I think Jax ofcourse was impressed by Randall...he is impressive. But later i think Jax really formed a real friendship with him. I think Randall is actually a good influence on him.
April Rawls Randall appears nice but it seems like the guy who uses his money and power to get people to like him. Randall and Lala relationship is giving me “90 day fiancé” kind of vibes.
@@bizzy1586 The old creepy looking guy with a US citizenship, and the beautiful woman from Eastern Europe who wishes for a better life. Randall has something which LaLa desires... Money. 'BJ for a PJ.'
Ugh, I'm so over Jax & yes, Britney! Randal in the wedding, fine we all know why, then kicking out Sandoval when he stood by him even after Jax slept with Kristin. Jax & Britney think they're royals, over it already!!
Especially us not fully understanding that she was dealing with a cheating narcissist the whole time. I get why she chose to keep her relationship private incase it worked out.
Im sorry but she is going through depression its something that can take over, and to me a real friend would try to atleast find out whats wrong instead of making sly comments, no friendship is perfect people aint perfect we all have our issues
Right, when Brittany said "I shouldn't have to go to her she should be coming to me [to apologize]" Girl that is NOT friendship, real friends should be able to keep it real with one another.
Ariana is the only one who calls them out on their bull crap. She’s not judgmental, there’s just too much bull crap in that group to be called out on and she’s not hiding it. She just says it!
Exactly...Both Tom and Ariana are speaking up and the kiss asses don't like it....Randall must need money to finally appear on this show..He shouldn't have tried to rip off 50 cent lol..His sleazy girlfriend is sucking him dry in more ways than one lol.
Lol they have no idea cause none of them asked! They just talk about her behind her back or say snarky comments to her face. How is a person who is going through depression going to feel safe talking to you if you dont have a safe and loving friendship??
Preach girl🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Lala is so fake. Behind arianas back she’s a “wet blanket” and “I wouldn’t have her in my wedding” , but then next clip is her crying to Ariana like she cares about her. Girl plz with ya two face 🤦🏻♀️.
Ariana should step away and get the help she needs. These people clearly don’t have her best interest in mind. I hope she realizes that. Tom save all your tears. Jax is one of the worst people you can have in your life.
I dont understand why some people blame them for her depression. i also feel sad for her but its like she's taking it out on them and her depression has nothing to do with them.
Tbh I think that’s true of a lot of ppl in Randall’s life. It’s pretty clear that if he didn’t have expensive things to give lala, she wouldn’t be with him
Lala not calling out Jax and his gross comments about Ariana's sexuality is so disappointing. Tom and Ariana were the only ones to be nice to her back in the day.
I am so sick of people putting Tom S. and Ariana down!!! For christ sakes watching Jax on his high horse makes me absolutely Ill!!! Jax hasn't changed in the least bit he is still a self centered narcissist. I just love the reasons he listed as to why he wanted "Rand" to be in his wedding, once again showing his true colors.And the comment he made at dinner with LaLa and Rand about Ariana is the proof that they would not have done anything about the man that was going to marry him and Brittney without Lisa Vanderpump bringing it up!!!
@@robertaprince180 Well said my dear!!! It makes me sad that they are picking on Tom and Ariana this season. I have found them both to be real and they have shown true emotions from the start. The way Jax has been acting just makes me think he's up to his old tricks and more than likely has something to hide!
danya blankenship yuuuuuppp!!! He and Brittany knew the Pastor didn’t share VPR view! Hey if they were ok with it in their hearts it would’ve been no big deal, but to FAKE their feelings is wrong!!! Jesus take the wheel!:)
This wedding has only elevated his ego. It's so frustrating, dude is a bridezilla and is pushing that energy onto Brit as well...the oldest but the most immature.
My sentiments EXACTLY! That EVERY one of them is so visible at Pride, but can't stand up for a SUPPOSED friend, it's disgusting. As a Bi person myself, I found Jax's comments about Ariana's sexuality disgusting and bigoted!
Lala is an arrogant follower. She only feels this way about Ariana because of Stassi and Katie who are way more insecure and negative than Ariana. When was the last time any of them looked like they were even trying to have fun? She's forgotten all about the people who accepted her when she first came on and is too busy kissing the butt of people who can't stand her and is only using her for her man's connections. I'm thinking Sandoval wouldn't care at all about Jax wedding if it wasn't for Schwartz. As usual he feels the need to take over when Schwartz gets too stressed to do anything himself.
But they throw this friend word around. When their not being real friends.. "Hey girl u been a lil uptight what's going on" vs talking ish.. then being concerned afterwards
Ariana is crying out for help. Thinking of driving your car off a freeway is suicidal ideation and that is a dangerous state of mind to be in. I doubt she will ever read this, but Ariana please go see a therapist (a real one, not a guru, life coach, psychic, etc) Things do get better but you have to take that first step. You won't regret it. P.S. I'm not coming down on gurus, life coaches, etc. When you're in a situation where you're having suicidal ideation, you need a licensed professional to help and monitor you.
It's not hard to fall in love with a man that has millions. While she has..not that much..same as Jax looking to use that man for his worth..He's desperate so let's see how it plays out..
Shakia Fulton Totally Agree...She would not be with him if he had NO money!!!! And that other fool Jax is singing his praises because old mate is flying him here and there and it is feeding Jax ego!!!! It will change give it time!!!!!!!
