My Wife Cheated With My Best Friend (Is It Over?)

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  • @raywilson96
    @raywilson96 Рік тому +950

    A true friend would never sleep with his friends girl. If he does he's no friend.

    • @harundaniel7705
      @harundaniel7705 10 місяців тому +30

      Fr. I get grossed out even thinking about it.

    • @venustheplanet8208
      @venustheplanet8208 8 місяців тому +14

      Even if they were strangers this shouldn't be okay.

    • @andrerone8208
      @andrerone8208 8 місяців тому +6

      100 percent facts

    • @joaquinperez7095
      @joaquinperez7095 8 місяців тому +3

      💯💯💯

    • @Muzzy0085
      @Muzzy0085 7 місяців тому

      I slept with my friends wife . She was just horny and we flirted a bit . Only happened once and we never spoke of it again. We still friends . I think I just feel sorry for my mate because there is no ways I was the only one .. he is still married so no harm done

  • @don66hotrod94
    @don66hotrod94 11 місяців тому +623

    My heart goes out to this man. Forty years later I am still filled with anger, mistrust, and anxiety. DNA tests required.

    • @marcusarelius
      @marcusarelius 11 місяців тому +11

      Married with Kids at one point? What is your story?

    • @jaehparrk
      @jaehparrk 10 місяців тому +9

      the kids arent his

    • @mrv2308
      @mrv2308 8 місяців тому +2

      What happened?

    • @Jaycarbrownie12
      @Jaycarbrownie12 5 місяців тому +6

      LET IT GO ! Don’t let the ego destroy your life. Life is short .

    • @JENKEN425
      @JENKEN425 4 місяці тому +1

      YES ASK FR DNA TEST

  • @listenquitely2888
    @listenquitely2888 Рік тому +1685

    Don't go back to her. Sounds like she has been cheating for a while and the fact that you even entertained that idea, she knows she can always come back to you as a back up plan. YOU DESERVE BETTER. Also, get a DNA test for those kids.

    • @parkerskeeper9621
      @parkerskeeper9621 Рік тому +121

      100% get your kids tested. This women is evil

    • @BIGEAGLEDUDE
      @BIGEAGLEDUDE Рік тому +49

      He definitely needs to get this kids tested especially the youngest and the oldest because if she cheated on him around the time of conception with both of them oh he's going to be destroyed.

    • @mikenelson8377
      @mikenelson8377 Рік тому +25

      She’s def not done riding the carousel. This is a friendly reminder to men that she is not your wife. It is just your turn. Oh, and I agree about the kids thing. Get those kids tested asap. At this point, I’m willing to bet he’s probably not even straight, not that there’s anything wrong with same-sex marriages ‘cause there isn’t.

    • @mikenelson8377
      @mikenelson8377 Рік тому +1

      @@katrina3560 let’s be real though: anything and everything is a possibility right now. She clearly hasn’t gotten the fun out of her system, she has unresolved trauma, and those kids are probably not his. So yeah, the possibility of her getting ran through by women IS on the table. She’s destructive and this guy is honestly a wuss.

    • @mikenelson8377
      @mikenelson8377 Рік тому +8

      @@wordsalad01 oh, I never said it guarantees child support payments, lol. It only guarantees the father of the children.

  • @K_M.G
    @K_M.G 9 місяців тому +346

    She slept with your best friend and your co-worker, and your question is, "Is it over?" Are you serious??? Sir, please respect yourself and let this woman go. Get good evidence of her cheating. It'd be helpful in your divorce.
    Edit: And get rid of those fake "friends" in your circle!!!

    • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
      @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 8 місяців тому

      It is unbelievable how pathetic some people are. It almost makes me think he has a humiliation fetish or something honestly

    • @heatherchandler1184
      @heatherchandler1184 7 місяців тому +6

      Came here to say that. Just asking that question tells me why she even did him dirty and with the person she did in the first place. She doesn’t respect him because he allows it

    • @ba-je3hu
      @ba-je3hu 6 місяців тому +4

      He needs to drop that zero and get him a hero, maury!!!!

    • @michaelmoran2125
      @michaelmoran2125 5 місяців тому

      He doesnt respect himself so she commits betrayal. Yall woman dont fear hell anymore. Islam will be savage ​@heatherchandler1184

    • @brandonollar7876
      @brandonollar7876 5 місяців тому +7

      @@heatherchandler1184this is such a bad take. It is not his fault. He doesn’t allow anything. You can try to control every bit of the situation, be the perfect husband, etc, and your partner will still cheat if she wants to. He didn’t allow anything to happen.

  • @Dotthel
    @Dotthel Рік тому +1280

    He needs to take a DNA test for those kids! He’s way too good for her. She cheated not once but twice with your good friends. She’s trash!!!

    • @rebeccaoprea9917
      @rebeccaoprea9917 Рік тому

      The so called friends are trash too .

    • @flyandshy00
      @flyandshy00 Рік тому +98

      They're no friends.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +35

      Yeah she is and his friends are too. Sounds like he has no one he can trust. I feel like John should befriend him off the air so they can go deer hunting together for real. 😢

    • @shachede6828
      @shachede6828 Рік тому +7

      Facts! She on some BS

    • @David-wo9un
      @David-wo9un Рік тому +7

      @@CrystalM1917 He has made it clear therapists need to have distinct boundaries between professional and personal relationships; the professional relationship, although brief, has started.

  • @lyndalamb3221
    @lyndalamb3221 Рік тому +237

    Not only is she a serial cheater but she chooses to cheat with his friends. This is beyond cruel. He needs to get custody of the kids and get as far away from her as possible.

    • @biellaspointofview2054
      @biellaspointofview2054 9 місяців тому +10

      Plus paternity test if he chooses to know full truth

    • @joev7014
      @joev7014 8 місяців тому +4

      Too bad he’ll probably not get full custody. It’ll be a tough battle as a man who works as a wild life biologist … he’ll most likely get shared custody. He’s got a tough life ahead of him

    • @pumaden7318
      @pumaden7318 8 місяців тому +4

      Why would he need to get custody of the kids, just because you cheat it don’t make you an unfit parent. It’s horrible yes but cmon bro.

