Thank you for sharing. I feel as women, in today's world, we all suffer from so many ot these issues you talk about. It helps me so very much to know I'm not alone in these struggles! ❤
Bear with me, feelings are being dumped here. This video really got me, Rhonda. I struggle with literally all of this. I’m 20 minutes from Grand Rapids, Michigan. The weather is really rough on me. I owned a tanning bed for years. It helped me tons. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to keep it where I live now. I sold the darn thing and cried like a baby. I didn’t even know why I cried until this video lol. I’m also dealing with ‘almost’ pre-diabetic. Two yrs ago, I lost 45lbs, I was at 135/5’5”/56 yrs old and too, on a health journey (not weight loss) because of eating too much sugar. Over the last year I gained 50 lbs back! All the same struggles. Even hard as heck on myself to the point of another deep depression and giving up. I’m finally pulling out of it, hence looking for clothes and finding your channels. (God is working.) I never took supplements but I’m going to now. It makes perfect sense. I was married 20 years, loved my husband but he needed me to be super skinny. That still affects me to this day. So, since I’ve watched you, I don’t look at the number on the scale. These hauls forced me to do ‘measurements’ and now I’m feeling better. I saw your measurements in older videos (no one puts them up, but you did) and I’m like, she’s drop dead gorgeous in every way, inside and out, and I can do this too. You made me feel like I can wear things that I may not of worn, you made me not look at scale numbers, I look at measurements and for some reason that’s a TON easier on my mind. You make me believe I’m ok no matter what I weigh and wear. YOU helped me. And thank god for you and videos. I guess I want you to know, you 100% help people. Thank you for all your hard work bc I know UA-cam is a lot of work. Thank you for putting yourself out there. -Big hugs from Michigan always! Wendy ❤
I’m also going to add to that it is that aspect of being told I can’t do something I am a survivor of domestic abuse and for someone to tell me I can’t do something is a trigger for me and I go through exactly what you are going through and I am working on that. It is a work in progress. That is why I always get very lengthy in my discussions and my need to motivate and be very uplifting when I hear stories like yours, like mine I want to encourage women all the time to be kind to know that you are enough, and to know that no matter what we are the master of us no one else, except for God, but we are the master of our own bodies, our own mental health and what we do and that includes our happiness and girl you bring so much to so many of us you do not know what this video did for me today and I will just leave it at that on a very positive note, I will leave it at that. Love you girl you’re amazing. 😊
And also, if I may add, I thank God every day for someone like you, that brings to the forefront your story or your truth it shows that you are human just like me, and every other woman out there or man we all deal with things in our own way And you are never a disappointment to anyone you’re only a disappointment. If you are that to your self who cares what other people think but you were not made to be a mistake or anything other than what I say is a beautiful mess just like me and the next person, and I say that with the upmost respect, you know that, so what you feel matters what other people say or do about you does not, but it is so wonderful that we have a creator that comes on and shares the story that could help someone ago. I made this phrase myself and I say it to myself every day sometimes it’s the unspoken words that could’ve been spoken That could’ve made a difference and today girl you made a difference
Beautiful kitty and always know that you do help others. Just knowing that we are not alone in the craziness of life is a help. Women are supposed to be able to do and handle everything and that is not reality. So thank you for being open and honest. And reminding me to take my freaking supplements!
I relate to you so much. Thank you for sharing with us. Your positivity helps me get through my days some days. AND my baby kitties are my life. I love them. ❤
Hello and good morning from Texas. Thank you for thinking of other's as well as yourself, like many of the other ladies have said on here, it is nice to know that we aren't alone in the way we feel and think about ourselves. Sending a big warm hug to you and anyone that may need one. Love you.