My heart goes out to Ariana, I’ve been there as well. I’m not one to seek out help or go to a friend or family member I isolate I try to figure it out on my own. I wasn’t myself for months at one point and no one noticed. That is the loneliest feeling ever.
I have suffer with depression and anxiety also. This whole situation is honestly very heartbreaking. You could tell Tom was genuinely hurt he wasn’t going to be a part of one of his bf’s wedding any longer😢
I am an avid fan of Vanderpump and I liked and defended Lala from the get-go. After S9 reunion, you see her defences are down and resign to the fact that she was in fact, the mistress to Randall that everyone had been calling her out on for years. As cruel as Katie etc were, Lala was still defensive and did not want his name mentioned or open on the show and it makes SO much sense now because she WAS the mistress and was hiding it. Now it’s out there.
I know what arianna is going through, and its hard to trust people when your that depressed even your closest friends or family. She feels like they gossip to much bevause of there past. When im going through a deep depression i barely tell anyone. I sure in the hell wouldnt want it on tv and people need to respect that! If you haven't gone through it you have no idea! It is the worst feeling ever! Sad she is going through that, then on top of it her boyfriend gets kicked out of his friend of 20 years wedding so that just put more stress on her!
My heart goes out to her. I understand about depression. But, we can't come down on some of the other cast members because they didn't know. All, they saw was what she was projecting to them. I am sure they've asked her privately what was going on but she wasn't ready to let them in at the time and instead she masked it with lashing out at times. My prayers are with her because she is going through something that she only understands.
Lala has so often mentioned materialistic things about her "relationship". I'm thinking...get married in a bank and for confetti throw hundred dollar bills, and take a Money-poon. Tom/Tom, I wish I were there to coach you on saving those tears for things that really matter (anything but Jax would be a good start). I know, I sound sarcastic.
These overly dramatic, tear-streaked 'scenes' (the Toms) cause me to worry for when they experience a Real tragedy. When people in their late 20s are sobbing over minor life hiccups...they're not even slightly prepared for the actual tough stuff that may be laying in wait for them at some point in this life (i.e. Lala's & Jax' loss of their fathers). Stassi explaining that she basically didn't know how to be there for Lala, was basically a summary of how every newly-grieving person's closest friends react right after the loss. When you get rocked by losing someone that was an important part of your daily life, and it's all suddenly..gone. ..weirdly, so are your closest friends. Random acquaintances, people you know or meet that have endured a similar loss, people that feel fulfilled by being sympathetic to the plights of people that are mourning, grieving, or suffering in some way. Mr. Rogers said his mother told him to always "look for the helpers."
Didn't he at one point told her to give him back an item he bought for her when they got into a fight. Ugh.. I need to rewatch the old season. However, he seems to be the type to use money as a way to control those around him.
I have to admonish myself for jumping to the same conclusion as many others here. I guess it's natural to suspect any friend or lover of a person who has money. Shame the fk on me! Not fair to Randall. He IS a likeable person, and I think his caring is genuine. I hereby (who tf am I, right?) give LaLa the benefit of the doubt and her name back. I only slightly doubted Jax, but now I can see that he NEEDS Randall's friendship and guidance. Sure, the perks of friendship are nice and come in different forms with different people (e.g., I'm a fkn hoot), but I think there's more there for Jax and Randall. Wish Randall had come on the show sooner.
I like what you said here about LaLa and Rand , but have you been watching the show from the 1st season and if so you are quite brave to Jax that much credit!
@@danyablankenship1616 I have watched since the beginning. I'm relying not just on what I see re Jax's sincere efforts but also on the wisdom and experience that comes with age (hey, there has to be one or two benefits to aging, right?). There's something about the death of a beloved parent who dies too young that profoundly alters a son or daughter's psyche. Been there. The worldview changes, a person becomes genuinely introspective. A person strives to be the human their departed parent thinks they are. I have faith in Jax. Most important, I hope he doesn't let himself down. I don't think he will.
@@JuliaB1955 I really understand where you are coming from, but I am seeing cracks in Jax especially his treatment of his friend Tom S.. This is a 20 year friendship and part of friendship is forgiveness as Tom has proven in his forgiving of Jax for much more severe situations in the past.
@@danyablankenship1616 I hear you, but Rome wasn't built in a day. I do think Tom's questioning and accusations were out of line. Neither Jax nor Brittany are homophobes, and it's absurd to think so. What Brittany said about coastal people is true. They live in an echo chamber, where no one is allowed to think or believe differently. That's very unhealthy and totally antithetical to our pluralistic society. There are people who just can't reconcile homosexuality (I don't get it, but . . .). So be it--as long as they don't hurt or impede the gay community in any way, they have First Amendment speech and print rights. Castigating people who are otherwise good is not the way to help them accept the different ways in which others are born. To sic SJW moralizers and the gay mafia on them will only make matters worse. If you watch I AM JAZZ, think about JoJo's grandma. That should get my point across. And watch how Jazz handles the situation.
PS Like me, Jazz is a Libra. Diplomat at heart and when it really counts. Long live October 6 (Jazz) and October 5 (me). (We like ourselves. ;)) PPS: Great name. You need to be a character in a novel.