    • @andrerone8208
      @andrerone8208 8 місяців тому

      And take the kids with him for a new beginning

    • @mrv2308
      @mrv2308 8 місяців тому +3

      How can any man want to take a cheating woman back the first time with anyone let alone a best friend. Beyond me

  • @plutofaded2313
    @plutofaded2313 Рік тому +604

    And the friends didn’t tell him either???? He needs to control+alt+delete everyone in his life except the kids at this point

    • @mightymouse9001
      @mightymouse9001 Рік тому +58

      pending a dna test maybe the kids

    • @BIGEAGLEDUDE
      @BIGEAGLEDUDE Рік тому +22

      Or tell the friends wives

    • @ineedhoez
      @ineedhoez Рік тому +26

      That part. Wtf type of people are you around

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +8

      Maybe he is one of those nice people who sees the best in everyone and got taken advantage of.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +1

      Baffling.

  • @Burmeseti
    @Burmeseti Рік тому +65

    It always happens to good people. I stopped being the doormat when I turned 25 and although I'm not liked by many, I love myself and the person that I am is someone I respect. I also attract less terrible people.

    • @ChurlzVA
      @ChurlzVA Рік тому +6

      It's better that way, trust me.

    • @labmitch
      @labmitch 3 місяці тому +1

      I am still a doormat at 52. I am at the point to never want to be around PEOPLE again.

  • @noregertsyamsayin8011
    @noregertsyamsayin8011 Рік тому +2954

    She belongs to the streets

    • @camxdidxthat
      @camxdidxthat Рік тому +73

      She belongs to the group chat.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +115

      She IS the streets.😅 I mean I don't condone cheating of any kind but how you gonna cheat with your man's best friend and his coworker? It just doesn't get any more red light district than that..😢 it's not even funny actually, it's really just sad. I have no words.

    • @CP1960
      @CP1960 Рік тому +6

      @@CrystalM1917 amen sister. Amen ..you failed to mention it appears she cheated with his co worker years later after the affair one of the groomsman in their wedding where it was mentioned he was one of his best friends, which is usually when one is invited into a wedding party…she is a b.. or a c.. your choice

    • @alexrawls7407
      @alexrawls7407 Рік тому +5

      You are correct Sir

    • @kiki11974
      @kiki11974 Рік тому +2

      😅😅😅

  • @resueah7257
    @resueah7257 9 місяців тому +80

    35 year old woman tearing up at this man’s situation here. Brutal. He sounds so compassionate, responsible, humble and smart. Give that love to a woman and friends who deserve it

    • @Mica-e4p
      @Mica-e4p 8 місяців тому +4

      Give it to the kids. Mom is dangerous. At the rate of intimate partners the mom is having, I think her kids could be abused by one of those partners.

  • @Petruskinhap972
    @Petruskinhap972 Рік тому +748

    Cheating is bad enough. Cheating with someone the other partner knows and trusts is sociopathic imo. 😵‍💫

    • @johnsmith-kt7ef
      @johnsmith-kt7ef Рік тому +17

      she did this multiple times btw...

    • @bjkarana
      @bjkarana Рік тому +23

      A woman (or man) like that has zero respect for boundaries.

    • @omotayosatuyi252
      @omotayosatuyi252 11 місяців тому +9

      She's for the god damn streets

    • @thedadlife247
      @thedadlife247 10 місяців тому +2

      legit

    • @Dev-In-Denver123
      @Dev-In-Denver123 7 місяців тому +2

      All these guys you hear about taking their families out.. the news never reports *why*…

  • @BrittHannah07
    @BrittHannah07 Рік тому +110

    I hope the caller reads this...
    The best thing I did for my kids was leaving a marriage that was teaching them it's okay to tolerate cheating, being treated horribly, and not being in a partnership where each person gives 100%!
    The kids adapt! You will teach them how they should be treated by their future wife and how they should be treated by their future husband.
    Good luck to you!

    • @Alora6515
      @Alora6515 Рік тому +8

      The best thing that ever happened to our family was my parents divorcing. Removing us from an unsafe, unhealthy environment was the best thing my mother ever did for us (and she is an incredible mom). Our lives improved 2000% after that. People give divorce a bad rep, but it is sometimes the only thing that can save a family and especially the children.

    • @pamelawilliams9574
      @pamelawilliams9574 Рік тому +4

      Same here! Best decision ever. Kids need stability and love. A cheating household is not the place for children to learn values and love.

    • @eslavicky4432
      @eslavicky4432 27 днів тому

      @@Alora6515I always wished my parents divorced (i would advise them to do so since I was able to cognitively formulate a strong case for it around 10 years old) Sadly their toxic relationship persevered til today. Things have gotten better but their approach with one another and in general has room for improvement. I grew up acting as the families uncertified therapist and resented them for it for many years. I have 2 brothers- My middle brother learned so many maladaptive behaviors from my parents that I know it’s hard for him to foster healthy relationships with a significant other. Both brothers don’t have a relationship with one another and seem to be in competition with each other since I can remember. One is passive and the other aggressive about it. It sucks and I resent my parents for all of it. My mother is selfish and I cringe at how she navigates herself and see how she uses every opportunity for her own benefit. I struggle with this learned behavior too watch myself to not be this way. My father was physically, verbally aggressive and often overcompensated for his shortcomings when he wasn’t neurotic. Today they recognize that they didn’t do things the right way and wished they could turn back the hands of time.

  • @KitCatForever777
    @KitCatForever777 Рік тому +607

    The best friend kicked her to the curb and now she wants to come back to her safe guy.

    • @Chet_24
      @Chet_24 Рік тому +38

      That's exactly what I thought, too

    • @Hiker2110
      @Hiker2110 Рік тому +34

      And she realizes her net worth will likely go down a ton by divorcing her husband.

    • @jet4415
      @jet4415 Рік тому +14

      @@Hiker2110 He’s a wildlife biologist, her lifestyle would go way downhill.

    • @Hiker2110
      @Hiker2110 Рік тому +28

      @@jet4415 100%. I feel so bad. He needs new friends too. I hope he kicks all of those lowlifes to the curb, focuses on his career and kids, and eventually meets someone much better.

    • @prvtcaboose
      @prvtcaboose Рік тому +16

      ​@@jet4415unless she wins alimony, which is very likely these days even if she cheated... Twice. The justice system is so screwed up.

  • @themadbassist795
    @themadbassist795 Рік тому +165

    There’s an old saying that goes “Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.” Let her go bro, she ain’t worth worrying over.

