Coming out as trans to your boyfriend [M4A] ASMR Roleplay

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  • @Juvenile_Arm
    @Juvenile_Arm 2 роки тому +262

    It’s kinda hard being a closeted trans but this dorky dude makes it a whole lot better

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +82

      one of my closest friends gets made fun of because we all knew he was trans long before he came out!
      love that little idiot

    • @cringelife69
      @cringelife69 2 роки тому +16

      I love your pfp, ik it's hard , dont give up :)

  • @aa_batterybloomin1305
    @aa_batterybloomin1305 2 роки тому +39

    The cis comment was SO uncalled for but like... You aren't WRONG

  • @LovelyHades666
    @LovelyHades666 2 роки тому +104

    I just cane out to my parents, but you were WAAAAAAAY more supportive than them- they accept me,but they don't wanna talk about it,and always deadname me. This made feel very accepted and loved. Thank you. You are a wonderful human being for being so thoughtful about everyone. :,)

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +16

      Well done for coming out to your parents!!! myself and this community is always open to you! you are loved as you are and as you want to be 💜 🍍

    • @Kamilp03
      @Kamilp03 2 роки тому +5

      Tbh my parents do the same thing

    • @rodsammetstarta
      @rodsammetstarta Рік тому +2

      @@Kamilp03same here.

    • @n.c.pictures
      @n.c.pictures 4 місяці тому

      Hate to potentially male it worse, but do they actually genuinely accept you if they can't accept your name and just dead name you?

  • @celeryrat6339
    @celeryrat6339 2 роки тому +70

    PANROMANTICS FOR THE WIN ❤❤❤❤ also i loved this. as a mostly closeted trans guy this holds a special place in my heart 💜

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +12

      Take it from one of my mates "all of my friends knew before i was trans before i did...."

  • @xyz1Official
    @xyz1Official 2 роки тому +54

    you, good sir, have no right to make me feel this happy

  • @awhora1245
    @awhora1245 2 роки тому +56

    I just made a huge discovery in my life I’ve been doing some self reflection and I recently came out as trans 🏳️‍⚧️ after 18 years I’m finally gonna start living my life as the person I was meant to be

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +14

      I know a lot of people that took a lot longer to understand themselves so I'm proud of you! Go out and be the real you! 💜🏳‍⚧

    • @oli709
      @oli709 2 роки тому +6

      Good on you for figuring it out!!

  • @The1stPurpleCat
    @The1stPurpleCat 2 роки тому +46

    I'm worried I'm too "straight" for some people to respect me as LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I only like guys. I'm scared people will think I'm too "cis" to be LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I'm AFAB. I'm worried that I'd be "too cishet" for some people and "too LGBT+" for others. I just wanted an audio that made both sides of my worries be ok. But I thought it was too specific to find an audio that would fit that for me.
    I wanted an audio for that because I was worried. I guess I assumed my [future / currently non-existent in my life] boyfriend would be straight because I am fem-aligned (so he'd only see me as female) and because I've never met a guy who was attracted to multiple genders (bi, pan, omni, etc) irl, so when you said, "remind me what panromantic means?" my first thought was "OH... I forgot pan guys existed!" and the next thought was of pure happiness for the full acceptance, no matter what gender I "started" as in the audio, nor what I came out as in the video.
    It didn't matter if my pronouns were or weren't the same as the ones I had before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch them, even though you gave the option. It didn't matter if my preference for me being considered a partner/girlfriend/boyfriend was or wasn't the same as what it was before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch, even though you gave the option. Full acceptance no matter what gender the listener "started" as, nor what the listener came out as.
    And helping me with shopping for clothes! AH! I want some "guy" t-shirts or buys stuff so I can attempt to style more androgynously. And if I had someone to help me, then maybe I'd get helpful advice on how to dress + being told it doesn't look bad on me just cause of my AGAB + social anxiety / self-consciousness makes me scared to shop in the "mens" section, but being with boyfriend would make it so much easier.
    I'll definitely be happy to re-watch this a few more times. Thank you so much for the audio, it means a lot to me

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +19

      I'm glad the audio can help you in anyway but as far as appearing "too cis" or whatever to be LGBT, screw that!
      The LGBT community is not just for gay and trans people. It is for everyone, so wether you're queer or questioning. Know that you are accepted for being you!💜

