Happy Marriage Turned Into Divorce, Daughter Separated & Harassment - Hassam Ahmad Awan | NSP

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  • @NaeemSikandar
    @NaeemSikandar  Рік тому +7

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    • @raziafarman6028
      @raziafarman6028 2 місяці тому

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  • @umayr2935
    @umayr2935 Рік тому +52

    'who is back here after listening to Shomaila's jawab e shikwa and all those recordings, man what a strong and mature lady at such a young age, may Allah protect her from his and his parent's threats, Astagfirullah'

    • @umayr2935
      @umayr2935 11 місяців тому +3

      @HamidZebullah 'wow, you mean if a woman has bad character, you can touch her anywhere? I think you should say Astagfirullah for yourself first'

    • @aymunakram55
      @aymunakram55 11 місяців тому +2

      What had happened to them?

    • @subhanallah6
      @subhanallah6 8 місяців тому

      ullu ki pathi jhooti hai wo makkar 2 number lady ban chuki ha sab jhoot bak rai ha

    • @danish-oh3il
      @danish-oh3il 4 місяці тому

      Y

    • @fouzianaeem3959
      @fouzianaeem3959 9 днів тому +2

      Jin dinno divorce Howi osy Kuch months pehly ye Majid k sath akser Islamabad mein nazer atti thee...ager koi or Pasand a he gya tha Tu is terhn shareef lougn py ilzam nhe lagnay chaheay thy

  • @crj1430
    @crj1430 Рік тому +54

    He says that ladies display their beauty on insta but khud ye roz nanga hokay tasweerain dalta hai insta pe..aur phir mazhab ko use karta hai for his advantage..kindly don't call such useless people on here. He likes it the easy way out..doesn't work...bas batein kara lo 3,3 ghantay

    • @sosacarlos5971
      @sosacarlos5971 Рік тому +10

      The Awrah for a man is between the naval and the knees. Thori parhai kar laen bajaye iskay kay fake accounts bana kar yahan comment karen.

    • @crj1430
      @crj1430 Рік тому +10

      @@sosacarlos5971 I know what the awrah is very well. But iska matlab ye nahi hai kay roz nanga kharay hokay banda tasweerain lagana shuru kar de when in todays day and age shirtless men are equally compared to women dressing provocatively. Don't like his ex one bit as well but what he does is entirely wrong too. Also, replying back with a fake account doesn't help your case either..

    • @sosacarlos5971
      @sosacarlos5971 Рік тому +3

      ​@@crj1430 If you know what an Awrah, then you would know what's permissible for a man. You don't get to make "permissible" HARAM just because you feel like it even IF you are using a fake account. The shariah decides what is right and wrong regardless of societal norms or opinions.

    • @crj1430
      @crj1430 Рік тому +6

      @@sosacarlos5971 if that's the case then go to offices and public places shirtless as well. It's considered immodest for a reason..and you'd really want to point out fake accounts when you're using one too🤔 had hai.

    • @sosacarlos5971
      @sosacarlos5971 Рік тому +3

      ​@@crj1430 You said you knew what an Awrah means but it seems like you don't know.
      ====
      According to the Hanafi school of thought, the awrah of a muslim male is from below the navel up to and including his knees (i.e. the knees are part of the awrah). This Awrah must be covered by such a male in his daily routine life in front of others. The only exception to this is his wife, as there is no awrah between a man and his wife.
      ------
      Question: Can you please explain what is considered awra for men and when it should be covered?
      Answer: Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah,
      The `awra for men includes the area from the end of the navel down to, and including the knee. So the `awra does not include the navel, but it includes the entire knee. [Ascent to Felicity, p.74]
      The `awra should be covered at all times unless there is a need to uncover it. This means that the `awra must be covered even when alone.
      ========
      Even if a male goes to an office shirtless, he will not be considered sinful.
      He may *choose* to wear a shirt.
      ^That's the take home message.
      This is regardless of how other *people* will perceive him.
      We are accountable for disobeying Allah and NOT the people or society.
      Ignorance is dangerous for one's iman.
      Changing *Halal* to *Haram* or *Haram* to *Halal* can endanger your faith. It takes one outside the fold of Islam.
      Fear Allah if you are a Muslim and call it quits.

  • @haa.official
    @haa.official Рік тому +331

    JazakAllah khair Naeem bhai for honoring me ❤ You're an amazing, inspiring and down to earth host with all the qualities that will soon take you to millions inshaAlalh. Thank you for having me

    • @ubaidfarooqui
      @ubaidfarooqui Рік тому +4

      It was great to see you Hassam bhai ☺️ also Naeem bhai conducted the whole podcast really good!

    • @haa.official
      @haa.official Рік тому +8

      @@ubaidfarooqui thank you brother

    • @savera3976
      @savera3976 Рік тому +3

      Hassam life is all in his vlogs and he is giving positive vibes always. Kcy woo os trauma sey niky sab bht inspiring ty. M n tb deka jb woo apny app ko move on krny k liey struggle krny lgy

    • @bilalahmedkhan5876
      @bilalahmedkhan5876 Рік тому +2

      Stay strong buddy.

    • @baybars3138
      @baybars3138 Рік тому +9

      You could have spent sometime reading a book on Islam may be. You didn't know what "dowry" is, what mehr is etc. Come on. Having beard and jazakallah is not only Islam.

  • @toyota054
    @toyota054 Рік тому +26

    Where was your template when you encouraged her to come to social media? Konsa islam suggests girls to do vlogs that she used to do? Honestly it was apparent and clear she would go this route but you are the one who is wrong here. She was herself simple and easy but you made her the social media person just to get views and earn money.
    She got money at such a small age and she forget her reality. You were buying her a car teaching her and documenting on camera. No islam allows that you bring your women on camera.
    Kaul aur faill mein tazad.

  • @abbaskhan6240
    @abbaskhan6240 Рік тому +142

    Hassam you should have taken a very strict action about that uncle who harrased your wife, I think that is where things have got wrong.

