I had a stroke - minutes after I hit 1 million subscribers
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- Опубліковано 1 жов 2024
- On January 28th, I had a stroke. I wanted to share what happened and encourage everyone not to wait if you think you or someone around you is having a stroke. I hope to be back soon. If you would like to support me during recovery, I truly appreciate it. Please feel no pressure - thank you so much for taking the time to watch my videos and be a part of this little journey. Take care of yourselves. 💜
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You can do lazy live streams of knitting or crocheting and have titles like "Learning to do new things during recovery". Games also work mental pathways, do you play PC games or anything? Stream anything, go unscripted, hang out with folks who care about you and your health!
Speaking as someone with a neuro condition that mimics strokes, that might be hard to do because the fatigue. is. real. It’s hard to sit down and do stuff for 20 minutes sometimes before needing a nap. It’s important to take it easy
Yeah. Maybe as recovery progresses a short video of some crochet later on. We will wait with you, Jo, as you navigate yet another challenge. You inspire us.
If she did knitting streams she could get donations and it’ll be more fulfilling. Jo is an incredibly independent woman and I’m sure it was really different to open up and ask for help. I think this is an amazing idea and a great way to also spread awareness.
As an aside, one of the things I'd do after my head injury to help with my speech and cognitive defects is I'd talk to myself out loud all the time. Or hold convos with the dog. I think it helped. Was terribly frustrating at first.
@MadisonTaylorSeungri there is that. But she has a Patreon as she mentioned, and I think fatigue is a big presence in her life. She mentioned 5 minute walks being very tiring. It's only been a month or so since the stroke. Maybe after many more months. Just setting up the camera and lighting, sitting on the sofa, will be taking up a surprising lot of energy before she knits or crochets the first stitch. It felt to me that sitting and talking for this video was really draining her. I am so glad her physical underlying health was good before this happened. I am sure that is helping her recovery, but it will take time.
Any injury can be a lot to heal from, overcome, and work around, but brain injuries are a class of their own. I'm fully disabled for 10+ years. The brain fog is the worst. I'm fundamentally a different person than I used to be, because my brain works differently than it once did. I hope you can give yourself permission to accept where you are today, gain joy from today, and take your steps towards the future one at a time.
Stay amazing!
Brain fog sucks so bad! It's awful when you know you're not stupid but the brain fog makes you feel like an idiot every day. Plus our society is so unfriendly towards neurodivergent brains including from head injuries. It's so important to learn self forgiveness and find new ways to value yourself
My dad suffered a traumatic brain injury and it _completely_ changed him as a person. Not only physically, but his entire personality changed. While we’re thankful he survived, it was a very difficult time for my family. Brain trauma is scary.
I no I’m all the way in uk I wish could meet you I have cerebral palsy and a full time wheelchair user just know I’m here
I am so sorry that you are going through such a difficult year. I had significant brain fog due to a medication that triggered my lupus and caused my kidneys to stop filtering waste which backed up into my bloodstream. Like you, I wasn’t aware of what was happening because I was slowly poisoning my own brain. I did recover but am still affected by it. I’m thinking about you and sending as much positivity and hope as I can. Asking for help is really difficult for me but my mom pointed out that helping me helped others who wanted to give some tangible support. My mom and husband felt hopeless because they wanted to fix my problems and couldn’t. Coordinating meals, etc gave my mom a task and let my husband focus on me. I’m sorry that I can’t offer direct support but I am thankful that you do have people who can help you. Best wishes.
You’re not needing that help like a toddler, you’re needing it like a disabled adult. All sorts of people at all sorts of stages of life need all sorts of help. That’s what I remind myself re: the help I need for my own disabilities; maybe that mindset may help you.
Take care. There’s a million folks rooting for you!
Why not file Chapter 7 Bankruptcy.... ??
@@jackhudson8038 Why not hush if you've got nothing good to say? chaptering bankruptcy doesn't work like that lol
@@wildlifeonwheels4236 The person was asking a question. So you shouldn't tell someone to hush if they have a opinion. Remember as long as it is done nicely everyone's voice counts!
