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Am I Intimidating or Are You Intimidated? | EP27
This week, we’re unpacking the duality of being both nice and intimidating-a balancing act many of us know all too well. Explore how these perceptions shape our relationships and how they can make social interactions more complex than they seem. We’re diving into the role of vulnerability, the weight of stereotypes, and the importance of self-awareness in navigating these labels. Join us as we embrace our authentic selves and find ways to honor who we are without being boxed in by others’ perceptions. Shhh, listen up, the declassified convos are starting now!
We encourage our sista circle to consider the question:
Can you be both nice and intimidating? And does intimidation come more from your internal dialogue or the behaviors of others?
Chapters
00:00 Intro
01:00 Intimidation and Niceness
02:30 Am I Intimidating or Are You Intimidated?
05:02 Perception and Its Impact on Relationships
12:08 The Angry Black woman
18:00 The Value of Vulnerability
20:00 Am I Intimidating or Uninterested?
25:00 Opinion vs. Judgment
26:58 Sistas Circle Question
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New episodes every week!
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Taryn / tarynallyssa
Taylor / tayla_soul
Email - sistasdeclassified@gmail.com
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Відео

Keep It Real, But Read the Room | EP26
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Welcome back to Sista’s Declassified! This week, we’re getting into why keeping it real-even when it stings-is crucial for real growth. Ever been told exactly what you needed to hear, even if it wasn’t what you wanted? We’ll share stories on how blunt advice can make or break us, explore the pitfalls of relying on “yes” friends, and even break down when a little hype is helpful. Shhh, listen up...
Stop Complaining and Start Solving | EP25
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Hey Sistas! Welcome back to Sista’s Declassified! This week, we’re getting into the art of venting. Sure, letting it out feels good, but when does venting stop helping and start holding you back? We’re exploring how to recognize when venting becomes a crutch, especially in relationships, jobs, and family dynamics. Plus, we’ll share tips on balancing the need to vent with taking real steps towar...
Your Habits Are Holding You Hostage | EP24
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Hey Sistas! Welcome back to Sistas Declassified! This week, we’re exploring the world of vices and how they can sometimes take over more than they should. We’ll look at those automatic habits we lean on to get through the day-whether it’s scrolling, partying, or a little retail therapy-and why it’s risky when they start to run the show. Plus, we’re sharing tips on spotting when it’s time to ret...
The Realities of Adulting | EP23
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Hey Sistas! Welcome back to Sistas Declassified! This week, we’re talking about the journey into adulthood, from the shifts in self-perception to the challenges of taking on new responsibilities. We’ll reflect on our experiences in our twenties and thirties, focusing on finding internal validation and embracing the ups and downs of growing up. So, shhh, listen up-the declassified convos are sta...
The Silent Relationship Killer You Didn’t See Coming | EP22
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Hey Sistas! Welcome back to Sistas Declassified! This week is all about unspoken expectations in relationships-whether it’s with your partner, friends, or family. We’re talking about how things like ‘boo baskets’ are highlighting the need for clear communication when it comes to desires and expectations. We’ll share some personal stories and break down why being aware of your own needs, and act...
Brokey! Latto got us thinking | EP21
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Brokey! Latto got us thinking | EP21
The Truth About Conflict: It Might Save Your Relationship | EP 20
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The Truth About Conflict: It Might Save Your Relationship | EP 20
How to Overcome the Fear of Side Eyes and Judgment | EP19
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How to Overcome the Fear of Side Eyes and Judgment | EP19
Thinking Outside the Box with Adult Friendships | EP18
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Thinking Outside the Box with Adult Friendships | EP18
How to reinvent your circle | EP17
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How to reinvent your circle | EP17
The Trends We Wish We Could Unsee | Name changes, Demure & Mindful, and It Ends with Us | EP16
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The Trends We Wish We Could Unsee | Name changes, Demure & Mindful, and It Ends with Us | EP16
Breaking the Myth: Why Millennials Struggle to Find Community | EP15
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Breaking the Myth: Why Millennials Struggle to Find Community | EP15
The Struggles of Modern Friendships | EP14
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The Struggles of Modern Friendships | EP14
From Guilt to Grace: How Rest Fits into Your Goals | EP13
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From Guilt to Grace: How Rest Fits into Your Goals | EP13
Time for a Reality Check | EP12
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Time for a Reality Check | EP12
Hustle and Heart: Separating Passion from Paychecks | EP11
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Hustle and Heart: Separating Passion from Paychecks | EP11
Time to Pivot | EP10
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Time to Pivot | EP10
From Surface-Level to Real Bonds | EP9
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From Surface-Level to Real Bonds | EP9
Scheduling time - Low Maintenance vs. High Maintenance Friends | EP8
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Scheduling time - Low Maintenance vs. High Maintenance Friends | EP8
Admiration or obsession: A fine line | EP7
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Admiration or obsession: A fine line | EP7
Staying Present | EP6
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Staying Present | EP6
Setting Limits or Crossing Lines? | EP5
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Setting Limits or Crossing Lines? | EP5
In the Hot Seat | EP4
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In the Hot Seat | EP4
Getting Beyond Small Talk | EP3
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Getting Beyond Small Talk | EP3
Unpacking Identity: Personality types, Zodiac Signs- Fact or Fiction? | EP2
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Unpacking Identity: Personality types, Zodiac Signs- Fact or Fiction? | EP2
Welcome to Sistas Declassified | The Sisters Tag | EP1
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Welcome to Sistas Declassified | The Sisters Tag | EP1

