazy. 🤦🏾♀️
@@justmedrea4361Jackie made me cry and I was so shocked she went for surgery after her new baby because she looked goodt! I was wishing I had her body after my twins
I also had a friend pass from this surgery. It was heart breaking . Ladies seek God, only his acceptance matters.
“As you come to him, the living Stone-rejected by humans but chosen by God and precious to him- you also, like living stones, are being built into a spiritual house to be a holy priesthood, offering spiritual sacrifices acceptable to God through Jesus Christ.”
1 Peter 2:4-5 NIV
Amen 🙏🏽♥️
Glad she’s still blessed to see more days and had you by her side through it all!🙏🏿❤
Cancelled mine the DAY OF surgery after flying 11 hours to Turkey after remembering that it’s the most dangerous of all surgeries!! I was terrified but had the courage to change my mind! Didn’t lose any money.
After what happened to DC’s wife I know she’s a huge advocate for not doing it
oh my, what happened to her ? 🥺🙁
@@daisy408. she had a BBL done I think a year ago if not two and died as a result of complications
Yeah but they’ll still risk it while making every excuse even saying everyone is different or my doctor is a great Doctor , I can’t n ain’t doing it nerp no n nah 💯
She had just given birth and wanted a mommy makeover 💔, so sad
@@ryanamari2233it was for a more recent surgery. Like a mommy makeover after her new baby. She had a great figure and I wish her husband convinced her not to bother
Fawk that! I love my square box troll, speed bump rear end! I'm super afraid of butt injections with silicone, fat transfer surgery, etc..... TAKE ME AS I AM OR HAVE NOTHING AT ALL!" 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Butt injections with silicone are the illegal ones they use to do, they dontvdony it in legit places
God looks good on you boo❤ (I know yall see B.Simone transforming right in front of our eyes and I love it! Spread that light cause it’s gone always outshine the darkness 😇)
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I love that... 'God looks good on you.'... ❤
Meeeeee 2wo 💜@@ALLWynter
Love the body your in. Sometimes you don't get a second chance to appreciate what you already had❤
Let’s be for real. A LOT of these women get BBLs to get a certain type of man (the ones that go to Diddy parties 👀) and to look down on other women.
Said the quiet part out loud.
Then lie and say they never had surgery so you can feel bad you don’t look good like them 😂
P R E A C H!!💯💯💯💯
They do and get mad when they only attract men who just want to sleep with them
Vanity is at an all time #High… 🤦🏽♀️
It always has been sadly. From the dramatically cinched waists, to the binding of feet, to skin bleaching, to injecting the face to the point of paralysis, to BBLs. History is littered with women doing awful things to themselves in the name of vanity and fitting in.
@@lydiaking322I can’t relate.💯
@@lydiaking322the difference is regular everyday women didn’t do these things in the past examples you gave. Today a girl working at Walmart may have a BBL and fake eye lashes
Social media !!
Vanity is one of the 7 deadly sins. Just love yourself as you are. Nothing good comes from mutilating your body to be trendy or fit in.
Insecurity will make one do all types of foolish things. God said, we are fearfully and wonderfully made. It’s high time to remind ourselves of that. Ingrain that fact into our children.
you can’t blame someone for hating their fucking body
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Amen AMEN!!! 🙏🏾
I Cant wait until fupa's come back in style 😁
😂😂😂😂😂
This woman here is changing her life and making us aware of the changes to come. ❤
Do you know what her name is?
@@3rinityivysage292I believe her name is B.Simoné
Bsimone podcast
I remember when your sister snuck away to go get that BBL im happy she made it through thank God!
Was this before or after Jacky O passed?
@@creamycazz1before. Years ago
My friend her nieces mom passed away from a BBL….🥺. Ladies, y’all are beautiful just the way you are. Every imperfection is beautiful regardless of how you feel! You are wonderfully and beautifully made. God doesn’t make mistakes because he made us in his image! ❤
Sad 😢🙏🏾
YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL…. AS IS!!!!
Someone needed that today… AS IS!!!!
Amen ❤
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Hey everybody, look… everyone has insecurities: rich, poor, attractive,unattractive, man, female, adults, kids (1-expiration)!! We all are insecure and no one is exempt from insecurities! Be easy on yourselves and I will 2!
I love the truth and authenticity B Simone gives!
This is a story that had to be told. I applaud all of you for sharing and more importantly, caring. May God heal us all.
