San Diego Family Lives Out Of Their Van

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  • @daisy2217
    @daisy2217 7 років тому +1506

    She is a beautiful person. She's not blaming anyone and is so positive !! She is dealing with her situation and remaining strong for her children. I Love her attitude. I learned right now from this woman that you can get through bad times. It was her smiling face and happy children. I think when she gets through being homeless, with all her children, there's nothing she can't handle as a mother.
    My hero!!! God Bless her!!

    • @emjay934
      @emjay934 7 років тому +31

      Donna you are a beautiful person too. I love your attitude and totally think the same.Wishing this loving mom with her children lots of luck for in the future. They will get through this!

    • @nancyparra5741
      @nancyparra5741 6 років тому +29

      I think she is being positive for her babies. That is a strong woman.

    • @vw7402
      @vw7402 6 років тому +10

      donna luce nice comment!

    • @cherylT321
      @cherylT321 6 років тому +11

      You’re so right. Loved your positive comments!

    • @sagewhunder642
      @sagewhunder642 5 років тому +6

      AMEN!!!!💯💯💯

  • @dalefrancis393
    @dalefrancis393 5 років тому +1084

    Wow what kind of man let his family deal with this alone🙄

    • @roxana4136
      @roxana4136 5 років тому +102

      A fuckboi. A MAN would neverrrr

    • @sexyladyakb
      @sexyladyakb 5 років тому +21

      Dale Francis right ! I have him on child support I don’t understand this .. it will at least keep me in a motel

    • @elhajjzafeermuhammad1530
      @elhajjzafeermuhammad1530 5 років тому +42

      A "MAN" wouldn't.

    • @antoniojones5295
      @antoniojones5295 5 років тому +42

      He's not a man he's a punk

    • @therandomchannel6075
      @therandomchannel6075 5 років тому +23

      He isn't a man but a little boy in a man's body, useless male specimen.

  • @KB-mp1mw
    @KB-mp1mw 8 років тому +2638

    She comes across the country to be closer to the father- and he's letting his children sleep on the streets? Okay- don't take your ex wife in- but your kids? Wow.

    • @therawtruth9548
      @therawtruth9548 7 років тому +226

      I would take them all in, because she's still the mother, but as soon as I can, because of my her" I would find them a nice place too live .

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 7 років тому +13

      yessa lee that’s because if he took them in they’ll get less welfare and no free home. They’re scroungers.

    • @kiam6769
      @kiam6769 6 років тому +8

      yessa lee sad

    • @enilehcodramramlised8716
      @enilehcodramramlised8716 6 років тому +200

      Now that’s what we call a deadbeat dad🤦🏾‍♀️😒

    • @junegreen3086
      @junegreen3086 6 років тому +45

      😱@@blobbyblob2573 ❗
      YOU CANT GET GOVERNMENT ASSITANT WITHOUT A HOUSING OR APARTMENT LEASE OR MORGAGE❗

  • @jazmynbrown6820
    @jazmynbrown6820 6 років тому +282

    Never say it won't happen to you because you never know.

    • @christinaheuer7169
      @christinaheuer7169 4 роки тому +5

      Nope, already been homeless once. Bad choices and vices lead to that. Leaving a place she can afford to San Diego was a STUPID STUPID mistake

    • @patriciarobinson484
      @patriciarobinson484 4 роки тому

      True

    • @jazmynbrown6820
      @jazmynbrown6820 4 роки тому +1

      @dkd da Who said you were dumb? 🤔

    • @jazmynbrown6820
      @jazmynbrown6820 4 роки тому

      @dkd da Well I don't recall saying any of you were dumb, but ok. 👍🏾

    • @darrickadukes4046
      @darrickadukes4046 4 роки тому

      That's right

  • @cathywaller3627
    @cathywaller3627 8 років тому +1197

    May the Lord bless her and her babies, for everything they need.
    Bless her Lord, for everything she and her babies need.

    • @manofweed1
      @manofweed1 7 років тому +18

      They need contraceptives. Does the Lord provide them ?

    • @bakabakakhan5219
      @bakabakakhan5219 7 років тому +20

      She is beautiful and so are her children.

    • @corpzze2589
      @corpzze2589 7 років тому +11

      Cathy Waller 🙏 amen

    • @kristens.7879
      @kristens.7879 7 років тому +1

      Barnettstrongman Jnes fuck you and mind yah business

    • @roundsout1557
      @roundsout1557 7 років тому +6

      GRACE AND PEACE TO YOU FROM GOD THE FATHER AND HIS SON JESUS CHRIST !!!!!

  • @generalaccount1294
    @generalaccount1294 4 роки тому +23

    Her smile is so beautiful. It's 8 years after this video was first published. I wish their family all the very best and I hope they are all safe, happy and doing well.

  • @cj8803
    @cj8803 10 років тому +672

    She really hit rock bottom. One of her sons has cancer and the father is NOWHERE TO BE FOUND. What kind of man is that? I admire the mother's optimism, and I hope she got some help because she and her children don't deserve to suffer. 

    • @aGwEENapple
      @aGwEENapple 10 років тому +9

      They don't. He has to think of them sometimes. How can he accept this?

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 5 років тому +4

      @@barnettstrongmanjnes5023 Moron, nonsense. Black mammies have aborted 20 million babies since the 1960s to please white daddy.

