The thing is even if it’s 13 hours you are working Errol, at some point it stops. The job of a stay-at-home mom is 24hrs. Swaggy is right about the mental toil. It is hard to be locked away with just kids all day every day. Swaggy doesn’t seem to have any close friends outside of the family. She doesn’t seem to ever do anything for herself and by herself. Women are emotional beings Errol and most of us are overthinkers. Men need to help and be understanding and show appreciation. The lack of sleep is not healthy either, it’s not about being miserable, lack of sleep can cause serious health issues. Be considerate. I know a lot of Jamaican men are not in touch with emotional topics or they avoid it, a symptom of how most were raised. The culture in Jamaica is that men should be tough and rough. And yes, I’m Jamaican, but now live in Canada. I know of what I speak. And as to when to talk to the boys about sexual harassment topics, now is good. Just explain to them that no one should touch their private parts and that they should always tell if they feel uncomfortable. Let them know you and Swaggy are their safe place ALWAYS!
Best advice I can give regarding "the topic" ALWAYS let your children know "NEVER KEEP SECRETS WITH ADULTS!" Tell them that anytime an adult tells them to keep "secrets" LET THEM KNOW THEY'RE NOT SAFE!!! At that point instruct them as their parents on what to do! Perverts/child molesters always thrive in secrecy and threats! Let your children know "surprises" are ok eg buying their teacher a birthday cake for birthday or making mommy a sweater etc" but "NO secrets". Children will always remember that!
Swaggy, try your best to meal prep. It will save you a lot of time in the kitchen. Also Errol you take the kids for a day/weekend and make Swaggy have a spa day by herself to relax! Do it more often for your wife she deserves it!
Swaggy if you not getting enough sleep in the night when errol gone work andvthe boys gone school in the day take a little nap when mila is taking her nap.
Errol, now is the time to teach them about not only men inappropriate touching but also women inappropriately touching them or them touching anyone inappropriately. This world has changed a lot. You both are working hard. Errol she is saying that because your work is external, she is internal. it's harder for her. You are around others she is alone. Be more loving and appreciate her more by playful touch, a kiss, or in words.❤❤
I’ve been a stay at home mum/ housewife for 8 years with 2 kids and moved to Grenada from London 2 years ago. It’s hard mum/wife life, mind is always running because there is something to do. Cleaning, cooking, kids mental heath, schooling, look after yourself, washing endlessly, cleaning. It’s hard sometimes I think I’m going crazy, depressed, feeling like I can’t do anything else this is me. Specially moving to a new country not knowing anyone it’s hard and money at time. But now getting better, finding hobbies, going out grocery shopping , pampering yourself helps. Balancing all jobs helps , there’s times when it’s hard and annoying being a stay at home mum /wife and good time. Think of it as this situation not permanent. Kids will grow up, life will change. 🤗
Lionel is a fast learner. Good on the recorder. Too cute seeing little Mila and her brother together on the sofa. On the topic of inappropriate sexual behaviour - talk now. Swaggy join a mum's group when the boys are at school or a dance class, even though you can dance, but just for company with creche. First, get car.😊
great video, Errol its never to talk to kids about boundaries, touching etc. House work is hard I give Swaggy credit for doing all without household help. Blessings to you all
Hi family! Errol, loving Mila's couch😊 The boys are smart and of the age to teach them about good touch and bad touch. Get right to it. Keep regular family meetings, and get each other's feed back. House work never ends whether you stay home or go out to work, just have to share and help each other balance it out.
Great vlog btw. Love the transparency. You two will be okay, a little bickering here and there is normal in marriage. Just make sure it doesn’t go on too long and that you talk through issues as they come up. You have a beautiful family and the devil doesn’t like that. Protect your family unit at all cost and be good examples for your precious kids.
