I always wanted a family like I grew up in mom and dad and two brothers, but none of my relationships have ever worked out. A psychologist told me that no relationship is better than a bad relationship. Some people can't handle being alone and will have to be with someone, anyone except being alone. I have often found myself to be alone in a crowd. I'm very content being alone and find I have much more time to spend with my heart and music and thinking about who I am and why I'm here. Being alone is much more pleasant than drama drama drama! Now I will leave you alone
Being alone gives me so much rest and focus on how to take care of myself more. Having relationships just give me headaches and have to deal with a lot of stress.
I came from the poor family we six siblings and I’m 2nd to the last my mom died when I was 12 years old, that age starting everything of my darkest hour like emotionally, physically and sexually abused, at the age of 16 I only have 2 dream in life, just to forgive people who hurt me before and to Live alone... now my God answered my prayers. .. here I am now living alone and very happy 🙏
The alchemy of solitude. Computational biological coalescence. Non linear dynamics to the tune of minus infinity. Loneliness within the metaphysical realm. Thank you.
I used to enjoy my loneliness before. But with time I am getting bonded with the only person I have in my life that's my partner. His actions, reactions are ruling over my emotions and feelings. I had never been to such a state. I have always been into myself more than with people and I had a proud feeling for that. But now things are changing and I am acting mad in his absence, without seeing or hearing him. I can only operate when I am distracted but again coming back to the same overthinking about his absence and his behaviour. I want to recover and revive myself without creating burden on my partner. Trying to find ways to heal and hence came to this video. Got motivated after hearing Sadhguru but I am not sure for how long I am gonna remain this motivated. Need prayers 🙏
Blessed are you souls that find joy in your alone time. I've yet to learn to get to this stage. I am generally alone, and I am seeking to be at peace with this fact. One day, Hare Krishna!
You know you got it made when you made it yourself! Be 1 with yourself n u will live from within because you r thinking thoughts of serenity & self entitlement. ❤😊
AS A CHILD, I RAN AWAY FROM PEOPLE TO MEADOWS FULL OF WONDERFUL CREATURES AND PLANTS.THEN CAME TIME FOR SCHOOLING AND THE TEACHERS CONSTANTLY ENCOURAGED US TO BE FRIENDLY WITH EACH OTHER.IT WAS EXTREMELY HARD FOR ME. I DID NOT BELONG TO THE ENERGY OF GIRLS, OR TO THE ENERGY OF BOYS.I WAS DIFFERENT AND THAT WILL FOLLOW ME FOR SURE ALL MY LIFE.I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED WITH THAT FACT.BUT, THEN, AS A CHILD, I SUFFERED TERRIBLY BECAUSE I DIDN'T FIT INTO THAT FRAME OF INDIVIDUAL CHARACTERISTIC SO THE CHILDREN NOTICED THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TRIED, I COULD NOT BE LIKE THEM.AND THAT'S WHEN I FELT FOR THE FIRST TIME WHAT ALIENATION MEAN OR WHEN THEY REJECT YOU FROM THEIR SOCIETY, AND WHISPER SO THAT I CAN'T HEAR AND BY THE GESTURES OF FACE I WOULD KNOW THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT ME AND HOW TO AVOID ME BECAUSE I WAS DANGEROUS TO THEM FROM UNKNOWN, UNUSUAL BEHAVIOR.I WAS SO HURT THAT I STARTED TO AVOID THEM AND ASSOCIATE WITH THOSE WHO WERE ON THE BLACK LIST. WITH THOSE WHO WERE PROBLEMATIC, I DID NOT HAVE THAT FEELING OF AVOIDANCE, BUT THEIR INFLUENCE ON ME WAS VERY BAD.AND THEN DECIDED THAT I DO NOT BELONG TO ANY GROUP AND THAT I FEEL BEST WHEN I AM ALONE.IT TOOK ME A LONG RUN TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I WRITTEN NOW AND TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE PROBLEM IS NOT IN ME BUT WITHIN THOSE WHO ARE NOT CAPABLE OF ACCEPTING DIFFERENT PERSONS WHO HAVE SOMETHING THAT OTHERS DO NOT HAVE.AND THAT IS EMPATHY FOR EVERYONE, BUT NOT IN THE SENSE OF PHYSICAL CONNECTION BUT IN THE SENSE OF UNDERSTANDING.AND NOW I'M ALONE, PHYSICALLY, BUT I ENJOY IT AND I FINALLY DON'T CONSIDER MYSELF SELFISH BECAUSE OF THAT, BUT HONEST TO MYSELF AND OTHERS.THANK YOU SADHGURU FOR THIS POST.IT MEANS A LOT WHEN TRUE VALUES ARE EMPHASIZED REGARDLESS OF SOCIAL NORMS.GREETINGS FROM ZAGREB, CROATIA! 🌬️🌀🌌🙏
being with people who listen to us and are simply there is the most healing thing there is. you just have to learn to distinguish which people are not. being alone if you want to be, great. but being alone should not be a substitute for avoiding people. communicating what is with us (feelings of any kind), with the right people, can be the most healing thing that can happen to us.