    • @333erica
      @333erica 5 років тому +27

      Michael Smith man can you keep your hatred for black women to yourself I’m tired of seeing all you racist mfs comments talking bad about black women that aren’t bothering you

    • @Lolodasimpson
      @Lolodasimpson 5 років тому +1

      Michael Smith yea that’s true but it’s not just to please white men it’s to please black men too it’s a shame that women would kill their baby just because some man told them too

    •  5 років тому

      Hi You a lot of women get abortions bcuz they want to. Very rarely is it the man’s decision.

  • @biomebonum1802
    @biomebonum1802 4 роки тому +23

    She is so positive and knows that her situation is temporary. I like that.

  • @TRADERSFRIEND
    @TRADERSFRIEND 7 років тому +961

    She is a good mother............... Making this an adventure as opposed to a hardship for them.

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 7 років тому +14

      Traders Friend a good mother doesn’t irresponsibility make 5 children

    • @aziahenning4942
      @aziahenning4942 7 років тому

      Traders Friend ah

    • @MsDavis-xl6re
      @MsDavis-xl6re 7 років тому +10

      Blobby Blob she was married

    • @blobbyblob2573
      @blobbyblob2573 7 років тому +5

      Ebony Davis married or not it’s still the fathers responsibility too. He should put his children up it’s not the tax payers responsibility. Why have so many. I have no sympathy or empathy. I see you keep making excuses for her and the likes of her.

    • @davidbrown6213
      @davidbrown6213 6 років тому +1

      Traders Friend you're a very smart woman

  • @beyondartists7641
    @beyondartists7641 4 роки тому +60

    First look, I immediately thought she should be a good mother. She sounds calm and caring. 👏🙏

    • @thelastminmom5251
      @thelastminmom5251 2 роки тому

      And not mentally ill. I hope she got out of that situation fast.

    • @ToyotaGuy1971
      @ToyotaGuy1971 7 місяців тому +1

      That's what they WANT you to think. You only know half of the story, the females half. Not good enough!

  • @theresabollman8061
    @theresabollman8061 11 років тому +292

    She's doing a good job under terrible circumstances. That little boy had to go thru cancer and treatment, now he has to go thru homelessness? I'm praying he and his family get blessed so much it blows their socks off. God bless them.

    • @trees8240
      @trees8240 8 років тому +19

      Often men will leave spouses when they birth a special needs child or the child or wife has a major illness . Working in health care l have seen this too many times.

    • @owlq3574
      @owlq3574 7 років тому +7

      theresa bollman the kids are so sweet and the father should be ashamed of himself

    • @Lolodasimpson
      @Lolodasimpson 5 років тому +1

      Linda Curry that’s not the reason the father is just bad he would have left either way

    • @cathylake9072
      @cathylake9072 5 років тому +1

      @@trees8240 Evil men leave and then start a new family with a new wife and don't look back at the disable kid and ex-wife and corrupt judges are letting them.

    • @lula87fisher72
      @lula87fisher72 4 роки тому

      @@trees8240 hl8ih vvv7 kd

  • @freakinfrugal5268
    @freakinfrugal5268 6 років тому +5

    She seems like such a sweet lady. I hope, 6 years later, she is now happily living in a stable home and all her beautiful little ones are doing well.

  • @asenathdagraca1401
    @asenathdagraca1401 8 років тому +595

    wait you can be disqualified for help because of too many kids???? if anything she should be given priority

    • @israelaguilar9642
      @israelaguilar9642 6 років тому +32

      Frances DaGraca It's a screwed up system. People WITHOUT kids are more likely to get a place than people WITH kids..

    • @912deborah
      @912deborah 6 років тому +30

      Exactly. Let her had a been an illegal, they would have helped her in a heartbeat

    • @KamalasNotLikeUs
      @KamalasNotLikeUs 6 років тому +20

      TrucketteTV MsMac Yep! An illegal with a "caravan" of beggars. They get freebies immediately in CA.

    • @GlamBammers
      @GlamBammers 6 років тому +3

      That’s what I said ...smh

    • @0121-x2j
      @0121-x2j 6 років тому +18

      stop breeding..should be at the top of her list.

  • @HeismyShepard
    @HeismyShepard 6 років тому +247

    Any updates on this family seeing how this is from 2012?

    • @Purpleeyes92
      @Purpleeyes92 5 років тому +46

      Here is the update😊😊
      ua-cam.com/video/3U4HxYDl_HU/v-deo.html

    • @vanessa_the_mindset_maven
      @vanessa_the_mindset_maven 5 років тому +8

      @@Purpleeyes92 thank you🤗

    • @monicasyktich8493
      @monicasyktich8493 5 років тому +6

      @@Purpleeyes92 Thank you.

    • @lynadrong4743
      @lynadrong4743 5 років тому +6

      @@Purpleeyes92. Thank you for this video. I was cried when I saw they finally got a house

    • @b.e.2754
      @b.e.2754 5 років тому +1

      Update. Still homeless & still black.

  • @Jchristgirl4284
    @Jchristgirl4284 7 років тому +217

    Her beautiful children looked happy and healthy
    GOD Bless them

    • @blackalien6873
      @blackalien6873 5 років тому +3

      Looks are deceiving. These children are SUPER STRESSED. They know they are homeless. Maybe the baby doesn't have a clue, but the toddlers up KNOW!