@@whatmyohmy being rude is not ask a question just becouse they slab a ? In there. Some skit you don't say to strangers if not a bully and only bullies defend it
"You’re not needing that help like a toddler, you’re needing it like a disabled adult." this comment has done so much for me. thank you so so much for saying this
Stroke victim here , you are not alone
You describe it exactly right
Stroke victim here, you are not alone. I was 42 y/o with two kids. I was a full-time gymnastics coach (former gymnast) and volunteered teaching nature in my kids' school. It happened at 2am and because I had a series of TIAs (mini-strokes) first, I was incredibly confused and tired. I didn't get to the hospital in time for the clot busting medication that has been so crucial for stroke victims. My stroke caused complete right side hemiplegia and disarthria. In the time it took to blink, I lost half my body and the ability to swallow, breathe properly and my signals for hunger and elimination. This happened November 2019 and so I recovered during the COVID shut down. When I was discharged after 9 weeks in the hospital/rehab, I had zero movement in my arm and could not walk without an AFO and cane. We still don't know what caused my stroke, but I have conquered that fear of recurrence. It has been 4 years and I can walk, drive and have 85% recover in my right arm. I have come further than they ever imagined because I had the drive and discipline to push myself harder than was probably healthy. It has been a long ass road but neuroplasticity is amazing. I wish I had been kinder to myself, so I'm passing that onto you. Be kind to yourself, please. The brain will heal and it absolutely will get easier. Recovery is about functionality not "getting back what you lost." It feels unfair. There will be so much frustration and anger. But promise me you will be kind to yourself. Sending you love and light - Jen
Your comment gives hope to many of us who have lost their ability to function as they once did. I'm fortunate to have found a dedicated UPMC spinal cord health clinic. I am surrounded by a whole team of professionals who work together with me. They focus on rehab, and have restored my hope, that with continued work, I can and will get better. There are so many emotions as you've expressed. Anger, depression, denial, acceptance, which will often recur. Wash, Rinse, Repeat. It's very similar to the stages of grief. It's great to have friends and family members onboard. You are inspirational. Thank you for sharing your story. 🕊️🕊️🕊️
Neuroplasticity is great indeed, but it eats so much more energy for doing the same, that I still cannot last a day without showing symptoms after a few hours of sort of 'normal' operation.
(and even more if I actually have to DO something in that time)
I love the way you woke this. "It's not about getting back what was lost".
In 2020 my niece had a severe Traumatic Brain Injury. 14 months later she passed. 6 months after that my mom had a hemorrhagic stroke.
My family has had a lot of brain education.
Another favorite youtuber, Yvonne at Friesan Horses, the day after the anniversary of my niece's accident, had a accident with a horse and suffered a Traumatic Brain Injury. She keeps saying she is 'closer to normal'. footless Jo, I hope you find a beautiful new normal. I know you are going to improve, I know you are a Boss Lady, I know you have a great therapist. I am wishing you and praying for your recovery.
This is almost exactly how mine happened and the same outcomes, except I was 37. This year I’ll be 3 years post stroke and I’m just now starting to lose the anxiety over it recurring. We also never found what caused it, which is the most frustrating part! I want to know so I have answers and find prevention. I guess the comforting part is that all tests looked immaculate so I know everything is as it should be.
I recovered fully within days which was a miracle from full paralysis. I don’t know how I was so lucky. I truly pray others don’t have to go through this terrifying experience!
Were you asleep when it happened?
I had a massive stroke at 39. I'm 70 and still here. Have faith, beautiful Jo. We love you.
Occupational therapist here. Rehab is hard, hard work but it can make all the difference in the world. Don't push too hard but do keep pushing!
My grandmother had a stroke in her 90s. Relatively mild, did not affect her speech. One minute she was standing at the counter making Christmas cookies, and then she was on the floor. Thankfully with her cordless phone in her apron pocket so she could call 911.
Once the immediate medical care was taken care of and she no longer needed to be in the hospital…. She was determined to not only not need to go to a SNF, but she also did not ea y to be in assisted living.
She worked diligently with her PT/OT providers and sure enough, she was eventually able to move from the assisted living wing to an independent living apartment. Not quite going back home… but proof that with hard work (and fortunate circumstances), much can be regained.
