Knit + Chat // choosing how to react to tough situations
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- Опубліковано 18 тра 2024
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This has been on my mind lately, so I thought I'd share with you for today's knit + chat episode. Our minds are a powerful tool, if you ask me.
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I clicked on this so quickly....so sorry about little Arthur. Everything will work out. Children heal quickly and soon you'll have a beautiful new baby. You are so blessed.
I think what I appreciate the most about your channel is how human and relatable you are, both knitting wise and those moments you share glimpses into your life. I really enjoy your channel, keep up the good work.
That was really nice to read. Thank you for saying so!
Hi Bethany , you may not believe me when I say I feel you but I really feel you. I live abroad with my two kids. One of them is autistic. I lived eight years by myself and my husband taking care of the kids and really I know the struggle to be alone abroad ..
In Arabic, there is a poetic verse by Al-Shafi'i:
**"And often a hardship that makes a young man narrow in scope,
There is a way out from it by Allah.
It became tight, and when its rings were firmly closed,
It was relieved, and I thought it would never be relieved."**
Sometimes we go through difficulties, but as the verse suggests, "When it became tight, relief came."
Wonderful encouragement we all need. Thank you Bethany. Praying for you all in the hope that all becomes easier. You are a brave lady taking it one step at a time. I wish for good naps and sleep and an easy delivery and quick healing for Arthur. Blessings to you all.
Babies grow so fast and they recover fast too! I am sorry for this tough situation but please have confidence that he is going to heal in no time
This too shall pass my dear, and what a great story to tell your grandchildren! Hope Arthur heals quickly, and you find joy in your yarny adventures. Be kind to yourself. :)
Well said Bethany. Always hard when the little ones don't feel themselves. Many many hugs to you and your family. - Kimberly
Thanks so much for this video! I just had a wisdom tooth removed this morning, so it was very encouraging and yes, uplifting! to hear you talk about this. I am praying God to give you the grace & strength to navigate this tough season well, and find the joy throughout. You're dong a great job, Mama!
I hope Arthur heals fast, sending love to you and your family while you're going through tough times xx
Sorry Bethany to hear about Arthur’s little accident. Yes, I definitely can relate. I had a freak accident in my mid-50’s a few years ago from dog walking that resulted in a fractured ankle where I had to be non-weight bearing for two months. It was an awful ordeal, the worst thing that can happened before my retirement. I had to have physical therapy sessions to build up my strength and learn how to walk again. I was not a happy camper about it all. I, too, was wondering why me, why now?
I learned to adjust slowly. To this day, the side effects of the accident impact my daily life, but I learn to live with it. There’s a lot of things I can’t do now, but it is what it is.
Good luck with Arthur and enjoy your bundles of joy! They will be grown before you know it! Take it easy and take good care!
Thank you for sharing! Yes, life is not always about the up and up. Sometimes we need to show the not so good things that happened in life! ❤
Thank you for this chat. I’ve been having chronic health stuff for months and working full time with a 7 month old at home. I just keep thinking “I’m at my breaking point” but this made me want to shift back to my “one day at a time, one task at a time” mentality. I really feel for you right now and I hope Arthur stays gentle and gets well soon. Best of luck to you leading up to the new baby’s arrival. ❤❤❤❤
I'm so sorry that Arthur has been injured in this way....... so hard as he's a toddler still. I admire you're determination in how you choose to meet this challenge. I agree that trying to influence our mindset at challenging times in our lives plays a huge part in how we can be happy even in adversity! Thinking of you all and am glad that you have some help nearby. 💜
I am so sorry about Arthur's injury and so grateful that he has a good prognosis and should heal very soon! I like how you are looking at the positive, or at least the things you CAN control. Likely, Arthur won't remember this at all, but you have a lot of different challenges happening at the same time. Two things come to mind. One is that it reminds me of when your baby/toddler is going through a rough patch or teething and it seems like it will never end and it is so consuming, then suddenly they have moved on to a different stage. In the scheme of things that will be like this challenge you are going through. The second thing is like you mentioned, you realize the things you are not in control of, which when you think about it, that is A LOT OF THINGS. Our reaction is what we can control, as you have said. It has been my experience that as we go through life and have these bumps and we do get to the other side that when that next bump comes along it helps our perspective and we know we are going to get through these challenges too. It gives us strength for the future, while unsettling at the time. It can be a faith building experience. I pray things will go as smoothly as possible as you await the new baby and that your knitting can be relaxing and soothing. Take care! I enjoy your channel very much.