  • @BC-jb7mz
    @BC-jb7mz 5 років тому +8

    Amazing Mother!
    Father is an a**hole for letting HIS kids sleep on the street but thank goodness this woman is so damn strong and keeps her kids happy and busy! Hope for the best for them

  • @cruyeda
    @cruyeda 10 років тому +444

    Doesn't she get child support? If not, TAKE THE DADDY TO COURT!

    • @GlamBammers
      @GlamBammers 6 років тому +23

      cruyeda That was already party of her plan perhaps. Filing out of state could take years.... But now since she is in the same town as her husband, filing and being awarded money and health care should take about 6 months for her

    • @arleneaugustahair8393
      @arleneaugustahair8393 6 років тому +17

      Glam Bammers filling out of state definitely doesn’t take years! 😒

    • @cassandrasmith5265
      @cassandrasmith5265 5 років тому +5

      When u r working all of the time it may b hard to keep up with going to court steadily to follow up on a child support case

    • @bebebrown3154
      @bebebrown3154 5 років тому +6

      Umm can you hangout in court while hungry

    • @bambam3003
      @bambam3003 5 років тому +2

      Glam girl here do u live BC filing out of state don't take no time

  • @tmc1373
    @tmc1373 4 роки тому +11

    She has such a great spirit. I hope everything work out for her. Those kids are beautiful!

  • @queenbee4906
    @queenbee4906 9 років тому +380

    where's her ex husband

    • @1indonesiaku
      @1indonesiaku 9 років тому +72

      +Queen Bee My thoughts exactly! Understandable if he doesn't want to take in his ex-wife, but his own kids??? I'd be devastated if I ever saw my kids live on the streets when I can provide them with a roof and some warmth and comfort...

    • @kathyreed5062
      @kathyreed5062 6 років тому +4

      Right

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 5 років тому +7

      @dachicagoan With another gullible black mammy

    • @SunShine-wr4js
      @SunShine-wr4js 5 років тому +8

      busy with Becky...

    • @taunyac.4323
      @taunyac.4323 5 років тому +12

      Yes ex husband doesn't mean ex daddy. He made them he needs to tell his white wife what he did buy her some diamonds and take care of these kids.

  • @misscinrose
    @misscinrose 6 років тому +11

    It’s all about perspective; that family is safe, loved, has a roof over their heads, food and each other. That is a strong mother. God bless that family. ❤️

  • @leelulove24
    @leelulove24 11 років тому +70

    how can a so call men allow there children to live like this you cant just blame her

    • @nunya2954
      @nunya2954 7 років тому +4

      luckylou07 - maylea mineyourbusiness said "you can't blame JUST her", this means blaming both. Did you not get English composition in school? Good grief.

    • @bebebrown3154
      @bebebrown3154 5 років тому +1

      Easy he wanted out so call for a Lawyer and farmers will create cancer while they live in their Walton house. No one wants to pay for her children's meals or a roof over their heads his semen goes on forever her need for a family and the riches country in the World is made by a pyramid system with poor peas at the bottom they get squashed in the process...umm is there emotional help for the feelings of old fashion family Walton ideals only for farmers they all work together to have what the poor peas also want for future ideals of having this family network that government takes over by teachers living off your mistakes

  • @pameladavis2472
    @pameladavis2472 5 років тому +13

    So proud of you Mama keep those babies together by any means necessary, one day A door will open just for you

  • @chris19772003
    @chris19772003 7 років тому +54

    may god bless this family

  • @thehollyannrose
    @thehollyannrose 6 років тому +5

    I've been homeless before, and she's handling it was better than I ever could. What an excellent mother. She's making being homeless sort of a living experience for them, and still allowing them to be kids. For me, it was a constant panic sort of thing. I was so worried about getting mugged or losing my job or something else stupid.

  • @user-FBA-1
    @user-FBA-1 7 років тому +302

    This kids are so cute.

    • @3Dgamespot
      @3Dgamespot 6 років тому +2

      Abasha Cisse What if they were ugly?

    • @chelseybapaga2648
      @chelseybapaga2648 6 років тому

      Abasha Cisse idgdgfigjgh

    • @tonyparks9352
      @tonyparks9352 6 років тому

      Abasha Cisse m.ua-cam.com/video/rHtyDeDZYjc/v-deo.html

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 5 років тому +1

      Mammies fawn over "mixed" / light-skinned kids...now she has a litter of unwanted bastards.

    • @klaiellordez2054
      @klaiellordez2054 5 років тому +3

      Cheryl Young You Sound so stupid!

  • @sereneellis9439
    @sereneellis9439 5 років тому +9

    It takes strong will to be so optimistic in situations like this. I hope everything works out for her and the kids.

  • @screeech1
    @screeech1 10 років тому +46

    I wonder how she and her children are doing today. I hope they are no longer homeless and all doing well.

  • @aquazzz9337
    @aquazzz9337 4 роки тому +12

    I like how positive and strong she is about her life even though they lived in a van.... Blessed a woman like her that never give up in her children and her life 😭

    • @thelastminmom5251
      @thelastminmom5251 2 роки тому +1

      Yes. Some kids would trade a house life w parents who are alcoholics and fight all the time, for one living in a van w a mother like this one.