(Vs sitting in a room and having a pitty party)
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One thing that was hard for me was psychical therapy and speech therapy after i fell Ill before I found out I had cancer I was rushed to the icu due aspiration one night after being hospitalized which put me in a semi critical condition where I had to be intubated and lightly sedated it sucked cause it made me a lot worse because I couldn’t speak so texting was the only way I could communicate with my family I rarely Skyped with my friends cause I was sick all the time after starting chemo and radiation and I couldn’t speak so texting was the main source of communication for me but then it got to a point where I wanted to become a bit more independent so I worked forwards to transferring my self from my wheel
Chair to the bed and even using my upper body strength to get me into the truck plus if I needed help my grandfather and my mother would be there to help me my grandfather not as much because he works construction but my mom was my full time caregiver along with my grandmother although my grandmother couldn’t do much in terms of lifting cause she’s only like 5’2 and 110 pounds at most how ever my mom is the same height as her but is much bigger in terms of strength from all the fishing we have done plus my mom has been a caregiver to a guy she knew who was severely handicapped so everything she mostly did for me is things she has done.
As an ICU nurse who is married to an Occupational Therapist, I completely agree with what @user-px7nh7vs4b wrote.
I'm so glad you're alive. Keep getting that toddler treatment. ❤ You are allowed to receive help and love when you need it because you are worth it. Rest up, keep healing. We love you.
What this person said, 1000%. Take care of your self and keep healing!
Agree completely. We care about you, Jo. Glad you are doing better. ❤
I realize I'm just an Internet stranger, but I'm pulling for you. We all are.
You may want to hire a medical bill auditor to review all of your bills. They can uncover over-billing mistakes. We love you Jo!
Can you give more information? I have never of medical bill auditor.
On top of that, you can bargain your bills just the same as insurance companies.
Always calling billing and ask for an itemized bill and once you see it, dispute charges if you can. Also ask for financial assistance if needed. They have money to use on accounts so don’t be afraid to ask!
This is great advice! I had surgery and got an unexpected bill (I already met my out of pocket max). Turns out they billed me for an infertility treatment... My surgery was on my foot.
@@kytothelee90In all fairness, there's no way your foot is fertile.
Best be careful on catching the knitting/crochet bug, you'll quickly have bags of yarn weighing over 5 lbs! That sweater looks great, I love the colors. Best of luck on your recovery, hoping it's speedy!
Can confirm we have too much
My parents bought a second house in another country recently, and my mom had me bring like 40lb of yarn with me when I went to visit. It's clearly an addiction. :)
Bags? Rooms! LOL
@@mishelle6315 I can only bring so much on a plane, lol
I have a problem with too many shiny, colorful crochet hooks!
Stroke survivor here. It is SO important to talk about strokes, and your experience with them. People just aren't aware of symptoms enough. That there is rebuilding, mental care, plasticity, and hope. I now work for a hospital as a stroke support facilitator for others, as was done for me. Just remember: Compassion isn't complete until you include yourself. ((hugs))
I’m proud of you for plugging your patron even though you aren’t sure what you can really offer in exchange. I’m signing up!
I just signed up too. It hurts me to hear her talking like that. It’s like Physics Girl.. people at her age shouldn’t be facing these issues. Admitting you need help is hard. I hope more people follow our example.
@@JimAllen-Persona oi, I’m glad you replied, my ADHD distracted me from signing up before. I am officially signed up now! 😅
fellow Jiujitsu practitioner here. I don't have much to offer but our sport makes us family. ❤ that sweater is amazing. we're all so proud of you.
Can I ask you something
@@johnhipp604 sure
U still pretty
Academy owner here and i can't imagine the heartbreak and fear your coaches felt. All we ever want is to keep people safe! Im so glad youre alive and still fighting!!! Oss!
@@AdellaBarnum If you own an academy you need to tell white belts or newbies that rolling hard is idiotic and doesn't help anyone and if you catch newbies going hard you need to give them a warning or ban them. There are too many weirdos out there who start BJJ and feel like they need to roll hard which is absolutely pointless because brute forcing someone into submission isn't what BJJ is actually about. I've met heaps of white belts who go hard for absolutely no good reason except they think they have some sort of point to prove. Arterial dissection isn't super common in BJJ but look at what happened here, some newbie robbed someone else of BJJ during a typical rolling session. It's unacceptable.
