I just cane out to my parents, but you were WAAAAAAAY more supportive than them- they accept me,but they don't wanna talk about it,and always deadname me. This made feel very accepted and loved. Thank you. You are a wonderful human being for being so thoughtful about everyone. :,)
I just made a huge discovery in my life I’ve been doing some self reflection and I recently came out as trans 🏳️⚧️ after 18 years I’m finally gonna start living my life as the person I was meant to be
I'm worried I'm too "straight" for some people to respect me as LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I only like guys. I'm scared people will think I'm too "cis" to be LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I'm AFAB. I'm worried that I'd be "too cishet" for some people and "too LGBT+" for others. I just wanted an audio that made both sides of my worries be ok. But I thought it was too specific to find an audio that would fit that for me. I wanted an audio for that because I was worried. I guess I assumed my [future / currently non-existent in my life] boyfriend would be straight because I am fem-aligned (so he'd only see me as female) and because I've never met a guy who was attracted to multiple genders (bi, pan, omni, etc) irl, so when you said, "remind me what panromantic means?" my first thought was "OH... I forgot pan guys existed!" and the next thought was of pure happiness for the full acceptance, no matter what gender I "started" as in the audio, nor what I came out as in the video. It didn't matter if my pronouns were or weren't the same as the ones I had before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch them, even though you gave the option. It didn't matter if my preference for me being considered a partner/girlfriend/boyfriend was or wasn't the same as what it was before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch, even though you gave the option. Full acceptance no matter what gender the listener "started" as, nor what the listener came out as. And helping me with shopping for clothes! AH! I want some "guy" t-shirts or buys stuff so I can attempt to style more androgynously. And if I had someone to help me, then maybe I'd get helpful advice on how to dress + being told it doesn't look bad on me just cause of my AGAB + social anxiety / self-consciousness makes me scared to shop in the "mens" section, but being with boyfriend would make it so much easier. I'll definitely be happy to re-watch this a few more times. Thank you so much for the audio, it means a lot to me
I'm glad the audio can help you in anyway but as far as appearing "too cis" or whatever to be LGBT, screw that! The LGBT community is not just for gay and trans people. It is for everyone, so wether you're queer or questioning. Know that you are accepted for being you!💜
It can be hard sometimes to feel valid in your identity, but you’re absolutely welcome in the community and there’s absolutely people out there that accept you for you, not whichever box society put you in. I know it’s been a couple months since you made this comment, but if you’d ever need some encouragement or support in your gender exploration from a genderfluid trans guy, I’d be happy to get in touch :)
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios MILK HELPS YOUR BONES STAY STRONG ᕦ(`∇´)ᕤ IM LOWKEY JEALOUS OF THOSE COMFY PJS THO (● ˃̶͈̀ロ˂̶͈́)੭ꠥ⁾⁾ BUT IM REALLY GLAD YOUVE BEEN EATING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!
Hands down of the best coming out as trans audios I've listened to. It was so wholesome, warm and funny too. I recently started to identify as non-binary transfem and came out as such to most of my friends, but not to my parents. I just spend so much time thinking how I'm making my life more difficult in a way, especially when it comes to finding a partner. But that's just how I am, and I don't want to repress it. Listening to your audio was a much needed break. I just let go off those fears and it made me envision a life where I would be surrounded with people who are supportive and genuinely love me. Thank you so much 💜
@@dumbcheese8552 Omg I didn't expect someone to reply to my comment a year later. First of all I hope you're safe and okay 💜 I'm not sure which part of my comment you related to, but I have some updates: I finally came out to my family and it went better than expected. I think they're genuinely trying to accept and respect me as I am. I feel really really lucky. Sometimes people can surprise you in a positive way, I guess. Regarding dating, I'm still really scared to put myself out there and risk getting hurt, I don't think I have the mental capacity to handle that, but who knows (I still come back to this audio cause it's so nice). Obviously I have no idea what your situation is like, but it can really get better, even if you're not fully accepted by the current people in your life and that still hurts. You're loved and worthy of love and acceptance 💜
@@gaellinor6869 thanks for the kind words! I also wasn't expecting a reply, so this was a pleasant surprise 😄. Pretty much all of your comment described my experience. Hopefully we'll both get that future that we're envisioning 💜
I found this video reposted and credited on Spotify and its absolutely the best trans coming out audio to ever have existed, seriously. Thank you so so so much for making it. Made me feel so much better about the whole thing
I'm so glad you took the effort to find my channel! I hope you find another audio on my channel that you enjoy! (also, please let me know if there's any audios you'd like to hear as I've been struggling to make them for the past few months)
@NeedleAndThreadAudios your whole channel is gold! As some recommendations: a voice dysphoria, Period dysphoria, baking date night, painting date night pet loss comfort if it isn't too sensitive, would all be great audios. Just suggestions!