  • @seekingpeace4743
    @seekingpeace4743 4 роки тому +3

    What an amazing open-minded calm and caring woman! She is doing the right thing by keeping her children busy and trying to stay positive. I wish her and her BEAUTIFUL FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE children all of the best in the world. God bless them!!!

  • @vickiefinney6073
    @vickiefinney6073 6 років тому +12

    My family has been living in a hotel for over 2 years. I'm a born again Christian and my children are being raised with God's values. My husband got laid off of work and we just can't seem to get out of this situation. We make the best out of every day and are waiting for God to deliver us from this journey. I pray for each and everyone of you who are homeless. May God bless you and keep you safe. In Jesus name. Never give up on waiting for your miracle. Just keep doing what you can and let God do the rest ❤✝

    • @sallysharp4126
      @sallysharp4126 5 років тому +1

      Vickie Finney ..Amen Beautiful. Praying A Miracle For You.

  • @elhajjzafeermuhammad1530
    @elhajjzafeermuhammad1530 5 років тому +30

    Hang in there sister. Ya got a blessing coming 👍🏾

  • @MischkaSoonMi
    @MischkaSoonMi 5 років тому +15

    I pray she and her family are well. God bless them. She is remarkably resilient. I greatly admire her strength.

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 5 років тому +1

      They have a beautiful house now

    • @rivoniaollier-burrell6536
      @rivoniaollier-burrell6536 5 років тому

      ​@@prncessbaby16 was there a follow u story we missed? Please drop a link or social media information for her and her family. Thank you.

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 4 роки тому

      @@rivoniaollier-burrell6536 I looked and I couldn't find the link but I did see the update on here. I'll try to look again

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 4 роки тому

      @@rivoniaollier-burrell6536 got it!! ua-cam.com/video/3U4HxYDl_HU/v-deo.html

  • @LayneXIII
    @LayneXIII 7 років тому +53

    Great woman! And pretty. Bad shit happens to good people. Haters gonna hate!

  • @saleemahfareed6509
    @saleemahfareed6509 5 років тому +24

    I am so proud of her heavenly Father send your Angels there to watch over Beautiful children of God

  • @AryaBeltaine
    @AryaBeltaine 6 років тому +3

    her positivity and optimism is so inspiring

  • @Notyrmombiz
    @Notyrmombiz 4 роки тому +2

    Im so blessed to have my man that wakes up everyday to provide for us.. i work too but only while my kids are at school.

  • @luyandagirl
    @luyandagirl 4 роки тому +11

    I hope she’s okay now and they’ve found a home. It’s been 7 years

    • @noelle.420
      @noelle.420 Рік тому

      ua-cam.com/video/3U4HxYDl_HU/v-deo.html :)

  • @millicentstollenwerck5239
    @millicentstollenwerck5239 4 роки тому +1

    She have a beautiful and positive spirit. She is not letting her situation get her down.

  • @apllu17
    @apllu17 2 роки тому +4

    Now this is true protective parenting. I love how she's pushing for her children to see the brighter side, while she works on getting housed. I hope things turned out well for her.

  • @adelikov9443
    @adelikov9443 6 років тому +5

    I hope things get better for them, they look like such a beautiful family. She is a strong, positive, loving mother. Her attitude is so inspiring. This is surely a bump, she will get back up.

  • @karenkeller5866
    @karenkeller5866 6 років тому +11

    What an amazing woman and mother.

  • @ashbear6297
    @ashbear6297 5 років тому +2

    This woman's attitude is awesome. I pray for a beautiful life for her and her children.

  • @shelocsher2396
    @shelocsher2396 5 років тому +8

    She is truly making the best out of what could be a devastating situation. Bless her and her babies 💛

  • @TheDonna1959
    @TheDonna1959 6 років тому +6

    What an awesome mother! Good attitude & trying to keep her beautiful family together. I wish I had a lot of money. I would love to buy them a new home, nicely furnished, with the cupboards & frig. filled to the max with food. Any of us can be in this situation at any given time. God bless this dear lady & her children.

  • @MsSassyMT
    @MsSassyMT 8 років тому +227

    I'm so confused by this. How does one move across country like that with 5 kids, without an iron clad plan, or 2 or 3. And where the heck is the ex-husband? Did he even know she was coming?

    • @wildcurlgirl5439
      @wildcurlgirl5439 8 років тому +49

      SOUNDS LIKE A LIE.... SHE HAS TOO MANY CHILDREN PERIOD..... IF FIVE YEARS AGO HER SON HAD CANCER WHY DID YOU JUST KEEP HAVING BABIES

    • @MsSassyMT
      @MsSassyMT 8 років тому +43

      +wildcurlgirl True..having a child with cancer is emotionally and physically draining...and she's still having babies. insane

    • @theresabollman8061
      @theresabollman8061 8 років тому +25

      So often we, the tax payers do what the fathers won't. It's so sad.

    • @quiqui906
      @quiqui906 7 років тому +24

      Do not be so harsh , what you is see is not always what it truly is . Everyone deals with situations DIFFERENTLY . You should be patting her on the back , not any of these rude comments .

