I actually lived VERY similar to this growing up in rural Arkansas! We didn't have warm water either. We had lots of land and lived in a house that my grandparents built. Watching the tour reminded me so much of that house. All the rooms and the kitchen bring back very fond memories. I could definitely live here and be happy.
Very sweet comment. Even though I never lived like that because my parents were troopers the video reminds me places of close relatives I used to visit and stay over for weeks when I was a child. I totally miss staying at those places. I was the happiest.
Having lived in the campo south of Nagua back in 2013, very refreshing to see other Americans doing the same. 10 years and counting. Last 6 here in Santiago. Viva La Republica Dominicana!
I was born in New york city from Dominican parents I traveled all my life to Dominican Republic and being American I can tell alot of people that write negative messages, you all would wish to live like this instead of having all that silver and gold because the peace and slow paced life you have in the DR is worth more than anything
@@Jimenezgyna Well, as for the material stuff, if you still owe thousands of dollars on your house, your car, and the credit cards you used to furnish your home, how much material wealth do you actually have? As humble as the material things in this video may appear, I suspect that most of it is paid off. Not to mention they don’t have to pay taxes in perpetuity on that property; its actually theirs. The US has a great illusion of wealth. But it’s mostly all borrowed wealth that has to be repaid with interest. And I think that’s the main reason people put up with being treated like crap at their jobs there. I don’t miss living in the matrix. Just my two pesos. I’d rather living humbly and actually own the little I have.
This is exactly what they do in the Philippines. They call the little bucket scoop a tabo. I have been waiting for the Philippines to reopen since March 2020 and watching your videos makes me realize that I might be just as happy in the DR. Thanks so much for all your videos.
Im from the DR and although is one of the fastest growing economies, not to mention one of best social and political stability compared to how messy and unstable the rest of Latin America sits right now. The DR is for the most part peaceful. The DR is still a poor country with a very promising future. The lifestyle in this video constitute the majority, then there's a better lower middle class that I think it jumps to upper middle then upper class. She seems happy that's all it matters.
Guaymate!!! Somos vecinos, I was born and raised in El Seibo 😉. Thank you Emma and Alberto for sharing with us. Brings back memories. Nice yipeta, too.
Hi'. Emma.'' As a Dominican I would like to tell you that this is a rural living style.'' Not all people around the country are living on this conditions. Also Most of the dominican areas has garbages collector services., its not the best service , but we have it.'. I would like to thank you for being so humble and show to the people that you care what really matter.'' Being happy with the men you love despite the difficulties.
This is where my husband grew up and he said he lived in a house similar to the wooden house. I was able to visit but not see inside a house because his family does not live there anymore, so I loved seeing this video. I’m wondering how Emma was able to adapt so well, what has been the most difficult but what she loves the most about her life in Guaymate!
That is so cool that your husband grew up here! ❤️ I think I was able to adapt so well because of his family. From the very first time I visited them here they always made sure I was comfortable no matter what it took. They always put the fan on me because they could see I was sweating and not used to the heat, they always cooked for me and his mom even washed my clothes for me!😩❤️ I also knew what type of house they lived in before I came here through videos and facetime so I knew what to expect coming here for my visits. I love my fiancé and his family and they have lived like this forever so if they can do it, I thought “why can’t i?” The hardest part for me was probably just the lack of privacy at first- i’ve never lived with so many people at the same time and such a small space🤣 I got used to it very quickly and it felt like my home by my second trip here.❤️ I truly believe it’s not what we have but who we are with that matters the most!
@@emmas4524 Most people I have met in DR are nice to you just because. The people who treat you kindly because they want something from you are a small minority; especially in towns like where you live. You’ll notice that if you haven’t already. They’re just good people.
@@edwinlucianofrias1643 absolutely! & the people that just want something from me stick out like a sore thumb😅 I have good radar for that, thankfully & I don’t blame them for trying🤪
Great video. More authentic/typical conditions. I wonder where homegirl (who commented on my video about doors and stuff) is. She would probably have a heart attack watching this.
Thanks for sharing I love these videos. I want to move to DR is my home country I’m just concern about work . What does Emma do? maybe she can share her experience when she moved !