I love your communication with each other, these topics are needed. However, Swaggy, you are fortunate, my mum had five children, one brother with autism, and she worked part time as a night nurse, (UK)to avoid anyone else caring, collecting from school. We were cared, loved, educated, the home spotless, meals on the table. I don’t know how she balanced this. Dad was amazing worked full time , helped with house, meals! Swaggy, Errol takes you and family for meals, social events. You are all blessed, be appreciative what you have ❤
I just love how these boys love and treat their sister. Mila, I love your couch. Leo a gwan man❤.The sooner the better..they need to know the difference between good touch and bad touch from now. They also need to know that not every adult or other kids can be trusted. I work in child protective service and it's not a comfortable topic but it's a needed topic. I had the same conversation with my daughter at age 5 when I know she can understand. She's now 14 years old, and I still have the same conversation because I see and hear a lot which always have me on my feet. Protecting our kids is our job as a parent, so every chance you get be in their ears about good and bad touch. Swaggy it's a fulltime job taking care of the house, huband, and kids. Errol, help her in every way you can so that she can get a break at times.Never stop dating each other, spending time together, and getting alone time with each other.
It's important to let the kids be aware of ďangers that they should be aware of, good touch versus bad touch. Let them know that they are the boss of their bodies.
Now, is the right time to talk to the boys. If someone touches them inappropriately and they feel uncomfortable, they should tell their teacher (and it better not be the damn teacher touching them) or you or Swaggy about the incident. I would say another adult they trust, but what adult can you trust nowadays. Some adults are shady as hell. Lionel did VERY WELL playing the flute (instrument). Keep up the good work.
There’s no right age as early as they can understand now is the time. Mila sits in her chair like a grown woman congratulation guys on your game. Continue playing your flute. Love it. Good job, family.❤
Talk to your children about inappropriate behaviour as soon as they are able to relate to you what happens when they are not in your presence. Errol remember that your marriage is like an investment. Keep the sparks going.
Now is the right time to tell them about inappropriate touching or saying. The earlier you tell them is the better for them. It's about protecting them from now .
Tell them now and also not to touch anybody inappropriately. Not only adults alone do this. There are kids that are inappropriate with other kids as well because they were groomed either at home or elsewhere. Also pray over them for Almighty God to protect them as well both your boys and little girl.Too many perverts out there and they target the very young, innocent ones. You can also by Christian books for children that explain good touch versus bad touch.
From they can understand and ask questions (as young as 3) you can teach them about good touch (like when mom or dad is giving them a bath). No one should touch their private parts at anytime without mom or dad being present (e.g. health professional).
Tell them from now, it’s never to early to learn bout them things. Ahhhh they way I got excited thinking it was a video of Swaggy dancing lol. Love and blessings family ❤
👋Swaggy n Errol hope ur all having a fantastic weekend, I’ve taught my son & helped him teach my grandson everything age appropriate(my views only) from around 8-10yrs old, for me it was good as they’re both open 2 learning n I’m proud of that 🙂🙏🙏🙏
Good day to you n your family n it's so good for you n your husband sit down n talking to them about good touching n bad one not only people out there but also family ❤😂
Hey Errol and Swaggy, as Bible believing Christians, you should know that there is no such thing as a previous life and the next life. However, there is the after life, (eternity) where you either go to Heaven or Hell.
Swaggy now and again try to twig her hair as short as it is it can be done andput on her bow especially when she is going out..She is adapting so much to her space the environment and the family togetherness.
Swaggy sometimes needs a break. Being a stay-at-home mom is not easy. But I also don't see where she has any friendships either. Being with kids all day long is tiring. I was a single parent with 1 child. But I also worked full time. It was nice to have those friendships at work.
Errol, I like the way you think... Let the children know now in casual conversations about what is appropriate touches, and any touch or conversation that makes you uncomfortable walk away, and or use your words to say NO. Tell Mommy and Daddy immediately. They are not too young. Mila can listen in as you speak with the boys... dinner table conversation is Good.
Coñgrats on reaching 100k,l.Talk now, they will understand, dont wait until later Errol, i love that beautiful couch fir Mila and its pretty pink.❤❤❤Good dad Errol.
OMG..Mila and her little couch...to cute!! I can see shes already loving it! Good on Leo playing his recorder!! He's learnt a few tunes. Mila was the singer!! 😂😂😂😂 As for "touching" my girlfriend started with her daughter around 3yrs old. Very simple teaching of the private area ,what they are..and then "nobody touches her pelvic area, only mummy and daddy" The boys are old enough now to start learning. Just make it age appropriate. There may be a books or two to help teach them also.
