Wow I was rooting for you until you said you are still married to him. How is that moving on. He’s still the winner in the story. He’s married to the both of you🤦🏻♀️
How can u put yourself so low and even go be his witness to marrying another women??? Your niam ntxawm is right. There’s other man out there who will love you right. Forget him
Sister of the story- glad you are seeing your self-worth. I have already walked in ur shoes. Got married at 13. Marriage did not last after 20 years of abusive and emotional torture…..I decided to take the poj nrauj name and left the marriage. I went back to get higher education and got a career, and supported my kids through college . They are grown and successful in their careers…I enjoyed being myself the last 15 plus years being single. The life of poj nrauj is not bad at all….when you know your self-worth and have confidence.
That's what u get for marrying a guy whose on the rebound. When they were dating, u secretly liked him & were happy to marry him when she dumped him. He never loved u, but u were too hung up on him. Stop begging him to love u, it aint gonna happen.
Exactly what I was thinking too . She wanted him . She betrayed her friend . I don't feel sorry for her at all . She still wants him otherwise she would divorce him already . Don't use the kids as an excuse .
Stories that clearly tells/confirms the person who submitted in their stories are too damn ruam, and use “bad luck” as an excuse annoys the heck out of me. I never finish this kind of stories.
lol. Good thing you didn’t waste your time finishing the story because she didn’t divorce him. She is only his wife by the Hmong way and she’s happy with it.
@@MissPeachie No bueno. I can understand Laos and Thailand, but I refuse to have any sympathy or empathy for them if they are in the US…and also claimed to be educated…??? Lol..wtf
😢you have to wake up and love yourself.. it’s not only you who have to fight through life’s obstacles. Be strong and stand strong for yourself and your kids. That ex don’t deserve you. Live for yourself and your kids one day you will find someone who loves you more than him. So glad you left and did better for yourself!!
I am proud of you. Sadly, for the Hmong culture you can still be married by name and yet not share the same bed and life. Continue to do you and live for you and your children.
If you say you had let him go, let him, don’t keep him hanging around. I’m glad you realized that no money or degrees will keep a man. I’m proud of you to realize your worth and became independent. Wishing you all the best, take your time in finding the right one. Thanks for sharing ❤
You are lying to yourself. You have not moved on. You are still holding on to hopes that he will leave his wife and come back to you. He only wants you because you are playing hard to get. Why do you have so much time to play with him? Divorce him and find someone else. You are holding onto false hopes and wasting your life on someone that never loved you. MOVE ON!
@@XMML33 you heard it right. She bought a house and moved out. She is still married to him the Hmong way, but not legally. His legal wife is the niam yau.🤷🏻♀️ She didn’t choose to move on, he just didn’t give a 💩 about her. That is not considered moving on.
Yeap!!!! She can't move on cause I believe she stole her best friend 's boyfriend. She 's a looser at the beginning and she still be a looser. She still want to keep his name.
Zoo siab nrog kj os tus viv ncaus ua kj ua tau niam ua tau txiv sawv los tuav kj lub neej khov kho be strong to be a role model to all the weak women to follow u foot step 💪💪
You did what best for you is good. Don't regret and never look back. Someone doesn't have a good heart will never love you, only use you when he seek for happiness....
Bravo sister!! You have turned around and love yourself and your children. You should have just divorced him in name too so that way you don't have to deal with him anymore. If you don't then that mean you still have a thing for him and the attention of him chasing you. Move on and get rid of him in name too.
You’re still married to him? I was on your side until the end you stated you’re still married to him. Whatever makes you happy❤. Just to let you know he’s not jealous of you. Just because he’s keeps tabs and coming back to you because his marriage is not working out doesn’t mean he’s jealous and wants to be with you. You’re just the side chick/mama.
You’re a very strong woman. You endured all those pain and was still able to finished school. I applaud you. If I were you, I’ll mess around with him just to pissed the other girl off too. Ruined her life how she ruined yours then go get married to someone else. It was never your fault in the beginning. You tried so hard to make your relationship work because you came from a broken home. Best wishes.
I know you are trying to self-love but decide to stay bc you may have trauma from your mom leaving your dad and family. Growing up without a mom and then going into a narriage that required you to leave marriage separting your children from either you or their dad. But i hope you know that the children will grow up up to understand. Sending you strength and love.
Your life story is good to learn how to chacng your own life , learn how to be a better person can be a strong person learn how to love your self thank you sister.
