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I dealt with this for about a year now. I just feel so stupid

months now. Long distance, so no way for any physical time. It's driving me insane. This acthually sent me to a therapist. He's a "fraud"

Funny, before these things never effected me so much, but as I got older, the memories and images have made me realize how empty I have become. From SA to physical abuse from women and men, I used to think I was normal, then I realized I am not. I also realize there is a reason now, that reason is not my own, but I am not alone in this hurt, though I would never want this on anyone else. Yet I want to lash out, but I know if I do it will only hurt others, so I just suffer in silence. But silence is not doing me so well these days. I am at a lost for words or actions these days. It feels like being hopeless and walled in with no exit. Like, what is the point. F*** people.

You leave em, nuff said

Yikes horrible advice. Do not do this ladies and gents

Finally realized i have a savior complex. These tips are great! Thank you!

Good info

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Say absolutely nothing. They love stringing a Rolodex of people.

The guy in my neighborhood showed me his d! In childhood and he touched my va! Just a touch and nothing else ..... I still think if that was an abuse or not ...i was so young to understand the right and wrong ...

This skims the surface. Sexual trauma can cause a flare in OCD, anxiety, depression, especially if you are religious. Stay away from religious people! Get help from a therapist who understands that trauma can get locked in your brain and cause dissasociation, intrusive thoughts, addiction, and other problems. EDMR therapy is helpful. Telling people often is not. Holding the accuser responsible? Not likely. The system protects them. A violent assault by a stranger is processed in the ER. Most women are assaulted by someone they know. Coercion is not really dealt with. Friend will shun you and family will shame you. Its important to seek help, but seek the right kind help for you.

I have significant PTSD from discovering that the older woman that was my mentor had sexually exploited my fiance. we were all living in the same house... he didnt tell me til a year later because he was so embarrassed and thought i would leave him... this is the most traumatizing thing ive ever been through. this whole time we're watching movies and making breakfast... this was going on.. and i feel so much anger and shock still to this day. its been a year. thank you for this. im not sure how to heal but i booked a session with you guys. im determined to learn how to get through this.

I was in denial for years. But depression and anhedonia permeated my life to the point I lost everything.

Thanku💗

Consult Dr. Mike Hutchings or Judith MacNutt and go to one the events. It’ll change you forever.

Just leave.

Thanks

Yes Jordan 👏

You know what is astounding to me? I’m 53 years old. I have been married for 32 years. Most of those years happily so thank goodness because I could never imagine trying to navigate the world of single dating right now as one of my best friends is trying to do. But, when I read all the replies to your video, I can’t get over how everyone has their own “strategy” already in mind for the “breadcrumber” who dared to offend them with their crumbs of attention. Yet, their “strategy” involves walking away rather than confronting or simply asking. Does no one believe that it’s even POSSIBLE that the person wasn’t breadcrumbing at all? That one person might just communicate via texts or phones in a different manner than another person? And that if you make someone AWARE of how you’re interpreting their forms of communicating, you MIGHT JUST RESOLVE something critical and MOVE PAST IT without further issues. But, you know, I’ve only been happily married for 32 years, have 3 grown children with 1 grandchild and a son-in-law I adore. I just don’t know for certain as my husband and I have grown and changed so much for our own relationship, if anyone even takes the time to LISTEN TO EACH OTHER at all in person or just READ MESSAGES ON TEXTS OR MEMES! I mean, you’d think that no one can be bothered to actually attempt to hear someone else’s perspective and attempt to resolve a single issue. It’s either you’re in or out. Swipe this way or that. No time for any kind of issues anymore. I certainly hope that “walking away” works for these people on every issue they come across.

People are busy, life is busy. Are they breadcrumbing you or do you just feel entitled to their time?

I got breadcrumbed until I got pregnant, then I got blocked.

Breadcrumbed by someone... I tried your method to call her directly... But even after 48 calls she didn't reply and after I call someone near her and say pls help me to talk her ... Then he give his phone to her but she clearly denied she told she don't have my calls... When I m in front of her she make me realize that I am important to her... But whenever I call she didn't pick and even never call back.... It made me so doubtful about myself..... I feel I had a mistake or something.... My confidence is drained a lot because of this.... I make doubtful about myself.... And even after that incident she didn't called me once.... Even I always help her make her feel good.... What do I do now

If bread-crumbing is how they are starting a relationship should tell you EVERYTHING you need to know about how the relationship will follow. This is gaslighting at its finest. Just a big waste of energy.

She means well here, but her advice is inviting yourself to be "gaslit" and B.S.'d beyond what is deserved. Just walking away and leaving the breadcrumber not knowing what the hell you have already figured out is retaining the power over them and the pride in yourself.