Swaggy, yu , mi gurl...man you're too funny ❤, but i must admit i experience the same as you do. When my husband tells me it's not so, I assure him it's so in my world, so he needs to adjust to help me manage my emotions. Once Errol understands your perspective, he'll be quicker to help more. Trust me mentally keeping it together is more taxing than physical work. That you can rest from, but the mental part need more. By the way Swaggy, each day I have a cup of tea comprised of thyme, rosemary, and basil. It calms and helps you have a more restful sleep. Housemakers have a heck of a lot to do. Nuff respect 🙏
I haven't slept through the night since I got pregnant with my son. He's now 8, so can u imagine 😢 Sometimes my body literally just crash. I only have one child, so Swaggy, I know it must be hard some days for you. But women were made to be strong 💪
When wrapping up a channel or transitioning to a different focus, you can consider creating a heartfelt ‘farewell’ video or message, reflecting on your journey and thanking your viewers for their support. Sharing key highlights and expressing genuine gratitude helps create a memorable closure. If you’re shifting directions, invite your audience to join you in the next step, whether it’s through a new project, channel, or focus. This approach can maintain connection and allow for positive growth. This ending was much appreciated. 👍🏾 It’s important to talk to young children about sexual harassment early, using age-appropriate language. Focus on body boundaries, safe and unsafe touch, and encouraging them to speak up if something makes them uncomfortable. I agree-Swaggy could benefit from more time outside the house to build independence. Staying home with the kids all day can be overwhelming, so engaging in outside activities or interests would give her a needed break and boost her well-being.
It was cute when Mila realized that she was getting a pink couch. That is really great that you and your wife let the kids have a gadget break. It’s not healthy for kids to be using electronics too often and for many hours. Based on the conversation that you and your wife were having in the kitchen, it sounds like your wife, needs a job and in - person. Or she needs to go out more often, make new friends, socialize, or visit your family. It seems like she stays home a lot and it is affecting her mentally and emotionally. Also Errol, your wife is upset. She is explaining to you how she feels. She is expressing herself. And I feel like at times you were just trying to trying to gloss it over, like everything is ok. But it is not. Please work on being patient, understanding and compassionate. These are things that can improve your marriage. Also, the both of you need to spend more time together and do different and fun things. I didn’t see a problem with the way you ended your videos. It is fine to me.
Tlk to em now guys ... This society we living is cold hearted ... I have two boys n currently with third am a working mom bt since this pregnancy i had to stop cause this pregnancy is rough n it aint easy cause am not use to staying home so long.. n to manage the kids and house cause a mental strain on mii from times to get imes... I just taking it one step at a time....
Wow she really handle the chopper well to the Chicken; It's the same way I do it in order to save and protect the counter top; by not chopping and chopping. Only one thing should first take out the curry and chopper before wet your hand.
Staying at home with the kids is hard Swaggy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Being able to get out the house and only worry about yourself and your job is definitely less draining. I’ve done both and I almost lost my mind as a stay at home mom. Looking back, I do wish I appreciated it more because now the kids are bigger and I realized how quickly the time flew. But understand everything is for a season. You can focus on other things now that you don’t need to be bogged down by making a living. Maybe join a dance class, become a dance teacher, go to workout classes. Whatever it is to bring some balance. I don’t think ppl understand the importance of balance. It’s hard when you’re 100% only focused on the house and kids. Add a little balance in the mix. Sending you both love❤❤❤
Married 24yrs. 2adulting boys, I was a Stay at home mom for all their school years. Its hard work. Make sure you show Swaggy you appreciate her, and the same goes for Swaggy with Errol. Love to see you both smiling. Get a car swaggy, and if the finances allow it, take a mommy and me class with Mila, even if you have to go to Kingston for it. When Mila starts school take a class for yourself. important to keep loving on yourself.