I hope Arianna and anyone reading this, suffering from depression / going through tough times, knows you are never alone. Do reachout to anyone you feel safe with and share your feelings. You might not only save yourself but someone else. Everyone has a story, God bless!
It really breaks my heart to see how girls treat Ariana. Maybe you Lala get along the best with S B and K, but who was there for you when they dragged you through mud. and not because of your rich boyfriend. Ariana and Tom, didn't just side with the narrative, they tried including you in things. While filming Ariana lost her father (and different to Lala and JAx) this was not her storyline, she is now opening about depression so maybe just be there for your friend instead of accusing them of being jealous. Ariana and Tom relationship would be only one I'm jealous of.
From a wet blanket to standing behind Ariana now, what a fake flake. Lala did the same thing to Rand and used him all up and look where she is now. Short lived for sure. Lala talks about Sandoval like she is so clean but didn't she do the dirty with Ariana too a while back, who is the cheater? FLMAO
This is real life & I love watching y'all grow. I'm growing too. Growing to be a better human to ourselves and others is the biggest struggle we all have. Love conquers a multitude of sin the word says. From my own experience using love instead of anger does work.
I stopped watching this show a couple years ago but I know there was definitely a Gucci flip flop issue n a break up last year but if a ring glazes over your issues, you go girl 😅
I always thought Rand was creepy but after actually seeing viewing him, he looks like such a kind soul. Why he’s with Lala is?!??!! She is not a nice person! But I guess as long as he’s happy:)
Ariana is a depressed person , i know i shouldn't complain about her situation but damn she also have a very judgemental personality ..... And i can't easily avoid her judgements on people .
Jax saying that Rand is a giver b/c he's flown them everywhere is such a superficial statement....money does not equal generosity. A person can be dirt poor and still be generous with their kind words, deeds, and heart. A person with a private jet who flies his friends everywhere is throwing their money around to buy your love....which he did. Duh!
Other than ariana i also feel sorry for randall bcuz neither his fiancee nor jax are truly into a relationship or friendship for the right reasons hence lala randall is kind and generous jax randall flies us out smh..
Ariana needs to realize she isolated herself over the years from people who were trying to figure out how to be her friend. Not feeling a connection to talk to them is a two way street...they were constantly reaching out to her, and she was shitting on them. Now they’re the bad guys because she pushed them away, while they are both reaching out again in that moment. Her depression has clearly been growing over the years, but she can’t keep blaming other people for it.
Let’s be real do you think the pastor only gave his opinion on the internet?? No. He probably gave it during Sunday morning service. Bottom line is Jax and Brittany were ok with it. It wasn’t until like Tom said that Lisa had addressed it did they decide to do something. This shouldn’t be news but a lot of Christians are judgmental and have these views.
The comments about jax wanting Rand in his wedding for money are just STUPID. Do you think he wouldnt of given him just as good of a gift being a guest? So you can't have friends that have money because that automatically means you're using them? Grow up. Rand "flew them out" places because he OWNS HIS OWN private jet. Its not like he went out and bought them plane tickets. It costs him no more to fly THEM out the same time as he's flying.him and lala out. As for people hating on Brittany???? How COULD you? Brittany is a sweetheart, she is going through wedding stress, and surrounded by people like Tom and Ariana who DON'T wish you well. I also question Adriana's timing with this "depression" stuff. It really feels like she's doing it as a "HEY.....forget them. Look at ME!! I have problems!" There is something hugely disingenuous about her when she talks about this. Just looks like bad acting to me.
You must be a relative or your already manipulated by the money hungry pals and gals of Vanderpump Rules! Look at the majority of comments ,your in the minority of opinions as to what wonderful people these are. The dirty comes out of people when you call them on their own shit! Lala,Jax Brittany,Katie,Stassie,well most of them !😜
@@robertaprince180 Yes...you're right...I'm in the minority because intelligence is extinct. I'll be glad not to be a mindless internet idiot thanks lol. P.s.....MY opinion is actually the more popular one...its just that the internet troll LOVE to hate in the comment sections for lack of pretty much ANYTHING else to do 😘
Lala's speech about Randall is translation to I'm engaged to my cash cow, he treats me like I'm the only one he's with in the moment but we all know that he's doing shady stuff with the intern on the side but i don't care as long as joe public does not ever find out and call me out on my Instagram perfect life and he keeps on paying for everything so that i can keep on spreading my legs musically 😂
China Moon Same! Well her & Jax, but I’ve never really liked him anyway. The slick shade and low-key, high-key hating that she’s doing to her “friends.” Too much.
Ariana has always been this way. ALWAYS hot and cold. The whole 5% ownership of Lisa's bar has gone to both Tom and Ariana's head. As for Lala and Randall, I am happy to see she has finally matured and I believe that it's actually true love with these two. It may have been something less in the beginning, but I believe she loves Randall. She has done a complete 180 from her "I let him hit it the first night for Gucci Slides"
After seeing Randall at dinner, I agree. I admonished myself in a separate post for jumping to conclusions with the other lemmings. It sure wasn't fair to Randall. Shit, I'm older than he is but I'll bet I could use some of his sound, calm advice.