when everyone is celebrating new year i am watching this video and keeping my self calm … krishna please have mercy on me i never did anything wrong to anyone y i am suffering from this kind of pain after all i am your child .. please help me.. i am not happy .
Everyday, look into the mirror, say to yourself… I love myself, I am still alive, I am very grateful for what i have….saying for at least 3 months…you will see the difference…Good luck…
This vedio comes to me each time I'm searching for something relaxing be it songs or anything. ❤️❤️ Thankyou Sadhguru such deep precious knowledge it's so supportive to survive in this world 🙏
I can certainly relate to " I'm at my best when I'm alone"... Not means I'm incapable of bein with people and interact with them, but it's better to live without avoiding to slip into others leaks 😊
My guru I love u .I thank I for your teaching. I wish if one day I can touch your feet an feel your energy. Thank I for being here for us.I love u thank u
observe his thoughts, correct the posture....observe his thoughts....correct his posture....forget his thoughts....observe his structure....forget his thoughts....and lay down the head on the ground. then start again...until the void enters you! Naturally, without forcing! Soft with yourself, soft with your mind....
I always enjoy my own company When I was 15 years old one day my stepmother told me - you are egoistic, you always loves to spend time alone You'll always gonna stay alone. You'll die alone. NOONE gonna like you That moment I got hurt But now I realize I was never wrong But she definitely need a psychiatrist . She can't even sit alone for a minute
A question to the admired and respected Sadhguru I am confused; because all the scientific studies done so far, say that loneliness kills. And every new study reconfirms it. And that is part of the decay of old people; that they get lonely. But Sadhguru maintains, that it is very beneficial, to be alone.!!! I would love for Sadhguru to explain this incongruence of concepts... among people of science... Thanks a lot...
You are right , but in the world not everyone have a peaceful mind , I learn silence talk much more than words , but silence can kill if you don't calm the water ... Much people have a mean mind , watch your silence in the other place , people build an all wall around you and kill yourself slowly with the assumption they made without thinking Example.. If you say at all people you don't want war at the people do war with himself , and with your silence ... , with the words people trow , ...you make a light in the error they made , you clarify every aspect you can think People's see you like an enemy , you be start to be put down only because you say , you can even make war if you want , But look I don't want to be involved is not what i search .. so dont try to get closer I don't want to be involved in the power games , I don't want to understand it And people see you like an enemy , When you are not enemy neither friend , you clarify no? But i see people don't accept if you dont have a name behind to protect you ... They made an all story even if you say something different , everyone sees you like a coward Even you clarify you don't want anything to do it , with your life and the life around you in the first line Only because you clarify your will to not be in war Without take a position in any kind of part You are only there for say , let me be in peace , and no consequences with my fault or my trace happens And people put you down for this Yes you can't say in one take , so silence needed for see the reaction but it kill you or put you down , The assumption of the word you say for talk to everyone... The errors you clarify for everyone... The things you do , sees like another thing... People many times don't understand even if you talk the same language? .... I understand very well what you say , but not everyone can understand silence , many times it gives more chaos than words Because people need to prejudice you even if you clarify another thing Prejudice with a mean mind? Why? Because you talk at the moth in the shadows with analogy? Anyway one day i can polish my word to say it again
@Kateel amma.. Yes you are right madam.. Because of these kind of contents few youngsters are receiving the message wrongly.. One of my friends relative(23yrs girl) has completly misunderstood this message of being alone(not this particular video, i can see this is 2 days old) and now she has stopped being social not only outside even at home..She has cut friends, not interested in attending family functions, etc.. She stays in closed doors.. Remember if there is a continuity in video, ppl get clarity what he is trying to say,.. Some ppl lack judgement capacity and then just follow sadguru literally rather than understanding the core msg...pls stop.. Namaskaram🙏🏻
Being alone is very good because i have an experience of 3 yrs and being alone is very beautiful feeling i was an average student of my class but by being alone my mind become that much clean and calm and due to that reasons now i am an toper of my class so plz try this ones and don't forget to do meditation
"He who sits alone, sleeps alone, and walks alone, who is strenuous and subdues himself alone, will find delight in the solitude of the forest." The Buddha.