    • @donsmith9194
      @donsmith9194 Рік тому +19

      “And you never fool me again.” George Bush

    • @jamest8967
      @jamest8967 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@donsmith9194 my head went to the same place😂

  • @christophervehon9554
    @christophervehon9554 Рік тому +501

    This woman has gaslit this man so hard he's thinking of staying. I loved what John said, "Thie first confession was practice to see if she could get away with it".

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Рік тому +17

      Omg. That's just sick!

    • @johnsmith-kt7ef
      @johnsmith-kt7ef Рік тому +12

      ya before she brought up the first separation in october she was already cheating again...

    • @RichObiQuan
      @RichObiQuan 10 місяців тому +10

      We call this type of gyaldem a jezebel

    • @ronhall5395
      @ronhall5395 2 місяці тому +2

      ​@@johnsmith-kt7efThe separation was her idea. The first confession from back when they first got married was her justification to get out of the house so she could screw his friend in peace. Then when found out she was doing that, she then confessed to a long affair with his friend, but continued even after telling him about it. Unforgivable in my book.

  • @user-zs1fr7im6l
    @user-zs1fr7im6l 10 місяців тому +34

    My Wife Cheated With My Best Friend (Is It Over?) YES IT'S OVER ! AND HE'S NOT YOUR FRIEND AND SHE'S NOT EITHER !

  • @stevengtv
    @stevengtv Рік тому +391

    I wish this guy could respect himself more than he does. Please man, don’t get back with her! What you put up with is what you stand for.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +9

      Correct.

    • @aprilchow-chee5281
      @aprilchow-chee5281 Рік тому +18

      Powerful statement "what you put up with is what you stand for".

    • @mxusa8383
      @mxusa8383 Рік тому +13

      Men have to start learning that women use their body to secure a relationship. If she’s giving her body to another man she most definitely is trying to secure the next move. She’s hoping the guy catches feelings and wants to accept her in. Sounds like the guy was using her for sex and now doesn’t want anything to do with her so she wants mister reliable back. This poor guy has to kick her to the streets.

    • @snsn7251
      @snsn7251 Рік тому +3

      She is a master manipulator

    • @phattjohnson
      @phattjohnson 9 місяців тому +2

      @@snsn7251 Sounds more like she's his first and he lets her get away with blue murder. Hate to see it.

  • @paulwilliam8176
    @paulwilliam8176 Рік тому +45

    You answered that question perfectly John. That woman is vile. That man is still painting a picture of a perfect family. I hope he left that marriage in the history books.

  • @c.edales740
    @c.edales740 Рік тому +104

    That woman lacks integrity, morals, good character. Free her up Isaac. Let her go be with her man. They are two of a kind.

  • @edema.3418
    @edema.3418 Рік тому +111

    If your best friend sleeps with your wife, he was never your friend to begin with.

  • @LolaDelMarCaribe
    @LolaDelMarCaribe Рік тому +541

    He’s really asking that question? I feel so terrible for him, how can someone stoop so low to cheat on their spouse with the best friend. That’s a whole level of nasty.

    • @omgurheadsgone
      @omgurheadsgone Рік тому +47

      MULTIPLE TIMES WITH MULTIPLE GOOD FRIENDS!!

    • @freetoplayaccount3487
      @freetoplayaccount3487 Рік тому +26

      I think some people are naive and try to justify bc of kids 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @kagnewcobra5228
      @kagnewcobra5228 Рік тому +4

      Are you kidding? Happens quite often.

    • @vkdeen7570
      @vkdeen7570 Рік тому +12

      a woman who does this to her guy even once... has zero respect for him and never will. any guy in this situation should leave ASAP or at the very least do their own thing if they want to stay in the house for kids sake.

    • @elladeon
      @elladeon Рік тому +18

      There's a part of your brain that doesn't want to accept that your entire world just broke. He wants to go back to where she wasn't a cheater and their family was together and everything was okay. It's the bargaining stage of grief, or maybe denial.

  • @coryblake5623
    @coryblake5623 Рік тому +41

    Holy heck that got me.... that guy was so heart broken... you could tell John was hurting for him too.... with 3 kids under 5?... man... she nuked her own family

  • @bethschultz922
    @bethschultz922 Рік тому +87

    Run, run, run. She lacks empathy. She will always choose herself over anyone else. You definitely need new friends too.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +3

      She also lacks integrity

    • @Shortay1325
      @Shortay1325 8 місяців тому

      @@alluringbliss4165 She pretty much lacks everything except for dicks inside of her. Poor guy. I've been cheated on before like this too, but thankfully it was when I was young without kids.

  • @volsdeep9395
    @volsdeep9395 10 місяців тому +30

    I’ve been cheated on once and unfortunately it was with the only girl I ever saw myself marrying. Even then, I still wanted to be with her, but you have to follow your brain and not your heart. If she cheats once, she’ll cheat again. Fast forward months later, I ran into her at a bar. She was with the guy she cheated on me with. Later that night, she texted me asking if I wanted to hook up. Completely lost what little respect I had left for her. Right then and there, I knew her cheating on me was a blessing in disguise.

    • @glai5752
      @glai5752 7 місяців тому

      Whew! That was a close call. Thanks your lucky stars my friend!

    • @ArmageddonIsHere
      @ArmageddonIsHere 5 місяців тому +1

      Evidently variety is the spice of life, at least for her...
      She's living it up!

  • @tspencer661
    @tspencer661 Рік тому +300

    This is a sad story.
    It’s a parent’s job to model for their children what a healthy, respectful, loving relationship is. Sometimes that means walking away from an unhealthy, disrespectful, unloving relationship.
    I hope this man gets the strength to walk away.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +6

      Sometimes parents stay, especially back in the days.

    • @mariahconklin4150
      @mariahconklin4150 Рік тому +5

      My parents didn't teach me anything and are toxic themselves.

    • @greenAbbot
      @greenAbbot Рік тому +7

      @@alluringbliss4165 Sometimes parents do stay, but that doesn’t mean it’s better for the kids.

    • @tspencer661
      @tspencer661 Рік тому +4

      @@alluringbliss4165 I know. My dad should have divorced my mom when I was 4. He didn’t.

    • @tspencer661
      @tspencer661 Рік тому +5

      @@mariahconklin4150 My parents taught me what not to do.😆. I’m still figuring out what to do.

  • @datsumcrzysht
    @datsumcrzysht Рік тому +10

    Heck no, hell no, and don’t even think about it. If you get back together, then you can only blame yourself.