    • @subhanallah6
      @subhanallah6 8 місяців тому

      aik taraf wo kahti ha kuncle na touch kia dosri taraf ab khud UAE ma logo sa khud ko touch karwa rai ha gashti

    • @verifiedalpha
      @verifiedalpha 3 місяці тому

      Can u explain kya hua tha?

    • @abbaskhan6240
      @abbaskhan6240 3 місяці тому +2

      @@verifiedalpha it's been year don't remember exactly. But there was this uncle of Hassan who use to follow shumaila.

    • @blackFlame47
      @blackFlame47 Місяць тому

      ​@@verifiedalphajawab e shikwa Dakh lo by shomaila

    • @abdullahkashif3715
      @abdullahkashif3715 10 днів тому

      😂🎉🎉😂🎉🎉🎉 o

  • @mashalbatoolmalik3713
    @mashalbatoolmalik3713 Рік тому +116

    you yourself started Instagram war . you abused directly or indirectly on Instagram's stories.. if you didn't start that war , she didn't have to come on social media and tell the people other side of story.. please grow up man!!!

    • @jiyakhan2014
      @jiyakhan2014 Рік тому +20

      Totally agree with u....i wonder ppl on one side play islamic card and on the other side beat their wife ... his wife has cleared all in her video... haqeqat kiya hay sirf Allah janta hay.

    • @aaamnashahid2749
      @aaamnashahid2749 Рік тому +4

      Please stop this girls.....what did shumaila do for fame or for money everybody knows very well

    • @bazijan6484
      @bazijan6484 11 місяців тому +2

      No firstly she started you didn’t see both sides story’s

    • @foodiemoodie3510
      @foodiemoodie3510 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@bazijan6484when was that please tell

    • @ghazalayasmin9664
      @ghazalayasmin9664 Місяць тому

      Shame on you..wo aurat ha hi galt us ki videos nahi dekhi tm ne kya kr ri ha wo dubai me...kitni gandi dressing krti ha wo ab .shesha peti ha..gear mardo k sath partio me dance krti ha wo .shumaila ha hi aik gatya 2 nmbr aur begarat aurat

  • @abbaskhan6240
    @abbaskhan6240 Рік тому +59

    At first i was against Shumaila after her divorce but after her JAWAB SHIKWA i got her point of view which is case in mostly families, now watching Hassam's point of view , I don't want to judge them both but honestly speaking I m feeling so much sorry for them two. its really sad, EVIL EYE have got them. honestly from last 2 days I m so down because of them.

    • @hinamasood835
      @hinamasood835 Рік тому +3

      I am also upset for hassam nd shumaila... I m soo down nowadays.... Inki lyf ko nazar lgi ha... Hr khushi ko social media, pa nhi dikhana chahye....
      Meri lyf mai bhi kuch aisa hua ha,,, k mai bht upset rehti thi... Now m a little better... Meri saas na, mera ghar brbad kiya.. I think pakistan ma saas jesy aurat ki councelling honi chahyen,,, is issue ko lekr pury pakistan ma teams bnai jaen.. Or gud relationship ko promote kiya, jaey.. Dr. Hina masood....

    • @abbaskhan6240
      @abbaskhan6240 3 місяці тому

      @@hinamasood835 I hope things have got better for you. saw your msg now.

  • @mariam1844
    @mariam1844 Рік тому +41

    A women seeks divorce because she gets beaten by her husband. Koi Bivi bila waja humari society ma divorce nai maangti.

    • @faraazsiddiqui1450
      @faraazsiddiqui1450 Рік тому

      Lekin madam ji kuch aaj kal jhooti Dajjali gold digger aurten bhi hoti hain jo feminism ke naam par divorce leleti hain.Mere paas tum ho shayad tum ne nahi dekha.

    • @What-do-you-want824
      @What-do-you-want824 9 місяців тому

      Gold digger, jo choz chahiye thi wo osa mil gai hai😂

    • @moeezkhalid4942
      @moeezkhalid4942 Місяць тому +1

      No. You are mistaken

    • @ghazalayasmin9664
      @ghazalayasmin9664 Місяць тому

      Shame on you..shumaila ha hi galt gatya aur begarat aurat..tm ne videos nahi dekhi kya uss k chanel pe k wo dubai kya kr ri ..kitni gandi dressing g krti ha wo..gear mardo k sath dance kr ri hoti ha partio me aur shesha p ri hoti ha aur tm bakaws kr ri ho k wo achi ha..lanat ha tm pe b aur uss pe b

    • @maryamarshad8684
      @maryamarshad8684 16 днів тому

      ​@@moeezkhalid4942you should have to watch her story

  • @iebhatti6920
    @iebhatti6920 8 місяців тому +14

    Of course, he didn’t answer the question about domestic violence….he nicely talked in circles and avoided the question. May Allah guide you. Women don’t generally break their own homes, that’s why he said he had such a good time with her during their marriage. She bent over backwards to make you happy and you didn’t appreciate it, and let external family issues get the best of you. That’s why when she had enough of you, she had to leave. You were too toxic for her. It is out of Allah’s mercy that He has covered your faults from the public and you are sit here today, looking like a nice, kind , Islamic person who has nothing bad to say about his ex. Hope Allah has truly changed your heart, filled it with positivity and helps your move on.

    • @RashidJMir
      @RashidJMir 10 днів тому

      He was toxic for her just after her last video.

  • @khanriyakhan5244
    @khanriyakhan5244 Рік тому +27

    But u r not paying anything for hysna brother plz dont do this bulshit again n again it will effect hussna's personality ... Plzx

  • @umayr2935
    @umayr2935 Рік тому +35

    'Stop pretending man, your and your families recordings are out, moving out of country was the only option for her and now you're pissed bcz you guys can't use threats and harassment in the UAE'

    • @gamesofmobile5781
      @gamesofmobile5781 11 днів тому

      Kam Sy Kam copy paste karne Sy pehle message ko edit toh karlete paid bharwi

  • @shazjamz8027
    @shazjamz8027 Рік тому +13

    Guys pls if u really are concerned abt ur fellow muslim brother or sisters den pls go watch shomaila nazi long video abt deir separation where she has addressed d issue in great detail.. Pls dnt fall to such "apparently" religious people playing islamic card jus coz he has beard!!! Grow up man.. Islamic is sumthn beyond dat its a complete lifestyle!! N also a personal journey.. May Allah give u hidayah ameen!! I request people to listen to both side of stories n den leave it dnt bash anyone but also dnt b fooled by people who play islamic card or victim card when dey r actually d real oppressor!!!!

