Should have contacted his lawyer in the beginning and pulled the plug on his family a lot sooner. Don't let this crap drag out, stand up for yourself forcefully
I know. After the parents showed up with their lawyer, OP sat on his ass to think when he needed to immediately have his attorney send a cease and desist letter to parents and sister. Also informing sister to remove any reference about OP from social media. 💩stinks the longer it isn’t flushed.
What kind of parents expect one child to hand over the company that he had started to his lazy, entitled sister. OP's gf is right. He should stop giving his toxic parents explanations. He should just tell his parents that he is not going to hand his company over to his sister, and it is not up for discussion.
@Mop222 I guess you've never had to deal with a close relative who turned out to be a con artist. When you have then you have the right to say the OP is a wuss.
So what that the sister is "stressed"! She is an incompetent do nothing be nothing person who acts like a 10 year old running to mommy and daddy because her sibling won't share their half eaten ice cream cone with her. In situations with irrational stupid parents like this, it's best to just fully cut ties. Their deep mental illness and codependency of the monster they raised would get any inheritance anyway. They would rationalize "she needs it most!" Go live a joyful, prosperous, healthy life without dragging the cockroach maggots behind you.
"No" is a complete sentence. It might also be more effective to say yes so long as she will be responsible for funding a ridiculous $$$ amount of operating expenses. Payable in advance on an annual basis plus a ridiculous fee to your senior employees on the basis they were expecting to eventually buy into a partnership.
Tell them to pound sand. This is YOUR business, not a family business. If they want her to have a business, they can finance one for her. You had no help and have no obligation to give her anything.
I doubt they cared that if OP couldn't have access to his bank account then he couldn't pay the bills for his company so in the end they would have screwed themselves over in the end it just amazes me that his parents and little sister only see OP as a CASH COW and NOTHING MORE THAN THAT
It's YOUR company. Your "family" has absolutely ZERO AUTHORITY over YOUR company! EMMA is responsible for her life, NOT you! Remind your parents that THEY can go to jail for intimidating you. And as far as "supporting" you, tell them B.S. I made this company. I built it from the ground up! I worked for everything I have! Your PARENTS' financial problems are THEIR problem, not YOUR problem. Dad, WHAT did you "sacrifice"? No, Mom, YOU, Dad and Emma are the traitors. I haven't had a family since I was a kid. OP, it's not YOUR fault your "family" are a bunch of CRIMINALS .
Uggg. You don't have a relationship with these people. They don't care about you. Get over them and move on. OMG. . Just say NO!!!! It's a complete sentence.😮
Op is worrying about damaging the family relationships? 😂 There isn't nor has there ever been a family relationship. If I were him, the moment my father threatened expulsion from the family, I would have said, "I don't consider us family anyways."
WTF, the parents bad mouth you , berate you, and now want to Extort your success. Absolutely not. This older sister is a lazy relation. Who has no right to you property.
Anyone who falls for that line of BS is sunk. Now, if a sibling REALLY wanted a part of YOUR business, they MIGHT start showing it by proving themselves as a janitor, go-ffer, clerk or receptionist to start but otherwise Shut and Lock that door IMMEDIATELY. You have contracts and commitments with clients and employees and this attitude is poison to all of them and you.
This young woman needs professional mental help , the family needs to be legally responsible this older daughter and the entire family need NO against the family. Getting caught trying to access a company to steal money. Well this is the ultimate insult, of course the lawsuit was justified. They believe the son must pay for the parents malphance. Wrapped minds. OP did nothing wrong. He built a very good company. Made a living. Finding out you family have no feelings for you is mind-blowing. Good luck. Young man.
I mean who payed for your schooling? If your parents payed then I don’t see a problem helping your sister out but definitely not sharing the company with her. This is a one sided story and it’s most likely somewhere in the middle.
IF your parents truly loved you, they would NEVER make such an outrageous demand. Go full nc, these people are gold digging AH not family. Parents threat of disinheriting op is laughable since they’re not only broker than broke but had thrown op to the trash when he was a kid. It’s truly sad when people like op, desperate for the love of their families are used abused and thrown right back on the trash pile.