    • @dusty_telescope
      @dusty_telescope 2 роки тому +5

      It can be hard sometimes to feel valid in your identity, but you’re absolutely welcome in the community and there’s absolutely people out there that accept you for you, not whichever box society put you in.
      I know it’s been a couple months since you made this comment, but if you’d ever need some encouragement or support in your gender exploration from a genderfluid trans guy, I’d be happy to get in touch :)

  • @michymoony
    @michymoony 2 роки тому +25

    This audio gives me Sirius Black vibes and as a trans person this is super comforting since he's one of my comfort characters. THANK YOU FOR THIS :)

    • @Poiesis11
      @Poiesis11 Рік тому +3

      Sirius Black for the win ✋😩

  • @dabilikesarson5901
    @dabilikesarson5901 2 роки тому +17

    "Last Name still the same?"
    I mean. I wouldn't mind changing it to yours.

  • @christopher4693
    @christopher4693 2 роки тому +25

    Ive never felt so loved in my life 😭😭😭😭 My family never loved me this much 💖💖💖

  • @ChaoticMarko
    @ChaoticMarko 2 роки тому +7

    4:09
    Eeeeevrytime 😑
    Fr everytime I came out to someone their answer was always "I thought so" or "I had a feeling"
    Too real :,)
    10/10

  • @Hystrin
    @Hystrin 2 роки тому +20

    When the jar is full you just gave me the permission to slap the crap out of you

  • @ikea5528
    @ikea5528 2 роки тому +13

    bruh u don't know how much i needed this

  • @INTERNET_V4MPIRE
    @INTERNET_V4MPIRE 5 місяців тому +2

    As someone whose recently started questioning their gender and is afraid to come out this is very comforting for me

  • @deinodinosuchus
    @deinodinosuchus Рік тому +4

    off to a WONDERFUL start with hozier on the ukelele 😄

  • @_lctybd_
    @_lctybd_ 3 місяці тому +1

    im in love with the laugh
    like it melts me

  • @youlov3e
    @youlov3e 2 роки тому +16

    HIIII IM SO GLAD TO SEE YOU POSTED

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +7

      HIIII I'M GLAD YOU COMMENTED!!!! I'VE BEEN DRINKING MILK, EATING PIZZA AND SLEEPING IN THE MOST COZY PYJAMAS IMAGINABLE!!!!!

    • @youlov3e
      @youlov3e 2 роки тому +2

      @@NeedleAndThreadAudios MILK HELPS YOUR BONES STAY STRONG ᕦ(`∇´)ᕤ IM LOWKEY JEALOUS OF THOSE COMFY PJS THO (● ˃̶͈̀ロ˂̶͈́)੭ꠥ⁾⁾ BUT IM REALLY GLAD YOUVE BEEN EATING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!

  • @clairetastrophy9228
    @clairetastrophy9228 2 роки тому +24

    this made me cry a bit too much as a genderfluid person. love it tho.

  • @gaellinor6869
    @gaellinor6869 2 роки тому +9

    Hands down of the best coming out as trans audios I've listened to. It was so wholesome, warm and funny too. I recently started to identify as non-binary transfem and came out as such to most of my friends, but not to my parents. I just spend so much time thinking how I'm making my life more difficult in a way, especially when it comes to finding a partner. But that's just how I am, and I don't want to repress it. Listening to your audio was a much needed break. I just let go off those fears and it made me envision a life where I would be surrounded with people who are supportive and genuinely love me. Thank you so much 💜

    • @dumbcheese8552
      @dumbcheese8552 Рік тому +3

      Are you me? 😆

    • @gaellinor6869
      @gaellinor6869 Рік тому +2

      @@dumbcheese8552 Omg I didn't expect someone to reply to my comment a year later. First of all I hope you're safe and okay 💜 I'm not sure which part of my comment you related to, but I have some updates: I finally came out to my family and it went better than expected. I think they're genuinely trying to accept and respect me as I am. I feel really really lucky. Sometimes people can surprise you in a positive way, I guess. Regarding dating, I'm still really scared to put myself out there and risk getting hurt, I don't think I have the mental capacity to handle that, but who knows (I still come back to this audio cause it's so nice). Obviously I have no idea what your situation is like, but it can really get better, even if you're not fully accepted by the current people in your life and that still hurts. You're loved and worthy of love and acceptance 💜

