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Clock it🫰🏾🫰🏾 So well put especially as we start the year!! Dancing in the failure, successes etc because they are all experiences that make us human ✨

Aaw thank you so much for this hopeful message! So fitting especially at the start of a new year where everyone is evaluating their goals and likely thinking about what went wrong in the past year. I really resonate with detaching from outcomes - you can use someone’s script bar for bar and still never get the same outcome. I think of it in a positive sense too for instance if someone is discouraging you from pursuing something because they failed - who am I to say that I won’t succeed if I pursued the same thing just because someone went down that path and had a negative outcome.

Listening to the podcast made me question how society defines and protects childhood. I appreciated the deep dive into systemic inequalities and how protections often prioritize privileged children while overlooking those in marginalized communities. Society’s protection of children, while not perfect, is far from purely performative. The global focus on child welfare, improved health and education metrics, and targeted efforts to address inequality suggest genuine progress. The world has increasingly acknowledged the unique vulnerabilities of children and is striving to ensure that all children-regardless of geography or social status-receive the care and protection they deserve. While challenges remain, these collective efforts demonstrate an authentic drive to protect all children.

This was so wholesome💌

Love the conversation ladies ✨and the perspective!!!

What a great perspective? Taking ownership of your own time can feel so radical.

Ok this was such a refreshing perspective. Thank you for sharing❤️

Great video and honestly such a unique perspective of time! Never saw it as “we govern time” so insightful!

Amazing!

Wooow love the connection!!

great video!

Respect 🫡

Amazing conversation 👏🏾👏🏾

way to go!🎉

I feel obliged to express it out that I have really enjoy the flow of ideas in this episode. Thanks for your time and for sharing💌

Very wholesome lessons ✨

Enjoyed listening to this perspective!

This is such an interesting analysis ! It brought to mind how economically and socially privileged people are thought to be “blessed by God”. Implying that God has chosen to bless the privileged and condemn the rest. This kind of reasoning, as you point out so eloquently, relieves society of responsibilities to rectify inequality and injustice.

Wow

Beautiful content ✨✨

Yes! To be loved is to be known

Why did people without valentines catch stays😭😭

Your voice is so soothing ❤

Yessss to ‘embracing the cringe’! Awesome video.❤ Thought provoking reflections✨

Not all of us attending the same 2023 character school😂😂. Love all of these and so happy with the direction everyone is taking from the lessons learned. And as always thank you for sharing mamas💕

another iconic episode!

Wait what? Wash whose mouth with what? Each episode keeps getting better and I love that we get to learn so much from them ❤

Nice conversations!

Also idk if you have read about the discourse between Ngugi Wa Thiong’o and other African writers about how true liberation in writing African literature was writing it in our native languages…so we can tell our own stories and write our own history for us, by us. Of course that was challenged because of the barriers that it inevitably creates in accessing what other Africans or even Kenyan authors had to say. But it was interesting and i definitely sided with that form of resistance

Thank you so much for sharing this. It is refreshing to hear perspective on language, not just how it is used, but also WHICH languages are used to drive certain narratives. Benita’s experience with different languages and navigating them in different contexts also helps reveal a lot. OMG i am triggered by the Disc thing, that we were forced to speak English and it was punishable not to. Like where was the critical thinking passing these rules, idk why at that time I never thought much of it but Now? So ironic now because I know most people who cannot articulate themselves well in Kiswahili as well as English? Omg

Wooooww wooow such a rich and very well informed conversation!! It’s always so interesting seeing how deep colonization is and how it is used and manifest through language and propaganda and uses both as tactics to divide and conquer…As said me we continue unlearning and reflecting in community!! Very well done to both of you👏🏾

OMG what a beautiful conversation!! There’s so much to think about the way language is an important tool of propaganda, and is still an important tool in decolonization and in reclaiming our freedoms! You both ATE on this one!!! 😍😍😍😍

"Most of us have been conditioned to most of these problematic views despite us believing that we truly and sincerely haven't", hit hard. Another great episode♥

Wooow love the connection!! Also my favorite cartoon was Courage the cowardly dog 😭 the oxymoron 😂

Wow 🎉. Just keep doing it princess

great video keep going :)

Another amazing episode 💯💯. ‘The power definition of having access to more things or resources than the other party does- and not only in an authoritarian perspective’

Such a great discussion!! The perspectives, the jokes, the engagement! I enjoyed watching you guys so much! We need more of this❤️

Been fan Girling Fridah since forever🥰🥰🥰 . I'm so glad I get to see how you pour into your friendships. I'm learning so much

I really enjoyed this discussion! Especially the pipeline from being oppressed to being the oppressor. I believe power is really pivotal in making real change, despite the blantant exploitation of it whenever people get it. Thinking about how some of the success of the feminist movement was attributed to male allyship- who risked having the power patriarchal systems afforded them stripped from them. A lot to think about, especially when not in privileged positions. I really like your point on the switch up of people who come to power - that their traits to turn to oppression could have been inherent and just manifests with that privilege bestowed to them. And in introspection, asking if those undesirable attributes or moral values still at a work in progress state that I(We) have might pop given the right privileges?

real talk!

I love how Fridah loves her friends ❤

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Adhis is it 💯 🔥

So you still have a UA-cam music subscription after all the time we spent talking about this?? 😂 Seriously though I love your perspective on friendship and it heavily resonates with mine as well. Life has become increasingly individualistic not only in the West but back home as well in the cities and urban areas. The narrative of cutting friends off if they’re not serving you definitely makes friendships very transactional, which is very unfortunate for lack of a better word. Really, people should allow friendships to evolve over time as people go through through life events like moving cities, marriage, having a baby, busy seasons at work etc just like we allow romantic relationships to evolve over time I really hope that more people in our generation will reject the transactional ideology of friendships, have healthy friends (very important) and allow friendships to evolve over time 😊

We don't have the capacity to withhold the truth though. Friendships have a effort by which they are maintained. Both people have to put an effort into the friendship. We have no human interactions that will enable us to see the good and bad in people because of the theory of Imagination. I have seen the power of friendship but I have seen the beauty of keeping the friendship alive from effort. the fantasy which is a fallacy that friendships need clicking or need a perfect aura well too bad for those looking for personal achievements.

I am because we are🥰

This is on point! Thanks for this!

Show 👏up👏for👏people👏. I love this conversation and every truth in it. Absolutely share the same sentiments in most aspects. We need a revolution in our friendships. ❤ ooh and now that we're at it, as an old friend, I miss you. ❤ elated to see you.

This is so well put and profound.👏🏾 food for thought for cutting off warriors fr😂!!