@@rebishroom I love those ideas!! I've got a really important day tomorrow but I'll be looking to have something out by the end of the month (only time will tell what topic I choose though)
Really, really want to come out today, and I'm looking for encouragement :) this is a very sweet audio, and it's working plentiful to boost my confidence 💕
Me, dysphoric, trying to calm down after a breakdown, looking for comfort audios This guy: Cissy McCisserton*°~ 🧍🏻♂️ In all seriousness this was so wholesome qq thank you this helped a lot 💕💕💕 I will be sprinkling cissy mccisserton into my conversations from now on
My mom said give her some time to get used to it and I've been out as trans for 4 years and honestly I held in how I felt about it for so long that it put a strain on my mental health and caused me to hate myself
My parents don’t support that fact that people are trans expecialy one of there children and I’ve been to afraid to tell them afraid of what’s going to happen thank you so much for this this made me so happy 🖤🖤
ik this video is old but I come back to it sometimes because I don't think I'll ever be able to come out to my mom as nonbinary/genderfluid and this just makes it a bit better. my mom somewhat knows about it, I didn't tell her, she just found out, but she generally has no idea what I identify as other than she knows I'm pan and fully accepts me, broski even let me buy a pride flag, I don't know her views on the trans community and I'm way too scared to find out. she called my ex, when we were together, that was trans, my "girlfriend boyfriend thing", I don't think she really gets it. my current partner is also trans, which I know someday I'll marry, I'm scared she'll call him she or something, which would suck. oh my god I'm ranting way too much on here I apologize, to the point I was getting at, thank you for making this.
This means so much. When I came out to my (ex) husband, he left. His parents found out and forced a divorce but he never fought it for a second. Thank god my parents took me but still… I wanted support. I have it now though. Screw him 😂
Very cool and awesome message especially with all the BS that's happening in the world right now. I'm glad that this was recommended believe it or not I sincerely think this is awesome😎
This just feels so genuine, I have actually realized that I'm trans instead of genderfluid in the past month, and I have been incredibly nervous about telling my boyfriend.
I actually stared crying so hard and its 3:24. It would be such a loving scenario Id love to live in... ...but... my partner is straight. Ty for comforting me on this heavy night
I'm trans ftm and my parents I feel don't truly support me bc they continue to call me my deadname and I go by Rayne/Zephix (Mostly Zephix) and the only people who call me by those names are my partner and their best friend, but even then I'm stuck in my house bc of a covid outbreak at my house and I havent seen them in almost a week so I havent been called my preferred name in a bit, but this audio helped a bunch, thx dude
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios from what i heard you played it beautifully! i think your skills are up there dw- wether you do make a full cover or not🙏i love hearing you play
im trans and I've came out to my parents a while back, they didnt support me and they straight up said "Oh, thats just the government manipulating you, blah blah blah" and I saved up more then enough money to buy a binder and i offered my parents to pay for it and they wont let me get one =[ they use the wrong pronouns and they deadname me all the time, the worse part is a that when they deadname me they say ( i wont use my irl name for privacy reasons) "ELLLAAAA, TIME FOR DINNERRR" like the emphasize my deadname, =[
not quite💜assigned male at birth but not too keen on that gender😅 I stick with stating M4A in my audios as I have a largely masculine voice so i like to think of M=masculine and F=feminine. spoken to a couple other creators who do a similar thing 💜
I’m a transgender male(ftm) and no one respects me anymore after I came out of the closet so im really at home on UA-cam and I plan to come out of the closet soon to a lot of people on my actual channel(@Nyxie_The_Pheonix)
It’s kinda hard being a closeted trans but this dorky dude makes it a whole lot better
one of my closest friends gets made fun of because we all knew he was trans long before he came out!
love that little idiot
I love your pfp, ik it's hard , dont give up :)
The cis comment was SO uncalled for but like... You aren't WRONG
I just cane out to my parents, but you were WAAAAAAAY more supportive than them- they accept me,but they don't wanna talk about it,and always deadname me. This made feel very accepted and loved. Thank you. You are a wonderful human being for being so thoughtful about everyone. :,)
Well done for coming out to your parents!!! myself and this community is always open to you! you are loved as you are and as you want to be 💜 🍍
Tbh my parents do the same thing
@@Kamilp03same here.