You are selfish for not giving your business to your sister. There is no creativity in these stories at all anymore. This is bad as those I don't work here lady stories from a few years bake. Golden child, insane parents, ridiculous demands, pretend shock by OP, get family involved, raise the stakes by contacting OP's boss. However since OP owns the business they will write bad reviews or try to contact customers or his business partners to ruin his business. OP will fight back. Cut contact. Distance himself from his family. I'm at 2:15, let see what they actually write.
AITA for refusing to let my sister take over my company despite my parents’ threats?
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I'd rather be a confident villain than a doormat hero.
Be the villain they want to see you as. Cheerfully agree when they call you selfish, etc.
Not to mention if you've done nothing wrong then there is no problem, tell that to the judge and I'm sure he'll agree with you.
I always laugh at comments where parents are threatening to cut them out of their will. Like there is a guarantee that there will be anything left.
She has the same opportunity To start a company on her own as he had.
Should have contacted his lawyer in the beginning and pulled the plug on his family a lot sooner. Don't let this crap drag out, stand up for yourself forcefully
I know. After the parents showed up with their lawyer, OP sat on his ass to think when he needed to immediately have his attorney send a cease and desist letter to parents and sister. Also informing sister to remove any reference about OP from social media. 💩stinks the longer it isn’t flushed.
Get police involved, block them and press charges.
He Did?!?!
What kind of parents expect one child to hand over the company that he had started to his lazy, entitled sister. OP's gf is right. He should stop giving his toxic parents explanations. He should just tell his parents that he is not going to hand his company over to his sister, and it is not up for discussion.
It wasn't about giving her nothing. His parents are just thieves trying to use her as scapegoat to pay his own debts. Sickos!😢
These OPs are all wussies.
@Mop222 I guess you've never had to deal with a close relative who turned out to be a con artist. When you have then you have the right to say the OP is a wuss.
So what that the sister is "stressed"! She is an incompetent do nothing be nothing person who acts like a 10 year old running to mommy and daddy because her sibling won't share their half eaten ice cream cone with her. In situations with irrational stupid parents like this, it's best to just fully cut ties. Their deep mental illness and codependency of the monster they raised would get any inheritance anyway. They would rationalize "she needs it most!" Go live a joyful, prosperous, healthy life without dragging the cockroach maggots behind you.
Just gonna take his money and company 🤯😤💔
Despite everything...family. I hate when people say that.
I am giving my sister the same thing you gave me, nothing. She will need to be self sufficient also.
OP sure is sentimental. Took him way too long to listen to his g/f, and block these miserable people.
Dude never had a family!!
What RELATIONSHIP? You have none!
IT'S MY COMPANY!
"No" is a complete sentence.
It might also be more effective to say yes so long as she will be responsible for funding a ridiculous $$$ amount of operating expenses. Payable in advance on an annual basis plus a ridiculous fee to your senior employees on the basis they were expecting to eventually buy into a partnership.
Tell them to pound sand. This is YOUR business, not a family business.
If they want her to have a business, they can finance one for her. You had no help and have no obligation to give her anything.
I doubt they cared that if OP couldn't have access to his bank account then he couldn't pay the bills for his company so in the end they would have screwed themselves over in the end it just amazes me that his parents and little sister only see OP as a CASH COW and NOTHING MORE THAN THAT
OP should've said "i can make a small sacrifice, but handing over half my business isn't a small sacrifice by any means"
they didn't ask for help. they tried to steal your company.
No longer family? They were never family to begin with. They are not entitled to your money to think otherwise is insane.
Can you imagine the cruel upbringing the parents inflected on their son, that it took so long for him to stand against his parents
op wouldn't be in this situation if they would've gone no contact if op would have no contact he wouldn't be in this mess
It's YOUR company. Your "family" has absolutely ZERO AUTHORITY over YOUR company!
EMMA is responsible for her life, NOT you! Remind your parents that THEY can go to jail for intimidating you. And as far as "supporting" you, tell them B.S. I made this company. I built it from the ground up! I worked for everything I have!
Your PARENTS' financial problems are THEIR problem, not YOUR problem.
