That’s y I go with my husband every where. So much fun with outdoor activities. U gotta think that ur making memories. Spending a lot of quality time together Built a better relationship. I’m glad u enjoy outdoor activities with your husband. Ib npliag yus tseem quav tshaj yus tus txiv lawm thiab lol
Hobbies are good in moderation. Maybe u are a little selfish for limiting him totally. But if he goes 2-3 days per month only, its ok. But if its 2-3 weekends, then its no go. Cause thats almost the whole weekend in a month. As a woman, we want and need the husband to be present and go places together with us too.
Lady.. you made me appreciate my husband even more. My husband is just like your husband, plus I don't even complain about his hunting and fishing season. I sometimes even ask to join or go outdoors with him, as long he does not cheat on me. Plus, I don't like cheating spouse either. I don't understand why a woman like you complaining about your own husband. You should be blessed to have a husband like that and not cheat on you. I'm glad that you are willingly to stay and work on your marriage.
It's great to hear that you're enjoying the activities he's into. I used to be like that too when my kids were little. But now that they are older, I sometimes force him to go, so I can have quiet time myself. Having hobbies keeps them young.
I agreed with the “selfish” comments. Hunting/Fishing are not all year round. My husband goes golfing, hunting, and fishing. I don’t mind. It’s his hobbies & I’m glad he has these hobbies to enjoy. You almost lost a good man.
Some mens don’t know their limits.. I have similar issues. It’s a addiction for mine.. I went through depression due to mine going so much. His priority is different from mine.. Mine went every weekend and on his days off. Not every mens are the same but mine really out do his.. it’s not like I don’t allow him to do it. I understand they need to breath also from life but I also need to breath from life too. It’s harder for men to realize they need to limits themselves. I honestly can say mine is the selfish one.
It's true. Ua niam txiv txij nkawm ces yuav tau nyiam ib yam thiaj muaj kev kaj siab rau lub neej. Yog ua qhov phem mam hais, tab sis yog hobby zoo xwb ces yog sib hlub lawm yeej sib koom txhawb zog kom zoo xwb.
Peb yuav tsum ua niam tsev siab loj2 thiab siab zoo ces kawg tau txais kev zoo xwb laiv hmoob...Kuv li mas nws nyiam ces yus hais tsi tau ces cia li caum lawm xwb mas lomzem2 kawg li ov.
Well, that advice from her sil was not that great. In order for her to respect his hobbies, he needs to also respect her, too. She can't give in and let him have his way 100%. That's not how a marriage works.
its true hunting is similar to you ladies who loves going shopping for hrs couple times a week. Some ladies even get together and drive way out of town to go shopping for hmong clothes or whatever. its good every person had a hobby as long as it is not lust, cheating, flirty, alcoholic or uncontrollable gambling. There are more and more ladies got together taking road trips to local or out of town places just to take pictures with hmong clothes on lol. that usually takes the whole day.
If your husband loves hunting, support his hobby. unless u want your husband out cheating on u. If he's out hunting, find your hobby. Sometimes u both need "me time," so u can appreciate each other.
I was like that once because my husband loved fishing & always left me with my kids. That's why here in America, the younger generation look for partners with similar hobbies/attractions. I joined him one day just to get a feel of why he always goes and now, we are best fishing partners. We go fish & even if we don't catch any fish at all, it's for the valuable time spent together & to refesh the souls. Now I go fish by myself even if he doesn't go...lol
I don’t know why women/wives complain about this husband going fishing & hunting. I love going fishing & hunting with my husband but now that we have small kids, he goes by himself & I use that time for myself.
Everyone have hobbies, as long as you work hard to earn, I’m fine with it. You’re lucky he do all the things you do and use the left over time for himself. Mine, he want lots of material things, but he never work to get it.
Yes, your husband and children are 100% true about you being selfish. Your husband is too good for you. You do not deserve such a husband. You deserve those husbands that lie, cheat , abuse you and walk all over you, and treat you like a doormat. Please send him our ways. We're better for him. Your husband gave you everything. He treats you right. He lets you do everything your heart wants. He lets you spend money without complaining. Everyone is entitled to have some hobbies and free time. Time away from each other. You need to get a life and find some hobbies to better and benefit you.
This story is very good. She joined her husband and things got better. My husband loves going to casinos. After we paid all the bills. He would go to the casino and spend $500 or more . And we always fight. He said he will find a wife who loves his hobby too so no more fighting. I wonder if I should join him. ??
I would rather my husband go fishing/hunting than go cheating. Of course it would be perfect if he does none, but whatever it is its better than cheating.
I used to care about it but not anymore, I feel like when they go hunting, I feel released to myself. I get more time to myself when they are gone for hunting. Every guy are the same, they all like hunting so I think you’re just selfish. Hunting is better than cheating so I think you can just calm down about it. Life is too short to get angry over something like hunting.
