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How To Stop Getting in Your Own Way | real questions you need to ask yourself
Hey lovelies! Sometimes we can be our own worst enemy when it comes to creating our dream life and going after our goals. In this video, I talk about why we get in our own way, questions to ask yourself when you self sabotage and helpful strategies to get you right. I hope this is helpful - let me know!
Comment and say hi below! Im trying to be consistent on UA-cam and it helps to know you'e watching :) Timestamps below.
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Listen to my podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/steady-making-it/id1556668329
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 - Intro
01:18 - You are not disciplined
06:09 - You have a negative mindset
09:07 - Drink of the episode
09:38 - Content Creator struggles
11:18 - Remind yourself of your “why
12:00 - Take your emotions out of it
14:46 - Questions to ask yourself when you self sabotage
19:18 - Subscribe to my newsletter!
19:28 - I want to hear from you!
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Відео

You're getting older so it's time to let go of these things holding you back.
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Hey lovelies! As we get older we really should try to let go of things and just stop caring! Especially if you're trying to live more truthfully and be your authentic self. Let me know what you think and comment to say hey! Thanks for being here. Subscribe to my newsletter for more encouragement and my life learnings/updates - substack.com/@steadymakingit Stay connected: TikTok: @tobichristina ...
SELF ESTEEM 101| 8 baby steps to feel like "that girl" and improve your self esteem
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SELF ESTEEM 101| 8 baby steps to feel like "that girl" and improve your self esteem
30TH BIRTHDAY IN ATLANTA VLOG | life is not over at 30, birthday weekend luxury gift unboxing + more
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30TH BIRTHDAY IN ATLANTA VLOG | life is not over at 30, birthday weekend luxury gift unboxing more
NYC LIVING VLOG | life not going to plan, bf's birthday, job update, photoshoot, harlem food market
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NYC LIVING VLOG | life not going to plan, bf's birthday, job update, photoshoot, harlem food market
feeling like a 9-5 forces you to live an ordinary life and crushes your dreams
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feeling like a 9-5 forces you to live an ordinary life and crushes your dreams
How To Get A Job in 2024 | It's hard but you can do it.
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How To Get A Job in 2024 | It's hard but you can do it.
How to Cope With Being Unemployed in 2024 | 8 Tips To Stay Sane | Steady Making It Podcast Ep 18
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How to Cope With Being Unemployed in 2024 | 8 Tips To Stay Sane | Steady Making It Podcast Ep 18
THE UNEMPLOYED DIARIES VLOG | stuck in a rut, nyc living, job search, wedding in london 🇬🇧
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THE UNEMPLOYED DIARIES VLOG | stuck in a rut, nyc living, job search, wedding in london 🇬🇧
Episode 17: Adulting Woes, Resiliency as a Young CEO, and Building Femme Africa. ft. Ayomide Dokunmu
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Episode 17: Adulting Woes, Resiliency as a Young CEO, and Building Femme Africa. ft. Ayomide Dokunmu
2 WEEKS IN LAGOS, NIGERIA 🇳🇬 | a not so "detty" december, food, ringing in 2024, lagos living + more
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2 WEEKS IN LAGOS, NIGERIA 🇳🇬 | a not so "detty" december, food, ringing in 2024, lagos living more
Episode 15: How To Do A Life Audit | Preparing To Make 2024 Your ✨Best Year✨ Yet!
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Episode 15: How To Do A Life Audit | Preparing To Make 2024 Your ✨Best Year✨ Yet!
GIRLS TRIP TO PARIS VLOG 2023 🇫🇷🥐 | 4 days in paris itinerary, food, nightlife, versailles + more
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GIRLS TRIP TO PARIS VLOG 2023 🇫🇷🥐 | 4 days in paris itinerary, food, nightlife, versailles more
FIRST TIME IN MARRAKECH 🇲🇦 VLOG 2023|Nigerian Destination Wedding, Hot Air Balloon,City Tour + More!
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FIRST TIME IN MARRAKECH 🇲🇦 VLOG 2023|Nigerian Destination Wedding, Hot Air Balloon,City Tour More!
Episode 14: 5 Things To Always Remind Yourself | 2023 Reflections| End of Year Mindset Shifts
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Episode 14: 5 Things To Always Remind Yourself | 2023 Reflections| End of Year Mindset Shifts
Episode 13: Choosing to Be Child-Free, Cosmetic Procedures, and What to Look Forward to in Your 40s
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Episode 13: Choosing to Be Child-Free, Cosmetic Procedures, and What to Look Forward to in Your 40s
Episode 12: Creating a Web Series, Overcoming Fear as a Creative, and How to Manifest Your Dreams
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Episode 12: Creating a Web Series, Overcoming Fear as a Creative, and How to Manifest Your Dreams
Building Real Community, Friendship Icks, and Why Muting People on Social Media is More Than Okay
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Building Real Community, Friendship Icks, and Why Muting People on Social Media is More Than Okay

КОМЕНТАРІ

  • @Caporeal87
    @Caporeal87 7 днів тому

    💯

  • @briabenton8043
    @briabenton8043 19 днів тому

    Tobi, those questions at 14:38!!! Chile, the fear of success, the fear of pivoting… these are gems 💛

  • @user-pl6cu8nx2b
    @user-pl6cu8nx2b 20 днів тому

    I would keep doing what I'm doing. Live day to day and believe everything will be just fine. Never stop dreaming. Start doing.