    • @eileeneclark9011
      @eileeneclark9011 6 років тому +20

      3/6/18.....WHERE do these kids go to school during the school year?
      HOW about the son who had cancer? WHY did this intelligent well-spoken lady stay in bad relationship & keep having kids?
      She came across country in a van with 5 kids, so WHERE is their dad that she brought them to see & WHY isn't he helping them? Why are taxpayers supposed to pay for this woman & her kids? Let that abusive dad fork over some $$$.

  • @NN-fn6oy
    @NN-fn6oy 4 роки тому +1

    she is strong. this is trully mothers loves.

  • @GlamBammers
    @GlamBammers 6 років тому +11

    Many woman do this. When the man is no longer interested in being a husband or a father he runs to a different state. The mother of the children feels sad for her babies and chases after him in hopes that he will either come back to her or be in the children’s lives.
    She seems devastated but hopeful. I love her willingness to make it as it seems her family has been through a lot....
    P.S. Having children or even getting pregnant is not going to make that man stay. I’m sure someone who is in a position to help will see this story and guide her to success.

  • @allennjoycevillasanta859
    @allennjoycevillasanta859 5 років тому +2

    She's got an aura that can overcome whatever life is going to offer. Love her positive vibes.

  • @615BlackBarbie
    @615BlackBarbie 5 років тому +8

    Mother's always make away. Prayers.

  • @darrelldixon9044
    @darrelldixon9044 4 роки тому +1

    I'm Disabled, a Veteran, and have been homeless for two years. I'm not a drug addict, just lost my housing two years ago when the Apartment Complex I was living at was sold to a buyer in Toronto, who promptly notified the tenants living with Section 8 or VASH assistance was given the option to move out or pay full market value rent. I found while looking for a place to move to, that most low income housing was eliminated in this same fashion by greedy investors.
    I bought an old van on payments and was forced to start living in it. I did so for a year and was offered a tiny fiberglass trailer on payments. I found that the person I bought it from had mislead me on a clear title, and have had difficulty getting it registered and legal to tow. I have been stranded at a Recreation Area, above Kingman Arizona for seven months now trying to get repairs done to my van. It is no longer safe to drive, and definitely not suitable to tow my trailer. It has been a living hell, upto 128 degrees at times this summer, now dealing with freezing cold at night and heavy winds. Every time I try to get some repairs made, something comes up. I bought a used generator which failed in a couple weeks, had to buy another one, then my emotional support dog Archie was badly bitten and required veterinary care, my air conditioning compressor failed in my Van, I cut my knuckle to the bone and ligaments on some glass discarding some trash which resulted in an Emergency Room Visit. I have been trying to get help, and have not much success. I was accepted for Rapid Rehousing through the Catholic Charities, but have searched all over Mohave County but found I cannot afford an apartment on my disability income. I am now in a panic as I was notified by the Catholic Charities Caseworker handling my information, had their computer stolen and now my personal information has been compromised. I am on a waiting list for Section 8, basically started over. I did not choose to be in this homeless situation, and have been doing my best to deal with everything I have experienced the past 2 years. I had to literally give everything I owned away when I lost my apartment EVERYTHING!, I did try and keep my many tools, but those to were lost by a "friend" who was going but keep them until I get settled, but would never respond to my calls or texts. I am absolutely sick of my life. I don't live anymore, I merely exist, and it's not much of an existence. I have not showered in nearly 8 months, and haven't bathed in over two years since losing my apartment. I have reached out to every VA organization or service center for help, but am ineligible. I served 6 years in The Air National Guard, and was honorably discharged, but still don't meet the requirements as I was on active duty for well over a year with Avionics Technical School, and was activated during Desert Storm, but could not deploy with my unit, as I was a 3 level technician straight out of school. I have no family for support, no friends, only a few people I have met while being homeless. I have had a fellow vet brings some water bottles and food items several months back, but I don't see how I can ever get out of my situation as my limited income doesn't suffice...

  • @strawberry0kiwi
    @strawberry0kiwi 7 років тому +51

    So sad:( she is such a strong woman

  • @KJ-xc6qs
    @KJ-xc6qs 2 роки тому +4

    5 kids!!! He's her EX-husband for a reason! Why would she travel cross country for a deadbeat dad? She's delusional. I feel great pity for her kids.

  • @noviana9673
    @noviana9673 6 років тому +6

    salute for her. she is a strong mother.

  • @oromtitilove4374
    @oromtitilove4374 4 роки тому +1

    Watching this woman staying so strong for her children made me a better person and be appreciative of what I already have really.
    Continue to stay strong your future is better you can get through this ...

  • @ayannamahrae6160
    @ayannamahrae6160 5 років тому +22

    SHE IS DOING GOOD KEEPING 5 CHILDREN BUSY !!! 👋🏾😚And she do not have TOO many children. She got how many God blessed her to have .💗

  • @prud40
    @prud40 4 роки тому +1

    And she still manage to smile, wow...this is a strong woman

  • @ompaloompa4970
    @ompaloompa4970 4 роки тому +3

    Praying for this family 🙏, and all the homeless.

  • @Jessicascleaningtips
    @Jessicascleaningtips Рік тому +1

    10 years later and nothing has changed. More and more homeless all over San Diego.

  • @braselton94
    @braselton94 9 років тому +40

    What is wrong with the "father" he is no father.

  • @latashamichelle6657
    @latashamichelle6657 5 років тому +1

    She is strong with a beautiful spirit. Her faith and perseverance showed that you can "choose," joy in the hardest of circumstances. So happy their entire world turned around.