Coincidence that we have never seen Randall and big ed from 90 day fiancé at the same time, I think not. The same dude is trying to get on multiple reality shows 😂
"We became friends naturally." If someone flew me out all the time, I would be their friend as well.
Jax is a narc user. If he cannot use you then you are worthless to him
OMG I was just going to post my own comment about this before I saw yours! Exactly! He bought Jax's friendship!
I think Jax ofcourse was impressed by Randall...he is impressive. But later i think Jax really formed a real friendship with him. I think Randall is actually a good influence on him.
April Rawls Randall appears nice but it seems like the guy who uses his money and power to get people to like him. Randall and Lala relationship is giving me “90 day fiancé” kind of vibes.
@@bizzy1586 The old creepy looking guy with a US citizenship, and the beautiful woman from Eastern Europe who wishes for a better life. Randall has something which LaLa desires... Money.
'BJ for a PJ.'
Jax “Randall is just a giver he has flown us to Mexico Miami etc.” we just became friend “NATURALLY” 😂🤣
Yeah right. I'm laughing with you. I agree, Jax keeps "friends" around that benefit himself i.e. Randall & the P.J.
@@shannongeorgiapeach76 We all know why Jax wanted him in the wedding party and I don't believe I have to spell it out. ; )
@@danyablankenship1616 that's hilarious.
@@danyablankenship1616 it's only two letters😁
💍 Randell will you make me a/your movie star??? 🎟 🎫 🏆
Ugh, I'm so over Jax & yes, Britney! Randal in the wedding, fine we all know why, then kicking out Sandoval when he stood by him even after Jax slept with Kristin. Jax & Britney think they're royals, over it already!!
@@damien1781 yes!! Right
I totally understand Ariana’s depression. It’s not easy.
Me too. I felt so bad for her, especially bc she is 1 of the only few genuine ppl on there. Much Love to you Ariana
It is hard .
It is very difficult. But you will get there. You posted this comment a year ago, and I hope you are doing well ❤️
She’s the only nice person!
Especially us not fully understanding that she was dealing with a cheating narcissist the whole time. I get why she chose to keep her relationship private incase it worked out.
Im sorry but she is going through depression its something that can take over, and to me a real friend would try to atleast find out whats wrong instead of making sly comments, no friendship is perfect people aint perfect we all have our issues
Right, when Brittany said "I shouldn't have to go to her she should be coming to me [to apologize]" Girl that is NOT friendship, real friends should be able to keep it real with one another.
Ariana is the only one who calls them out on their bull crap. She’s not judgmental, there’s just too much bull crap in that group to be called out on and she’s not hiding it. She just says it!
Exactly...Both Tom and Ariana are speaking up and the kiss asses don't like it....Randall must need money to finally appear on this show..He shouldn't have tried to rip off 50 cent lol..His sleazy girlfriend is sucking him dry in more ways than one lol.
Lol they have no idea cause none of them asked! They just talk about her behind her back or say snarky comments to her face. How is a person who is going through depression going to feel safe talking to you if you dont have a safe and loving friendship??
They love Randall so much because he pays for everything and he’s a Hollywood producer that could put them in his movies.
Same reason Lala liked Randall too
Exactly 💯 💯 💯
Depression sucks! Mine started as a child, and at 73 I still fight it everyday..no medication ever worked, so I live with it. Hope she gets help...
Suzanne Robbins Suzanne, I am so sorry to hear that. What a strong Lady to have had to fight Depression for such a long time.🙏💐
❤️🥺
Ariana should see someone to help her get through her depression. I feel sorry for her.
Its sad her so called friends are talking behind her back
Absolutely. I know how she's feeling but much worse. I've been barely able to get out of bed in the past five years.
@@truthhurts8819 I've been there through depression. Your friends can turn on you
I've always liked her from the beginning everyone else has had their moments.
I think she is using the depression card when its convenient for her mood swings... She might be bi polar..
Ariana was a friend to Lala when Stassy and Katie were calling her a home wrecker. Lala Karma will get you.
Preach girl🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Lala is so fake. Behind arianas back she’s a “wet blanket” and “I wouldn’t have her in my wedding” , but then next clip is her crying to Ariana like she cares about her. Girl plz with ya two face 🤦🏻♀️.
Good point. She has always been someone on the show that makes her own judgment.
Who needs enemies with friends such as hers.
Anyway. Ariana doesn't do alot of @hit talking. What they're saying is personal and hurtful behind her back
@@mjmjmj8911 And her new one.
Lmaooo it's so funny to watch lala sit there and try to come up with all these reason she likes him ,when we all know why she's really there 😂😂
Trynna tell ya lol
Does anybody else wince every single time Lala makes a reference to herself being ‘gangster’ on the show?
Yeah. Lala is such an idiot pretending to be all gangster. She is Lauren from Utah. Lol. 😂😂😂
Omg I was telling my husband this… she’s annoying 😂
@@StrongRae it’s always the privileged white girls who think they’re the sh*t, but are the most annoying
I get nauseous.
La la is a little 👹 creep!
“We just became friends naturally” yeaaaah riiiight! More like.. “we’re friends because he’s loaded af and he flys me everywhere”
Ariana should step away and get the help she needs. These people clearly don’t have her best interest in mind. I hope she realizes that.
Tom save all your tears. Jax is one of the worst people you can have in your life.
