Do girls like only tall guys? Short guys dating advice | Relationship Talk #18

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  • @nadinedobson2615
    @nadinedobson2615 2 роки тому +19

    This is a great video. "Stereotype fighters", yessss!!! As a tall woman, I appreciate your transparency. I'm learning to be more open minded and not so stuck on a specific height of men. Having matching values matter more to me. Love is love and can be found in all shapes and sizes ♥️

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you for the comment! 💜 To have preferences is absolutely fine, but often it comes different than expected anyway. 😄

  • @henriquecunha344
    @henriquecunha344 2 роки тому +10

    I used to think similarly to the guy who is arguing a lot. And he has good points. It's true that, in general, the dating life is a unfair to us, guys below average height. I've seen people who prefer people who like fat, skinny, muscular, short or tall women and tall guys, but I've never seen liking short guys. The closest to that is the girl not caring about the short guy's height. It's really unfair to be out of the game sometimes because of something you don't deserve and can't change. But here's the thing: everyone is entitled to have likes and preferences. I have been rejected solely because of height and that's okay. She didn't express it as a bad person, she just said she thought we didn't match (if she expressed it as bad person, saying that I'm bad because of my height or something like that, than it wouldn't be okay. But even in this case it wouldn't be my fault, it would be hers for being a bad person). It hurts, obviously, but it's her opinion. Just like I myself have my likes and have rejected women in my life.
    We gotta evaluated life case by case and don't make generalizations like this because if we do, we might lose something good. I mean, if I think all tall girls hate me, then if I meet one that likes me I myself will drive her away because of this crossed hatred.
    Another thing: meeting people on-line tend to be bad for short guys because the girl can evaluate the height separately (sometimes it works, like you guys lol). I've ditched Tinder more than one year ago and it was the best thing I ever did.
    Keep with this great thing you're doing guys, you have an important role in normalizing the tall girl+short guy couples. May more and more people see you guys and feel empowered to be with who they want!

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +5

      Hi there! Thank you soooo much for this comment. It helps a lot! Very well explained and exactly how we meant it as well! We also don't think the commenter is completely wrong... just the mindset is too extreme and if this person is who we think he is, he was also very rude commenting before already. Short guys have it harder, especially online, as you said... you will most probably not get a chance there, because there is just one way of judging … shallow on the first glance. Nobody sees there how someone is in real life, how funny, how cool, how whatever... I think it's the right choice to abandon dating apps (honestly, most of them are anyway for ONS... and the shallowness is even bigger there). Thank you one more time... also for understanding, why we do all this. We are trying to normalize our kind of relationships, that more people see it out there and maybe think about it. 💜

  • @nigelsdebbie
    @nigelsdebbie 2 роки тому +15

    I love this, very well put! I'm 5'10" and had dated tall men and shorter men but I married my husband of 35 years (together 40 years this year) and he is 5'6". Height has nothing to do with what's in a man's heart!❤

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you! 💜 Also for commenting and giving another example. 40 years! Wow 🥰🥰🥰 That’s great! 💜

    • @nigelsdebbie
      @nigelsdebbie 2 роки тому

      @@simianddanny 💗

    • @mrgenetics4063
      @mrgenetics4063 2 роки тому

      You probably regret being with a short guy because taller men have a bigger package

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +4

      Just letting this comment here to educate. Height has nothing to do with this, it’s like saying all tall girls have big boobs. Check statistics about average sizes in the world and you will see, that Ecuador has the biggest measurements (17,61cm) down there by on average height of 1,67 m. USA stands with 13,58 cm at a height of 1,77 m in average. Funny that so many guys are so penis fixated, but literally know just their own.