    • @gamesofmobile5781
      @gamesofmobile5781 11 днів тому

      Bharwi ki bachi stop with these paid defend comments

  • @jazzup98
    @jazzup98 Рік тому +16

    He has childhood trauma which led to his broken family, not saying that he should not marry but he should get his treatment first

  • @alisikandar_
    @alisikandar_ 9 місяців тому +7

    i watched today shomaila ke jawab e shikwa vid where she explained her side , i totally understand her situation such man deserves the same who cant take care of her wife now he is just trying to defame her for seek of revenge its all bulshit we stand with shomaila more power to you girl

  • @adnan12145
    @adnan12145 Рік тому +22

    before listening this pod i was thinking that guy is quite mature and sensible, but my perceptions were wrong. he need to mature his thinking. i would like to suggest, if you are not well acquainted with any subject then stop teaching others. you married with a girl and you have daughter and now you divorce her or she sought khula, whatever the reasons were you shouldn't advertise your private life. you wife is accusing you and you are accusing her, i think you both should stop it otherwise this will make your daughter's life miserable. one last thing keep in your "it takes two to tango"

  • @tastyfoodwithanna
    @tastyfoodwithanna Рік тому +24

    Beti ki custody chahiy but uska khrcha nhi dyna jo k beti ka right hi shameless man

  • @fazilamehdi8808
    @fazilamehdi8808 Рік тому +19

    Ap me se kon sahi hai ye to Allah hi behtar janta hai. Lekin ye zarur hai k ager ap itne deendar the to apne apni family ko social media pe expose kiun kia? Camera le k pur ghar me ghoom rhe ho, bedroom tk me videos bna rhe ho, privacy koi nhin. Allah ki hudud cross ker rhe ho for money. Ab ye scene ho gaia to ap religion card khel rhe ho aur wo woman card khel rhi hain.

  • @mahamlatif862
    @mahamlatif862 Рік тому +13

    Hassam ny ye nhi kaha k mai Allah ko hazir jan kr kehta hun mny kabhi nhi mara apni wife ko....balky usny koi or bat strt krdi...

  • @HamzaKhan-nk1mg
    @HamzaKhan-nk1mg Рік тому +50

    2 males are sitting together discussing they don't get Justice in this petriachal society. Did they ever think about the women expelled from their homes along with 4 children.. when they have no roof over their heads

    • @fatimaagha4679
      @fatimaagha4679 Рік тому +1

      👏

    • @Aloneincrowd3
      @Aloneincrowd3 Рік тому

      Exactly this molvi bakra also threw out his wife at 2 am and 12 am. Yaha ye religious buna howa hay lmao

    • @What-do-you-want824
      @What-do-you-want824 9 місяців тому +2

      Hail Patriarchy 🔥👑

    • @subhanallah6
      @subhanallah6 8 місяців тому

      o nikal patriarchal ka bachy ajkal courts ma aurtain jo kar rai han us ka andaza ha kuch? is ki ex b gashti bani hui ha UAE ma

    • @aleesamtio
      @aleesamtio 4 місяці тому

      Women should be dependent upon men that way they'll obey and family system will remain strong if women are independent then women will destroy men and initiate unnecessary divorce put men on child support and alimony may cheat as well.
      Men must use physical authority and financial control to keep her obedient.

  • @Aloneincrowd3
    @Aloneincrowd3 Рік тому +27

    A baap is not baap who can not provide security and safety to the girl child!

    • @saadather7133
      @saadather7133 Рік тому +4

      So is a mother truly a mother when she doesn't let her daughter meet her father and then probably tells her your father doesn't have time for you.

    • @What-do-you-want824
      @What-do-you-want824 9 місяців тому +2

      Tu custody hi baap ko da dana🤡. Baap ko milna bi nhi dana or phir roo victim card khalo

    • @rockyrock7583
      @rockyrock7583 Місяць тому

      Baap is qabil ho to custody bhi mil jati baap ko nhi tha is qabil Jo Saath rehty hue apni biwi beti ko apny us harasser relative se bcha na ska eo biwi ki gher mojodgi Mai beti ko Kya protect kry ga.stop playing victim card too.munafiq ​@@What-do-you-want824

    • @rockyrock7583
      @rockyrock7583 Місяць тому

      ​@@saadather7133olad per pehla haq maa ka.maa pehle sab Baad Mai baap bhi 😊

  • @brairawahid2183
    @brairawahid2183 Рік тому +36

    He mentioned 'I have zero regrets' but still crying publicly and slinging mud on her character for past one year even after knowing she is his child's mother. As for he rants about hijab, he himself was the one shooting her videos happily with hijab and without hijab but until that point it wasn't a problem bcx they were doing it together. So, the prob with Pakistan is play 'religion card' and all your sins will be forgiven kyu k this chooran never goes out of scope in this country. I usually don't follow either of them bcx they were selling their chooran content for money and audience like us were giving them views and now they separated this man can't accept the fact that lady walked out of relationship and she got that right but no he knows how to act islamic to play victimhood and does her character assassination...Islam men hijab utarna itna e bura he jitna buhtan lgana, ex-wife ka public men tamasha bnana, reels and stories lgana! Whoever doesn't understand what am I saying before your blindfold yourself with religious appearances, go and have a look at the evidences presented by his wife only once during this whole time of conflict and seperation. It's not necessary that hijabless women are lesser good than hijabi women, let's not play God 🐅🐈

    • @alyaaziz1949
      @alyaaziz1949 Рік тому +1

      Islam men hijab utarna kis ne kaha he k bht buri cheez he? Your comment was good but equating hijab utarna with other big sins didn't make sense

    • @sakinahaidar116
      @sakinahaidar116 Рік тому +1

      In this whole conversation he didn't sling mud on anyone's character right now ....