Hey Mills! I guess the garbage situation varies by where you live. My grandparents live in Santiago and there’s a garbage truck that goes around every Saturday and picks up the garbage. I don’t know what they do next with it, but they do have a garbage service offered by the city.
One big advise, Mills. Sorry for my humbke opinion, but becareful with the baby and that TV. Baby can pull the cable or put the cable in the mouth while its connected. Sorry, just carering for our little ones.
I heard her say in the video she's pregnant is there a hospital near by? does she have to go into a bigger city for her prenatal appointments ? you should interview her I think it would be interesting to hear her story moving there :)
@@emmas4524 I feel the same way. I just didn’t know living here was an option. Nothing was stopping me except me. But I’m here now and I have never regretted it. I’m glad you saw what I saw in this place and that it makes you happy (I hope.) Bless you guys and the coming baby.
@@edwinlucianofrias1643 Absolutely!! This is the happiest I have ever been🥰 I love it here and am so grateful to be able to call this place my home. I’m so happy to hear that you love it here too & see the beauty of it all😊🙏🏽 & Thank you so so much for all of your kind words❤️
Find a way to stop those leaks. Everyone complains about their standards of living no matter what. I see a happy home and would be honered to live there.
I don’t want to get heavy with you but I feel feisty this morning, (I love your videos) but why is a Dominican living in the u.s.a. called an immigrant but an American living in the d.r. called an ‘’expat’’ lol
i want to make an entire video about this!!!! i hate it and agree with you. i only do it because that’s the standard for searching, but when i bring it up most people will say it’s because expat isn’t permanent? which doesn’t make sense
WOW.....!!!!! I am a bit speechless, don't want to be judgmental, but experience has given me a lot of insight. I picked up on too many warning signs for this young couple. First, and among other things, who is paying or covering the costs for the house and car? Finances are one of the main pillars of keeping a relationship standing and going strong. Secondly, I am very familiar with Salem, MA. It is your typical, quiet suburban New England area with its tree line streets, canopy covered sidewalks and plenty of nice and safe neighborhoods. I grew up in nearby Boston, and went to visit friends in Salem all the time. I'm trying to figure out if trading Salem for Guaymate and living nearby Haitian Batey was a wise choice. Hopefully for her sake and soon to be born child, she made the right move and will live happily ever after. All I can say is I hope she never wakes up and wish her the best.
I do appreciate your concern, as a lot of people unfortunately feel the same way when any American is in a relationship with a Dominican. I can assure you that I am wide awake and completely aware of everything I am doing😊 My fiancé works and him and his family have helped with the costs of the car and the house. The house was completely paid for before I even moved here. You may be familiar with the tourist part of Salem but I lived nowhere near canopy covered streets. I feel very safe where I live and living close to the Haitian Batey has nothing to do with my safety as the people who live there are very lovely people. I’ve actually been robbed a few times in Salem and Boston and did not feel safe where I lived in Massachusetts. I do feel like every decision that I’ve made to live here has been the best decision that I have ever made and would never bring a baby into the world if I didn’t feel safe where I lived or who I was surrounded by. I know other people may also feel the same as you but I chose to live this way and have no complaints or worries. I know myself and my family have a beautiful future together without any doubts💙 There’s only so much that you can tell by an 11 minute video😉
@@emmas4524 -Good comeback, excellent response, perhaps I jumped the gun a bit too quick. Although not too convince, if true I'm glad to hear your partner and his family are making a solid financial contribution to your future. Nevertheless, if true I wish you both the best and many years of happiness together in the DR. May all your dreams come true, and please excuse my reaction, I really meant no harm or intended to be offensive. Its just that over the years I have heard one too many horror stories. In this case and for your sake you guys will be the exception.
Hello guillermone1, I picked up on a lot of red flags myself. I am experienced as well, and it seems like a long way from Salem, MA to this house in Guaymate, DR. It's not about being judgmental; it is about knowing a thing or two about life. I wish this family the best of everything. I hope she never wakes up as well.