  • @jazzmapalmer6497
    @jazzmapalmer6497 5 років тому +4

    I hope she gets the helps she needs because she is very positive about the situation and she is doing what he have to for her kids. Im standing up clapping for her.

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 5 років тому +1

      She did. They have a beautiful house now.

    • @jazzmapalmer6497
      @jazzmapalmer6497 5 років тому

      @@prncessbaby16 oh really you know her personally.

    • @prncessbaby16
      @prncessbaby16 5 років тому +1

      @@jazzmapalmer6497 no but someone on another comment thread here posted an updated UA-cam video of her and her family.

    • @jazzmapalmer6497
      @jazzmapalmer6497 5 років тому

      @@prncessbaby16 oh okay send it to me if you can. That's a true blessing

  • @roselladamon545
    @roselladamon545 4 роки тому +2

    You actually give him the satisfaction of of saying he's a father . no father would allow him own children to live on the streets. he s no father . he s not even a daddy .

  • @aminabesmilin4691
    @aminabesmilin4691 7 років тому +16

    This is sad instead of giving this woman a job and one of the thousands of vacant homes we have here in California they force this woman to sleep in her car... People always say there's no jobs.. BULLSHIT they're just reserving them for the right person.

  • @diaa6624
    @diaa6624 5 років тому +19

    Any update on this family? 😩😩😩😩😩😩😩😩 I hope she got the help she needed! She seems like a good person

  • @lavery0365
    @lavery0365 7 років тому +13

    Just keep pushing, you'll & your children will soon come to a peaceful clearing and live happily ever after. Just DON'T QUIT OR GIVE UP, YOUR KIDS NEED YOU MORE THAN YOU NEED YOURSELF! GOD BLESS YOU. I REALLY ADMIRE YOUR POSITIVE ATTITUDE & PLEASANT DEMEANOR.

    • @bebebrown3154
      @bebebrown3154 5 років тому +1

      Yeah we'll pick up the pieces and marry her daddy Walton can you do that for her?

  • @noedges1692
    @noedges1692 5 років тому +53

    She seems like such a sweet person but something is off here. Hopefully they’re ok

    • @VancouverCanucksRock
      @VancouverCanucksRock 4 роки тому +1

      @ALPO YAO LMFAO Black Men aren't held accountable for the type of sh*t. Are you serious?

    • @VancouverCanucksRock
      @VancouverCanucksRock 4 роки тому

      @ALPO YAO No he wouldn't, 'cause she wouldn't even know the Black Dude's Name, that she bent over for

    • @VancouverCanucksRock
      @VancouverCanucksRock 4 роки тому +1

      @ALPO YAO Why do you think there's so many BLACK SINGLE Mothers? With 100% Black kids?

  • @brianconner664
    @brianconner664 6 років тому +3

    Seems like a wonderful human being, god bless her and her family.

  • @laleinchampion8222
    @laleinchampion8222 4 роки тому +1

    God be with you all❤I pray God finds you and you are all together and happy❤ I pray the same prayer for me and my child

  • @tinasoblessed6350
    @tinasoblessed6350 6 років тому +37

    God Please protect her and her children! God ,Please supply every they,give them a home, shelter, food. Let someone who sees this video, or walks pass her, try to help her,with resources, Thank you God! Is there an update to her situation? 🙏🙏

    • @mslittle9157
      @mslittle9157 6 років тому

      Tina Cosom. This was so sweet! We need more people like you in these times! God bless you sister in God😃

    • @donttalktomeyoureannoying8736
      @donttalktomeyoureannoying8736 6 років тому +1

      Oh in another video , she moved back the Metro Detroit and got a brand new house,fully furnished! . This was like in 2013 or something

    • @PINAYGIRL62
      @PINAYGIRL62 6 років тому +1

      Lana's Daydream ......where did you see that video?? Thank you .....

    • @rosetheplayboi
      @rosetheplayboi 5 років тому

      Ameen!

  • @deaddropsd1972
    @deaddropsd1972 6 років тому +6

    I wish her the best. This is an indication of the quality of men as well. CHOOSE WISELY.

    • @caitlinsoliman2667
      @caitlinsoliman2667 4 роки тому +2

      You don't always know! Some people don't show their true colors or change after married.

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 4 роки тому +1

      Caitlin Soliman TRUTH

    • @caitlinsoliman2667
      @caitlinsoliman2667 4 роки тому +1

      @@deaddropsd1972 I had married a seriously abusive narcissist before who had been so kind and romantic throughout our entire dating period....I was really duped.

    • @deaddropsd1972
      @deaddropsd1972 4 роки тому

      Caitlin Soliman damn

  • @desheliabowen7477
    @desheliabowen7477 8 років тому +34

    so many people are so rude you can not say nothing about no mother thats trying you dont know what caused her to be in this and until half of you say i truly know how it is to struggle with kids like this then you need to shut the hell up and that god y'all are not homeless keep judging and watch you will fall!!!!

    • @QueenNat83
      @QueenNat83 8 років тому +7

      Deshelia Bowen I agree! people can be so negative!