Humans do have an upper limit. All animals live between two lines, the lines for human can’t be drawn by human, since we don’t have that perspective, but we do have limits.
Being alone for me brings me so much peace, I have realised that I don’t need to have people around me.
It's better my dear,it bring peace of mind besides people can be a bad Energy
@@harrisongeorge6023 I agree ☝️
Couldn’t agree with you more 😊
But if there is someone who enjoys your success n walk with u in ur bad times believe me it's heaven to have him around.🤍
love it alone no drama
Key word.. if you know how to speak with your own soul, you know who you are.
I KNEW SOME PPL HAD TO GO 😢I WAS SO SCARED GUYS’ AFRAID TO BE ALONE! UNTIL I HAD NO CHOICE AND I LEARNED SOOOOOOO MUCH ABOUT ME ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I always wanted a family like I grew up in mom and dad and two brothers, but none of my relationships have ever worked out. A psychologist told me that no relationship is better than a bad relationship. Some people can't handle being alone and will have to be with someone, anyone except being alone. I have often found myself to be alone in a crowd. I'm very content being alone and find I have much more time to spend with my heart and music and thinking about who I am and why I'm here. Being alone is much more pleasant than drama drama drama! Now I will leave you alone
Being alone gives me so much rest and focus on how to take care of myself more. Having relationships just give me headaches and have to deal with a lot of stress.
Being alone is really very very blissful ❤️
Yes me tooo Alone.
People are not allowing me to alone,they think it's a issue
Me too bhrata
Fact
But lonely sometimes
.
Best quote: I love being alone because I don’t mess with myself! This is pure gold!🏆🌟🥇🏅👑
Your never alone but by yourself.we are God all one regardless of distance
Respect the line better to walk alone than to walk with a fool 🙏👌
A wale
I like myself, so I am never alone.
I am my best friend
Woww that's so good
Yes, treat yourself like your best friend….
❤❤
Being alone is a blissful but right now I am with myself everyday for many years, sometimes can be Lonely.
It’s better to walk alone than to walk with a fool❤👌that’s really very true… Gautam buddha is an spiritual hero ❤️
Well said...
no one fool in this world including you but you expected more than what you got that made u feel like fool y u blame on others for your own mistake.
Being alone is peace and power
It's a blessing being alone
Have listen to this guy for a long time, he seems like everyone else.
I came from the poor family we six siblings and I’m 2nd to the last my mom died when I was 12 years old, that age starting everything of my darkest hour like emotionally, physically and sexually abused, at the age of 16 I only have 2 dream in life, just to forgive people who hurt me before and to Live alone... now my God answered my prayers. .. here I am now living alone and very happy 🙏
Be alone, be happy .... It is peaceful ❤❤❤
Being alone equals being free. ❤
Alone, we came to this world and alone we will have to leave ! But it's the period in between, which is very difficult to leave alone !
SADH GURU YOU ARE GREAT STAY BLESSED ALWAYS
The alchemy of solitude. Computational biological coalescence. Non linear dynamics to the tune of minus infinity. Loneliness within the metaphysical realm. Thank you.
I love alone time❤️
thanks for this video....i need it ...at the right time got notification....