I dont understand why some people blame them for her depression. i also feel sad for her but its like she's taking it out on them and her depression has nothing to do with them.
As friends they need to help Ariana she's going thru depression. She's going thru alot I feel bad for her shes obviously not happy.
Fair weather friends.
You guys want him in your wedding because you want him to give you expensive gifts. Your friendship is based on him giving you things.
Teemo slo who wouldn’t ? lol especially in la
What?! I thought it was about friendship and love
Teemo slo they really make me sick, honestly!
Yup ! This
Tbh I think that’s true of a lot of ppl in Randall’s life. It’s pretty clear that if he didn’t have expensive things to give lala, she wouldn’t be with him
“We’ve just become friends naturally!” In the same breath, “He’s just such a giver” 🤔🤦🏾♀️
'He took us here & there.'😂
Lala not calling out Jax and his gross comments about Ariana's sexuality is so disappointing. Tom and Ariana were the only ones to be nice to her back in the day.
Well, now she's a single mom lol
Lala is gross. Ariana is weird and confused. I don't like either of them. UGH 🤮🤮🤢🤢🤢
Besides Randall's "generosity" and "giving" what else do they like about him 😂😂😂😂😂
Lol they're so fake
I am so sick of people putting Tom S. and Ariana down!!! For christ sakes watching Jax on his high horse makes me absolutely Ill!!! Jax hasn't changed in the least bit he is still a self centered narcissist. I just love the reasons he listed as to why he wanted "Rand" to be in his wedding, once again showing his true colors.And the comment he made at dinner with LaLa and Rand about Ariana is the proof that they would not have done anything about the man that was going to marry him and Brittney without Lisa Vanderpump bringing it up!!!
@Emmi Lain Thank you!!!!
@@robertaprince180 Well said my dear!!! It makes me sad that they are picking on Tom and Ariana this season. I have found them both to be real and they have shown true emotions from the start. The way Jax has been acting just makes me think he's up to his old tricks and more than likely has something to hide!
danya blankenship yuuuuuppp!!! He and Brittany knew the Pastor didn’t share VPR view! Hey if they were ok with it in their hearts it would’ve been no big deal, but to FAKE their feelings is wrong!!! Jesus take the wheel!:)
This wedding has only elevated his ego. It's so frustrating, dude is a bridezilla and is pushing that energy onto Brit as well...the oldest but the most immature.
My sentiments EXACTLY! That EVERY one of them is so visible at Pride, but can't stand up for a SUPPOSED friend, it's disgusting. As a Bi person myself, I found Jax's comments about Ariana's sexuality disgusting and bigoted!
“I get it. I’ve been there.”
But the night before you called her a wet blanket...
Such a flip flopper. Hate it
Lala defended this relationship see how the saying is YOU LOSE THEM THE WAY YOU GET THEM. Now Lala knows how it feels like.
Lala is an arrogant follower. She only feels this way about Ariana because of Stassi and Katie who are way more insecure and negative than Ariana. When was the last time any of them looked like they were even trying to have fun? She's forgotten all about the people who accepted her when she first came on and is too busy kissing the butt of people who can't stand her and is only using her for her man's connections.
I'm thinking Sandoval wouldn't care at all about Jax wedding if it wasn't for Schwartz. As usual he feels the need to take over when Schwartz gets too stressed to do anything himself.
Agree with literally everything you said, Team Ariana and Tom for sure!! 🙌🙌🙌
Tom wiped his tears on the dog 😅
Really Jax you and randall become frndz "Naturally" its got nothing to do with money 💰
Of course, that's Jax take take take
Lala now wanna cry when the day before she was talking ish about her and Tom.. Just picking up the phone makes a difference..
to be fair she didnt know she just thought ariana is annoying.
But they throw this friend word around. When their not being real friends.. "Hey girl u been a lil uptight what's going on" vs talking ish.. then being concerned afterwards
Ariana is crying out for help. Thinking of driving your car off a freeway is suicidal ideation and that is a dangerous state of mind to be in. I doubt she will ever read this, but Ariana please go see a therapist (a real one, not a guru, life coach, psychic, etc) Things do get better but you have to take that first step. You won't regret it.
P.S. I'm not coming down on gurus, life coaches, etc. When you're in a situation where you're having suicidal ideation, you need a licensed professional to help and monitor you.
Mililani Sayuri I think she’s said she’s going to a therapist which helps but being on the show does too ☺️
You’re 100% right. I don’t know her personally but this is so worrying
Became friends with him or his money 💁♀️
Exactly.
Okayyyy! How "natural" was this friend$hip?? Lol
Ms. BellaKriss He’s a giver! lol 😂
@@neelrastardust3052 I know and its sweet I just hope he doesnt feel like he has to buy friendships ya know
That's a good one 😏
Poor Ariana is depressed :( Makes me so sad....
Tony Balony I know I love her on there and I hate seeing her so sad!
Jax is following Lala’s lead he’s totally his friend for the PJ. Hey if it makes Randall happy.
Everybody kisses lala behind to get on the PJ.
Why? because Randel cant be likabe. i dont understand this obssesion with money. rich ppl can be nice too you know.
It's not hard to fall in love with a man that has millions. While she has..not that much..same as Jax looking to use that man for his worth..He's desperate so let's see how it plays out..