    • @nigelsdebbie
      @nigelsdebbie 2 роки тому +1

      @@simianddanny I agree, I think it is a funny statement because his reply is totally incorrect!🤣

  • @trademalta7329
    @trademalta7329 Рік тому

    I really appreciate you guys for this channel it really helps me come to terms with myself and shows love is stronger than any dumb stereotype I had a girlfriend who was taller than me and after her I feel most comfortable that way and want to get married just like you guys waiting for the right woman to live and enjoy life with praying for a forever fulfilling relationship for you guys ! Bless you for the positivity 🙏

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  Рік тому

      And we appreciate you and your nice words. Thanks 🙏 We really need to get this channel going again. Just waiting for our baby boy at the moment. 💙

  • @kokainum
    @kokainum 2 роки тому +2

    I'm so glad I can see you again guys. I remember I wrote similar things on your live videos as this guy and I was very gloomy. And I understand that because I experienced being left for another guy that happened to be taller and later I experienced a lot of disrespect and very sad, toxic comments about my height from women on dating apps. And I'm 5'9'' so I'm not that short. Tbh I still haven't been succesful there, and that would be about 9 years. In general I advise to stay away from dating apps unless you look like a god. I think for a regular guy it's much better to meet women face to face. Anyway, after some sad comments from women on dating apps, I started to overanalyze the reasons why my ex left me and I told myself it was because of my height and it was all based on these comments, the fact that the guy she left me happaned to be taller (but not much tbh) and the fact that once she said to me "you're not that short when you don't slouch". So I think it is very important not to fall into obsessive thoughts and if someone needs it, one should go for therapy (I have).
    The other things is that whole society and lifestyle we are offered by mainstream media is toxic. It's not only about short men. Tbh it's now 'cool' to hate men. So we need to toughen up a bit. Focus on what we can do. Find friends. Male friends are very important. Talk to others, you're not alone. Women are being fed feminist propaganda and are taught to hate and disrespect men. It has nothing to do with your value. Focus on work, become succesful for yourself, invest your young years. Men are having it a bit easier in that part that we get more value later in life, so use it and don't waste it for dwelling in sadness. Try to build social contacts. Also with women, but don't push for romantic relations. Just find friends first. Also learn to be less naive, don't give your hearts on silver platter because even for a good, decent girls it's a trouble, because it's very hard to say no and not to hurt. So don't fantasize about women where they don't give you a valid reason first. And again, today's society is toxic and full of lies, so find yourself a girl that is open-minded, doesn't follow mainstream in everything and is freethinker. Don't focus only on looks. And again, learn to be happy with yourself. It's not easy to do it alone, so accept help from a professional. I think I changed a lot for the better and my years living alone are not wasted. Don't worry, you can find your own Simi.
    Or we could just clone this one and make sure. Better not to leave things to fate. xD

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +1

      Haha, to the cloning part 😅 but wow, thank you so much for this comment. It fits so perfectly to the topic and it’s great to hear (also for others out there), how your journey went. You are absolutely right and it counts for literally everyone out there… you have to learn to be happy with yourself first. Great message you gave here, we love it! Also very brave of you to share it here. 💜 Thank you so much and all the best to you! 💜

    • @mcmerry2846
      @mcmerry2846 2 роки тому

      Daniel Radcliffe is 5'4'' and his wife is taller than him

  • @antoni7996
    @antoni7996 2 роки тому +1

    This is the best part of the internet, because I find myself looking similar to the guy [besides im also 5'6], and the girl is so beautiful I find it moving.

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      💜

    • @depierre55
      @depierre55 2 роки тому +1

      Simi is not only extremely beautiful but she gets such a lovely personality also !!! Danny is really a lucky guy !!!