Happy to meet Miss Kitty! She's absolutely some cute!! Isn't it funny - NOT funny - the way we can't give ourselves the love and compassion we so willingly extend to others. I'm 65 years old and have yet to figure out why that is. I'll see your kisses from Ky and raise you hugs from the SoCal desert!! 🤗❤️🌵❤️🤗 MK
I have to thank you for being so open and transparent because I also have dealt with an ED since I was a teenager but thankfully I been able to get help
I can 100% relate with you. I’ve restarted my health journey after having a hip replacement in Aug and the mental journey had been the hardest part. When it’s cold or cloudy and I can’t get outside to walk- man the loop it throws at me and just a sadness. I used to tan just for the feel good that it brought me and I’m looking at starting it again. I’m looking at joining a gym because working from home I’m realizing I need to get “out” when those crazy crappy days come. ❤. Also love sugar kitty 🐱 Thank you for sharing
I went on Keto and it helped me with inflammation etc. lost 70 pounds. Then I lost my daughter last July and giving myself grace is impossible. I think to myself, I’m gonna do this or that to feel better but, I struggle to actually do it. Watching your channels does give me great comfort! And your energy helps me on a tough day 💜
Hi I just wanted to say we all have one life to live so be happy I think your a nice person and I feel we all over think on food so just relax and enjoy.
Yes, thanks for sharing. I have been experiencing lower back problems. So now I'm taking some time off. My trip was canceled because of my lower back hard to walk. But ladies take care of yourself. My doctor stress the importance of making time to do better health wise
I know what you mean my weight goes up and down I have kept it down but 2020 came Covid job loss etc I did keep it down I did keep it down for 16 yrs before that the struggle is real. I do have ADHD and Anxiety and depression as well
You’re simply amazing Beautiful smart you got this girl, one day at a time words to live by giving a self grace absolutely💖 Do you have a link for the vitamins and supplements that you’re taking?
Always so interesting how much we have in common, wow. YOU'RE AWESOME GIRL ! YOU GOT THIS ❤ ...In reference to the Tanning , I've had the same results. In my 20s I was intrigued by how many senior citizens were going regularly too. Now, this is a bit controversial, but there's a lot of information out there that claims its for the Vitamin D ! Having Fibro I have a vitamin D deficiency & I personally feel a difference when I go Tanning! To each his own though 😊
Can I just say Rhonda it’s almost like you’re preaching to the choir and I struggled for years trying to figure out my trigger and what makes me do some of the binging or things like that that I would do you and I are both very much people pleasers and I used to be the type of person that I like to please people so much I still do that. What happens is if I got one wrong comment or one wrong thing said about me it was a trigger because I don’t ever wanna let anybody down. It’s something about letting people down that does that for me and in my mind I have to fix that but you know why I figured out we can’t please everyone we just need to please our self and know that we are so worthy of anything that we do we don’t have to make people, love us or care about us. They’re either going to love us or not and like I told you before about the fall leaves and fall you are that beautiful color that comes through to each and everyone of us and you bring that beauty to our world, because you are very honest and forthcoming about who you are, never ever forget that that you are to me not a hot mess. You’re a beautiful mess just like me I’ve excepted all of my beautiful different personality gifts that I call them and I’ve excepted them but I think you like myself we are such people pleasers and we have so much going on that we gotta give our self grace if we have that one day and something about for me being told that I can’t do something, makes me want to do even more please even more and when I’m not able to do that, then I have one of those days if that makes sense, so give yourself Grace because you deserve it and you are worthy of that and more
Thank you for sharing. I feel as women, in today's world, we all suffer from so many ot these issues you talk about. It helps me so very much to know I'm not alone in these struggles! ❤
You are definitely not alone xoxo
Hi Sweetie ❤❤❤ thank you for your message you are wonderful
Such a beautiful 😺 kitty ❤
Such a beautiful 😺 kitty ❤ Hubby and I have many kitties we have rescued or who have taken up in our yard and house. ❤