Happy Sunday to the family. A very intellectual conversation between you and your spouse. Now is the best time to teach your boys what is right from wrong in dealing with people. Enjoy the rest of your day. Blessings 🎉❤❤
Hey Swaggy and Errol, I asked my aunt how she would answer y'all question in the title because I don't have any kids and she said it's kind of lifelong in her opinion. She said when they are little and able to understand tell mommy and daddy if anybody tries to touch your private parts and ongoing all of it being age appropriate. She said her kids feel comfortable talking to her because she always talked to them about it. Her kids are 28, 19, and 12. Two girls and the youngest is a boy. I love y'all's family and so happy I found you, sending peace, love, and blessings from California to Jamaica!❤
Swaggy maybe a little independence could help. Go out by yourself sometimes to do the grocery shopping or otherwise. And always remember that you are a couple too... you need couple time. The kids can maybe stay with their Aunty for the weekend while you guys go out without them and have some alone time, that's very important because you guys have to keep your connection. Also, believe me when I say the boys probably know and understand a lot more than you think. They might be hearing about things at school. I would suggest bringing up the conversation little by little, because its not a one-time conversation. Ultimately it will be about what works for your family, and they have the best parents to learn right from wrong. Ya'll got this!
You are a loving couple. Continue to work together. Get a baby sitter, have date nights and cha ge up your routine. Compromise and never stop showing appreciation for each other. May God continue to bless your union.
There is no comparison Being a stay at home mom is a full time job,. Yes you go out and work .. But her work is harder than yours.. just appreciate her as she appreciates you.. don’t think you are working harder than her .. her mental is important .
Lol this conversation makes me laugh house work is hard but man has to go out and make a living so you can stay home with your children you have a Privilege Wifie it’s a blessing to stay home so many of us wish we could so be thankful yes and that true you will have quality time when they get older you have a good husband
Would be great to see the Stevens family go to Disney World. Maybe we could group fund it and/or Disney could sponsor them to advertise their amusement park for families.
Swaggy needs to get a car so can get out of the house during the days.Creat stuff to do for herself, do some alone time, self care is very important.Errol needs to do some night duty, Swaggy can get some sleep.
The thing is even if it’s 13 hours you are working Errol, at some point it stops. The job of a stay-at-home mom is 24hrs. Swaggy is right about the mental toil. It is hard to be locked away with just kids all day every day. Swaggy doesn’t seem to have any close friends outside of the family. She doesn’t seem to ever do anything for herself and by herself. Women are emotional beings Errol and most of us are overthinkers. Men need to help and be understanding and show appreciation. The lack of sleep is not healthy either, it’s not about being miserable, lack of sleep can cause serious health issues. Be considerate. I know a lot of Jamaican men are not in touch with emotional topics or they avoid it, a symptom of how most were raised. The culture in Jamaica is that men should be tough and rough. And yes, I’m Jamaican, but now live in Canada. I know of what I speak. And as to when to talk to the boys about sexual harassment topics, now is good. Just explain to them that no one should touch their private parts and that they should always tell if they feel uncomfortable. Let them know you and Swaggy are their safe place ALWAYS!
Really love the comment , got me thinking 👍🏿
Best advice I can give regarding "the topic" ALWAYS let your children know "NEVER KEEP SECRETS WITH ADULTS!" Tell them that anytime an adult tells them to keep "secrets" LET THEM KNOW THEY'RE NOT SAFE!!! At that point instruct them as their parents on what to do! Perverts/child molesters always thrive in secrecy and threats! Let your children know "surprises" are ok eg buying their teacher a birthday cake for birthday or making mommy a sweater etc" but "NO secrets". Children will always remember that!
That’s some great advice 🙏🏾
Swaggy, try your best to meal prep. It will save you a lot of time in the kitchen. Also Errol you take the kids for a day/weekend and make Swaggy have a spa day by herself to relax! Do it more often for your wife she deserves it!
Swaggy if you not getting enough sleep in the night when errol gone work andvthe boys gone school in the day take a little nap when mila is taking her nap.
Errol, now is the time to teach them about not only men inappropriate touching but also women inappropriately touching them or them touching anyone inappropriately. This world has changed a lot. You both are working hard. Errol she is saying that because your work is external, she is internal. it's harder for her. You are around others she is alone. Be more loving and appreciate her more by playful touch, a kiss, or in words.❤❤
Definitely tell them now. Check in with them periodically, and remind them to be sure to tell you if anyone ever try to touch them inappropriately.
