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  • This is deeply personal to me and probably the most emotional video I will ever make. I'm sharing it because it is only fair to share the downs as well as the ups.
    Thank you to everyone that has supported me so far, I hope to have your continued support whilst I go through this very difficult time. My marriage may be over but my life is not.
    Let's start this new chapter together and see what life has in store for us. Onwards and upwards as they say.
    See you in the next one.
    Dela.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 854

  • @bcaiqs
    @bcaiqs Рік тому +63

    As a single divorced woman , I’m so sorry to see the pain in your face and hear it in your voice . I wish you and your family all the best . If I could do it all over again , I would have fought for my marriage because the carnage is not worth it . Seek counseling even though you are now single and make sure the kids mental health is taken care of as well . When all the dust settles, the kids are the ones who get the short end of the the Divorce stick and continue to suffer way after both adults involved have moved on .
    I pray for the best God has for you and your family 🙏🏽

  • @brigey
    @brigey Рік тому +98

    Wow, what a shock. When I met Kwame at Melcom a few years ago, he proudly showed me your picture and he was beaming from ear to ear. I was so surprised and happy to meet the husband of natural ghana girl. Though I'm really sad to hear this news, I will be praying for the both of you 🙏

  • @ahnamohr5966
    @ahnamohr5966 Рік тому +63

    A lot of us have been in your shoes, you’ll get thru this ❤ Be strong!

  • @MoniqueTchimanga
    @MoniqueTchimanga Рік тому +45

    This is truly sad, 👑Dela. There is no need to feel embarrassed. I love your honesty in dealing with your audience. Thank you for sharing your story with us. A separation is painful and can happen to the best of us. You are a strong woman who has inspired and is inspiring many. Many of us are really wishing you well, that’s why you will make it through. My prayers are with you and your beautiful family. May the Most High God guide your path, give you more strength and inner peace. 🤍

  • @irenedenchi7564
    @irenedenchi7564 Рік тому +22

    I've been there and it is difficult at first but as you stated, people DO change! I've witnessed it first-hand and was in disbelief for the longest time that the person I thought I knew would treat me this way. (I'm not making an assumption about your situation here. I'm just telling my story). However, once the shock gradually wore off, the most important lesson I learned was realizing that I had to continue putting one foot in front of the other and keep it moving because the world was not going to stop turning while I licked my proverbial wounds; it certainly would not wait until I caught up. No! Time is the most expensive and irreplaceable commodity we have and can never be recouped once it's spent. I never anticipated becoming a single parent but stuff happens and I know everything happens for a reason and I'm all the better for it. Twenty-six years later, I'm still standing and my son has grown into a fine young man! If you're a praying girl like myself, I'd suggest reaching out to Our Heavenly Father. He will never leave you nor forsake you and He'll climb this mountain WITH you. I wish you all the best. This too shall pass.🙏💌

    • @moretodela
      @moretodela  Рік тому +2

      Amen

    • @shani4470
      @shani4470 Рік тому +2

      Needed this comment! Amen.
      So sorry to hear about the loss of the marriage NGG but put God and yourself first.

  • @awuah
    @awuah Рік тому +61

    wow! I would never have guessed that in a million years. You guys had so much chemistry

    • @edmcgeman5084
      @edmcgeman5084 Рік тому +4

      Same exact sentiment. Lost faith in humanity

    • @kofig5519
      @kofig5519 Рік тому +1

      Yeah.
      My cynical self would really want to doubt this.

  • @kwadwoefah2014
    @kwadwoefah2014 Рік тому +10

    If there is no 3rd person involved, NEVER SAY NEVER....allow the storm to settle down and let's see what the future holds. I pray love wins.