Jo, I’m a stroke survivor too (a week after my 25th birthday. I’m almost to my 10th year “anniversary.” Mine was a big right-CVA, so my left side was affected too. I was in speech/OT/physical therapy for years. I’m now a brand new speech therapist for stroke survivors. You’re doing all the right stuff to help recover all those skills-just never give up. Keep working on your body, mind, and keep connected with others-especially others with a shared experience. Those who do that are always the ones who recover the best. 💕 💗 💕
You the second survivor I saw in this comment who decided to help other storke survivors in some way and I think that is amazing
@@The_froggy_one thank you! 😊 ❤️ it’s good when there are people who survive and use that experience to help others. I also have a friend (another person who was in her mid-twenties) is a stroke survivor and she’s in school to be an OT and work with people in recovery and rehab.
Jo I had a stroke 14 years ago when I was 47. I’m coming up on 70 now and I cannot complain at all. It took me three or four months to learn how to talk and walk again, and I still have memory issues and trouble finding words to explain what I want to say. but really I’m here in life is good and it could’ve been a whole lot worse. The biggest thing that gets you something through something like this is your attitude. With 1 million subscribers you should feel loved and know that a lot of people are praying for you. Don’t give up at anything do what’s the doctor tell you and you go through this just fine.
47! That's so young. Sounds like you had some damage to your Broca's area. That's a fear of mine-- glad you were able to overcome it!
If you were 47 14 years ago you would be 61…
@@helechoanarquista LOL... I didn't want to be a dick and point out that when you say you're pushing seventy, you might be at least halfway past 60... You did, so I laughed. Don't get bent out of shape, bhfire8023 hope you find it funny too... I am also coming up on 70 and I'm only 42 right now.
Praying that your recovery goes smoothly. Stroke survivor at 41. Definitely change my life. Make sure you do all the rehab. It’s worth it for a full recovery. Especially since you’re young. Wishing you the best.💕
so it is possible to fully recover from an event like this? ;o
I will think for you since you don't seem to be able to.
Yes, with intense rehab- OT, PT and speech therapy.
If you’re able to get the clot busting medication within a short time after your stroke.
Statistically women have a worse outcome because they wait to get care.
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🥰🤗🙏 Glad you are getting therapy Jo and wishing you a full recovery. Taking care of yourself is #1 priority.
The cardigan is beautiful! Be kind to yourself and rest. You're positive energy is an inspiration to the world!
Wow. Brain injuries are a LOT to recover from. Please rest deeply, and know we support you.
Jo,
My wife had a couple of mini strokes. They did small things to her but she did recover . It took awhile. I just sent you a small donation and will keep you in my thoughts. You are an inspiration to all, don't ever give up, you have a purpose in life and we need you. Much love to you -Steve
This is so nice and kind, thank you for sharing❤️
“Love yourself enough to go to the hospital” unfortunately words I needed to hear. Not for a stroke, but just in general. I hate to be a “bother” & spend my time caring for others, often forgetting or ignoring myself. Thank you for these words.
I hope your recovery is as gentle as possible.
Wishing you all the best. Thank you for letting us help, even though it’s hard to ask.
Hang in there. It’ll be better soon. Ty for letting us know. You’ve helped me a lot (paralyzed double amputee)
I went into septic shock years ago and almost died, the recovery was long and getting over the fear took longer but I got back to a new normal as I’m sure you will as well. Your body went through a lot to keep you here today and the best thing you can do is love it and take care of it. I’m so happy you’re able to do even small things to keep you happy as you have brought great happiness into our lives for years. The best of wishes on your journey ❤
That sweater is your first crochet project? It's gorgeous!
Get well soon, Jo!
And after a stroke too, I was like wow, the sweater looks amazing.
Actually quite jealous of that cardigan....
So sorry to hear you going through all this. ❤❤❤
I am not ashamed to say this made me cry watching someone I admire so very much, suffering.
You're videos and recovery made so much of a massive positive effect when I went through my own below knee amputation in November 2021. I to had an accident that left me with no real choice but amputation.
I shared your nubbin warmer sock idea with nurses, psyhios, surgeons, healthcare assudtants etc and it was brand new to all of them. In one of the UKs leading orthopaedic hospitals. One of nurses, an orthopaedic nurse for 30 years who also teaches thought it was phenomonal and best thing she'd heard in a long time. She said she'd make it part of what nurses would be taught. Hundreds and hundreds of patients will have benefitted already.