I’ve been a stay at home mum/ housewife for 8 years with 2 kids and moved to Grenada from London 2 years ago. It’s hard mum/wife life, mind is always running because there is something to do. Cleaning, cooking, kids mental heath, schooling, look after yourself, washing endlessly, cleaning. It’s hard sometimes I think I’m going crazy, depressed, feeling like I can’t do anything else this is me. Specially moving to a new country not knowing anyone it’s hard and money at time. But now getting better, finding hobbies, going out grocery shopping , pampering yourself helps. Balancing all jobs helps , there’s times when it’s hard and annoying being a stay at home mum /wife and good time. Think of it as this situation not permanent. Kids will grow up, life will change. 🤗
It is definitely challenging, but you are doing great! It takes a strong woman to balance so many things.
Oh, CONGRATULATIONS on your 100k UA-cam subscribers award 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Appreciate the support 🙏🏾
Lionel is a fast learner. Good on the recorder. Too cute seeing little Mila and her brother together on the sofa. On the topic of inappropriate sexual behaviour - talk now. Swaggy join a mum's group when the boys are at school or a dance class, even though you can dance, but just for company with creche. First, get car.😊
great video, Errol its never to talk to kids about boundaries, touching etc. House work is hard I give Swaggy credit for doing all without household help. Blessings to you all
Hi family! Errol, loving Mila's couch😊 The boys are smart and of the age to teach them about good touch and bad touch. Get right to it. Keep regular family meetings, and get each other's feed back. House work never ends whether you stay home or go out to work, just have to share and help each other balance it out.
The boys are at an age now for that talk,even 3 yr olds now r way advanced than 3 yrs old back then,these kids r smart.
Great vlog btw. Love the transparency. You two will be okay, a little bickering here and there is normal in marriage. Just make sure it doesn’t go on too long and that you talk through issues as they come up. You have a beautiful family and the devil doesn’t like that. Protect your family unit at all cost and be good examples for your precious kids.
Appreciate the support and advice. 🙏🏾
Protect your baby's tell them now and keep telling them.
It is time to give them the talk..Not too graphic but, start teaching them. Trust no adult alone with your babies. Stranger or family.
Errol my nephew is 6 yrs old , me and his mom have the conversation with him and he understands very well
I really appreciate Errol taking on the ironing of the boys clothes..... admirable ❤
I understand where you coming from Swaggy. Errol i hope you're paying attention to what she's saying
I love your communication with each other, these topics are needed. However, Swaggy, you are fortunate, my mum had five children, one brother with autism, and she worked part time as a night nurse, (UK)to avoid anyone else caring, collecting from school. We were cared, loved, educated, the home spotless, meals on the table. I don’t know how she balanced this. Dad was amazing worked full time , helped with house, meals! Swaggy, Errol takes you and family for meals, social events. You are all blessed, be appreciative what you have ❤
I just love how these boys love and treat their sister. Mila, I love your couch. Leo a gwan man❤.The sooner the better..they need to know the difference between good touch and bad touch from now. They also need to know that not every adult or other kids can be trusted. I work in child protective service and it's not a comfortable topic but it's a needed topic. I had the same conversation with my daughter at age 5 when I know she can understand. She's now 14 years old, and I still have the same conversation because I see and hear a lot which always have me on my feet. Protecting our kids is our job as a parent, so every chance you get be in their ears about good and bad touch. Swaggy it's a fulltime job taking care of the house, huband, and kids. Errol, help her in every way you can so that she can get a break at times.Never stop dating each other, spending time together, and getting alone time with each other.
It's important to let the kids be aware of ďangers that they should be aware of, good touch versus bad touch. Let them know that they are the boss of their bodies.
Now, is the right time to talk to the boys. If someone touches them inappropriately and they feel uncomfortable, they should tell their teacher (and it better not be the damn teacher touching them) or you or Swaggy about the incident. I would say another adult they trust, but what adult can you trust nowadays. Some adults are shady as hell. Lionel did VERY WELL playing the flute (instrument). Keep up the good work.