  • @AfroMillennialMomma
    @AfroMillennialMomma Рік тому +18

    I noticed the change in the videos but I would've never guessed. Sorry for the loss of you guys marriage and I pray that the entire family is able to adjust. Give your self time to mourn. You are still a family unit, just redefined. Try not to feel guilty about your new life path. I'm praying for God's best for you both and the kids. ❤️

  • @user-vg5rw8jq8t
    @user-vg5rw8jq8t Рік тому +41

    Praying for you both and the children🙏🏻

  • @AyiviTV
    @AyiviTV Рік тому +28

    Hi Dela, excellent delivery...a class act under difficult circumstances. I respect your decisions. Thanks for sharing and abundant blessings to you all🙏🏾

    • @delia8892
      @delia8892 Місяць тому

      Well said and Amen!

  • @rui37CdjOe
    @rui37CdjOe Рік тому

    All the best! Hang in there. Sending blessings upon blessings to you!

  • @ladyghana5603
    @ladyghana5603 Рік тому +1

    Well Blessings to you and your family! and stay strong 💪🏾 life will work out things in due time

  • @christalborn77
    @christalborn77 Рік тому +1

    So sorry to hear that💙 we all got stuff no need to be embarrassed. Much love

  • @suitelife1781
    @suitelife1781 Рік тому +1

    You’re absolutely right, Life be lifing. So happy you’re doing what’s best for you and your children. I’ll be praying for you and your family. With love from Atlanta, GA. Valerie

  • @MsEast8
    @MsEast8 Рік тому +24

    You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about. It takes such strength to leave a relationship, when you believe it's not working for you. You have to do the right and best thing for YOU. You've got this, you will thrive. Sending you a huge hug.

  • @blessedbarsoap8935
    @blessedbarsoap8935 Рік тому +1

    So sorry to hear that. Praying for the family. Hang in there sis. God is your strength

  • @tlm9836
    @tlm9836 Рік тому

    So sorry for this. Keep your chin up - you are doing great!

  • @naomiecavitt
    @naomiecavitt Рік тому +8

    Love you 😘😘,cheers to new beginnings.

  • @lanaosei9181
    @lanaosei9181 Рік тому +45

    This is so sad . Feel like crying. You two were just adorable together. Hope love will find a way to bring you two together 💖💖

    • @MrLionLC
      @MrLionLC Рік тому +1

      love???? more like common sense, and duty to family, n raising the children to give them the best chance to succeed at life

  • @tantiouskitchen582
    @tantiouskitchen582 Рік тому +2

    Wow what a shock!! Praying for both and the children...Hugs ❤️❤️💕💕

  • @SB-gw2fr
    @SB-gw2fr Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing...continue to keep the Alight y in your midst. Sometimes in life, we continue with situations because of family, pride, public perception and stigma...this is the time to be you and the healing with follow - much love to you and the family.

  • @ajomomandela9845
    @ajomomandela9845 Рік тому +1

    Peace and love to you my sister. Best wishes going forward for everyone concerned.

  • @denisediallo9735
    @denisediallo9735 Рік тому +5

    So sorry to hear that. Keep your head up. Sending good thoughts.

  • @kwabenaglizzy3993
    @kwabenaglizzy3993 Рік тому +3

    Wow, didn’t expect this video but sending my prayers and love to the both of you and the kids

  • @sandiin6885
    @sandiin6885 Рік тому

    Sending you hugs and love from Philly. The challenge of each day will make you stronger and ready for restoration. Keep your eyes on the Lord and He will order your steps.

  • @lyslr5401
    @lyslr5401 Рік тому +33

    Your transparency and vulnerability is truly inspiring as well as your strength. I have no doubt that from here on out the rest of your life’s journey will be amazing for both you and your kids. Things happen the way they do for a reason. Sending you hugs and well wishes.

  • @completewoman7844
    @completewoman7844 Рік тому +14

    Sending strength and love sis.

  • @amorkor4
    @amorkor4 Рік тому +1

    Awwww all we ask you to do is stay strong. As you say, life happens. Hope all works out for you. We love you and are here for you. ❤️

  • @Annani22
    @Annani22 Рік тому

    Sending love and strength your way! Onwards and upwards!