Yog tshaj plaws os mi Sister aw...kuv lub neej ces tu siab li koj hais no kuv xav li koj hais no xwb tiag cas hnub no kuv hnov koj lub neej es koj hais li kuv xav thiab os kuv nim xav tias yog kuv lub neej xwb no es nim muaj koj lub thiab
Education doesn't teach you to be smart in marriage. Education teaches you how to make money only. Marriage, you'll only learn as you go. Don't feel bad, sister, you'll learn to love yourself as you go!
How can a smart young lady settle for 2nd to none for a man. Have faith and love yourself. No man is worth your tears when they never love you and DO NOT use your kids as an excuse to stay with your husband. You are still very young. Someday you'll find love or true love will find you but please don't be desperate for love or you'll just make more mistakes. Embrace your accomplishments and love your kids even without a husband.
Me sister awm, nws yeej tsis hlub koj thaum pib los lawm os nws hlub koj twm nws tus qub hluas nkuaj xwb os es txhob tu siab heev thiab os mog es hlub yug tu kheej ua ntej os❤❤❤
Lub ntuj tso neb ua txij nkawm, but your husband went against it and now he is paying for it! Lub ntuj tso the right person for us but people never satisfied and so let them suffer at the end when they old. When your heart is shattered and no more love in your heart then too bad for them…they made you who you are today!!
Thov txim kuv yuav tau hais lo lus no qhia koj, vim koj tseem muaj kev npam kev khaum, tshuav nuj tshuav nqi rau koj tus txiv nkawv khub txwj nkawm, koj thiaj nyob mus tsis taus. Koj Nyob them tag ces koj thiaj yuav dim mog. Tus neeg ruam neeg tsis muaj peev xwb ces yeej hais cov lus li no los dag los ntxiav nws lub siab xwb os... 😢😢😢
Sister, please divorce him culturally and move on. He doesn't deserve you. Why you settle for him? Muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb es zoo dabsti? Best wishes to you and your children.
You liked your friend's boyfriend and that is why you went with him to his ex's house time and time again. You should have never married him in the first place.
It’s what happens when you date/marry your friend’s ex. What were u thinking? You could have avoided being married but u stayed because u knew a part of you liked him. When my best friend left her ex for her husband, he called me crying about her as well. Eventually he started saying we should be together. I flat out said hell no. That’s the biggest mistake anybody can do. Never marry someone who wants to marry you over heart break.
No matter the situation, NEVER MARRY YOUR FRIENDS EX. PERIODT!!! Leave girl! Child support!! Take everything!! Big dummy for staying. Upgrade girl!! Go for a white guy now. ^_^ (one that loves you) ❤️
You Don't do everything for make the person love u . If the person doesn't love u no matter what they never love you.. don't waste your time it's not worth it..
Shoot...cas koj ruam ua luaj nad? Yog nws ua siab phem rau koj li ntawd ces koj kuj sue nwg kiag xwb los mas!! Vim nws yog tus kidnapped koj coj koj mus yuav ua ntej nev. Koj twb tsis yeem los nws kidnap koj lawm nev. Muab nws foob kiag kom ti ntxhav nkaus xwb los mas!!
You are not staying for your kids. You just crazy can't live without him. Doesn't matter I love my kids, but I won't torture myself for a person Doesn't love me. I will take my kids with me and leave that person to have a happy life my kids.
Tej thaum, peb pojniam pheej xav yuam kev tias nyob rau menyuam tabsi koj tsis xav tias koj tus menyuam niaj hnub pom koj quaj, mob siab, thiab sib ceg tas li xwb, nws xav li cas ? Thaum ib tug neeg hais lus tas2 rau yus lawm, ua ib siab mog. Hnub ntawd sawv kiag los ua niam ua txiv. Muab tej kev phem ntawd tshem kom tas hauv yus lub neej mus. Ua ib tug good strong model rau koj cov menyuam. Txog cia ib tug txiv neej tsuj yus tas los tseem yuav tsuj dua. Koj tsis kam nrauj nws tabsi ceev faj tsam lwm hnub nws mob lossis nws tuag ces tseem yuav poob rau koj tha thiab. Ua dabtsi ua tiag2 luag thiaj li pom yus muaj nuj nqi
Wow I was rooting for you until you said you are still married to him. How is that moving on. He’s still the winner in the story. He’s married to the both of you🤦🏻♀️
How can u put yourself so low and even go be his witness to marrying another women??? Your niam ntxawm is right. There’s other man out there who will love you right. Forget him
Some people are slaves. They have to be born to repay their debts in oder to be debt free in the next life.