Tej zaum koj xum yuav 1 niag txiv ua hluas tham2 hluas nkauj ho mus yos hav zoov xwb es once a year xwb es tseem tsis kam nws mus yos kom nws kaj siab naw
He doesn't understand the difference between shopping and hunting. Shopping, you only go for a couple of hours or less, hunting is at least 3 days away from home. Me, I love the outdoors, so I'd go with mines fishing, hunting, ect as long as we're doing it together. I've just learned to fish and live it. I rather do that then vs your nyab's husband who's into cars. Now that boring.
You are like my wife, no hobbies and complain about me all the time I’m sure there are perfect men out there, just gotta find them I have friends that have no hobbies, they attend to their wife’s every needs, still the wife is not happy with them lol
Your husband is a fool. He's too kind to you and spoils you and catered you. Brother, you diffinately need to kick her to the curb and divorce her. You can do 100% better than her.
Your husband only goes 2 to 3 time a month is nothing, mine goes all time, i used to go with him just to get to be with him, but now I give up, I let him go as he wish, no limit.
Instead of you saying he should change..it should be the other way around..he should've told you to change or else hahaha..if it was me i would've said ..you better wise up or feel the Rath of my boots hahahahaha
U r too selfish. At least he still make time for u. My husband is too bz n only 24/7 and have for me. 😢 😞 but don't get nothing for his job 😞 I try to make us save money but he blame me for wanting to move to my brother house.
That’s y I go with my husband every where. So much fun with outdoor activities. U gotta think that ur making memories. Spending a lot of quality time together Built a better relationship. I’m glad u enjoy outdoor activities with your husband. Ib npliag yus tseem quav tshaj yus tus txiv lawm thiab lol
I'm glad you both learned how to compromise.
Zoo mloog heev li aunty ❤❤❤
Haub yau koj tu txiv tseem OK os....yog koj ntsib tu zoo li peb cov ntshe koj dai tuag kiag os nawb...
Compromising hobbies that each other love is great. Always move your relationship forward. He loves fishing, I love working out and gym so we do both.
This should be an inspiration story and the credit goes to your sister in law
Good story to learn from.
Hobbies are good in moderation. Maybe u are a little selfish for limiting him totally. But if he goes 2-3 days per month only, its ok. But if its 2-3 weekends, then its no go. Cause thats almost the whole weekend in a month. As a woman, we want and need the husband to be present and go places together with us too.
Lady.. you made me appreciate my husband even more. My husband is just like your husband, plus I don't even complain about his hunting and fishing season. I sometimes even ask to join or go outdoors with him, as long he does not cheat on me. Plus, I don't like cheating spouse either.
I don't understand why a woman like you complaining about your own husband. You should be blessed to have a husband like that and not cheat on you.
I'm glad that you are willingly to stay and work on your marriage.
Nobody is perfect...However, there are some that can become addicts! Mine is really into import cars...lol
It's great to hear that you're enjoying the activities he's into. I used to be like that too when my kids were little. But now that they are older, I sometimes force him to go, so I can have quiet time myself. Having hobbies keeps them young.
I agreed with the “selfish” comments. Hunting/Fishing are not all year round. My husband goes golfing, hunting, and fishing. I don’t mind. It’s his hobbies & I’m glad he has these hobbies to enjoy. You almost lost a good man.
Some mens don’t know their limits.. I have similar issues. It’s a addiction for mine.. I went through depression due to mine going so much. His priority is different from mine.. Mine went every weekend and on his days off. Not every mens are the same but mine really out do his.. it’s not like I don’t allow him to do it. I understand they need to breath also from life but I also need to breath from life too. It’s harder for men to realize they need to limits themselves. I honestly can say mine is the selfish one.
Idk… I think a man wrote this story to help calm wives from being annoyed since it’s hunting season.😂😂😂😂😂
A man must have a hobby. Either fishing, hunting, play sports, drinking, gambling, or chasing women, etc…choose one…?
That’s true. I have so many hobbies versus my siblings. They never understand why I am always on the go and do things.
Go with him. It's fun and entertainment.
It's true. Ua niam txiv txij nkawm ces yuav tau nyiam ib yam thiaj muaj kev kaj siab rau lub neej. Yog ua qhov phem mam hais, tab sis yog hobby zoo xwb ces yog sib hlub lawm yeej sib koom txhawb zog kom zoo xwb.
Such a true statement for a good relationship.
You were selfish but glad you learned from your nyab.
Umm...shopping is a hobby. Glad things worked out.
My husband's hobby is sport car. I don't stop him from his happiness. Let them do what they love as long as you are not cheating for drinking.