    • @ziahassan6972
      @ziahassan6972 9 місяців тому +1

      She was a gold digger

    • @What-do-you-want824
      @What-do-you-want824 9 місяців тому

      Gold digger tha chali gai acha ho gya😂

  • @mariam1844
    @mariam1844 Рік тому +11

    You are absolutely wrong. In western countries if you live with someone for more than 2 years, chahe shaadi hui ho ya na hui ho, at the time of separation everything jo k dono k relationship k start k bad se bani ho gets equally divided.

  • @HamzaKhan-nk1mg
    @HamzaKhan-nk1mg Рік тому +16

    Strange... Nobody can stop any father from meeting his child... Why don't u go to Dubai and see Husna and spend time with her.
    U probably have means u went to Sri Lanka

    • @darakhshannaz4357
      @darakhshannaz4357 Рік тому +3

      Exactly...yehi to drama hai iska.

    • @faraazsiddiqui1450
      @faraazsiddiqui1450 Рік тому +2

      @@darakhshannaz4357 Laws hain oh behenji isliye allowed nahi hain.Custody Mom ke paas hain aur case court main hain.

    • @darakhshannaz4357
      @darakhshannaz4357 Рік тому

      @@faraazsiddiqui1450 so?wat r u trying to say?

    • @darakhshannaz4357
      @darakhshannaz4357 Рік тому

      @@faraazsiddiqui1450 khair bht acha hua he lost anyways...hes sucha fool y ws he even trying when law is k mom k pass rehty hain kids lol....whatta loser....n his dad super toxic....

    • @badnaamjutt
      @badnaamjutt Рік тому

      Lodu hai ye Maulvi

  • @wardahzeeshan
    @wardahzeeshan Рік тому +42

    No words to explain my feelings. As a mother I know k koi BHI dosra bnda chahy Woh koi BHI family member ho no body love the childrens like the real parents do

  • @ayishamberrose6775
    @ayishamberrose6775 Рік тому +12

    She did the right thing to take Husna away! You probably won’t be able to protect her anyway… your uncle may end up raping your daughter without your knowledge and she’s a kid and won’t be able to say anything….

  • @noormuhammadkhan9744
    @noormuhammadkhan9744 Рік тому +17

    Allah pak saaniya farmy Hassam bhai k lye.
    I remember the Hassam wedding video when he said "Shomail parda krti ha and she don't want to appear on camera without Parda."
    And then how happy they were!
    This couple was a source of motivation for many. But Allah pak ko jo mnzoor ta.

  • @HiraRaja
    @HiraRaja Рік тому +20

    Koi esi orat nahi h pakistan me js ne talak li ho r usko ganda na kia gya ho. Character ki dajhiyaan na urai gai hu uski

  • @Sassybliss404
    @Sassybliss404 Рік тому +11

    Who was that uncle who harrassed your wife? Now you gonna say k shumaila is lying but but as a woman I could see how sad she was talking about this and that was when everything went wrong. If trusted some uncle over your wife then you are not a good human being Hassam

  • @MoneyMindset30
    @MoneyMindset30 Рік тому +19

    Worst guest you ever invited.

  • @sindhyahussain8807
    @sindhyahussain8807 Рік тому +9

    This man knows very well how to use women card and gain sympathy. I am so happy for shomaila to leave this loer

  • @bareeraayesha7618
    @bareeraayesha7618 Рік тому +7

    Sorry to say after there divorce mujhe shumaila ghalt lagti thi im no one to judge but sorry to say after listening shumaila jjawab e shikwa mujhe hassam sey strong feeling a rahi hei jitna ye islami banta hei utna ye hei nai sorry to say allah behtr janta hei

    • @adnanahmed316
      @adnanahmed316 9 місяців тому

      Yehi to trick hai ap logo ko ullu bnane k tarike

  • @zoyashahzad1942
    @zoyashahzad1942 Рік тому +15

    Insan mein thori bohat sharam honi chahiye yahan gair mard k beech beth k apni beti ki maa k baray mein batien kr rha hai.....isay ye bhi pta hai k log comments mein galiyaan dien gy ghatiya bakwas karien gy phir bhi usay discuss kr rha hai thori gairat dikhao or chor do uska peecha agr itnay religious ho to kya tmhy zaib deta hai k itnay logon k samny beth k aik aurat ko discuss kro or us k naam py views lo

  • @anumnigar2214
    @anumnigar2214 Місяць тому +3

    Hence proved! Keeping Darhi cannot make you islami and innocent 😂😂😂

  • @sosacarlos5971
    @sosacarlos5971 Рік тому +9

    Shomaila:
    1. Sinning is one thing.
    2. Doing it publicly is another.
    3. Being boastful about it is another.
    You are heading on a very wrong path, especially with (2 and 3). Because (2) and (3) removes the possibility of repentance.
    Please stop yourself before it's too late.
    May Allah guide you and us all.
    Ameen.

  • @mudassirshah3090
    @mudassirshah3090 Рік тому +14

    In pathans and Arabs, the mehr is high. According to our religion, mehr is based according to the women's status, beauty, her family. Sharae mehr doesn't not exist.

  • @umer2877
    @umer2877 Рік тому +17

    What a petty guy this molvi is 😅 repeatedly mentioned that her wife was 'needy' and he gave him work. Lol.