Sister you are book smart only. Not very smart with life itself.
I second that!
Remember, she has never been a relationship before. But wise to finish school. Proud of you, woman! May God bless!
You don't need to be in multiple relationships to know how a man is supposed to treat you.
You should send out a thank you message to your college counselor for her encouragement
I love and learn from your story, I admire you vey much, thank you for sharing ❤.
Sister of the story- glad you are seeing your self-worth.
I have already walked in ur shoes. Got married at 13. Marriage did not last after 20 years of abusive and emotional torture…..I decided to take the poj nrauj name and left the marriage. I went back to get higher education and got a career, and supported my kids through college . They are grown and successful in their careers…I enjoyed being myself the last 15 plus years being single. The life of poj nrauj is not bad at all….when you know your self-worth and have confidence.
Congrats! Great job!
That's what u get for marrying a guy whose on the rebound. When they were dating, u secretly liked him & were happy to marry him when she dumped him. He never loved u, but u were too hung up on him. Stop begging him to love u, it aint gonna happen.
Where's the bro code😂
Right!! I was thinking that also when she kept getting involved with her friend's relationship.
Exactly what I was thinking too . She wanted him . She betrayed her friend . I don't feel sorry for her at all . She still wants him otherwise she would divorce him already . Don't use the kids as an excuse .
Respect yourself and walk away!!!! There's nothing to gain!
So proud of tu niam tsev no, as we age, we realized education wins it all. Being able to support yourself and your children is the best.
Stories that clearly tells/confirms the person who submitted in their stories are too damn ruam, and use “bad luck” as an excuse annoys the heck out of me. I never finish this kind of stories.
lol. Good thing you didn’t waste your time finishing the story because she didn’t divorce him. She is only his wife by the Hmong way and she’s happy with it.
@@MissPeachie No bueno. I can understand Laos and Thailand, but I refuse to have any sympathy or empathy for them if they are in the US…and also claimed to be educated…??? Lol..wtf
Exactly
😢you have to wake up and love yourself.. it’s not only you who have to fight through life’s obstacles. Be strong and stand strong for yourself and your kids. That ex don’t deserve you. Live for yourself and your kids one day you will find someone who loves you more than him. So glad you left and did better for yourself!!
Well, another story proving that educated people are just educated but not very intelligent or wise with life in general.
She is too desperate and has no self respect. Desperation makes people dumb and blind.
My same thinking.
I am proud of you. Sadly, for the Hmong culture you can still be married by name and yet not share the same bed and life. Continue to do you and live for you and your children.
If you say you had let him go, let him, don’t keep him hanging around. I’m glad you realized that no money or degrees will keep a man. I’m proud of you to realize your worth and became independent. Wishing you all the best, take your time in finding the right one. Thanks for sharing ❤
Hmm, don’t over brag. You’re still his wife. You have shorted yourself. Life is good to be loved. Be smart enough to find love, before it’s too late.
Exactly! Don’t know why you’re preaching when you couldn’t even divorced your txiv dev.
We heard master and Dr degree stories, we need some HSD and GED degree stories too. 😅
Bruh LOOOL
Lmao 😂 right
😂😂😂😂
She has a Master degree but no common sense.
OK OK someday I will tell my story "no degree"
ua tsaug tu niam tsev kj zaj neej neeg raug peb cov poj niam tshaj li hai tau yog lawm
I’m glad that it takes a master degree for you to learn your lesson.
You are lying to yourself. You have not moved on. You are still holding on to hopes that he will leave his wife and come back to you. He only wants you because you are playing hard to get. Why do you have so much time to play with him? Divorce him and find someone else. You are holding onto false hopes and wasting your life on someone that never loved you. MOVE ON!
Agreed, we'll said...
Yep, she’s the loser. He won.
She said she had moved on, but technically she just moved out of his parents house unless I misheard the story.
@@XMML33 you heard it right. She bought a house and moved out. She is still married to him the Hmong way, but not legally. His legal wife is the niam yau.🤷🏻♀️ She didn’t choose to move on, he just didn’t give a 💩 about her. That is not considered moving on.
Yeap!!!!
She can't move on cause I believe she stole her best friend 's boyfriend. She 's a looser at the beginning and she still be a looser.