  • @user-jw6yk1xq2o
    @user-jw6yk1xq2o 2 роки тому +6

    The amount of people that care about height is huge and depressing... I'm a tall girl (above 5'9, 13 cm above the average height in my country) and I've been experimented every kind of strange situation/discussion about my height. Everybody always notices this thing firstly about me, everybody comments things like "omg, how will you find a man taller?". I have female friends, much way shorter than me that are literally obsessed with height and say things like "my man must be taller because I need to be protected by him". I'm honest, this thing causes insecurities to me, expecially in past. Being a tall girl sucks sometimes because of this sort of "social pressure" to absolutely find a man taller than you. Society wants girls to be cute and tiny, so it's very easy for a tall girl feeling big and not feminine.
    You guys are an inspiration 💗

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +2

      Totally feel every single word you write here. As a tall girl you get so many “mean” things to hear from others and they don’t even realize it… commenting every single time on your height, thinking automatically that you are strong and capable of handle things… because tall means you can take heavy shit… even mentally. 😕 Thank you so much for your comment. Wish you all the best! 😘💜

    • @brazwen
      @brazwen 2 роки тому

      I never really understood the mentality why women want taller men as they're better "protectors". Tall women need to realize that most short men a still physically stronger than them.
      If its any solace, I like tall women, I love their long legs. I would love to date if I could, but like you said, there's taboo on this. I'm 5'7"

    • @depierre55
      @depierre55 2 роки тому

      Our society is sick and dumb because that's a man society where women haven't the right to be tall and strong. It's a real pity !!! Why a woman can't protect her man, be the taller one in her couple ??? Let her be someone more stupendous, she deserves it !!!

    • @mcmerry2846
      @mcmerry2846 2 роки тому +1

      @@brazwen people are deceived thinking bigger muscles or taller person = more strength. My adoptive father is 1.70cm and 85Kg of pure muscle, former wrestler and he could take down taller guys with ease.

  • @brazwen
    @brazwen 2 роки тому +3

    I have to admit that I’m a bit envious of Danny, I personally like tall girls, but too many are not willing to date those shorter than themselves. I’m 174cm tall, not tall but not exactly short either. I’m sort of in between. I like to imagine dating a tall girl is the closest thing to dating a goddess.
    9:20 I'm glad you brought that up. It's something that I often hear from tall girls that tall guys still go for short girls even if tall girls are still shorter than them. Another problem is that tall girls seem to face is that they’re seen as less feminine. I actually seem them as more feminine: longer legs, wider hips and sometimes having larger breasts. Maybe it’s their abundance of femininity that makes me attracted to tall girls, it’s like I want to prove my worth as a man to match their level of femininity. Although I still consider myself traditional in some aspect, just because she’s taller than me that doesn’t mean I can’t treat her like a lady. I’ll even pay for dinner dates and as such. Yes, I like to see her wearing high heels.
    Unfortunately, I haven’t had any luck getting a date with a tall girl. I think the best chance of getting a date with a tall girl is be friends with them first. That way she can grow more comfortable around you as many of them are probably uncomfortable dating men shorter than themselves. Some girls just need time getting used to it. Or I should try my luck in Slovakia and bring her to Australia.

    • @tamasgal6662
      @tamasgal6662 2 роки тому +1

      Sadly, I am exactly in this situation. I am 170 cm tall guy. I have always loved tall women, but I never found anyone who loves short guys. I believe that there are such woman in the world, but I see that there are very rare. All my life, I have only been in love in tall women. However, these loves has never been reciprocated. I am seeking my tall wife for decades, but I still haven't found. I am getting older and I see that I have to live my life alone. This feeling is hellish. I don't wish this feeling anyone.
      However, it seems there is a few people who has succeed this thing. In the past few years I see more and more couples on the street like Simi & Dany. In the last few days I saw a couple in the market. The woman was taller than the guy and the guy was shorter than the woman. The guy was holding their little baby in his arms. I am sure that they were married. I don't know how they got to know each other. This is a big question for me, because I haven't find a woman like that in decades.

  • @philmstud2k
    @philmstud2k 2 роки тому

    Glad to see a new regular video! Love you two

  • @robertflowers8450
    @robertflowers8450 2 роки тому +1

    HeLO Hello Guys, good to see that you are both looking well.
    Hope you had a good Christmas and wish you a Happy New Year.
    Cheers 🥂

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Thank you! 🥰 All fine and good, hope you as well!? Happy new year! 💜

  • @Angelgurl1455
    @Angelgurl1455 2 роки тому

    Omg yaaaay New video I love you guys!