I used to enjoy my loneliness before. But with time I am getting bonded with the only person I have in my life that's my partner. His actions, reactions are ruling over my emotions and feelings. I had never been to such a state. I have always been into myself more than with people and I had a proud feeling for that. But now things are changing and I am acting mad in his absence, without seeing or hearing him. I can only operate when I am distracted but again coming back to the same overthinking about his absence and his behaviour. I want to recover and revive myself without creating burden on my partner. Trying to find ways to heal and hence came to this video. Got motivated after hearing Sadhguru but I am not sure for how long I am gonna remain this motivated. Need prayers 🙏
YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!
IN EVERYBODY HEART, ITS GOD!! ( little soul from of absolut Soul )
Every Sadguru video the same..pure gift to humankind..offering paths to calm the mind...mine included
Since I kept so many friends I found it sources of all problem .so I choices to remain I alone it work on me .u r right sathguru
Thank You Sadhguru. 🙂
Being alone has made my right arm extremely powerful🦾
Blessed are you souls that find joy in your alone time. I've yet to learn to get to this stage. I am generally alone, and I am seeking to be at peace with this fact. One day,
Hare Krishna!
One day at a time! And you’re not alone anymore :) I’m here my name is Christina nice to meet you.
@@Chrss977 nice to meet you too 👋🏻
True and only true. Namaskar Sadhguru 🙏🏻🥰My Guru❤️🧡💛💚💙💜💞🌎🎶
You know you got it made when you made it yourself! Be 1 with yourself n u will live from within because you r thinking thoughts of serenity & self entitlement. ❤😊
Thanks
Thank you Sadhguru, 🙏🙏🙏❤️
Thanks again guru, open minded ,evolve !📀
I enjoyed hearing the same thing 9 times - really drove the point home.
I'll be back tomorrow.
I'm happy to see you. Thanks.
This helps calm my mind in tough and messy times
that's my experience too 👌❤️
AS A CHILD, I RAN AWAY FROM PEOPLE TO MEADOWS FULL OF WONDERFUL CREATURES AND PLANTS.THEN CAME TIME FOR SCHOOLING AND THE TEACHERS CONSTANTLY ENCOURAGED US TO BE FRIENDLY WITH EACH OTHER.IT WAS EXTREMELY HARD FOR ME. I DID NOT BELONG TO THE ENERGY OF GIRLS, OR TO THE ENERGY OF BOYS.I WAS DIFFERENT AND THAT WILL FOLLOW ME FOR SURE ALL MY LIFE.I HAVE ACCOMPLISHED WITH THAT FACT.BUT, THEN, AS A CHILD, I SUFFERED TERRIBLY BECAUSE I DIDN'T FIT INTO THAT FRAME OF INDIVIDUAL CHARACTERISTIC SO THE CHILDREN NOTICED THAT NO MATTER HOW MUCH I TRIED, I COULD NOT BE LIKE THEM.AND THAT'S WHEN I FELT FOR THE FIRST TIME WHAT ALIENATION MEAN OR WHEN THEY REJECT YOU FROM THEIR SOCIETY, AND WHISPER SO THAT I CAN'T HEAR AND BY THE GESTURES OF FACE I WOULD KNOW THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT ME AND HOW TO AVOID ME BECAUSE I WAS DANGEROUS TO THEM FROM UNKNOWN, UNUSUAL BEHAVIOR.I WAS SO HURT THAT I STARTED TO AVOID THEM AND ASSOCIATE WITH THOSE WHO WERE ON THE BLACK LIST. WITH THOSE WHO WERE PROBLEMATIC, I DID NOT HAVE THAT FEELING OF AVOIDANCE, BUT THEIR INFLUENCE ON ME WAS VERY BAD.AND THEN DECIDED THAT I DO NOT BELONG TO ANY GROUP AND THAT I FEEL BEST WHEN I AM ALONE.IT TOOK ME A LONG RUN TO UNDERSTAND WHAT I WRITTEN NOW AND TO UNDERSTAND THAT THE PROBLEM IS NOT IN ME BUT WITHIN THOSE WHO ARE NOT CAPABLE OF ACCEPTING DIFFERENT PERSONS WHO HAVE SOMETHING THAT OTHERS DO NOT HAVE.AND THAT IS EMPATHY FOR EVERYONE, BUT NOT IN THE SENSE OF PHYSICAL CONNECTION BUT IN THE SENSE OF UNDERSTANDING.AND NOW I'M ALONE, PHYSICALLY, BUT I ENJOY IT AND I FINALLY DON'T CONSIDER MYSELF SELFISH BECAUSE OF THAT, BUT HONEST TO MYSELF AND OTHERS.THANK YOU SADHGURU FOR THIS POST.IT MEANS A LOT WHEN TRUE VALUES ARE EMPHASIZED REGARDLESS OF SOCIAL NORMS.GREETINGS FROM ZAGREB, CROATIA!