  • @olivias2836
    @olivias2836 Рік тому +200

    I agree with Johns advice here. When it comes to cheating it’s never ok, but there are levels to it, there is no “momentary lapse of judgement” when it comes to cheating with your husbands BEST FRIEND. That is vile and heartless on every level, it’s very cold and calculating, the woman sounds like a true narcissist

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 Рік тому +12

      And that guy ain't his best friend, if he can do that to another man. Yuck!

    • @AKD155
      @AKD155 10 місяців тому +6

      How anyone can cheat on someone blows my mind. But with a person's supposed best friend is awful like wtf ??

    • @barryc9115
      @barryc9115 9 місяців тому +3

      There are no ‘levels’ of it, cheating is NEVER a mistake. The process of cheating takes several conscious CHOICES. Only simps and weak men try and explain it away by applying the word mistake to it or implying that adultery isn’t a conscious betrayal that is never acceptable. A man that ‘forgives’ cheating will lose the respect of the cheater even more.
      Always, every time, regardless of the details, leave a cheater.

    • @Tyler-vw9bh
      @Tyler-vw9bh 9 місяців тому +1

      @@barryc9115 She explicitly said cheating is never ok. She is 100% right that there are levels to it. Example A: getting drunk at your friend's bachelorette party and making out with some guy at a bar. Example B: having a long-term relationship with your family member...... do you really think those two are the same level? Once again, not asking if either is okay - they aren't - but one is 10x worse than the other.

    • @barryc9115
      @barryc9115 9 місяців тому

      @@Tyler-vw9bh
      Incorrect. Cheating is cheating. Period.

  • @mikepedroza9218
    @mikepedroza9218 9 місяців тому +12

    Man I can hear the pain in this man’s voice and all his friends are just awful for destroying his family

  • @thorneto2742
    @thorneto2742 Рік тому +124

    0 tolerance for cheating IMO. One time is too many. Don’t get why anyone puts up with it

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +6

      Religion, economy.. it sucks .. Grew up around it, it creates long damages.

    • @greenAbbot
      @greenAbbot Рік тому +5

      @@alluringbliss4165 huh?

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +9

      @@greenAbbot There are many reasons why people stay , the most common ones tend to be religion and financial status or the economy in which the person lives in. I grew up in an underdeveloped country, there were no options for women beside living with their husbands. I grew up in that type of environment.

    • @tabithaallen6100
      @tabithaallen6100 Рік тому +11

      100% agree if you cheat one time, with who ever, doesn't matter if it's a best friend or a stranger, that relationship is done, in my opinion

    • @terriesmith2616
      @terriesmith2616 Рік тому +1

      Beyonce..whose worth billions of dollars continue to stay with her cheating husband. He cheated on her multiple times with multiple women, and she's a pop star yet she chose to stay with a cheater.
      Same thing with Cardi B. She's worth millions of dollars yet continues to stay with her cheating husband who cheated on her multiple times.
      Money is not an issue for these two ladies yet they stay.

  • @bluesslider76
    @bluesslider76 10 місяців тому +7

    She will never be faithful. Peace of mind is more important than hanging on to a cheater.

  • @ember13dp
    @ember13dp Рік тому +127

    Poor guy!! He had a fight with his parents... then lost his wife and 2 good friends!!! You deserve way better fam. I hope you heal and come back from this ❤️

    • @mlokole254
      @mlokole254 Рік тому +17

      If they slept with his wife, they were never his friends!!!

    • @pi8582
      @pi8582 Рік тому +15

      He had an argument with his parents about his wife. Pretty sure because they knew she was unfaithful. Lost the friends because she was unfaithful with them.

    • @ember13dp
      @ember13dp Рік тому +8

      @@mlokole254 Yea... 2 people he THOUGHT were good friends.

    • @MG-hb2he
      @MG-hb2he Рік тому +8

      I wouldn't be surprised if the fight with the parents was caused by her.

    • @davymac92
      @davymac92 Рік тому

      I'd be shocked if it wasn't caused by her@@MG-hb2he

  • @ellak1382
    @ellak1382 4 місяці тому +6

    We always hear John tell people to call him back with updates later to work through the next steps, but we hardly ever hear the updates. I would love to hear a follow up on this 6 months to a year down the line.

  • @sydcash1626
    @sydcash1626 Рік тому +129

    I wanna know how she has time for all these affairs with three kids under five. Impressive commitment…but not to her husband.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +23

      You and me both. Crazy. And she probably was "too tired" to sleep with her husband....🙄

    • @tyso921
      @tyso921 Рік тому +2

      House calls

    • @GixxerRider1991
      @GixxerRider1991 Рік тому +1

      For real

    • @johnsmith-kt7ef
      @johnsmith-kt7ef Рік тому +7

      @@CrystalM1917 thats a blessing for him bc in south carolina he can still go for at fault divorce since.

    • @amandaatchley6873
      @amandaatchley6873 Рік тому

      @@johnsmith-kt7efnfortunately the courts are gynocentric, as is every institution in the U.S. today. That useless 304 will get primary custody, alimony, and half of his stuff and all the hormonal and neurotic feminists will cheer her on.

  • @saloninegi7062
    @saloninegi7062 Рік тому +16

    Having children with a narcissist messes up your whole life, to the point where you can't even think straight. No matter what you do, the children lose. I sympathize with this man.

    • @kitchensink7345
      @kitchensink7345 9 місяців тому

      It does! Makes having a normal stress free life impossible.

    • @Kathy-qu8zj
      @Kathy-qu8zj 2 місяці тому

      AGREED.. TOTALLY.. been there. No one would understand unless they’ve walked in your shoes. They always prey on empathetic kind people..

  • @prudencek7087
    @prudencek7087 Рік тому +235

    Uuummm... so... he can't trust his wife around his friends and can't trust his friends around his wife. if they have kids, he needs to get DNA tests done. 😢

    • @mrskitty7929
      @mrskitty7929 Рік тому +4

      They are his kids because he has been raising them

    • @alisonfraser8231
      @alisonfraser8231 Рік тому +11

      Given the timeline, sounds like she only comes back to him when she’s pregnant and runs around when she’s given birth.

    • @rebeccashields9626
      @rebeccashields9626 Рік тому +4

      Would he even want to know? Would that affect his ability to get custody of them? If it was me I’d rather not know.