Bye felicia

Sports. When guys are the center of attention, They talk to lots of girls/have many come up to them. You'll see them mirror to be polite. What they are really doing is seeing who's around and waiting to pick one. Then V day comes or a prom, and then they need to a decision to be seen with a girl. They usually though expect the girl to do the initial conversation, weird I know. Sometimes they like the flirting at the sport and will find another girl completely outside of it. The girlfriend from the Mom's friend or church or a separate class. But still flirt all around at the sports.

I want different video! How to be not unintentionally breadcrumber! BECAUSE look I am affraid I will be too much, also I have this weird situation and I am not sure if it is also the right one because I am still kinda hung up on the one that had old guy training adds 🤣

She expect me to reach out when it wasn’t her timing? She can stay petty. I aint taking no bait. Ima wait for her to reach out first. She put me through the ringer and expect me to reach out and call? 😂 Hell nah to the nah nah nah

why would you want to enter into a relationship with someone who breadcrumbs you at the outset ? just stop talking to them and move on.

I only have one response. Ignore forever. 😂

Ridiculous! Like the movie said they’re just not into you! Move along people for goodness sake have some pride don’t beg! 🤣

I moved on after it was clear they didn't want what I did. I started to see someone else and now I have the sort of relationship I was looking for. Remember " Fish or cut bait" !

I called him out... He led me on. Over 7 months long distance. I cut ties. We are both over 55. There shouldn't be games at this stage of life.

Wow thanks, I didn't realize that Merle updated his favorite way to make her explode in pure bliss, it’s amazingly satisfying. Although what he suggested before was fairly good, it doesn’t even compare, I did it go’ogling Merle Winestol, and she just can’t have enough now.

This will just inflate their ego. Just ignore them.

This is such bad advice. Just see what he does naturally and if that's not what you want block him.

I hate that college is so expensive. Id go there myself to unlock this secret knowledge therapists like to hide behind paywalls. Therapists themselves dont even tell you in person until the free google advice doesnt work after who knows how long, and its like starting over every time you get a new one. Im tired of hearing "talk to a therapist." They never have told me anything new that i didnt previously find on google and try already, and then they think im not trying cuz i want their secret healing info instead.

Why all these videos talk about sexual relationships and never just platonic friendships??

She replied to msg after ghosting me for a day i then told her i cant meet as i have lower back injury and then after a day i posted stories of going out Done haha

i dont want to tell my friends about it my parents said it was all my fault for this happening because i wasnt aware of my surroundings and my body language and my friends could probably say im faking it or its still all my fault its almost as if nobody really cares it almost feels unreal ive never told my parents only until now it's been 3 years and i think its really my fault for not saying it sooner but i dont want to be a burden people need to drag around

And to this day I’m healing my mom ex husband use to threaten me my mom and brothers why he constantly molested me god knows what he’s gone have to deal with

They think you’re dumb for continuing to communicate … just leave them on read

I can’t trust another man again. End of story. They all say “I understand” blah blah blah, no they don’t! Not at all. It never happened to them so how can they ever get it.

You have defined bread crumbing in the absolute best manner . Thank you.

Going No Contact works great to get your ex into their anxious emotions, but the next hurdle may be, once they finally reach out, beware of the bread crumbing, which is probably worse than the No Contact, because of the manipulative holding pattern your ex may keep you in, dangling the carrot of hope, which ironically enough, may cause you to actually prefer the No Contact over that bread crumbing crap.

Me watching this at 1am

No, you are incorrect. Breadcrumber might be just a guy with little dating experience and stating that you are looking for LTR is incorrect in this early interaction. You are not negotiating or talking about LTR verbally at least not in this early interaction because dating is a game and in this early interaction, you are just checking if you can connect with him or her emotionally and intellectually. After you have connected emotionally and later intellectually after that you are starting to investigate what he or she is looking for ideally by shittest. Shittest is better because many people are lying and with the good shittest you can get a better picture if this could be LTR or marriage material.

If someone is manipulating you, communicating your feelings only empowers them more and tells them that its working. Just limit contact and walk away

This doesn’t just happen to you when you just meet someone. It also happens after 30 years of marriage….and your spouse starts a relationship with their coworker. You begin to notice a difference in how they treat you as it progresses…..especially when nothing you do gets their interest back to you. But, when they aren’t ready to leave you yet, they’ll keep stringing you along….but without anymore affection, without that special endearing ‘look’ anymore, without any other considerations. My husband did this….and then he got a diagnosis of stage 3 prostate cancer. I took very good care of him throughout the whole ordeal….did my best to get him well, even did traditional treatments along with an alternative cancer clinic in Scottsdale, Arizona. Still died. Broke my heart. But where was his little whore throughout all of this?! Aaah, only there for the ‘good’ times?! Snake. Hope karma bites you in the ass!

start to Spiral?????!, are you for real?.