Shakia Fulton Totally Agree...She would not be with him if he had NO money!!!! And that other fool Jax is singing his praises because old mate is flying him here and there and it is feeding Jax ego!!!! It will change give it time!!!!!!!
@@froggyfrog2507 I doubt he'd be with her if she didn't look the way she did, it's a two way street!
He’s broke, look up sorry fofty
My heart goes out to Ariana, I’ve been there as well. I’m not one to seek out help or go to a friend or family member I isolate I try to figure it out on my own. I wasn’t myself for months at one point and no one noticed. That is the loneliest feeling ever.
I love you
I have suffer with depression and anxiety also. This whole situation is honestly very heartbreaking. You could tell Tom was genuinely hurt he wasn’t going to be a part of one of his bf’s wedding any longer😢
I am an avid fan of Vanderpump and I liked and defended Lala from the get-go. After S9 reunion, you see her defences are down and resign to the fact that she was in fact, the mistress to Randall that everyone had been calling her out on for years. As cruel as Katie etc were, Lala was still defensive and did not want his name mentioned or open on the show and it makes SO much sense now because she WAS the mistress and was hiding it. Now it’s out there.
Ariana being suicidal is serious stuff. Hope she's getting proper medical attention. Therapy and meds.
I know what arianna is going through, and its hard to trust people when your that depressed even your closest friends or family. She feels like they gossip to much bevause of there past. When im going through a deep depression i barely tell anyone. I sure in the hell wouldnt want it on tv and people need to respect that! If you haven't gone through it you have no idea! It is the worst feeling ever! Sad she is going through that, then on top of it her boyfriend gets kicked out of his friend of 20 years wedding so that just put more stress on her!
My heart goes out to her. I understand about depression. But, we can't come down on some of the other cast members because they didn't know. All, they saw was what she was projecting to them. I am sure they've asked her privately what was going on but she wasn't ready to let them in at the time and instead she masked it with lashing out at times. My prayers are with her because she is going through something that she only understands.
Lala has so often mentioned materialistic things about her "relationship". I'm thinking...get married in a bank and for confetti throw hundred dollar bills, and take a Money-poon. Tom/Tom, I wish I were there to coach you on saving those tears for things that really matter (anything but Jax would be a good start). I know, I sound sarcastic.
Lol this is everything I wanted to say and more. I totally agree
Well said!
These overly dramatic, tear-streaked 'scenes' (the Toms) cause me to worry for when they experience a Real tragedy. When people in their late 20s are sobbing over minor life hiccups...they're not even slightly prepared for the actual tough stuff that may be laying in wait for them at some point in this life (i.e. Lala's & Jax' loss of their fathers).
Stassi explaining that she basically didn't know how to be there for Lala, was basically a summary of how every newly-grieving person's closest friends react right after the loss. When you get rocked by losing someone that was an important part of your daily life, and it's all suddenly..gone. ..weirdly, so are your closest friends. Random acquaintances, people you know or meet that have endured a similar loss, people that feel fulfilled by being sympathetic to the plights of people that are mourning, grieving, or suffering in some way. Mr. Rogers said his mother told him to always "look for the helpers."
I notice suttle hints as well... Come on we all know if Randall didn't have that money she wouldn't be around... We all can safety agree on that lmfao
@@meljean551
She would rather have a guy that has money, than a guy that has a neck. We all have a 'type'..
Better not to have friends like them
I haven't heard them say anything about randol other than he's kind. 🙄
And GENOROUS! lol
I wouldn't mind if that's all people said about me and meant it. That's pretty damn good. imo
Him is kind, him is generous.. 😂😂😂
@Fancy Nancy From this dinner it's pretty clear hes giving attention and empathy.
The show should be called Lala and her friends on the Private Jet.
They all using Randall for his money
Tom and Tom need to stop all the bs and just get together already. They’re obviously in love with each other.
Of curse Jax loves Randall's. He said it him self, his a giver.
'He is kind, he is Generous..' Lala is a shameless gold digger lol
Didn't he at one point told her to give him back an item he bought for her when they got into a fight. Ugh.. I need to rewatch the old season. However, he seems to be the type to use money as a way to control those around him.
mOni ka yes designer flip flops or sandals...
mOni ka gucci slides😂
Ikr
@@weezus2618 😂
Lala no wonder you like the guy he's loaded with cash she's clearly the definition of a gold digger period
LA LA is trying to secure the bag and her Fiance looks like Harvey Weinstein.
OMG so funny but so true...well said dude
Awww I like Randall
@@johannawigg6921 I don't care how nice he is, hes ugly. Shes only with him for security because no one wants to sleep with that thing.
And he is a hollywood movie producer. Totally looks like Harvey Weinstein
🤣🤣🤣🤣
What if fofthy (50 cent) pops up😂
George Banks 😂😂😂😁🥊
I have to admonish myself for jumping to the same conclusion as many others here. I guess it's natural to suspect any friend or lover of a person who has money. Shame the fk on me! Not fair to Randall. He IS a likeable person, and I think his caring is genuine. I hereby (who tf am I, right?) give LaLa the benefit of the doubt and her name back. I only slightly doubted Jax, but now I can see that he NEEDS Randall's friendship and guidance. Sure, the perks of friendship are nice and come in different forms with different people (e.g., I'm a fkn hoot), but I think there's more there for Jax and Randall. Wish Randall had come on the show sooner.