Hate to potentially male it worse, but do they actually genuinely accept you if they can't accept your name and just dead name you?
PANROMANTICS FOR THE WIN ❤❤❤❤ also i loved this. as a mostly closeted trans guy this holds a special place in my heart 💜
Take it from one of my mates "all of my friends knew before i was trans before i did...."
you, good sir, have no right to make me feel this happy
I just made a huge discovery in my life I’ve been doing some self reflection and I recently came out as trans 🏳️⚧️ after 18 years I’m finally gonna start living my life as the person I was meant to be
I know a lot of people that took a lot longer to understand themselves so I'm proud of you! Go out and be the real you! 💜🏳⚧
Good on you for figuring it out!!
I'm worried I'm too "straight" for some people to respect me as LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I only like guys. I'm scared people will think I'm too "cis" to be LGBT+ because my gender is fem-aligned and I'm AFAB. I'm worried that I'd be "too cishet" for some people and "too LGBT+" for others. I just wanted an audio that made both sides of my worries be ok. But I thought it was too specific to find an audio that would fit that for me.
I wanted an audio for that because I was worried. I guess I assumed my [future / currently non-existent in my life] boyfriend would be straight because I am fem-aligned (so he'd only see me as female) and because I've never met a guy who was attracted to multiple genders (bi, pan, omni, etc) irl, so when you said, "remind me what panromantic means?" my first thought was "OH... I forgot pan guys existed!" and the next thought was of pure happiness for the full acceptance, no matter what gender I "started" as in the audio, nor what I came out as in the video.
It didn't matter if my pronouns were or weren't the same as the ones I had before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch them, even though you gave the option. It didn't matter if my preference for me being considered a partner/girlfriend/boyfriend was or wasn't the same as what it was before I came out, cause you never said I ~had~ to switch, even though you gave the option. Full acceptance no matter what gender the listener "started" as, nor what the listener came out as.
And helping me with shopping for clothes! AH! I want some "guy" t-shirts or buys stuff so I can attempt to style more androgynously. And if I had someone to help me, then maybe I'd get helpful advice on how to dress + being told it doesn't look bad on me just cause of my AGAB + social anxiety / self-consciousness makes me scared to shop in the "mens" section, but being with boyfriend would make it so much easier.
I'll definitely be happy to re-watch this a few more times. Thank you so much for the audio, it means a lot to me
I'm glad the audio can help you in anyway but as far as appearing "too cis" or whatever to be LGBT, screw that!
The LGBT community is not just for gay and trans people. It is for everyone, so wether you're queer or questioning. Know that you are accepted for being you!💜
It can be hard sometimes to feel valid in your identity, but you’re absolutely welcome in the community and there’s absolutely people out there that accept you for you, not whichever box society put you in.
I know it’s been a couple months since you made this comment, but if you’d ever need some encouragement or support in your gender exploration from a genderfluid trans guy, I’d be happy to get in touch :)
This audio gives me Sirius Black vibes and as a trans person this is super comforting since he's one of my comfort characters. THANK YOU FOR THIS :)
Sirius Black for the win ✋😩
"Last Name still the same?"
I mean. I wouldn't mind changing it to yours.
now that is a good answer!
Ive never felt so loved in my life 😭😭😭😭 My family never loved me this much 💖💖💖
4:09
Eeeeevrytime 😑
Fr everytime I came out to someone their answer was always "I thought so" or "I had a feeling"
Too real :,)
10/10
When the jar is full you just gave me the permission to slap the crap out of you
Yes.
bruh u don't know how much i needed this
As someone whose recently started questioning their gender and is afraid to come out this is very comforting for me
off to a WONDERFUL start with hozier on the ukelele 😄
im in love with the laugh
like it melts me
HIIII IM SO GLAD TO SEE YOU POSTED
HIIII I'M GLAD YOU COMMENTED!!!! I'VE BEEN DRINKING MILK, EATING PIZZA AND SLEEPING IN THE MOST COZY PYJAMAS IMAGINABLE!!!!!
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios MILK HELPS YOUR BONES STAY STRONG ᕦ(`∇´)ᕤ IM LOWKEY JEALOUS OF THOSE COMFY PJS THO (● ˃̶͈̀ロ˂̶͈́)੭ꠥ⁾⁾ BUT IM REALLY GLAD YOUVE BEEN EATING IM SO PROUD OF YOU!!!!
this made me cry a bit too much as a genderfluid person. love it tho.