  • @ritasackeykaydea1736
    @ritasackeykaydea1736 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing hun. I know it not easy but you’ll get through this. You are strong and just surround yourself with those who care and can fill in gaps. God bless xx

  • @Ind2nd
    @Ind2nd Рік тому +1

    So sorry to hear about this situation!! Stand Tall!! 🙏🏾💪🏾❤️

  • @walterhunter3353
    @walterhunter3353 Рік тому

    We will keep you lifted up in prayer. Good morning from Dallas Texas

  • @MandaK4111
    @MandaK4111 Рік тому

    Sorry to hear this Dela. Thank you for sharing. wishing you all the best with this next chapter, can’t wait to see where life takes you 🤎

  • @daisylanham2353
    @daisylanham2353 Рік тому +7

    Keep looking up, getting up and going up.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @insidehildaslife6329
    @insidehildaslife6329 Рік тому +3

    So sorry to hear that! It’s not easy, but we pray for the best. God’s plan is the best.

  • @mootsooblankson9294
    @mootsooblankson9294 Рік тому

    Sending you lots of positive energy and love. Stay strong and know there’s a lot of bright light at the end of the tunnel.

  • @bernardm470
    @bernardm470 Рік тому +8

    All I can say is wow! Praying for you all. Be strong!

  • @aadwoaaa
    @aadwoaaa Рік тому +21

    I’m sorry to hear about that.
    Sending you much love.
    Stay strong ❤

  • @maxwellyao7696
    @maxwellyao7696 Рік тому +18

    Stay strong Dela!!! I pray for strength and God willing, you will find your feet in whatever you do! Blessings 😊

  • @Thekwane12
    @Thekwane12 Рік тому +3

    BIG hug! That’s all - be kind to yourself in this difficult time.

  • @Luv2TravelWithWave
    @Luv2TravelWithWave Рік тому +4

    You are such a strong woman. Life happens and we heal. And move forward. Sending my love.

  • @84tahlia
    @84tahlia Рік тому +1

    You are strong, you’ll get through this. Sending prayers for the WHOLE family. ❤

  • @Jennifer_Appiah
    @Jennifer_Appiah Рік тому +14

    Many blessings to you beautiful! Sending you so much love! A wonderful new chapter awaits you. Sometimes good things fall apart so that better things can fall together. ❤🙏🏾

  • @msmercy5280
    @msmercy5280 Рік тому +2

    Sorry to hear that . Wishing you the best of luck in raising the kids . May the good lord protect your family in this difficult times 🙏

  • @ededdie2741
    @ededdie2741 Рік тому

    Good luck with your channel. The video quality is EXCELLENT : brilliant pictures, beautiful background, editing on point, you are
    eloquent, etc.

  • @dotty65
    @dotty65 Рік тому +21

    Sorry to hear this Dela. Ive been through this and know how hard it is. Be strong, big hugs to you ❤

  • @l.e.sparklesfkaelliesparkl5875
    @l.e.sparklesfkaelliesparkl5875 Рік тому +19

    😩Praying for the best outcome for the entire family- esp the Kiddos🙏

  • @AkuaOkodie
    @AkuaOkodie Рік тому +5

    More strength to you queen, so long as there is life there is hope. This is an event not the end of your life. Focus on your healing and creating a beautiful life for you and your children.❣❣❣

  • @adomaadjei584
    @adomaadjei584 Рік тому +11

    Thank you for sharing your truth, Dela. Stay strong my friend. Best of luck to both of you!!!

  • @ladyf5217
    @ladyf5217 Рік тому +11

    Sorry for this. I hope you continue to grow and be great ❤

  • @lolaojomo7805
    @lolaojomo7805 Рік тому +6

    Loved you both - sending hugs and kisses to you both. You are so beautiful! You'll both be fine xxx

  • @pramaccra3106
    @pramaccra3106 Рік тому

    Peace Dela. It is very brave of you to share this information with us. I wish you well. Yes life happens and life goes on. Forward we go.