🌬️🌀🌌🙏
When one is not able to be happy and confident on his own, the nuicanse of being with others will finally always empower the opposite..
Sadhguru is very awesome and helpful thanks so much I'm forever grateful
Beautiful!
being with people who listen to us and are simply there is the most healing thing there is. you just have to learn to distinguish which people are not. being alone if you want to be, great. but being alone should not be a substitute for avoiding people. communicating what is with us (feelings of any kind), with the right people, can be the most healing thing that can happen to us.
when everyone is celebrating new year i am watching this video and keeping my self calm …
krishna please have mercy on me i never did anything wrong to anyone y i am suffering from this kind of pain after all i am your child .. please help me.. i am not happy .
Everyday, look into the mirror, say to yourself… I love myself, I am still alive, I am very grateful for what i have….saying for at least 3 months…you will see the difference…Good luck…
This vedio comes to me each time I'm
searching for something relaxing be it songs or anything. ❤️❤️ Thankyou Sadhguru such deep precious knowledge it's so supportive to survive in this world 🙏
I can certainly relate to " I'm at my best when I'm alone"... Not means I'm incapable of bein with people and interact with them, but it's better to live without avoiding to slip into others leaks 😊
My guru I love u .I thank I for your teaching. I wish if one day I can touch your feet an feel your energy. Thank I for being here for us.I love u thank u
Lots of facts spoken by Sadhguru in this video ♥👏
Thank you sadhguru for the wisdom over the many years. I have learned much from you.
Very true. Especially in today's world.
Being alone is better than be with yourself. You are a very wise man but not right about everything 😇
We find our centre being alone, also it doesn't mean self centeredness.
I am feelin proud to born me in Nepal where Buddha was Born.
😊I always believe that we come into this world alone and, we leave this world all by oneself too. I totally agree with Sadhguru 🧎❤️🧎🧘♂️
Needed this today ❤️👊🏾🙏🏾 thank you so much
NAMSKARAH. MASTER .
SO MUCH TRUELY.
SO MUCH THANKS FOR ALLS
HE LESSONS.
🤔.. Being alone is must,
In the spiritual path.
And being together is,
must in material life..
🙏🤗..
U will definitely get to know how to b 100% yourself...
wow, so much morew to sadhgooroo's words with all this video editing
harihi om
om namachchivaaya om
What a cool compilation.
Thank you 💙🦋🌹
Watch out for this guy 😉
Wow everybody does has some type of pride and perception dammm!
It sure cun been there my whole life even when married!
Till all become one.
Yeah, just got out from mental hospital, was always sleepy there , now ivbeen 36 hours awake no sleepy , yeh energy vampirism is real
I BE
Beginning and
End..
Amen
observe his thoughts, correct the posture....observe his thoughts....correct his posture....forget his thoughts....observe his structure....forget his thoughts....and lay down the head on the ground. then start again...until the void enters you! Naturally, without forcing! Soft with yourself, soft with your mind....
Kar dou
I love u
I always enjoy my own company
When I was 15 years old one day my stepmother told me - you are egoistic, you always loves to spend time alone
You'll always gonna stay alone.
You'll die alone. NOONE gonna like you
That moment I got hurt
But now I realize I was never wrong
But she definitely need a psychiatrist .
She can't even sit alone for a minute
Let’s go all your past…be present every moment…life is too short….no one will care about you, except yourself…just love yourself….
True
I love being alone. Thank you for all your support 🙏💕
Buddha would of never called anyone a fool but himself. He knows everything is a mirror.