She still want to keep his name.
It looks like she still waiting for him to come back home😂😂😂
I agree. She is still waiting for him.
Zoo siab nrog kj os tus viv ncaus ua kj ua tau niam ua tau txiv sawv los tuav kj lub neej khov kho be strong to be a role model to all the weak women to follow u foot step 💪💪
Ua tay li koj yog ib qho zoo lawm os tus me viv ncaus....❤
You did what best for you is good. Don't regret and never look back. Someone doesn't have a good heart will never love you, only use you when he seek for happiness....
materialistic things does not buy peoples love
Bravo sister!! You have turned around and love yourself and your children. You should have just divorced him in name too so that way you don't have to deal with him anymore. If you don't then that mean you still have a thing for him and the attention of him chasing you. Move on and get rid of him in name too.
You’re still married to him? I was on your side until the end you stated you’re still married to him. Whatever makes you happy❤. Just to let you know he’s not jealous of you. Just because he’s keeps tabs and coming back to you because his marriage is not working out doesn’t mean he’s jealous and wants to be with you. You’re just the side chick/mama.
You’re a very strong woman. You endured all those pain and was still able to finished school. I applaud you. If I were you, I’ll mess around with him just to pissed the other girl off too. Ruined her life how she ruined yours then go get married to someone else. It was never your fault in the beginning. You tried so hard to make your relationship work because you came from a broken home. Best wishes.
Ntxov nrauj txiv ntxov tau zoo nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...
Sister aws! Yus nyob yus kaj siab tshaj plaws! Rau siab khwv nyiaj mus vacation lam hlwb ncig ntuj xwb os!😊
Wow! You fell for a rebound no wonder your marriage didn’t last.
Yog li ces Kav tsij mus yuav txiv es thiaj pauj tau kua zaub ntsuab ma.
Mus yuav mekas kiag thiaj li mob nws siab ov .hos yog yuav kiag khej dub mas haj yam mob nws siab ob npaug thiab nawb.hos yog yuav hmoob ces nws tseem cem tias khaws nws qub xwb thiab no.
I know you are trying to self-love but decide to stay bc you may have trauma from your mom leaving your dad and family. Growing up without a mom and then going into a narriage that required you to leave marriage separting your children from either you or their dad. But i hope you know that the children will grow up up to understand. Sending you strength and love.
Me ntxhai tsi txhob khuvxim ib tus neeg zoo liskos mog hlub koj tus kheej thiab koj cov me nyem xwb mog.
Your life story is good to learn how to chacng your own life , learn how to be a better person can be a strong person learn how to love your self thank you sister.
Ruam dhau lawm ces pab tsis tau
Koj yog kawg lawm thov qhua tsi txhob nkim koj lub siab hawm rua tug tuab neeg sab phem lim ham lawm ov ,move on your ways live your self !
Great story! Thanks for sharing your story. Glad you are able to move on and free yourself from the misery.
Not bad Koj siv tau nws family kawm tiav koj daim Master degree
Thanks sister for sharing your story. You are a strong woman hope you will get a blessing life and sunshine ☀️
Poj niam khav theeb koj tus txiv tsev tsis paub poj niam zoo xwb, cov zoo li koj peb tsis yuav
Sister koj txawj ntawv xwb tab sis koj tsi ntse vim koj tseem nyob rau qhov lwm tus tseem Khoo tau koj thiab os
Ob tug neeg ntaw tsis hlub koj nkaw xav rhuav koj lub neej xwb.koj yuav tau khov kho Kom ob tug neeg no khuv sim koj xwb yog qhov zoo.
A men love you. Will do everything for you, same thing you do to your husband .thats true love ❤
Yog tshaj plaws os mi Sister aw...kuv lub neej ces tu siab li koj hais no kuv xav li koj hais no xwb tiag cas hnub no kuv hnov koj lub neej es koj hais li kuv xav thiab os kuv nim xav tias yog kuv lub neej xwb no es nim muaj koj lub thiab
Koj nyob tau li koj ma❤ tab si koj yug los xiam tiam . Vim koj tsi paub txiv neej siab zoo..tseem muaj coob thiab os mog❤
Single is always better..🎉
You don’t love yourself if you do you leave him and take the kids with you long ago
Education doesn't teach you to be smart in marriage. Education teaches you how to make money only. Marriage, you'll only learn as you go. Don't feel bad, sister, you'll learn to love yourself as you go!