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Long time no see! Thank you 🥰💜

  • @charlie4542
    @charlie4542 2 роки тому

    I totally agree, sometimes we can have a list of what we want in a partner but that can be a downfall too because of one thing that is not in the list, we could miss out on so much. Taller ladies and shorter guys need love too ❤ absolutely we can always work on self improvement😊

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +1

      Feels like too many people are stuck on lists… 😅 you are absolutely right! In the end EVERYONE makes compromises with their choice of partner, because nobody is perfect. 😉 Thank you so much for the comment! 💜

  • @charlie4542
    @charlie4542 2 роки тому +2

    Simi is so pretty💜

  • @majstter7420
    @majstter7420 2 роки тому

    I did never solve this before seeing videos like that on youtube. I'm 6 years with a taller girlfriend, but the height wasn't really the topic we were discussing in our relationship. But she is only some 3-4cm taller so maybe that's why we didn't care and we fell in love really a lot from the beginning, so we didn't solve what the others think.

  • @Ozzievestar
    @Ozzievestar 2 роки тому +1

    I was wondering if you guys have seen the anime lovely complex? It's the only tall girlfriend short boyfriend romance I've ever seen

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Unfortunately not. Going to check it out! 😊

  • @mcmerry2846
    @mcmerry2846 2 роки тому +2

    5'6'' 1.68m short, bass radio voice, long curly hair, Latino powerhouse king here. Only brave girls date shorter man than they, same as men dating taller girls. The stereotypes are there to be broken, stereotypes are boring, shallow and pathetic. Good couple.

  • @paatiison7538
    @paatiison7538 2 роки тому +2

    When I was younger I was telling everyone that "I don't care about how guy looks like, I only want him to be tall". Sometimes I think I was like "punish" for it xd
    because 2 years ago I fell in love with a boy who is 2cm shorter than me (and I am not very tall just 1,68m and he is 1.66m) and we are in happy relationship ever since.
    Of course, at the begining I was struguling because of my previous attitute, eventhough difference of our hights is not that big, but still visible and not tipical
    I am just really grateful he kept fighting for us to try when I had second thoughts because of his hight.

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Thank you for this comment! 💜🥰 Great story, we wish you both all the best! 💜

    • @mcmerry2846
      @mcmerry2846 2 роки тому +1

      I know a man 1.65m and his wife is 1.82m true king there

  • @ahmedalex9125
    @ahmedalex9125 2 роки тому +1

    Finally 😍😍😍😍😍 hello guys how are you

  • @knowledgeby8391
    @knowledgeby8391 2 роки тому +1

    But it is true I am 5'7 and has been rejected by women taller than me just because they want someone taller 🤷‍♂️

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +3

      That’s not the point, of course it’s true and this happens a lot. But it is also true, that not EVERY woman is like that. There are people (women & men) who have other priorities for a relationship. 😉

  • @Vinay-sc5ir
    @Vinay-sc5ir 2 роки тому

    I think there are only few girls left like you.😅 you both are so adorable i hope i also get a lover like you.

  • @matrix-qm7on
    @matrix-qm7on 2 роки тому +4

    I also don’t care how tall the guy is…I can also remember how a man I dated told me that EVERY man on this was only into really big boobs and that it’s a fact… But someone’s preference doesn’t define everyone’s taste. Beauty standards are stupid..Great video❤️

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      So true! 🥰💜

    • @bababamooo906
      @bababamooo906 2 роки тому +2

      The difference is all tastes are different in men. The same cannot be said of Western women, they often have the same tastes (tall, muscular, and so on). It is not comparable. That's why it's a real problem.

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому +2

      That’s not the point.. there are people who have different priorities/preferences in their future partner. The “bubbles” may differ in size, but they are there.