    • @prudencek7087
      @prudencek7087 Рік тому +15

      @@rebeccashields9626 it would be good for him to know, and for the kids to eventually know if he is NOT their father. Secrets like that always come out, and in the worst way, it would be better for them just to find out asap and deal with it. It should not affect his getting custody of them, cause once he signed their birth certificates, by law he's their father. But... if there arises any health issues with the kids, it would be beneficial for them to know their biological family background.

    • @standground8284
      @standground8284 Рік тому +6

      @@mrskitty7929 I would hope that any man facing this situation would determine if the children are his. Even though he signed the birth certificate and they’re not his. He can pay child support and wash his hands clean of everyone and move forward on his own.

  • @anthonyguzman799
    @anthonyguzman799 Рік тому +13

    So no one noticed the fallout with the parents? Thats a huge red flag. If someone has no interest in getting along with your family, run.

    • @merricat3025
      @merricat3025 9 місяців тому +2

      They probably saw what she was

  • @xxkarbogxx
    @xxkarbogxx Рік тому +65

    Isaac!! You DESERVE BETTER! There are women out there who would love you as you deserve. Your wife has NO REGARD for you whatsoever! You will definitely go thru this again if you stick with her. I truly wish you the best! ❤

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +9

      Why is it that the worst people end up with the best people? 😅 obviously she must be beautiful for him to have married her bc her character ain't it. 😮 but there are plenty of pretty women out here....on the inside too.

  • @chriscolbert2188
    @chriscolbert2188 Рік тому +27

    Exact situation was with my cousin and his ex wife. He worked hard all day and left her "alone", and instead of being grateful for a 6 figure salary she cheated on him with his best friend. Destroyed him both mentally and physically, he didnt deserve it hes a great dude. Fast forward 10 years, his daughter just changed her name legally to his old best friends last name....his ex wife and best friend are married and have been living together ever since. They now have 3 kids in their household including my cousins daughter.
    Apparently the daughter was forced to have her name changed as she was crying to my cousin(her father) that her mom lied to her.

    • @hillarybillary21
      @hillarybillary21 10 місяців тому +1

      Your cousin chose poorly. He’s not a victim. Used the little head instead of the big one, those are the consequences.

    • @NorthernRealmJackal
      @NorthernRealmJackal 6 місяців тому

      ​@@hillarybillary21 lol I bet you think women who get abused and beat up by their husbands "chose poorly" and are "not victims".
      How dare people be hurt by someone they trusted. The audacity.

  • @jonathanvalle6582
    @jonathanvalle6582 Рік тому +34

    I had that same problem, it’s over trust me. The sooner you move on the sooner you will heal.

  • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
    @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 Рік тому +6

    Someone who would do that to you doesn’t love or respect you. Have some self respect & leave for Godsakes. The fact he’s even considering staying absolutely BLOWS my mind

  • @lilsamantha1
    @lilsamantha1 Рік тому +68

    Wild. Its OVER

  • @brooklin_bernek
    @brooklin_bernek 8 місяців тому +3

    Man this is the first time I heard Jon say it done, legit the first time. I’d run for the hills my guy. The fact that she keeps doing it HER BEHAVIOR IS SHOWING THAT SHE TRULY DOES NOT CARE AT ALL. I’m so so sorry 😢

  • @David-wo9un
    @David-wo9un Рік тому +106

    I have commented in the past how I thought JD puts too much blame on the man when things go sideways in the relationship. I commend him for calling out the wife’s behavior and even letting Isaac know she is unlikely to change. This was a great response to an awful situation.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +8

      There was no pussyfooting around with this one. It was just too blatantly clear. His wife has no respect for him and clearly doesn't love him.

    • @carolallison9685
      @carolallison9685 Рік тому

      Sorry to tell you this but the science shows it usually is the mans fault. Even the bible says this. If a man is to lead his wife, than everything she does is because he led her there. If she has an affair, its because he led her there with poor leadership. Many people will say "oh but thats just in the bible". Well no, we see this when we look at evolutionary behavior. Women bond very hard, very quickly after one sexual encounter with a man. This is to ensure the survival of the children. Most women who cheat, do it because they arent getting their needs met. So if we look at it under the lense of human behavior, this means the man is a weak learder and has shown his mate he is not the best fit to ensure her children thrive, so she gets the desire to find a better mate and potential father for the children. To be honest, i actually blame feminism because it has clearly made men weak leaders. We see that couples who have a trad marriage are much happier and trad wives normally stay faithful because they feel secure. They feel they have a strong man who will always lead them down the right path, and more importantly, they feel their husband will raise strong children. Soft men create soft men and women with psychological issues. So if a man wants to ensure he isnt cheated on, he needs to be a strong leader who shows love to his family. If he can do that, any woman will stay faithful.

    • @brenttrotter88
      @brenttrotter88 Рік тому +6

      If Dr JD defended the woman this time he would have lost all credibility.

    • @terriesmith2616
      @terriesmith2616 Рік тому +1

      This call was so clear cut, Delony couldn't defend the woman this time. If he did, he knew it'll show blatant bias and he knew he would lose any last shred of credibility he has left. That's why he didn't defend the woman...this time.

    • @Rapunzel674
      @Rapunzel674 Рік тому

      I think the same thing. He doesn’t hold women accountable as much as men .
      Society it’s let doesn’t hold women accountable.therefore, women themselves for the most part don’t hold themselves accountable.

  • @croatiancroissant28776
    @croatiancroissant28776 8 місяців тому +4

    “Im ready to work in it”=“your friend doesn’t want me anymore.”

  • @mxusa8383
    @mxusa8383 Рік тому +75

    It’s not hard to find a woman that’s never cheated but it is hard to find a woman that’s only cheated once…

    • @Musicienne-DAB1995
      @Musicienne-DAB1995 Рік тому +3

      That sounds true!

    • @vsand9798
      @vsand9798 Рік тому +20

      I’ve never cheated. I’ve been cheated on. It really hurts. My husband’s best friend tried to get me to have an affair with him before we were married. It was a real shock when he told me he was attracted to me and wanted an affair. When I said no he told me not to tell my husband we could just forget it. I said no way was I going to lie and pretend he was anything but a backstabbing POS.