  • @theonly6359
    @theonly6359 Рік тому +5

    Ohh 😢noo! Sorry to hear that. Keep strong sis

  • @chantellea9938
    @chantellea9938 Рік тому +3

    I haven't watched whole video, but I'm so sorry for your split. Due to the move and having and the arrival a little one I thought everything was fine. Stay strong sis! Praying for you 🙏🏾

  • @akedareyes5014
    @akedareyes5014 Рік тому +6

    A Warm Hug For You And The Children!
    You And Kwame individually have our Love, Respect and Support.

  • @mercyquartey5492
    @mercyquartey5492 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing Sis 💕. Praying for you and your family as you navigate through this difficult time. God’s got you and He is always faithful 🙏🏾💕💕💕

  • @anitaasare5166
    @anitaasare5166 Рік тому +1

    Life must go on sis. I know you made the best decision for you and the kids.

  • @lorettadavis6944
    @lorettadavis6944 Рік тому +5

    Life happens, just know we are here for you. Stay strong for your kids.

  • @josephbrown1573
    @josephbrown1573 Рік тому +1

    Wow Dela I am really shocked, I really didn't see this coming . You know what's best for you and your kids .Stay strong, and all the best to you in your future endeavors.

  • @abitofsparkle1dee616
    @abitofsparkle1dee616 Рік тому

    I’m so sorry to hear this news , may your new journey lead you to peace & happiness x

  • @jamesnyaho1282
    @jamesnyaho1282 Рік тому +5

    Say strong, Dela. God will see you through.

  • @jaycassa
    @jaycassa Рік тому +14

    Our prayers are with you both 🙏🏾

  • @Vimac08
    @Vimac08 Рік тому +10

    Wow so sorry Dela. Wishing you all the best 🙏🏾

  • @ArabaWaters
    @ArabaWaters Рік тому +9

    Wow this is so hard. Especially sharing with the whole world. Brighter days are ahead sis 🎉

  • @BeautifulTree
    @BeautifulTree Рік тому +28

    Praying for you both during this difficult time 🙏🏾

  • @joyceduckett7308
    @joyceduckett7308 Рік тому

    Sorry to hear your news but am wishing you the best!

  • @FunkyBazaare
    @FunkyBazaare Рік тому +2

    Wow! I was not expecting that. Stay strong Dela ❤

  • @JMBM8822
    @JMBM8822 Рік тому +1

    Nothing to be embarrased about. Life happens. It will get easy with time dear. Hang in there. Hugs♡

  • @Winis_World
    @Winis_World Рік тому +1

    My gorgeous Loc'd Ghanaian sister! Bless you for sharing such a sensitive topic with us. Sending you a lot of love. All will be well ❤

  • @JC-ty3zq
    @JC-ty3zq Рік тому +4

    Sorry to hear this,but I guessed it.WISHING you the BEST in your LIFE

  • @jackiebritton7871
    @jackiebritton7871 Рік тому +41

    I don't know you personally, but I love you, my sister. Kwame and the children are also in my prayers. Love you, Dela!

  • @gavinjohnson3065
    @gavinjohnson3065 Рік тому +2

    Sorry for the split and i wish you well go forward.

  • @TheClickClick
    @TheClickClick Рік тому

    May God continue to Bless and keep you safe and best for the future. Love you and what you do. Thank you for all the content. Thank you for sharing with us.

  • @oforil39
    @oforil39 Рік тому +5

    I pray for your strength. I too had same situation, two children, I tried but for the better of good I had parted ways. So difficult. All will be well Dela, with time gets better, you'll be fine. Understand what your going through. It's been many years now for me both my children have grown into wonderful men. God bless x

  • @Mrsmcovington007
    @Mrsmcovington007 Рік тому +16

    I'm so sorry for you and your family. Don't be embarrassed. Everything is working out for your good.

  • @MarfGL
    @MarfGL Рік тому +2

    Keep your head up and stay strong Queen 🙏🏾

  • @appias95
    @appias95 Рік тому +1

    I’m so sorry to hear your news. You seem to have fought hard. I can only imagine what you have had to endure till this time. Be encouraged that many people have gone through this before. Others were able to build a better life than before. Others were broken and never picked up again. You have the power and the choice and God’s help to set your direction. We are behind you and will always appreciate who you are and your great work here! Xxxxxx ❤

  • @Crob100
    @Crob100 Рік тому +9

    My Dear Dela,
    This is not embarrassing....it happens. Time heals all wounds. You will make it through.