I like what you said here about LaLa and Rand , but have you been watching the show from the 1st season and if so you are quite brave to Jax that much credit!
@@danyablankenship1616 I have watched since the beginning. I'm relying not just on what I see re Jax's sincere efforts but also on the wisdom and experience that comes with age (hey, there has to be one or two benefits to aging, right?). There's something about the death of a beloved parent who dies too young that profoundly alters a son or daughter's psyche. Been there. The worldview changes, a person becomes genuinely introspective. A person strives to be the human their departed parent thinks they are. I have faith in Jax. Most important, I hope he doesn't let himself down. I don't think he will.
@@JuliaB1955 I really understand where you are coming from, but I am seeing cracks in Jax especially his treatment of his friend Tom S.. This is a 20 year friendship and part of friendship is forgiveness as Tom has proven in his forgiving of Jax for much more severe situations in the past.
@@danyablankenship1616 I hear you, but Rome wasn't built in a day. I do think Tom's questioning and accusations were out of line. Neither Jax nor Brittany are homophobes, and it's absurd to think so. What Brittany said about coastal people is true. They live in an echo chamber, where no one is allowed to think or believe differently. That's very unhealthy and totally antithetical to our pluralistic society. There are people who just can't reconcile homosexuality (I don't get it, but . . .). So be it--as long as they don't hurt or impede the gay community in any way, they have First Amendment speech and print rights. Castigating people who are otherwise good is not the way to help them accept the different ways in which others are born. To sic SJW moralizers and the gay mafia on them will only make matters worse. If you watch I AM JAZZ, think about JoJo's grandma. That should get my point across. And watch how Jazz handles the situation.
PS Like me, Jazz is a Libra. Diplomat at heart and when it really counts. Long live October 6 (Jazz) and October 5 (me). (We like ourselves. ;)) PPS: Great name. You need to be a character in a novel.
I hope Ariana has professional assistance .
I hope Arianna and anyone reading this, suffering from depression / going through tough times, knows you are never alone. Do reachout to anyone you feel safe with and share your feelings. You might not only save yourself but someone else. Everyone has a story, God bless!
It really breaks my heart to see how girls treat Ariana. Maybe you Lala get along the best with S B and K, but who was there for you when they dragged you through mud. and not because of your rich boyfriend. Ariana and Tom, didn't just side with the narrative, they tried including you in things. While filming Ariana lost her father (and different to Lala and JAx) this was not her storyline, she is now opening about depression so maybe just be there for your friend instead of accusing them of being jealous. Ariana and Tom relationship would be only one I'm jealous of.
Lala is phony just like the rest of the girls on the show. Arianna needs to distance herself away from them.
He’s kind and generous 😂
From a wet blanket to standing behind Ariana now, what a fake flake. Lala did the same thing to Rand and used him all up and look where she is now. Short lived for sure. Lala talks about Sandoval like she is so clean but didn't she do the dirty with Ariana too a while back, who is the cheater? FLMAO
"Jax has been hitting me alot" 💀💀😂😂
This is real life & I love watching y'all grow. I'm growing too. Growing to be a better human to ourselves and others is the biggest struggle we all have. Love conquers a multitude of sin the word says. From my own experience using love instead of anger does work.
Lala is in love with Randall because he takes care of her but thats not a partnership that will make a marriage work. But hey do you boo
When lala speaks she influcts things like she's passing a law.
Omg The Tom's moment was so full of DUDES NAHS AND I LOVE YOUS LOL
Can’t get over the Gucci slides fight Lala and Randel had a few seasons ago. He looks like a wilderbeast.
They only like randell cause of the jet , old sugga dadddyyy 😂
Lala tries so hard to be the next Erica Jane... girl no
I stopped watching this show a couple years ago but I know there was definitely a Gucci flip flop issue n a break up last year but if a ring glazes over your issues, you go girl 😅
ohhirenee yes girl! My exact comment...those Gucci slides that he took back after a fight right?🤣
Star light Kid 😂 I believe so. I watch the flashbacks on yt every now n than, I can only take this show in small does.
This is so fake for a production fake wedding for a marriage that will not last.
I always thought Rand was creepy but after actually seeing viewing him, he looks like such a kind soul. Why he’s with Lala is?!??!! She is not a nice person! But I guess as long as he’s happy:)
Ariana is a depressed person , i know i shouldn't complain about her situation but damn she also have a very judgemental personality ..... And i can't easily avoid her judgements on people .
Depression makes you see things for what they are. It makes you hypercritical. She needs to be on something that will keep her critique at bay
They all judge each other in the same level. I actually think Stassi is the most judgmental of them all.
They are ALL judgemental.....even you here judging her now. Hypocrite.
Wane felicia actually 🤣🤣 ... everyone judges in different levels but we judge ourselves and each other
hun
And yet...4 years after and Lala is still a shitty friend....
Lala was genuinely say please come to me to Ariana♥️
Jax saying that Rand is a giver b/c he's flown them everywhere is such a superficial statement....money does not equal generosity. A person can be dirt poor and still be generous with their kind words, deeds, and heart. A person with a private jet who flies his friends everywhere is throwing their money around to buy your love....which he did. Duh!
