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Wow Kristin! Thank you so much for this episode. Your research is so appreciated and is spot on! I am six years out from my day of discovery and I’ve done everything right including lots of therapy, self-help courses and books your podcast, the Our Path support group and I even volunteered as an Our Path support contact in my state. But I keep listening to you because I learn and grow from every episode. Thank you for your hard work.

The "she didn't want to see it" argument is so destructive to the spouse. As well, these guys have been manipulating and lying to their wives for decades sometimes -- actively deceiving this person day in, day out. Most importantly, he is the only one responsible for his dishonesty.

Kristin - These interviews are so informative and valuable, particularly for straight spouses. I bet it's the largest library of interviews on the topics of sex, gender, selfishness and dishonesty. One day, I hope history will honor you, too. I've listened to these via y o ur podcasts and web series, and I'm glad to see them on YT.

Hi William, I listened to the episode of your story with Dani Shapiro and it touched my heart and brought tears to my eye. That being totally honest and yourself is freeing. Even though I am not pay, I am finally who i am supposed to be. Someone that is healing from trauma and being my true authentic self and like you it's the most freeing thing in the word. Also your mom being your biggest supporter, I cried. Ty for sharing your story and touching my heart. Knowing there are people that just want to be loved and excepted for who they are, that I am not alone.

Is there a day that acknowledges straight spouses?

This information is very helpful. Thank you!

Thank you for this valuable information.

Very good to hear a more positive hopeful story involving a bi partner. There are so many of us out here living in happy MORs!

Irina's perspective is wonderful to hear.

good luck to this lady. please do a follow-up episode.

I wholly agree with Ryan King; and NOT joe kort. As someone who saw Joe in couple's therapy for several years, where my husband's sexuality was never addressed. At that time, I had no evidence my husband was gay. It was years later that discovered my husband was in a gay relationship while we were in therapy together.

That was incredibly clarifying and affirming for me. What a masterful and intelligent job you did of learning that material and very concretely explaining to all of us. I will use this for my personal healing and professional growth with clients and am grateful for your work.

I was angry, hard for a solid 30 days plus. I was angry from the minute I woke up, to the minute I fell asleep. I was starting to feel it in my chest. I had to let it go because it was going to cause heart issues. I'm still angry just not that burning level of unhealthy anger.

Emily Reese TED Talk : ua-cam.com/video/PnMrY7ihQPk/v-deo.htmlfeature=shared

This was MY experience upon discovery. It was NO joking matter.

I was brought here by r/StraightSpouses. Thank you for this. I'm 60 days into being separated from my spouse that came out to me.

This is a very rare case where an ambitious politician used his “wife”, but there is absolutely no evidence that this is normal and quite the contrary. Almost all marriages are men who deeply regret the effects on their wives and who didn’t even understand themselves or their being gay when they married. Talk of “consent” and “withholding material information” and “fully knowing they were gay when they walked down the aisle” are inflammatory generalizations simply not based in research or fact, except for rare circumstances.

If one takes a historical overview of what marriage was through the ages, the truth is that marriage was an economic and social arrangement. Love had little or nothing to do with it. It is only in modern times, in the last 150+- years, that we have begun to recognize that some people are by nature LGBT. LGBT activity was previously thought to be merely sinful activity contrary to nature. When a modern person reverts to marriage as an economic or social arrangement, they have history on their side. That said, marriage partners today owe it to one another to be honest about their motives for entering into marriage.

Our Path is a great organization!

Helen, He is never ever going to be a she. He is always going to be a He. He can think whatever he wants, but that does not change facts.

Huff...... Resonates 100%....I stayed in confusion for 14 years and 3 more with legal in two GEOS India and USA - Its still going on.... I Stayed out of my body during my healing process, looking at myself as my child.

SHAME ON YOU!

So basically its just all his unfinished business and regrets. No thanks.

What's the book called please? Will it be on audible?

This is absolutely awesome!!!! Love this podcast

Dear Donna, I feel your pain... gosh this isn't easy. I am also thankful for the Our Path website. This is so wonderful to think we have this platform where we can talk - share our thoughts and feelings. I have read that book "My Husband is Gay" and it has given me a lot of insight. Also, watch a lot of Debi Silber's videos; and I am now listening to Susan David, regarding emotional agility... Dr Lisa Marie Bobby's book about Exaholics, and steps to recovery; I have been divorced end of March this year. So glad you have grandchildren, which I don't have, won't ever have... Be good to yourself; take one day at a time. Warm regards, Madelene

Thank you for this testimony.