Dad, WHAT did you "sacrifice"?
No, Mom, YOU, Dad and Emma are the traitors.
I haven't had a family since I was a kid.
OP, it's not YOUR fault your "family" are a bunch of CRIMINALS .
"That's something you should solve." ... No!
All that to block their access, but yet OP hasn't blocked THEM?! Geez. Hey, OP, your family is trash. Stop allowing them access to YOU.
You cannot lose what you never had.
What's so surprising that it was about the money wasn't that obvious when they came asking for the company
Are there people foolish like that!
Uggg. You don't have a relationship with these people.
They don't care about you.
Get over them and move on.
OMG. . Just say NO!!!!
It's a complete sentence.😮
"it could be beneficial to everyone ..."
how exactly would it be beneficial to me?
Gawd these parents and entitled sister makes me mad. Sue them for harassment. Stop bowing to these assholes. Let them buy her a business.
Absolutely not ! Cray cray
Tell her to buy in at ten years expected income.
Stealing from a family member is not for the good of the family. Just stupid thinking.😕
Im starting to wonder if when parents favour one child over others it causes some sort of mental damage in the parents heads
so the sister left he job for part of a company she doesn't owe and the parents find this normal? this familly is completely idiot
didn't you instill the same values in my sister?
Get a lawyer
you want me to HELP my sister? i can give her a job. but turn my company over to her -- or anyone -- that's just insanity.
Op is worrying about damaging the family relationships? 😂 There isn't nor has there ever been a family relationship. If I were him, the moment my father threatened expulsion from the family, I would have said, "I don't consider us family anyways."
WTF, the parents bad mouth you , berate you, and now want to Extort your success. Absolutely not. This older sister is a lazy relation. Who has no right to you property.
Anyone who falls for that line of BS is sunk. Now, if a sibling REALLY wanted a part of YOUR business, they MIGHT start showing it by
proving themselves as a janitor, go-ffer, clerk or receptionist to start but otherwise Shut and Lock that door IMMEDIATELY.
You have contracts and commitments with clients and employees and this attitude is poison to all of them and you.
Hate to say it, but it already has ruined your family.
When the "relationship" is one of slave a& master. Your duty to your self is to get out of that relationship. The best option is grow a spine.
OP is a doormat
I wonder where Ruth is.
why would you be the ahole for refusing to let ANYONE take over your company?
The guy works with computers and doesn't know how to do a reverse IP lookup?
I don't think that generally comes up for graphics designers.
@@lnsflare1 Maybe, but just Googling would tell you how.
clearly this channel does not give their video production enough at10tion as they put it, attention is what it should be !
This young woman needs professional mental help , the family needs to be legally responsible this older daughter and the entire family need NO against the family. Getting caught trying to access a company to steal money. Well this is the ultimate insult, of course the lawsuit was justified. They believe the son must pay for the parents malphance. Wrapped minds. OP did nothing wrong. He built a very good company. Made a living. Finding out you family have no feelings for you is mind-blowing. Good luck. Young man.
It seems op is no brained coz does he have to ask that question?
I don't know what is his citizenship if there are lot of them in their country
I mean who payed for your schooling? If your parents payed then I don’t see a problem helping your sister out but definitely not sharing the company with her. This is a one sided story and it’s most likely somewhere in the middle.
Lunatic family
IF your parents truly loved you, they would NEVER make such an outrageous demand. Go full nc, these people are gold digging AH not family. Parents threat of disinheriting op is laughable since they’re not only broker than broke but had thrown op to the trash when he was a kid. It’s truly sad when people like op, desperate for the love of their families are used abused and thrown right back on the trash pile.
Those stories sound super Asian.
You are selfish for not giving your business to your sister. There is no creativity in these stories at all anymore. This is bad as those I don't work here lady stories from a few years bake.
Golden child, insane parents, ridiculous demands, pretend shock by OP, get family involved, raise the stakes by contacting OP's boss. However since OP owns the business they will write bad reviews or try to contact customers or his business partners to ruin his business. OP will fight back. Cut contact. Distance himself from his family. I'm at 2:15, let see what they actually write.
Bs story