Peb yuav tsum ua niam tsev siab loj2 thiab siab zoo ces kawg tau txais kev zoo xwb laiv hmoob...Kuv li mas nws nyiam ces yus hais tsi tau ces cia li caum lawm xwb mas lomzem2 kawg li ov.
She almost dropped the HERO and get with the ZERO so lucky her
Well, that advice from her sil was not that great. In order for her to respect his hobbies, he needs to also respect her, too. She can't give in and let him have his way 100%. That's not how a marriage works.
its true hunting is similar to you ladies who loves going shopping for hrs couple times a week. Some ladies even get together and drive way out of town to go shopping for hmong clothes or whatever. its good every person had a hobby as long as it is not lust, cheating, flirty, alcoholic or uncontrollable gambling. There are more and more ladies got together taking road trips to local or out of town places just to take pictures with hmong clothes on lol. that usually takes the whole day.
If your husband loves hunting, support his hobby. unless u want your husband out cheating on u. If he's out hunting, find your hobby. Sometimes u both need "me time," so u can appreciate each other.
I was like that once because my husband loved fishing & always left me with my kids. That's why here in America, the younger generation look for partners with similar hobbies/attractions. I joined him one day just to get a feel of why he always goes and now, we are best fishing partners. We go fish & even if we don't catch any fish at all, it's for the valuable time spent together & to refesh the souls. Now I go fish by myself even if he doesn't go...lol
I don’t know why women/wives complain about this husband going fishing & hunting. I love going fishing & hunting with my husband but now that we have small kids, he goes by himself & I use that time for myself.
Tsis hais haiv neeg twg tias yog nws nyiam yam twg lawm ces nws cia li vwm rau yam ntawv tshaj plaws thiab ntsia yam ntawv xis nws heev. Yog nws tsis ncua tau yam ntawv hauv nws lub neej tseg, nws txoj sia yuav tsum xaus rau yam ntawv ib hnub twg vim yam ntawv niam cuag li twb muas tau nws txoj kev tuag los lawm ntev heev.
Everyone have hobbies, as long as you work hard to earn, I’m fine with it. You’re lucky he do all the things you do and use the left over time for himself. Mine, he want lots of material things, but he never work to get it.
Yes, your husband and children are 100% true about you being selfish. Your husband is too good for you. You do not deserve such a husband. You deserve those husbands that lie, cheat , abuse you and walk all over you, and treat you like a doormat.
Please send him our ways. We're better for him.
Your husband gave you everything. He treats you right. He lets you do everything your heart wants. He lets you spend money without complaining. Everyone is entitled to have some hobbies and free time. Time away from each other. You need to get a life and find some hobbies to better and benefit you.
This story is very good. She joined her husband and things got better. My husband loves going to casinos. After we paid all the bills. He would go to the casino and spend $500 or more . And we always fight. He said he will find a wife who loves his hobby too so no more fighting. I wonder if I should join him. ??
I would rather my husband go fishing/hunting than go cheating. Of course it would be perfect if he does none, but whatever it is its better than cheating.
I used to care about it but not anymore, I feel like when they go hunting, I feel released to myself. I get more time to myself when they are gone for hunting. Every guy are the same, they all like hunting so I think you’re just selfish. Hunting is better than cheating so I think you can just calm down about it. Life is too short to get angry over something like hunting.
Tej zaum koj xum yuav 1 niag txiv ua hluas tham2 hluas nkauj ho mus yos hav zoov xwb es once a year xwb es tseem tsis kam nws mus yos kom nws kaj siab naw
Ladies, do you all agree on open season on this lady's husband? Let's go for it. LMFAO. She doesn't appreciate or value her husband.
He doesn't understand the difference between shopping and hunting. Shopping, you only go for a couple of hours or less, hunting is at least 3 days away from home. Me, I love the outdoors, so I'd go with mines fishing, hunting, ect as long as we're doing it together. I've just learned to fish and live it. I rather do that then vs your nyab's husband who's into cars. Now that boring.
You are like my wife, no hobbies and complain about me all the time
I’m sure there are perfect men out there, just gotta find them
I have friends that have no hobbies, they attend to their wife’s every needs, still the wife is not happy with them lol
Your husband is a fool. He's too kind to you and spoils you and catered you. Brother, you diffinately need to kick her to the curb and divorce her. You can do 100% better than her.
Your husband only goes 2 to 3 time a month is nothing, mine goes all time, i used to go with him just to get to be with him, but now I give up, I let him go as he wish, no limit.
Instead of you saying he should change..it should be the other way around..he should've told you to change or else hahaha..if it was me i would've said ..you better wise up or feel the Rath of my boots hahahahaha
U r too selfish. At least he still make time for u. My husband is too bz n only 24/7 and have for me. 😢 😞 but don't get nothing for his job 😞 I try to make us save money but he blame me for wanting to move to my brother house.