    • @dumbcheese8552
      @dumbcheese8552 Рік тому +3

      @@gaellinor6869 thanks for the kind words! I also wasn't expecting a reply, so this was a pleasant surprise 😄. Pretty much all of your comment described my experience. Hopefully we'll both get that future that we're envisioning 💜

    • @gaellinor6869
      @gaellinor6869 Рік тому +2

      @@dumbcheese8552 I'm glad to hear that. Even if it takes times, I know we will get there 💛

  • @rebishroom
    @rebishroom Рік тому +1

    I found this video reposted and credited on Spotify and its absolutely the best trans coming out audio to ever have existed, seriously. Thank you so so so much for making it. Made me feel so much better about the whole thing

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +1

      I'm so glad you took the effort to find my channel! I hope you find another audio on my channel that you enjoy!
      (also, please let me know if there's any audios you'd like to hear as I've been struggling to make them for the past few months)

    • @rebishroom
      @rebishroom Рік тому +1

      @NeedleAndThreadAudios your whole channel is gold!
      As some recommendations: a voice dysphoria, Period dysphoria, baking date night, painting date night pet loss comfort if it isn't too sensitive, would all be great audios. Just suggestions!

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +1

      @@rebishroom I love those ideas!! I've got a really important day tomorrow but I'll be looking to have something out by the end of the month (only time will tell what topic I choose though)

  • @Pandacattherian
    @Pandacattherian 3 місяці тому +1

    Loving the five minutes long pizza talk

  • @binji182
    @binji182 7 місяців тому +1

    i find these videos so comforting even if my family and friends support me bc parents at first were not that supportive. keep up the good work!

  • @iluvcats7920
    @iluvcats7920 2 роки тому +7

    brb I gotta go cry into my body pillow

  • @dragonflymirai8239
    @dragonflymirai8239 2 роки тому +4

    I need a person like this in my life.
    Everything about this was perfect.

  • @marsthegingerplanet565
    @marsthegingerplanet565 Рік тому +2

    This was so chaotic and sweet, omg!! Thank you so much for making this

  • @benn11
    @benn11 2 роки тому +1

    i love this kind of personality sm ugh it makes me so happy

  • @secretly_a_raccoon811
    @secretly_a_raccoon811 2 роки тому +6

    Oh I cried to this, thank you sm.

  • @yarakandari2793
    @yarakandari2793 6 місяців тому +2

    This made me cry 🥹💗

  • @Respez
    @Respez 2 роки тому +8

    As a trans dude, marry me.

  • @fantasymoss
    @fantasymoss 11 місяців тому +3

    Really, really want to come out today, and I'm looking for encouragement :) this is a very sweet audio, and it's working plentiful to boost my confidence 💕

  • @sodaboi2154
    @sodaboi2154 2 роки тому +4

    Yesss the euphoria- I love it ;w;
    This audio is so nice~

  • @dumbcheese8552
    @dumbcheese8552 Рік тому +2

    You sir, are an absolute treasure.

  • @Ace-od8vm
    @Ace-od8vm 2 роки тому +3

    I got emotional while listening :') thank you for making this ❤️

  • @fishymcgigginscales8086
    @fishymcgigginscales8086 2 роки тому +16

    Me, dysphoric, trying to calm down after a breakdown, looking for comfort audios
    This guy: Cissy McCisserton*°~
    🧍🏻‍♂️
    In all seriousness this was so wholesome qq thank you this helped a lot 💕💕💕 I will be sprinkling cissy mccisserton into my conversations from now on

  • @butmenbutwoman1313
    @butmenbutwoman1313 Рік тому +1

    I love his reaction to the name, my name is kinda hard to say and spell and people compare it to Ariel a ton so that reaction just 💕💕💕💕💀💀💀

  • @Helios2737
    @Helios2737 2 роки тому +1

    This was so sweet istg I wish I had someone like this when I started coming out to people, this made me smile and giggle thaaanks 🥺

  • @max_0702
    @max_0702 Рік тому +1

    when you said panromantic i was shocked because i'm panromantic and bigender and i was like "how did you know⁉️⁉️" 😭😭

  • @Theo_starman
    @Theo_starman 9 місяців тому +1

    As someone who is struggling to come out as trans this means so much to me

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  9 місяців тому

      It is a challenging battle but we will always back you in this! 💜

  • @8ian
    @8ian 2 роки тому +3

    This is so great. Please make more (m4tm) content.