    • @willylumpnj
      @willylumpnj 11 місяців тому +3

      very interesting observation

    • @rarebird_82
      @rarebird_82 9 місяців тому +10

      I did once, almost 2 decades ago now, when I was young and dumb, and I can confirm it's the ugliest thing in the world. I never ever fully forgave myself for the hurt I caused, I left as he deserved better. I don't regret leaving as we married young and grew apart, but I bitterly regret the affair and the pain it caused. After that I remarried and despite my second marriage being abusive and miserable at times, and having multiple opportunities to default to that behaviour, I never did. In fact I put up with over a decade of crap I wouldn't usually tolerate, because part of me felt like I deserved it and that was my karma. My ex even sat me down once and said - stop punishing yourself, let it go, I forgave you years ago. Then I said - but I didn't. It took about 13 years before I felt like - ok, enough, I've served my time, lesson learned.
      We are rare, but we exist ✌🏻

    • @vannhantran547
      @vannhantran547 9 місяців тому +2

      @@rarebird_82 Your ex is the one

  • @josephbentley8212
    @josephbentley8212 Рік тому +7

    This one was hard to listen to. The pain and absolute gut wrenching sadness in the callers voice was heartbreaking.
    His wife has literally broken him down to nothing and it honestly makes me so mad how people can do that to one another.
    Caller needs to move on to better things and ditch those assholes he called friends and to never get back with his wife… once a cheater always a cheater, and she’s already cheated on him three times. She’ll do it again if she had the chance, the only difference is she’ll be a whole lot more careful to not get caught…

  • @joea9222
    @joea9222 Рік тому +37

    No, he needs to move on from her. He deserves so much better. She has humiliated this man by using anybody close to him for her own sick pleasure. I don't know how this guy isn't furious telling this story.

  • @Jason_Voorhees.
    @Jason_Voorhees. 6 місяців тому +2

    Betrayed by his two closest humans.... absolutely sickening.

  • @nomaam5736
    @nomaam5736 Рік тому +26

    To even suggest he stays with her is criminal.

  • @thexyzfiend8114
    @thexyzfiend8114 Рік тому +1

    Only comes clean when they’re ready to walk. Literally my worst nightmare. Keep your head up king.

  • @Jedi12789
    @Jedi12789 Рік тому +49

    You deserve better my dude! You know what you need to do! Lots of women cherish good men. You do you and be good to your kids. First time shame you, second time shame on me!

  • @leahkopp449
    @leahkopp449 5 місяців тому +3

    She’s using you as a safety blanket if that man never left her she wouldn’t have came back!!!!

  • @43DW
    @43DW Рік тому +150

    Dude is a pushover there’s no way you can look at her the same after this

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 Рік тому +28

      Kids mean you tolerate a lot you probably wouldn't otherwise.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +5

      @@brightpage1020 this is true.

    • @dantouneto
      @dantouneto Рік тому +8

      ​@@brightpage1020and he's so nice / naïve he didn't question their biological link. Those children might not even be his yet he's tolerating things he wouldn't otherwise.
      Sounds like a good dude tho, wishing him the best.

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 Рік тому +4

      @@dantouneto maybe he knows they're his. All my kids came out looking exactly like their dad. It doesn't happen that way for everyone but the resemblance was so clear to all the family at the hospital visiting and all the nurses and docs who delivered them. 2/3 still look more like hubby 5-10 yrs later.
      Happened to one of my sisters, too. All her kids came out looking like different versions of their dad.
      The other sister's kids half looked like her more, but the resemblance is still clear and almost uncanny.
      Maybe that'why he doesn't question. Sometimes you really can tell and it's 'that clear. Not every time...

    • @bjkarana
      @bjkarana Рік тому

      Do you have kids?

  • @laserwizard1
    @laserwizard1 Місяць тому +1

    Once can be forgiven. Twice is the last straw. Three times is gone. Dr. Delony is one amazing man. I am continued to be blown away by how sensitive and firm he is and so respectful

    • @Night_Owl_Noah
      @Night_Owl_Noah Місяць тому +1

      Once is unforgivable

    • @curiousgeorge9164
      @curiousgeorge9164 19 днів тому

      So she should be forgiven for cheating with her husband’s best friend? That’s forgivable to you? I have a doormat I can sell to you with your name on it.

  • @Raegoul
    @Raegoul Рік тому +70

    One affair and it's over for me no matter what I did. There's no such thing as a mistake when it comes to having an affair. I've been very clear about this in my relationship. This poor guy.

    • @devadii24
      @devadii24 Рік тому +6

      A mistake is a quick thing or wrong words in a fight…. an affair takes a lot of effort and steps…. I agree 💯

    • @imenehaddad2860
      @imenehaddad2860 Рік тому +1

      With his best friend

    • @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
      @annaelisavettavonnedozza9607 8 місяців тому +2

      Totally agree. That is a dealbreaker. I don’t care how long we’ve been together I’m done

    • @vaska1999
      @vaska1999 7 місяців тому

      ​@@imenehaddad2860Some "friend", that.

  • @sw4841
    @sw4841 Рік тому +6

    TO EVERYONE- if a spouse or boyfriend, girlfriend, cheat, you have to get rid of them there’s no other way they will never respect you, and as you might like to forgive, you will never be able to forget just like a criminal who never gets caught keeps committing crimes until they get caught you have to dump this person, and find somebody else to save your self-respect

  • @kathleencooney1518
    @kathleencooney1518 Рік тому +66

    3 kids under 5 ? She cheated & still is. Are those YOUR children. I am very sorry but you need to do a DNA test.
    Run !

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +16

      Maybe I allow motherhood to restrict my life more than other moms but HTF did she even find the time and energy to engage in such extracurricular activity any way?🤔

    • @devadii24
      @devadii24 Рік тому +6

      Most women can’t even keep up with their husbands let alone a full blown affair 😮

    • @beckyshell4649
      @beckyshell4649 Рік тому +4

      I agree there is a decent chance the kids may not be his, but it isn't the kid's fault. Just because they don't belong to him doesn't mean he doesn't love the kids. In a way, if I were him I don't know if I would want to know.

    • @beckyshell4649
      @beckyshell4649 9 місяців тому

      @victornieves1794 I don’t have high hopes that the man willing to cheat with a married woman is prime father material . I could be wrong just saying .Kids do have the right to know their biological parents but sometimes there is a price to pay of putting up with a lot of adult drama.