Remember you are loved and cared about. True fans will wait as long as you need to heal.
With lots of love from UK, Elliott x
I love that you shared this info and that they are passing it along to others!
I've got the experience of both caring for people who've had strokes personally and professionally, and having cognitive issues due to (admittedly very different) neurological conditions.
From my experience, I'd say you're doing amazingly well. You're vertical. You're able to walk. You're able to speak. For just a month after a stroke, that's incredible and you should be so proud of yourself. You will continue to improve and over time you will regain more independence.
Some of your cognitive issues sound similar to a condition I have called dyspraxia, particularly around coordination and speech. Dyspraxia is a coordination disorder and it affects every part of my life. I fall over, I can't throw or catch and I have issues with proprioception, or the sense of where my body is in space. Dyspraxia is usually congenital, however it can be acquired after something like a stroke. The way I describe dyspraxia is like a cross between cerebral palsy and autism if that makes any sense.
This is in no way to diagnose you or anything like that, it's just to give you some ideas of things to research. The dyspraxia foundation have a lot of information and support on living with the condition as an adult and it might be helpful for you if you're dealing with similar symptoms from a different cause.
One thing I personally find very helpful for my coordination is compression. I wear compression leggings and a sports compression top every day underneath regular clothes. This provides constant feedback which helps me know where my limbs are in space. This may help you with your coordination and possibly other symptoms. There's no guarantees, but it might be worth a try.
I hope you continue your recovery and you start to feel more like yourself again soon. Your content has been so helpful to me in the past and I've loved watching another disabled woman do all the cool things you do. You're genuinely inspirational. Not in a patronising way, you've inspired me to keep going and try new exciting things despite my disability. Thanks for everything you've done.
I’m not great at saying anything in these situations. Just know that you’re content and your character have been greatly appreciated. Thank you for all you’ve done and will continue to do. Please hang in there. You are valued.
i havent seen any media from Jo in weeks, since this video. DO you know if she's posted stuff elsewhere on her SM?
@@Defender78She posts on her patreon.
I can't commit to being a Patreon but here is a little to help. I live in the UK and can't imagine not only having to go through such a life altering injury but then worrying about paying the medical bills it's incurred.
That’s the United States, unfortunately. We treat basic human rights, including healthcare, as luxuries one must earn. The government typically only steps in to offer free or low-cost healthcare if you’re destitute or a senior citizen. Anyone who suggests the system is broken is branded an extremist by the same politicians who have been bought by the healthcare industry.
Same, those medical bills always confuse me and strike me as something out of the middle ages and morally SO wrong!
most of us europeans can't wrap our heads around idea of paying for EVERYTHING medical.
I’m happy to be able to help you out! God bless you!
Not sure if this will be of any help but I do hope that this will lighten up the burden. Remember that people only have love for you on this platform and in real life. It may be difficult to accept it and take it in or hard, but it is there for a reason. Love you Jo, and take it day by day:-)
Handing out money toward bills and general support, saying "not sure if this will be any help"? Of course, it helps plenty and you should be made aware that someone who can genuinely ask for help with bills are always super grateful. Don't know if you saw her more recent video, but yea, plenty helpful and you should feel good about it
I understand that in 2024, $100 isn’t much. But it’s the thought and care as you gave from yourself to someone in need. That was a great gesture.❤
@@mama_keikei8081 exactly!💯
Thank you so much for this- I can’t help, but I’m so happy to see others using the fact that they can for good. ❤
Jo is one of my favorite person whom I have never met. Sending hugs. 🫂🫂🫂
I don’t have a lot, and I hope everything works out for you. You are so strong!
I am so fortunate to live in a country with free healthcare, I can’t imagine how hard it must be for you.
Good luck. You are a strong woman and have undergone so many challenges already. I can’t believe you continue to face even more. My money is on you though.
Jesus hope your okay Jo, my mum had a few mini strokes a few months ago but shes on blood thinners now and is much better. Get well soon 🙏
Oh my goodness Jo, I’m so sad this has happened. You’re one of my role models that I look up to, I want you to know. You remind me that it’s okay to be as I am, that I’m not flawed for my chronic illness and pain. Your perseverance inspires me to keep working to improve.