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +1

      i'm planning to make more trans listener content soon but i'm a little unwell at the moment 😅

  • @catopolis.
    @catopolis. Рік тому +3

    this made so much seratonin thank you

  • @pixelysandwich
    @pixelysandwich 2 роки тому +1

    your voice is so comforting 😁

  • @Kamilp03
    @Kamilp03 2 роки тому +2

    My mom said give her some time to get used to it and I've been out as trans for 4 years and honestly I held in how I felt about it for so long that it put a strain on my mental health and caused me to hate myself

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +1

      i'm glad that you're out now and i'm proud that you can be who you really are!

  • @gh0st10v3r
    @gh0st10v3r Рік тому +2

    My parents don’t support that fact that people are trans expecialy one of there children and I’ve been to afraid to tell them afraid of what’s going to happen thank you so much for this this made me so happy 🖤🖤

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +1

      Whatever happens, know this: we got your back my guy and will support you in every way possible 💜🍍

    • @gh0st10v3r
      @gh0st10v3r Рік тому +2

      ⁠​⁠thank you so much mate this means a lot 🖤🖤

  • @desyourbeloved
    @desyourbeloved Рік тому +3

    ik this video is old but I come back to it sometimes because I don't think I'll ever be able to come out to my mom as nonbinary/genderfluid and this just makes it a bit better. my mom somewhat knows about it, I didn't tell her, she just found out, but she generally has no idea what I identify as other than she knows I'm pan and fully accepts me, broski even let me buy a pride flag, I don't know her views on the trans community and I'm way too scared to find out. she called my ex, when we were together, that was trans, my "girlfriend boyfriend thing", I don't think she really gets it. my current partner is also trans, which I know someday I'll marry, I'm scared she'll call him she or something, which would suck. oh my god I'm ranting way too much on here I apologize, to the point I was getting at, thank you for making this.

  • @DelaneeClark-yr5nv
    @DelaneeClark-yr5nv 7 місяців тому +1

    I’m still scared saying to my parents that im trans

  • @venerian
    @venerian 2 роки тому +4

    a new video!!! 🤍 was that cherry wine at the beginning?

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +1

      Yee it was! i've been slowly learning it over the past week!

    • @venerian
      @venerian 2 роки тому +2

      @@NeedleAndThreadAudios it was very good :)

  • @alexanderthorne_diaz
    @alexanderthorne_diaz 6 місяців тому +1

    This means so much. When I came out to my (ex) husband, he left. His parents found out and forced a divorce but he never fought it for a second. Thank god my parents took me but still… I wanted support. I have it now though. Screw him 😂

  • @Cbabilon675
    @Cbabilon675 2 роки тому +9

    Very cool and awesome message especially with all the BS that's happening in the world right now. I'm glad that this was recommended believe it or not I sincerely think this is awesome😎

  • @LexiTheHellhound
    @LexiTheHellhound 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you for making this it helps alot

  • @orionsinthstarsvods
    @orionsinthstarsvods Рік тому +6

    I'm not through it yet but I'm not going to cry. I can't fuck up my makeup because Thanksgiving:)
    Edit:I barely survived but I did it thank gosh

    • @ozzy_toast7702
      @ozzy_toast7702 Рік тому +3

      This just feels so genuine, I have actually realized that I'm trans instead of genderfluid in the past month, and I have been incredibly nervous about telling my boyfriend.