Emmanuel 🙏🏾
Hello hell yea I had the craziest experience of my life at MIA Aesthetics in Miami, thought I was going to get a mommy make over. When I got to the facility, they had money counters like it was a whole operation, like getting nails done. I seen this chick with a fanny pack full of her insides swigging through a straw, one chick was bleeding out everywhere. I said no I’m not doing it, they said we don’t give refunds. Girl bye that’s why I put it on credit card. They made us lock our phones in lockers. This was during Covid too . One girl did die, I nursed the girl I shared room with until my flight left. I was sent for her I know that now. I did long research and settled on just breast augmentation, no cutting my stomach, backside, I’m totally happy. God told me I would not have made it out if I did that. Oh goodness that’s a nightmare didn’t expect to relive right now. Lord I’m so thankful so grateful that you kept me
Amen
Just keep obeying Him and your life will be simple because He that ask you to do something has already given you He’s grace to do that but He will never force. Grace makes things so easy for us, we have to be sensitive just like you were sensitive and obeyed Him.
Literally just work out. At least that’s natural that’s so scary even imagining the pain to get through it
My sister died 2 weeks after her operation. It’s the most dangerous surgery.
My condolences 🙏🏽...
I was talking to a flight attendant on my way home from the DR and she told me a lot of those flights back to the US have dead bodies on them from ppl who didn’t make it.
Wooowww
sooo sad
Jesus 😢
Under the plane like cargo ?
I'm not one bit surprised. I have a family member who was 2 seconds from her demise. The doctors were ignoring her complaints because
1. She's Black
2. She was willing to perish for a nicer butt so they didn't take her seriously
RIP Jacky Oh❤ 🦋 soo beautiful!
My condolences ❤
I miss her uploads soooo much she just had the most positive energy as a mom.. it was beautiful to witness
@@sugarspiceandeverythingnice92 And patience too
Don’t feel bad for her she was dumb and dc young fly ain’t shiddd
Did her sister actually die.?
Ohhh my Goodness
The amount of bbl regret stories I've heard consistently is so disturbing but I think it's important to remember that society has been groomed for this. So once the trend becomes introduced, all the other work has been done.
How many more of these stories do we have to hear? Its like these women feel like their immune to the risk of death.
Exactly
They dont be caring at all, how are you willing to die just to look the same as other people? is crazy
I’ve been bullied as a JAmerican woman by my people from both countries for not having a “black girl bootie”. I’m now 40 years blessed and am grateful that I didn’t let my own people shame me into risking my life to fit a preconceived standard of a beauty.
I used to think about getting a nose job, but 1) pain is not a friend of mine 😂
2) it’s scary to think of a botched nose job
3) I’ve grown to love everything about myself
Love yourselves everyone.
I used to hate my long nose, but I met a interesting woman who loved it😜😏 so now I love it. Imma gonna say God definitely nose what he doing. 😂😂😂
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Honey, your nose is fine. I think you’re better off. I’m glad you embraced what the creator gave you. ❤
I felt 0 pain after my surgery. Absolutely none
@@ashleybcookin 🫶🏽 thank you
When i went to Miami for the first time i was in tears to see so many women in my hotel in bandages and crying in pain. Ladies you are beautiful!!!
Like I wish some women knew we are not hating on yall we legit are terrified that you will no longer be here 😢
No problem with that if they are childfree
Good comment 🙏
And You simply just need at least the hem of jesus's garment... A mustard seed my friend...🙏
Glad She's Ok God Bless❤ 🙌
B Simone you are an empath
I am the same and people think I’m crazy wen I say I can feel what they feel
My baby sister feels my pain. We are only 11 months apart .When people hear her say that they are like, "yeah right"
@@allisonmccall5475 it’s real! Hard for people to believe exact they can’t see
She's actually the exact opposite. She MIRRORS, not to be confused with empathy. She has narcissistic personality disorder. She has very limited if any capacity to emphasize.
Thanks got explaining that artery part. It’s definitely an extra deterrent for those thinking about it possibly. That’s not ever explained.
I foundout today my sister friend had it done the day she went home she opened her front door she died right in the door way 😢sad prayers to her in i wish people would just love the skin they in.
That decision/ these types of decisions, will truly NEVER be OUT OF LOVE.
Self Esteem/Maturity and Acceptance are KEY.
Before getting a BBL...heal your childhood trauma! Getting a BBL is just one of the MANY actions taken to heal the symptom of trauma which can show up as needing validation. Once healed the need for validation will no longer exist. You cant heal inside pain by changing something on the outside. YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL ❤
And people know the risks AND STILL DO IT!!!! I will never understand that! It’s not necessary!!!
I definitely will not change anything on my body. It is not even worth it . Sending for your sister healing 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
Glad to see B Simone found a quieter volume to talk in
Gastric bypasses and gastric sleeves are also risky surgeries. I know of a few fatalities and some near death lifestyles that involve needing feeding tubes and needing organ transplants.