BEING ALONE IS BLESS COZ YOU CAN THINK PEACEFUL OR PRAY , I LOVE BEING ALONE SA FREE
Being alone is same as immortal
A question to the admired and respected Sadhguru
I am confused; because all the scientific studies done so far, say that loneliness kills. And every new study reconfirms it.
And that is part of the decay of old people; that they get lonely.
But Sadhguru maintains, that it is very beneficial, to be alone.!!!
I would love for Sadhguru to explain this incongruence of concepts... among people of science... Thanks a lot...
Good one, thank you 👍🏻🙂
I also feel good being alone bcoz i tried a lot but never find a guy who think about me
i'm at my best when i'm alone
Please teach us how to work with each other how to stay with each other
Thissssss❤❤
🙏🙏🙏
Don't copy & paste multiple videos of Sadhguru into one. You are just spoiling the content & message we get from his single complete discourse.
Just take in the message.
You are right , but in the world not everyone have a peaceful mind ,
I learn silence talk much more than words ,
but silence can kill if you don't calm the water ...
Much people have a mean mind , watch your silence in the other place ,
people build an all wall around you and kill yourself slowly with the assumption they made without thinking
Example..
If you say at all people you don't want war at the people do war with himself ,
and with your silence ...
, with the words people trow ,
...you make a light in the error they made , you clarify every aspect you can think
People's see you like an enemy ,
you be start to be put down only because you say ,
you can even make war if you want ,
But look I don't want to be involved is not what i search ..
so dont try to get closer I don't want to be involved in the power games , I don't want to understand it
And people see you like an enemy ,
When you are not enemy neither friend , you clarify no?
But i see people don't accept if you dont have a name behind to protect you ...
They made an all story even if you say something different ,
everyone sees you like a coward
Even you clarify you don't want anything to do it , with your life
and the life around you in the first line
Only because you clarify your will to not be in war
Without take a position in any kind of part
You are only there for say ,
let me be in peace , and no consequences with my fault or my trace happens
And people put you down for this
Yes you can't say in one take , so silence needed for see the reaction but it kill you or put you down ,
The assumption of the word you say for talk to everyone...
The errors you clarify for everyone...
The things you do , sees like another thing...
People many times don't understand even if you talk the same language?
....
I understand very well what you say , but not everyone can understand silence ,
many times it gives more chaos than words
Because people need to prejudice you even if you clarify another thing
Prejudice with a mean mind?
Why?
Because you talk at the moth in the shadows with analogy?
Anyway one day i can polish my word to say it again
Make sense.
@Kateel amma.. Yes you are right madam.. Because of these kind of contents few youngsters are receiving the message wrongly.. One of my friends relative(23yrs girl) has completly misunderstood this message of being alone(not this particular video, i can see this is 2 days old) and now she has stopped being social not only outside even at home..She has cut friends, not interested in attending family functions, etc.. She stays in closed doors.. Remember if there is a continuity in video, ppl get clarity what he is trying to say,.. Some ppl lack judgement capacity and then just follow sadguru literally rather than understanding the core msg...pls stop.. Namaskaram🙏🏻
Don't tell people what to do!
Great
If You Are Willing Too.
Said the Universe.
I love being alone I don't even need a girlfriend but I appreciate them from a distance. Love my girls and my brothers ❤️
Thank You so much Sir for the Wisdom! Godbless Always 🙏🙏🙏
Plz prayer for me
❤️🕉️❤️
🙏
Why
What happened, Any sort of Depression?
Sending you love brother ❤🙏
Being alone is very good because i have an experience of 3 yrs and being alone is very beautiful feeling i was an average student of my class but by being alone my mind become that much clean and calm and due to that reasons now i am an toper of my class so plz try this ones and don't forget to do meditation
I love being alone!!
It's better to walk alone in this world where we find less number of trustworthy people..
❤
Walk alone.
"He who sits alone, sleeps alone, and walks alone, who is strenuous and subdues himself alone, will find delight in the solitude of the forest." The Buddha.
being alone is the only thing that gives me comfort
Being alone in a crowd is always difficult. When body is alone, its always nice, till i get bored 😅😂
When we walk with God, we never walk alone.
No one is peace ✌
I like it
Humans do have an upper limit. All animals live between two lines, the lines for human can’t be drawn by human, since we don’t have that perspective, but we do have limits.