  • @khanriyakhan5244
    @khanriyakhan5244 Рік тому +35

    Plz dont portray ur self inocent that u were harmless in ur relationship .... Plz

    • @youtubeblower863
      @youtubeblower863 Рік тому +3

      Shhhhh Khanriya, don’t speak until you’re spoken to

    • @crafty629
      @crafty629 Рік тому +4

      He didnt portray himself innocent soo go mera jism meri marzi

    • @hkhan561
      @hkhan561 Рік тому +3

      Zaroori nai auart hi theek ho hamesha ya bechari ho aj jal mard zada suffer karhey

    • @umayr2935
      @umayr2935 Рік тому +1

      'yes, if you listen to his recordings on her channel, you will clearly understand she had to move out of the country because of the threats, and she kept on facing harassment at her flat, in market, everywhere'

    • @gameorzo2888
      @gameorzo2888 5 місяців тому +1

      ⁠​⁠@@umayr2935threats the to hijab utra vulgarity dresses short zaban vulgar yah bhi threat the

  • @millennialmarva3899
    @millennialmarva3899 Рік тому +77

    I judged him after the divorce but this podcast just made me cry

  • @zaarawaqar853
    @zaarawaqar853 Рік тому +7

    He is not able to support his daughter or he doesn't want to keep his daughter he just wanted to gain sympathy out of it .shumaila 's jawab e shikwa has cleared everything 😮 he was not a good husband nor the good father its clear .

  • @tubakhalid4809
    @tubakhalid4809 Рік тому +23

    At the end i can't control my emotions....
    Allah sab maan baaap ko hneesha sath rakhy....Ameeen

  • @qurtainmemon3086
    @qurtainmemon3086 Рік тому +7

    This man is totally different on social media,raising hand on your wife is a very shameful act to do!!!!!

    • @nayomibill3144
      @nayomibill3144 Рік тому

      Ap k samny mara tha.. Dont trust on what is not in front of you

  • @tayyabazafar-zz4xt
    @tayyabazafar-zz4xt Рік тому +5

    Please watch what shomaila has to say! I dont find this man worthy!!

  • @HiraRaja
    @HiraRaja Рік тому +11

    Orat pagal nai hti mard smjta nahi h orat ko. K wo bolti nai h bs ahista ahista batain brhte brhte aik dn ye faisla ho jata h r mard kehta h kch tha he nsi esa k talak hoti

  • @Bia11267
    @Bia11267 Рік тому +32

    If u had financed her degree then it was ur duty. She was your wife.

    • @kamran1934
      @kamran1934 5 місяців тому +4

      Financing degree is not the duty of husband at all. Husband duty is only to provide necessities of life in Islam. He did AHSAN

    • @Bia11267
      @Bia11267 5 місяців тому

      @@kamran1934 education is a necessity jahil insan

    • @MehmoodChootiya
      @MehmoodChootiya 4 місяці тому +1

      Hee did ahsaaan

  • @wardahzeeshan
    @wardahzeeshan Рік тому +16

    Crying. I feel it Hassan bhai what are you going through how hard it was for you. May Allah make it ease for you. Ameen

  • @mariam1844
    @mariam1844 Рік тому +41

    Hassam you have forgotten k u did Kirdar kashi of your ex. U did it so badly that she went into depression. But than u stopped and ap na mafi bhi mangi. Plz watch the interview where u said mei maafi mangta hoon k beti ki maa k liyea buray alfaz use kiye.

    • @crafty629
      @crafty629 Рік тому +5

      U r not in his shoes u do not know what she went thru unless u r mera jism meri marzi type

    • @Sigma1984-v5o
      @Sigma1984-v5o Рік тому +1

      Kırdar Kashi banti ha
      ..Shumaila ki harketein BHI toh dekhein ...bachi ko bap SE door kerdia ... depression mein TOH hasham nazar aya ..have you seen his weightloss ..sad eyes ...woh Khud TOH hati kattı mardo k Sath sleeveless ghoomti nazar arahi..har dafa aurat hi sahi NAHI hoti

    • @mariam1844
      @mariam1844 Рік тому

      @@crafty629 I exactly know what She went through.

    • @mariam1844
      @mariam1844 Рік тому +3

      @@Sigma1984-v5o did you see how what he did to her? Do you remember all? And then just to make himself innocent he made this maafi video and requested her to forgive him. After doing so bad with her. Shomaila is a strong woman who is managing life without him. If u think working with men is behayai than u are a character less one who is taking side of a man

    • @Sigma1984-v5o
      @Sigma1984-v5o Рік тому

      @@mariam1844 what strong woman ...she's the weakest ...when she was nothing she got married to him because he was all settled but when started earning because of him.. she thought y not to be out in the world and enjoying life without any marital obligations ...i pity on such women who not only do wrong to men but to their children also ...kia seekhegi bachi ...bap SE Milne NAHI deti AUR ghair londay jo male friends hain unke Sath sleeveless pehn ke thatte mar Rahi..madam if you are alone without kids Chalo tub yeah sub kerti TOH koi bat NAHI thi but bachhi ki life barbad ker rahi ...doosra admi kabhi ApnA bap NAHI Hoga ...q k Shumaila jesi mardo k bghair BHI NAHI reh sakti

  • @cookingwithrubabfaraz
    @cookingwithrubabfaraz Рік тому +7

    I do not know the story of this man but thos is clear that he is minupulating saf zahir hy har sawal ko ghuma raha hy or allah allah ky nam ley jaraha hy jawab to pury session myn kisi bat ka nahi dia sikandar sir ko bhe ghuma phira ky rakh dia ye shaks he ghalt hoga jbhe to koi straight answer nh allah ky nam ko use kar karky bat ko khtm kar raha hy iski wife kon hy unka bhe statement lyn shyd wo kuch thk jawab dydyn puri story to Pta chly

  • @mohsinfarooq9601
    @mohsinfarooq9601 Рік тому +9

    His uncle harassed her in his own house she told him about all that but this naa-mard didn’t do anything for her.
    Just see both side of the story this guy is evil.
    Biwi ki izzat kro usko protect bhi kro

  • @sundassaleem4173
    @sundassaleem4173 Рік тому +7

    Naeem can you please speak less??
    Because it is Hassam's interview, not yours.
    You are just dragging things so much. Please let him speak more!!!

  • @tina21717
    @tina21717 6 місяців тому +2

    How can you give just one side of the story ? Obviously what the woman feels or has gone through does not matter to you. He expected a educated maid who is seen but not heard. He wants the child's custody but can't even pay school fees. He cannot protect his wife against a harassment from his family members.