@@wbuffett1 Well, it is obvious Alfredo is dirt poor. He and his daughter were living in a room without proper walls and a leaking roof before Emma came on the scene. I strongly suspect that Emma is bankrolling all of this: new car, new house, etc. My advice to women is to spend their hard earned money on themselves. It never pays to provide for a man the way Emma is providing for Alfredo and his family. I know I will take incoming fire for my point of view, but I speak from experience.
@@wbuffett1 What do you mean by that, "loca"? Listening to Emma speak makes me believe she is a very confused woman. She first says that she loved living in the old house with the leaky roof and that it didn't feel uncomfortable at all but felt like home. Then she says that she and Alfredo need to build a house for his parents because it is hard living like that. She doesn't want Alfredo and her to be the only ones living comfortably. From where is Alfredo suddenly getting all this money to build two houses? I think I know...
No authentic! Country, farm house because of the land on the back and built close to the street! Now days, and even before farmers do not build close to the street unless it is on a faraway country town. Grandparents with a lot of children were on large property of land, nowadays their grandchildren are building their own houses on the land, as they did. The country is very sunny and hot people do not use to have hot water services that’s the reason hot water is individual services; you have to buy your own heater. The way to have hot water was heating water and mixing with cold to take a bath. New houses are build far from the street because of the noise on the street.
Mill this is not normal , there's something wrong with this lady . The average Dominican would not even come close to her husband or be around him. Most Dominican or your husband family lives like this.
how could someone blame the DR? i don’t get that. people make their own choices. chris did grow up more privileged but i have friends who have homes like this too.
@pixelgamer: I understand what you mean....but the heart wants what it wants. Which is the biggest takeaway feom all this..... That's the only way to process the fact that a (I'm assuming) white woman from a (suburban?) New England town would give up all the luxuries and "comforts" of that life, to come to a CAMPO way at the end of the island and wash her ass with a bucket and a gallon container cut in half....and to have to dump a bucket of water into the toilet to make it flush.... It's called LOVE for a reason.... She could very well have arrived at that little wooden shack and immediately turned back home.....but she was open to the experience....and that makes her very courageous. I commend her..... Plus, her man aint bad to look at 😘😘😘😘
thanks for watching! please be respectful in the comments, if you have any questions leave a comment!🥰
I actually lived VERY similar to this growing up in rural Arkansas! We didn't have warm water either. We had lots of land and lived in a house that my grandparents built. Watching the tour reminded me so much of that house. All the rooms and the kitchen bring back very fond memories. I could definitely live here and be happy.
This comment is so sweet❤️ It definitely takes some special people to live like this and just live & be grateful for everything that we have❤️
love this perspective, thank you Kammi!! it’s the people that make a home not modern day conveniences
Very sweet comment. Even though I never lived like that because my parents were troopers the video reminds me places of close relatives I used to visit and stay over for weeks when I was a child. I totally miss staying at those places. I was the happiest.
I surprise that there are similar places in ne USA.
What I find amazing is how happy they are. It’s crazy how some need so much to be happy. Thanks for the vid Mills stay blessed ☮️💖✨
Having lived in the campo south of Nagua back in 2013, very refreshing to see other Americans doing the same. 10 years and counting. Last 6 here in Santiago. Viva La Republica Dominicana!
wow that’s amazing!!!🙌🏼
I was born in New york city from Dominican parents I traveled all my life to Dominican Republic and being American I can tell alot of people that write negative messages, you all would wish to live like this instead of having all that silver and gold because the peace and slow paced life you have in the DR is worth more than anything
I was also born in the US of Dominican parents and I didn’t run into a lot of people with silver and gold in the US: more like bills and debt.
@@edwinlucianofrias1643 referring to people that have more materials and are judging the way these people live.
@@Jimenezgyna Well, as for the material stuff, if you still owe thousands of dollars on your house, your car, and the credit cards you used to furnish your home, how much material wealth do you actually have?
As humble as the material things in this video may appear, I suspect that most of it is paid off. Not to mention they don’t have to pay taxes in perpetuity on that property; its actually theirs.
The US has a great illusion of wealth. But it’s mostly all borrowed wealth that has to be repaid with interest. And I think that’s the main reason people put up with being treated like crap at their jobs there.