    • @matrix-qm7on
      @matrix-qm7on 2 роки тому

      @@simianddanny exactly

    • @bababamooo906
      @bababamooo906 2 роки тому

      Yes, that's right. I'm sorry for my english level.
      I believe in this ! Personally I have been witness to these things all the time it to be me, my friends or other testimonials on social networks.
      I live in a country (Belgium) where women are fixated on height. And here, 5'11 is the average height.
      I know some women don't care. I won't say the opposite but they are far from the majority. And that's why more and more people are single. Is it coincidence ?

  • @CptZhu
    @CptZhu 2 роки тому

    I remember watching your videos in 2019. One year later and I had an amazon GF xD

  • @cussyrichards6121
    @cussyrichards6121 2 роки тому +1

    I understand what you're saying about 'target groups'. However, have you seen how successful EVERY woman is in online dating? Pretty much ANY women's 'target group' is around 95% of the male population - doesn't matter how tall, short, fat (yes lots of men are into fat women), young or old she is - she'll still have a huge selection of men to choose from.
    Whereas, for men, only those who have ALL the conventionally attractive attributes (height + hair + success + physique + looks) have a large target group. The rest of the men who are lacking in one or more of those areas has a very small target group (maybe one match per month in online dating).
    That's where the discrepancy is; women usually find only one particular type of man attractive whereas men like variety and can find all sorts of different women attractive.

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Absolutely right, online dating is the worst. Especially if you want to find girls, who aren’t too shallow. Its just the wrong place for small guys like us… you need to go under people, make friends, find groups (hobbies, etc.) … not gonna lie, our target group is always small, but just in real life you can show who you are, definitely not online.
      Ps: May I ask where you are from? In our private surrounding and feeling wise in our European countries… dating apps are not as often used at all. Getting a feeling it also depends on the country? Culture? Etc. So I’m just curious. 😊

    • @bababamooo906
      @bababamooo906 2 роки тому

      You're totally right !

    • @Turnpost2552
      @Turnpost2552 Рік тому

      You also have to understand that is for One night stands.
      But for Marriage, women and men sort of have it equal. But men have more ability to change there outcome as there more variables to outshine the competition in certain aspects.

  • @matrix-qm7on
    @matrix-qm7on 2 роки тому

    New video🥳🥳❤️

  • @v4ndal441
    @v4ndal441 2 роки тому +1

    WOOOOOOOOOOOO!

  • @aminoorachidoo5692
    @aminoorachidoo5692 2 роки тому

    Hey guys I love youuuuu❤️❤️❤️

  • @rainbowgirlism
    @rainbowgirlism 2 роки тому

    no not all do.

  • @majstter7420
    @majstter7420 2 роки тому

    Inak vy ste zo Slovenska však?

    • @simianddanny
      @simianddanny  2 роки тому

      Danny is Austrian, I’m from Slovakia… but we live in Slovakia, yes! 😊

  • @v4ndal441
    @v4ndal441 2 роки тому +3

    my advice for my frustrated red-pilled shorter fellers is to figure out if you're trans. trust me, the trans dating market is so much better than the cis dating market.
    Cis dating:
    Man: impress woman
    woman: look pretty
    Trans dating:
    literally anything else. It's the wild wild west in there.

    • @FuzionBranz
      @FuzionBranz 2 роки тому +1

      Bro

    • @ishanthezombiekillingpogch6322
      @ishanthezombiekillingpogch6322 2 роки тому +2

      what the fuck

    • @arthursimsa9005
      @arthursimsa9005 2 роки тому

      Haha I mean good for you but obviously « hey straight people, just get queer, queer sex and dating is less annoying » is poor advice…
      Plus I’m pretty sure dating between say a straight dude and a trans girl is not that different that if the girl was cis. Most probably the girl is sexually a bottom, wants to feel feminine (if anything a trans girl would need even more reassurance on that!), etc.
      You’re specifically talking about non-gender conforming trans people. That’s a minority within a minority… it’s cool that these folks are freer of gender stereotypes, but that’s not helpful to 95% of the population.

    • @mcmerry2846
      @mcmerry2846 2 роки тому +1

      🤡