  • @deardaughter6348
    @deardaughter6348 Рік тому +6

    Empower krna ha with 5k maintainance😁

    • @subhanallah6
      @subhanallah6 8 місяців тому

      while she is doing a prostitute work at UAE

  • @marwasohail26
    @marwasohail26 Рік тому +24

    He did not reply to the question - was he ever abusive towards his ex

    • @mishaalzk6033
      @mishaalzk6033 Рік тому

      When was that asked!?

    • @marwasohail26
      @marwasohail26 Рік тому

      @@mishaalzk6033 2:47:25

    • @urvamudassir
      @urvamudassir 8 місяців тому +1

      Mard ka bacha hota tou do tok ilfaaz mein kehta ke naa kia hai naa karunga. Lekin agar hota tou yeh jawab deta lol

    • @unstoppable865
      @unstoppable865 8 місяців тому +3

      Yes he was toxic .. ab wo apni burayi to nahi karega yaha

    • @baseemafatimapersonalbranding
      @baseemafatimapersonalbranding 8 місяців тому +1

      Check out how he skipped the question

  • @touseefashraf1
    @touseefashraf1 Рік тому +11

    Acha life partner ap k life ko jannat bna deta ha aur bura jahanam. Allah sub ko asy mushkil waqat sy bachay .

  • @IndianLifeAmericanStyle
    @IndianLifeAmericanStyle Рік тому +20

    Shomaila ji ki video dekh le let me say this - iss namune se zyada dramebaaz and nautanki aadmi nai dekha…
    Bas beard rakh lene se and 4 lafz islaam ke bol lene se koi accha insaan nai ban jata- isse drama khete hain…accha aadmi sach main apna farz nibhata hai..this man ONLY bullshits…
    Fake ! Bhai sahab apki bezatti ke jhande USA tak lehera rahe hain chinta na kare !

  • @sabasharif6753
    @sabasharif6753 Рік тому +22

    I have watched there vlog when they were married from shomaila making iftari for in laws,their family trip, hasam trying sushi with shomaila for the first time all those memories came to my mind. She had mentioned somewhere that he is not earning and he totally depends on his parents for living. I was thinking how important it is for a man to earn for a happy family. On the other hand I also noticed shomaila transactions from hijab to take off hijab then cut her ling hair change dressing style casual to modern then sleeveless. I don't know who was right and who was wrong as we are not someone to judge them. I only wish good for their daughter a beautiful soul should not suffer. It is true that to suffer marriage is quite difficult now.

    • @HanzalaChTv
      @HanzalaChTv Рік тому

      Why she filed divorce?

    • @sabasharif6753
      @sabasharif6753 Рік тому +1

      @@HanzalaChTv I don't know their story i am just sharing what I have seen as a viewer

    • @waseemsubhani469
      @waseemsubhani469 Рік тому

      It’s same happening with me while listening him I swear to God felt really bad about them they were looking for each other

    • @mr.northman4941
      @mr.northman4941 Рік тому +3

      You are right. Most of the things he said is not making any sense. It is his choice to become a molvi and it is her choice to become a successfull independent woman. She have right to choose her dressing style and work as model or actor.

    • @obnoxiousfaryas
      @obnoxiousfaryas Рік тому +7

      @@mr.northman4941 He didnt chose to become a "molvi". He chose to be a practicing "muslim".
      Very inspiring for muslims. Every muslim should aspire to follow sunnah and become a practicing muslim.

  • @HMA2107
    @HMA2107 Рік тому +11

    Appearance homeless wali he aur kam bolna aur precisely bolna is an art . Is ne course launch kia magar bataya kuch nahi sincerely kaam bhi emaan ka hissa hona chaye. Shomaila is not my relative but I can see why she decided and was frustrated. What you committed as professional never fulfilled it

  • @bilalahmedkhan5876
    @bilalahmedkhan5876 Рік тому +45

    Stay strong hassam. Things will work out Insha'Allah, your daughter will eventually see who was right and who was wrong.

    • @bilalahmedkhan5876
      @bilalahmedkhan5876 Рік тому +1

      @@nayabsidra3846 I haven't deleted any comment of mine. Stop lying. 🙄

    • @bilalahmedkhan5876
      @bilalahmedkhan5876 Рік тому +1

      @@nayabsidra3846 Next time think through before typing a useless comment.
      -Adios

    • @muhammadmahd6429
      @muhammadmahd6429 Рік тому +1

      Blind belief on bearded mullahs won't help

    • @faraazsiddiqui1450
      @faraazsiddiqui1450 Рік тому +1

      @@muhammadmahd6429 Blind belief on Dajjali women won't help you on the day of qiyamah.

    • @sanji546
      @sanji546 Рік тому

      Bas bacahy ko confuse karty raho

  • @ambreen816
    @ambreen816 Рік тому +8

    15 hazaar ke liye yeh intzaar kerta rehta. Ghar ka karaya nahi data tha. I am dead sure. Now I know Ghar Shumaila hee chalatee thee. Iss ny khoob barakatien sameti hain.

  • @abeeraikram7657
    @abeeraikram7657 Рік тому +7

    If he is talking about Allah, he should not defame his child’s mom. Shame on him

    • @subhanallah6
      @subhanallah6 8 місяців тому

      she has became prostitute

  • @chtayyab6834
    @chtayyab6834 Рік тому +15

    Shomila sister ke life barbad ke hai tu nay Allah in 2 number type molvion say bachaye this is Totally shit 😡

    • @sosacarlos5971
      @sosacarlos5971 Рік тому

      @saagir0811 Chaudhary saab wouldn't reply now since it's his mom, wife and sister are the point of discussion. Liberal begharats.

    • @AyeshaUsman-zx1fy
      @AyeshaUsman-zx1fy 20 днів тому

      Usny kesy ki barbad zindagi divorce shumaila ny mangi naa k hassam ny di .. Or daarhi rakh leny sy koi molvi nahi ban jata or molviyon ko bura bhala kahny sy pahly ye b zehan nasheen kr lo k jab koi musibat parti ha kisi b mamly me to molviyon sy hi fatwa leny jaty ho k halal ha ya haram ha

  • @user-iv1gb4rb6r
    @user-iv1gb4rb6r Рік тому +18

    Im feeling so bad for Hassam. May Allah give you strength and reward you with so much better in this world and in here after too ameen.