I’m so sorry this happened to you guys - prayers for you both, and a speedy recovery to Arthur!
I have the same age gap with my boys (the baby is six months now), and it’s been really amazing. Tough, but getting easier everyday. That Arthur was and wants to be so independent is so wonderful - he will get back there and it will be great.
Don’t worry about carrying Arthur and needing to be more physical with him - I carried my toddler most of the day, because he was bad with stairs and very attached. It’s a huge change in such a transitional time where it feels like every minute counts, but this is also a time where you can give as much attention and love to Arthur before the new baby comes. He’s a strong kid, and he’s going to be an amazing brother.
Thank you for this video. It gives me some comfort knowing that I’m not alone in my own personal struggles, especially trying to balance my 3 year old and my 6 week old. You’re right about needing to have the right mind set and not letting yourself stew in negative thoughts. Good luck with your pregnancy and safe delivery, and I hope Arthur’s leg gets better soon 🥰
Sounds like you’re in the thick of it! I’m wishing you all the best and strength to handle those sweet kiddos 💗
Thank you for sharing. It was very timely. Definitely needed reminding that I have a choice on how I react to situations. Will be praying for Arthur and your whole family.
I always enjoy listening to and watching your videos Bethany. Sorry to hear about Arthur breaking his leg right now. A small mercy is he didn't break his upper leg bone which could take longer to heal. You've found how strong you are 😊 I totally agree with you about your coping mechanisms and being as positive as possible. I have always found that tears are a great release. Go well with your next birth and getting through this period 🥰
I hope Arthur gets better soon 💕 I moved to Belgium recently and had very hard time trying to find apartment for rent. Living in a hotel for weeks, paying loads of money, and not knowing when it ends was so depressing. But I’m fine now sitting in my beautiful apartment. Every crisis is just temporary 🙂 stay strong
Yes, it's a knitting channel. Life inspires Art=knitting. Lovely that you feel free to share what you will, heartfelt & honestly. You do you. Lots of non-stop nit-wit "produce more" chat out there. Blessings to you, Arthur, and baby 2b.
Good thing little guys bounce back quickly, but so sorry for Arthur and for you- bad timing. I had a time, when pregnant with my 4th when our family had a calamity every two weeks for what seemed like forever. I was 8 months pregnant and the older 3 kids got Scarlett fever and my 20 month old needed to be held constantly (I know you can relate to this challenge), we had pregnancy complications and eventually a baby delivery with high risk. We moved two weeks later, my aunt fell down the stairs while holding my toddler. The aunt broke both her wrists, my daughter got a concussion. Two weeks later the same toddler got meningitis and was hospitalized for 18 days. I went home only to breast feed the baby who was only 4 weeks old, but his big sister needed me more. Two weeks later, I found out I had cervical cancer and had to be hospitalized and have surgery (I kept the newborn with me at the hospital). Two weeks later all 4 kids got whooping cough with severity that matched the amount of vaccine each had. The baby was the sickest and would whoop so much he puked up his feed more often than not and I wondered if he would starve, as my milk supply struggled to keep up (he never lost an ounce- lol- must have been good milk). Interesting and challenging times. But in the end- no one died, I didn’t go crazy and I was grateful for that. Now it is 45 years later and I am a senior with the aches and pains that go along with that, but every day I remind myself, I am so lucky, I could be living in Gaza, homeless, hungry with bombs dropping or in a refugee camp- instead, I have money in the bank, a roof over my head, food in the fridge and friends and family round. You and Arthur will survive this and it will become a story you tell and laugh about in the future. Keep up the great attitude and good luck with Arthur’s recovery and baby number 2’s arrival.
It came through!!!❤❤❤❤❤ you're special ❤. You're ready for it! !!! Let me tell you that sometimes, sometimes....motherhood sucks!!!!! !!! And grannyhood for that matter! That's where I am at and .....ohhhh boy..... but you're right, we have to take and really embrace life as it comes because we will miss it terribly...and everything goes by in a flash...❤❤❤❤❤
Praying all goes well with Arthur and the rest of your pregnancy. Thanks for sharing!