Hlub koj heev os tus me niam tsev 😭😭😭
Kav tsij nyob li ko xwb thiaj kaj siab mog yus tej me nyuam twb loj pab tau yus lawm txhob mus nriav kev nyuaj siab lawm mog
How can a smart young lady settle for 2nd to none for a man. Have faith and love yourself. No man is worth your tears when they never love you and DO NOT use your kids as an excuse to stay with your husband. You are still very young. Someday you'll find love or true love will find you but please don't be desperate for love or you'll just make more mistakes. Embrace your accomplishments and love your kids even without a husband.
Lub neej no tu ntshai tsam yus tuag ces yg yus niam yus txiv xwb os uas cas yus pheej mus hlub mus khuv xim ib tug neeg twb g hlub yus ne yom
thaum yu tsi kam yuav nw muab zij thaum nw yuav mu hai tsi tau
Peb cov poj niam qee leej yug los yog tus neeg tsis zoo nkauj ces peb yeej swb txoj hlub rau luag cov neeg zoo nkauj xwb mog cov mi niam tsev.
Nco ntsoov tias, koj thiab koj tus txiv tsuas muaj lub meej mom sib txig sib luag xwb, tsis txhob muab nws saib tsim txiaj tshaj koj, vim nws twb tsis hlub koj lawm, koj yim khuv xim nws ces nws yim muaj plhus, koj yim nco nws ces nws yim muaj ntsej muag loj ntxiv, nws yuav xav tias nws mas muaj nuj nqis tshaj plaws no na.
Tsis txhob mus thov kom nws hlub koj.
Nws thiaj pom tias koj muaj nuj nqis thiab no.
Txawm koj daim Master degree yuav tsis tau nws txoj kev hlub lawm los kav liam mog.
Tig los hlub koj tus kheej koj tseem muaj nuj nqis rau nom tswv rau phoojywg.
Ua tsaug koj zaj neej neeg yuav yog ib tug zoo qauv rau peb tsoom poj niam uas poob rau txoj kev lwj siab ua kev kawm mus ntxiv mog. 53:56
Men loves it when women fights for men. 😢😢😢 Cry and move forward for this is the reality.
Me sister awm, nws yeej tsis hlub koj thaum pib los lawm os nws hlub koj twm nws tus qub hluas nkuaj xwb os es txhob tu siab heev thiab os mog es hlub yug tu kheej ua ntej os❤❤❤
Glad you moved on and finally had peace in your life ! Stay well, bless and enjoy your singleness ♥️
You should really move on and find a true love that you deserve.
Peb ua neej ib leeg npam ib ntus xwb hmoob txiv neej tiam mas siab phem tsaj tsis muaj txiv siab zoo lawm os mog
This story took me on a whirlwind...still fighting over the same guy after 30 years.
Oh yo tus txiv neej no mas lim hiam tiag2 li yuav tam chim xwb ua neej cas kawg na.
Kav tsij ua kom koj niag txiv ruam ntawv tuag sawv ntsug thiaj pauj tau qhov nws tsim koj
Lub ntuj tso neb ua txij nkawm, but your husband went against it and now he is paying for it! Lub ntuj tso the right person for us but people never satisfied and so let them suffer at the end when they old. When your heart is shattered and no more love in your heart then too bad for them…they made you who you are today!!
Cas tseem muaj tej tug neeg lawm ntawv siab npaum ko es ho ruam npaum ko thiab lau.thaum luag tsis hlub koj lawm ces txeev koj kawm ntawv siab thiab koj txawm yuav tsoo koj cov paj hlwb rau nws noj kiag los nws yeej tsis hlub koj.
Thov txim kuv yuav tau hais lo lus no qhia koj, vim koj tseem muaj kev npam kev khaum, tshuav nuj tshuav nqi rau koj tus txiv nkawv khub txwj nkawm, koj thiaj nyob mus tsis taus. Koj Nyob them tag ces koj thiaj yuav dim mog. Tus neeg ruam neeg tsis muaj peev xwb ces yeej hais cov lus li no los dag los ntxiav nws lub siab xwb os... 😢😢😢
You have a really good heart wish that I have you to be my daughter in law.
Tus txiv neej no thaum tuag ntshe yuav tuag nyuaj heev lau.
Tus viv ncaus ua li koj ua xwb es nrog koj cov me nyuam nyob zoo shaj os mog .