    • @patricialucero1410
      @patricialucero1410 7 років тому +1

      Deshelia Bowen ....😉🖒👍👌👏❤

    • @vegasgirl3538
      @vegasgirl3538 6 років тому +2

      Right, because uprooting five kids and moving to a city where you have no job, no money and no guaranteed housing is the responsible thing to do....

    • @eloisebaker8581
      @eloisebaker8581 6 років тому

      I8thumper maybe I heard wrong, but didn't she say, "ex- husband ".

  • @evabraun538
    @evabraun538 3 роки тому +4

    What an absolutely beautiful family. And mom is still smiling through it all.

  • @aisha9659
    @aisha9659 5 років тому +7

    She has such a positive attitude I know it’s for the kids or the camera but I can’t help but think why would the father allow them to live like that this shit is making me mad

  • @dee468
    @dee468 6 років тому +1

    Wherever you are, you seem like such a positive and kind person. I hope you're doing well. You and your children are beautiful.

  • @carlosfigueroa790
    @carlosfigueroa790 4 роки тому +3

    Our yesterdays have no importance, except as experience in making today more fruitful.

  • @juliagomez3640
    @juliagomez3640 5 років тому +6

    Just about I always pray for the homeless ...Lord bless this family...

  • @lvteachme973
    @lvteachme973 11 років тому +13

    I have known several women to pickup and leave one state for another bc of a man and it never work out. It's very disruptive to the children's lives. When you move away from family/friends, you loose network of supporters. Women, esp. mother's should be cautious of such moves. Also, where's the father, now? He has no place of his own? No, family that can help with housing? And, he can't be doing too well, he should have moved to MI.

    • @GlamBammers
      @GlamBammers 6 років тому +2

      LV West It does seem like she’s chasing after her husband.... Sad story

    • @sallysharp4126
      @sallysharp4126 5 років тому

      LV Teach Me ..Respect...People Talk A Good Game And Do Lip Service When It Comes To Children..But At The End Of The Day Only The Grandmother Will Truly Help Her Daughter With Her Children. At The End If The Day..People Care Absolutely Nothing About Women But To Use, manipulate, belittle, Talk, And Put Her down. Look How judgmental and ugly these comments are. You have kids out of wedlock you’re bad..You Are Good If You Have Kids And You And the Husband Are Still Together. But if he abandons You..especially Because You Have Kids..You Are nothing...
      .for Women..sadly ..Just Because You Are A Woman ..With People..You Just can’t win..

  • @angiebega2444
    @angiebega2444 4 роки тому +1

    Shes a good mother i hope her and the kids are safe and have a place too stay now❤

  • @perladominguez9028
    @perladominguez9028 5 років тому +6

    What an amazing mom❤️ I would love to see a follow up story.

  • @nrodry76
    @nrodry76 6 років тому +2

    She is one brave woman. God bless her and her beautiful children! I hope with all my heart things improve for them.

  • @marymoreno-tekala789
    @marymoreno-tekala789 6 років тому +3

    Wow, such a good mother and shes doing the best for her babies... may God bless her also her Beautiful babies 💙 hope shes doing better!

  • @TheOopsEdaisy
    @TheOopsEdaisy 4 роки тому

    Yet, she doesn't drop her smile so her kids won't pick up on any negative energy. Now that is a SUPER MOM!! So much to admire from her!!

  • @420skidrow
    @420skidrow 7 років тому +16

    she is strong and beautiful!

  • @Factual-i5t
    @Factual-i5t 5 років тому +31

    Im not trying to be mean, however you pack up all your many children and moved them across country for a no good father who let's them sleep in a damn van. It is obvious that this woman didn't really have her kids in mind because she would have made sure they were stable. This man who helped sire her children ain't about shit. This lady is still hoping for a relationship with this selfish punkass. Trust and believe that no real man in this world would let his kids suffer. This so called father could've taking the kids until she got her stuff together. Did the no good father agree to this move, or is she so in love that she gives up everything to be with him. Something is not adding up. I believe she is chasing this so called father of her many children, while putting her children at risk. I feel sorry for the children only, because they have two meatheads as parents!!

    • @J.Anita24
      @J.Anita24 5 років тому

      Carol McCord Girl!! Mouth full you said it all!!

    • @mrblackalchemist
      @mrblackalchemist 5 років тому

      Carol McCord you forgot that black women will put up with the most garbage treatment from a white man and keep coming back for more when it is EVIDENT that he does not want to continue things.

    • @blackgirlmagic6467
      @blackgirlmagic6467 4 роки тому

      mrblackalchemist not all some

  • @BabyBunch
    @BabyBunch 8 років тому +70

    So these kids are sleeping in A van while illegal immigrant children get housing

    • @esrapk
      @esrapk 7 років тому +4

      BLAME your government!

    • @m23star1
      @m23star1 5 років тому +7

      Baby Bunch omg stop w the ignorance. Just STOP. You shouldn’t want this for anyone, not the immigrant children and not her children!

    • @BetterMe981
      @BetterMe981 5 років тому +1

      Baby Bunch... sure, if you call cages housing.

  • @linds8444
    @linds8444 4 роки тому +1

    Beautiful family and this mother has an amazing ability to remain positive.