    • @beckyshell4649
      @beckyshell4649 9 місяців тому

      @victornieves1794 The difference I would see that as bad as her behavior was she is the only mother they have . Her husband is a proven good father . The bio dad has no track record ,but his pedigree is shaky. I don’t pretend to know the right answer to their mess ,I just think a good father takes priority over a chance sperm donor .

  • @christinejunk8184
    @christinejunk8184 10 місяців тому +2

    Isaac genuinely sounds like a sweet person who has been screwed over. With everything that has happened he's still talking about how blessed he is with good people in his life. I wish him all of the best and hope he finds the strength to move on from this hot mess.

  • @greggs2240
    @greggs2240 Рік тому +45

    I feel so sorry for this dude. He sounds like a great, humble guy. She's running him over like a steamroller. Horrible, but different if no kids involved. He will find a good woman, because he has a good soul. The fact that kids are involved really pisses me off.

    • @glai5752
      @glai5752 7 місяців тому

      No one can steamrolling him, especially twice. And he’s still thinking about going back for more. I wouldn’t call him great or humble.

  • @ArchThaBoss
    @ArchThaBoss Рік тому +20

    I’m sorry bro, it’s a wrap. She cheated not once, but twice, with people who you called friends. She has no respect for you. You have to walk away. It won’t be the last time she cheats. Because now she knows it’s always something you will forgive because she’s already taken it about as far as it can go and you’re still considering it
    Another thing, she flat out admitted to you she cheated while asking you for a breakup. She doesn’t want you. You’re the last option. The fall back plan. Whatever she has going on isn’t working and now she wants to turn back to you as the last resort. Don’t give in to it. Don’t be anyone’s second option. As a man you can’t be that if you ever want to be respected in your relationship.

    • @blacksquid270
      @blacksquid270 Рік тому

      And that's just the two times he knows about, I really doubt that she gave him the full story.

  • @henryanona1640
    @henryanona1640 Рік тому +28

    Get the best attorney you can, visit others so she can't use them in the divorce, and go for full custody. She's checked out of this relationship a while ago.

    • @glai5752
      @glai5752 7 місяців тому +1

      As horrible as she is, some states don’t care if a parent behaves badly. They do care if the parent is abusive or neglectful. Getting full custody doesn’t mean she can’t see them if she wanted to. A “good” lawyer in 2024 can cost between $150k - $200k depending on how complicated your case is. Should never use children as a weapon to get back at your spouse. It never worked.

  • @heatherkimler7607
    @heatherkimler7607 10 місяців тому

    His voice is all sweet n u can just hear the desperation and pain. And he'll never be the same.

  • @lauren4078
    @lauren4078 Рік тому +14

    WOW!! What a complete P.O.S. This poor man and family. Absolutely heartbreaking.

  • @louisefitzgerald4400
    @louisefitzgerald4400 Рік тому +2

    She has zero respect for him and NEVER will. Those poor kids. That poor man.

  • @ElisseThompson
    @ElisseThompson Рік тому +56

    John first starting the show: “I think y’all can save this!”
    John now: “Sounds like you’re done, man.”
    I approve. So many of these callers call in with marriages falling apart and zero respect from their spouses and sometimes it’s best & healthiest to just move on instead of staying in the cycle of dishonesty and toxicity. I’m happy that John, while always compassionate and supportive, is starting to see that too. There have been a few calls where he’s advised a ton of effort and therapy and work for the caller when it really seems like it won’t end well no matter what they do.

  • @eltoro777
    @eltoro777 10 місяців тому +4

    -bro,,, DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!! She well do it again! I promise you!

  • @BassBwoy3
    @BassBwoy3 Рік тому +17

    I like to say, when people show you who they are, you best ‘be leavin’ them’. Cheating on you with one of your own groomsman?! That’s a dagger in the heart. Neither of them deserve you and truthfully if one of your closest friends does that to you with your new ‘best friend til death’, that shows people close to you care more about themselves than they care about you. God that sucks.

  • @chrisflo24
    @chrisflo24 Рік тому +4

    It's over. If the guy can't learn to accept the fact his wife had never loved or respected him and can't find the courage to leave after what she put him through then nobody can help him. He has to do this on his own.

  • @Amysalol
    @Amysalol Рік тому +71

    The first time I see someone betrayed this much and still wanting to work things out.This guy looks really unique and precious.

    • @alluringbliss4165
      @alluringbliss4165 Рік тому +9

      Probably a little broken too

    • @michaelh2282
      @michaelh2282 Рік тому +7

      If he were calling John after being cheated on once and still trying to work it out, then yes, he might be "precious."
      Now he's just contemptible. And I'm sure his "best friend," his wife, his co-worker, and half the neighborhood feel the same way.

    • @CrystalM1917
      @CrystalM1917 Рік тому +7

      He is a really upstanding man but it's time to hold onto his self respect now and leave. Even if some of all of the kids aren't his, he will likely continue the duty of a father to them based on the kind of man he is. This is really sad. I'm appalled as a wife that she displayed these kind of characteristics. I don't even have time to cheat even if I wanted to. I have too many responsibilities as a mother and wife. It baffles me. I guess you make time for whats important to you. Sheesh.....😢

    • @amendaalmonte2236
      @amendaalmonte2236 Рік тому +5

      Or has poor self esteem.

    • @hikerhobby1204
      @hikerhobby1204 Рік тому +2

      It doesn’t matter what half the neighborhood thinks. It’s non of their business.

  • @luck9837
    @luck9837 3 місяці тому +1

    Someone very close to me who experienced something similar told me its harder to leave than it is to just accept it and stay, hope this dude gets the strength to move on

  • @eliflynt6415
    @eliflynt6415 Рік тому +32

    John is all the time saying "I never tell people to divorce BUUUTT..."

    • @ineedhoez
      @ineedhoez Рік тому +5

      He could not even do his speech!

  • @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven
    @ecclesiastesThreeVerseSeven 5 місяців тому +1

    Lack of boundaries doesnt change..its who people choose to be.

  • @Richard-wl2nh
    @Richard-wl2nh Рік тому +14

    the caller is a good dude, I hope the best for him.

  • @Gxport
    @Gxport Рік тому +7

    Not only is she cheating, but she’s cheating with his close friends?! Sounds like she’s trying to hurt him. I’m really curious going on on her side. Either way, let her go.