There’s no right age as early as they can understand now is the time. Mila sits in her chair like a grown woman congratulation guys on your game. Continue playing your flute. Love it. Good job, family.❤
Great job Leo very talented but wait no that baby just born the other day look how she sitting up watching TV stay blessed
Time really does fly by 😊
Perhaps Swaggy needs to get a car. Then, she can drive out sometimes.
Talk to your children about inappropriate behaviour as soon as they are able to relate to you what happens when they are not in your presence. Errol remember that your marriage is like an investment. Keep the sparks going.
Nice job Lionel, you put a smile 😊 on my face. Mela a coming to sit on that beautiful pink sofa 😊💕
Glad you enjoyed watching!
Now is the right time to tell them about inappropriate touching or saying. The earlier you tell them is the better for them. It's about protecting them from now .
Yes now is the time to talk to the kids
Everything irie girl🇯🇲🇯🇲
Swaggy a dancer lonnngg time! Big ups.
Tell them now and also not to touch anybody inappropriately. Not only adults alone do this. There are kids that are inappropriate with other kids as well because they were groomed either at home or elsewhere. Also pray over them for Almighty God to protect them as well both your boys and little girl.Too many perverts out there and they target the very young, innocent ones. You can also by Christian books for children that explain good touch versus bad touch.
ALWAYS GODS BLESSINGS TO YOU STEVEN FAMILY, BIG UP YOURSELF MOMMA SWAGGY
Go Mila big girl enjoying the new peace of furniture 😎
HieStevens family, bless up. Just a note to Swaggy, this is how it is when you've got small children, they won't stay small forever.
From they can understand and ask questions (as young as 3) you can teach them about good touch (like when mom or dad is giving them a bath). No one should touch their private parts at anytime without mom or dad being present (e.g. health professional).
Great I instrumental rendition 👏👏👏
Tell them from now, it’s never to early to learn bout them things.
Ahhhh they way I got excited thinking it was a video of Swaggy dancing lol. Love and blessings family ❤
Errol in these times from them born you have to start teach them what to look out for
A happy family.Mila likes her new coach,very thoughtful,Errol❤❤❤
👋Swaggy n Errol hope ur all having a fantastic weekend, I’ve taught my son & helped him teach my grandson everything age appropriate(my views only) from around 8-10yrs old, for me it was good as they’re both open 2 learning n I’m proud of that 🙂🙏🙏🙏
Errol ,Swaggy,and the two masters &little princess, sunday morning 🌄 blessings to you all from across the miles in the 🇬🇧 UK
Swaggy you do a lot of work and you have a good husband.
Appreciate the love and support ♥️
Very talented kids love them
Good job Leo, Danny is a champ talking about chlling and having picnic.😅
Swaggy u a bad dancer
Good day to you n your family n it's so good for you n your husband sit down n talking to them about good touching n bad one not only people out there but also family ❤😂
Shaggy is a beautiful girl!!
You both are great parents and partners healthy communication is good ❤❤❤❤
Hey Errol and Swaggy, as Bible believing Christians, you should know that there is no such thing as a previous life and the next life. However, there is the after life, (eternity) where you either go to Heaven or Hell.
Errol your boys are very smart so you can talk to them now take your time and explain to them
I loooove Mila's sofa ... She already knows the purpose of it.....she is growing so 6:52 nicely... good job mom, Dad and boys ❤
Swaggie looks Absolutely 👌🏿 Erroll wifie, she growing fast
Swaggy now and again try to twig her hair as short as it is it can be done andput on her bow especially when she is going out..She is adapting so much to her space the environment and the family togetherness.
Swaggy sometimes needs a break. Being a stay-at-home mom is not easy. But I also don't see where she has any friendships either. Being with kids all day long is tiring. I was a single parent with 1 child. But I also worked full time. It was nice to have those friendships at work.
I understand, it's important to have a support system
Go big dancer Swaggie. 😂😂❤❤
Well done Leo, I remember learning Mary had a little lamb on the recorder as well.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
RIGHT NOW…and don’t wait.
Meaningful conversation, in the most charming and understanding way. Good job Errol and Swaggy. Smile on my face.❤❤
Errol, I like the way you think... Let the children know now in casual conversations about what is appropriate touches, and any touch or conversation that makes you uncomfortable walk away, and or use your words to say NO. Tell Mommy and Daddy immediately. They are not too young. Mila can listen in as you speak with the boys... dinner table conversation is Good.