Viv ncaus txhob mus khaws cov phooj ywg tej qub kiav roj li os
Thank u for your story. I’ve learn a few lessons. Love is blind and yes.. once a snake will always be a snake.
Sister, please divorce him culturally and move on. He doesn't deserve you. Why you settle for him? Muaj lub npe muaj txiv xwb es zoo dabsti? Best wishes to you and your children.
Sister why you still talking to him.i think God make each of us in they own way
You liked your friend's boyfriend and that is why you went with him to his ex's house time and time again. You should have never married him in the first place.
It’s what happens when you date/marry your friend’s ex. What were u thinking? You could have avoided being married but u stayed because u knew a part of you liked him. When my best friend left her ex for her husband, he called me crying about her as well. Eventually he started saying we should be together. I flat out said hell no. That’s the biggest mistake anybody can do. Never marry someone who wants to marry you over heart break.
Rooting for you sister 👍
Please move on. Divorce him😮you don't need him around
Mloog Zaj neej neeg no mas yog Tshaj plaws li os. Tabsis muab hais los mas koj yog ib tig poj niam ruam xiam hlwb es pheej nyob nrog ib tug txiv twb tsis Hlub koj lawm koj lam hais li koj zoo zoo siab xwb os tabsis koj ruam xiam hlwb lawm
No matter the situation, NEVER MARRY YOUR FRIENDS EX. PERIODT!!! Leave girl! Child support!! Take everything!! Big dummy for staying. Upgrade girl!! Go for a white guy now. ^_^ (one that loves you) ❤️
You Don't do everything for make the person love u .
If the person doesn't love u no matter what they never love you.. don't waste your time it's not worth it..
Omg lady! He already told you he was using you only. Leave him already 🤦♀️
Karma...you did your friend dirty now she does it to you
thwj toob ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Ua tau txaus ntshai dhau lawm os ua thaj ko ces peb cov txiv neej Hmoob no ces npav lub tua xwb laiv thaum lawv khoo tsis tau 2 tug poj niam na.
Um! Why are you still with him? Kawm txawj lawm mam yuav tsum ntse thiab and love yourself.
Shoot...cas koj ruam ua luaj nad? Yog nws ua siab phem rau koj li ntawd ces koj kuj sue nwg kiag xwb los mas!! Vim nws yog tus kidnapped koj coj koj mus yuav ua ntej nev. Koj twb tsis yeem los nws kidnap koj lawm nev. Muab nws foob kiag kom ti ntxhav nkaus xwb los mas!!
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These stories give me headaches. I may have to retire for a while 😔
What an evil, evil husband. The most evil kind of husband. How dare he play with other peoples lives. I hope he gets the worst kind of karma.
Txiv neej nyias coj txawv ntias. Move on rau lwm tus. You'll see that there's always someone better
Sister yus nyob yus es txhob thab tus txiv dev ntawv lawm os
You are not over him. You don't love yourself. Throw that degree in the trash. You have the choice to leave and choose happiness somewhere else.
Why wait for him? Move on. You deserved love and happiness.
Please love yourself and leave!
Sister cas koj yuav hais li kuv hais rau kuv 2 tub kiag nas
Tu poj hmoob no ua cas ua tsis tau niam li
Girl move on… I PROMISE YOU it’s so much better !!!
Man like money more than women txiv neej tshaw nyiaj xwb
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You are not staying for your kids. You just crazy can't live without him. Doesn't matter I love my kids, but I won't torture myself for a person Doesn't love me. I will take my kids with me and leave that person to have a happy life my kids.
Tej thaum, peb pojniam pheej xav yuam kev tias nyob rau menyuam tabsi koj tsis xav tias koj tus menyuam niaj hnub pom koj quaj, mob siab, thiab sib ceg tas li xwb, nws xav li cas ? Thaum ib tug neeg hais lus tas2 rau yus lawm, ua ib siab mog. Hnub ntawd sawv kiag los ua niam ua txiv. Muab tej kev phem ntawd tshem kom tas hauv yus lub neej mus. Ua ib tug good strong model rau koj cov menyuam. Txog cia ib tug txiv neej tsuj yus tas los tseem yuav tsuj dua. Koj tsis kam nrauj nws tabsi ceev faj tsam lwm hnub nws mob lossis nws tuag ces tseem yuav poob rau koj tha thiab. Ua dabtsi ua tiag2 luag thiaj li pom yus muaj nuj nqi