I’m so glad you went to the hospital, it’s so important to follow your instincts when it comes to health - 9 years ago I nearly lost my dad to a brain aneurysm. He had been vomiting and felt dizzy, and chalked it up to a stomach bug, but my stepmom wasn’t convinced and INSISTED he be seen by one of those A&E units, if anything just to make sure he wasn’t just badly dehydrated. When they got to the ED, he started talking incoherently and that led the medical staff to realise it was serious and he was transferred to the hospital. They found the aneurysm and my stepmom had to make the choice to sign off on them operating on it. I live in New Zealand, they’re east coast USA. The hospital told me he would likely not survive long enough for the time it would take for me to get to Los Angeles, he was kept in an induced coma for 12 days and by some miracle he’s survived. He got to walk me down the aisle last year, he is incredibly fortunate to have minimal side effects. I hope the current side effects for you are something that goes with time and rehab.
I’m sure that you’ll push through and come out even stronger than before. You are so resilient and I’m so glad that you’re safe and okay. We’re all here and we’re rooting for you all the way, good days, bad days, everything in between. The advice of getting a medical bill auditor to look over your bills is also a fantastic idea if you don’t feel up to going over the itemised bill yourself, I’ve not seen many where they haven’t doubled up *something* they shouldn’t have. Sending MASSIVE hugs and your favourite comfort food. You’ve got this. 💗
❤🩹I don't know anyone that's been through strokes or seen one myself but I do know how rough it is having brain issues. With my own condition, I get very dizzy and really random moments. I do wish you well on your recovery. You're a fighter, Jo. We've seen it before and we all believe in you. It is rough to ask for help when you're trying to do it on your own, like you feel it's.... almost humiliating to have to ask for help. But you have many, many people that believe in you and your journey to recovery. I give you many, many well wishes from myself and my family. 💖
Hi, in case you don't know what is causing your issue, look into a condition called POTS as a possibility.
Good luck ❤
@thebandplayedon..6145 thank you! My youngest sister has been diagnosed with POTS. I brought it up to my doctors once but I don't think we did anything with it. According to past MRI scans, I was originally diagnosed with Chiari Malformation type 1. But the latest is suggesting that I don't have it. So we're looking into possibly Fibromyalga, but there's no test that can confirm Fibromyalga, so we're trying a few things.
Jo, you have such a gift with crochet, it's mind blowing to think that this is your first project!
I seem to know so many people going through tough times medically this year, some of them have already been through so much previously, and some haven't made it. I wish you a speedy recovery and that the medical bills don't get too bad, you've also been through more than enough in your life.
I’ve been watching you for a while you’ve been through a lot. Take care of you. I truly hope you’re getting a lot of donations.
I don't have much, but here is a little donation. I just had an ankle replacement and had about 2 months of downtime and a year of PT ahead, so I feel your pain.
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Don't do anything Jo. You worked and built a community that will wait for you and is ready to support you. Many people can't do much, but little help from many people can be a lot.
You said it so well. We will be here rooting for you in the meantime, Jo! Always, always take as much time to heal as your body needs. You come first :)
From one amputee with a miles long medical history to another, wishing you all the love and strength in your recovery. Can't wait to see you and the dogs back at it!!💕💕
You deserve so much more and I’m so proud of you and the community you have created. Because the super thanks and new patrons you’re getting are not pity money, they’re the love and care you have poured into us that is pouring back to you now. Thank you Jo, you have done something truly amazing. Hugs from Spain ❤
Hope everything works out Jo! I just realized I wasn't subscribed even though I've watched many of your videos. That is now fixed! I've had several family members that have survived strokes and they are always scary, for everyone involved.
So sorry you're going through this, Jo. You always help me so much when I struggle with my own health issues, I hope this can help you a little in return.
We are all hoping for the best. Thank you for asking for help so we could.
Sorry to hear of your accident. Here's a little contribution from a fellow crocheter.
Thanks!
Don't be worried about asking for help.
Wishing you a speedy recovery, take it at your own pace. 💛
Massive stroke survivor for 8 years now. Still using a power wheelchair, lost access to my left arm. After nearly dying I have to tell you that asking for help is important!. Go fund me is a great option. Meditation is very helpful. Best of luck with your recovery process. It's not easy and it takes time and PATIENCE
All the best going forward, Jo. We're all behind you.