  • @itsmartinii
    @itsmartinii 2 роки тому +5

    last name staying the same?
    i mean sure- unless you wanna change it to yours 😍

  • @_Meteorited_
    @_Meteorited_ 2 роки тому +3

    Actual tears people, I appreciate this so much

  • @rui-simp_8000
    @rui-simp_8000 Рік тому +3

    I actually stared crying so hard and its 3:24. It would be such a loving scenario Id love to live in... ...but... my partner is straight. Ty for comforting me on this heavy night

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +2

      many people are less straight than they first imagine when someone they truly love comes out as trans. we support you 💜

    • @rui-simp_8000
      @rui-simp_8000 Рік тому +2

      @@NeedleAndThreadAudios 💖💖💖💖💕💞

  • @sylv1a_gaming
    @sylv1a_gaming Рік тому +2

    "my baby" i may be a child but i am not smol i am a tall transgender

  • @SpAc3B3e
    @SpAc3B3e 9 місяців тому +1

    My trans ND ahh was shaking like a earthquake frfr

  • @saturn8541
    @saturn8541 2 роки тому +4

    love your videos

  • @the_resting_c0rps3
    @the_resting_c0rps3 8 місяців тому +1

    I'm trans ftm and my parents I feel don't truly support me bc they continue to call me my deadname and I go by Rayne/Zephix (Mostly Zephix) and the only people who call me by those names are my partner and their best friend, but even then I'm stuck in my house bc of a covid outbreak at my house and I havent seen them in almost a week so I havent been called my preferred name in a bit, but this audio helped a bunch, thx dude

  • @Innnnnk
    @Innnnnk 5 місяців тому +1

    🫠what if i asked you for a full cover of cherry wine?-

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  5 місяців тому +1

      i doubt my skills are quite there yet 😅

    • @Innnnnk
      @Innnnnk 5 місяців тому +1

      @@NeedleAndThreadAudios from what i heard you played it beautifully! i think your skills are up there dw- wether you do make a full cover or not🙏i love hearing you play

  • @notcharlie3716
    @notcharlie3716 2 роки тому +7

    Could you do coming out as a bisexual?

  • @virgilsanders8909
    @virgilsanders8909 Рік тому +1

    Him: “We can change our IDs that'll be fun”
    Me: I just finished doing that recently. It's not fun. It's boring and slightly tedious.

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +1

      Agreed but when the new id’s arrive it feels like a huge step in the right direction

  • @yourstepbro._3470
    @yourstepbro._3470 2 роки тому +2

    Man earned a new subscriber :) (spoiler alert it’s me)

    • @yourstepbro._3470
      @yourstepbro._3470 2 роки тому +2

      And man made another man cried today. (Spoiler alert again, it’s me)

  • @psychovampire4004
    @psychovampire4004 2 роки тому +3

    Stop this sounds like my brother

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  2 роки тому +1

      Hello sibling it is I! Your brother!!!!!! 🤣
      Don't worry, it isn't really but I hope you have a good day and remember to hydrate!!

  • @moontown8563
    @moontown8563 2 роки тому +1

    I love it I love it I love it🥰🥰🥰

  • @seria7202
    @seria7202 2 роки тому +6

    Nice video

  • @Khxi_0
    @Khxi_0 9 місяців тому +1

    im trans and I've came out to my parents a while back, they didnt support me and they straight up said "Oh, thats just the government manipulating you, blah blah blah" and I saved up more then enough money to buy a binder and i offered my parents to pay for it and they wont let me get one =[
    they use the wrong pronouns and they deadname me all the time, the worse part is a that when they deadname me they say ( i wont use my irl name for privacy reasons)
    "ELLLAAAA, TIME FOR DINNERRR"
    like the emphasize my deadname, =[

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  9 місяців тому

      I hate it when people do things like that but always remember that this community is here for you

  • @justmeokaykeepcool
    @justmeokaykeepcool 2 роки тому +5

    first yeah

  • @klimtkiller
    @klimtkiller Рік тому +2

    are you actually trans ftm? hard to believe

    • @NeedleAndThreadAudios
      @NeedleAndThreadAudios  Рік тому +1

      not quite💜assigned male at birth but not too keen on that gender😅
      I stick with stating M4A in my audios as I have a largely masculine voice so i like to think of M=masculine and F=feminine. spoken to a couple other creators who do a similar thing 💜

  • @Just_Lunala
    @Just_Lunala 2 роки тому +3

    I’m a transgender male(ftm) and no one respects me anymore after I came out of the closet so im really at home on UA-cam and I plan to come out of the closet soon to a lot of people on my actual channel(@Nyxie_The_Pheonix)

  • @Innnnnk
    @Innnnnk Рік тому +1

    HZHXHHXHZ STOP CHERRY WINE BY HOZIER PLAYING IN THE BEGINNING ?!🧎subbing rn omfg