  • @DDTRENDZ
    @DDTRENDZ Рік тому +9

    Ye bhai expose ho chuke hain and shame on the podcaster for invinting him and defaming and character assination ker rahe bhet ker ek aurat ko kitna cash karoge bhai?

  • @savera3976
    @savera3976 Рік тому +7

    I saw this in 3 days. And mjy is interview ney Allah sey dobra kareeb kr dea hey.

  • @zahraiftikhar1025
    @zahraiftikhar1025 Рік тому +17

    What a beautiful message for your daughter ♥️ Allah bless you and make it easy for you

  • @samra4016
    @samra4016 Рік тому +11

    Liers every where.... Hasssam ji Allah apko hidayat Dy...
    I have seen this video on the same date when it's uploaded. N never ever follow or seen any video on shumaila.. But today after watching here 4 hours video I have understand her pain n period she went from ..
    Kyun KY baat yeh hai KY bilkul appp KY jesa bilkul apky parents jesa hi 1 khandan Karachi main BHI tha... But after suffering 5yrs I took separation..
    Plus plus Herat yeh Hoi KY apki sari haqatain bilkul merye X husband ki jesi hi Hain .. 🤭🤭 or u can say Drama King... Khr Allah apko or ap jesye logon ko Hidayat Dy Ameen Suma Ameen.
    #Respectcompromisedmothers...👈🏻👈🏻👈🏻

    • @samra4016
      @samra4016 Рік тому +3

      @saagir0811 I think u should do this as I have following hassam since 1 yr n I was blindly believing on him as I was thinking the thinhs he was telling was true .
      But how can I forget that KY main BHI single mother hon n jab shomaila NY Jo Jo batain bolain plus with the prove so I guess koi abb reason baqi NH rehti ...
      Actually mens are mens thy always put the dirt on womens.. 😊😊
      So baat yeh hai KY hum females asye logon Ka Kuch Kar hi NH sakty . Asye logon ko ignore hi rakhna chahye apni life sy apna point BATA Kar.
      Chahy woh positive ho ya Negative.. 😎

    • @zoehellen2580
      @zoehellen2580 Рік тому +2

      @saagir0811 we know that immodest clothing and about being friends with non mahram is wrong. But this time, the thing is about her divorce and honor. She told her side of story with proofs. She also said that not wearing hijab is not a good thing and she knows that. And she prays that Allah gives her taufeeq to wear it again. She said that this is her relation with Allah. And people can kindly guide her but not brutally bash her. All I am saying that if she doesn't wear hijab that doesn't mean she is wrong and if this person has beard that means he is right. She said that hasam threatened her that (he has beard people will believe him) now she has trust issues about people with such (Islamic appearance) and she admitted that she is wrong on this point.

    • @hafsaakhtar6113
      @hafsaakhtar6113 Рік тому

      @Sarah exactly, you made the right point here. Everyone's dragging her for not being religious or hijabi but ignoring the turmoil she went through in that marriage, household and divorce.

  • @jiyakhan2014
    @jiyakhan2014 Рік тому +9

    Hassam bhai u didnot reply clearly that whether u ever beat her or not ? In her videos she has said this that u did... i believe watever the situation was u were supposed not to raise hand on her..and she claimed that u didnot do ny thing when she told u about that third person who was interfering.. how a woman can stay in a house where she doesnot feel secure..no offense. Just mentioning wat she has said in her video..she has cleared so many other points also in her video..

  • @daniyalahmad9324
    @daniyalahmad9324 Рік тому +42

    Hassam bhai is a Gem person MashAllah. This podcast helped me to learn important aspects of life with the help of Hassam's lesson learnts

  • @DanielGtti
    @DanielGtti Рік тому +13

    Being a Physique bodybuilder, I'm totally agree with Hassam Bhai. Idher bhot bad scene ha ky bachay young age sy bodybuilding nhi krty, parents ko samjhna chahye ky Workout kitna important hai ek healthy lifestyle ky Liye. Baqi I'm enjoying listening to this podcast

  • @gossipswithlab3504
    @gossipswithlab3504 Рік тому +10

    Hassam itne jhoot bolo jitno k hissab ALLAH ko da sako toba tum to pora jhoot sa bara hua ho

  • @MadihaShahryar
    @MadihaShahryar 8 місяців тому +1

    Hassam ak acha insan tha hai ye uske face se nazar ata hai.... Banda is young age may dubara shadi nai kara he loves his daughter Allah paak asani Kare

  • @vustudypoint
    @vustudypoint Рік тому +29

    What a beautiful message you give to your daughter ❤️

  • @mustafanoor1618
    @mustafanoor1618 Рік тому +7

    I think no body want to finish her married life if shumaila took that decision of separation I think there is another story behind . It's ok if shumaila make decision of separation bcz uski poori life he abhi agay. Or jaha tk baat Rahi husna ki wo to bari ho hi jaeygi.

    • @HiraRaja
      @HiraRaja Рік тому

      Shukr h kisi ne tou akal ki by ki. Koi orat apna ghr hyd hrab nahi krti. Kch na kch hua ho ga r in saahab ne kch tou kia ho ga push kia use k wo is decision pe aye

    • @gulshansafeer
      @gulshansafeer Рік тому

      Koi aurat ni chahti ghr kharab kry per tb tk jb tk aqal ho us main…… shumaila ko azad life chaiye thi jis mainuslu rok tok krny wala na ho koi or wo jesi chahy modeling kry is liy divorce was an easy option or khas tor per jb apka husband apko is qabil bana chuka ho k ap kama skty ho to wife ka independent ho kr divorce le lena bari bat ni hai aj kal😃

    • @HiraRaja
      @HiraRaja Рік тому

      @@gulshansafeer ap itne yakeen se kse keh skte hn ye bt? Kisi orat ko target krna bara asaan h kapru se character bta dna r js mental torture se wo guzri ho use ignore krbdna

  • @iqrasattar1069
    @iqrasattar1069 8 місяців тому +2

    He dodged the question of taking oath and telling he never abused his wife. Looser

  • @mudassirshah3090
    @mudassirshah3090 Рік тому +12

    Feroze Khan is probably facing the same.