Bear with me, feelings are being dumped here. This video really got me, Rhonda. I struggle with literally all of this. I’m 20 minutes from Grand Rapids, Michigan. The weather is really rough on me. I owned a tanning bed for years. It helped me tons. Unfortunately, I wasn’t able to keep it where I live now. I sold the darn thing and cried like a baby. I didn’t even know why I cried until this video lol. I’m also dealing with ‘almost’ pre-diabetic. Two yrs ago, I lost 45lbs, I was at 135/5’5”/56 yrs old and too, on a health journey (not weight loss) because of eating too much sugar. Over the last year I gained 50 lbs back! All the same struggles. Even hard as heck on myself to the point of another deep depression and giving up. I’m finally pulling out of it, hence looking for clothes and finding your channels. (God is working.) I never took supplements but I’m going to now. It makes perfect sense. I was married 20 years, loved my husband but he needed me to be super skinny. That still affects me to this day. So, since I’ve watched you, I don’t look at the number on the scale. These hauls forced me to do ‘measurements’ and now I’m feeling better. I saw your measurements in older videos (no one puts them up, but you did) and I’m like, she’s drop dead gorgeous in every way, inside and out, and I can do this too. You made me feel like I can wear things that I may not of worn, you made me not look at scale numbers, I look at measurements and for some reason that’s a TON easier on my mind. You make me believe I’m ok no matter what I weigh and wear. YOU helped me. And thank god for you and videos. I guess I want you to know, you 100% help people. Thank you for all your hard work bc I know UA-cam is a lot of work. Thank you for putting yourself out there. -Big hugs from Michigan always! Wendy ❤
You are the best! You are so right when you said don’t beat yourself up! Start back tomorrow! One day at a time!❤
I’m also going to add to that it is that aspect of being told I can’t do something I am a survivor of domestic abuse and for someone to tell me I can’t do something is a trigger for me and I go through exactly what you are going through and I am working on that. It is a work in progress. That is why I always get very lengthy in my discussions and my need to motivate and be very uplifting when I hear stories like yours, like mine I want to encourage women all the time to be kind to know that you are enough, and to know that no matter what we are the master of us no one else, except for God, but we are the master of our own bodies, our own mental health and what we do and that includes our happiness and girl you bring so much to so many of us you do not know what this video did for me today and I will just leave it at that on a very positive note, I will leave it at that. Love you girl you’re amazing. 😊
And also, if I may add, I thank God every day for someone like you, that brings to the forefront your story or your truth it shows that you are human just like me, and every other woman out there or man we all deal with things in our own way And you are never a disappointment to anyone you’re only a disappointment. If you are that to your self who cares what other people think but you were not made to be a mistake or anything other than what I say is a beautiful mess just like me and the next person, and I say that with the upmost respect, you know that, so what you feel matters what other people say or do about you does not, but it is so wonderful that we have a creator that comes on and shares the story that could help someone ago. I made this phrase myself and I say it to myself every day sometimes it’s the unspoken words that could’ve been spoken That could’ve made a difference and today girl you made a difference
Beautiful kitty and always know that you do help others. Just knowing that we are not alone in the craziness of life is a help. Women are supposed to be able to do and handle everything and that is not reality. So thank you for being open and honest. And reminding me to take my freaking supplements!
I relate to you so much. Thank you for sharing with us. Your positivity helps me get through my days some days. AND my baby kitties are my life. I love them. ❤
Hello and good morning from Texas. Thank you for thinking of other's as well as yourself, like many of the other ladies have said on here, it is nice to know that we aren't alone in the way we feel and think about ourselves. Sending a big warm hug to you and anyone that may need one. Love you.
Happy to meet Miss Kitty! She's absolutely some cute!!
Isn't it funny - NOT funny - the way we can't give ourselves the love and compassion we so willingly extend to others. I'm 65 years old and have yet to figure out why that is.
I'll see your kisses from Ky and raise you hugs from the SoCal desert!! 🤗❤️🌵❤️🤗 MK
I have to thank you for being so open and transparent because I also have dealt with an ED since I was a teenager but thankfully I been able to get help
I can 100% relate with you. I’ve restarted my health journey after having a hip replacement in Aug and the mental journey had been the hardest part. When it’s cold or cloudy and I can’t get outside to walk- man the loop it throws at me and just a sadness. I used to tan just for the feel good that it brought me and I’m looking at starting it again.