I've had several family members who have suffered from strokes, and I genuinely appreciate you spreading the message of getting medical help as soon as possible. Also thank you- hearing about your experience has made me so much more aware and careful when doing any kind of chokes in jui jitsu. I hope you can recover quickly and fully 💚💚💚 Your crochet project looks fantastic btw!!
Congrats on the Million! Thank you for giving me the opportunity to support you in return for all the joy and support you've given me with your content.
Yikes!
I went through a period for a few years where, after much illness, I had terrible brain fog and poor access to my short term memory. It slowly got better. Paradoxically, I think the thing that helped most was engaging my brain in harder activities like learning a new language. Perhaps dusting off something mentally taxing you always wanted to learn like music or a new language would help you too. Hugs. ❤
You have helped me so much to get through breaking my spine and all the rehab and recovery and setbacks that have come with that. It's not much but I hope this helps you at least a tiny bit in return.
That cardigan is *actually* professional looking like I have been trying to learn to crochet for months and my squares are still wonky. That in itself is an enormous accomplishment even if you DID have full use of your hands and balance! I am confident that everything will be alright
That’s exactly what I was saying! I’d buy that cardigan in a heartbeat! 💗
Blocking is worth the time, takes the wonkiness right out and as long as your gauge was steady and count (mostly lol) spot on, it should work wonders!
Cheers
You're an outstanding creator and however long it takes, we'll be here to see you at your healthiest again 😊
Edit: I'm verbose and realized reading all this may well be a bit much for you right this second, quite understandably. So TL;DR, you are completely spot on in terms of your commentary, thank you so much for the update and the PSA, and I hope you recover both well and quickly. 💜
I'm disabled and have some genuine empathy for some of the emotional challenges you're going through right now. I'm still going through some of those mental coping processes myself. I wish you a speedy, healthy recovery, and thank you for making such an effort to both update us on your situation, and give the important PSA to never, ever wait in a situation like yours.
And for what it's worth to anybody else who might see this: I've learned from experience that it's better to be annoyed because you have an ER bill when you accidentally went for something relatively small in the end, than to not go when you're unsure. And I've done both, as well as slowly learning my body better and responding to my body's cues better as time went on. I had more than one, "pointless," ER bill in the very beginning, but knowing what I know now, I made the right choices, in spite of the ironic fact that some of those choices were expensive and low-key sucked to deal with afterwards. Hell, I went into debt over it. I still don't regret what I've had to do. It's as you said, Jo-- you have to love yourself enough to refuse to dismiss yourself when something feels distinctly wrong. While it wasn't by means of a stroke, I almost died at one point by spending an excessive amount of time dismissing my own health, as well. Somebody who loves me saw the signs and saved my life, which is the only reason I'm still here. But thankfully I'm learning better since then, too. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for using your platform to send us all such a heartfelt message. Take care of yourself as best as you can. Wishing you all the best from our little family over here. 💜
wishing you a smooth recovery and a carefree future
So sorry to hear about your stroke. You’re an amazing person Jo, and an inspiration to us all. I wish you a really speedy recovery and hope this small amount will help to keep you going in the meantime. Sending lots of love and hugs 🥰
Gute Besserung! Here's hoping to that your healing will be smooth ❤ (heart)
so schnell kanns gehen :-/
That's a badass sweater and for someone who says they've never crocheted before - it DOES NOT SHOW!- The sweater looks perfect and gorgeous. Keep it up, rest and let your body do the things it needs to do to heal. Sending healing vibes.
All the best to you, Jo! Take your time and recover well! ❤
Take care Jo, we're all sending good wishes your way while you rest and recover 💜
Been watching you for years. It’s not much but I know this goes to a deserving soul!
Please be gentle on yourself and be patient! You’re on the road to recovery! You are in our thoughts! We love you!!!
The cardigan looks fantastic!
Blessings to you on your healing journey.
I'm sorry you're going through this! It's not much, but I hope it helps. ... btw, the sweater you crocheted is BEAUTIFUL!!!!❤
I'm so sorry this happened to you. I've been through some medical issues myself this past year that severely affected my life. I hope you'll recover soon! You're community is here for you!
I am so sorry you are going through this. I wish I could help you out more.