  • @mariamtanveer5104
    @mariamtanveer5104 Рік тому +12

    Salute to the guest for its steadfastness and strong belief.May Allah also provide us strength to hold our religion firmly in this time of fitnah.May Allah bless you ,your family and your daughter with success in this life and hereafter.

  • @space0girl
    @space0girl Рік тому +4

    Qurbani sirf orat hi dy mard ko b deni chahiye asal me shadi mard ka imtehan hai na orat ka

  • @intikhabislam4568
    @intikhabislam4568 Рік тому +11

    Hassam was crying inside last 15 min for husna literally can feel a pain of father.

  • @ahtashamblogs3548
    @ahtashamblogs3548 Рік тому +14

    Hassam bhi ka content bhut Years sy follow kr raha hu Bhut achay insan hyn. Allah inko sbr or istaqamat dein❤

  • @YM-ln3oc
    @YM-ln3oc Рік тому +9

    I truly pray May Allah give him justice,,, and show her true face to the world .

  • @MalikMalik-vc9pj
    @MalikMalik-vc9pj Рік тому +3

    Hassam bhai is a gem. He was too good to his wife even her mother was also very kind but some people cannot digest KHEER. She was becoming out like showbiz actress. The end was to be like this.

  • @mariamohib6247
    @mariamohib6247 Рік тому +6

    2:47:40 he couldnt say he didnt beat her .this tells a lot about what he did to his wife with sunnah beard . pathetic ..

  • @MunirAhmad-nw7ni
    @MunirAhmad-nw7ni Рік тому +25

    The way he is talking show that how mature he is, she lost gem , she will regret about this 💔😢

    • @ibrahimf265
      @ibrahimf265 Рік тому

      In Shaa Allah

    • @mishaalzk6033
      @mishaalzk6033 Рік тому +3

      Ur wrong to think she will regret,,,she is running after things which h she is temporarily achieving and only cherishes,,fame money and material wealth

    • @HiraRaja
      @HiraRaja Рік тому +2

      Ap unki wife ki b story ja k sun len bila wja na statement de dia kren

  • @medicinkopk6993
    @medicinkopk6993 Рік тому +13

    Naeem This is not fair, hassam shouldn't talk on divorce matter until you didn't invite shomalia on your show.. This is one sided story..

  • @amjadnoor7985
    @amjadnoor7985 Рік тому +8

    Masha Allah .
    Hassam bhai bht aala . . Allah pak hum sub ko apni Deen sa joray rakhay . . Aameen

  • @mustafasworld4662
    @mustafasworld4662 Рік тому +6

    hassam bhai is real n pure persn i wish him very beautiful peaceful life ahead Ameen inshahAllah

  • @RashidJMir
    @RashidJMir Рік тому +8

    I am facing the same heart Problem from last few days and now I get to know its Vitamin D and Gastric

  • @mysecondhomecyprus2429
    @mysecondhomecyprus2429 Рік тому +7

    One thing before their fighting somewhere shomaila told that it was totally love marriage & he was sitting beside her ( now he said it's almost arranged ) I'm just confused

  • @samisuhail4224
    @samisuhail4224 Рік тому +12

    Message in the end for his daughter ❤

  • @sabajalel7277
    @sabajalel7277 11 місяців тому +2

    Dekhyn janb dunya m hr trha k log mojud h.
    Kahe agr mard hazrat galat hn kahe female
    Baqi zaruri nhi h agr ap haq pr thy
    Or other said ghalt the
    Tu har case m asa he ho ga yaqeen kejy
    Baqi har jaga alag masali hoty hn
    Baqi choti se Zindagi h jis ny jo boya h (ghalt) wo zarur es dunya m kat kr ke jay ga

  • @ZainabbeingZainab
    @ZainabbeingZainab Рік тому +4

    Ya Allaah remove all the worried of those who support me and fulfill all their wishes and give their parents long life and keep them happy forever . Ameeeen ❤❤❤

  • @bakhtawarsheikh8615
    @bakhtawarsheikh8615 Рік тому +3

    Omg 30 minutes into the podcast and this host hasn't stopped speaking. When is he going to introduce the guest. Lol.

  • @deadlydangaming
    @deadlydangaming Рік тому +11

    Loving this podcast, thanks brothers . Really needed this

  • @Thegamingcouch-t3e
    @Thegamingcouch-t3e Рік тому +4

    He's sounds like such a positive guy but honestly as a 23 years old guys from a broken family, this adds to my fear from marriage even more. I'm not gonna marry anytime soon. Damn scary stuff!!

  • @misbahhanif6072
    @misbahhanif6072 Рік тому +6

    What is the benefit of watching podcasts? I'm in love with watching podcast but does not know the benefit

  • @tahreemfatima3692
    @tahreemfatima3692 Рік тому +4

    99% of the reasons Hoti hi yehi hai physical abuse and ye sari cheeze, hmari Yaha awaam jahil hai AP jesi.

  • @Sassybliss404
    @Sassybliss404 Рік тому +4

    Kisi baat ki jawab is bande ne seedha nahi diya it was so frustrating to watch this podcast. The guest was not clear about with his answers. Khaas kr domestic voilence waali baat to next level hi gol krdi. Hur cheez ko islam ki taraf le ja k apni galtion pe parda daal raha. But awam is not stupid to believe this crap.

  • @HasanAli-te3lm
    @HasanAli-te3lm Рік тому +8

    Now you should invite her wife too 😀

  • @mrprince8953
    @mrprince8953 Рік тому +24

    Big Respect For This Man #Hassam

  • @hennahenna2800
    @hennahenna2800 Рік тому +4

    This husband was recording secretly..he is also no innocent

    • @saja2981
      @saja2981 12 днів тому

      Recording what