Hands down of the best coming out as trans audios I've listened to. It was so wholesome, warm and funny too. I recently started to identify as non-binary transfem and came out as such to most of my friends, but not to my parents. I just spend so much time thinking how I'm making my life more difficult in a way, especially when it comes to finding a partner. But that's just how I am, and I don't want to repress it. Listening to your audio was a much needed break. I just let go off those fears and it made me envision a life where I would be surrounded with people who are supportive and genuinely love me. Thank you so much 💜
Are you me? 😆
@@dumbcheese8552 Omg I didn't expect someone to reply to my comment a year later. First of all I hope you're safe and okay 💜 I'm not sure which part of my comment you related to, but I have some updates: I finally came out to my family and it went better than expected. I think they're genuinely trying to accept and respect me as I am. I feel really really lucky. Sometimes people can surprise you in a positive way, I guess. Regarding dating, I'm still really scared to put myself out there and risk getting hurt, I don't think I have the mental capacity to handle that, but who knows (I still come back to this audio cause it's so nice). Obviously I have no idea what your situation is like, but it can really get better, even if you're not fully accepted by the current people in your life and that still hurts. You're loved and worthy of love and acceptance 💜
@@gaellinor6869 thanks for the kind words! I also wasn't expecting a reply, so this was a pleasant surprise 😄. Pretty much all of your comment described my experience. Hopefully we'll both get that future that we're envisioning 💜
@@dumbcheese8552 I'm glad to hear that. Even if it takes times, I know we will get there 💛
I found this video reposted and credited on Spotify and its absolutely the best trans coming out audio to ever have existed, seriously. Thank you so so so much for making it. Made me feel so much better about the whole thing
I'm so glad you took the effort to find my channel! I hope you find another audio on my channel that you enjoy!
(also, please let me know if there's any audios you'd like to hear as I've been struggling to make them for the past few months)
@NeedleAndThreadAudios your whole channel is gold!
As some recommendations: a voice dysphoria, Period dysphoria, baking date night, painting date night pet loss comfort if it isn't too sensitive, would all be great audios. Just suggestions!
@@rebishroom I love those ideas!! I've got a really important day tomorrow but I'll be looking to have something out by the end of the month (only time will tell what topic I choose though)
Loving the five minutes long pizza talk
i find these videos so comforting even if my family and friends support me bc parents at first were not that supportive. keep up the good work!
brb I gotta go cry into my body pillow
I need a person like this in my life.
Everything about this was perfect.
This was so chaotic and sweet, omg!! Thank you so much for making this
i love this kind of personality sm ugh it makes me so happy
Oh I cried to this, thank you sm.
This made me cry 🥹💗
As a trans dude, marry me.
Really, really want to come out today, and I'm looking for encouragement :) this is a very sweet audio, and it's working plentiful to boost my confidence 💕
we've always got your back! 💜
Yesss the euphoria- I love it ;w;
This audio is so nice~
You sir, are an absolute treasure.
I got emotional while listening :') thank you for making this ❤️
Me, dysphoric, trying to calm down after a breakdown, looking for comfort audios
This guy: Cissy McCisserton*°~
🧍🏻♂️
In all seriousness this was so wholesome qq thank you this helped a lot 💕💕💕 I will be sprinkling cissy mccisserton into my conversations from now on
I love his reaction to the name, my name is kinda hard to say and spell and people compare it to Ariel a ton so that reaction just 💕💕💕💕💀💀💀
This was so sweet istg I wish I had someone like this when I started coming out to people, this made me smile and giggle thaaanks 🥺
when you said panromantic i was shocked because i'm panromantic and bigender and i was like "how did you know⁉️⁉️" 😭😭
As someone who is struggling to come out as trans this means so much to me
It is a challenging battle but we will always back you in this! 💜
This is so great. Please make more (m4tm) content.
i'm planning to make more trans listener content soon but i'm a little unwell at the moment 😅
this made so much seratonin thank you
your voice is so comforting 😁
My mom said give her some time to get used to it and I've been out as trans for 4 years and honestly I held in how I felt about it for so long that it put a strain on my mental health and caused me to hate myself
i'm glad that you're out now and i'm proud that you can be who you really are!
