1:19 Good observation. I am less anxious around foreign people, but yeah when i see familiar behaviour from them i turn introvert. It's good realising these triggers, i still don't. Boundaries are totally chill, people who judge over others are boring. That being said, you do seem uncertain at times, i'd say you are not afraid to judge for yourself and few can say that of themselves. Take as muuuch time as you like.
@@wonjez3982 hi! Thank you for your observation! It’s so interesting how different cultures have an effect on what is considered “normal” or “acceptable”. For example in America, it’s acceptable to have a graduate degree immediately after undergrad and work but in Australia, it’s more acceptable to go traveling to get to know yourself a little. The common denominator is that people tend to just go with what others think around them instead of thinking for themselves. You’re doing a great job thinking for yourself here in your comments too! It’s a rare thing to be such a forward thinker but it’s what all of the people in history did to influence necessary positive change for the world! Thank you for watching!
@@CreatorPo Very kind answer, i spent a lot of time thinking through useless stuff. I'm from Germany btw, but work and travel in Australia sounds way too familiar haha. I had written a lot more, as usual, but there's one thing i want to add back in then: Don't avoid people, try to give Feedback! Edit: Many people shy away at first hickups these days, i've had it. Against someone with f.ex. overwhelming opinions, just try speaking up for yourself and just nicely tell them about your feeling, whenever you feel comfortable. In the end they will appreciate it because you're not the only one they do it to and it takes energy for anyone to filter it out, which will put anyone in some discomfort. (That "..yeah, yeah whatever i dont care what you think i should do..") And if you think you are just being overly sensitive, even better, you see it very clearly, it's probably too obvious for you to even think mentioning it, but it means your (long kept) feedback is a treasure for anyone! Second little thing from just today, the exact moment you realise you like something, say i like that. it is the single best thing to tell others what they do good. That's pretty much the esscence of maturity to express your needs, you have to take care of yourself. Being mature might sound demanding, it's really just trusting and smoothly showing your feeling and respecting theirs at any time, makes you confident and accessible.
@@wonjez3982 Hello! I love this comment so much. I always wanted to visit Germany! I’d love to hear more about your experience. Thanks again for your thoughtful comment. I really like that, being open and honest enough to come forward to people and tell them the very thing no one wants to, but in a nice way. Those are the people who need understanding most too. Complimenting people who you talk to, and I mean REALLY complimenting them and meaning it is one of the best ways that make yourself so magnetic to others. Feeling heard and listened to in the todays world is such a blessing. I am actually already working on a video on this very topic, so I am so glad you commented this!!
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wow I needed to hear that, thank you ♡ you're amazing!
I’m so glad it was helpful for you! I’ll continue to make videos just like this one ☺️
1:19 Good observation. I am less anxious around foreign people, but yeah when i see familiar behaviour from them i turn introvert. It's good realising these triggers, i still don't.
Boundaries are totally chill, people who judge over others are boring. That being said, you do seem uncertain at times, i'd say you are not afraid to judge for yourself and few can say that of themselves.
Take as muuuch time as you like.
@@wonjez3982 hi! Thank you for your observation! It’s so interesting how different cultures have an effect on what is considered “normal” or “acceptable”. For example in America, it’s acceptable to have a graduate degree immediately after undergrad and work but in Australia, it’s more acceptable to go traveling to get to know yourself a little. The common denominator is that people tend to just go with what others think around them instead of thinking for themselves. You’re doing a great job thinking for yourself here in your comments too! It’s a rare thing to be such a forward thinker but it’s what all of the people in history did to influence necessary positive change for the world!
Thank you for watching!
@@CreatorPo Very kind answer, i spent a lot of time thinking through useless stuff. I'm from Germany btw, but work and travel in Australia sounds way too familiar haha.
I had written a lot more, as usual, but there's one thing i want to add back in then: Don't avoid people, try to give Feedback! Edit: Many people shy away at first hickups these days, i've had it.
Against someone with f.ex. overwhelming opinions, just try speaking up for yourself and just nicely tell them about your feeling, whenever you feel comfortable. In the end they will appreciate it because you're not the only one they do it to and it takes energy for anyone to filter it out, which will put anyone in some discomfort. (That "..yeah, yeah whatever i dont care what you think i should do..") And if you think you are just being overly sensitive, even better, you see it very clearly, it's probably too obvious for you to even think mentioning it, but it means your (long kept) feedback is a treasure for anyone!
Second little thing from just today, the exact moment you realise you like something, say i like that. it is the single best thing to tell others what they do good. That's pretty much the esscence of maturity to express your needs, you have to take care of yourself. Being mature might sound demanding, it's really just trusting and smoothly showing your feeling and respecting theirs at any time, makes you confident and accessible.
@@wonjez3982 Hello! I love this comment so much. I always wanted to visit Germany! I’d love to hear more about your experience. Thanks again for your thoughtful comment. I really like that, being open and honest enough to come forward to people and tell them the very thing no one wants to, but in a nice way. Those are the people who need understanding most too.
Complimenting people who you talk to, and I mean REALLY complimenting them and meaning it is one of the best ways that make yourself so magnetic to others. Feeling heard and listened to in the todays world is such a blessing. I am actually already working on a video on this very topic, so I am so glad you commented this!!