Your video and wonderful positive mindset was exactly what I needed today - I am 27 weeks pregnant and have been having some mobility issues the last few weeks, needless to say, like you, knitting is currently my therapy of choice
I hope everything is okay now and you should take some time to rest too, you deserve all the amazing things life has to offer 💜
I vote for the shibui. The color will look nice with your hair and most people I know have made it in linen. Diane from Boston
❤❤❤this conversation was so nice and wise. Thank you.❤
Oh Goodness! Everything will be ok, and this too shall pass. My first thought was to use a stroller and make it a game. Somehow, use the stroller as a place for Arthur to sit and play and to move him around. Even if for just a little bit to give you a break. Sending LOVE!
Wow Bethany, thank you so much for sharing that story about your son, and I wish him a super speedy recovery. I really needed to hear what you said about having more control over your mindset than you think. I’ve been struggling with my mental health again lately and have made some questionable decisions whilst I’m going through that. So thank you for saying that and your video couldn’t have come at a better time because I really needed to hear that I’m not the only one that sometimes deals with intrusive thoughts. Thank you again, and good luck with the rest of your pregnancy ❤
Hey I’m with you! Take care of yourself
So sorry about Arthur’s leg. I’m a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and sometimes even the negative things are there to teach us a lesson. I really like, and try to live my life with a positive attitude and I have to say that you are right, it always brings a better outcome for me. I hope you find that slowing down will be more calming than frustrating and that everything works out well until and when new baby gets here. Thank you for such a great chat ❤
Bethany, the main thing behind no new exercise during pregnancy is weight gain. Most people are not going to track their calories in verses amount of calories burned during exercise, so in order to gain weight and have a healthy pregnancy doctors tell you to not start new exercise. If you have been lifting your son during this pregnancy, don’t feel guilty to continue to do it. Unless you have other complications that would prevent you from doing so.
I’m so sorry this has happened. It must be so difficult. You have a wonderful attitude about it though. Sometimes when the going gets rough you just have to “fake it till you make it “. Sending virtual hugs your way. I hope Arthur heals quickly.
Arthur and i are in matching leg casts lol! I had surgery last week and have at least another month before i'm completely healed. I know its not the same, arthur is a baby and i'm 26, but i really loved hearing your approach to choosing how to respond to the situation.Sending lots of love and healing vibes to your family from mine!
Loved this video, thanks for sharing! All the best for Arthur, so great how you try to be positive about it. ❤
this was so inspiring! I got a little emotional for you. Praying for you and your family ❤
Thanks so much for sharing! I'm so sorry about lil Arthur! :( We can all practice every day how we react to situations we're confronted with. Our reaction sure does impact us, the situation and as you pointed out, those around us. Good luck and maybe the life lesson for you is learning to ask for and graciously accept help. Hang in there and wishing you and your family all the best.
Im so sorry! I really hope things get a bit easier and you can rest! And I love your ranunculus ❤❤❤❤
Clichés are cliché for a reason, usually there’s a lot of truth. I always tell people that my favorite thing about my thirties is that I finally learned that when life is really tough (a) this too shall pass and (b) someone is always dealing with more (count your blessings). I was encouraged by your reminder today. I am praying for Arthur and for you all right now.
Wishing you and family all the best. Paula from Australia ❤
Preaching on that releasing control😅 and choosing the attitude
The weirdest things happen to test you I swear. You’re not alone though; My mom fell and broke her leg at 38 weeks so she was immobile for the first few weeks of my life and my dad was away for work a lot! I’m sure you’ll do your best and you seem to be a great mom so your kiddos will be fine as long as everyone is happy and healthy it will be a funny story for the future.
I broke my ankle on a trip to Norway. Because I’m crazy I walked on it for the rest of my trip. I got back to the US and was non-weight bearing for 8 weeks. Fortunately I could work from home. Not fun, but he will heal much quicker than I did in my late 50’s.
He might be able to stand somehow with the permanent cast . kids are resilient I am sure he will adapt. And you have the best attitude , one day at a time
Hello from Swansea, Illinois.
I’m tuning into this video a month later and I can only imagine that you worried more than necessary about circumstances around a broken leg and welcoming a new baby. I would imagine that hindsight is a lesson in focusing on what is good and possible, otherwise you will surely attract all that you fear and dread. Just remember that just voicing your fears and apprehension about the future will attract exactly what you do not what. This was painful to watch. Best to you and your growing family.
Aw, that’s such a tough age to have a cast! I’m sorry you all are dealing with this.
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Lifting your baby definitely doesn’t count as exercise.