I don’t miss living in the matrix. Just my two pesos. I’d rather living humbly and actually own the little I have.
Thank you for these videos. It’s very rare that a UA-cam channel REALLY share the entire experience. Please thank the family.
thank you so much🥰
Thank you for sharing this!!❤️ Loved being able to share a glimpse of our life here!😊🇩🇴
THANK YOU!!! can’t wait to show your house too!
@@MillsRepDom Yes!! I’m so excited!🎉
Hey Emma. I actually grew up in Boston. I live in Santiago....
If y'all ever wanna come visit the area let me know...
Such a cool reminder that there are so many ways to live!
This is exactly what they do in the Philippines. They call the little bucket scoop a tabo. I have been waiting for the Philippines to reopen since March 2020 and watching your videos makes me realize that I might be just as happy in the DR. Thanks so much for all your videos.
i would love to visit the philippines, it looks so beautiful! no problem, i’m glad you enjoyed it!🙏🏼
Im from the DR and although is one of the fastest growing economies, not to mention one of best social and political stability compared to how messy and unstable the rest of Latin America sits right now. The DR is for the most part peaceful. The DR is still a poor country with a very promising future. The lifestyle in this video constitute the majority, then there's a better lower middle class that I think it jumps to upper middle then upper class. She seems happy that's all it matters.
100% agree with you!!! thanks for your comment!
Guaymate!!! Somos vecinos, I was born and raised in El Seibo 😉. Thank you Emma and Alberto for sharing with us. Brings back memories. Nice yipeta, too.
Hi'. Emma.'' As a Dominican I would like to tell you that this is a rural living style.'' Not all people around the country are living on this conditions. Also Most of the dominican areas has garbages collector services., its not the best service , but we have it.'.
I would like to thank you for being so humble and show to the people that you care what really matter.'' Being happy with the men you love despite the difficulties.
I was thinking the samething this can't be
What a cute couple! That house was uber cute great job.
This is where my husband grew up and he said he lived in a house similar to the wooden house. I was able to visit but not see inside a house because his family does not live there anymore, so I loved seeing this video. I’m wondering how Emma was able to adapt so well, what has been the most difficult but what she loves the most about her life in Guaymate!
That is so cool that your husband grew up here! ❤️ I think I was able to adapt so well because of his family. From the very first time I visited them here they always made sure I was comfortable no matter what it took. They always put the fan on me because they could see I was sweating and not used to the heat, they always cooked for me and his mom even washed my clothes for me!😩❤️ I also knew what type of house they lived in before I came here through videos and facetime so I knew what to expect coming here for my visits. I love my fiancé and his family and they have lived like this forever so if they can do it, I thought “why can’t i?” The hardest part for me was probably just the lack of privacy at first- i’ve never lived with so many people at the same time and such a small space🤣 I got used to it very quickly and it felt like my home by my second trip here.❤️ I truly believe it’s not what we have but who we are with that matters the most!
@@emmas4524 i love this response ♥️
@@emmas4524 Most people I have met in DR are nice to you just because. The people who treat you kindly because they want something from you are a small minority; especially in towns like where you live. You’ll notice that if you haven’t already. They’re just good people.
@@edwinlucianofrias1643 absolutely! & the people that just want something from me stick out like a sore thumb😅 I have good radar for that, thankfully & I don’t blame them for trying🤪
Thank you for sharing your home, y’all are lovely.
Great video. More authentic/typical conditions.
I wonder where homegirl (who commented on my video about doors and stuff) is.
She would probably have a heart attack watching this.
lmao literallyyyyy
@@MillsRepDom
You know I ain't shitt
ugh i miss dr so bad i miss everything about it
Thanks for sharing I love these videos. I want to move to DR is my home country I’m just concern about work . What does Emma do? maybe she can share her experience when she moved !
thanks! i’ll see if she can talk about it in another video! ive made some on remote work options too😊
I work from my computer! Mills has some great videos on finding remote work!! ❤️
Great look at authentic lifestyle, thank you Emma and Alfredo... #Hotep
loved this video can't wait to see part two
Hey Mills! I guess the garbage situation varies by where you live. My grandparents live in Santiago and there’s a garbage truck that goes around every Saturday and picks up the garbage. I don’t know what they do next with it, but they do have a garbage service offered by the city.
yes same for us in santiago! she lives in a more rural town though so not everywhere has garbage services sadly
I miss my country so much😢😢😢
Aww, Mateo didn't want you filming. Lol! Great video!
he was so mad lol 😂
One big advise, Mills. Sorry for my humbke opinion, but becareful with the baby and that TV. Baby can pull the cable or put the cable in the mouth while its connected. Sorry, just carering for our little ones.