I’m looking at joining a gym because working from home I’m realizing I need to get “out” when those crazy crappy days come. ❤. Also love sugar kitty 🐱
Thank you for sharing
I went on Keto and it helped me with inflammation etc. lost 70 pounds. Then I lost
my daughter last July and giving myself grace is impossible. I think to myself, I’m gonna do this or that to feel better but, I struggle to actually do it. Watching your channels does give me great comfort! And your energy helps me on a tough day 💜
Thank you for being real. It was nice hearing this.
Hi I just wanted to say we all have one life to live so be happy I think your a nice person and I feel we all over think on food so just relax and enjoy.
Thanks for the honesty! I have been there! In fact yesterday was a day I felt like I was never satisfied 😢 but like you said today is another day❤
Yes, thanks for sharing. I have been experiencing lower back problems. So now I'm taking some time off. My trip was canceled because of my lower back hard to walk. But ladies take care of yourself. My doctor stress the importance of making time to do better health wise
I"ve been praying for you Rhonda❤
You You are great and I love watching you and thank you 🙏
You’re so right about your supplements! I got really lazy with mine and I went in a spiral plus got sick. Sending you strength and prayers.
I know what you mean my weight goes up and down I have kept it down but 2020 came Covid job loss etc I did keep it down I did keep it down for 16 yrs before that the struggle is real. I do have ADHD and Anxiety and depression as well
Amen girl!!! Have to be nice to number one but we seldom are.
You’re simply amazing Beautiful smart you got this girl, one day at a time words to live by giving a self grace absolutely💖 Do you have a link for the vitamins and supplements that you’re taking?
You are an amazing human being!!!
Love you, Rhonda!
Always so interesting how much we have in common, wow. YOU'RE AWESOME GIRL ! YOU GOT THIS ❤ ...In reference to the Tanning , I've had the same results. In my 20s I was intrigued by how many senior citizens were going regularly too. Now, this is a bit controversial, but there's a lot of information out there that claims its for the Vitamin D ! Having Fibro I have a vitamin D deficiency & I personally feel a difference when I go Tanning! To each his own though 😊
Blrssing to you. Thank you for honesty ❤
Thank you my friend you’re #1 you help a lot of people and I’m one of them ❤😘
Thank you Edna, yall help me out too.
Big hugs❤❤❤
Can I just say Rhonda it’s almost like you’re preaching to the choir and I struggled for years trying to figure out my trigger and what makes me do some of the binging or things like that that I would do you and I are both very much people pleasers and I used to be the type of person that I like to please people so much I still do that. What happens is if I got one wrong comment or one wrong thing said about me it was a trigger because I don’t ever wanna let anybody down. It’s something about letting people down that does that for me and in my mind I have to fix that but you know why I figured out we can’t please everyone we just need to please our self and know that we are so worthy of anything that we do we don’t have to make people, love us or care about us. They’re either going to love us or not and like I told you before about the fall leaves and fall you are that beautiful color that comes through to each and everyone of us and you bring that beauty to our world, because you are very honest and forthcoming about who you are, never ever forget that that you are to me not a hot mess. You’re a beautiful mess just like me I’ve excepted all of my beautiful different personality gifts that I call them and I’ve excepted them but I think you like myself we are such people pleasers and we have so much going on that we gotta give our self grace if we have that one day and something about for me being told that I can’t do something, makes me want to do even more please even more and when I’m not able to do that, then I have one of those days if that makes sense, so give yourself Grace because you deserve it and you are worthy of that and more
Could it have been the treatment on your neck? Anything near the thyroid could throw you off with Hashimotos🤷🏻♀️
Hugs**❤❤
It does no good to get the RESURFACING ON THE NECK WHEN YOU TANNING LOL