Coñgrats on reaching 100k,l.Talk now, they will understand, dont wait until later Errol, i love that beautiful couch fir Mila and its pretty pink.❤❤❤Good dad Errol.
Thank you 😊
Have date nights have the kids stay with their aunt and take weekend vacation sometimes😊
Wow Lionel was great on the recorder!
Blessings Stephen's family
Swaggy, you need to have some friends, 24 hours at home can drive you crazy. But a stay at home mom is quite welcome if you both decide on it.😊.
You got rhythm swaggy nuff nuff
OMG..Mila and her little couch...to cute!! I can see shes already loving it!
Good on Leo playing his recorder!! He's learnt a few tunes. Mila was the singer!! 😂😂😂😂
As for "touching" my girlfriend started with her daughter around 3yrs old. Very simple teaching of the private area ,what they are..and then "nobody touches her pelvic area, only mummy and daddy"
The boys are old enough now to start learning. Just make it age appropriate. There may be a books or two to help teach them also.
Swaggy, yu , mi gurl...man you're too funny ❤, but i must admit i experience the same as you do. When my husband tells me it's not so, I assure him it's so in my world, so he needs to adjust to help me manage my emotions. Once Errol understands your perspective, he'll be quicker to help more. Trust me mentally keeping it together is more taxing than physical work. That you can rest from, but the mental part need more. By the way Swaggy, each day I have a cup of tea comprised of thyme, rosemary, and basil. It calms and helps you have a more restful sleep. Housemakers have a heck of a lot to do. Nuff respect 🙏
I haven't slept through the night since I got pregnant with my son. He's now 8, so can u imagine 😢 Sometimes my body literally just crash. I only have one child, so Swaggy, I know it must be hard some days for you. But women were made to be strong 💪
I feel you!
I love this conversation between you two I love how you respond to each other ❤❤❤
Appreciate the love and support ❤️
When wrapping up a channel or transitioning to a different focus, you can consider creating a heartfelt ‘farewell’ video or message, reflecting on your journey and thanking your viewers for their support. Sharing key highlights and expressing genuine gratitude helps create a memorable closure. If you’re shifting directions, invite your audience to join you in the next step, whether it’s through a new project, channel, or focus. This approach can maintain connection and allow for positive growth. This ending was much appreciated. 👍🏾 It’s important to talk to young children about sexual harassment early, using age-appropriate language. Focus on body boundaries, safe and unsafe touch, and encouraging them to speak up if something makes them uncomfortable. I agree-Swaggy could benefit from more time outside the house to build independence. Staying home with the kids all day can be overwhelming, so engaging in outside activities or interests would give her a needed break and boost her well-being.
It was cute when Mila realized that she was getting a pink couch.
That is really great that you and your wife let the kids have a gadget break. It’s not healthy for kids to be using electronics too often and for many hours.
Based on the conversation that you and your wife were having in the kitchen, it sounds like your wife, needs a job and in - person. Or she needs to go out more often, make new friends, socialize, or visit your family. It seems like she stays home a lot and it is affecting her mentally and emotionally.
Also Errol, your wife is upset. She is explaining to you how she feels. She is expressing herself. And I feel like at times you were just trying to trying to gloss it over, like everything is ok. But it is not. Please work on being patient, understanding and compassionate. These are things that can improve your marriage. Also, the both of you need to spend more time together and do different and fun things.
I didn’t see a problem with the way you ended your videos. It is fine to me.
Tlk to em now guys ... This society we living is cold hearted ... I have two boys n currently with third am a working mom bt since this pregnancy i had to stop cause this pregnancy is rough n it aint easy cause am not use to staying home so long.. n to manage the kids and house cause a mental strain on mii from times to get imes... I just taking it one step at a time....
Appreciate you sharing your experience ♥️
Wow she really handle the chopper well to the Chicken;
It's the same way I do it in order to save and protect the counter top; by not chopping and chopping.
Only one thing should first take out the curry and chopper before wet your hand.