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @sheryljohnson44
    @sheryljohnson44 10 днів тому

    Love de aesthetics ❤

  • @sheryljohnson44
    @sheryljohnson44 10 днів тому

    😂

  • @DeborahMoss-West
    @DeborahMoss-West Місяць тому

    3rd puberty = life seasons. Firsts = what we look forward to. Each can represent growth and be BEAUTIFUL!

  • @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045
    @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045 Місяць тому

    Love the reflective question! I will def think about this and get back to y’all ❤

  • @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045
    @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045 Місяць тому

    DAMN “Can you grow where you’re planted if you didn’t pick the soil?” 🤯

  • @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045
    @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045 Місяць тому

    Omg a list of books! Yes sign me up! Thank you!!!

  • @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045
    @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045 Місяць тому

    Often smaller is better and people not money make it fun!

  • @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045
    @jaimebarajas-hernandez6045 Місяць тому

    The drinking one was hard from my college years to my young professional. I know think damn if all the money I spent on liquor would have been invested could I have been a millionaire yet? Side eyes are welcomed. Hahaha loved this episode!

  • @indigoechos6796
    @indigoechos6796 2 місяці тому

    Yeah basically what I'm getting from people is don't ask for anything unless you're paying them lol

  • @Limereance
    @Limereance 3 місяці тому

    This got on my recommendation!

    • @SistasDeclassified
      @SistasDeclassified 3 місяці тому

      Thanks for taking a chance on us! We hope you enjoyed the convo. Don’t forget to subscribe too, we have new declassified moments every Wednesday ❤️

  • @generaljustice1
    @generaljustice1 4 місяці тому

    Women have a nack for only seeing relationships from a woman’s lens and thinking the man’s attraction triggers are symmetrical. We don’t like the same things or want the same things

    • @TarynAllyssa
      @TarynAllyssa 3 місяці тому

      How did you get ALL THAT, from this?

  • @sheryljohnson44
    @sheryljohnson44 5 місяців тому

    Such a gudt listen!

    • @SistasDeclassified
      @SistasDeclassified 5 місяців тому

      Thanks for tuning in. Glad you enjoyed this conversation 🥰

  • @twshogun7771
    @twshogun7771 6 місяців тому

    Your grandmother was a Capricorn!

  • @SistasDeclassified
    @SistasDeclassified 7 місяців тому

    Instead of fitting into the mold of either inseparable besties or constant bickerers, they offer a real, relatable portrayal of sisterhood - the kind where they’re just there for each other, no drama necessary. From wanting to strengthen their own relationship, to sharing insights on mental health, holistic living, and financial empowerment, Taylor and Taryn invite you to join them for candid chats, laughs, and a few sisterly revelations along the way. So grab your headphones and get ready to dive into the unfiltered world of Sistas Declassified. Tune in now by clicking the tagged video 🎥

  • @ashleyzahrawashington4009
    @ashleyzahrawashington4009 7 місяців тому

    Damn, I didn’t even think about that ‘careless era’ that we came up in THAT IS SO REAL! That perspective brings so much to light for me 🤯

  • @ashleyzahrawashington4009
    @ashleyzahrawashington4009 7 місяців тому

    I understand your ‘who is louder’ argument. I voted Taryn 🤣🫣