  • @tamiweber7241
    @tamiweber7241 5 років тому +3

    God Bless this family. Children are adaptable and this mom makes this a great adventure and this keeps the children happy because their mom is their “Rock” I wish the best of everything this world has to offer to this precious family. In the years following the grownup children will talk about this and say this was the “Best” days of their childhood 🙋🏼‍♀️ I know this is true because my mom was our “Rock” with all 5 of us 💯

  • @monolyn
    @monolyn Рік тому

    What a well put together woman! Hard times won't be hard forever. Hope she's doing well these days.

  • @isthatsonotsofast9604
    @isthatsonotsofast9604 8 років тому +54

    Good for you leaving an abusive husband. Hang in there..

    • @virginialhawk
      @virginialhawk 5 років тому +11

      Couldn't been to abusive because 1 you drove across the country to go back to him and 2 you had 5 kids with this man....once i got away from my abuser boyfriend i ran and hid...i didnt want a kid let aline 5 kids with him and never ever have i looked for him again!

    • @twdjt6245
      @twdjt6245 4 роки тому

      Who said he was abusive? A deadbeat for sure, but she didn’t say he was abusive.

    • @isthatsonotsofast9604
      @isthatsonotsofast9604 4 роки тому +1

      Any man that don't know if their kid ate that day is abusive. Abuse isn't always physical.

    • @twdjt6245
      @twdjt6245 4 роки тому

      Isthatso notsofast that’s neglect.

    • @twdjt6245
      @twdjt6245 4 роки тому

      ALPO YAO who even said that her husband no matter the race was abusing her? He could just be a deadbeat dad for all we know. Also wtf does race have to do with this? She picked her husband because he’s white and she wanted kids with “good hair” ...wth...so no way she could’ve actually fallen for the guy? Just wanted him for his skin color/hair? Yea, ok🤦‍♀️👍🏽 wasn’t aware that all mixed race kids were the result of self hatred. Thanks for the memo.

  • @jcrystal2584
    @jcrystal2584 5 років тому +2

    This was a encouraging video, I'm going through a similar situation with my 4 sons, thank you for sharing your message.

  • @QueenNat83
    @QueenNat83 8 років тому +6

    Best Wishes to this family! Cant judge her! She has beautiful kids!

  • @nellan6930
    @nellan6930 5 років тому

    Wow, the fact that she has that beautiful smile on her face shows her faith. You always think your going through rough times until you hear other ppl stories.

  • @teshawilliams7993
    @teshawilliams7993 9 місяців тому +4

    Any updates?

  • @YawanahDalyalah
    @YawanahDalyalah 5 років тому +1

    It's the most beautiful, humbling thing! Lol I'm going through it too! A blessing!!!!

  • @shesofemme
    @shesofemme 5 років тому +29

    I need an update please. A white dead beat dad? Who would've thought?

    • @Mariefrancegrsce
      @Mariefrancegrsce 5 років тому +1

      ua-cam.com/video/3U4HxYDl_HU/v-deo.html

    • @Mariefrancegrsce
      @Mariefrancegrsce 5 років тому

      ua-cam.com/video/3U4HxYDl_HU/v-deo.html update

    • @jackmu18
      @jackmu18 5 років тому +7

      I didn’t know dead beats had a specific color🤔

    • @skyylea9859
      @skyylea9859 5 років тому

      Lol

    • @megmeg1686
      @megmeg1686 5 років тому +3

      I think she was being sarcastic

  • @kmiche396
    @kmiche396 5 років тому +2

    Blessings to her & her beautiful children wherever they may be today! I 🙏🏾♥️

  • @feleciab7062
    @feleciab7062 8 років тому +115

    Does anybody ask how can I help‼️it seems the unanswered question and uncaring commits and opinion are only fuel to her bad situation. My question is what would Jesus do❓

    • @heatherquinn8684
      @heatherquinn8684 8 років тому +7

      Felicia B I know!! Where are the woman ? Why aren't we devoted to helping fellow sisters ?!

    • @esrapk
      @esrapk 7 років тому +2

      where is the FATHER?!?!?!

    • @michaelg7251
      @michaelg7251 5 років тому

      Jesus? Is that that effeminate white male in the sky that mammies worship?

    • @sagewhunder642
      @sagewhunder642 5 років тому +2

      You are a person who has been blessed with common sense & compassion! There are too many "lost souls" running around who are the total opposite & could give a damn! God bless you for recognizing the obvious & possessing a heart!!! 🙏💕😢

    • @virginialhawk
      @virginialhawk 5 років тому

      Jesus would condem her for being a adulterous and fornacating.... he would still love her but Jesus hates sin!

  • @anabelortiz1556
    @anabelortiz1556 5 років тому

    This is a great mom with a huge heart. How many women and men out there that have a job are complaining every day for every thing and she does not have a job or where to live but she is so positive and dreaming on having a better future. God bless her

  • @carmenortiz5294
    @carmenortiz5294 10 років тому +10

    She is a special person. Few people can have such a positive attitude under such pressure. Probably knowing her son survived cancer gave her hope. I can't even imagine what kind of man can simply let his children in this situation. (Not that my ex-husband was much better.) They are all little kids. So if she had one or two, she would get help but since she has more then she doesn't? If that isn't bad enough then the city makes it impossible for the program to continue. The city deserves that it's now suffering from an extreme drought, even cities get hit by Karma.

  • @garym3624
    @garym3624 4 роки тому

    An amazing, beautiful soul right there. She deserves a decent home for her family. Inspirational.