I have no mobility impairments & can't crochet like that! Be kind to yourself. We'll all be here when you're ready. Love from aus ❤
Just a tiny contribution, Jo. My goodness, you are really going through the mill. I didnt look at your channel for a while, but this video popped up in my feed tonight. I do hope you make a good recovery, sweetheart xx
You keep being you. If you can, we would all just live to see videos of how you're doing.
You are amazing. You'll recover. We love you. ❤
Jo, I am 5-1/2 years out from a vertebral artery dissection & stroke caused by a chiropractor. My heart goes out to you and everything you are going through. Even though years have passed, I still remember the uncertainty of what was ahead. Please take your time healing and lean on those helping you. Don't push yourself to "get back to normal". You look at life differently post stroke, but I can promise that "normal" will happen again even if it means creating a new normal for yourself. ❤
Chiropractors are so dangerous . People dont realize.
May I ask what type of manipulation caused that? So sorry.
That's horrifying! I hope you sued the crap out of them
@@missbeaussie any kind of abrupt or excessive neck manipulation can cause it
@@missbeaussie it was a manual neck manipulation. not only the abrupt or excessive movement, but the twisting at the same time is so dangerous.
I'm disabled and have chronic back stuff going on. I so empathize with the "maybe I'm making a big deal out of nothing" I'm glad you're still here with us
I haven't had a stroke but I have recovered from a TBI and I know the frustration and exhaustion of just... not having the wiring work right.
You are doing great 🩵
I wish I could do more. Healing vibes being sent your way.
Jo. You are loved. And petting puppies is recognized as amazing therapy.
So sorry you're going through this, but you are so strong and have overcome so much. Keep working at it and be kind to yourself in your new journey.
A lot of people in my life have had health problems lately, the financial toll it takes is unbelievable. I am so happy you are still here and am wishing you a full and speedy recovery!!! Take care of yourself and let your family and friends be there for you 🤗
Recover and remember you have people who care! ❤
Get well, Jo; we are all behind you.
Wishing you a speedy recovery❤ You are amazing and I am so happy you are alive.
Grateful for everything you've shared over the years. Sending internet hugs and positive vibes for recovery. We support you, whichever path forward feels right from here.
We appreciate you so much.
Sending you healing vibes for all parts of this recovery journey 💜
i will forever be grateful for your content changing how i view my own life and disability for the better
Good luck ❤
Your cardigan is so perfect! I have not had a stroke and my crochet projects do not look like that. 😂 It’s very brave of you to ask for help. I had to accept help last summer after a health emergency left me essentially bedridden for a time. I’m almost 100% again but it was so difficult letting others care for me. Still, I learned to ask. Get well soon!
I absolutely LOVE your sweater! I've been knitting and crocheting for 6 decades, and I know what sort of work goes into this - what a lovely design and colors you chose! Sending you healing vibes from chilly Rhode Island. Hope to see you again as soon as you feel healthy and able to be here, but healing first!
Take care of yourself! Get well quickly!
Good luck and speedy recovery!!
Take care Jo. ❤ That cardigan is gorgeous!
I began watching your videos in 2021 after injuring my foot and having it turn septic. As a result, I lost two toes and your videos really helped me understand phantom pain. A month after leaving the hospital, I suffered a TIA. The doctors weren't sure if it was from the sepsis or the treatment afterwards. My kidneys have suffered as well. Life is hard sometimes, but I try to focus on the positive. I'm sorry you're going through this, Jo, but you're strong and you're surrounded by those who love you. Lean into them. That's all that matters right now. Wishing you many blessings.
Sending you so much love and all the best with your recovery ❤
Wishing you a quick recovery! Wishing you all blessings from Sri-Sri Radha and Krishna!
Best wishes for the recovery Jo, and many happy sweaters to come.
One of the other things we can do also is to rewatch your videos, making sure not to skip the ads.
All the best to you, Jo!!
Was going to say the same thing bc I can't financially help out but I can watch videos and watch the ads on a loop at night while I sleep. Good luck Jo! You're in my prayers!! ❤ 🙏
I have YT Premium so I don't get ads. Do you think just adding view count to the old videos helps just as much? I'm totally down!
@DaniCamo it absolutely helps and it keeps her channel in the algorithm too! I mute a Playlist on loop on a spare device at night so it plays all night long.
@@AmandaPaige71 - brilliant idea!
@@AmandaPaige71 thank you! That's such a great idea!