That made me tear up😪
Soulmate😂😂😂😂
Other than ariana i also feel sorry for randall bcuz neither his fiancee nor jax are truly into a relationship or friendship for the right reasons hence lala randall is kind and generous jax randall flies us out smh..
They all wanna get flewn out. 🤣His generosity does seem like the base of their relationships. Can yousay something else.
Ariana needs to realize she isolated herself over the years from people who were trying to figure out how to be her friend. Not feeling a connection to talk to them is a two way street...they were constantly reaching out to her, and she was shitting on them. Now they’re the bad guys because she pushed them away, while they are both reaching out again in that moment. Her depression has clearly been growing over the years, but she can’t keep blaming other people for it.
Let’s be real do you think the pastor only gave his opinion on the internet?? No. He probably gave it during Sunday morning service. Bottom line is Jax and Brittany were ok with it. It wasn’t until like Tom said that Lisa had addressed it did they decide to do something. This shouldn’t be news but a lot of Christians are judgmental and have these views.
The comments about jax wanting Rand in his wedding for money are just STUPID. Do you think he wouldnt of given him just as good of a gift being a guest? So you can't have friends that have money because that automatically means you're using them? Grow up. Rand "flew them out" places because he OWNS HIS OWN private jet. Its not like he went out and bought them plane tickets. It costs him no more to fly THEM out the same time as he's flying.him and lala out. As for people hating on Brittany???? How COULD you? Brittany is a sweetheart, she is going through wedding stress, and surrounded by people like Tom and Ariana who DON'T wish you well. I also question Adriana's timing with this "depression" stuff. It really feels like she's doing it as a "HEY.....forget them. Look at ME!! I have problems!" There is something hugely disingenuous about her when she talks about this. Just looks like bad acting to me.
You must be a relative or your already manipulated by the money hungry pals and gals of Vanderpump Rules! Look at the majority of comments ,your in the minority of opinions as to what wonderful people these are. The dirty comes out of people when you call them on their own shit! Lala,Jax Brittany,Katie,Stassie,well most of them !😜
@@robertaprince180 Yes...you're right...I'm in the minority because intelligence is extinct. I'll be glad not to be a mindless internet idiot thanks lol. P.s.....MY opinion is actually the more popular one...its just that the internet troll LOVE to hate in the comment sections for lack of pretty much ANYTHING else to do 😘
Ariana those chicks are not your friends. Find new Friends those chicks are so two face.
Truth Hurts I totally agree with you
Truth Hurts Yes! Lala calling her a wet blanket and then crying b/c she doesn’t talk to her about it. Wtf should she?
Russell bless his heart looks related to Ed on 90 Day Fiancé
Jax is waving this whole wedding thing over ppls heads. It’s not that serious dude. Ur not the Duke of Sussex. Relax
All I can say about Lala and Randall is “EWWWWWW” Lala is just paid well to be with him end of story “ewwwwww”
Brittany's laughs grate on my freqkin nerves
Lala's speech about Randall is translation to I'm engaged to my cash cow, he treats me like I'm the only one he's with in the moment but we all know that he's doing shady stuff with the intern on the side but i don't care as long as joe public does not ever find out and call me out on my Instagram perfect life and he keeps on paying for everything so that i can keep on spreading my legs musically 😂
I love the Toms 😢
This guy reminds me of Ed from 90 day
I'm sorry I can't help it. Randall and Lauren just give me the creeps. Those two are so weird they really do belong together.
Get over yourself Lala!!! Plz lol 😂
Boyfriend or Sugar Daddy ???
I just want to see the wedding 🤷🏾♀️
NOW no NOW Lala is Ariana's best friend!?!?!? Please !
If someone called me a wet blanket?! Byeee
Why do people not like Sandoval I mean he’s such a great person.
Right! He can be extra af, but I feel like he’s more genuine.
People in LA don’t like real people.
The only person i dont care for this season is Sheena....
China Moon Same! Well her & Jax, but I’ve never really liked him anyway. The slick shade and low-key, high-key hating that she’s doing to her “friends.” Too much.
They love someone who flies them private...how big of them
Ariana has always been this way. ALWAYS hot and cold. The whole 5% ownership of Lisa's bar has gone to both Tom and Ariana's head. As for Lala and Randall, I am happy to see she has finally matured and I believe that it's actually true love with these two. It may have been something less in the beginning, but I believe she loves Randall. She has done a complete 180 from her "I let him hit it the first night for Gucci Slides"
After seeing Randall at dinner, I agree. I admonished myself in a separate post for jumping to conclusions with the other lemmings. It sure wasn't fair to Randall. Shit, I'm older than he is but I'll bet I could use some of his sound, calm advice.
Lala doing physical work lmao.
But see here the thing you was so busy judging her and making her feel unwanted you didn’t bother to ask or find out what was going on with her
Ariana supports everyone, but they never have time to check in on her. That’s so sad.
You are engaged to your sugar daddy
Well gosh it probably would be pretty easy to like a person who paid your way around the world.
Coincidence that we have never seen Randall and big ed from 90 day fiancé at the same time, I think not.
The same dude is trying to get on multiple reality shows 😂