  • @angelokwuosa9116
    @angelokwuosa9116 27 днів тому

    And that’s on Mary had a little lamb

  • @Ashana551
    @Ashana551 Місяць тому

    You looked stunning in those outfits ❤❤👌👌 Where did you get them? 💝

  • @leahaf808
    @leahaf808 Місяць тому

    They all look lovely, but the white one is stunning

  • @chymeseducation
    @chymeseducation Місяць тому

    The white one 🥰

  • @shel_allsmiles
    @shel_allsmiles Місяць тому

    Also allll of the looks at downnnn geez!

  • @shel_allsmiles
    @shel_allsmiles Місяць тому

    loved this vlog SO much! I'm so happy that you enjoyed your birthday and I really hope you felt loved & appreciated bc you absolutely ARE!!!!

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 20 днів тому

      Thank you so much for watching sis! And I felt sooo loved!

  • @ADee-io5jf
    @ADee-io5jf Місяць тому

    Orange top is my fave. Looks great 😊

  • @shadeidowu6563
    @shadeidowu6563 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this ❤

  • @lilBowlAsoup
    @lilBowlAsoup Місяць тому

    Hypnotic poison toooo omg this woman has great taste in everything😂❤

  • @forever_maddie
    @forever_maddie Місяць тому

    Your gorgeous!!❤️💕

  • @Phoebe-y9d
    @Phoebe-y9d Місяць тому

    F✨️antabulous✨️

  • @def_Lily
    @def_Lily Місяць тому

    mk.

  • @Amber_357
    @Amber_357 Місяць тому

    You're completely right ❤

  • @olivia..potato5063
    @olivia..potato5063 Місяць тому

    Shes gonna show up lookin better than the bride

  • @Leeah.joy09
    @Leeah.joy09 Місяць тому

    Gorgeous!!!❤

  • @Urgurlpretzel50
    @Urgurlpretzel50 Місяць тому

    That dress is stunning!

  • @1mcpark
    @1mcpark Місяць тому

    This is good, thank you for sharing!

  • @priyanshika..maurya
    @priyanshika..maurya Місяць тому

    Peach color will look so good on you❤

  • @user-og6hv4qu1e
    @user-og6hv4qu1e Місяць тому

    Your stunning 😍

  • @angelokwuosa9116
    @angelokwuosa9116 Місяць тому

    My self esteem has definitely improved over the years!! For a while I faked it till I made it, but right now what I do is do the work as much as I can in areas I'm not pleased in, and focus. Even on my bad days, I'm just like don't worry, you won't feel this way tomorrow, or oh no girl you cannot afford to feel this way about yourself, self-hate is expensive lmao but self-love is way cheaper. I also make it a habit to listen to female rap stars like Megan the Stallion and Flo Milli to get me going, they encourage me to talk my shit, pop out and show people y'know. This was an amazing video <3 I loved the "I am my beauty standard" point. Thank you Tobi!

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive Місяць тому

      Thank you so much for sharing your self esteem journey and what you do to keep your confidence up. Love the rap music tip too 😂 thanks for watching Angel! ❤️❤️

  • @ItsBeyondGee
    @ItsBeyondGee Місяць тому

    Happy birthday 🎉

  • @JessicaJones-nh2xg
    @JessicaJones-nh2xg Місяць тому

    Your sooooo pretty ❤

  • @shadeidowu6563
    @shadeidowu6563 Місяць тому

    Blue is your color❤

  • @angelokwuosa9116
    @angelokwuosa9116 Місяць тому

    Oouu loving all of this! The dinner date outfit is fire, the hotel is beautifullll, and that’s so nice of you washing your mom’s car 🫶🏿

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive Місяць тому

      thanks so much! I love the dress too! I need to film a GRWM.

  • @shadeidowu6563
    @shadeidowu6563 Місяць тому

    Happy birthday

  • @shadeidowu6563
    @shadeidowu6563 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this

  • @amandaparfait9468
    @amandaparfait9468 Місяць тому

    Im a 94 baby too! Turning 30 tomorrow ☺️ Happy birthday! Where did you get your necklace from?

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive Місяць тому

      Hey girl! Happy Birthday to you! I walked into a random jewelry store here in NYC and bought it!