I had an appendectomy Aug 2022 and Tympanoplasty just last month. You can’t pay me to get a BBL. I don’t understand why someone would look at themselves and think they need a bigger but or need to fix themselves. Beauty comes from the innermost self (mind, soul, spirit).
I love all of me ❤ never really cared about following others and the trends. Thank you 🙏 Father
Amen!!!!💯💯💯💯
I made the mistake of helping a female I know with women who were scheduled to have a BBL in Miami and needed a place to recover before they can fly back to there homes. I could say, hands-down is the worst experience I’ve ever seen with women who all regretted having the surgery immediately afterwards, not to mention how the clinics charged more than they initially told them. It was a emotional mess… She got made with me because i prayed with them and complement the ladies and tried to talk them out of it because not one of them needed that surgery but of course she was focused on making money off them. I was so ready to go home and I have not spoken to her since. No regrets there at all. Eat right and workout ladies for your results.. Self love 💕
Having hysterectomy I couldn't take that pain, I would never try to get a BBL for validation or sociality for no one, But God, I luv my body the way God gave it to me in Jesus Name Amen🙏PERIODT!!!!
She knew what it was when she signed up. Gym memberships and personal trainers were always an option.
Just love they way GOD made you !your beautiful just the way you are.
Wow. I'm glad I saw this. I thought about getting a bbl once. I changed my mind because I'm afraid of going under the needle. Side note: I didn't know their was a major artery in the butt.
I wish Jacky Oh survived her surgery.
Same..
Fr she was beyond beautiful there was nothing physically wrong with her appearance her bd should have constantly reassured her that's what you do with the people you TRULY love
@@salhuds9739he can’t constantly reassure her…it takes one’s self to get to the point of loving who you are - inside and out. Self Validation and self love over anybody else’s opinions of you. RIH Jackie Oh 🫶🏾🕊️
@@salhuds9739you don’t know what her BD did. Maybe despite what he did, she was hell bent on getting the surgery anyway because she was an adult, hell she was older than him by a year or two. Also, her surgery was sponsored by the doctor that did it. You cannot place accountability on the person that didn’t sign up for the surgery.
I'm So Happy, That She Survived & You Were There, For Her. ❤
It's for identity. We all go through transitions for our own identity thats why we have trans kids/ppl gothic kids/ppl. People who dress like other people. People who take on other people identity. You always have great info. May God continue to bless and watch over your hands and your family in Jesus name.
Embrace what God has given you! You are beautiful and you are ENOUGH!!! Love you!! Love on yourself!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Glad you ladies are speaking on this topic. A fat embolism happens when fat cells leak into the blood stream and travel to the lungs. Where they can block blood flow and cause death. To reduce the risk surgeons can use ultrasound to guide the placement of the fat to avoid injecting it into the muscle.
Fat embolism is not the only life threatening complication of a BBL though.
I had a patient who had. 360 lipo and a bbl come into the ER for pain. Girl was a mess. Had to lay on her stomach the whole time. She asked for pain meds and didn’t even give me time to go to the med room to get it. By the time I walked to the med room, pulled the morphine, I had the morphine in my hand walking back to the room she was already flipping the F out and trying to jump out of bed to go home AMA because she swore I was taking too long. Thats how excruciating the pain was. She genuinely thought I took 10 minutes when it’s was only 1 minute. Every second one was excruciating pain for her. She was throwing up and trembling from the pain
I thank God I love me in my own skin and I have the mental strength to know my value
I'm 45 & Plus Sized And I Just Could NEVER...
Be happy with what you were blessed with!!
Sorry about your sister you can do exercises and build your butt up stay safe ladies
This🎯 Butts are made of muscles which can grow through exercise just like body builders do.. focus on thighs and all the glutes (maximus, medius and minimus) to get the feminine shape
@@LongHairDontCare400 How long does it take to build up?
Very true but they don't want to put in the effort.
@@ariesspring2161years and in most cases if doesn’t build up the same as a BBL. I’m not advocating for a BBL but a BBL can give someone what they cannot attain genetically. For example, exercising will not give your butt the projection you’re looking for, which is one reason a woman may choose to get a BBL. Exercise isn’t going to spot reduce your waist either.