I would like to see the house that they are building. Nice thanks.
Love this!!
thank you!!!
Awesome video!
I heard her say in the video she's pregnant is there a hospital near by? does she have to go into a bigger city for her prenatal appointments ? you should interview her I think it would be interesting to hear her story moving there :)
There is a free hospital in our town, but I do have a doctor in Punta Cana that I go to for all of my prenatal appointments❤️
great question!!❤️
You must be the first American youtuber who uploaded a video about Guaymate. There's almost nothing to do in Guaymate.
lol yeah i haven’t seen any! super interesting to see.
@@MillsRepDom You won't see anything interesting, don't be excited for the second part.
Awww lovebirds! ❤
Hi Great Video I too want to build in the DR , how much did it cost you to build the House
we did a follow up video all about the pricing!
thanks for the video
thanks for watching!
I grew up like that in San Juan de la Maguana, at 53yo wouldn't be able too.
aw that makes sense!! my friends husband is from there too!
Don’t know about average, but there are some people living like that especially in rural areas.
veryyyy many! but yeah i guess there is no average
Interesting video 👏.
thanks!
i love it 😍😍😍
cool
And they live happier than people do in the states
I was honestly miserable living in the US. Whenever I came here I felt at peace! I have never been happier in my entire life!😊🙏🏽
@@emmas4524 I feel the same way. I just didn’t know living here was an option. Nothing was stopping me except me. But I’m here now and I have never regretted it. I’m glad you saw what I saw in this place and that it makes you happy (I hope.)
Bless you guys and the coming baby.
@@edwinlucianofrias1643 Absolutely!! This is the happiest I have ever been🥰 I love it here and am so grateful to be able to call this place my home. I’m so happy to hear that you love it here too & see the beauty of it all😊🙏🏽 & Thank you so so much for all of your kind words❤️
a gue ciudad pertenece ese pueblo
WOW !
How much it cost to build a house there?
Find a way to stop those leaks. Everyone complains about their standards of living no matter what. I see a happy home and would be honered to live there.
I don’t want to get heavy with you but I feel feisty this morning, (I love your videos) but why is a Dominican living in the u.s.a. called an immigrant but an American living in the d.r. called an ‘’expat’’ lol
i want to make an entire video about this!!!! i hate it and agree with you. i only do it because that’s the standard for searching, but when i bring it up most people will say it’s because expat isn’t permanent? which doesn’t make sense
@@MillsRepDom immigrants move because they need $ and expats because they have $ ? 🤷🏽
Cuanto cuesta un solar por ahi
Your baby is soooo good in these videos.
aww thank you! he’s honestly the best lol
WOW.....!!!!!
I am a bit speechless, don't want to be judgmental, but experience has given me a lot of insight. I picked up on too many warning signs for this young couple. First, and among other things, who is paying or covering the costs for the house and car? Finances are one of the main pillars of keeping a relationship standing and going strong.
Secondly, I am very familiar with Salem, MA. It is your typical, quiet suburban New England area with its tree line streets, canopy covered sidewalks and plenty of nice and safe neighborhoods. I grew up in nearby Boston, and went to visit friends in Salem all the time. I'm trying to figure out if trading Salem for Guaymate and living nearby Haitian Batey was a wise choice. Hopefully for her sake and soon to be born child, she made the right move and will live happily ever after. All I can say is I hope she never wakes up and wish her the best.