  • @briabenton8043
    @briabenton8043 Місяць тому

    "I will be extraordinary" you absolutely will! <3

  • @TiffanyFusini
    @TiffanyFusini Місяць тому

    Beautiful ❤

  • @beatriceoliviamaiwright956
    @beatriceoliviamaiwright956 Місяць тому

    You look 20!!! Also happy b day 🎉 Srry If im a bit late

  • @FionaDona-kq9tl
    @FionaDona-kq9tl Місяць тому

    Happy birthday 🎉

  • @Riley_dancer13
    @Riley_dancer13 Місяць тому

    Omg you are stunninggggg!Happy birthday queen!!!!!💖

  • @syd48210
    @syd48210 Місяць тому

    happy birthday!! love the dress💗💗

  • @toniidowu7852
    @toniidowu7852 Місяць тому

    This is really good !

  • @da1stamericus
    @da1stamericus Місяць тому

    Happy birthdya

  • @shadeidowu6563
    @shadeidowu6563 Місяць тому

    Yes it is

  • @angelokwuosa9116
    @angelokwuosa9116 Місяць тому

    ❤🥰😍

  • @user-ry5yx6cs2k
    @user-ry5yx6cs2k Місяць тому

    Stunning 😍

  • @vlogswithlaura
    @vlogswithlaura Місяць тому

    this video came right in time, I've been searching for a job for 2 months now and as a sole immigrant in a country, it's so scary. I've been getting very discouraged these last few days but I am NOT giving up!

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive Місяць тому

      You WILL find a job. Stay encouraged and take breaks when you need to but keep applying. Wishing you all the best and thanks for watching and commenting! Let me know if you have any questions.

  • @SlasherChick
    @SlasherChick 2 місяці тому

    First time listener. Immediate commenter

  • @copiouscat
    @copiouscat 2 місяці тому

    Da algorithm is algorithminnnggg sis 😂 love it. For engagement and thee blow up 🥂 EDIT: Ohhh AND IM THEE 100 subbieee yay!

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      @@copiouscat 🥳yes sis! Thank you for being my 100th subscriber! Great way to kick off my birthday weekend 😊I hope this video was helpful! Let me know if you have any questions!

  • @apcubanis09
    @apcubanis09 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for sharing! Great video!

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      @@apcubanis09 thank you for watching and commenting! 😊😊

  • @islandhall90
    @islandhall90 2 місяці тому

    Thank you for this. It's getting hard out here.

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      You got this! There is light at the end of the tunnel. Stay hopeful and thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @ashleywilliams4149
    @ashleywilliams4149 2 місяці тому

    Hi Tobi. Not sure of your religious background but you're going through your first Saturn Return. You can youtube it if you want, not trying to be offensive to you. Everything will work out for you.

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      Hi Ashley! Thanks so much for sharing this. I just looked it up and it sounds like what I'm going through right now. I check my horoscope but I'm not super knowledgable about in depth astrology stuff. Thanks for reminding me everything will work out ❤️ Wishing you well too!

  • @AnomalyBelleza
    @AnomalyBelleza 2 місяці тому

    Listen, I was happy to be let go from my organization and be so called "unemployed" until an undetermined amount of time. I literally put myself in a position to be forced out of my role as time got closer to being released. Once released, I finally had TIME to apply myself TO MYSELF, employ myself towards my talents and disassociate my identity from corporate identity. I wanted to see myself external to the shadow of myself that I was upholding. It has not been easy, but it has been thoroughly worth it. My journey has been relatively quiet, the news kept from many friends and even majority of my immediate family, so that I could keep my peace. Almost two years later, I still don't want to go back full time at all. I just want a part time role moving forward as I continue to actively build a business and apply myself towards my own creations and have time to write and read (what I actually like to do) and apply myself to that which I am actually so much more authentically talented. If I get a FT offer, I will consider it for expedited financial recovery reasons, to restore a few things, but it will only be worthwhile to me if it is remote so that I remain flexible.

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      Love this! And love that you decided to keep it to yourself so you could find your clarity in peace. Full time roles are a big commitment and as someone trying to pursue creative pursuits as well its a tough pill to swallow that I am not able to focus solely on that because I need a job to pay bills. Focusing on a part time job totally makes sense. Sounds like you have a game plan and I wish you all the best. Thanks so much for leaving such a detailed comment :)

  • @chiskoprapunzel
    @chiskoprapunzel 2 місяці тому

    Great video. Thanks for sharing 🎉❤

  • @moriahmartin6932
    @moriahmartin6932 2 місяці тому

    I would a video on job search strategies 👍🏾 thank you! I really feel like giving up on the search but I appreciate the tips you shared I actually have a part time job right now lol

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive 2 місяці тому

      I love that you have a part time job! Stay hopeful! And I’ll work on this video next and let you know when it’s up. Thank you for watching and commenting ❤️

    • @tobichristinalive
      @tobichristinalive Місяць тому

      Hey girl @moriahmartin6932 Here is a video i've made on job search strategies: ua-cam.com/video/Qu1Loug1XJM/v-deo.html

    • @moriahmartin6932
      @moriahmartin6932 Місяць тому

      @@tobichristinalive Thank you!! 😊

    • @moriahmartin6932
      @moriahmartin6932 Місяць тому

      @@tobichristinalive Awesome thank you!! 😊 I will check it out!!