My parents don’t support that fact that people are trans expecialy one of there children and I’ve been to afraid to tell them afraid of what’s going to happen thank you so much for this this made me so happy 🖤🖤
Whatever happens, know this: we got your back my guy and will support you in every way possible 💜🍍
thank you so much mate this means a lot 🖤🖤
ik this video is old but I come back to it sometimes because I don't think I'll ever be able to come out to my mom as nonbinary/genderfluid and this just makes it a bit better. my mom somewhat knows about it, I didn't tell her, she just found out, but she generally has no idea what I identify as other than she knows I'm pan and fully accepts me, broski even let me buy a pride flag, I don't know her views on the trans community and I'm way too scared to find out. she called my ex, when we were together, that was trans, my "girlfriend boyfriend thing", I don't think she really gets it. my current partner is also trans, which I know someday I'll marry, I'm scared she'll call him she or something, which would suck. oh my god I'm ranting way too much on here I apologize, to the point I was getting at, thank you for making this.
I’m still scared saying to my parents that im trans
a new video!!! 🤍 was that cherry wine at the beginning?
Yee it was! i've been slowly learning it over the past week!
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios it was very good :)
This means so much. When I came out to my (ex) husband, he left. His parents found out and forced a divorce but he never fought it for a second. Thank god my parents took me but still… I wanted support. I have it now though. Screw him 😂
you'll always have a community of love here 💜
Very cool and awesome message especially with all the BS that's happening in the world right now. I'm glad that this was recommended believe it or not I sincerely think this is awesome😎
Thank you for making this it helps alot
I'm not through it yet but I'm not going to cry. I can't fuck up my makeup because Thanksgiving:)
Edit:I barely survived but I did it thank gosh
This just feels so genuine, I have actually realized that I'm trans instead of genderfluid in the past month, and I have been incredibly nervous about telling my boyfriend.
last name staying the same?
i mean sure- unless you wanna change it to yours 😍
Actual tears people, I appreciate this so much
I actually stared crying so hard and its 3:24. It would be such a loving scenario Id love to live in... ...but... my partner is straight. Ty for comforting me on this heavy night
many people are less straight than they first imagine when someone they truly love comes out as trans. we support you 💜
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios 💖💖💖💖💕💞
"my baby" i may be a child but i am not smol i am a tall transgender
My trans ND ahh was shaking like a earthquake frfr
love your videos
Well thank you for watching them!
I'm trans ftm and my parents I feel don't truly support me bc they continue to call me my deadname and I go by Rayne/Zephix (Mostly Zephix) and the only people who call me by those names are my partner and their best friend, but even then I'm stuck in my house bc of a covid outbreak at my house and I havent seen them in almost a week so I havent been called my preferred name in a bit, but this audio helped a bunch, thx dude
We’re here any time you need Zephix
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios thanks dude
🫠what if i asked you for a full cover of cherry wine?-
i doubt my skills are quite there yet 😅
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios from what i heard you played it beautifully! i think your skills are up there dw- wether you do make a full cover or not🙏i love hearing you play
Could you do coming out as a bisexual?
i'll add it to the list!
Him: “We can change our IDs that'll be fun”
Me: I just finished doing that recently. It's not fun. It's boring and slightly tedious.
Agreed but when the new id’s arrive it feels like a huge step in the right direction
Man earned a new subscriber :) (spoiler alert it’s me)
And man made another man cried today. (Spoiler alert again, it’s me)
Stop this sounds like my brother
Hello sibling it is I! Your brother!!!!!! 🤣
Don't worry, it isn't really but I hope you have a good day and remember to hydrate!!
I love it I love it I love it🥰🥰🥰
Nice video
Thank you!
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios your welcome!🤗
im trans and I've came out to my parents a while back, they didnt support me and they straight up said "Oh, thats just the government manipulating you, blah blah blah" and I saved up more then enough money to buy a binder and i offered my parents to pay for it and they wont let me get one =[
they use the wrong pronouns and they deadname me all the time, the worse part is a that when they deadname me they say ( i wont use my irl name for privacy reasons)
"ELLLAAAA, TIME FOR DINNERRR"
like the emphasize my deadname, =[
I hate it when people do things like that but always remember that this community is here for you
first yeah
PROUD O' YOU!!
@@NeedleAndThreadAudios oh well it's the first time someone has told me so thank you haha😭 it's a feat
are you actually trans ftm? hard to believe
not quite💜assigned male at birth but not too keen on that gender😅
I stick with stating M4A in my audios as I have a largely masculine voice so i like to think of M=masculine and F=feminine. spoken to a couple other creators who do a similar thing 💜
I’m a transgender male(ftm) and no one respects me anymore after I came out of the closet so im really at home on UA-cam and I plan to come out of the closet soon to a lot of people on my actual channel(@Nyxie_The_Pheonix)
Cute :)
HZHXHHXHZ STOP CHERRY WINE BY HOZIER PLAYING IN THE BEGINNING ?!🧎subbing rn omfg