  • @fos-b2537
    @fos-b2537 Рік тому

    Love you so much sis,may God see you through this difficult times.

  • @nanagyamfuah5055
    @nanagyamfuah5055 Рік тому +4

    Sorry to hear that, just be strong 💪 🙏 ❤️

  • @elizabethfrimpong5928
    @elizabethfrimpong5928 Рік тому +7

    Wow this is indeed a shock for myself and many others. Stay strong❤, sending peace to you and your family 🙏🏽

  • @nanaesiTV
    @nanaesiTV Рік тому +2

    Girl God’s got you ok
    Things happen just live your life 🥰

  • @nanaagyemang8189
    @nanaagyemang8189 Рік тому +7

    My prayers are with you both and the kids.

  • @mamsybaby7994
    @mamsybaby7994 Рік тому +6

    Awww so sorry 😢Your chemistry was amazing, be strong your beautiful ❤

  • @coffeewithcream523
    @coffeewithcream523 Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing. May God guide you forward!

  • @MaisonJiJi
    @MaisonJiJi Рік тому

    You are a beautiful person and all will iron itself out. Better to have a "friend " and peace. Thank you for sharing

  • @benoniavah4811
    @benoniavah4811 Рік тому

    sorry to hear that Dela. I pray for strength for you in these times. stay strong. much love ❤️. thanks.

  • @NanaAshanti
    @NanaAshanti Рік тому +6

    You are super classy. You are going to do great all by yourself, sis. You got this!

  • @MiscellaneousMeMe
    @MiscellaneousMeMe Рік тому +1

    Oh Dela my love….I hope you, Kwame and the children are all coping well with this transition. Life happens….and like you said people grow apart. I hope your whole family thrive in this new chapter. Thank you for sharing love ❤

  • @sugarstone7972
    @sugarstone7972 Рік тому

    Sad but well spoken!!! All i can say is warm hugs and be good. ❤️🍀

  • @ZAFLOVE
    @ZAFLOVE Рік тому +7

    This hit me really hard wattttt. Praying for ya all.

  • @nekalynch8101
    @nekalynch8101 Рік тому +6

    You all have our support. I am praying for the family. 💗

  • @philipquashie6615
    @philipquashie6615 Рік тому

    You will be fine my dear. Just stay strong for your kids. Such is life, we move. Lot of love.

  • @charlesgeorge1808
    @charlesgeorge1808 Рік тому +4

    Oh my goodness. This is really a sad news. I still can't believe it. I wish both of you and the children all the best.

  • @theunwrappedfamily295
    @theunwrappedfamily295 Рік тому

    Well done Dela on speaking to your truth.
    Not only brave but graceful.

  • @RepentandBeSaved
    @RepentandBeSaved Рік тому +2

    Sorry to hear that it will be hard especially on your children but you'll pull through with time 🙏

  • @tinaconway3723
    @tinaconway3723 Рік тому +1

    Sorry to hear sis but do not let anyone make you feel guilty or ashamed. Keep your head high and stay strong for yourself and the kids. God bless.

  • @evedel1291
    @evedel1291 Рік тому +1

    Wishing you all the best Dela. Sending you lots of love and hugs. It is not easy but you are strong and you will be fine. God got you!

  • @ebenezeragyebiah7744
    @ebenezeragyebiah7744 Рік тому +3

    Finally Dela, God will help you and Kwame to overcome every challenge and settle differences for the betterment of the entire family. IJN AMEN

  • @belindapohl2483
    @belindapohl2483 Рік тому +2

    O my God...This hit me like a huricane...i just love the both of you together...i hope you both make the best decisions concerning the children, house and every thing you had together....I respect your decision...but truely pray there would be a possibility of working it out...God bless you.