  • @NenaVA1
    @NenaVA1 Рік тому +22

    Mmmmmaaaaaannnnnn she cheated on you with 2 of your FRIENDS...TWICE!!! I would be OUT... the damage is already done 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @BIGEAGLEDUDE
      @BIGEAGLEDUDE Рік тому +5

      No two different best friends and I guarantee you she cheated on him with the first one during the first couple of years of their relationship and during the first couple of years of their marriage. I would not be surprised if their oldest is the best friend's child and their youngest is the other best friend's child

    • @WillIam79-c7f
      @WillIam79-c7f Рік тому +2

      Simpology

    • @NenaVA1
      @NenaVA1 Рік тому +2

      @BIGEAGLEDUDE ohhhhh wow... I definitely concur with her kids because nine times outta ten, she more than likely told her husband the babies are his, not knowing if those children were the cause of those affairs...I truly hope he get a DNA test smfh

    • @BIGEAGLEDUDE
      @BIGEAGLEDUDE Рік тому +3

      @@NenaVA1 he needs it more than he knows. But he doesn't want to do it because it's bad enough to his wife cheated to have the thought of his three kids particularly his youngest and his oldest not being biologically his will scare the crap out of him

  • @myrandasharma948
    @myrandasharma948 Рік тому +1

    Poor guy 😩 shame on her. I hope he’s able to heal.

  • @drewbaker5364
    @drewbaker5364 Рік тому +33

    Was it the same friend twice or two different friends she slept with? He needs a new wife and friends.

  • @TheAgentmigs
    @TheAgentmigs 9 місяців тому +1

    I love the "Is it over?" in the title....OF COURSE IT IS.

  • @RespekfulFungus
    @RespekfulFungus Рік тому +26

    He’s going back to her…

    • @kathleencooney1518
      @kathleencooney1518 Рік тому +6

      I’m afraid you’re right.

    • @RichObiQuan
      @RichObiQuan 10 місяців тому

      Unfortunately you’re right. He’s a weak man like most. 😢

    • @jonah-n8l
      @jonah-n8l 7 місяців тому

      Guaranteed ,! And 100 percent guaranteed she will do this again

    • @Namronnnn45
      @Namronnnn45 7 місяців тому

      Simp

  • @DontAtMe2k24
    @DontAtMe2k24 Рік тому +1

    This dude sounds like a keeper. He’s gotta keep it moving. He will be happier with someone that is a decent human being.

  • @getinthespace7715
    @getinthespace7715 Рік тому +21

    I'm sorry but if your wife cheats with your best friend.
    Divorce the wife, get a DNA test for the kids, and ghost the "Best Friend" they are both garbage.

  • @johndlong7117
    @johndlong7117 Рік тому +3

    Don't save her, she doesn't want to be saved!

  • @eurekahope5310
    @eurekahope5310 Рік тому +8

    Once, with grief, repentance, and accountability, I would try to work it out. Twice? She is a serial cheater and the marriage is destroyed.
    And she did this with small children? What a selfish person!!!

  • @faithbasedliving9391
    @faithbasedliving9391 Рік тому +6

    My ex fiance attempted to cheat on me with my best friend days after i gave birth to our daughter. I left him. That was just too far. I’m now married to an amazing man 🙏💕 all thanks to the mercy and love of God. He’s an even better father than husband. What more can I ask for?

  • @droptozro
    @droptozro Рік тому +15

    Don't go back man. Your wife and "friends" seem to have no respect for you sadly. Not sure what you're day to day life is back, but no one deserves that. You're a backup to her fantasies with other men--so when they don't work out she comes back to you for stability. Some serious boundaries would have to be set just like Dr. John said to even consider it--and I doubt she'd be up for it either. Basically, no private phone to start would just be one.

  • @jacejackson2510
    @jacejackson2510 4 місяці тому

    Thank you for this episode. I’m going through a similar situation. This gave me some perspective and I really needed it. I’m still in pain and fearful of the future but every day I’m gaining a little bit of
    myself back and seeing clearer.

  • @krissifaith6709
    @krissifaith6709 Рік тому +6

    The pattern of this woman going for his closest friends makes this a "walkaway" story...and def get full custody IF they are his kids.

  • @evah787
    @evah787 10 місяців тому +1

    I hope that he eventually just "walked away".... cheating / adultery hurts BAD.

  • @lizwiens671
    @lizwiens671 Рік тому +7

    He also needs to find a new best friend. My gut tells me he’s the ‘nice guy’ she went with but she was looking around for someone else the whole time. He needs to ditch her permanently

  • @Bornmong
    @Bornmong 10 місяців тому

    To my brothers going through these kind of stories, stay strong.

  • @loezakidd3149
    @loezakidd3149 Рік тому +12

    John finally speaking the truth about infidelity

  • @DanielPlainsight
    @DanielPlainsight Рік тому +1

    I'm so glad he didn't advise him to go back to her. That man deserved better and needs to move on in life.

  • @starlingswallow
    @starlingswallow Рік тому +4

    Behavior is a language (as John says) and she has spoken LOUD AND CLEAR as to who she is at her core. Isaac, she will cheat again. Full stop. You are teaching your kids that if their future spouse cheats on them, they should go back over and over and just _take it._
    Please run, brother. This will cause you nothing but pain and heartache. You are worth so much more than this crap!!
    There are good, healthy women out there.....get some healing from what you've been through, set boundaries, work on your self esteem and then look for someone who's safe ❤

  • @FriendliestApple
    @FriendliestApple Рік тому

    Walk away - they don’t change and will keep it going, she’ll end up walking away after she’s squeezed every once of life, dreams and love from you.

  • @dustinquinton
    @dustinquinton Рік тому +4

    Without even watching this video, yes it is over. One and done. You can never trust her again, and without trust a relationship is done.

  • @tillfilms
    @tillfilms 10 місяців тому

    Thank you Dr. John for giving him good advice.

  • @jacosisaba
    @jacosisaba Рік тому +9

    Lose that fake friend and her. It sounds like he let's everyone walk all over him.

  • @sandroaces
    @sandroaces Рік тому +2

    She does not want you back if she finds someone better

  • @GreekYogurtGranola
    @GreekYogurtGranola Рік тому +4

    Soon as I see cheat leave. Idc what the circumstances were, that’s why you communicate.

  • @midnightblue117
    @midnightblue117 Рік тому +1

    He thinks “magic fairy dust” is going to fix her!
    Good grief!!!!