I do appreciate your concern, as a lot of people unfortunately feel the same way when any American is in a relationship with a Dominican. I can assure you that I am wide awake and completely aware of everything I am doing😊 My fiancé works and him and his family have helped with the costs of the car and the house. The house was completely paid for before I even moved here. You may be familiar with the tourist part of Salem but I lived nowhere near canopy covered streets. I feel very safe where I live and living close to the Haitian Batey has nothing to do with my safety as the people who live there are very lovely people. I’ve actually been robbed a few times in Salem and Boston and did not feel safe where I lived in Massachusetts. I do feel like every decision that I’ve made to live here has been the best decision that I have ever made and would never bring a baby into the world if I didn’t feel safe where I lived or who I was surrounded by. I know other people may also feel the same as you but I chose to live this way and have no complaints or worries. I know myself and my family have a beautiful future together without any doubts💙 There’s only so much that you can tell by an 11 minute video😉
@@emmas4524 -Good comeback, excellent response, perhaps I jumped the gun a bit too quick. Although not too convince, if true I'm glad to hear your partner and his family are making a solid financial contribution to your future. Nevertheless, if true I wish you both the best and many years of happiness together in the DR. May all your dreams come true, and please excuse my reaction, I really meant no harm or intended to be offensive. Its just that over the years I have heard one too many horror stories. In this case and for your sake you guys will be the exception.
Hello guillermone1, I picked up on a lot of red flags myself. I am experienced as well, and it seems like a long way from Salem, MA to this house in Guaymate, DR. It's not about being judgmental; it is about knowing a thing or two about life. I wish this family the best of everything. I hope she never wakes up as well.
Hi, kLk…✅
The car cost more than both houses combined, I get it humble people thank you so much but no thank you!
She looks likes she is being used but can't blame him life is hard there. 6 months.
It's a mind blowing situation. I hope she never wakes up.
@@joann6486 como?
@@wbuffett1 Well, it is obvious Alfredo is dirt poor. He and his daughter were living in a room without proper walls and a leaking roof before Emma came on the scene. I strongly suspect that Emma is bankrolling all of this: new car, new house, etc. My advice to women is to spend their hard earned money on themselves. It never pays to provide for a man the way Emma is providing for Alfredo and his family. I know I will take incoming fire for my point of view, but I speak from experience.
@@joann6486 loca
@@wbuffett1 What do you mean by that, "loca"? Listening to Emma speak makes me believe she is a very confused woman. She first says that she loved living in the old house with the leaky roof and that it didn't feel uncomfortable at all but felt like home. Then she says that she and Alfredo need to build a house for his parents because it is hard living like that. She doesn't want Alfredo and her to be the only ones living comfortably. From where is Alfredo suddenly getting all this money to build two houses? I think I know...
No authentic! Country, farm house because of the land on the back and built close to the street! Now days, and even before farmers do not build close to the street unless it is on a faraway country town. Grandparents with a lot of children were on large property of land, nowadays their grandchildren are building their own houses on the land, as they did.
The country is very sunny and hot people do not use to have hot water services that’s the reason hot water is individual services; you have to buy your own heater. The way to have hot water was heating water and mixing with cold to take a bath. New houses are build far from the street because of the noise on the street.
Do you want live that way?
Lady...you should be crazy..😳
Mill this is not normal , there's something wrong with this lady . The average Dominican would not even come close to her husband or be around him. Most Dominican or your husband family lives like this.
I meant to say your husband family don't live like this.
they just built a brand new house next door, so it’s not like this was going to be a permanent living situation for her.
I wish her the best , but I hope nobody is going blame the DR for people decision. You can delete my message if you want.
how could someone blame the DR? i don’t get that. people make their own choices. chris did grow up more privileged but i have friends who have homes like this too.
@pixelgamer:
I understand what you mean....but the heart wants what it wants. Which is the biggest takeaway feom all this.....
That's the only way to process the fact that a (I'm assuming) white woman from a (suburban?) New England town would give up all the luxuries and "comforts" of that life, to come to a CAMPO way at the end of the island and wash her ass with a bucket and a gallon container cut in half....and to have to dump a bucket of water into the toilet to make it flush....
It's called LOVE for a reason....
She could very well have arrived at that little wooden shack and immediately turned back home.....but she was open to the experience....and that makes her very courageous.
I commend her..... Plus, her man aint bad to look at 😘😘😘😘