Appreciate the advice!
Staying at home with the kids is hard Swaggy. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Being able to get out the house and only worry about yourself and your job is definitely less draining. I’ve done both and I almost lost my mind as a stay at home mom. Looking back, I do wish I appreciated it more because now the kids are bigger and I realized how quickly the time flew. But understand everything is for a season. You can focus on other things now that you don’t need to be bogged down by making a living. Maybe join a dance class, become a dance teacher, go to workout classes. Whatever it is to bring some balance. I don’t think ppl understand the importance of balance. It’s hard when you’re 100% only focused on the house and kids. Add a little balance in the mix. Sending you both love❤❤❤
Married 24yrs. 2adulting boys, I was a Stay at home mom for all their school years. Its hard work. Make sure you show Swaggy you appreciate her, and the same goes for Swaggy with Errol. Love to see you both smiling. Get a car swaggy, and if the finances allow it, take a mommy and me class with Mila, even if you have to go to Kingston for it. When Mila starts school take a class for yourself. important to keep loving on yourself.
Happy Sunday to the family. A very intellectual conversation between you and your spouse.
Now is the best time to teach your boys what is right from wrong in dealing with people.
Enjoy the rest of your day. Blessings 🎉❤❤
Hey Swaggy and Errol, I asked my aunt how she would answer y'all question in the title because I don't have any kids and she said it's kind of lifelong in her opinion. She said when they are little and able to understand tell mommy and daddy if anybody tries to touch your private parts and ongoing all of it being age appropriate. She said her kids feel comfortable talking to her because she always talked to them about it. Her kids are 28, 19, and 12. Two girls and the youngest is a boy. I love y'all's family and so happy I found you, sending peace, love, and blessings from California to Jamaica!❤
Blessings family 🙏❤
Great Vlog guys. Stay blessed.
Big up unnu self hope that you guys never fall out of love cause trust me you guys have thought me so much and I just wanna say thank you guys. 🎉
Swaggy maybe a little independence could help. Go out by yourself sometimes to do the grocery shopping or otherwise. And always remember that you are a couple too... you need couple time. The kids can maybe stay with their Aunty for the weekend while you guys go out without them and have some alone time, that's very important because you guys have to keep your connection.
Also, believe me when I say the boys probably know and understand a lot more than you think. They might be hearing about things at school. I would suggest bringing up the conversation little by little, because its not a one-time conversation. Ultimately it will be about what works for your family, and they have the best parents to learn right from wrong. Ya'll got this!
Swaggie Christmas a come bake up some cake nuh
Yea man
Swaggy are you twerking 😂😂😂😂
I love guys 😍
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BLESSINGS
Now is the right age to speak to your boys about it. Molestation happens at any age, you have to teach your boys what is inappropriate.
Lionel awesome
You are a loving couple. Continue to work together. Get a baby sitter, have date nights and cha ge up your routine. Compromise and never stop showing appreciation for each other. May God continue to bless your union.
Santana dance challenge Swaggy I am challenging you to do this dance
Great video guys, you are keepin it real. Can you tell us the name of the exercise video ?
Yeah swaggy do your thing.
There is no comparison
Being a stay at home mom is a full time job,. Yes you go out and work .. But her work is harder than yours.. just appreciate her as she appreciates you.. don’t think you are working harder than her .. her mental is important .
Lol this conversation makes me laugh house work is hard but man has to go out and make a living so you can stay home with your children you have a Privilege Wifie it’s a blessing to stay home so many of us wish we could so be thankful yes and that true you will have quality time when they get older you have a good husband
I do her workouts too she’s great fit body Ashley 😊
The role of a stay home mom is often taken for granted. Errol, try to help a little more around the home. Swaggy sounds tired. She needs some me time.
AMEN
Would be great to see the Stevens family go to Disney World. Maybe we could group fund it and/or Disney could sponsor them to advertise their amusement park for families.
Wht u guys gonna do next year for the 10 year anniversary?
No plans yet but sure something special 💭
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Swaggy needs to get a car so can get out of the house during the days.Creat stuff to do for herself, do some alone time, self care is very important.Errol needs to do some night duty, Swaggy can get some sleep.