@@ghettoghost305 Dang that sucks for women who’s trying to achieve those goals. Hopefully someone creates a safer way 🙏🏽
The hospital do not want to go behind those procedures for caution of being at risk of them being sued. My best friend went to Mexico for a breast implants/BBL and a tummy tuck and when I say her stomach burst open and it looked like it was rotting that's an understatement. She went to the hospital and they left her in the ER for three days and no doctor would touch her. She was crying and begging to sign a firm saying she would not hold them responsible. Guess what?, after the American doctor healed her, she went back and got a round two 🤦🏽♀️. Its enough information out there for women to know that the procedure is not safe. Yes lots of people don't have complications but lots do. You're rolling the dice. GYM for me Alex (RIP), final answer
B Simone you are so beautiful ❤🥰
DAMN! GOD BLESS her sister and ALL women who believe this will fix their insecurities. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️✨
be proud of who you are you don't need to change anything. love yourself and the world will too.
Yup I went to vixen plastic surgery and got a bbl. The doctor did my whole surgery in 45 minutes. It's a butcher shop and they don't care about you at all. It's so sad
Do you like your results?
This breaks my heart 💔 be careful ladies....those surgeries can be very dangerous
I LOVE that she’s speaking up and being real about the dangers of this, instead of this shit instead of condoning it like every other celebrity
Wow ♡ I love myself
Like my mom tells me when I tell her I want a bbl “if the lord wanted you to have big cakes you would’ve had’em. Be thankful for what you have, the world needs cupcakes too” 🤣🤣
Facts, God made each of us in his image. 🙏🏼💕
Yes I am still traumatized from watching my sister go through that surgery after all her friends said they were all going 2 bbls together ditched her at the last minute and I am still traumatized even 3 years later.... Wats happening 2 the world
Wish women would stop chopping their bodies up! For what??? Stop!!!
I knew we were doomed when I first started hearing women say things like, “I haven’t gotten MY BBL yet” or she hasn’t got HER BBL yet”… I was like wait what? Are we growing them naturally now? 🥺🥺 Man…that made me clutch my pearls when she said how many women were just bent over like that and they were knocking them out like burgers. 😔😔🙏🏽
The devil has deceived the masses... Sad.. Choose Jesus ✝️.
This video definitely NEEDS to keep getting shared. It’s ALWAYS greatly appreciated to be natural. At least coming from a real man’s opinion that is
All that to look crazy. Be perfectly fine as is.
Thank God I'm not into trends or following what most people are doing. Thank God this young ladies sister survived the whole ordeal. 🙏
I would NEVER let my sister get surgery knowing my best friend died the same way, wtf is happening here
This happened way before Jacky...
How can you stop a grown person from doing what they want to do? You can’t.
Wow sis, ❤ yourself as you are!! Thank God you where there.
Love the skin you’re in, and not the trend…💕
No lie this conversation with my dark humor I could’ve have had this conversation
I remember that video of them talking about and how she’s battling with an illness today. And then what happened to Jackie. I know watching what happened to then was hard for B. It’s just not worth it. So scary.
Did she develop the illness from the surgery?
This is why God made us perfectly and wonderfully made in HIS image. No need to go through that to make yourself look like this or that when you are already beautiful and wonderful.
B Simone this is the most intelligent and sincere words I've heard from you. I appreciate that young lady!
Make the decision out of love ❤
I love you B, thank you for speaking on this. Baby, I would look to loose at least 40 pounds, but I know I need to do it the right way. I feel like if you commit to something like a surgery, it’s expensive, time consuming and a major risk. You might as well hire a personal trainer, the process is longer; but better safe than sorry! To all my beautiful queens out there, we are all beautiful; a flat stomach or a big ass does not justify beauty!
I will never have that surgery!😢😢😢😢😢😮
"YOOOO.. NEXT BURGER.. NEXT BURGER"
Lmaooo
And this is why I embrace my natural body and beauty exactly how god created me and I love my imperfections it’s what makes me stand out and I embrace it. And men and women need to love them selves just as they are exceptance is the first step.💯🇬🇧🙏🏾
The fact that its so ugly should be reason enough but the fact that its so deadly is NUTS!! Dont do this shit.
I saw one in real life, as opposed to on line/magazines and it was just an awful mess! Lumpy bumpy overfilled diaper booty. My husband and I couldn't stop laughing.
It’s not for a trend it’s for acceptance that they think they’ll get from males that don’t gaf about their personality only their body.
I’m an advocate for people doing what they want with their bodies, but This is such an important conversation and needs to be talked about more. 👏🏽
BBL might make a person feel better but at the end everything comes at a cost and even if it's for other purposes besides the trend be natural just be yourself. The you that you are is so important and imperfectly perfect embrace it accept it and who ever can't can move ❤️💯✌️
It's idolatry that's deadly. Be free in YAHSHUAH NAME 😘 YAHWEH makes good and perfect gifts